msmurasaki Archive

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1	I've been seeing a lot of guys here say they get ghosted after the first date "went well" and here's the most probable reason why This is terrible advice. This is what presumably men would want and its projected onto women "If woman backs away, try again in 15min". Hell no. That will just make her feel super uncomfortable and unsafe. Maybe just take a fucking second to really look at her and see if she's into you. Women go on dates to get to know you. They will usually know in the first 15minutes based on vibes alone and the rest is just to give it a chance or see where it goes or ensure they know who you are. Some might m…	/r/seduction	27/05/24 02:35 PM
0	My girlfriend is very very sexy and she knows how to turn me on, but sometimes I think she holds that as a power over me It's not really her job to teach you self-control. Like if you find she is being manipulative and transactional, sure. Talk to her and tell her you don't see sex with her as some transactional thing. But if this is just her way of flirting with you. meh.	/r/seduction	26/04/24 03:30 PM
4	In Iran, out of 23 teenagers who were killed by the police, 20 of them were boys and only 3 of them were girls. How can this be called women's revolution when there are men who are being killed? Why was it called the French Revolution and not the Men's revolution! Men were dying in that one too! Like are people here really pissed that the revolution has a name, related to the situation?	/r/AntiFeminists	20/10/22 12:04 PM
0	Do small women even like small guys? I think it could also be an "opposites attract" thing or liking a quality in someone that you don't have. If enough short guys liked taller women I don't think it would be an issue. But many short guys seem to want shorter women to compensate/make them feel more manly. I think that's why many shorter women don't want them. They don't want to be someone else's ego boost. I've seen subreddits of women who dated shorter guys, their biggest problem wasn't the height but the insecurity.	/r/seduction	20/09/21 08:57 PM
1	If you want to date 9's and 10's, daygame is the way. The problem with the girls dating friends approach is that ultimately a lot of guys do not have friends that are girls, or many of them. But why? I know some guys and some women tend to lean heavily on their own gender as friends. But wouldn't you still have people via school, college, work or something that makes you have girl friends? Also, wouldn't your guy friends have girls who are friends or gfs who know more girls and so on? I'm 25. In my situation, which I made a post on another sub abou…	/r/seduction	18/09/21 09:37 PM
2	If you want to date 9's and 10's, daygame is the way. I mean we do that too. Hookup culture and one night stands are big here. But that's like in the right setting, like you said, bar, club, party etc and people are drunk or on tinder or whatever. But I'm talking about this daygame thing this guy is talking about. Like walking up to random strangers during the day. That's like taking people living their normal day-to-day lives into a dating setting out of the blue.	/r/seduction	18/09/21 12:36 AM
-5	If you want to date 9's and 10's, daygame is the way. But if a friend asked you out, and you didn't find them attractive, wouldn't you just immediately discount them as a terrible friend who was just after sex? I mean there's a difference between someone pretending to be a friend when they're actually looking for more, and someone who is actually a friend. Firstly, you usually know from the start of a blossoming friendship (though, sure, it could develop later). Like if a friend develops an initial crush, send out feelers or ask and you reject them…	/r/seduction	17/09/21 11:38 PM
14	If you want to date 9's and 10's, daygame is the way. Meh, I'm a woman too and I don't like being approached (even when I was single), so I get why they're saying that. That includes guys who have "properly approached me", been handsome, been nice. It's just not my thing and it's annoying to have your day disturbed and have to figure out how to gently say no. But I'm also not the type to date strangers, but rather friends, friends of friends, and general people I have known/seen a while. So I can't speak for everyone. Also, cultures make a big diff…	/r/seduction	17/09/21 09:32 PM
56	If you want to date 9's and 10's, daygame is the way. There are lots of posts by women who just want to live their lives peacefully and are interrupted by rude guys who expect their time a lot. When they are at work, when they have headphones in, while on the subway, while jogging, while reading a book etc. There are many times women just want to do their thing. They aren't sitting around in parks or standing on streets like some sims character waiting around for people to engage with. Most people are doing shit in the day to day. So sure, it's fin…	/r/seduction	17/09/21 08:57 PM
2	girl outright telling you that you're not her type and she isn't attracted I'd just find it creepy and walk away. Like I get what the guy is trying to convey, and maybe some women would be into that and find the cheekiness alluring. But some women also DO mean it when they say they're not interested despite being friendly. Not everything is a shit test like this dude was saying, and not every woman would go for it or "not know what they want". ETA. Doesn't matter how hot or ugly the guy is. If he ain't my type, he ain't my type.	/r/seduction	12/09/21 10:40 PM
2	How trashy, she got what she deserved So be it. I could point out, from your own example. That at 8, I also had a cat, but knew better than to 'torment' it. I still understand that you were just a kid then and mature on different levels and other things than I was. I don't judge you for it. In response to your statement, I say that you are too lazy to put thought into stuff and just see things black and white. The world is a lot more grey than that. If you want to have that type of moral high ground, sure. But IF you end up being a …	/r/PussyPassDenied	10/02/20 07:03 PM
2	How trashy, she got what she deserved You feel bad about the cat. But you still did it right? You still tormented the cat. Should we have called animal rights at you for it while you were 8 and tried you as an adult? You feel bad because you grew up and realised better and know better now. Why is your shit okay, but you can't show the slightest bit of empathy to her and her situation? Yes, you can get away with killing someone. Like they literally have different names (homicide, murder and manslaughter) for killing people because th…	/r/PussyPassDenied	10/02/20 06:42 PM
3	How trashy, she got what she deserved So? She had months of intense stress, watching a deadline as she gets bigger. Locked in a situation, that she can't get out of. This isn't some adult who had months to prepare, see options, work overtime to get money, and generally do adult stuff. For the record, even adults who aren't ready, freak out when they find out they are pregnant. But at least they usually have the freedom and option to get an abortion or prepare themselves, in a worst case scenario. Even immature adults, often have yea…	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/02/20 08:35 AM
3	How trashy, she got what she deserved Intent and context matters too.	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/02/20 06:51 AM
3	How trashy, she got what she deserved Killing her own baby after birth, where she likely was mindfucked, no baby daddy, unable to get an abortion and probably feared the repercussions of parents/society for having a baby. Does in no way compare to being some random baby killer going about killing other people's babies. Wtf. You can't really compare it with a 14-year-old boy, unless he was the dad, in the same room, during birth, and mom died in childbirth. But even there, I can totally imagine it possible that he freak out and think…	/r/PussyPassDenied	03/02/20 10:08 PM
2	Cut the shit Lady. You CHOSE the bathroom. It's ridiculous. I remember while living in the UK we used to go often to a local bar. In the weekends it would get packed by people from another city and the women's toilet lines would become looooong. Eventually the women would be like 'fuck it' and barge into the guy's bathroom. It worked fine, because guys don't really use the toilets and are at the urinals. Nobody cared, no one is offended. It worked out fine for both parties. Any woman who has male friends, is used to said male friend taki…	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/07/19 04:33 PM
2	Female BBC manager publicly declines promotion over pay inequality \| After she threw a public tantrum, it's revealed that the male manager had several years more experience than her, justifying the difference in pay. The BBC is standing firm for once - good for them! Yeah, I agree that is honestly pretty embarrassing. The UK is also very good at dumbing down laws and contracts so to be inclusive to everyone and help people know their rights. I would think their contracts would also state or include that as a way of explaining the difference.	/r/PussyPassDenied	23/05/19 10:41 AM
6	Female BBC manager publicly declines promotion over pay inequality \| After she threw a public tantrum, it's revealed that the male manager had several years more experience than her, justifying the difference in pay. The BBC is standing firm for once - good for them! “Despite being awarded the same job, on the same day, after the same board, during the same recruitment process, BBC News asked me to accept a considerably lower salary than my male counterpart. A lot less,” she wrote in the email sent to all BBC radio newsroom staff. This is what made me think they were promoted to the same position at the same time. But I see now that I misread and that they could have likely gotten him from another company.	/r/PussyPassDenied	23/05/19 08:50 AM
-7	Female BBC manager publicly declines promotion over pay inequality \| After she threw a public tantrum, it's revealed that the male manager had several years more experience than her, justifying the difference in pay. The BBC is standing firm for once - good for them! Aren't they both proven considering they were working in the same company before the promotion. They say he has worked at or above this level for several years. Where though? Why didn't he anymore? Did he suck, was he fired, etc etc? Just because someone has been a boss somewhere else doesn't mean they are super amazing at it. Why would he choose a lower position to have to promote to the position he had before? I understand that it can happen, people want a change and one has to work their way …	/r/PussyPassDenied	22/05/19 10:32 PM
-5	Female BBC manager publicly declines promotion over pay inequality \| After she threw a public tantrum, it's revealed that the male manager had several years more experience than her, justifying the difference in pay. The BBC is standing firm for once - good for them! I sorta see both points though I am leaning towards his side. But to play devil's advocate though. The two people were promoted to the same position at the same time. Meaning equal responsibilities starting at the same time and thus wanting fair wages for the work they put in. If the pay band is between 60-100k then that's almost a 10-16% difference. Have seen the teachers at my school get pretty angry over this, where people who have YEARS of experience and are almost 50 get a lot more than peo…	/r/PussyPassDenied	22/05/19 09:30 PM
1	Girl asking a guy to write her essay on feminism and gender inequality for her. Or she's just a bad student. I initially thought the post was towards someone who gets paid to do assignments. Also what? Have you ever been to college? This is like the biggest load of shit I've heard of. Bunch of guys who are often asking people to do their homework all the time. Along with a bunch of girls. It isn't a gender thing, pretty normal that shit students are asking the better ones often, regardless of gender. It might vary in the course, like I see a lot more girls asking for help i…	/r/PussyPassDenied	10/03/19 08:36 AM
1	Girl asking a guy to write her essay on feminism and gender inequality for her. Seriously. This is just a student trying to cheat, where the context makes it funny. Not some woman trying to get away with stuff because she is a woman, and using that to her advantage. Plenty of guys and gals cheating everyday.	/r/PussyPassDenied	09/03/19 04:19 PM
1	Woman attempts to run from security after jumping turnstile, gets pulled from wall and restrained. Dailymail then does sympathetic story on the encounter Yeah of course. In case there was a misunderstanding, I am not talking about just taking some classes at the shooting range and then one is allowed to use a gun whenever they feel like. I mean valid courses and certifications that are related to the job field or their position as a security guard. These will also include safety procedures and deescalation. And of course the job must allow it and will most likely hire the guys that have it or ask them to take those courses for those specific jobs…	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/03/19 08:58 PM
0	Woman attempts to run from security after jumping turnstile, gets pulled from wall and restrained. Dailymail then does sympathetic story on the encounter If you break the law. You get punished... by the law. Not by vigilantism.	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/03/19 01:54 PM
-7	Woman attempts to run from security after jumping turnstile, gets pulled from wall and restrained. Dailymail then does sympathetic story on the encounter They lost their job for not following policy. They neither have the training nor the clearance to restrain someone like that. So basically they lost their job for assaulting someone while on the job.	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/03/19 01:49 PM
3	Woman attempts to run from security after jumping turnstile, gets pulled from wall and restrained. Dailymail then does sympathetic story on the encounter I mean, from what you posted here, that is kind of the store's own fault though. They could have called the police. But instead they decided to handle things on their own and essentially kinda kidnapped the family.	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/03/19 01:46 PM
4	Woman attempts to run from security after jumping turnstile, gets pulled from wall and restrained. Dailymail then does sympathetic story on the encounter Not really.. there are different levels and courses one must take to be able to do these things. Using hand cuffs, restraining people, self-defense, all require training and understanding so that it is done properly and in a uniform manner with minimal damage to both parties. A lot of security guards and bouncers can take these and are then allowed to do it. If someone is going to do something that could harm another person in the name of their job, they need to know how to do it properly. If so…	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/03/19 01:43 PM
1	Woman attempts to run from security after jumping turnstile, gets pulled from wall and restrained. Dailymail then does sympathetic story on the encounter Also, (though not completely sure, someone told me this), the crime of the citizens arrest has to be at a certain level or worth a certain amount.	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/03/19 01:36 PM
2	What excuses have you heard for women being allowed to hit men I can't speak for other girls. But I would like to say that unless you are a dramatic person, you definitely know when someone touches you wrong. Can be on a crowded bus where people brush up against you all the time, but it's the way that they touch you, that makes a difference. It legit makes that hairs on the back of your head stand up because you sense that something feels off. I changed countries though and am a lot older. So the chances of it happening is a lot rarer. But I am definitely n…	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/01/19 07:08 AM
1	What excuses have you heard for women being allowed to hit men He wasn't chirping me, he barely played anything and it was a casual game. It would have been actually okay if that had been that case. He was just a teenage guy who was I guess not used to playing co-ed and ignorant or inexperienced to the fact that girls and guys might actually come into a lot of physical contact during sports. Personally felt it was bad sportmanship of him to be so 'wow a girl is touching me, I have to say something rude' instead of respecting the game. That kind of stuff can…	/r/PussyPassDenied	07/01/19 07:21 AM
4	What excuses have you heard for women being allowed to hit men I was taken by surprise of such an immature and disgusting way of acting in a playful match. Girls and guys playing was not at all uncommon in our school but I don't think he was used to it. I did regret it later and when I cooled down I apologized for the physical violence which had left a bump on his head. Fucker never apologized back though. So while that sounds tempting, I wish I had kept my cool and used my words to explain how disgusting his behaviour was.	/r/PussyPassDenied	03/01/19 08:49 PM
5	What excuses have you heard for women being allowed to hit men When a guy clearly touches me inappropriately (like rubbing my ass). On one occasion while playing basketball a guy who rarely played was behind me and I was pushing against him with my back. He kept yelling buttsex (or something like that) again and again. I smacked his head. That has been my personal excuse. I didn't expect them to not hit me because I was a girl when I did it though. I expected them to learn to respect people.	/r/PussyPassDenied	03/01/19 08:27 PM
34	What excuses have you heard for women being allowed to hit men I used to be for spankings, until I saw numerous studies showing that they are bad for kids. Now I am sort of on the edge because there is a the rare af spanking for when a kid is reaaaaally bad and you have explained everything. Then there are spankings for lazy parents who don't even think about it. And I am not sure which has caused the results of the studies. But I do agree, there are some kids where you just know they have never been spanked before. I once saw an 8? year old spit his chewin…	/r/PussyPassDenied	03/01/19 08:15 PM
13	NYC Cunt Gets Told Off and Handled Like a Little Child People are generally not used to physical assault happening on a regular basis. So they tend to think that if it is happening there must be a reason for it and do not want to choose a side until they know the reason. The physical assault wasn't fine, but the motive behind it helped to validate and confirm how they felt about the situation. I mean, let's say if that woman yelled pedo instead of chink. And was assaulting her for taking advantage of her 13 year old son. I doubt people would stand u…	/r/PussyPassDenied	27/12/18 07:06 PM
24	NYC Cunt Gets Told Off and Handled Like a Little Child I think the difference is that no one knew what had happened while she was going psycho. So no one wants to take sides or stop a situation they know nothing about. However, calling her a chink instead of calling her a bitch or a cunt indicates the motive or the mindset a little more and helps them confirm their choice. I've stopped one kid from calling another kid names. Only to be told later that the first kid was the one who usually got bullied and was standing up for himself for once. Sometim…	/r/PussyPassDenied	27/12/18 06:10 PM
7	I don't have money but you better give me food for free! Personally, my guess is that she was racist and felt above him. Or he has helped her/or others out before and she felt entitled to overstep.	/r/PussyPassDenied	14/06/18 10:24 AM
2	Cop who punched female football fan (who slapped him) cleared of wrongdoing It's not even about the excessive force imo, any cop hitting any person in retaliation and not self defense is clearly not suited for that job. If he lost his shit over her tiny slap, wtf is he going to do at a bar brawl between a few dudes. Shot them all down? Like damn.	/r/PussyPassDenied	01/12/17 03:32 AM
-2	Cop who punched female football fan (who slapped him) cleared of wrongdoing Their job literally is meant to handle people who may assault them. This isn't a question of whether they deserve it. It's about whether they act like a little bitch when a criminal acts like a criminal.	/r/PussyPassDenied	01/12/17 03:22 AM
1	Cop who punched female football fan (who slapped him) cleared of wrongdoing If my job was to limit violence as much as possible and I then hit a person being held by my 4-5 colleages who also were unable to limit the violence. Then I am kind of doing a shitty job and despite being sober, I am no better than and lack as much judgement as a snotty little drunk girl. Come on...	/r/PussyPassDenied	01/12/17 03:20 AM
2	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. Me too! This has been fun, seeing another perspective and all.	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/11/17 03:02 PM
1	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. That actually makes a lot of sense and I finally understand your prespective. I don't think it's fair. But it legit makes sense. I guess 'marriage' would have been the 'employment contract'. It was pretty stupid of her not to read up on the laws and have a general back up plan. If unemployment is meant to represent alimony, I personally don't believe anyone under the age of 50 should be getting alimony. The house is only because I believe they earned that together during their time together by s…	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/11/17 02:04 PM
1	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. That is what I don't understand. If they both split work and child care 50-50, why isn't she entitled to it. Even if they split it literally across the line, as in both worked part time and watched kids part time. She would have then earned the money for it and still be entitled for it.	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/11/17 01:36 PM
1	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. Yeah I guess we can agree to disagree. While I can agree there are a lot of gold diggers that do not do their duties, who do not deserve anything. I am assuming they both did everything right and I feel, as you said, that we both disagree on the amount of work each of them put in and whether than equates to the same. Edit. word	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/11/17 12:28 PM
1	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. And if the agreement was for some money then? Withheld payment for services received. I.e. half the house.	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/11/17 12:22 PM
1	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. He legal rights to see kids and she has legal rights to half the house (in my opinion). I also agree that it is dated. I don't live in a society with people who are house wifes around my age either. But it isn't that dated that you can expect society to change that fast. Both genders often want the same thing as well i.e. with one person being at home and the other bringing in money. So I think we can both agree on that at least. That we wouldn't personally do it ourselves. The only thing I don'…	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/11/17 11:00 PM
1	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. And if he wants to see his kids?	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/11/17 10:36 PM
1	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. You think a household of 7 people doesn't require management at all? That everyone should just freeball it and do whatever they want? It is one thing when a person alone or even a couple are only reponsible for their own life, it requires minimal planning and managing. But a whole team of people does require management. Taking one kid to football practice and the other to the doctor, while making sure the food at home is upto stock and dinner is planned, and fixing the door that got broken, then…	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/11/17 02:19 PM
2	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. How ironic, so the nanny deserves wages and a pension plan for the work she did but the mom didn't? What made her life any more comfortable than his, they both had an equally comfortable life and both deserve the rewards from that. He did not earn that money himself, he earned it with someone supporting him from home. Had the wife not been there, he would be the one waking up at night and having to take care of the baby. Even if he paid a nanny to watch the kid, she isn't raising them, just watc…	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/11/17 05:30 PM
2	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. And you're not? You are just assuming he worked 50% with the kids and helped out and was the perfect guy supporting a gold digger who did nothing because of her nannies and housekeepers and fairies. They chose to have children. Not her alone. So yeah one would assume that if one brought the money the other took on more of a workload at home. She wasn't reimbursed, she was doing her share. Yet he came out with more than she did in the end of it all. Also yes, I totally agree that they should stay…	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/11/17 04:13 PM
2	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. Sure they do, and it may have come off as I was judging parents who do it from the way I worded it for which I am sorry, I don't think it is a bad thing. I think it is perfectly fine if they choose to do that OR choose to take care of the kids themselves. But that is their choice and I was reacting more to the way you seem to think that it is what they should do. What if she wanted to work but the father said he earned enough and would prefer that the kids spent more time at home? Why does every…	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/11/17 04:00 PM
2	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. So in this partnership you think whatever she was doing should have been for free? Who is to say she hasn't been slaving for a guy in a house that isn't hers while being forced to be dependent on someone else. Also why is everyone in this thread assuming it is for the rest of their lives. Once ALL the kids are ready for school then maybe she would've started working again. If you do the maths, even if she had the kids literally right after each other, which is highly unlikely, from the MOMENT th…	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/11/17 03:47 PM
2	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. How would he be able to help 50%? Let us assume they are both perfect parents. If he's at work for 8 hours and she's taking care of the kids for 8 hours. Then they have both worked 100% each. If he comes home and they both share the workload together, that is still 50-50 between them or 75% her and 25% him overall for the childcare alone. Unless he literally spent 8 hours after work alone taking care of the kids, there is no way he could spend 50% of his time helping. Also you can not just assum…	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/11/17 03:24 PM
2	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. You think raising 5 children is a merely a chore?	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/11/17 02:31 PM
2	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. He got manual labour at home as well as his assets and pension etc. She may have gotten something for the labour but not assets and pension. The basic problem is that it is unequally shared for the pretty much same amount of work.	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/11/17 02:11 PM
2	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. They buy the ingredients together (she would've gotten parental benefits). Yes he gave her the kitchen to compensate for her manual labour. But she wasn't paid in full and now she doesn't even have a kitchen while he has been getting free meals. Seems awful that he gets a free meal despite all her work.	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/11/17 01:51 PM
1	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. It is also his responsibility to take care of the kids, but overall it is about teamwork, so if they chose for her to raise them while he worked, instead of both of them working part time. Then why are you calling her a freeloader. It's like all the blame is going on her for something that was both their responsibility. It isn't a lifestyle choice, it is a part of the life they chose. Also who said she was expecting him to pay for their rest of her life. Maybe she was planning to work after the …	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/11/17 01:44 PM
2	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. So this couple decides to have a 5 course meal and together buy the ingredients for it. The woman spends 17 hours preparing that meal and making it (using the guy's kitchen). When suddenly the guy doesn't feel like eating it anymore and thus she is left, with a meal that is unpaid for? That's okay?	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/11/17 12:11 PM
1	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. "Do nothing but look after the kids" ??? How about you try it before judging. It is a hard job and just like working. And it wasn't 1-2 kids it was 5. Since people usually want to be with their family at such a young age, it isn't unreasonabe to stay home with the kid. I have worked in day care and yes it is a full time job. Even the parents who work have to do a lot for the kids when they are free. In Norway even guys get paid parental leave because it is so much work. And are you really expect…	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/11/17 11:55 AM
1	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. So you are blaming her for a choice they've both made, for not pawning off her kids the moment she could? She spent 4-5 years bring pregnant AND recovering from pregnancy. Sure she could've worked during the early parts of pregnancy or she took care of the kids. Then according to your age limits those 5 kids would not be able to enter day care totally spanning 2.5 years to 5 years. That's 6.5 years to 10 years already gone. Giving her only 7 years within that time to work. Ontop of that baby sit…	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/11/17 11:28 AM
1	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. Who exactly would take care of the kids then?	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/11/17 03:44 AM
2	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. That is what I was trying to say, but I don't personally know them or their story. Hence my choice of words that I am presuming they planned this. Maybe they are Catholics who don't use contraceptives, or insanely unlucky, or she chose to keep getting pregnant despite what he wanted or he pushed her to get pregnant. Are you trolling me?	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/11/17 03:43 AM
1	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. Presumably in the sense that they planned this rather than an unexpected pregnancy.	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/11/17 03:14 AM
1	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. Wow that was quite an escalation to jump to. No, I am saying they were both adults who presumably made a choice to have children together. That means that they had to find some solution as how to raise these children while they were too young to go to school. I do not understand why this equates her to being a kept woman. She lives in the UK so I can only assume they both got parental benefits. Had they stuck to one or two kids she could easily get back to work within 2-5 years depending on when…	/r/PussyPassDenied	28/11/17 02:35 AM
1	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. She didn't 'decide', she sacrificed her job and prioritized her kids. You can either choose not to have a family or you put in the time for them. It doesn't matter if the man or the woman is the one working publicly while the other one does the work at home. In general people should ideally try to balance that. Sure a lot of them put them in day care, but ideally one would try to take care of them full time til a certain age. Even she she birthed them right after each other. Given it is 5 kids, …	/r/PussyPassDenied	27/11/17 08:18 PM
1	Kept woman likely traded in for a younger model regrets not emotionally blakmailing smart man into marriage. Can't access 'shared assets' she did nothing to earn. I agree. Time = money. Kids = time. Therefore kids equal money. If they have have had 5 kids over their 17 year relationship, then they are still being taken care of. It's a team effort and even child support will only barely cover the kid's living expenses. It won't cover pension or time lost or general expenses. If she has also done the chores at home then she has contributed to household work too which takes time. A kept woman is when she has done less work in general in the partnership or ha…	/r/PussyPassDenied	27/11/17 06:13 PM
1	Not PPD but something to remember. If you want to ignore the future that's fine. But I think you need to at least take the past into consideration. There was a time where women could not vote nor work and were basically only housewives. Being a full time parent is also a lot of work, and I don't see any obstacles to being a single dad. I think there isn't more because change takes time. I have noticed there are a lot more housewives in America and that it is one of the few western countries that doesn't give parental benefits. So…	/r/PussyPassDenied	20/11/17 06:43 PM
0	Not PPD but something to remember. I see that all the time in Norway. Just because it hasn't been normalized yet in your country due to social stigma doesn't mean it isn't coming. As of now, a garbage collector woman would get a lot of remarks thrown her way. While a male nurse, while he would get some, would also have a lot of women charmed by that. Think the real question isn't "how many" but rather "why aren't there". Even nurses, day care teachers, secretaries, single moms (who take care of their kids instead of overflowing t…	/r/PussyPassDenied	20/11/17 01:47 PM