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| 2 | He’s crazy if he thinks Gen z/millennial woman are gonna put up with this😂💀WTF DID I JUST READ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 06:53 AM |
| 6 | Men tell on themselves the second you refuse to settleNice winter walk wtf 🥶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 01:23 PM |
| 5 | I had a weak moment and caved....This is a rant and has absolutely nothing to do with applying FDS principals. Has this person even read the Handbook?! Disappointing as when I come onto FDS now it’s just full of posts venting / bad energy - does nothing to help the community. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 12:40 PM |
| 3 | I made it!!! Yay!Agree - that statement “focus on improving yourself” inherently insinuates there is something inadequate / lacking about you hence you are single. Most of us on the app are single by choice due to not meeting men who inspire us into wanting to be in a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 10:58 PM |
| 75 | what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partnerIf you swipe over 35 some of the men look old enough to be my dad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 07:54 AM |
| 62 | what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partnerSydney has good looking men particularly around the beach areas. I’m in Melb currently and agree it’s rare to see an attractive male. I saw one or two at the gym the other day but that was the first time in a long while… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 07:52 AM |
| 24 | Where do you find HVM?I second this. Even though people do tend to put on a facade at work, if you work with people for long enough - in a range of situations and see how they are under pressure, stress etc. it gives you a much better idea of the person v going on one or two dates with a stranger… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 12:49 PM |
| 12 | If he’s late he might be avoiding to pay!This has happened to me and I said I needed to go outside to take a ph call - I left, blocked and deleted. 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 12:52 PM |
| 25 | 'RACE PLAY' probably means he's lowkey a RACISTIf their opening line is “where are you from” 🚩🚩🚩 clearly only interested in you / fetishising you for your ethnicity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 11:33 AM |
| 5 | The post says it all. If he’s too “stressed out” to talk to you he’s not all that interested sis.😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 10:24 AM |
| 34 | Pick me! I’m cool! I don’t need a man to put in effort! Pick me!!Yes we’ve all been there. You live and learn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 09:48 AM |
| 24 | Van life with a grown up child! Any ladies jealous yet?No. Just no. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 09:45 AM |
| 0 | Men aren’t asking you on coffee dates because they care about your safety or convenience.I have read your comment multiple times and I stand by what I said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 09:29 PM |
| 0 | Men aren’t asking you on coffee dates because they care about your safety or convenience.This just comes across as gloating tbh and doesn’t address what the OP has experienced nor is it offering any helpful advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 12:15 PM |
| 9 | Men aren’t asking you on coffee dates because they care about your safety or convenience.Wow this is profound. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 12:13 PM |
| 33 | Men aren’t asking you on coffee dates because they care about your safety or convenience.This happened to me too - the guy said he was saving for the next global recession. He was a corporate lawyer for top tier firm. Needless to say I paid for my drink when it came (as he didn’t offer to pay). Didn’t drink it and left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 12:00 PM |
| 42 | Men aren’t asking you on coffee dates because they care about your safety or convenience.I cringed so hard at this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 11:57 AM |
| 32 | Men aren’t asking you on coffee dates because they care about your safety or convenience.Amen. One of the first and last coffee dates in my life was when I took a train and bus to Notting Hill from Ealing to meet with a guy who lived next door to the cafe for coffee. He looked v smug when he paid £2 for my latte and I had to thank him for it. After a one hour date I traveled another 1.5hrs home. When I got home I received a text to say he had a nice time but only looking for casual sex as was recently out of a relationship. Emotions, disappointment, train fare aside I had wasted 4 h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 11:48 AM |
| 20 | Some LV men get a high just by flirting with women outside of their marriageWow, the timing of this post is uncanny! I recently experienced a similar situation where a guy I dated 10y ago had returned from working overseas. We reconnected on LinkedIn then switched over to WhatsApp. The conversation quickly turned flirty (by him) - commenting on my appearance, asking me to dinner when he’s in town for work and talking about w/e away etc. He would often send me photos of himself at home but I noticed it was often of more controlled spaces - his home gym, his backyard, a b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 11:07 AM |
| 4 | To dress up for dates or show up as you are?NO you don’t dress up - I will explain why below: In the past decade of dating, I would always spend a significant amount of time, money and effort grooming, dressing up, applying makeup for dates only to be met with a slobby looking guy with unkempt hair, unshaven, dirty, smelly, wearing three day old T-shirt and trainers who looked like he had just rolled out of bed. Some of the clothes were so badly pilled that it would I require several industrial grade lint rollers to address. Gone are the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 01:09 AM |
| 16 | Oh no....turns out I'll miss you because I'm going away for a few weeks.... 😆Don’t beat yourself up over it - we’ve all been there. It’s a life lesson just don’t repeat it :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 01:11 PM |
| 38 | Oh no....turns out I'll miss you because I'm going away for a few weeks.... 😆Also nothing wrong with casual dating if the woman is exercising her free choice with her body but most men are shit in bed so it’s a lose lose situation for the woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 05:37 AM |
| 91 | Oh no....turns out I'll miss you because I'm going away for a few weeks.... 😆They want free tour guide, free accommodation and free sex. The audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 05:35 AM |
| 109 | Great boyfriend, not-so-great husband?I feel that deep down you know there’s an issue but you’re trying to justify to yourself why being a perpetual gf is ok and coming onto FDS to find support for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 04:03 AM |
| 22 | Oh no....turns out I'll miss you because I'm going away for a few weeks.... 😆😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 03:28 AM |
| 45 | Oh no....turns out I'll miss you because I'm going away for a few weeks.... 😆LVM: “Jump” Pickme: “How high?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 02:34 AM |
| 23 | Oh no....turns out I'll miss you because I'm going away for a few weeks.... 😆This. 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 11:12 PM |
| 298 | Oh no....turns out I'll miss you because I'm going away for a few weeks.... 😆I’m not your tour guide 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 09:11 PM |
| 1 | What do you bring to the table?Haha I can’t recall! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 12:15 PM |
| 4 | What do you bring to the table?Love this response 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 08:14 PM |
| 11 | What do you bring to the table?Wow this is so true but triggering. Except for me, I would clean his house - he would comment how clean his place was after each time I stayed. I hate cleaning and don’t even go to that level of effort at my own place yet I was a mobile cleaner / cook / bank / maid / sex worker in that regrettable period of my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 08:12 PM |
| 99 | What do you bring to the table?Yes for two of my ex’s: First guy: had yellow sweat stained sheets - I tried to convince him to buy new sheets but he wouldn’t budge. I then bought him a gift card for Argos (UK version of Amazon) to buy sheets - resulted in major argument that eventually led to our breakup Second guy: same guy as in the story had very bad body sweat and would DRENCH the sheets. Yes, I slept in these sweat drenched, foul smelling sheets and would secretly wash and dry these while he was at work. I thought this s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 12:56 PM |
| 13 | Peer reviewed study: If you give him the power, he will abuse it.Well said 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 09:52 AM |
| 15 | Something I noticed about being gaslighted. . .Yes this has happened to me numerous times. And then you are second guessing yourself / thinking you’re wrong / apologising. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 09:36 AM |
| 339 | What do you bring to the table?Before FDS I would take the train to my partners home after work (when I’d already worked a 10hr day in a very stressful job) and go with him grocery shopping as he had no food at home, buy groceries, pay for the groceries and cook for him. He then “washed up” by putting the dishes in the dishwasher. For much of my twenties I was single and looking back it was a blessing as I would have been a house elf / maid / bank much like above. Dating in your twenties is so dangerous for this reason as you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 08:58 AM |
| 8 | Beware of neggingWhat are you doing tonight that early into the convo is a bit of a red flag to be honest. Depends on the context but it can be an opportunistic way for men to turn convos sexual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 01:41 AM |
| 3 | Beware of negging“How many windows in NYC” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 01:40 AM |
| 8 | Beware of negging😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 12:01 AM |
| 29 | Beware of neggingWtf. He must think you’re a circus monkey - borrowing a term another girl used. At that stage I’m not even sure I’m interested and he’s already assigning me tasks to perform?? No thanks 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 09:56 PM |
| 8 | Beware of neggingAhh walk dates 😰 we are not kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 09:55 PM |
| 19 | Beware of neggingYes don’t dignify this negging with a response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 09:53 PM |
| 12 | Beware of neggingLinkedIn is turning into FB these days…so many personal posts / over sharing 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 09:52 PM |
| 12 | Beware of neggingHaha “circus monkey” 🐒 🐵🎪🤡 spot on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 09:49 PM |
| 9 | How to slam down a guy expecting wife benefits at girlfriend levelThe more you do for them the less they appreciate you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 02:04 AM |
| 128 | How to slam down a guy expecting wife benefits at girlfriend levelTo be honest, he should make the reservations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Coffee & Walk Dates Lack Chemistry BY DESIGNWorst is when they want to see you at night but also want to ask you on a coffee date - so they combine the two and ask you on a coffee date at night 🤡🔫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 01:13 PM |
| 4 | RANT: Has anyone else noticed white western men becoming more petty /desperate/catty? It’s seriously such a turn off. They seem to froth at the mouth with rage over confident women.Lol “Floating by on farts” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 12:01 AM |
| 6 | But - but younger women love older men! /sThe “post wall” comment is just downright offensive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 01:54 PM |
| 2 | For those who deleted dating apps, how did you get over the fear of missing out?No I don’t know her well... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 10:03 AM |
| 1 | WHAT IS A “WALK DATE”?!Oh gosh - you poor thing! The whole neck and body part cracked me up. What a scrote - yuck 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:37 AM |
| 2 | FDS must be an Eye Doctor, because I'm now seeing that most dudes are NOT AttractiveWas this in Melb? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 10:32 PM |
| 3 | FDS must be an Eye Doctor, because I'm now seeing that most dudes are NOT AttractiveThe best example of this is when you set the age range a bit older on dating apps e.g. 32-42 which should give you a good representation of what men look like and it’s not pretty. A lot of these men are proud to have protruding guts and receding hairlines and yes they expect a 10/10. I’m in Melbourne, Australia | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 03:47 AM |
| 11 | FDS must be an Eye Doctor, because I'm now seeing that most dudes are NOT AttractiveI couldn’t have said this better myself 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 10:46 AM |
| 8 | Getting turned off by menYes - it is a complete fallacy that ugly men treat women better - looks and values are uncorrelated. This is why I only date hot guys - at least I find them attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 10:32 PM |
| 3 | BYO LUNCH TO DATENo he was not shit testing me which was the most offensive part. I did actually get out my CC to pay then thought screw him - said I’ll tfr you later - then blocked and deleted him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 01:16 PM |
| 6 | BYO LUNCH TO DATEYes and he even made the hand gesture of cutting something in half when asking to split the bill! ✂️😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 06:50 AM |
| 8 | BYO LUNCH TO DATEYes! I also find it interesting when men are in late thirties and early fourties still “don’t know what they’re looking for” - unless they’re planning on fathering kids in their 50s they are not immune to ageing! To your pt - they have massive egos and think they are God’s gift by virtue of being a single man 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 01:20 AM |
| 8 | BYO LUNCH TO DATEI agree with you! Syd is ok as on occasion you can meet expats. I was in Bris for work for a period and the men were passable. I’ve only had one date in Melb since moving back and the guy lived in Toorak and went to Scotch and asked me to dinner date (first date) where he ate beforehand (but ended up ordering) then wanted to split bill?! 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 11:47 PM |
| 4 | BYO LUNCH TO DATEI am one swipe away from quitting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 11:32 PM |
| 15 | BYO LUNCH TO DATEAust men are really gross. I used to live in Asia and the UK and not saying that these things don’t happen there but overall, the quality of men is much worse here in Aust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 11:04 PM |
| 27 | BYO LUNCH TO DATEEven if we ship 1m HVM from overseas to Australia it would not be enough to fill the shortfall! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 01:32 PM |
| 3 | "dating for a free meal"Well said!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 01:56 PM |
| 8 | "dating for a free meal"Wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 09:18 AM |
| 13 | "dating for a free meal"I recently went on a date with a guy who was boasting about living in an affluent area (turns out he lived with his parents). He kept telling me he was very much into cars and asked what brand of car I drive (turns out he drives a broken down Audi with paint (internal) peeling off). Despite this he was scared of “gold diggers”. For FIRST DATE he asked me to a tennis club for dinner only to say he had eaten beforehand but ended up ordering food in the end. The quality of food was equivalent to a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 09:14 AM |
| 1 | ** NEW VARIATION** Coffee / walk dates - our favourite topic 🙄I would share the screenshot of this recent conversation so show you what this conversation looks like and how it transpired but unfortunately can’t upload the photo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 10:52 PM |
| 6 | For those who deleted dating apps, how did you get over the fear of missing out?I agree with everyone’s points. I’ve been using dating apps on / off for the past few years to varying degrees of failure rather than success. It’s definitely designed to be addictive and you have the mindset of someone sitting at the pokies thinking the next swipe / date / guy will be better. I was off the dating apps but recently this girl I follow on social media whose social life evolves around dating apps seems to have met a HVM who treats her really well e.g. frequently taking her to expen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 12:19 PM |
| 3 | The first time a new guy takes 24H+ to text, call, or reach out in any form? Don't bother acting chill, move on.👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 01:11 AM |
| 2 | The first time a new guy takes 24H+ to text, call, or reach out in any form? Don't bother acting chill, move on.This is AMAZING advice!! I couldn’t agree more. Thank you x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 12:32 AM |
| 626 | The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter).3 separate times they went out for drinks and dinner and her portion was only $35 total? So each date was total about $20?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 12:07 PM |
| 6 | WHAT IS A “WALK DATE”?!Be careful with Fairy Godfather - he followed me on Insta then sent me a suggestive msg so I had to block him. He is a guy after all... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 09:39 PM |
| 5 | I think she discovered FDS.. better late than never 👑Where can you get sushi for 2 for $60? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 03:13 AM |
| -11 | She didn't even have to send him a nude.Things were so much more wholesome back in the day sigh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Be everythingOmg did my ex write this?! 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 02:11 PM |
| 17 | On an article where they asked men to describe their dream girl, this scrote described his ideal sex dollIt’s worthwhile to ask a guy to do the love language quiz. My ex revealed that his love language was “acts of service” - receiving not giving that is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 10:44 AM |
| 3 | On an article where they asked men to describe their dream girl, this scrote described his ideal sex dollSounds like my ex 😷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 10:43 AM |
| 31 | Deleted all my dating apps after this. This guy sent me a picture of a plate of pasta that he cooked and had some weird purple lights in the background. I asked him why I told him I had some like that but for my plants. He had to steer the conversation and make it sexual 😖I would’ve stopped engaged after the “you’re so shy” comment. It never leads to good things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:55 PM |
| 6 | I thought Tinder and Bumble were dating apps? Sorry I don’t want to be your free call girl.Omg! I couldn’t have worded it better myself 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 08:58 AM |
| 10 | I thought Tinder and Bumble were dating apps? Sorry I don’t want to be your free call girl.Bumble is the new Tinder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 07:19 AM |
| 4 | When have you walked out on a date that didn't meet your standards and what was the aftermath?Sometimes you know (and want to walk) before you even sit down - as soon as you see them. Can you just leave at that point? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 09:21 PM |
| 2 | When have you walked out on a date that didn't meet your standards and what was the aftermath?Ahh that makes sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:01 AM |
| 2 | When have you walked out on a date that didn't meet your standards and what was the aftermath?I like your approach but can I ask why you were “starving yourself all day” before a dinner date? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 01:55 AM |
| 18 | Why 50-50 men make undesirable partners: The hidden ugliness of the 'equality' mindsetAlso, men tend to eat more and drink more so when we go 50/50 (which I did in previous relationships) I’m effectively subsidising his meals / drinks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:16 AM |
| 9 | Which one of you did this? 😂I have done this before. The guy I met looked so scary - photos unclear on dating profile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:53 AM |
| 9 | Make it make sense! Most of these LVM don’t have any “gold” anyways 😂My ex was a junior doctor and accused me of being a “gold digger” when we only did simple things and were very conservative with our spending. Occasionally we had Campbell’s soup and 2 min noodles and only went to mid priced, casual restaurants. We went 50/50 on all expenses. You could literally be net saving these guys money by sharing expenses and they’d still accuse you of being a “gold digger”. What a joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:53 PM |
| 3 | No more begging ANYONE for ANYTHING. Fuck that! 💅🏻Yes my ex was exactly like this. Suddenly he could not even spare a sec to send a text every few days bc it was “beyond his capacity”. But he had not suddenly changed jobs / lifestyle over the period of us dating so the only “change” is his level of interest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:41 AM |
| 11 | Is it reasonable for a man to expect his girlfriend to make dinner for him while not intending to marry her? Local BDSM man weighs in.“Bloated walrus” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Never diminish your light for anyone.Agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 10:45 AM |
| 29 | Do you girls find it funny how days, weeks, months can easily go by before you ever see a guy that’s even slightly attractive enough to take double take?Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:48 AM |
| 26 | No more begging ANYONE for ANYTHING. Fuck that! 💅🏻The issue is they’re not like this in the beginning - I think if any guy were to behave this way in the beginning he would never even get to the first date. All these issues tend to manifest after the “honeymoon” period by which time you’re already emotionally invested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:46 AM |
| 16 | Never diminish your light for anyone.Omg the drawing of the guy even looks my ex 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 02:52 AM |
| 1 | LVM loser probably a frustrated virginI didn’t have time to read whole thing as well - who even calls themselves an Alpha these days 😂 sounds like a Beta breastfed to puberty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:02 PM |
| 3 | another day, another LVM bullet dodged ✨Sadly quite common... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:02 PM |
| 3 | another day, another LVM bullet dodged ✨The worst is when they ask you out for coffee at NIGHT. Just no. That’s the worst ROI you can make with your time and energy. Coffee is also a laxative so definitely not a good idea for a date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 10:06 AM |
| 2 | LVM Example Part 2Ahh thank you 😌 I work really hard bc can’t rely on a man as you can see from above... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:34 AM |
| 2 | LVM exampleLocation is important to Matthew if any ladies are interested 🥴 his stats can be found in Part 2 and 3 of my post 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:33 AM |
| 1 | LVM exampleThank you 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:32 AM |
| 2 | LVM exampleHaha I was going to write penis size but didn’t know if that was against Bumble’s rules or not and didn’t want to get banned 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:29 AM |
| 2 | LVM exampleHe did! Please check out part 2 and 3 of my post :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 09:24 PM |
| 6 | Another LVM to add to the trash pileYes. His initial msg with “;)” and “X” to create premature intimacy already made me feel uneasy and I should’ve blocked him then. I would not touch him with a ten-foot pole. He’s a LVM fishing for free sex. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 01:12 PM |
| 10 | LVM leads with the question “Are you Chinese?” straight off the bat then starts insulting me when I don’t play ball.He’s in a Chinese engagement ring ad if anyone’s interested to watch 😳 https://youtu.be/sArak4jiCDY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:38 PM |
| 7 | So many LVM examples where do I begin?He’s in a Chinese engagement ring ad if anyone’s interested to watch 😳 https://youtu.be/sArak4jiCDY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:38 PM |
| 4 | LVM leads with the question “Are you Chinese?” straight off the bat then starts insulting me when I don’t play ball.Omg you would give my best friend a run for her money in the stalking skills department 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:28 PM |
| 8 | So many LVM examples where do I begin?It’s so gross. I have been in Australia for 20 years and we are such a multicultural country yet it never ceases to amaze me how despite the opportunities people have to be educated and self-educated some still hold such backward, sheltered thinking when it comes to race, colour and citizenship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 11:49 AM |
| 10 | LVM leads with the question “Are you Chinese?” straight off the bat then starts insulting me when I don’t play ball.Yes!! That would save so much time and improve the overall quality and encourage better behaviour by users. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 11:45 AM |
| 3 | LVM exampleThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 11:42 AM |
| 19 | LVM leads with the question “Are you Chinese?” straight off the bat then starts insulting me when I don’t play ball.Omg! Small world 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 11:41 AM |
| 2 | LVM exampleHe answers this qs in Part 2 of our convo if you’re curious... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 11:34 AM |
| 14 | So many LVM examples where do I begin?Thank you 🙏 I honestly think >80% of the men who are attracted to me are attracted to me for my race. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 11:31 AM |
| 10 | LVM exampleI’m in Syd where I feel it’s even worse. Considering moving states for this exact reason! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 09:48 AM |
| 5 | LVM example🥳🥳🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 09:29 AM |
| 16 | LVM Example Part 3Haha! 12cm with an 18cm attitude...sounds about right 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 09:28 AM |
| 11 | LVM exampleNo you’ll be digging for a long time... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:42 AM |
| 31 | LVM Example Part 3That’s the tax bracket :) so the best case scenario is 87k | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 05:49 AM |
| 10 | LVM exampleYep pls refer to Part 2 and 3 for Matthew’s responses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:56 AM |
| 17 | LVM exampleYou have to read our further exchange to understand the 5’5” measurement... :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:45 AM |
| 36 | LVM exampleYes I don’t understand why he’s barking orders at me. Matt and your 5’5” friend pls take a seat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:44 AM |
| 21 | LVM Example Part 3Haha! I would say below average to be honest... the second has upside potential with time but the first and last are set. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:41 AM |
| 15 | LVM exampleHi there, I would say weakened by OLD (both short and long-term). The quality is just not there although my last 2 relationships were from OLD. I find it difficult to meet quality men in real life. I worked in Finance previously where many of the men appeared to be HV but were not very nice people when you look beneath the shiny surface. My friends have all settled down so it’s also hard to find single gfs who want to go out and meet new people. If you have advice on what I can do differently wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:39 AM |
| 24 | LVM exampleYes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:16 AM |
| 14 | LVM Example Part 3Please see Part 1 and 2 in separate thread. I didn’t know how to post in same thread 🙈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:15 AM |
| 10 | LVM Example Part 2Please see Part 1 in separate thread. I didn’t know how to post in same thread 🙈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:15 AM |
| 89 | LVM exampleHi all, thanks for the support! Part 2 and 3 of my exchange with Matthew is up if you’re interested. I didn’t know how to post in the one thread 🙈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:58 AM |
| 107 | LVM exampleThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:24 AM |
| 17 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020I went on first date w a corporate M&A lawyer working for Tier 1 firm who asked me out for drinks. When I got there he had already ordered himself a coke and I ordered a vodka soda. When the bill came I realised he had paid for his coke and expected me to pay for my vodka soda. All throughout the date he was talking about investments and how he is saving up in preparation for an economic crash. Guys like this should not be dating - absolute LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 01:17 AM |
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