muddynips Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Observation: The women who post relationship goals type of content on their social: are the Most active and practicing hoes. At the end of the day there’s not much of a difference between 1 dick 100 times or 100 dicks 1 time.	/r/seduction	08/04/24 06:44 PM
3	Do you want to go back to my place? Why use many word when few do trick? I took a girl home once by just saying the word “home”. Get her thinking about it and don’t interrupt the process.	/r/seduction	30/01/24 07:38 PM
2	Seduction and tricks don't work on women who aren't interested. Women who are interested don't need Seduction. That’s just the worlds oldest profession.	/r/seduction	02/08/23 03:13 PM
1	Man and his wife win lottery. His ex-wife is immediately posed as a victim by the media. This is why we can’t have nice things.	/r/PussyPass	21/05/22 09:41 PM
7	Are all women disgusted whenever a man opens up or is vulnerable? Like subconsciously? When you have open conversations with women about your weaknesses, you trade attraction for understanding. A woman might understand and appreciate your honestly from a humanistic perspective, but the lecherous animal in her subconscious that drives her attraction will only understand a new way you can't protect/provide. So will a woman always be disgusted by vulnerability? Well, if she already thought your were crazy hot but was holding out to make sure you're not some psychopath I suppose it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/21 09:38 PM
0	Why men ghost women in relationships? To the entitled equality feels like oppression.	/r/seduction	12/01/21 12:41 PM
6	Do NOT tell frustrated young men to "be nice." It creates incels. Don’t ask fish how to fish. Ask fishermen.	/r/seduction	06/01/21 05:22 PM
1	Are simps 100 percent to blame in simping scenarios? Simps are 100% at fault. You don’t blame water for taking shape of the vessel holding it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 05:46 PM
1	Truth Whoa, a summer Reddit post in January.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/21 08:29 PM
2	The Real World Doesn’t Care About Your Feelings About Birth Control I agree with you. I meant that the fact that it’s cheaper to practice preventative care is lost on people who aren’t making arguments based on facts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/20 08:24 PM
3	The Real World Doesn’t Care About Your Feelings About Birth Control The math isn’t convincing people because theirs is an emotional argument. It’s the product of putting beliefs ahead of medicine and science. Reproductive rights and insurance-covered family-planning are unquestionably good for society and women’s health. It’s not about the medically proven beneficence, it’s about perceived morality and traditionalism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/20 07:18 PM
7	Young men are not being "radicalized" by random men on the internet; their views/opinions are much more so being forged by what women themselves directly say on social media and other public forums. The internet has allowed a forum for men to identify what the problem is. Lots of guys already knew this, but this is the first time we’ve been able to talk about it in an open enough forum to start to gain some predictive power. Yes, There’s a lot of misuse and misunderstanding about what the solution is to this problem, but I think identifying it is a good start. We’re finally able to relate our earned experiences with each other, and that is a good thing. We can debate how to move forward end…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/20 03:23 PM
1	Marriageable men do care about N-count Anybody who cares about emotional investment in another person should care about that person’s ability to reciprocate. Men can either lower their investment to meet the current standard, or hold out for exceptional women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 03:24 PM
4	How would you guys reply to a woman saying this about johnny depps case?🤔 Hers is a simplistic take. People didn’t latch on to this case because she abused him and got caught. They are using it as a teaching moment for people to maybe begin to understand the effects of male disposability and the asymmetrical treatment of male and female victims. The world rushed to condemn Depp. The world did not rush to condemn Heard; as is evident by her own post. Abusers are abusers, and we are trying to show people how their inherent sexism affects their judgement when they hear c…	/r/PussyPass	12/11/20 12:14 AM
3	What's a great substitute for handshakes when meeting women for the first time? Make your eyes welcoming. Slightly wider and pleasant looking. It helps to actually smile under your mask.	/r/seduction	29/10/20 04:10 PM
1	So - is the men’s fault for objectifying women in bikinis or is it the fault of women for putting themselves in objectifying situations? The fundamental debate here isn’t TRP vs TBP or men vs women. It’s a question of to what extent both sexes should be expected to allow natural impulses to override higher thinking. Different things will illicit reactions in men and women, but it’s ultimately up to each person to decide how we allow that to affect us. An example of this on the flip side of this would be female hypergamy. When women are beholden to nature they are compelled to branch swing. Is it their fault? Depends on how much y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 12:41 PM
1	The physical attractiveness of a male sexual "harasser" substantially determines if the experience is enjoyable or traumatic, according to women Weak ass study proves nothing. Sorry, but tRP is better than this. We don’t have to try so hard to make our points.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/20 05:51 AM
1	1/3 of people have lied about their sexual history to their partner Nah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/20 11:10 PM
5	1/3 of people have lied about their sexual history to their partner Almost no useful conclusions can be drawn from studies like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/20 04:31 PM
1	Is romance fun/a goal or is it a chore on the way to better things? Romance is like sugar. It makes things delicious, but too much kills you. In this analogy sex would be like a chicken breast. It’s 100% fine to want romance, just as long as you keep moderation and remember to exercise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/20 05:50 PM
1	Is the most important factor for getting women actually money? Past a certain point. There are diminishing returns on wealth, and growing returns on looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/20 11:08 PM
0	Q4Men: Why do so many men marry specific women despite red flags? Because pussy feels good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/20 04:12 PM
28	Study finds marriage is in decline mainly due to a lack of "economically attractive" men You don’t have to have a prince to be a princess, but you do have to have servants.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/20 08:46 PM
9	Should lying to get sex be illegal? Which gender would get in trouble more? Hell no. If you’re negotiating for sex and are disappointed I have no sympathy for you. Regardless of gender. You don’t exchange goods for services when you date someone. This isn’t difficult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/20 03:10 PM
3	Roommate “lost a date” when she offered to split the check and he agreed Going Dutch is literally the only way you can weed out girls exactly like the one your roommate went out with. If equal is offensive to a woman on a first date, imagine what her idea of equal will be later on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/20 10:03 AM
1	Be honest: Males and females with no kids do you automatically disqualify someone if you find out they have a kid? 100% no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 07:39 PM
1	Why Do Dudes Who Hate Insta-Models Follow Insta-Models? Dudes failing to reconcile competing drives and develop internal consistency. We all have competing drives, but the weak among us fail to rank and consolidate them into anything meaningful. For example, I can't stand instawhores either, so I don't have an instagram. If had had to have one, I wouldn't follow instawhores.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 03:24 PM
2	Does TRP truthfully believe that materially all women are incapable of keeping their urges in check, and ensuring they behave ethically in a committed relationship? Take this with a grain of salt, as I’m one of the “take what works and leave the rest” guys. But Of course not. We live in the real world just like you. Only Sith deal in absolutes. The slightly more realistic take on it is something more like: “this assumption has predictive power, and should be used to understand behavior patterns.” I would never say that squirrels can’t waterski, because I’ve seen it. But it would be silly to expect your average squirrel to own skis. So no, not all women are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/20 10:35 PM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread (23 August 2020) Your pictures look better than you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/20 08:55 PM
1	Keeping boyfriends secret: why? Women being socially avid doesn't necessarily mean that they hide partners more frequently than men. You can intuit that more interest in socialization is a motivating factor, but that's hardly conclusive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/20 09:45 PM
2	Keeping boyfriends secret: why? I'm sure both sexes do it, the question is whether or not there's a differential. That one I'd have to see some data on first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/20 06:42 PM
2	Keeping boyfriends secret: why? I don't think this is necessarily a gendered topic. Men and women hide partners that don't provide enough social utility. I've done it, I've had women do it with me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/20 06:24 PM
4	Online dating is bad, because it's increasing the value of looks over personality. I really don’t agree with the common idea that focusing on looks gives too much power to the chads. Why is it so bad to focus on looks? We’re not here for friendship, at some point mutual physical attraction HAS to be established. I would MUCH rather that happen at first than try to negotiate and charm my way into a woman who’s passingly interested. People who want casual sex benefit for sure, but so do people looking for relationships. I suspect the real objection is coming from the unattractiv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 04:19 PM
1	When you’re on a date who should pay? Split until after sex, then on a case by case basis. Sounds crude, but it’s an effective filter.	/r/PussyPass	14/08/20 01:47 AM
6	The Red Pill teaches dudes how to not get played by the games women play - And Women hate seeing their own game being played against them You get to play the game with the same rules that women use by default. Continuing the analogy, I’m fine with taking an L as long as I got to play with the same rules. It’s not really about winning or losing so much as seeing the game for what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/20 01:17 AM
2	How Many Of You Would Ban Casual Sex if You Could? Oh I see thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 05:02 PM
1	How Many Of You Would Ban Casual Sex if You Could? No I meant misogynistic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 03:37 PM
2	How Many Of You Would Ban Casual Sex if You Could? Absolutely not. If I would ban anything it’s sexual bartering. Which is an idea that is either misandrist or misogynistic depending on context.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 01:01 PM
4	To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minority Yea that’s like 1/3 of my friends. It’s not that crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/20 02:11 AM
5	To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minority Lol you don’t know my people dude, you have no reason to make that assumption.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/20 12:04 AM
18	To conservative-minded guys that expect sexual exclusivity in relationships and aren’t interested in promiscuous-types: we’re in the minority, our views are increasingly considered antiquated, and the the types of women we’re interested in for LTRs belong to a rapidly-shrinking minority I wouldn’t go so far as a myth. I know quite a few actually. You just wouldn’t know because actually being that conservative isn’t sexy. It’s more of a lifestyle than a dating philosophy, and it is not a panty dropper. They’re a small sample limited to another small sample, it makes dating an absolute chore for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/20 08:05 PM
1	The single mom contradiction It is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/20 01:54 PM
1	The single mom contradiction All men want is the same thing women want. The ability to plan and proactively be a part of the creation of their family. Women are entitled to their bodies, and me are entitled to theirs. This includes freedom from bad actors. If, instead of perpetuating a nanny state that sympathizes with and rewards selfish behavior, we were to make it so that each person is able to get what they want without stealing from the other; everyone would be better off. The truly determined women would still have th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/20 01:35 PM
1	As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"? Poor nutrition is baked into our culture. Every attempt to eat healthy is an uphill battle, because so many people don’t give a single fuck and just wolf down 5000 calories/day of grey gruel. There’s a long storied history of the food industry willfully giving America diabetes as well. Basically at any point where nutrition and wellness faced industry, industry won. Extrapolate each loss 10000 times and you get wheezy useless Americans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/19 09:34 AM
2	CMV: The rising SMV of men during their 30s only happens because of betabux. My intuitive guess is that 30 years is the amount of time it takes a man who doesn’t naturally get it to solidly learn frame. Men have a MUCH longer learning process, because we have to deprogram before we can rebuild ourselves. It takes time to become a man. Women are “complete” earlier on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/19 01:22 PM
1	Is it inevitable that a woman will lose sexual interest in a man when she's in an LTR/marriage with him, or can this be prevented? Easiest way to prevent it is to never get married. Second easiest is to die early on in the marriage. After that it’s a crapshoot. No matter how attractive someone is there’s always another person tired of fucking them. Interest loss can be mitigated, but not really prevented (at least not in any way that applies to a broad audience).	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/19 04:53 PM
1	(Q4MEN) What are some non sexual/non obvious "hoe" traits? A lazy, craggy voice. Thousand cock stare. Perceiving themselves to have very little agency.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/19 10:14 AM
1	Please leave your pass at the door. It’s not awful, but imo it’s almost never worth it. The meals are overpriced for what is basically 20 variations of fried seafood, and if you want chain seafood Joe’s is better. It doesn’t spectacularly fail at anything, but it doesn’t do enough to justify its existence. Red lobster could cut their prices in half and just be a food cart.	/r/PussyPassDenied	27/08/19 12:46 AM
1	The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in. Some of my best friends are gay, many of them hit on me. I am not repulsed or vindictive toward them, regardless of my lack of attraction. I’m not saying your comparison has no use as a thought experiment, but my experience has been the opposite of your conclusion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/19 12:52 AM
1	Women should marry the men they sleep with while on the CC Have your sexual tastes changed at all in your lifetime?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/19 11:43 AM
2	Q4men: how do you know her sexual history? It may not always go line-by-line like you said, but I think you can fairly well measure investment by her desire (not just willingness but actual desire) to please her man. And if she was willing to do more to please other men you are most likely betabux. I also believe that sexual pair-bonding is a thing, and that a girl who views sex as a purely selfish mechanism would be unable to pair the way I want. I never ask about history except when necessary to protect myself. But you can pick up most…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/19 11:56 PM
0	Why can't lower value men show empathy towards their equivalents who are most likely to get pumped and dumped and are as unlucky in finding romantic love? There nothing wrong with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/19 04:38 PM
6	So I lost a bunch of weight and started using tinder again Nice job bro. You can even see the beginning of the V. Honestly the biggest difference is the chin and neck gains. Enjoy the harvest.	/r/askTRP	17/07/19 09:55 AM
3	Q4Men: why do men get angry about women who get free drinks when the free alcohol is intended to make us drunk and therefore less likely to say “no” to sex? Alcohol affects consent. Men aren’t angry about women loosening up, they’re mad about how wantonly deceptive these interactions are, and the very common occurrence of buying a drink and watching the girl guzzle it to loosen up and then tell you to fuck off. Basically buying a drink kind of requires expression genuine interest, while accepting the drink does not. It’s asymmetrical and easily exploitable. We all know this. The only way this would ever change would be if men stopped buying attention and women stopped selli…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/19 05:15 PM
3	Facial fat between cheekbone and jawline Don’t even consider surgery until you get to 10% bf. Always put work before the surgery.	/r/askTRP	08/07/19 09:24 AM
1	UPDATE: Girl i've been in class with for 3 years - I acted on what i said > Whats the point of a first date if you already know what each other? There is none. The pageantry of early dating is to get to know each other. You already knew her, so it was put up or shut up time. She was smiling because you were giving huge amounts of validation at 0 cost to her. You lost the game before the whistle even blew. You have to remember that any woman worth dating will be immune to the notion of people wanting to date her. That's just a given. This girl is toast for you, but if …	/r/askTRP	07/07/19 08:49 PM
1	Girlfriend wants to go clubbing wearing suggestive clothes Short version: her friends are whores and she doesn’t want to be the lame one of the group. At that age a pack of 19yo girls WILL have more say over her behavior than you. It’s your dick in a sea of dicks up against a group of women who are narrowly focused on fine-tuning their social manipulation skills. You can’t compete with that. Don’t chase a blossoming whore. Accept it, watch it, and learn from it. As she inevitably begins detaching and rationalizing; don’t lament her change, internalize i…	/r/askTRP	04/07/19 01:56 PM
1	CMV: Unmarried, especially perpetually single, people do not know what being married is like. Marriage is not as special as you think it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/19 11:43 AM
5	“Marriage is just a piece of paper. I’m totally committed to you without it” is just a line said by men who want to get their girlfriends to shut up and accept being a forever girlfriend. When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression. Unmarried is a more equal state, and I honestly believe it creates better relationships. There is no level of commitment or intimacy I am unwilling to share in without marriage, literally the only difference is whether or not I end up losing my shirt if we separate. The assumption that marriage is the endgame of a successful relationship is gross. It's normalized prostitution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/19 02:52 AM
-1	Q4M - do you expect “assumed exclusivity” from women after the first date? I never discuss exclusivity, but if a girl continues to date after we have sex it sets hard caps on how far we can go. Every girl I date either keeps it 100% to herself, or polices her own behavior and intentions. I adjust my investment accordingly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/19 12:55 AM
4	So basically most women spend their lives fucking muscular assholes and when they become old they want to settle down with some poor schmuck? That’s female nature in a nutshell, correct? When you’re attractive it’s free.	/r/askTRP	29/05/19 04:41 PM
1	20 year old plate just told me her body count.... Lotta guys on here struggle internalizing the sidebar.	/r/askTRP	10/05/19 07:00 PM
1	[q4men] Men on here who always badger about how being a woman is living life on easy mode- how do I get my Stacey rewards? Part of	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/19 01:04 AM
1	[q4men] Men on here who always badger about how being a woman is living life on easy mode- how do I get my Stacey rewards? It’s perception, not deception. We don’t see it until we clear our heads. Still wrong, just organically wrong. Deception is the mating modus operandi of the fairer sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/19 01:33 PM
1	[q4men] Men on here who always badger about how being a woman is living life on easy mode- how do I get my Stacey rewards? Part of the hard truth of entitlement is that the benefits that you want to believe are earned are not. It’s not just free swag, it’s people laughing at unfunny jokes. It’s having people care about your interests or thoughts, without having to be interesting or thoughtful. If you think not getting free shit means you are treated equally, you’re not seeing the whole picture. When it comes down to it though, here’s your biggest Stacy award: there are no amount of bad life decisions you can make pr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/19 11:40 AM
2	Plate I’m talking to brought up a guy she’s interested and wants an LTR with Implies	/r/askTRP	04/05/19 07:05 PM
6	How do I stop being tired all the time? How’s your cardio? I lifted hard no cardio for 8 months and felt like dogshit by the end of it despite being huge. Walking/running/hiking is better for mood and energy imo.	/r/askTRP	02/05/19 11:21 PM
7	False rape accusations lead to new measures in UK Wait until she finds out what a rape kit entails checking. Although idk, a phone might be more private anymore.	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/19 04:20 PM
2	Should I force myself to drive into the city tonight with a friend and go to some bars even though I am severely depressed? Take what energy you do have, and use it for something building. Depression is an existential angst, so the more you devote yourself toward meaningful efforts the more it will abate.	/r/askTRP	27/04/19 09:18 AM
1	Breaking it off with a girl you live with? Biggest problem is committing to a girl with no financial security. Promoting to LTR while poor shows a lack of priorities. Until you control your finances, women are for fun only.	/r/askTRP	24/04/19 06:15 PM
1	Why is TRP perceived negatively from the outside? Delusions are comforting. It’s easier to dismiss trp by mischaracterizing beliefs than to challenge comforting misconceptions. It’s doesn’t help that only a handful of posters on this sub really internalize the sidebar enough to speak on it. We misrepresent ourselves all the time.	/r/askTRP	24/04/19 05:50 PM
3	Did any of you found the "unicorn" yet? Question about wifing my ltr The optimal strategies for business and relationships conflict. One or the other will suffer eventually.	/r/askTRP	22/04/19 05:53 PM
1	Q4M: Men, why aren't you up in arms over prostitution being illegal? Because anger is not the appropriate response. I support legalization, in theory. But realistically the US won’t change this in my lifetime. Traditional values are pretty set, and Americans are a scared bunch anymore. If it were legalized a silent majority of men would probably use it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/19 03:30 PM
5	What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way? All women shit test. No matter how genial or unassuming, and no matter the nature of your relationship. Whether it’s your friends wife, an ex, club thot, w/e. They live to shit test.	/r/askTRP	21/04/19 03:05 PM
8	How to deal with knowledge that my ltr gets groped/grabbed at the club Buddy of mine dated a girl who turned out to be a “dancer”. His defense was always that she was a good girl because, “she didn’t start stripping until after they started dating.” Now she’s giving handjobs for cash somewhere in Minnesota. They are what they decide to be.	/r/askTRP	18/04/19 03:15 PM
2	Guys, i'm broken, would love to hear from you... Create a positive affirmation cycle. You are doing lots of great things, but you need to teach your brain to recognize and actualize the positivity around it. So step out of your mind for a minute, and evaluate yourself as a stranger would. For example, After you go to the gym, take a moment to reflect on the dedication it took better yourself, the strength gains that are building as your muscles recover, and the inevitability of reaching your fitness goals. “That guy over there, man he’s taking…	/r/askTRP	16/04/19 07:39 PM
1	Delayed red-pill rage? help Now you know the deal, you can choose what you want. Nobody says you have to like how things are to make the best of them. Fuck women or don't, it's your choice. But don't waste too much time lamenting the way you wish things were; cuz they ain't.	/r/askTRP	15/04/19 08:13 PM
11	“During sex it is impossible to shield our emotions. During and after sex, you can access the deepest of a woman’s emotions directly.” -SGM How much of what a woman says during sex is the actual truth and how much is just the emotions of sex? Emotional dementia.	/r/askTRP	10/04/19 11:46 PM
2	Study done by a woman shows part of how women contribute to "toxic masculinity". There are few things women love more than cultivating a persona. The internet is the ultimate framing device. Whether it’s true or not is completely immaterial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/19 10:25 PM
1	My (M30) girlfriend (F25) confessed she cheated before our second date, +1 year ago. Hard next? And why is she telling you now?	/r/askTRP	04/03/19 06:16 PM
1	Gf talks to ex regularly, then immediately looks annoyed when I text an old girlfriend. If you have to tell your girl to stop talking to an ex, she’s not LTR she’s a plate. Your mistake was promoting her past her station.	/r/askTRP	04/03/19 05:05 PM
3	Is it ever ok to open up to Women? Every human experience is a convoluted mess of drives. Men are no different in that respect. The thing that matters is which drives take precedence over others. In the case of women, attraction is reduced as empathy is prioritized. It’s not that they don’t empathize as all, they just can’t do both. It’s not black and white, but it might as well be when the result is the same either way.	/r/askTRP	28/02/19 04:51 PM
1	So is this really the world we live in? Not everybody deserves to procreate.	/r/askTRP	27/02/19 09:50 PM
3	Is this the anger phase? Is there any way past it? Your expectations are still too high. Lower them, reevaluate your thots, keep the ones that are still worth it. If none are worth it, congratulations; you’re MGTOW. If some are worth it, congrats on the sex. Stop looking for a girl who doesn’t fuck greasy dudes in bathroom stalls. They all do some form of this, at some point in their lives.	/r/askTRP	27/02/19 02:08 PM
2	I spun 180 degrees and strolled away from my date in public. Too fast of an ejection? This is so subjective. “I’m not your ARMREST (caww cawww)!” Empoweredwomanwhodontneednoman “I’m not armrest (heehee).” Cat and mouse fun. Up your game daddy “Im not your armrest (bro).” Protocol breach. Respect the process. Helpmehelpyouhelpmehelpyou. The important thing is that on the trust yourself/ don’t trust yourself, pursue/abort matrix you didn’t do the worst thing possible variant: pursuing when your gut is saying run. Even if you were wrong (nobody really knows), I respect the nuclear o…	/r/askTRP	21/02/19 07:50 PM
3	Asked out a 1/10 and my SMV fell immensely Women have sexual value, but overall value is a reflection of the man. men control most power dynamics in life. Make a better case for why people should care about you. Demonstrate why people should love or fear you. What power do you wield in social circles? How can you influence the people in your life?	/r/askTRP	20/02/19 01:23 AM
36	Asked out a 1/10 and my SMV fell immensely Stop bitching. You are not entitled to a single pussy on this planet. Nobody owes another human being their bodies, minds, or time. Nobody cares about you because you don’t care about yourself. Girls are giving you feedback and you are refusing to accept it. What are you hoping anybody on this sub will tell you? A magic word that makes you taller or richer? You save yourself. Suppose a 1/10 agrees to bang you. What changes? Fucking NOTHING. You get a slice of pie, you eat it and it’s gone. A fuc…	/r/askTRP	20/02/19 12:57 AM
40	Asked out a 1/10 and my SMV fell immensely Yea from like 9s to 6s bro. If you are getting rejections from 1/10 gutter skeeves you need to take some time off and fix some shit.	/r/askTRP	20/02/19 12:21 AM
3	Nice girls don’t exist? Are they all the same? You gain nothing by holding out for unicorns. Much better off proportioning your investment to a more realistic set of expectations. What that means is up to you.	/r/askTRP	19/02/19 04:46 PM
-2	Advice for guys: don't take the friend zone as a forever situation and don't disrespect the girl friendzoning you. Exception to the rule. 100% take it as forever.	/r/seduction	17/02/19 07:26 PM
1	Q4M: Who here identifies with this practical line of thinking? This sounds like sexual negotiation. I'm not ruling out the possibility of being legitimately attracted to a 5/10, but if I'm not attracted to her we've reclassified the nature of the relationship from dating to prostitute roommate. Some men are comfortable with sexual negotiation; though I don't think RP men should be (unless you are literally dealing with prostitutes). This is also a kind of pernicious rationalization. You're applying these extra metrics to a 5/10 as if they don't apply to 10/…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/19 04:04 PM
2	Women will prove AWALT out of nowhere. RP men judge women by actions alone. There’s nothing more to be learned by listening to her rationalize and reframe reality around her actions. Ask yourself this: what is she getting out of it? She doesn’t give a shit about you, so why would she explain herself?	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/19 05:16 AM
2	What are your opinions on the recent decreasing T-levels in the US? Obesity. Sooner or later it will be taken seriously, but it’ll take a few generations.	/r/askTRP	13/02/19 01:46 AM
3	Girlfriend wants to hang out with ex boyfriend soon, should I be worried? Jesus Christ dude, who cares what’s going on in her mind when she’s fucking him? How did you get to this point? This is some back to basics shit. If your girl is meeting an ex she’s not your girl. An Ltr is a covenant, it’s broken by action that compromises it. You don’t have a gf.	/r/askTRP	08/02/19 08:24 PM
1	Girlfriend wants to hang out with ex boyfriend soon, should I be worried? For the fuck.	/r/askTRP	08/02/19 08:18 PM
1	Cock carousel Not all, but you shouldn’t base decisions off of the exception to a rule. And the fog of war dictates that you don’t get to know which ones do and don’t ride it. So the utility of the concept is best applied by assuming it’s always true.	/r/askTRP	08/02/19 08:17 PM
5	When a woman breaks up with you is there always someone else in the background? The correct answer is it doesn't really matter. Probably. The second they aren't interested they're unfuckable anyways.	/r/askTRP	01/02/19 05:24 PM
10	LTR hinting at anal, how to get to the point of cock in ass? When you got her in the pretzel, put your hands on her glutes when supporting yourself. Let the hands drift until you’re stimulating the region around her asshole. Keep a good pump going so she’s lost in the feels, then start stimulating her asshole in a circular motion. When she’s warmed up get some fluid on a finger and insert just past the distal knuckle. Pulsate your finger anteriorly (toward her vagina). Once she’s comfortable with light penetration, flip her on her stomach and lube up. Put…	/r/askTRP	31/01/19 06:04 PM
13	Why does being nice get you taken advantage of, dominated, and disrespected? Charity can only be virtuous when There is no exchange The donor is in an advantaged position, and is willing to give. Guys who don't respect themselves break rule 1 by being beta bux (offering their value for sexual services), and rule 2 by giving so much away they become impoverished (either financially or emotionally) or failing to prioritize themselves enough to realize they no longer enjoy being nice. If you want to know how someone could treat you poorly after you treated them nicely, you'…	/r/askTRP	31/01/19 09:03 AM
3	What might she want? She’s not your plate until you have sex with her. Until then she’s a prospect.	/r/askTRP	28/01/19 05:33 PM
1	Dread game when you don't get what you want comes over as sulking Do something else exciting. Shouldn’t be biding time before you can approach again, you should be using that energy for something else you enjoy. If you’re frustrated to the point of attrition, there are bigger problems than one night of withholding behavior.	/r/askTRP	28/01/19 05:28 PM
2	GF acting sketchy with her phone Gut don’t lie. What does your gut tell you?	/r/askTRP	16/01/19 03:17 PM
3	Anyone else bored of companies like Gillette jumping on the let’s all hate men bandwagon? Awareness is just a nebulous term that allows people to bitch without doing anything. Shitloads of people are aware of issues and are still powerless to fight them without resources.	/r/askTRP	15/01/19 04:07 PM
19	The Maiden of the Mind. The bit about police is something I wish was drummed into people more on this sub. Police don’t administer justice, they are there to enforce their views of societal norms. Police in any society are an expression of that society’s culture, not it’s laws. That’s why women are given passes on robbing and lying in times of crisis. That’s why it’s important to be absolutely methodical in documenting your interactions. If you have a preponderance of evidence, you enable the police to do their jobs wi…	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/19 04:15 PM
3	No, it's not morally justified for Mackenzie Bezos to receive half the wealth in the divorce. The real question is why a rich man would ever get married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/19 03:19 PM
5	What are your examples of women saying TRP shit Watching my younger sisters grow up, pretty every single RP truth was verified. I've seen, just with two sisters: Regret rape from both. They often brag about sexual conquests and then the next day demand sympathy for being raped from the same guy. It doesn't make any god damn sense, and they later drunkenly told me they just kind of made it up based on how they felt about it that day. If you try to pin down the story so you can figure out an actionable response, they get wishy washy. Extreme co…	/r/askTRP	13/01/19 06:31 PM
2	Is it normal to want to isolate yourself and "start over" after getting RP'ed? Probably both. Your mind will keep searching for alternative solutions, and you'll keep going back the same cold realization. It takes a long time for the cognitive dissonance to fade and the mindset to become comfortable.	/r/askTRP	09/01/19 03:15 AM
3	I seem brain dead, how can I address this? Sounds like you already know what to do. Drop the shitty secluded hobbies and get out there.	/r/askTRP	29/12/18 05:01 PM
4	Cheating ex wants to get back with me... how should I play this She will never not be having sex with other men. But if you want, you could plate her and continue to have sex with her. If you’re still stuck on feelings, just ignore her and date other women. Just keep in mind that her ceiling is plate. She can never have say. Also keep in mind that she may be rationalizing her hypergamy. It’s a win-win for her, because either you belittle yourself and she was right to cheat, or you fully reject her and she can better respect her time with you.	/r/askTRP	29/12/18 03:10 PM
1	Should You reveal moments of melancholy and misery to her ever? It's not fake because you genuinely shouldn't want to share insecurities with women. It's not about lying; it's about getting your headspace correct so you don't have to.	/r/askTRP	04/12/18 05:05 AM
2	I don’t like ONS or Plates. What’s wrong with me? What do I do? Masturbate less. Fishing is better when you're hungry.	/r/askTRP	28/11/18 05:47 PM
3	Stretch Marks They fade with lotion and time. Just keep your skin healthy with some cardio every now and then. Congrats on the gains, keep pushing.	/r/askTRP	16/11/18 03:39 PM
2	Face got thinner? is low body fat the reason? how can I make it fuller again? Hard to say. Once I maintained my goal weight/bf% for a couple weeks they were definitely gone. It may have been a bit before that. It also depends on diet. Micronutrient deficiencies and dehydration can cause it.	/r/askTRP	16/11/18 03:33 PM
4	Made some controversial comments on a date . It may or may not have worked during the date, I wasn't there. But generally you want jokes to be jokes (and hopefully funny) and beliefs to be beliefs. Shrouding beliefs as jokes is a bitch move, and I see a lot of guys doing it. It should also be harder to get some of this stuff out of you. Fish don't want to hear about fishing, women don't want to hear about the sexual marketplace. Her bringing it up is a shit test that you failed to deflect. It's just not a good policy to be talking about al…	/r/askTRP	05/11/18 05:01 PM
9	Made some controversial comments on a date . Don't mix jokes with beliefs. You want to keep it light and fun, and you don't want to be the "I was only joking" guy.	/r/askTRP	05/11/18 04:03 PM
1	Has TRP made you more conservative? Not really. I learned early on to take what works and leave the rest. Trp is useful for talking about women and individualism, less so for politics. I suspect that the more emotionally rooted your political views are, the more trp might change your views. I’m still just as liberal, just not the sort of liberal to engage in identity politics or oppression olympics.	/r/askTRP	29/10/18 04:50 PM
4	Would it be a bad idea to do cold-approaches in high school At uni you have the shroud of relative anonymity. There’s a Hundredth Monkey effect where people suddenly stop caring about failed approaches. You’ll still be noticed and remembered by some, but a cold approach just doesn’t carry the same weight.	/r/seduction	02/10/18 03:21 PM
2	[FR] Date ended on a sour note after she resisted escalation multiple times The kind of validation you're hoping for by getting a girl to sleep with you is not going to ever fix this mentality. You're scared of rejection, because you fear you are unworthy. The 3-way stuck out in your mind because it's the biggest thing you haven't done and it's intimidating. You need to uncross the wires in your brain that ascribe self-worth to sex. It's not all that big of an accomplishment, it's just something we do for fun. True accomplishments can't be awarded or revoked on a firs…	/r/TheRedPill	01/10/18 04:21 PM
-1	Kavanaugh's college roommate releases statement: Is this white knighting? Yep	/r/askTRP	25/09/18 05:59 PM
3	The girl that rejected me will go on a date with some guy in my school Be better brother.	/r/askTRP	25/09/18 05:16 PM
-1	Kavanaugh's college roommate releases statement: Is this white knighting? It is a bit, though I wouldn’t trip over myself defending Kavanaugh. Going that deep in the bottle is a sign of a weak man.	/r/askTRP	25/09/18 05:12 PM
1	How do I stop being anxious about girls messaging me back/cheating on me? She’s not yours, it’s just your turn. If she cheats she loses out on you. If she doesn’t get caught then you never know. And if she doesn’t cheat then it’s fine. You only lose by caring.	/r/askTRP	25/09/18 05:07 PM
3	How do you make peace with a girl's history? The problem here is a girl talking about her past. Women are completely ephemeral when it suits them, so if she’s talking past it’s because she wants to. You need to move her down not for doing those things, by for holding on to them. If that doesn’t help just remember that it’s not forever, it’s just your turn. If the turn is still worth taking when you know it’ll end soon, then you don’t REALLY care do you?	/r/askTRP	25/09/18 05:02 PM
1	Why are women so depressed all of the time? Same reason as men. They lack purpose and drive, and have to fill their time with nonsense. They just don't receive the feedback needed to learn to change.	/r/askTRP	13/09/18 01:11 AM
2	LTR not happy about my makeover Girls like guys a little pudgy... until they don't. Or a little unkempt... until they don't. She wants to not have to compete in the marketplace, until she decides maybe she wants to compete in the marketplace. Concern yourself with how you look against the field, not with any one specific woman. Slip into the trap of becoming what she wants and watch her lose interest immediately. AND, as an added bonus you may find that your LTRs fears are founded, and you upgrade past her. Sounds like a win-w…	/r/askTRP	07/09/18 02:39 PM
2	Is /r/TRP really going to waste? Vexing about the state of an online community is a waste of time. TRP is not and has never been about protecting a community or creating a specific online environment. People who care enough to read will be fine. The lazy kids who stay long enough to parrot will try to post and fail. It all settles out in the end.	/r/askTRP	20/08/18 03:46 AM
17	[Personal Advice.] [M28.] I've seen SO MUCH LIFE-DESTROYING INFIDELITY in my life. I now look at all women now feeling great reactivity unconscious anger. What else can I do here, and not MGTOW after ALL THIS STRAIGHT TRUTH? Yea you can tell it's fresh, the anger is hot off the press.	/r/askTRP	03/08/18 02:40 AM
9	Always save your text conversations, record conversations Being subbed and rarely commenting. Mostly just reading.	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/18 07:18 PM
11	Always save your text conversations, record conversations You’re better off. It doesn’t take much (I got banned for lurking here) and that sub never solved anything for anybody.	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/18 06:54 PM
1	Should I lift now that I’m cutting? I found it hard to do so. You’re framing this the wrong way. Lifting is a foundation; you should always be lifting. There’s never a diet or lifestyle where you’re not lifting. After that is diet. Bulk or cut? This gives you calories and macros. Track the calories, don’t go by feel. Feel is how you got fat; track that shit. After that is cardio. Competitive sports are best. Biking is fine, probably ideal for someone overweight. Still jacked from your pump and have some spare time? Great, go for a few miles. If this is too…	/r/askTRP	24/07/18 11:30 PM
1	Gaining Weight 5x5 isn’t really designed for mass gain. It’ll get you there eventually, but it’s mainly for basic strength building. If you want mass you have to convince your body it needs mass. That means higher workload. I run a 12rep ppl, it works well. /r/fitness and find an intermediate program in the 8-12 rep range.	/r/askTRP	24/07/18 10:45 PM
6	Face got thinner? is low body fat the reason? how can I make it fuller again? Your body is confused from the cut. It will adjust over time and barring health issues the bags will leave. That was my experience at least.	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 02:38 AM
1	Is it possible to cut while while bulking ? You should aim to get your protein intake through food. Protein powder is a tool to supplement protein on days you mismanage your macros. Greek yogurt is amazing for protein/kcal so it great for cutting, so you’re dead on there. Be careful to not eat too much protein during a cut, it can slow it down drastically. As long as you’re still working out your muscle loss should be minimal.	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 02:30 AM
3	How do men reconcile hating sluts but wanting lots of sex?? Being a slut lowers the ceiling for pair-bonding. So we don’t hate so much as disapprove (for guys that still care about that; the number is shrinking). Men could adopt women’s utilitarian approach to sex and lose the slut-shaming, but then we’d all be fucking and dumping 20 and 30 year old women while sexually frustrated crones masturbate to their glory years. I don’t think this model leads to happiness for either gender. (Men lose pair bonding, women experience much steeper post-wall SMV drops…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/18 01:59 PM
4	TRP in decline? Doesn’t matter. TRP isn’t a sports team or religion, the number of followers is largely irrelevant.	/r/askTRP	13/05/18 03:24 PM
1	Girlfriend Disrespects me. You’re entirely in her frame. You need to introduce some serious dread, and re-establish boundaries. Remember, nobody can force you into an argument. Smile and walk away; make her want you to care. These are shittests that you are failing.	/r/askTRP	03/05/18 07:17 PM
2	Girlfriends best friend Well that settles it then. She’s yours and committed to you, so if you tell her to cut contact she will right? /s Guys who fuck your girl aren’t friends. Truth be simple sometimes.	/r/askTRP	26/04/18 05:27 PM
3	Insulted cheating ex by saying that I hope she gets cheated on when she messaged me. What do I do? Nothing left to do. Leave the whore to her whoring, and stop beating yourself up. Next time this happens, remember that the opposite of love is apathy, not hate. The worst you can do to her is smile with a hint of excitement at the new women you’ll be sleeping with as you escort her to out of your existence.	/r/askTRP	26/04/18 05:14 PM
1	I've been destroyed and am new here. You're experiencing cognitive dissonance from reality not jiving with your beliefs. You thought things were one way, but they're the other. The only way to fix it is to adjust your beliefs to be in line with reality. Read sidebar, question everything, and you'll get there.	/r/askTRP	26/04/18 01:45 PM
5	Do Men actually Like Women? Implicit in your question is an assumption that we're wasting your time, because somewhere out there is a man who won't be annoyed by you. Dismissing the simple problem that without sex, women are usually not interesting enough to warrant the attention and support they demand. Restrict men to pair-bonded-only sex, and you drastically lower every woman's SMV. You might think you want to live in a world where we have to get to know you, but scarcity has a way of changing people's minds very quickl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/18 04:04 PM
1	Why do people say anger is one of the stages in the RP journey? Anger is usually just what pushes guys over the hump to the truth. If you're already there, don't think twice on it.	/r/askTRP	15/04/18 07:30 PM
9	I don't understand why people hate the red pill Wasn’t always like this. Before music was digitalized and homogenized, artists used to put more of themselves in their work. Nowadays they just slam 120bpm with a hook and play it until you forget to hate it.	/r/askTRP	12/04/18 06:59 PM
3	MGTOW Love Women?! "To find out who rules you, simply find out who you are not allowed to criticize." If all criticism sounds like hate-speech to you, you're living a fantasy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/18 03:10 PM
5	What should you do when a girl asks you for help complaining about a guy? There’s a thin window where you can stipulate that your comfort comes with sex, but then you’re negotiating attraction. If you were her fallback dick she would begging for a meetup She’s seeking social validation, she sees you as an orbiter. Don’t orbit.	/r/askTRP	23/12/17 07:35 PM
5	What is going on with all of these sexual behavior allegations in the news? It’s case-in-point why you don’t shit where you eat and ESPECIALLY why you don’t sleep with people you have authority over in the workplace.	/r/askTRP	29/11/17 05:52 PM
1	What's wrong with SL? SL will straighten your back but it won't bring you to the promise land (or at least not efficiently).	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 08:06 PM
12	I decided i took your guys advice and called it off. As time goes by your brain with unfog, and the "maybe she cheated"s will turn into "duh"s. Good job making the tough decision and trusting your gut.	/r/askTRP	08/11/17 08:29 PM
1	How to hold sexual energy without losing my mind? All that porn may have crossed some wires in your brain, so it's confused about where you're getting your good tingles from now. Do you play any sports or have physical hobbies? I used to have huge emotional swings when I was just lifting heavy, and found that I needed engaging cardio to really focus my energy and stay even. An engaging hobby is it's own form of meditation, you just have to find something you're passionate about.	/r/askTRP	27/09/17 05:04 AM
1	Women with no relationship with Father Married a girl with a shitty father. He was impetuous and mean. Would fly off into fits of rage and hurt people around him. Luckily she never groundlessly accused me of any of that type of behavior and we're still happily married. /s It's a rule because it's true.	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 06:25 PM
1	Do you think men committing more crime = men are more likely to be bad people? The answer is the same as when people talk about billionaires and homeless people. Men are overrepresented because they live in the real world where you have to take risks, women don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/17 06:07 PM
7	LTR was acting strange, so I checked her phone ( I know beta move) and she has been texting an old boyfriend, and talking about meeting up. I confronted without letting he know I read her messages, she denied it completely. What now, dismiss it as AWALT hypergamy? Break it off? Whether she pursues her ex again or betrays your trust more is irrelevant. The thing you really have to ask yourself is: do you really want to be with a woman who actively yearns for another man? You got a bad egg, throw it out before it stinks up the place. It's what she wants anyways, just expedite the process for her and yourself.	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 05:38 PM
4	Potential LTR - but possible red flags? Maybe I'm getting soft in my old age, but a girl trying to make plans to go to an exciting foreign country while in a sexually strained LDR under the presumption of boning the dude down isn't surprising. What does anybody expect to happen, it's a tale as old as time. Women sell their sexuality, and men buy it. All this tells you is that the girl you're taking your turn with is like any other. If she goes on another "vacation" while you're dating she's replaceable. As long as you don't start nego…	/r/askTRP	11/09/17 04:47 PM
12	Living with a female roommate after swallowing the Red Pill Imagine the desperation your roommate would feel if everything wasn't enthusiastically given to her. Women may love their entitlements, but betas are the ones that made this possible. Never negotiate attraction.	/r/TheRedPill	09/09/17 09:12 AM
3	Girlfriend broke up with me over change of plans. I used to think this too, but here's the thing; inexperience does not preclude the potential for promiscuity. AWALT means that ANY woman is CAPABLE of cheating, it's kind of scary that you think it's just impossible for her to cheat. And whether she has or hasn't cheated is immaterial. She broke up with you on trumped up accusations. If you think she's not pining for fresh cock at this point you're wrong.	/r/askTRP	04/09/17 05:57 AM
11	An AWALT Classic - Girl breaks up with her bf for living too frugally only to find out he's actually loaded, a year later the story's changed to her breaking up with him for "lying by omission". What's even sadder is that there are plenty of guys willing to love and fuck her in the exact same way. But she can't help but compare, and will be ruined by it. If she was willing to see men as bonding partners instead of career opportunities, this would be nothing more than a learning experience.	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/17 12:48 AM
10	Feminism is a Cancer that is Metastasizing everywhere. Okay I've got to bite on this. What specifically am I not getting about trp, because I don't think that humanitarianism and RP philosophy are diametrically opposed. There's a difference between subscribing to the ridiculous narratives pushed by a pussified culture and actual understand and empathy. This sub is all about reconciling our failed expectations of reality, and adjusting to what works and what doesn't. I'd say there's plenty of evidence that libertarianism is an admirable philosophy th…	/r/TheRedPill	10/06/17 10:44 PM
1	I get the vibe that girls who knew my past feel uneasy towards me Women generally only perceive you as your worst self. I've been skinny, fat, then skinny. Saw girls get disappointed when they saw me during skinny --> fat and then warn their friends about me after fat --> skinny. It's helpful to cultivate an entirely new friend group every couple of years. Clean slates work wonders if you're harboring some insecurities about your past.	/r/askTRP	25/05/17 05:11 PM
1	can a very low SMV man be rejected by women even for a simple friendship? My experience was that weight put me into an entirely different tier. If you want to date a woman worth anything, just forget about it until you get your BMI into an acceptable range. Worrying about friendships and pua tactics before then is meaningless. You won't get accurate feedback and can learn poor habits.	/r/askTRP	15/05/17 07:32 PM
2	April 07 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread After a 2 month stall, I finally broke through my plateau the past two weeks. I tweaked my diet to nearly double my leafy greens , and just like that my lifts are up 10-15% across the board. I feel like a Greek god, and the confidence boost is palpable.	/r/TheRedPill	10/04/17 02:28 AM
1	What is wrong with a woman, who had fun in her younger days, settling down to a LTR with a "beta"? Not really. They are risk factors for a relationship. Even if you take the higher STD risk out of it, you still have problems with pair-bonding and unhealthy sexual motivators.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/17 01:51 AM
1	Q4Men: When it comes to a LTR, would you rather date a 5 or 6 with a nice personality, or a 9 or 10 bitch? The 9 or 10 probably. It doesn't matter how shitty your girl is if she doesn't have say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/17 12:00 AM
8	What is wrong with a woman, who had fun in her younger days, settling down to a LTR with a "beta"? Should a man or woman hide massive debt before getting married? What about a history of drug use and addiction? What about family history including health risk factors? Things that are normally just the wife's business become the husband's business when they agree to aspire to the level of honesty and trust that a marriage requires to work. Hiding risk factors under the guise of privacy actively works against that, and pretending that sexual history doesn't influence intimacy is ludicrous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/17 07:29 PM
1	QuestionForBP: Which parts of The Red Pill do you disagree with? I don't agree with a lot of the sweeping sociological ideas. This is part of what separates TRP from mensrights. TRP is useful for an individual, but I don't feel the strong desire for society to be different. TRP used to be about accepting reality, not wish fulfillment about getting some sort of gender equality. I don't think that we can or should even try to endlessly measure and balance gender dynamics. People should just focus on being their best selves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/17 12:36 AM
2	Not drinking at parties It comes off well to most people. The only people you lose are the ragers; people who came there specifically to get smashed. That's a concession I can easily live with. It's also ridiculously easy to spin into a positive. As long as you are fun and confident (not pretending; you should BE confident), you can spin not drinking into your diet and lay down some subtle flirtation about your physique. Or just simply say, "I decided not to" without giving an explanation, and watch her get wet as you …	/r/askTRP	04/03/17 07:15 PM
5	After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hard This post is 80% filler, you could stand to edit your ideas down a bit.	/r/seduction	23/01/17 03:35 PM
1	Recently I too tried to redpill a friend of mine, he refused to even consider any advice that wasn't in line with his views. Some insight into the blue pill mind and some advice on how to avoid wasting your time arguing with a wall. You can only help the willing.	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/17 12:18 AM
1	Ltr keeps shit testing me She's going nuclear and you're acting like she's throwing rocks.	/r/askTRP	15/12/16 03:11 PM
1	I need your input on this. What type of girl is this? She's milking you. Feigns interest when she wants a meal or a movie or is bored, then afterwards you go back on the shelf where you belong.	/r/askTRP	15/12/16 03:01 PM
2	I read and watch videos of how many rights and privileges men have, yet I am physically and emotionally abused by my wife on a consistent basis and I have very little fairness directed my way. I'd suggest you consider restricting her from hurting you. Women who do things like this count a retreat from your part as a partial victory, and taking that power away is a useful tool. When my ex attacked me I picked her up and swaddled her, and it ruined her. She HAD to be able to hurt me, and when she couldn't she was reduced to an angry blubbering mess. It's the best way to make sure that SHE feels the brunt of her insanity instead of you. Of course that's assuming you have to be around her…	/r/TheRedPill	12/12/16 03:56 AM
5	Can someone explain this little slice of female behavior? The same reason you posted a question on asktrp you already knew the answer to. For that sweet attention.	/r/askTRP	08/12/16 09:47 AM
1	Stripper girlfriend? The fact that she is so willing to fall back on her body to pay pills should be terrifying to you. And I can tell you from anecdotal evidence, it's a slippery slope into misery for the guy. Buddy of mine dated a stripper and spent most of his day hamstering away his repressed anger and shame.	/r/askTRP	06/12/16 08:22 AM
1	Has anyone ever gotten over how many sexual partners a woman has? At first, yea things seem this way. But think about when you're dating a girl, dicking her down every chance you get. Are you grossed out by your dick being in her the day before? No? I've found that when it comes to finding LTR worthy women it's not the physicality of previous sex that unnerves me, it's usually how she views her sexuality. If she uses sex as a pair-bonding experience that's great, because her history will indicate that she will try to bond with you. Most girls don't do this tho…	/r/askTRP	06/12/16 06:29 AM
2	Is silence the best revenge? Silence is a byproduct of your apathy for her. Apathy is what women fear the most. So the best revenge is to not give a shit about her feelings. If she reaches out, your response should be a quick laugh and a "you wish bitch", not to wonder what she wants.	/r/askTRP	06/12/16 05:22 AM
5	AWALT. Forever. AWALT means that ALL women are capable of this, so your warning is moot to a RP man. If he doesn't know this already he needs to learn, and if he does then you're not needed.	/r/askTRP	06/12/16 05:11 AM
3	Went Rambo and I think I've nuked it... what now? You should read over you post and look at how much you care about her needs and feelings vs yours. She has you fretting, and she knows it. You've ceded every inch of your frame to her, no wonder she doesn't want to have sex. And there's something you should know about "chances". Women don't do second chances, they do power. She wants to snack on your contrition, because it entertains her to control you. You have to stop emotionally tamponing for her. Stop overanalyzing her. If you say you want m…	/r/askTRP	05/10/16 08:48 AM
6	Thinking about QUITTING DRINKING? Here's how you can start (and what to expect in the early stages of sobriety) It's really refreshing to hear the bit about forgetting sex for the first year. Guilt and shame played a lot into my past relapses, including feelings of inadequacy from not being able to stumble onto sex anymore. That period where you're focused solely on what is important makes or breaks your sobriety, and it's important to be willing to sacrifice some primal desires without remorse. This sub talks frequently about pair-bonding. One thing I found is that my ability to genuinely connect and enj…	/r/TheRedPill	04/10/16 04:55 AM
2	Relationship issue because of my girlfriend's past. Asked r/relationships how to save my relationship and got flamed for slut shaming. The fact that she not only made a sexual checklist, but felt the need to keep it after dating you for over a year tells you everything you need to know. She may be "perfect" besides being a slut, but to her you are a journal entry. Normally I'd say yea, continue to fuck her as you emotionally detach, but she's capable of some seriously high-risk sexual behavior. How much you value your dick is really up to you.	/r/askTRP	25/08/16 06:24 AM
1	Any help on bad posture? Look on the /r/fitness sidebar. Find out what kind of posture issues you have, and do the supplemental exercises that help with that.	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 01:02 AM
71	she lied but it was years ago, now what? Everything's "improving" because your wife has a lot to lose, not because the virtue of truth or some bullshit. She lied to you habitually for years. She gas-lighted you when you pressed her. She got you on the hook for kids, and waited (just guessing here, correct me if I'm wrong) for your SMV to drop to secure enough levels to be honest. She knew what the guy wanted and was willing to betray your trust, all for some social validation. She set the market price for her pussy that day, and you've…	/r/askTRP	16/08/16 12:37 AM
1	Field Report: Gym Mental and physical gains, all in one day. This is how men are forged. Keep at it.	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/16 08:02 AM
30	Red Pill Moment on Date Feminism in a nutshell. Equality in words, but entitlement in action.	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/16 08:48 AM
10	One of my girls has bf, met this guy, now i feel bad for him. Should i let him know? You can't rush the process. However much it hurts to watch, he needs to get lied to, trickle-truthed, besmirched, and robbed before he'll believe how bad it can get. Most I would do is share my own stories to serve as anecdotes and tell him to trust his gut.	/r/askTRP	08/07/16 08:10 AM
3	Going a little "nice guy" AFTER you've slept with a girl is actually a great way to screen out crazy True charity has a cost and goes unrewarded. That's what makes it noble. People either forget that or don't understand it to begin with.	/r/TheRedPill	03/07/16 05:33 PM
7	[X-post] "My BF broke up with me because I booked a week vacation with my EX in Amsterdam" or "How my BF held frame" This girl is mainly upset because she lost her fun time. The idea of spending time with an ex, edging on sexual tension and drugs; that was why she wanted to go. When she lost the boyfriend, she lost all the naughty tingles, and her ex became a dude again. She can't giggle with her friends and say "Hee-hee, I'm such a whore lol" if she loses the power game, which she did.	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/16 10:13 PM
5	What do I do!?!? URGENT Keep a cool head man, it'll be alright. Could just be a weird moment from her. Do you have any proof that you were in an ongoing sexual relationship? Does she have any visible bruises from the rough sex? Do NOT let her know what you fear from her. Of course we all know she could lie and fuck your life up, but she may not know that. Don't contact her fearfully. Pretend she never had that reaction, if she texts you wanting to talk about it tell her you will meet to talk about it. Don't put anythin…	/r/TheRedPill	28/06/16 10:34 AM
1	What made you delete your facebook account? Was starting trp process, and I already hated the attention whoring and stupidity of it. It was surprisingly easy to forget about. It really is a waste of time.	/r/askTRP	21/06/16 06:10 AM
1	Ran into my cheating EX today You are in a very privileged minority of men who get to taste some justice, congratulations.	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/16 09:42 AM
1	Gf blocked me from seeing snapchat stories She doubled down on the lie. That's the most damning part. If you ignore her she will eventually trickle-truth you. Don't believe a word. As Patrice would say, your girl just lost her "say".	/r/askTRP	17/06/16 08:58 AM
1	My school claims gender equality yet is biased against men. In my program, there were basically 3 tiers of engineers: the simmering genius types (who aced tests easily and confidently), the barely scraping by guys (I affectionately called them bro-gineers), and the women. There was some crossover, but the most notable was when the program actually got a genius level woman. Because the genius woman would absolutely abhor the other women. She would surround herself with other talented engineers, and they would do amazing work together. But the closest thin…	/r/TheRedPill	08/06/16 03:22 AM
6	A member of Johnny Depp's inner circle says Amber Heard threatened to falsely accuse him before going public And his mother just died too. They always choose the worst moment to do this, your biggest moment of vulnerability. The second a chink shows in the armor, it's time to drive the sword in and loot your corpse.	/r/TheRedPill	31/05/16 07:54 PM
2	Proud feminist is totally fine with his wife divorcing her after he inherited money A fool is easily parted from his money.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/16 05:06 AM
16	Women over 30 of this generation ? The wall is generally the first sieve women encounter in life. It shouldn't come as a surprise that most of them don't make it through. So while I agree with the RP mindset that pre wall women have more utility for fun and dating, there's something to be said for a woman who holds it together into her 30s.	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/16 06:12 PM
1	Woman refuses to date guy during college because he's 'not her type'. Messages him years later when she finds out he has a great job. Gets told she's not a gold digger. This is why you never disclose finances with women you're dating. The second they find out you have a bit of success, the tingles turn into machinations.	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/16 05:59 PM
6	About to soft next a plate. How to respond to a social gathering. Abundance mentality. If she presses you, give her a smile that a teacher might give a student who had just given an incorrect answer in class. Act like her decision is cute and entertaining to you. Then disengage with her and have fun with your other friends.	/r/askTRP	23/04/16 08:45 AM
13	"I'll give you a blowjob if you give me a foot massage" LTR Never ever ever, under any circumstances, no matter how trivial, overtly negotiate for sex. You have to completely disregard her part of the bargain. You can't even take the blowjob now either. She tainted the well. Next time she tries this just dread the shit out of her.	/r/askTRP	22/04/16 10:19 AM
2	ill feelings about LTR at a music festival If she had a chance to go to a festival with Ryan Gosling, would she invite him as an afterthought? She didn't want you to come with her, or she would have made it happen. You are providing her with relationship level perks (shacking at your place, emotional tamponing) and she is providing only plate level benefits to you (not respecting your wishes, maintaining distinct social circles). The power dynamics of your relationship strongly favor her. This girl is not your plate. You are her plate an…	/r/askTRP	22/04/16 10:02 AM
1	ill feelings about LTR at a music festival Why aren't you going with her?	/r/askTRP	22/04/16 09:14 AM
2	How do you stop procrastinating? Give yourself some agency. Life is just the shit that we choose to do Every time you act in a way contrary to your goals, accept the fact that you could have chosen differently and didn't. You're right to assume that there is no magic solution, because this whole time you've been doing exactly what you intended. There is no phantom force at work here.	/r/askTRP	17/04/16 10:27 PM
2	Could Anybody Imagine A Woman Doing This? It does happen every now and then. My uncle's ex restructured their divorce to get less money and protect his assets. Its just that exceptions to the rules are rare enough to be ignored when talking about average behavior. Most women will shamelessly poach you in a divorce. All guns are loaded, even when they're not.	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/16 11:24 PM
2	Don't believe the Red Pill? Read any popular romance novel. When I was young I used to pick up some of these books after my mother finished them. By the time I got to the third book I realized they were all effectively the same. It's literally just AF/BB. Girl fucks a slave-trading pirate, marries a northern army captain. Sometimes the story arch is converting AF into BB, sometimes the AF and BB compete for her affections.	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/16 07:55 AM
3	LTR likes other guys to buy her drinks when shes out? Anytime you ask a girl a direct question and she gets real quiet, you don't have to hear the answer. You just assume the worst and move on. The purpose of "girls night out" is usually just an excuse to act out. Women compartmentalize their behavior to hide duplicity. So no matter what she says or does when she's with you, part of her wants attention from new dick.	/r/askTRP	30/03/16 09:20 PM
5	What do you guys make of this video (Masks off - a challenge to men)? Useless emotional masturbation. No amount of background music, douchey inflections, or focus adjustments give the shit he's saying any relevance or substance. 1 in 3 is bullshit, I shut it off right there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/16 05:53 AM
2	The Light-Switch Effect - Why Women Re-Write the History of Relationships. Even when I was BP, I noticed this. Always assumed it was just emotional cowardice. Like they actually do care and it just makes it easier to pretend. But that's not true. They don't care at all. It's compartmentalized psychopathy.	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/16 12:53 AM
2	I can't really enjoy plate sex. Wanting higher quality women has absolutely nothing to do with your level of commitment. These two ideas should not be linked. I just can't enjoy the sex if I'm repulsed by their slutty behavior or lack of character. LTRing a girl does not and will never preclude her from being a slut or having poor character. Women do not improve with commitment, and some of the biggest whores I've known were LTR-only girls. And especially since you are in college, you have to watch out for the career whores. F…	/r/askTRP	27/03/16 02:52 PM
2	My girlfriend gave me a list of things that are harmful and hurtful when she has 'panic attacks.' What are your guys' thoughts? Look at the power dynamics of this letter. Her health is suddenly dependent on you texting her promptly, never criticizing her behavior, and providing unconditional love and support with no expectations of sex. Pretty convenient disorder for her isn't it? It's a move, and it's important that you recognize it as such. She's got you slated as her emotional tampon, and it's up to you to prove her wrong or leave her. If you want to keep at it, you're going to have to introduce some serious dread gam…	/r/askTRP	24/03/16 02:00 AM
1	was this a shit-test? or actual breakup Even if it was a shit test, you were probably right to respond that way. You're in high school, you shouldn't have to deal with nuclear shit-tests right now.	/r/askTRP	21/03/16 01:29 AM
1	Just a word Never forget that this is the pain that your mother put you through. This is the risk she elected to take. It's not on you to bear the burden of truth or feel guilt for her mistakes. She compromised you and your father with her decisions. Tell your father the truth, before your mother gives him an std.	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/16 09:54 PM
1	Found out about girlfriend's past... She dated somebody for 7 years before college, that's insanity. She met that dude when she was what, 12? I wouldn't be too hard on her drunken hookups, honestly. Those 1-2 (so 3-5) guys that she fucked while abroad is nothing compared to some other girls. It's not good, but it's well below average. Get fit again. Raise your SMV. As long as you don't get this girl pregnant, what you decide to do with her is less important than it seems. The opposite of love is apathy, if you feel the need to pull…	/r/askTRP	17/03/16 03:45 PM
1	Is she busy or not into me? There's the classics like bars or house parties. Any place geared toward nightlife. If you want more chill you could shoot some pool or watch a movie at your place. Good way to get in some kino. Live music works well. It just depends on your interests and local events.	/r/askTRP	16/03/16 03:12 AM
0	Is she busy or not into me? Texting is for logistics only. Super busy = doesn't give a shit. You don't call women out for their behavior, you demonstrate that there are consequences to disappointing you. Arrange a meetup in an environment where you can confidently escalate, and see what happens.	/r/askTRP	15/03/16 11:40 PM
1	People keep saying '' move on ''. It's not an easy thing to do... Need help Think of it this way. If a girl was the only thing keeping you from being miserable, you don't deserve to not be miserable. Your life didn't just arbitrarily go downhill. You rolled yourself down the hill when you put your happiness in somebody besides yourself. Also if a girl tells you you're being whiney and needy, it doesn't matter if you were (hint: you were). The takeaway is that she is no longer interested, and you're not seeing it. As much as it hurts to admit, the way you feel about her …	/r/askTRP	15/03/16 11:17 PM
3	"No Room at the Top?" Bullshit. Comparison is the death of joy.	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/16 12:38 AM
7	Duke Lacrosse 30-for-30 - Wow The duke lacrosse story is the best case-in-point summary of the problems with today's society. Opinions trumping facts, guilty until proven innocent, rape sensationalization/infatuation, and media fabrication. When weak, dumb people control the narrative, this is what happens. It's some shameful shit.	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/16 04:57 PM
3	Why "choreplay" won't result in sex It's a shame how he left it though. Paid her a fortune and promised to keep looking after her.	/r/TheRedPill	08/03/16 02:14 AM
1	Question about my dad. Need to accept that your father will never change. The guy that didn't give a shit about you before is the same guy that doesn't give a shit now. Most successful father/son relationships are built on mutual respect, and neither of you seems to respect each other (and how could you, he sounds like a twat). You're just going to have to be your own father for a while.	/r/askTRP	07/03/16 01:12 AM
8	What triggered your Red Pill journey? Trying to make sense of divorce-rape.	/r/askTRP	01/03/16 03:32 PM
1	Now that I am really successful with women, I hate them more than ever. You seem to be stuck on the idea that "sex is great now, but where were the women when I needed them?" Well, you were a fat poor incel, so they were interested in other men. Pretty simple. Yes, there was a part of me after my transformation that felt upset. The relief from sex was no where near the pain from it's absence. But I adjusted my expectations, and eventually felt less shitty. Criticism is good and fine, but hate is a manifestation of pain and pain is weakness. If you hate the women who…	/r/seduction	29/02/16 11:23 PM
2	Anyone Else Not Drink? I struggled for years and the thing that finally made me quit ended up being silly. I started calorie tracking. There's only so many times you can track calories from deadlifting and drinking 12 beers before you realize your goals are contradictory. Now whenever I get the impulse to drink, I exercise it away or go to bed. Actualize the costs of drinking so you take the joy out of it. Then it has less power over you. Ultimately it's your choice. Don't fall into the trap of taking away your own ag…	/r/askTRP	24/02/16 11:01 PM
2	How to handle thoughts of your ex popping into you mind and fucking with your head? Getting over falling in love is a constant battle between conscious and subconscious thought. As much as I remember my ex-wife as an abusive entitled cunt, I still have ridiculous cuck dreams about doing anything to get access to her vagina again. The only thing to be done is: Recognize that you have a dumb, mongoloid brain that doesn't always know best. Dissociate the good sex from the bad person. It was a good thing she did, so it's okay to remember the act kindly. But you should focus on the …	/r/askTRP	22/02/16 06:05 PM
1	Most men on the manosphere equate being incel to not getting 6+ white women Women initiate 70% of divorces. Branch swinging and fickle decision-making is predominantly female behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/16 01:45 AM
1	Most men on the manosphere equate being incel to not getting 6+ white women It would be hypergamy IF these men were in relationships already and are unable to resist trading up. But this is about relationships seeking men in general. Hypergamy and preference are not the same thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/16 11:57 PM
1	Question for redpill. What dating advice do you offer that a man isn't going to get anywhere else? Partly because the Disney fallacy is rooted very very deep. It's painful to remove. But also because there is an amount of justifiable anger toward the people who propped the fallacy up. An entire culture of people misrepresenting themselves is what caused this in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/16 11:53 PM
2	Most men on the manosphere equate being incel to not getting 6+ white women Preference is not the same as hypergamy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/16 10:47 PM
10	Update wife used restraining order to steal my life and kid. This is the saddest rp truth I've come to accept. Goodness will not ever be enough to protect me or my children from their own mother.	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/16 02:45 AM
7	How is "women bring nothing to the table" not misogynistic? They have some value to me. Just because I don't recognize as much value as you say I should doesn't make me hateful. Just calling a spade a spade. Have you tried actually considering whether or not there is an imbalance of value expectations between men and women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/16 07:03 AM
4	How is "women bring nothing to the table" not misogynistic? No, it's not hateful. You don't have to understand and care about every facet of somebody's existence in order to not hate them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/16 06:26 AM
1	How My Pal Almost Died For A Piece of Pussy Women value themselves at exactly what men are willing to pay for them. I've seen it too many times. A woman meets and marries some guy in the comma club, buys a $1000 pair of jeans, and suddenly people talk about her like she changed. As if she accomplished her life's work. The idea of intrinsic value is a foreign concept.	/r/TheRedPill	31/01/16 07:27 PM
2	Holy fuck, TRP/MRA mentioned in a marvel comic. This is just bad craft. Ideology aside, this is lazy work and the artist should be embarrassed.	/r/TheRedPill	31/01/16 06:43 PM
2	Finally grew a pair - Date night That's an awesome step man, congratulations. First time is the hardest, it only gets easier.	/r/askTRP	29/01/16 12:26 AM
1	Do you stay friends with your exes? Opinions? This isn't necessarily a RP theory, but I have a strict rule that I only stick around for the good parts. If a girl gets downgraded, she's gone. Keeps everything simple and easy.	/r/askTRP	27/01/16 12:10 AM
3	Oh, The Feminist Jimmies This Will Rustle It's also why people so specifically hate TRP. The solutions found here are effective.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/16 01:28 AM
4	Men: You are having sex with a girl you met at a party, and she suddenly tells you she will report you for rape unless you pay her $5,000. What would you do? Probably not. If this was her plan the whole time, she's honest about being a sexual con artist. Chances are good she would rather try again than follow through. It's really the delusional regret-rape cases that you have to watch out for. Girls who will lie to preserve their self-perception and ego, not to earn $5000.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/16 08:55 PM
2	Why the fuck was it me? And how do I not be a pushover? That part of you screaming, "WHY?! Why, oh why, did it have to be ME?!" Is the part of you that is a victim. Gotta kill that shit, that is your weakness. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy. The book was written for people experiencing exactly these types of thoughts.	/r/askTRP	10/01/16 04:49 PM
2	LTR: Am I being childish or maintaining frame? Who is right? Should I dump her? Help me fellas. If you want to hear you gotta listen. Stop being defensive.	/r/askTRP	10/01/16 04:40 PM
1	CMV: The TRP theoretical woman is the the sum total of reality TV women. The mistake here is asking people what they are and believing them. RP theory is observed from a vacuum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/16 10:06 PM
6	California enacted a brand new gun statue. Reddit shitstorm ensures following redpill truths. RP truths have a way of always coming out when the chips are on the table.	/r/TheRedPill	01/01/16 06:46 PM
1	How to pretend to be interesting/have interests You're not going to think your way into a hobby. Turn you brain off and go do some stuff.	/r/askTRP	25/12/15 12:29 AM
4	How to overcome the general sense of nihilism is the face of wanting children? Until you no longer require an answer to "what's the point?", you probably shouldn't be worried about kids. A wife (unicorn or no) will not give you value, and neither will children. A better plan is to develop more SMV and intrinsic value. When you finally do have children you will be your family's leader and not some guy still searching for meaning in life. Father from a position of abundance, not a position of desire.	/r/askTRP	24/12/15 10:53 PM
2	TRP is mainly about sexual strategy and it's why so many guys like this sub. It helps to go back to the fundamentals. Lately I've been rereading the core materials and it's been surprisingly productive.	/r/TheRedPill	21/12/15 04:57 AM
0	Female Head of Diversity and Inclusion disregards International Mens Day because it is for men This isn't redpill so much as MRA. Stop taking on un-winnable fights for attention.	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/15 07:43 PM
4	It's true... Women trade sex for a Mans commitment. In my experience, the kind of woman who slowly lures men into a web of dependency is the exact sort of woman who would lie about anal virginity.	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/15 06:00 PM
5	The Travel-Widow, or why travel for the single woman is a red flag A woman traveling is really just an emotional hall pass to ride the CC. It absolves them of any shame in hindsight because it was just "traveling". It's an adventure that comes with its own, easily accessible, compartmentalization. Sure there are pictures of art, steins of German beer with friends, mountains and castles, etc. But when she comes home and talks to her friends, the only thing they talk about is all their euro-Chads. Almost as if that was the whole point of it.	/r/TheRedPill	11/10/15 01:16 PM
1	Would you rather be reborn a woman or a man in the USA in 2015 (from a Rawlsian veil of ignorance) With all current memories erased? Easily a woman. I like free shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/15 05:33 PM
3	What is up with all these women jokingly making the 'if we're both single in 10 years lets get married' shtick? They are way more transparent than we'd like to believe. Children are obvious like that.	/r/askTRP	23/09/15 05:43 PM
6	Walked out on a meetup. Did I miss anything? Sounds like she doesn't really know what she's doing. Or maybe she does, who cares. You did your end correctly, that's all that matters.	/r/askTRP	21/09/15 05:09 PM
10	Sexual Assault Becomes Big Business On Campus Women use rape culture to inflate their sexual value. If the pussy is worthy of jailtime, then it's obviously worthy of Chad. Rape is a seriously terrible thing when it happens, but the hype around it is overblown. It gives good feels to have a valuable vagoo.	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/15 04:20 PM
1	I know you guys are right now and I hate it When women take its chivalry.	/r/askTRP	06/08/15 01:56 AM
2	If you could go back to right after High School Graduation, what would you do differently? Immediately dump my cunt future wife, then use the $20,000 I had saved to invest instead of hiring a shitty lawyer.	/r/askTRP	02/08/15 06:51 AM
2	Bored of women A lot of guys who employ RP philosophy don't end up having all that much sex. They realize it's not worth the trouble. You may be conflating happiness in other things with women still. It's a sneaky BP mindset. The easiest path would be to find a reliable plate. If plating bores you, work on improving SMV until you can reliably pull a new woman anytime you want with little effort. If you are unfufilled in other areas, find things to become passionate about.	/r/askTRP	24/07/15 02:05 PM
1	Going to France today girlfriend broke up with me last night how should I open/approach french girls at bars/clubs as a foreigner It's honestly not that hard. If you're passingly attractive and escalate a few times, you will score. There's an unspoken hook-up culture between foreigners and locals that turns every encounter into blast fishing.	/r/askTRP	24/07/15 01:38 PM
2	How do I stop laughing so much? You need to raise your tolerance to stimuli. Lift heavy weights. Develop grit. Laugh if you think something is funny and for no other reason. You don't owe them a response, and anybody who cares about comedy wants a legitimate response anyways. If it's not funny, nothing is the appropriate response. Don't be afraid of silence.	/r/askTRP	24/07/15 01:24 PM
19	Be Wary of the Epiphany Phase Woman "You can't love me if you don't love my ki-" nope "MUST enjoy kids or get los-" nope "Won't apologize for being a mo-" nope	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/15 02:44 PM
1	Anger phase lasting too long ? The anger phase lasts as long as you need it to. Some guys never get out of it. It's really hard to accept AWALT after experiencing decades of social conditioning. A few months is not a lot of time. It's been 5 years for me and I can still turn the anger on any time I want. So I guess it never leaves, it just becomes a gear that I can switch to if necessary.	/r/askTRP	07/07/15 01:11 PM
1	Permanently damaged my relationship with my parents. Blaming your parents is a classic beta move. Being a victim is easy, it's why so many people do it. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Be the man you want to be, or don't. If you really want to support your father, be there for him.	/r/askTRP	03/07/15 10:35 AM
1	What would do if you girlfriend moved over to New York to model? I trust my girlfriend implicitly You shouldn't. Even if you have a unicorn, a healthy level of skepticism is absolutely essential. I would never implicitly trust a woman I had only known for 4 years, especially 4 highly transitional college years. I am actually perfectly fine with her working in NY because it is financially lucrative and should be an incredible opulent experience. Beware the male hamster. You are not perfectly fine with this, because you posted here. To answer your question, I w…	/r/askTRP	01/07/15 10:35 PM
5	Amy Schumer admits to raping a guy, feminists support her, /r/askfeminists decide the guy raped her... You can tell just by reading her speech. She's a woman who's a 4, who thinks she's a 7, who is mad at the world because she's not a 10. "I say if I'm beautiful" I mean sure, if we're changing the definition of beauty to mean confidence. You can think of yourself however you want, but it doesn't change your bone structure or remove ovarian cysts.	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/15 01:17 PM
1	Telling A Woman You Earn More Than You Do Could Soon Be Rape (These wheels must power all of Paris) It's kind of shocking how readily the article admits that women will sleep with somebody for material gain. Oh I lied about having a beach home? Well, you slept with me to get to my beach home, so who's more in the wrong here? And on that note, how many beach homes do you own?	/r/TheRedPill	27/05/15 01:01 PM
3	What is it like after the anger phase? Anger becomes a tool instead of an experience. Anybody who experiences legitimate rage can tell you that it never goes away, but it does subside. Asking if you ever get out of it is the wrong mentality. You become better than it or you don't. Improve or die, every day.	/r/askTRP	03/05/15 05:36 PM
1	No blowjob, I walked away Too much thought and time invested in a girl who's not blowing you. You did what you could, there's nothing there. The reason doesn't matter. Raise SMV and acquire plates.	/r/askTRP	03/05/15 05:26 PM
16	Ltr has been calling me abusive and kicked me out of her place last night after sex. No joke, OP you NEED to not ignore this. Next her into yesterday, before the crazy seeps into your life. Society rewards fickle women, remove yourself from a bad situation. Next next next next next.	/r/askTRP	03/05/15 05:10 PM
3	Arrested one year prior on whim of a LTR. Straight off the /r/AmIFreeToGo sidebar.	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/15 02:58 PM
13	Married man from r/DeadBedrooms gets fed up. Applies every single RP principle by the book, without even knowing about RP. Results are as predictable as you'd expect. He has ascended.	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/15 02:03 PM
11	I'm curios what everyone RP/BP and in between, thinks about this conversation I'm having with someone who supports TRP You are assuming that we are discounting your evidence because we are biased. I am discounting your evidence because it's bad. The study you posted has a lot of problems with it, which were outlined for you by another user, which you then failed to address. I get that you have an incentive to agree with the study, but you may be hooking your wagon to the wrong cart. Also, calling that a scientific study is like calling a buzzfeed article journalism. They measured a handful of actual statistics (…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/15 03:51 PM
12	I'm curios what everyone RP/BP and in between, thinks about this conversation I'm having with someone who supports TRP Just want to point out that you claimed you are curious in the title. From reading these posts, I've seen argumentative, stubborn, and angry, but no actual curiosity. You throw up sham science and defend it with "but all science is bad". You proudly declare your adopted labels, but don't discuss any of them in depth. You say you have thick skin, yet trigger over every non-pc word used. Are you really curious? Or was the title an excuse to goad people into listening to you tell us how intelligent…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/15 02:22 PM
1	What would you do if you were the man in this video? This one is so easy. Regardless of gender, when somebody is assaulting you you run. After the first strike, the argument was over, he should have left and filed charges later. If you have to stay, you protect yourself. It doesn't matter how much smaller somebody is than you, if they are striking your face they are engaging in an activity that can kill you. There are no half-measures when it comes to self-preservation, so you hit the assailant until they can't hit back. If she came at him in a fl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/15 08:59 PM
3	Why They Hate 50 Shades Of Grey The popularity of this movie single-handedly proves a majority of the points on this sub. As much as I dislike 50 shades with respect to art and film-making, it is a helpful reminder about the nature of women.	/r/TheRedPill	16/02/15 07:40 AM
8	The irony of this self-congratulatory #likeagirl nonsense is that most women would be crushed to be told they are anything #likeaman. The logic is completely absent from this video. Girls during puberty are insecure, which we will show by having some very confident girls parade around. Also, we'll prove that women are oppressed by basically tricking a handful of people into doing what we just told them to do. The whole thing seems so blatantly pandering and manufactured, I thought the least they could do is to have clearly thought out their message. Instead of this broad strokes, "girls during puberty feel bad, be nice to them…	/r/TheRedPill	02/02/15 05:12 PM
7	Every Man is a Potential Rapist: Man has 3some with wife & her friend, quickly gets accused of cheating and raping She's not taking stock of what's rational, she's running down a checklist of what she can get away with. It's an ammo check.	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/14 08:44 PM
8	Woman drops boyfriend because he lives frugally. Later finds out that he's a heir to a fortune based on oil. The truly talented ones can hide the hamster for a decade.	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/14 02:04 AM
2	How do I stop living in the past? It kind of sounds like you are projecting your desires onto these girls. If you ever find yourself thinking you've met the "perfect" woman or that your ex was a perfect gal, most likely you're not looking at it critically enough. Try to avoid romanticization. Value your headspace more. If your ex or a new girl is giving you cyclical thoughts, consciously reject them. Avoid thoughts about unseen karmic forces. These are gross little ego boosters that fill your head with ideas of self-importance. …	/r/seduction	04/10/14 08:42 AM
7	Has anybody been brought here and stayed by the "bad press"? Yea everybody who mentions it always has a favorite shitpost bookmarked. Every sub has shitposts, what's important is the sidebar.	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/14 12:36 AM
10	Has anybody been brought here and stayed by the "bad press"? Came here due to bad press a ways back. Was so used to circle jerky feel good posts, it was the first thing I read that hooked me. I can remember the post or the subject, but the top comment was tearing the OP a new asshole for deflecting blame. He pointed out exactly what OP was doing wrong and told him to stop blaming a woman for his problems. At first I was disappointed. I came for the hate speech, the poor logic, the denial and projection. I came for the controversy. And all I read was one g…	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/14 12:27 AM
5	2xC: "TheRedPill is causing me to self-harm, as I become more depressed by what women must really think of me. " There's a post on /r/offmychest right now that compares this sub to the Westboro Baptist Church and ISIS. Interesting how often and severely people feel the need to invalidate this sub. The lady doth protest too much, methinks.	/r/TheRedPill	01/09/14 11:37 PM
5	Girlfriend of Dallas Judge jumps out of moving car and accuses him of assault Except that she got what she wanted, which was to hurt him. He lost his judgeship because of this.	/r/PussyPass	21/08/14 01:53 AM
3	Why do women teach their sons to be betas? It's a fish teaching a young boy how to fish. "Just give us the worm, and maybe we'll flop out of the water."	/r/askTRP	07/08/14 02:32 PM
2	Guy's girlfriend was raped at a party, but she doesn't want to destroy the friendship with her rapist. If everybody there truly believed it was a rape, they would be begging her to go get a rape kit done and go to the police. The fact that they're not suggests this is more about gender power dynamics than anything else.	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/14 09:02 PM
2	Learn from me: 40 years old, 3 kids, divorced. This is the best thing I've read on this sub in a while. No knock on other posts, this just resonated really well.	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/14 08:33 PM
1	You're going to love this: The EMSK poster is a Redpiller! Out of curiosity, how many new members did TRP get from the EMSK post?	/r/TheRedPill	01/07/14 12:16 PM
14	How do I deal with the fat, controlling Beluga Whale that lives next door? (long) Everybody here has some good, constructive advice. Record serious interactions, install a camera, always consider the legal ramifications of your actions. However, this will only protect you legally. If you want to save your sanity and beat this troll, you have to start to have some fun with it. Women that act like this usually have weird power issues. So the worst thing you can do to her is never appear to take her seriously. Firstly, NEVER go to her house. Tell her to come over to your house. …	/r/askTRP	17/06/14 03:25 PM
1	Anyone care to critique my RP strategy? Haha nah.	/r/askTRP	30/05/14 09:35 PM
1	Anyone care to critique my RP strategy? Oh shit. Thanks for pointing that out. Took a moment to get through.	/r/askTRP	30/05/14 04:41 PM
1	Anyone care to critique my RP strategy? I'm just trying to get what I want out of the encounter. Which is attention and sex. When she gave me one and alluded to the other it piqued my interest.	/r/askTRP	30/05/14 04:33 PM
1	Anyone care to critique my RP strategy? Bad phrasing on my part. What I meant to say was that I was waiting to validate her until she demonstrated what I wanted, I.e. A more physical interaction. I feel like I demonstrated interest proportionally to her approach.	/r/askTRP	30/05/14 03:31 PM
2	Anyone care to critique my RP strategy? Lol nah, I respect the dedication.	/r/askTRP	30/05/14 02:18 PM
2	Anyone care to critique my RP strategy? Seems like my tag of "Fails at RP" is appropriate. Lurking paying off.	/r/askTRP	30/05/14 02:03 PM
1	Anyone care to critique my RP strategy? Basically what I was going for. Thanks.	/r/askTRP	30/05/14 01:59 PM
3	Anyone care to critique my RP strategy? Thanks for the response, yea I'm a Purdue student. The thing I don't get is that this girl put in SO much work. The FB thing makes sense, it's also such a gut habit (damn BP self). Although I keep my FB pretty clean, so there's not much on there. Not familiar with the Monday-morning QBing, but I'm assuming it has something to do with putting in too much work or something. Anyways, thanks for the help.	/r/askTRP	30/05/14 01:55 PM
5	"Punched my boyfriend and I don't think I regret it" You're probably right. Still feel like she should get a kidney shot or something though.	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/14 07:07 PM
1	For those of you who have gone through a body/physique transformation, have you seen any direct benefit? Man that resonates so much with me (near identical stats and job). Cutting from 300 must have been the greatest feeling.	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/14 06:47 PM
3	"Punched my boyfriend and I don't think I regret it" She's lucky he didn't immediately lay her out. She assaulted him, he has the right to respond.	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/14 06:40 PM
12	Hamsters cheats on fiancé. Hamster survival skills kick in: deny, avoid responsibility, recruit, initiate witch hunt. This kid handled the situation very maturely for his age.	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/14 05:51 PM
15	What's the biggest, most common mistake people make when they start the RP path? It's not just starters that always make these mistakes too. This sub can get circlejerky sometimes, you really have to sift through it. I try to review the sidebar every now and then to reinforce the core principles.	/r/askTRP	12/05/14 07:43 PM
2	How much attention do you give to your gf? Sorry, but there's no winning with this one. LDRs have a way of building commitment and nothing else. It's a losing deal for both parties.	/r/askTRP	08/05/14 06:08 AM
5	Women want a wedding, not a marriage. Yea, that princess bullshit is a sure sign to drop her. Had a girl one time who said that, I responded with, "Well I want to be treated like a prince, but I'm not a fucking prince am I?" Women do not like hearing that the shit they are offering isn't special or unique.	/r/TheRedPill	07/05/14 09:35 AM
1	How I dealt with being dumped Pretty much sums it up. What a great scene.	/r/seduction	29/04/14 03:19 AM
12	A field report, a success story and more "TRP actually works" That's how I found out.	/r/TheRedPill	15/04/14 12:50 AM