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msnanette13/r/MGTOW16/05/19 10:17 PM
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Might be harsh but some of this is just excuses. I go out in groups with my attractive young female friends and we get approached at our tables at the bar/club constantly. Not one of us thinks it’s weird. This is literally the main setting women expect to be approached in.
/r/seduction25/10/22 11:28 PM
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It’s always like 6 weighted balls, a few treadmills, some sus looking mats and children running in and out from the pool 💀
/r/seduction25/10/22 12:12 AM
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Seems super possible that that’s what they’re doing. Alternative perspective that I will offer is that many hotel gyms are god awful in terms of their actual accommodations for exercising. I’ve gone down to the gym before and left after a few minutes because they don’t have any dumbbells over 10 pounds, no squat racks, etc
/r/seduction24/10/22 07:44 PM
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This is especially true if it’s mixed in with occasional not responding at all. That combined consistent with slow responses can pretty safely be interpreted as she’s not that into you
/r/seduction22/10/22 03:40 AM
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Could mean a lot of different things so you have to read other context clues to try and determine which it is. Here are some possible reasons: 1- she just doesn’t care all that much/isn’t that into you 2- she’s trying to play it coy and saw your text right away but didn’t want to seem to eager so she intentionally waited a while to reply 3- she’s not very good at text conversation and doesn’t know how to respond 4- you’re not very good at text conversation so she doesn’t know how to respond 5- s…
/r/seduction22/10/22 03:35 AM
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Therapy isn’t just for when you’re going through something major. It’s for completely healthy normal people to better themselves. Also clearly he is going through something major cause it’s impacting his life for years now.
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:51 AM
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What makes you think they’re acting? Lots of guys are just naturally like that
/r/seduction02/10/22 07:53 PM
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Please do!! I really mean it too. Self confidence is a much higher priority to me than looks and most of my female friends agree. You’d be amazed how many handsome guys are super insecure and lack depth, authenticity, and confidence and it completely cancels out their looks
/r/seduction02/10/22 07:52 PM
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I can’t tell for sure but it sounds like you might be expecting for women to make moves in order for things to exit the friend zone. At your age I can assure you that unless you are one of the most attractive guys in the school that is unlikely to happen. Girls at that age get a surplus of male attention and efforts to move them out of the friend zone so if you want a chance with them you’re going to have to be one of those making the effort. They’re not going to come initiate with you and their…
/r/seduction01/10/22 04:27 PM
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Hi woman here, this person is absolutely right. Most people can sense insincerity. As a woman that sets off danger alarms in our minds immediately, we’re instantly worried that you’re running some kind of scam on us that’s going to end up in us getting hurt in some way. Being yourself is not only the best way to put us at ease but it’s also sexy when a guy is just sure of who he is
/r/seduction01/10/22 04:24 PM
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No def not true, wealth can really level up a woman’s looks. Nice skin, nice teeth, nice hair can all be purchased. Personal trainers, nutritionists, chefs can be purchased. Bigger boobs, prettier noses, nicer jawlines,
/r/seduction28/09/22 05:36 AM
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I don’t think that. That’s why I didn’t continue trying to tell you you’re wrong after confirming that you do in fact believe based on your own perception. It just seemed so far off from reality that I wanted to make sure you actually believe this is a common phenomenon and not just you over stating the significance of a few examples. Neither of our points can really be proven because attractiveness, power, wealth, and success are all so relative and subjective. So even if there was research out…
/r/seduction28/09/22 03:51 AM
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Interesting anecdote
/r/seduction28/09/22 01:33 AM
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I was under the impression that we were talking about the predominant trends here….certainly you don’t think that what you’re mentioning happens most or even a lot of the time
/r/seduction27/09/22 10:18 PM
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Yep I would fit that along with what the other commenter said about charm/humor. Confidence and personality can go a very long way for men. I have often found myself attracted to guys I know my girl friends will say are ugly just because the way they interact and carry themselves is so compelling. Im over generalizing a bit but I really don’t think looks matter half as much to most women as they do to most men.
/r/seduction27/09/22 08:08 PM
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I would say it’s usually either two partners who are pretty close in attractiveness or the woman is more attractive but the man has a lot of money lol
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:56 PM
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Oh my bad sorry I’m hungover currently and can’t read correctly. I don’t have a correct sense of how common or rare it is for women to have high libido. I think it might be an age related thing somewhat but most of my girl friends are very much down all day any day lol
/r/seduction25/09/22 07:59 PM
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That’s fair but I’m asking about the desire which is a different topic. Not being able to hook up with women and not feeling desire to are super different things
/r/seduction25/09/22 05:52 PM
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Are you being serious? I’ve never heard men talk this way lol the guys I know will go to such lengths for a hookup
/r/seduction25/09/22 05:42 PM
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Wait so are you asexual? Or are you interested in someone other than women? I don’t think it’s a stretch to say most straight guys see at least one woman they’d like to sleep with on a daily basis
/r/seduction24/09/22 09:42 PM
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This is spot on. So spot on I wonder if a woman wrote this lol.
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:10 PM
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Lol it would be easier but very few girls/women will do that. We drop hints like what she is doing and hope the guy says it first. And that’s the status quo because if one guy were interested in doesn’t take the lead on that, the next one that comes along probably will
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:55 PM
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Most women, especially if they’re at all pretty, are used to being chased. So if you haven’t really reacted to her flirtatiousness she’s probably wondering if you’re super not into her. So she’s going about it strangely trying to find out if you really don’t like her. Because again, most men are all over a woman making moves on them. A lot of times even if they’re not that into her guys will still jump on the opportunity. She’s confused why you’re reacting differently. So if you’re not into her …
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:30 PM
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I’ll bite lol. Given that she made zero mention of what she hypothetically contributes to the relationship, why is your assumption that it’s nothing? Do finances need to be 50/50 for you to think the woman is not leeching or do you believe in other forms of value women can bring to relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:21 AM
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The fact that she immediately made a point to reschedule with you shows that she wants to see you she just has a family commitment. If it becomes a pattern maybe she’s making excuses but I doubt it since again, she made a point to reschedule
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:43 PM
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I feel like I’m this particular conversation people are all just projecting what they’ve seen online and there’s little to no actual facts being spoken. Who knows which of these happens more often. Probably hypocrisy on both sides. It does happen both ways but at the end of the day everyone’s preferences and standards are different. Like yes there are the “yaass queen” women gassing up high standards and yes there are men who do the same thing. This happens on both sides and I don’t get what mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:54 PM
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She’s probably not that fooled since he still hasn’t hit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:09 PM
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Maybe you’re over simplifying for the sake of the focus of this discussion but surely most men want more than sex and future kids out of a partner. I mean no disrespect to you personally, and perhaps I’m misunderstanding you…..but anyone who chose to act disingenuous because they were so focused on sex they felt the need to deceive in order to receive it is no one I’m interested in partnership with. And thereby we’ve come full circle and my intentions for requiring the waiting are once more prov…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:25 PM
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That’s why I said that if I were to date again I would wait as long as it took to get commitment. It worked out fine for me this time but wouldn’t gamble it again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:21 PM
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I made another comment on my views about this and my reasons why I agree with what she’s doing but I just noticed you said you’re hooking up with two other women. I’m not here to shame you for that, you two are not in a monogamous relationship so there’s nothing wrong with what you’re doing. But that is quite possibly a reason she’s holding out. Like you said, thanks to your dating experience you can tell if someone is also involved with others and she’s probably the same. Unless you two are pol…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:22 PM
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Hi yes non religious woman here. I’m in a long term relationship and I made my partner wait several dates at first. I completely stand by this decision and If I were ever to date again I would 100% make them wait until we were official before giving it up. It’s just smart on multiple levels. Reason #1 being this allows you to get to know each other without that hormonal, chemical bond clouding your vision. Reason #2 this is a pretty good weed out tactic. Some men will say literally anything to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:32 AM
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Yep I’m naturally submissive too so I like being at home making sure everything is perfect for him to go make money! But yeah your stories of the unequal domestic labor when the femme partner is working is super super common per the research I’ve seen. I think it’s because the women currently in their 20’s/30’s were raised by baby boomers so their mothers taught them how to keep house and they know how. Men in the same generation were not taught the same. This isn’t their fault at all but it’s b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:31 PM
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Good points here! I’m curious how you define “actively doing trad”. I consider myself traditional and try to hold myself accountable for not having double standards in my marriage, and my husband does the same. In general though I find that more men have a hard time with this than women. Traditional women have no issue with cook, clean, have babies, look & act traditionally feminine. “Traditional” men often want all this and still adopt the modern expectation of women pitching for bills
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:58 PM
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“Everyone knows” hahahahah cute. and now I’m going to stop talking to you because I don’t engage people who fling around tropes and generalizations and studies on 200 people from nearly two decades ago as if that’s how to have a conversation about facts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 12:10 AM
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I didn’t see a point anywhere about increased happiness could you clarify what you’re talking about? As for religion it depends what country you live in. I’m American and about 65% of the population here actively practices Christianity and attend church regularly so it’s an incredibly religious environment here. I know European countries are different
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 12:02 AM
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A study of 201 straight people in Ohio in 2003. Might as well cite your own bias up there as well. I’m not saying there’s no way it’s true but I am saying you argue like a clown
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 11:55 PM
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That’s from 2003 bud. In your own words “lol no” Here’s a 2018 study from a respectable research institution : https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6326215/#idm140397554805152title
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 11:41 PM
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Those are also facts. I was just talking about religion, a different factor that plays a role in this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 11:21 PM
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A study specifically on millennials showed that the average man had 13.4 partners in their life and the average woman had 10.8. AVERAGE. So yeah a hell of a lot of men have n count that high, in fact statistically speaking more men than women have an n count that high.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 10:55 PM
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Do a little research, the more involved in religion a couple is the less likely they are to divorce. It’s a pretty consistent and well researched statistical correlation. In my experience with religion this is due to a combination of factors: social pressure to stay married, religious pressure to stay married, and high value placed on marriage and family being a few
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 10:49 PM
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This is a great topic and one I don’t see discussed very often. So proud of you for putting in the effort, that’s impressive and it’s hard to do. The most challenging part of making new friends in my experience is taking that leap of faith when you’ve started to get to know them in group settings like hobbies, and then you have to invite them into your personal life. More than once. And stay consistent with treating them like a friend not like that one cool person who works out at the same MMA g…
/r/seduction15/04/20 03:28 PM
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Yes and no. I definitely think snap and text are probably higher but I’ve legitimately hung out with guys who just found me on Instagram and slid in my DM’s. Preferably someone with mutual friends so you can get a sense of if they’re safe, but yeah. Don’t knock it til you try it haha
/r/seduction29/02/20 09:07 PM
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This typically happens when the girl wants attention, someone to talk to, and someone to compliment them, but doesn’t actually have much interest in you. I know that’s messed up and not cool, and speaks poorly of a lot of women’s maturity. My advice would be to ask women to spend time with you in person pretty quickly after you get her number. Don’t indulge her in a lot of chatting and sweetness first- stay kind but reserved. If she declines to hang out once, saying she’s busy, she might just be…
/r/seduction13/02/20 10:30 PM
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Oh then yeah that’s totally an appropriate moment to self validate. You’re not being cocky to acknowledge that hard work has paid off. Just be like thank you, I’ve been working on some fitness goals. It only becomes off-putting if you drag it out and talk about yourself and your body too extravagantly or for too long. That one natural compliment exchange after you send a pic is normal.
/r/seduction06/02/20 03:36 AM
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What kind of picture? It’s ok to validate yourself a little depending on the situation and how you say it
/r/seduction06/02/20 03:29 AM
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Love that!! All men should think this way. I’m engaged to a man, and he’s the first guy I dated who didn’t have me on some kind of pedestal. He has a level of respect for himself that was unwavering no matter how I might act. Most men I dated previously were very easy to manipulate. I’m ashamed to admit it, but I definitely used to be incredibly manipulative to get what I want. I grew up being taught that I could get whatever I want by using feminine manipulation tactics. It worked on everyone I…
/r/MGTOW16/05/19 10:40 PM
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