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They’re tired, old TV/movie tropes. Which makes sense if they’re ignoring reality and taking notes from chick flicks lol These things apply to some people for sure, but they’re not universal truths by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:27 PM
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For anyone who needs to read this: Buy her flowers Why flowers? Do either of you like them? Take her to expensive exotic restaurants Why a restaurant? Why does it specifically have to be expensive or exotic? Or any other adjective? Show her how much you care! By actually caring. It’s not a universal truth that all women want to receive flowers and no man would ever love to be given a beautiful arrangement. Watch chick-flicks and emulate the male protagonist (I cannot make this up) Please, no. Ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:15 PM
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I can see where you’re coming from, thanks for giving a more in depth explanation! This behaviour definitely doesn’t describe the “average woman”, or man, lol. It seems like a fair description of anyone who struggles with having unrealistic/toxic expectations of a partner. The “how” may differ from gender to gender, and impact will vary from person to person, but it’s an undeniable fact that we all get extremely unrealistic expectations thrown at us. If you don’t have a healthy model to compare …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:33 AM
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So, I initially wrote an entire fucking novel as a response. I can’t imagine you want to actually read a mini-thesis, and I’m annoyed with myself for going so hard only to delete it all. As a result, this reply is pretty half assed and I don’t blame you if you don’t reply lol We’re not all born with our base attractions (apart from our instincts). It’s mostly nurture. What’s the difference between an instinct and a base attraction? How do things like sexuality and fetishes fit into these definit…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:18 AM
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There are plenty women saying this, and it only takes a few seconds to find examples…. But no links? Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:38 AM
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What a random reply lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:37 AM
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Which situations?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:26 AM
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interracial relationships were socially unacceptable (and illegal), and women and men typically didn’t find the opposite race attractive. Or maybe, hear me out, people didn’t openly talk about their attraction for those reasons. Doesn’t mean it didn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 12:24 AM
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Well my first comment that you replied to was my personal opinion but I did mean it to apply generally. …. Right. And we’ve established that doesn’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 01:58 AM
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Idk what tell you, my experience is clearly an outlier. Right. That’s why it doesn’t make sense that you’re making statements as if it applies to the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:42 AM
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I’m a little bit baffled, tbh. You aren’t able to develop romantic feelings towards someone until you’ve gotten to know them. Essentially, every “platonic acquaintance” you have is potential dating material until you rule them out. Yet it’s unfathomable to you that someone can initially be attracted to another person, but rule them out as a potential partner as they get to know them. Relationships can only develop from “platonic acquaintanceship until it evolves” or “friends with benefits until …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:34 PM
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So you go from “stranger status” to “in an exclusive, committed relationship” with no in between? That helps me make sense of your comments, anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 10:59 PM
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I mean… your kids are going to know you fucked their mom at some point. I don’t know why you’d have to clarify that you had sex on the first date or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 10:35 PM
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Who’s saying anything about an open relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 10:30 PM
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Stop justifying womens desire to sleep with top 5% men Why? You’re justifying men’s willingness to sleep with the bottom 5% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:13 AM
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Which definition of feminism are you using?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:36 PM
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Do you understand what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:50 AM
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No source for menopause making most women asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:55 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:49 AM
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What a transparent cop out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:51 PM
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It’s just funny to me that you chose coal mining and oil rigging as examples of fields where women “don’t want to work”, when the vast majority of men don’t want to work those jobs either. Most people aren’t fit for coal mining or oil rigging lol, regardless of gender. And you said it in response to someone pointing out that the vast majority of women with families do the lion’s share of the work. And now, somehow, you’re saying that because you work in a male dominated field, that ties into tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:32 AM
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Why don’t you work in a coal mine or on an oil rig?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:56 AM
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Is that where you work?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:21 PM
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So you argue with him by displaying the exact behavior that he’s describing. Nope lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 02:07 PM
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All of your examples are shit lol In literally every one of these scenarios, you’re ignoring half of the actual reasons because they’re too inconvenient to argue against. And for the reasons you do list, you’re ignoring the nuances that lead to it. Women not choosing stem? They’re being discriminated against and society is brainwashing them to choose the “gendered roles” Literally, yes. Compare toys that girls are “supposed” to play with vs. “boy toys”. Baby dolls, Barbies, residential kitchen s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:42 PM
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“If everywhere you go smells like poo, check the bottom of your shoe”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:21 PM
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There was a choice of consensual sex, of which a child is a possible consequence. I’ll never get on board with this line of thinking. Just because there is a possibility of something happening when we make certain choices, it doesn’t mean we consent to those possibilities. Otherwise, we could just continue on the way we are when it comes to men and their options when it comes to paternity. Choosing to have sex does not mean you are consenting to having a child. If someone is educated about sex/b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/22 05:02 AM
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Paternity being explicitly opt in/out is super interesting to me. I mean, women (do and should continue to) get that opportunity. But it should be time sensitive, as a woman’s choice becomes less “moral” the longer she waits. In some places, it would be illegal for her to seek an abortion after a certain point. Maybe something like if a man doesn’t opt in/out by a certain timeframe, he’s leaving the decision making up to the woman. She’d be making an informed choice to raise the child solo, or h…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/22 04:48 AM
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It’s an interesting theory but I don’t know that I agree with it. I’m a woman, and I had my bar star days. None of us were out there shit testing potential hookups, we definitely weren’t purposely trying to get a rise out of guys. We expressly avoided doing that. Granted, I only have the experience of my various groups of friends. But in those experiences, looks were misinterpreted (keep in mind we’re all drinking lol) or one of us were like “nah, I had my eye on him” etc. So yeah, sometimes we …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:36 AM
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Nah, I speak up because casual sexism is fucking annoying and harmful. I’m sure people can come up with lists of situations where it could be considered acceptable (ex. friends “joking” around), but there’s never a situation where it’s necessary. Hopefully you speak up when you see any type of casual sexism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/22 05:53 AM
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You literally are, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 02:21 AM
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You're right, not sure where I implied anything different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 02:49 PM
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You've for sure pulled a bottom left so you could see what it was like to have someone show some form of interest in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 02:27 PM
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don't give me the most women aren't on tinder which is true to an extent So you actually do know that the "large majority" of women don't claim that. whilst most late teens and early 20s girls are on (which is my dating range) This is just your subjective opinion based on a small sample size. Late teen-early 20s is not a large majority of women, and I'm confident in saying not all late teen-early 20s woman are on Tinder, or has that in her bio. Maybe a large percentage of them do, but that's har…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 09:41 PM
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I could ask the same of you. How about I'll answer your question if you can answer mine: you seriously think a "large majority" of women are going around proclaiming themselves queens and princesses?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 08:47 PM
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A large majority? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:13 PM
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I hope you aren't saying that as if it doesn't apply to over half the commenters here, man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:58 AM
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What women don't understand is that men vary widely. Wow, the painful, unintended irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:56 AM
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This literally doesn't make sense. OP chose to let her leech. If she was so clearly being an ass, he should have put a stop to it. He decided that she wasn't dating material, but still good enough for a hook up. And that's the answer to his whole post. He was looking for something more, didn't find it, but still wanted to get his dick wet. Trashy girls don't try to hide their shortcomings because they literally don't need to. He gave her everything she was looking for, and she didn't even have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 03:35 PM
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I'm not your daughter, but it should be ok for me to shoot my rapist and any other fuck ass man who lays his hands on me then. You have to be realistic. The answer to sexual violence isn't more violence, no matter how badly we may want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 02:46 PM
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Alright, you've raised my "now that I have daughters I feel differently about women" hackles, for slightly different reasons but they are still up. You say "raise our young women to not be so delicate". What do you consider delicate? Can you please describe this for me? What are you doing with your daughters that is so ground-breakingly different from any other father who's held their infant girls in their arms and promised to move heaven and earth to keep them safe? Daughters aren't a new conce…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 03:43 AM
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So I think this is perfectly in line with this post. From your description, you're not actually an incel. You sound more like a volcel. You have legitimate reasons for not actively dating/hooking up/whatever, but those reasons are your choice. Before I say anything else, congratulations on the recovery! have no interest in going out to bars and clubs with my precious little free time I can see why you'd have no interest in going to clubs, but that's not the only place to meet single women. Or wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 10:55 PM
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I did not expect that, thank you for the genuine laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 10:14 PM
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But what if it's the tweet of a university professor?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 09:22 PM
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But you do understand that you are the one exposing yourself to that material, right? By specifically making sure that you see girls flashing their tits and spreading their ass, you've played a part in desensitizing yourself? That's like me only eating ice cream for a month, then complaining about eating too much ice cream and the muffin top that comes with it. I get what you're saying, and I agree over all. The older you get, the less exciting it is to see boobs/dicks on command. I just know th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:33 PM
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If it's just common knowledge then finding sources should be a breeze
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 01:24 PM
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They at least linked a study Do you have anything that backs up your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 12:59 PM
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Weird I work in a store that only sells beer. My customers are a pretty decent mix of men and women. Also, last I checked, bars sell more than beer so I'm not sure why you even mentioned that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 09:30 PM
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If you're going to work on changing your personality, you're better off improving any negative qualities. If you have anger issues, work on getting those in check. Maybe you tend to lean towards procrastination or laziness, start getting yourself motivated and disciplined. It's like having a dented and scratched up car. Pulling out a few dents and buffing a few scratches will improve how others, and especially you, perceive it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 07:05 PM
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I'm another woman who wouldn't have an issue with it. I will very likely have my children tested regardless. Mix ups happen, and I have terrible luck. If it's going to happen to someone, it'll happen to me. But disregarding that, mothers have the comfort of knowing for certain that their child is theirs. Unless they're a paranoid weirdo like me, there is no doubt that the little watermelon they shove out is theirs. Men don't get that automatic reassurance. They could trust their wife to the moon…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 04:24 AM
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In the vast majority of cases, most fathers don't doubt their paternity, and they're right not to doubt it. It would be an incredible burden on the system to require paternity tests by default. Also, one more expense to add to the already costly bill. Paternity tests can already take anywhere from 2 days to 13 weeks to see results, and that's without the increase of over 10,000 tests a day (roughly how many babies are born a day in the US). What would happen during that waiting period? Is the ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 04:05 AM
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And yet, men are more likely to cheat than women. How does that asymmetry fit in? It doesn't seem like women flip a switch one day and decide to start shopping. There is another deceptively simple solution. Find a girl you're compatible with, and work to make the relationship strong. Men have their catch 22 when it comes to dating. You're seen as the pursuers, so you have to approach women first and start flirting. You don't like it when it happens to your girl, but it's a necessary evil. Women …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 05:42 AM
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You're forgetting the fact that the vast majority of women in relationships aren't inviting the flirting, though. I literally can not help it if a guy approaches me. And when a guy approaches, I have no idea if he's going to legitimately ask for directions or make a move. All I can do is wait and see, and try not to come off as a bitch or have my helpfulness be misinterpreted as flirting. It's a balancing act. But a guy "keeping his options open" by intentionally flirting with other women is not…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 05:01 AM
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I'm in an engineering program In my intake, there are 31 students. There's 12 women The intake before us has 35, there are 17 women. This is in Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 05:47 AM
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That's funny, my chem prof was from Germany He once showed us an experiment to illustrate gas expansion (I think) involving ammonia, it got out of hand. After the fumes cleared out and the class all sat back down, he quietly said "sorry for gassing you, we're bad for that" Only the first few rows heard it, but we all lost it. He was a good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 05:43 AM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:08 AM
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I had a friend who is a very successful cammer. She and her boyfriend are able to live very comfortably solely off her income from it. They have a nice house, nice car, nice things, raging coke habit. He is fully aware she is a cammer, and even participates in certain premium content. She has a very wide audience and she likes to cater to as many kinks/fetishes as she and her boyfriend feel comfortable with. I think you can gather why I'm not friends with them anymore, and it's not the camming.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 05:44 PM
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Thanks, I appreciate that! It was a long time ago, and I've worked through it all. Many men and women don't catch that break, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 12:27 PM
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Thanks :) I'm fine now, that was a long time ago and I've worked through it. I'm really lucky to have had the support I did!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 12:26 PM
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Overall, my life is good! I'm an engineering student and I have BP, so I have my moments, but typically I'm pretty happy. I'm really happy he and I were able to part on such good terms. I owe a lot to him, he played a really important role in making sex a positive experience for me. And he didn't mind it either, so win/win lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 04:07 AM
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The actual first time, I was 14 and didn't have a say in the matter. The first time it was my choice, it was awkward and sweet and very chill. Literally polar opposites. I like to pretend that the second time was my real first time. That's how it's supposed to be. He was my first real boyfriend, and he was a virgin. Hence the awkward. But it wasn't embarrassing awkward, just funny moments while we figured out how it all worked. Neither of us knew what we were doing. At one point, he kneed me in …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 03:46 AM
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What have I said that isn't constructive? case in point Ironic. You didn't address the fact that some people have can't have kids. Can you get any more irrelevant? How is that irrelevant? Decreased fertility is a growing issue. Some people aren't able to have kids, and by your reasoning, they don't deserve care when they're older if they can't afford it out of pocket. Oh, wow, immigrants are increasing the population. So you have low reading comprehension? The population is still increasing. At …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 04:36 PM
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He added no kids that will add to the pot. But he did add to the pot. People with kids benefit from his taxes all the time. People without kids pay more in taxes, they don't get to fill out the dependents section. Have you never actually filed your own taxes before? The only thing gross here is your inability to have a constructive discussion. What have I said that isn't constructive? Not the children people didn't have. Thereby reducing the size of the pot. While still taking from the pot when …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:49 PM
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Your taxes go in the pot regardless of me having kids. You not having kids means there will be less going into the pot in the next generation. This supports their argument more than yours. Their kids wouldn't be paying taxes for your kids until they're all adults anyway. Other people have 8 kids to make up for it. Also, you said something like "you didn't plan for someone to take care of you in your old age". That's what nursing homes and home care nurses are for. Most geriatric folk use those s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:31 PM
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Are you saying a grown man can't make a sandwich? He can't read the directions on a box of mac n cheese or can of soup? A grown man can't buy a bag of pre-made salad and throw some dressing on there? Maybe after years of being taken care of, he won't be able to make a gourmet meal, sure. But lol at pretending a man wouldn't be able to feed himself at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:45 PM
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I have. They're usually low tier MLM huns, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 12:18 PM
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Of course not. No relationship is guaranteed to work out. Everything else could line up perfectly, but maybe you aren't sexually compatible. It sucks but it happens. I'm not talking about those situations though. I'm talking about when someone is misled by someone else for sex. If you know you don't want a relationship, and the other person does, don't lead them on just to have sex with them and then dump them. That's skeezy and automatically makes me think you're a complete POS. For the reverse…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:56 PM
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Most people who are looking for a commitment tend to make that clear. If you meet on a dating site, 9 times out of 10 "what are you looking for" is figured out pretty early on, if not already made clear in a profile blurb. If you meet in person, there is typically conversation before jumping in bed together. If you have sex with someone before figuring out what each other is looking for, you can't really complain when it doesn't work out the way you hope. If one is leading the other on for sex, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 08:41 PM
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About the emotional intimacy, you're exactly right. The vast majority of incels reject the suggestion "to just hire a prostitute". They cite many reasons, ranging from it not counting because you've paid for it, to they refuse to "donate" money to a roastie. A few even go that deep, they don't want a prostitute because they don't want just sex. They want someone to connect with. Anyone who is honest with themselves or isn't dead inside can recognize the difference between bought sex, and sex wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 05:26 AM
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So what do you want exactly? Honestly, who gives a shit what men want from women when it comes to makeup or beauty regimens. The only time it actually affects men is when their SO consistantly makes them late. That's grounds for bitching. They will appreciate it later than life when you have the skin of a 25 year old because you took care of it, though Guys, if women wearing makeup bothers you bEcAUsE tHeY'rE lYiNg, my advice is to learn about makeup so you can identify when us sly femoids are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:39 AM
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Then you fell for their charisma, not their personality. If they truly had a great personality, AKA someone who would click with you, because "great personality" can be subjective, then they most likely wouldn't have turned out to be the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:07 AM
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Well, honesty wasn't addressed in this at all, but I found this Gender differences in terms of mean differences do not imply that men and women only experience states on opposing ends of the trait spectrum; on the contrary, significant differences can exist along with a high degree of overlap between the distributions of men and women To essentially reinforce what I said in my previous comment. So I don't know what you were trying to do by sharing this, but thanks for actually providing a link
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:44 PM
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I'm not going to be able to have a discussion with you if you bounce all over the place. When you say body acceptance, do you mean "it's ok to be pear/hourglass/twig shaped" or are you referring to HAES? Are you implying that all women subscribe to HAES? That HAES and other similarly toxic mindsets are mainstream? When you challenge me to criticize a single mother, am I supposed to attack her for being single or because of her parenting style? Because if that's what you do, no shit people shit o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 12:08 AM
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Oh, I forgot that all women automatically subscribe to those, not a small subset Just like all men subscribe to incel, redpill, MGTOW mindsets.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 11:07 PM
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No, it isn't. There's a reason the scientific method exists. There's a reason the entire scientific community doesn't accept "but I said so" as a solid argument. Please, submit any paper to a journal with the argument "because that's the way I perceive it", especially as a counter-argument against an already established and accepted hypothesis. Empirically, flat Earthers are right then. They haven't physically seen that the Earth is round. Any "proof" that goes against their narrative is rightfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 11:56 AM
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Right. Good luck dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 05:57 AM
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So am I supposed to use braincell or MGTOW to base my opinion of men off of? Fucking Y I K E S. You actually think this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 05:29 AM
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Congratulations, I literally have no response for this. You just keep having a nonsensical conversation with yourself, it seems like you need the practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 08:08 PM
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I didn't put words in your mouth. You said it, right here it is true from my experience and hence fact. If that's how you think it works, then it stands to reason that's how you think it works for everyone. Or are you the only exemption? Thanks for the recommendation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 08:01 PM
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If you want to move the goalposts, you can try but I'm probably not going to be interested. I'm talking about honesty specifically. It helps if you pay attention to context.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 06:54 PM
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I will agree with you there. Certain traits are more common within specific genders. Honesty is not one of them, though. I very much disagree with the statement "women's relationships are inherently toxic. They are not genuine and are harmful"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 06:28 PM
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Yes, r/relationships counts as a legitimate source. /s because I have no faith in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 06:26 PM
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If you can find legitimate, peer reviewed information that clearly states men are more honest than women, I'm obviously going to be open to it. Any reasonable human should be open to new information.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 06:24 PM
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Lol I can't find any, so I'll just sling names and sulk in a corner
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 06:23 PM
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Mmmm no, it's not fact. Unless you're literally saying that vaccines cause autism, the earth is flat, chemtrails control our brains, lizard people exist etc. Those are peoples opinions, I guess that makes them fact. That's concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 06:18 PM
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You spend way too much time on tumblr or reading tumblr hate subreddits if that's how you think women actually are with each other lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 06:17 PM
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You should put that on a coffee mug! Maybe a wall decal, like "Live, Laugh, Love"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 03:02 AM
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It is inherent, Before I even bother going down this road with you, do you have anything legitimate to back up this claim with? I don't accept opinions, anecdotes, or subjective experience. I do accept journals, studies, even articles from reputable sources. You know, the general guidelines all reasonable adults should have when making definitive claims. If you specifically claim that what you're stating is opinion, I'm fine with that too. As long as you're not trying to kid yourself by stating …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 02:32 AM
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Yes, making a snide remark and making a definitive claim are the exact same thing. Specifically saying "I don't need scientific studies when I've got subjective and anecdotal proof" is always a good thing. Especially when you use those views to colour an entire group of people with the same broken crayon. If this is the best you can do, that's sad. Have a good night bud. Also, make sure to smash that downvote button, I like a visual confirmation that you know I'm right 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 02:15 AM
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What "actual studies"? All you said was that you "haven't seen any studies or scientific papers that can definitively say men are more honest than women." You not knowing about something does not mean that thing doesn't exist. Absence of evidence is not evidence of absence. A claim was made, and from my basic knowledge, it's incorrect. It's on him to provide proof of his claim, and anecdotal stories is not proof. Sandman's anecdotes are far more persuasive than your, what would you even call it?…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 01:42 AM
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I'm sorry, I'm really not trying to be rude, but I don't see a productive or useful conversation happening with someone who thinks anecdotes are more reliable or meaningful than actual studies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 12:18 AM
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I could see men being more direct than women when it comes to honesty, but I haven't seen any studies or scientific papers that can definitively say men are more honest than women. Honesty is not gender specific, it's a personality trait that varies wildly from person to person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 10:04 PM
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I'm with you. I also try to be as honest as possible with my friends, and I don't encourage them to do shitty things. I'm not a huge fan of r/redpillwomen but they are good about encouraging women to take personal accountability in their dating lives. I think that's how TRP gets people, though. On the surface, it's a reasonable ideology. Don't put women on a pedestal, work on yourself first, take accountability. That's actually a super healthy mindset to have. It's just when they start AWALTing,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 07:41 PM
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This is ridiculous. That kind of behaviour is definitely not inherent or specific to women (the irony of you literally saying "yes-men" and amending it to "yes-women" is pretty funny though, you really didn't notice as you typed it out?) Those types of friendships in women's friend groups do exist, but they also exist in men's friend groups as well. Anecdotal evidence: my friends definitely don't enable shitty behaviour from me. We don't have toxic relationships with each other, the exact opposi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 07:36 PM
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You'd think alimony would be awarded more often for the amount that it gets brought up I figured it would be something like 60-70% of divorces. I've never actually looked into it until I made that comment I was just wondering if they had different numbers, and where they might have gotten them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 08:08 PM
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Could you provide a source for alimony? The only statistic I can find is that 6% of divorces actually award alimony to someone. That doesn't seem right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:59 AM
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What a good response, such a succinct way to let me know that conversation with you is a waste of my time. Merry Christmas 🎄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 06:51 AM
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Your exact comment: It's neat how when an ounce of responsibility is kicked over to the Mom, it suddenly becomes "ridiculous." What part of being a primary or sole caretaker of a child doesn't involve responsibility? What do you consider "recording what you spent child support payments on"? Does rent/mortgage count? A mom is essentially charging her child rent? Utilities? Split them equally with your child? Grocery shopping, mom buys a bushel of apples, child will eat some, mom will eat some. Sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 05:13 AM
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?? You don't need a court or lawyer to tell if your child is being cared for. If you think your child is being neglected, there are options for the non custodial parent to address these concerns. If your child is being taken care of, then clearly money is going towards their wellbeing. Your child support is being used as intended. They have a roof over their head (rent/mortgage), lights/heat/water (utilities), food (groceries), clothes, school supplies, toys and games, medical care, dental care,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 06:28 AM
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So you consider having primary or sole custody of at least one child is less than an ounce of responsibility? Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 01:30 AM
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But you can do that already. Is the child fed, clothed, safe, well provided for? If yes, then the funds are being used as intended. If no, then there's clearly some neglect happening and the child needs help.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 01:27 AM
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I'm just wondering why the fuck they posted this here and not in the red pill sub
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:33 PM
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No shit. I also can't help but wonder about more women being fired if someone like OP is in charge of that. I'm not saying women can't be fired by their own merit, but OP gives off hardcore "target women" vibes. Especially when he encourages men to report women for looking at them too often. Looking at someone =/= sexual harrassment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 03:38 AM
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Your flair definitely checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 01:10 AM
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The profile of the highly desirable traits contained three qualities: respectful, trustworthy and honest. The traits for desireable were friendly, dependable and mature, while the moderately desirable traits described the man as having a pleasing disposition and being ambitious and intelligent They applied those characteristics to three pictures. Then they said pick the most appealing man. All of those traits are considered good. So yes, it came down to how the candidate looked. If the least att…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 04:00 AM
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I don't have access right now, but if you read the whole article it sums it up pretty well. The whole study was a clusterfuck, if you're going to examine something like this, this is basically exactly how you wouldn't conduct the study. Each photograph came with one of three trait profiles, which included personality characteristics and attributes that prior studies had determined to be one of three different levels of attractiveness to women looking for potential romantic partners. These were "…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 12:44 AM
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Lmfao, did you read this study? They were supposed to rank each profile, and take into consideration their looks and personality traits. None of the personality traits were negative. They were all things you'd want in a partner, even the moderately desirable profile. All the women had to go off of was looks, basically. Conduct this study with reversed genders and youd see the exact same results. "Oh, 3 women with amazing personality traits, but one is definitely prettier.... who ever will I choo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 12:03 AM
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I'm hoping you're against it, but considering which sub we're in, there's a real chance I could be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 11:49 PM
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You do understand how twisted this comment is, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 11:30 PM
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How would you uphold that ruling? Part of sentencing for a crime is determining how "at fault" the perpetrator is. That's why there's different levels of severity for murder. A premeditated murder is different than manslaughter. How could a rapist know if a woman is a virgin or not? What outward clue does he have to base his decision on? What stops a rapist from claiming he thought she was a slut based on some arbitrary judgement to get a lesser sentence? You claim two ends of a spectrum. Virgin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 05:45 PM
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We are talking about public and online harassment. OP mentioned that it happens online as well. Your solution to online harassment is to no longer participate. So do you also think the solution to public harassment is to exclude yourself from society? Because, whether you like and agree with it or not, social media is a huge part of society. Victims of harassment shouldn't get to participate in a huge part of society because they've been harassed?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 04:41 PM
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But what about when you're harassed in public? Is the answer to never leave your house unless out of absolute necessity? Get a satellite job, have groceries delivered to your house? If the answer to online harassment is to completely remove your online presence, shouldn't the same advice be given for irl harrassment?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 03:32 PM
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So, don't participate in modern socializing. Live like a hermit. That's the only way. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 02:44 PM
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I was going to suffocate myself using helium. Does that make it Skittles or Tic Tacs? I was kind of thinking Airheads get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 11:27 PM
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I'm no therapist, but isn't developing a morbid sense of humor a totally natural coping mechanism for troubling/traumatic experiences? I think it's safe to say therapists see and hear some shit. Sure, they can compartmentalize, but you've gotta cope with the subconscious somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 11:18 PM
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So she can't love him because she won't let him put it in her ass? There's no way she experimented when she was younger, and found out that bjs and anal aren't for her? Is there a website somewhere with a list of all the men she's ever fooled around with, with some sort of coding system to let you know what she has/hasn't done?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 04:54 AM
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Just went through your post history. You're an extremely toxic person. I hope you get some real help someday. If telling yourself you "won" something on Reddit helps you feel better, I'll let you have that. You clearly need it, no one should be as miserable as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 11:40 PM
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Are you still going on about this? It's fine that you want to completely miss my point, but I'm not interested in repeating it over and over again. You can go ahead and think abortion is murder, you have that right. I'm assuming that you're a guy, I wonder how strongly you'd feel about the government interfering with citizens bodily autonomy if the shoe was on the other foot. Luckily for women, abortion is legal and they have that choice. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 06:59 PM
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I swear you're trolling me right now. I am not talking about Roe vs. Wade. You're the only one bringing that up. Do you understand what that bolded sentence means? If you still somehow think I'm talking about Roe vs. Wade in any way, just stop reading. I worked in an OR for 6 years. The doctors who performed abortions viewed a fetus under 20 weeks old about as alive as a tumor. It's living cells, yes, but it is not human life. Regardless, I'm declining to interact with you further. You call me d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 03:07 PM
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Lmfao, this is priceless. I'm not American buddy So no, I don't know the intricate details of how your laws came to be. I have my own country to worry about. I don't wake up every morning thinking "I wonder what I can learn in detail about American history today!" And even then, I probably know more about your country than you know about mine. For that, I challenge you to produce a single medical professional, anywhere in the world, who will uphold your definition of life. Doctors who perform ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 02:36 PM
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Haha yes, I totally meant that newborns can take care of themselves. I should have realized I had to spell it out exactly or else people would latch on to any strawman they could. A blob of cells is not able to physically live outside of the womb. Is that easier for you to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 11:16 AM
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No, I'm not saying that at all. You think abortion is murder, because it's a choice to end a human life. I'm wondering why you don't consider miscarriage involuntary manslaughter then. No, there's no way a woman can stop a miscarriage. She doesn't mean to do it. But the fetus is dead. That's the definition of involuntary manslaughter. So how do you come to that conclusion? You don't think that stance is ridiculous? You think that considering a miscarriage as manslaughter is incorrect. That's how…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 11:13 AM
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Lol okay buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 11:06 AM
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LOL I'm the illiterate one? Where in the fuck did I even mention or reference Roe vs. Wade haha You know, there can be other reasons why people think abortion should be a choice. A big point of contention people have is when a fetus is considered alive. But no, don't bother actually replying to what I've said. Make up your own argument 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 11:04 AM
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Involuntary manslaughter is murder without intent. If a fetus is a living creature, and a woman's body rejects it which causes it to die, that's involuntary manslaughter. How do you draw the line there? Abortion is murder but miscarriage is not involuntary manslaughter? Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 02:57 AM
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What makes that stupid? Do you get this offended when a woman miscarries? Do you consider that involuntary manslaughter?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 02:26 AM
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If it can't sustain itself outside of the womb, it isn't alive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 02:01 AM
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Just take a look at various facebook and twitter post from young millennial women saying they've also been 'metooed' because the low-SMV dweeb dared said hi to her or awkwardly tried to flirt with her. Women have a knack of being repulsed by men they perceive to be too low SMV to even be in her presence. Don't underestimate that. Some people did seem to dramatize situations to make them seem more interesting. Having said that, sometimes a person might not say anything wrong or creepy, but their …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 05:13 PM
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I agree with you. And the "having a good cry" bit, sure when you're with your friends, getting support can be incredibly helpful and therapeutic. I think there's a good mix of women who prefer to "have a good cry alone" as opposed to a group setting. Either way, why aren't men "allowed" to have the same resources when they're that upset, as well. Talk therapy is proven to work well for both genders, what's a good cry if not a talk therapy session with some emotion venting thrown in for good meas…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 03:11 PM
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Or is the anger the main feeling expressed because that's the only "acceptable" emotion to express? "Feel like crying? Well you can't, fucking pussy" "Only little bitches cry" "If you cry everyone will think you're weak" Maybe most men don't cry because that behaviour is discouraged, therefore any unacceptable emotions are translated to anger because that's how men are conditioned to react. I've seen many men cry, and besides a few cases, I've never thought any less of them. The few times my opi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 03:07 PM
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Blind rage?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 03:01 PM
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You didn't address anything. You made claims and didn't justify them. Why should support be given? Child support exists to support children. Simple as that. If no child occurs, no support is needed. If a child is born, and support is needed, support should be given. Hopefully from the father. But, we all know there are guys in the world who think they should be able to stick their dick wherever they please and not have to own up to the consequences. So, because of guys like that, the ones who ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 06:51 AM
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Then respond to the part of my comment that addresses the topic. Edit: you might miss this, but are you saying that men leaving after saying they'll be involved is nonsense? As In, it's not common for men to tell women that they'll be there for them and the baby, and then leaving?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 06:41 AM
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Forget about the financial cost What about the physical, emotional, and moral cost to the woman? A man will go through his own emotional turmoil, sure, (am I ok having a baby out in the world and never being able to be involved etc), but I'm sorry, it can't compare to actually having an abortion. Young people who think "I'm careful, it'll never happen to me" end up creating a child they don't plan on, and suddenly have to make life altering decisions in a very short amount of time. So many guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 06:17 AM
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Child support exists to support children. Simple as that. If no child occurs, no support is needed. If a child is born, and support is needed, support should be given. Hopefully from the father. But, we all know there are guys in the world who think they should be able to stick their dick wherever they please and not have to own up to the consequences. So, because of guys like that, the ones who can't take responsibility, the tax payers get to. It's a lot more nuanced than that, but why bother t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 05:50 AM
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I'm definitely not debating you, I'd rather watch grass grow. It would be a better use of my time Enjoy a bitter existence, edgelord.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 06:23 PM
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I went through your comment history, I had to stop at Rape is natural, women actually fantasize about it But the general theme of your comments are "women are inferior and I hate them" So regardless of what anyone says to you, you're going to continue to hate women. Keep thinking that you're "defeating" anyone, most people realize there's no sense in attempting to debate a brick wall that can only argue with their emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 05:44 PM
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Most humans can handle criticism and don't take constructive criticism personally. What I don't agree with is trying to make it seem like one gender is superior than the other, especially based on personality traits that both genders share equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 04:12 PM
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Thanks for explaining your thought process I don't agree with it, but I respect your right to your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 10:29 PM
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You consider that logic? Oh honey You know, I guess you're technically right. I feel like you don't "win" often, so I'll give you that. Try integrating facts into there and maybe someday you'll find life a little less hard :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 06:52 PM
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if you find a stem beta and call him a sexist, he will give you a cushy office job and kiss your ass Oh. if you find a real mysognist and call him a sexist he will tell you to fuck off, so feminists dont bother them Okay... its just a power play Yeah, nevermind. I've learned not to attempt to apply logic to someone who can only argue with emotion, not facts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 06:32 PM
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Aim high! Don't let anyone or anything hold you back! You might have to work harder, but that's only going to make it better when you succeed! One of my engineering professors was a 1st class engineer of a military base's plant for 25 years. He regularly says that he'd rather hire someone who has to work hard to get good grades than someone who barely lifts a finger to get great grades. The hard worker has to really want it to get there. All I can say is, don't beat yourself up over it. Putting …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 05:12 PM
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Haha, ummm.... what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 04:58 PM
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The problem after hiring is how women are treated differently than men at the work place. Taken less seriously, opinion not respected as much, not seen as equals, etc. Yes, exactly! Because women continuously do things that reinforce such behavior. Lol. Can't make a policy for that. No, not at all lol. What do women continuously do that reinforces that? Could you give one example, even if it's subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 04:56 PM
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I wouldn't say I'm passionate about math, but I recently found out that I'm good at it and I actually enjoy it This is coming from a girl who spent her entire education in remedial math, who would break down in tears during math tests because I felt so fucking dumb. Math was essentially torture for me. I didn't quite grasp the basic concepts immediately, and instead of anyone pushing me or spending extra time with me, they immediately just went "well, that's about what we expected" and that was …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 04:47 PM
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Nope, but thanks for the 2 week late reply bud
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 02:51 AM
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But nobody in their right mind or with even the most basic of morals would perform breast augmentation on an infant girl. 100% we're in total agreement! I'm just addressing the OPs overall point about labiaplasty It's common all over the world for infants to have surgical procedures performed on their genitals, boys and girls. Certain areas target boys more, certain areas target boys (read girls) more. I don't agree with it unless it's for medical reasons. When someone grows up, they should be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 12:55 AM
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Lots of women are pressured to get breast enhancements. It's not exactly "the same", but when it comes to sexualized body parts, women's breasts are on the same level as men's penis'. MGM and FGM are comparable in that genitals are being surgically altered. When you talk about preference the way that you are, breast augmentation is on par with circumcision. One more clarifier: in Western culture
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 12:28 AM
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Holy shit you are incredibly invested in this. You made me scroll through my own posts, when do I call people stupid/personally attack anyone lol! At least recently. I called one person dense in response to their post where they literally said the word dummy to me haha Regardless, I don't give a shit anymore. The fact that you're still going on about this proves to me that you literally can not let shit go, which is a good indicator of how a conversation would go with you I'll leave you with one…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 09:26 PM
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Good luck having meaningful interactions if you dismiss opinions that disagree with you as being a waste of time on a debate forum. I'm literally here for meaningful interactions, which is why I didn't respond to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 02:54 AM
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and if you don't wanna waste your time with people who disagree with you, why post here at all? I actually love to discuss and debate with others. When there's a point. I just don't see a point in doing so with someone who honestly thinks things like what you've stated, especially when I have 4 papers due by tomorrow that I need to fine tune. I appreciate your initial thought out response, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 02:53 AM
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So because 6 people agree with you, I need to waste effort writing a reply that, let's be honest, you're just going to totally dismiss because reasons. There's no point in beating a dead horse. And since it apparently matters, I have 9 up votes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 01:37 AM
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Lmfao nope, I just don't see the point into replying to someone who actually thinks this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 10:42 PM
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Lol you're exactly the kind of person I'm talking about Good luck having any meaningful interactions with anyone, ever. I feel bad for you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:57 AM
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I think it is tricky. Women don't owe your their bodies, but they do have more power than most men do in the situation. If a man feels that more and more is being demanded of him and he's getting less and less out of it, I think they are justified in going their own way, because we don't necessarily owe women what they think the price for their bodies are worth either. How do women have more power? No man owes any woman their body. There is never a case where one human is entitled to another hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 03:54 AM
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Strangely quiet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 08:56 PM
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It's a logical fallacy to say "this doesn't happen to me therefore it doesn't happen" Also, to ask a question directed at specific people, but to immediately go on and say that it can't be answered with subjective experiences. How about he asks people who conducts studies on this sort of thing instead of randoms on Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 08:55 PM
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/u/SkinnySweaty raised some valid points against your point. You chose to ignore that and focus on his comments about his frustration with personal attacks. And continued contributing nothing besides salt. You think there needs to be more actual discussion and conversation between TRP and TBP, well here's your chance. Someone's trying to engage you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 04:41 PM
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Doesn't actually address anything that /u/SkinnySweaty said? Check. Does he recognize the irony? Let's find out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 04:27 PM
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/u/cxj and I have talked about this before. Being attacked by a woman is so infuriating and surreal and...horrible. You can't get away, you can't defend yourself, and you can't really call the police. It's like time stops as a tiny loved one assaults you with impunity. I've been in a kind of similar situation, except I'm the girl and I wasn't being attacked by my boyfriend, but he was using physical force to keep me from leaving. I couldn't use physical force on him, he was twice my size and he …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 07:15 PM
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