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Why are those the only three options? I'd guess that he's better at making girls feel comfortable and attractive. Reading through your responses to questions it feels like you're looking for reasons why others are successful that don't come down to skill, or practice, or simply being a good dude. Instead it looks to me like you're looking for a reason you shouldn't feel badly about striking out...
/r/seduction20/05/15 05:33 PM
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I'd go so far as to say you can only lose attraction over text and that you'd be hard pressed to increase it. You made your initial impression, and although texting might feel like you're getting to know someone, it's difficult to generate strong feelings through keystrokes.
/r/seduction13/05/15 02:27 AM
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No, I don't think we all relate to that. In fact I'm praying that nobody relates to it. I'm guessing this is something about kino, but just stop.
/r/seduction24/04/15 06:48 PM
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This might be a comment for the mods but I think questions being asked about specific girls are more meant for /r/askseddit. I think the idea is that people can come on to this particular sub and find content that is of a more general nature that they can apply to their lives. With that said you got upvoted, which to me means there was at least some interest in your post - power to the people. If I was in your position I'd probably go with the dancer girl, if only because athletic girls get my m…
/r/seduction18/02/15 04:47 AM
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I'd like to second /u/619shepard on the exercise thing. It isn't something you do that has an end date on it. Fitness is a constant battle towards goals - something which is a direct parallel to being attractive. It's having the mindset of continually trying to improve, as opposed to "shit, it didn't work for a few months, next." The main question I got out of your post was "What do I do if I think a woman is into me?" A: You ask her out. There isn't a hack to this, there are no shortcuts. You'v…
/r/seduction14/02/15 12:39 AM
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Nah, any laughs is not good laughs. There's a difference between the group jester and cracking attractive jokes. In one case you're seen as entertainment, the other you're entertaining.
/r/seduction14/02/15 12:28 AM
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Try considering it from the girls perspective. I think the issue is that unless you know someone well, the self-deprecating humor can just come across as you being down on yourself. I know that I'm not a huge fan of girls that do this, it speaks of a lack of confidence and can throw out a "give me compliments" vibe. I'm having a hard time reconciling why you lumped overconfident humor and self-deprecating humor into one category - those aren't at all the same. Maybe I'm just misunderstanding. Wi…
/r/seduction14/02/15 12:27 AM
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I think other guys hit the general thoughts regarding conversation on the head. With that said /u/TofuTofu has a couple of great comfort building questions from one of his posts. They are: 1) A time when you were really embarrassed 2) A time when you were really scared 3) Your relationship with your parents & your parents' relationship These are questions a girl has probably never been asked before, and the great thing is the usually bring up other topics of conversation. http://www.reddit.com/r…
/r/seduction13/02/15 04:15 PM
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I agree, awesome list. I'm replying here just because I actually really like how #3 - Confidence is worded. I'd also throw out the thought that a guy who built up a $B company would probably think to himself that he has the wherewithal to learn how to drive.
/r/seduction12/02/15 09:05 PM
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Dude, it sounds like you've had multiple instances of people telling you negative things about yourself e.g. cocky, arrogant, asshole, that you simply refuse to accept might be true. I know that I would have to get pushed to a decent extreme before I would tell someone they're being a dick, so I doubt this is a one time thing with your behavior. The truth is that it doesn't really matter how you think you're portraying yourself, if the actual output people are picking up is wildly different. No …
/r/seduction12/02/15 09:01 PM
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The seddit term for this is outcome independence. You're absolutely right that it's important because it's rooted in being comfortable with one's self. Your last line about being honest about your desire is gold.
/r/seduction12/02/15 08:46 PM
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I'm doing a seperate reply because I wanted to touch base on the "what you'd do if you were cool." /u/DariusSSfJ brought up a great thought, that attractive/cool people have goals or activities they're passionate about. There's also nothing wrong with wanting to be along some of the time - as long as that's because you want to be, as opposed to being forced into alone time. We are how we spend our time. Why do you think people don't like you?
/r/seduction12/02/15 08:34 PM
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If you've been getting feedback from people that you're acting like an ass, guess what? You probably are. That's harsh and it's supposed to be - if people around you are straight up telling you in no uncertain terms that they don't like the way you behave then that's something to take note of. The flip side of it is you "personally think" you're a nice guy. What this means is you have a disconnect between what you think your behavior is like and how others actually perceive it. If I was going to…
/r/seduction12/02/15 08:25 PM
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There's a fair amount of consensus in this thread that your plan as it stands is not the right way to go about things. I'm going to comment on something else, which is your first thought about inaction being the worst thing out there. Dude, this plan sounds like someone who writes down all their to-dos on a post it note, and calls that something accomplished. It's worse than inaction, it's the illusion of progress. Your plan isn't an actual plan, it's a kamikaze attack that only ends one way - b…
/r/seduction04/02/15 07:12 PM
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Jesus Christ on a surfboard, who left the drawbridge open?
/r/seduction04/02/15 07:08 PM
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I was gonna drop a LMGTFY in here, because there's no excuse for laziness. With that said there was actually a pretty interesting article TED wrote up on the topic and seems to pull from the video. http://ideas.ted.com/2014/07/16/7-ways-stress-does-your-mind-and-body-good/ Sidebar: I think all the TED talks now have transcriptions which I've loved. Way easier to read something in five min than listen for fifteen.
/r/seduction28/01/15 05:04 PM
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This is great advice. If you're enjoying what's going on (be it humor, a walk or a cup of coffee) that will show through to your date. It's also worth remembering that everyone has different things they find funny. I can't stand awkward comedy for the most part, but dry, witty, sarcastic and understatement can leave me in stitches. If the girl doesn't think you're funny at all, maybe it was worth finding out you two have a big divergence in this area. It could be a dealbreaker or not, that's up …
/r/seduction28/01/15 05:00 PM
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Great thoughts, I enjoyed your comment! There's a lot of gray area that can happen and it's important to recognize it when it's happening. Glad you wrote it up.
/r/seduction27/01/15 01:34 AM
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I'm a big fan of Mark Manson, and one of my favorite thoughts of his is the "Fuck yes or no" rule. The gist is that both people should be excited to spend time together. If one of you isn't then no worries, just try and find someone who gives you that tickle of anticipation in your gut. It's not an easy rule to apply, especially if you don't think you have that feeling towards anyone or if they're not interested in you. However the power of this litmus rule is that it has you treating yourself a…
/r/seduction26/01/15 06:26 PM
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The body language you're describing isn't actually one of arousal or interest, but rather of self-comfort and self protection. Generally if someone is closing themselves off (like crossing their arms) it indicates discomfort. Another common comforting behavior for women is to touch right at the notch at the bottom of their throat, which is often disguised as playing with a necklace. /u/Schly had an interesting experience with this behavior, and good on him for noticing. I'd guess that a lot of p…
/r/seduction23/01/15 08:58 PM
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As to whether or not you should have gone home with her, that's a decision you have to make as a man - pursue or not. Neither is right or wrong, it's just a choice. Not to be overly analytical but generally if the girl is interested she'll throw out another possible time to get together. If that doesn't happen on your second text I'd say you dip out on the situation. I'm not a guru when it comes to texting which is fine - just think of it as logistical planning. To me the best time to text her w…
/r/seduction22/01/15 07:40 PM
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Your comment about being okay with a few seconds of silence is spot on. I forget where I read it but someone put out the idea that "silence + eye contact = sexual tension" and I've absolutely found it to be true. Another good idea is figuring out a two part date, bouncing between places and making decisions together (even if you've already figured out the itinerary) is great for building a connection. It's also fun, you get to see the girl in a couple of different situations which can be illumin…
/r/seduction22/01/15 07:31 PM
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You're spot on with it not having to make sense. OP, literally look around your room and figure out something you have that you could show here. College student? Maybe you have a poster on your wall. I have a guitar I can't play. Also a couple of plants I've named and it's always been funny. "You've got to come meet Gerald..." It's just an innocent pretext, so she can feel okay with herself for spending some more time with you. The funniest thing I've ever heard is asking a girl to come see your…
/r/seduction22/01/15 07:23 PM
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Maybe the subway just isn't your thing. Or the girls at the bar you're working at aren't as fulfilling as you think they should be - to take from Manson maybe a demographic shift would help. That's not really advice though, I'd honestly give meditation a shot. I can't speak highly enough for the way it's helped me remain present and in the moment - exactly what you're looking for when talking to the hunnys.
/r/seduction22/01/15 03:46 AM
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Dude, this post needs to get taken out back and shot. Congrats on the date, but this isn't anything beyond masturbation
/r/seduction22/01/15 03:43 AM
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