mtimjones Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	401k Loan during divorce Additionally, some plans require that you stop making contributions until the loan is paid back (so you'll miss out on employer match). I've also heard of cases where companies require you to pay your loan back in full if you leave the company	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/23 10:09 PM
1	Don't know if I should divorce my wife From past experience, this behavior doesn't get better, it only gets worse. Not sure about your retirement, but if she's not willing to change, you have a bigger future problem on your hands.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/22 04:35 AM
3	Question about EXs family Unless it's painful, you could let them prove you wrong. But I understand the idea of a clean break.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/22 03:11 AM
5	Question about EXs family Don't discount that they want to maintain a relationship with you. I could be wrong, maintain a boundary, but allow for a future relationship if the past was also good.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/22 02:54 AM