mtTakao424 Archive

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3	Everything In Relationships Ultimately Comes Down To Power For Men That’s an excellent example for the two sides to your point. Look at the kids who see their parents enthusiastically after they no longer need them. Look at the ones who don’t see their parents much, or even avoid it. Relationships offer opportunities to fulfill emotional and other needs. These things can’t often be achieved when one knows they are muscling another into feigning their fulfillment. I know what you are saying. Being powerful let’s you achieve outcomes you desire in a scenario. The…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 03:22 PM
1	Are men wishing to avoid relationships in droves? When people are making a big fuss about how “that’s it! Can’t stop me now! I’m leaving!! I’m gone!”, it divides into two camps. One’s earnestly reflecting on organically having gone this way and reached the community feeling included. The other are those who have found a recent leak in the pressure tanks and have concluded this is the most empowering way to be. The latter is wanting to be proven wrong. There’s a funny banter where someone is saying they’ve never cum from a blowjob before. The wo…	/r/ExRedPill	07/11/22 01:00 PM
1	College men are increasingly shifting right, while college women are shifting left. Why do you think that is? I didn’t know this was a concept, but is so funny to actually have spelled out. I lol’d hard	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 07:41 AM
1	Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzone To follow this up but not try to convince you, why not simplify it? Why those two things? Don’t they sit in a bigger, more encompassing category of ‘valuable/endearing qualities?’ If you’re annoying to be around, you can have a considerable level of resources and be tolerated. If you’re annoying to be around, you can have a considerable level of sexual attraction and be tolerated. Sure, someone will have the value system that “whatever, I can make a case that this annoying hunk is worth enough o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 04:46 AM
9	Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzone Yes and no. While growing up and being socialized, it’s such an environmentally-enforced given apparent to women. In a way that somebody wouldn’t think it needs to be said, until a surprise comes along that someone doesn’t inherently know this. “What do you mean you didn’t think it was important? What do you think was happening when we brushed our hair since youth, styled it, bought outfits, took care of our skin, nails with all kinds of different products? What do you think going to a hairstyli…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 04:19 AM
2	IAma women who purposely dates good men and ruin their perception of women. AMA You know you have a shadow in the world, right? Your foil is as determined to ruin their bad perceptions as you are good perceptions. I’d be annoyed to do all that, gaining significance only to end up as a shrug and “Wow, that was an outlier psychopath” Poe’s law 😉	/r/ExRedPill	07/09/22 06:36 PM
1	If were supposed to disregard stereotypes about women by and large, why do so many gender roles/stereotypes apply when it comes to dating? Bouncing off this answer, my thoughts about OP’s question is that most people are submissive. They submit to the things in their life that prompt it. These can be liberal/conservative thought, gender norms, etc. These things guide them, and they are able to engage in nuance and understand them better as they explore their relationship and themselves more. If respectably constructed such that itself and those among it are honored, then you can see many people lots of people going ‘why wouldn’t I?…	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/22 04:21 AM
1	If were supposed to disregard stereotypes about women by and large, why do so many gender roles/stereotypes apply when it comes to dating? Pro tip: trying to hide and pretend like you’re not thinking about asking her out is going to communicate. Anything she thinks you are trying to hide and are visibly uneasy from containing is going to creep her out. She isn’t going to be creeped out by you wanting to take her out, she is assuming/can figure out this is why you or most guys are talking to her within the first minute of conversation. Don’t be inconsiderate like stopping her during the day when people are going places if you want t…	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/22 04:06 AM
1	Still afraid of women Can you share some of your recommendations?	/r/ExRedPill	08/08/22 02:12 AM
0	Why Do Red-Pillers Hate Monogamy? Of course. I didn’t mean to idealize any society/application of it currently, only that the source material is considerate of these arguments for/against, and offers a way to think and establish a way that honors all parties involved.	/r/ExRedPill	08/08/22 01:29 AM
-5	Why Do Red-Pillers Hate Monogamy? I think it’s interesting you pointed out where modern society has the same ceiling as its foundation. The family unit has allowed society to have stability, and granting men who aren’t handling current responsibilities well more responsibility is going to lead to bad things. I like the Islamic solution to this: men, who can care for more wives, are allowed up to 4 so long as everyone involved agrees to those terms in each of their marital contracts. It allows for the option granted the possibili…	/r/ExRedPill	07/08/22 02:30 AM
3	Do girls like dumb guys? Being dumb and confident as an unattractive trait holds true here. I think what’s really attractive, about myself and others (especially true among the smartest people I’ve met) is being able to be dumb and secure. Not needing to be right, being ok with not knowing, being curious and amused about where something is going, understanding where it would be funny (bc it’s honest and genuine) to admit you don’t know something or had a much less sophisticated approach with a question is relieving, hon…	/r/ExRedPill	05/08/22 02:12 PM
1	Why is there a discrepancy in what men believe how women respond to men crying in relationships compared to what women believe how women respond? Yeah I think this is it. Achieving a certain level of success requires self-regulation. A field in psychology associated with goal completion and consistent and positive behavioral patterning is self-regulation. About that narrative being what THEY want to be: their motivation for wanting to be that is believing that’s what will get them sexual validation. It’s not because it’s something they can be proud of, or would brag about. The natural process of forming something valuable is time and pres…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/22 05:52 PM
2	Women often like guys who treat them as disposable I think personal anecdotes are important. Red pill followers can act similarly to cult followers. The ideology claims x overarching beliefs, and then attempts at explaining it with nuance get ignored. If you know a guy as an asshole bc he experiences conflict, then you should stop calling someone an asshole so easily. Not being able to engage in conflict or stop at a boundary after it’s been touched upon isn’t advisable. If someone wants something from me and you say no, do you want to continue …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 12:07 AM
2	Would there be fewer incels if society was more honest? Yeah, the cognitions alternative to the demeaning/unhelpful one is basically therapy, which is what would benefit these types a LOT. The main reason for greater incels is psychological contagion imo. You see them more bc now everyone can tweet/post/etc what they’re thinking about constantly. This wasn’t the case back then. You had things to fill your time. But yeah, therapy and actually wanting to improve their situations and being unable to identify los(er)ing mentalities/guys you don’t want to…	/r/ExRedPill	15/05/22 05:40 PM
3	The trope that men only care about looks is a reflection of the gynocentric society we live in The nuance here is that the way you’re talking about indicates the value. I can see what you consider important— doing meaningful work and competence. Even the openness to share that without asserting something else is endearing. This is attractive about people— they share what’s important to them and you see something you’d want in yourself or for those you cared about to consider for themselves. Having someone force you into believing something itself is entitlement, and shows something intuit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/22 02:34 AM
1	Plenty of women cannot believe average men cannot get laid because of what they see I see what you’re saying here and a younger me might have donned the same viewpoint, depending if I needed some armor. The stage I’m talking about was the final push through the birthing canal into being an adult who can (and realizes) they are not being held down by anything. This came as studies were finishing up, and I mustered every possible technique to punch long and hard enough to pass and be free of a long sequence of superficially fretting. It’s a defense mechanism thinking that, or may…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/22 05:09 AM
1	Q4W - How does it make you feel that your husband/boyfriend/significant other has been rejected by 90% of women he approached in the past? Asking what goes on in your mind using a concept or psychological process you admit to having. When confronted with interest by those you consider beneath you, they make you angry. I must ask then, are you running that proof of concept against yourself when approaching high? Are you running a belief that those aiming too high are agitating, and that there’s a certain threshold were you inevitably cross into hoping too high when approaching ideal candidates? I’m talking about exploring the proces…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 03:47 AM
1	Q4W - How does it make you feel that your husband/boyfriend/significant other has been rejected by 90% of women he approached in the past? This and the previous comment are telling of the gears turning behind psychic mechanisms in similar conceptual applications. What kind of upbringing have you had? Or you hyper competitive with friends, siblings, parents, family? Do you consider the janitor? Would you? What comes to mind? Can you fathom them having a rich life upholding what is important to them and the hand granted to them, and making something? Do you consider your own hand, your own successes? If a first year college student s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 03:33 AM
1	Following common sense will make your life harder. Sometimes it is okay to lie I’m quoting the comedian Jim Jeffries, but he noted that when brothels were legal in Australia, it had a positive effect on marriage—lowering the divorce rate. Now I know this can be a lot of things (cultural period, birth control, industrialization, better transport, etc etc) but point stands that during brothel legalization, divorce rates dropped	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/22 09:58 AM
3	Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion. Seeing this before, it’s not even about the anal. Imagine your classmate/parent/partner/best friend giving you a lunch everyday. You can appreciate this lunch, and frankly, you enjoy this lunch. It’s either turkey&favorite cheese sandwich, or a peanut butter sandwich. As far as you know, these are standard things to pack for lunch. You’re not examining what’s wrong with these things—they appeal to you and are coming from a loved one, knowing that you need lunch and a palpable one at that. Now, y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 09:19 AM
5	Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman? Also, assess that it might turn out better than you expect. If you’re expecting from the get go to be a bother, are you thinking that low of yourself? When you expect nothing, and know that only something will be gained from an interaction, then you can see things happening as they are. Don’t let your mind cloud your attempts running an old script. When you approach women who seem like they might be receptive (and you might/might not develop an ‘eye’ or gut sense for this), you are accepting a n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 03:26 AM
1	What percentage of woman these days are participating in "sugar dating"? And how do you think it affects the dating market? Dating is a perfect example of describing certain market characteristics. A market is a medium by which buyers and sellers are increasing their likelihood of finding one another. A good market is one with fast matchmaking. With dating, we are literally observing matchmaking, depending on demand population willing to meet asks and those willing to supply filling bids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 08:35 PM
1	The silencing of TRP on Reddit and social media as a whole proves how enormously biased our culture is against males now The silencing of nuance on TRP and social media as a whole proves how enormously biased that culture is against people now Any discourse of women or the realities of variance in people are immediately shut down, posts removed and will get you banned from subs and downvoted/shamed on most of Reddit. Most subs will do it under the guise of “off topic” or some other excuse, or try to ban you for some other arbitrary reason to silence you. One tactic this movement as a whole has used is to lump all …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/22 10:56 AM
1	If you were a man, how would you get a date with a woman? There’s nuance when seeking marriage, and there’s a reason for engagements. Good advice from Mufti Menk is advising those looking for marriage to make sure to look around and explore options	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/22 03:39 AM
2	This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire lives This so much. Someone I knew very well is a woman 119~ n-count (bi, so about 60+ men). Dyslexic for most of academic career (read fine with me). She was a yoga instructor as well. This girl isn’t using the computer like you and I. She doesn’t even use it save for very eclectic things. Over time, I noticed nuances in the way she did some computer things that made me laugh. She’d go through the application like someone using it for the first time. Very simplistic but efficient and not /wrong/, jus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 11:17 AM
4	A lot of "sluts" simply experience spontaneous sexual desire & "good girls" have responsive or contextual sexual desire The way I saw this information applied in the most pragmatic context was from a couple’s (/sex?) therapist explaining that a lot of women are adversely aroused by being propositioned for sex most of the time. So in the context of an average couple, there’s going to be more likely an innate physiological delay and resistance to jumping in bed while the wife is doing something and asking her for sex. The big thing about this was explaining how they are contextually aroused/ stimulated through innu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 11:14 AM
3	My biggest fear in dating Hey, it seems you would benefit greatly and quickly with some therapy. You went through something traumatic, and likely didn’t receive any kind of care afterwards. You would have been/will be able to process your shame and the event itself—and subsequently, everything also that categorically relates to that event because it’s obviously a strong driver of processing the world. There’s great shame coming from your post, and a sense that consequences can be random/totally beyond what you considered…	/r/ExRedPill	24/10/21 01:39 PM