muhkiim Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	How do we have a debate when TRPs don't accept reliable sources that contradict their views and when they continue to perpetuate the very issues they speak out against?	Discussion	muhkiim	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 01:42 AM

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13	The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is generally attractive to women isn't reasonably obvious Respect is given, and trust is earned. Respect is something you should simply give to everyone until they prove that they do not deserve even basic respect. I'm not going to just say "hello, asshole" to some random person I've never met or spoken to. But I might say that to someone who has proven that they are genuine assholes. That's typically what people mean when they say, "Respect everyone."	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 11:42 PM
1	The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is generally attractive to women isn't reasonably obvious Men who have sex on the first date are 304s	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 11:38 PM
6	What do you define as flirting? Finally, someone who makes sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 11:29 PM
1	Would you date a man whom has an OF account and regularly tips on it? Personally, I wouldn't mind. I've never met anyone who has an OF, though, so I'm not sure if there would be any potential issues. Right now, I just see it as an income. Life is expensive. If a guy can make bank cause he has a nice V line or something, go for it. Edit: I initially read this wrong, lmao. If he's a regular customer to OF, I'm not sure. I guess as long as he's not overspending... but I mean, porn is free. I don't really see the point. I guess it would also depend on whether it had a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 02:27 PM
1	The women who advise men they should get to know women as "people" first before trying anything also crap on "sneaky nice guys" for having with ulterior motives No, I'm just cutting through the bullshit The bullshit is you assuming that the only thing of value that women have to offer is sex. Next time a woman complains about men wanting sex with her, I'll bust out this line. It will definitely convince her that it would actually be better to put out because women care a lot about men's feelings preferences. ROFL No one owes you sex. And if you're talking to women who don't care about you or your feelings, stop talking to them. On the same note, if you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 06:13 PM
3	The women who advise men they should get to know women as "people" first before trying anything also crap on "sneaky nice guys" for having with ulterior motives So if the only reason a guy wants to be around a woman is for sex, if she has nothing else to offer him, how is that his fault? You're assuming women who have male friends only have sex with them, and you're assuming they don't have any platonic relationship of value to have with them. Getting to know your potential partner and learning to value that relationship is different from masquerading as a friend only to discard the friendship when they can't get their dick wet. Huge difference, and I'm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 05:23 PM
6	It is almost impossible to talk redpill men out of their positions because doing so would contradict their lived experiences. Bluepill needs to provide a better explanation for these experiences, not argue that the experiences themselves don't happen Yeah, those things happen. Men and women, quite frankly, fuck around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 10:27 AM
9	It is almost impossible to talk redpill men out of their positions because doing so would contradict their lived experiences. Bluepill needs to provide a better explanation for these experiences, not argue that the experiences themselves don't happen I mean, if you have the name and phone number, you can easily find the home address online. Hence why people don't hand out personal information to online strangers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 10:26 AM
5	The women who advise men they should get to know women as "people" first before trying anything also crap on "sneaky nice guys" for having with ulterior motives It's always good to be friends with your partner. If you start out as friends, cool. The only thing people have an issue with is someone pretending to be your friend, building that platonic relationship and coming to value it, only for the other person to scrap the friendship once they know they're not going to either get laid or get into a ltr. Personally, I'm always for people just being upfront about their intentions. At least in my experience, it leads to fewer complications. Sure, rejection…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 10:07 AM
1	Have you ever met a man that you instantly were sexually attracted toward ? So I'm bi. Probably more "homoflexible." I prefer women, and I find myself attracted to women on a more regular basis. But there was this one guy that I was just instantly attracted to. Not just attracted, though, like... I wanted to pounce on him lol I think it was a combination of the way he carried himself, his interaction with people (we worked together at the time), his physical appearance, and even how easy it was to talk to him. I'm obviously listing things I was able to observe about him…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 03:03 PM
1	Have you ever met a man that you instantly were sexually attracted toward ? Lmaooo I would've been laughing so hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 02:55 PM
10	This post is not really about Mens rights, but quite frankly I'm terrified. Honestly, you just have to be careful who you get involved with. My mom screwed over my dad. My sister was abused by her boyfriend/baby daddy. My friend is currently dealing with an abusive girlfriend. Just be careful. Understand what healthy relationships look like. But honestly, you're young. Focus on friends and your goals right now. You have the rest of your life ahead of you.	/r/MensRights	22/07/22 03:07 AM
22	This post is not really about Mens rights, but quite frankly I'm terrified. Eh. My mom has a healthy relationship with her father and she screwed my dad over big time. Good parental relationships are not a guarantee they'll be a good partner.	/r/MensRights	22/07/22 02:58 AM
1	Sex strike Weird take on her part. I'd understand if her partner had been involved, but how does refusing to have sex with your partner influence those in power thousands of miles away from you?	/r/MensRights	27/06/22 03:11 PM
1	Should women contribute to half of all bills regardless of differences in income? Depends on what works for the couple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 02:01 PM
1	What's your thoughts on the idea of a financial abortion? Also kevin Samuel's is dead, thoughts? But the proposition is that when a woman is early in her pregnancy, she has to tell the guy and he immediately signs away all obligations and financial responsibilities to the kid. But he has to be told early on and given the option to do so. Hypothetically, this would work. I feel like most women don't want anything from the father of they're not going to be involved. I don't know the stats on this specific issue, or if there are stats about it, but I know a couple single moms whose baby daddy'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/22 02:44 PM
1	would you be in a relationship with someone if sex is off the table I'm sure you could easily end up with another shitty person, and then another one, and another one until you just lose faith in people eh? Oh, for sure. But even if the people are not shitty, feeling like you're reliving your trauma over and over again can cause more damage, hence my ankle story. I had a girlfriend who would do this kind of thing. She seemed to have a "I'm tough, I can handle it" deal going on. Tough has nothing to do with it though. Crazy Yeah, for me, I really thought I could …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/22 11:55 AM
1	would you be in a relationship with someone if sex is off the table What was unhealthy about it? Aside from not going to therapy sooner Mostly just the fact that I could have made it worse. I sort of "lucked out" in the sense that I found a steady partner (my fwb). A lot of trauma survivors who do what I did will end up sleeping around with a lot of people, which is not necessarily a bad thing, but it can impact your self esteem, potentially expose you to health risks and safety risks (if they hook up with random strangers), and it can also end up manipulating h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/22 03:15 AM
1	would you be in a relationship with someone if sex is off the table No, I don't mind talking about it. I recently found talking about it actually helps me kind of work through what's left. I was assaulted 5 years ago. For me, I had this mindset of, "This person already violated me, I'm not going to let them ruin sex for me." I ended up hooking up with a few people before I landed on a pretty steady FBW. Honestly, I'm pretty sure I "trauma bonded" with him. Even if he doesn't know it, he helped me work through a lot, and we still check up on each other, but we ke…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/22 01:35 AM
1	would you be in a relationship with someone if sex is off the table I wanted to answer your question, but decided a short article was probably going to be better than my own attempt at explaining.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/22 12:59 AM
1	would you be in a relationship with someone if sex is off the table Well, what do you want me to do? Lie? I'm not talking a few weeks from the day I met the girl, I'm talking a few weeks of trying to have sex. Hell, it takes me a few nights of "trying" to have sex before I'm comfortable enough myself, so I can at least sorta understand. I don't think there's any trauma so bad that you can't work through it in a few weeks I mean... everyone responds to trauma differently. For me, I "coped" with my trauma by being "overly sexual." Some people kinda close up. It's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/22 12:38 AM
1	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage Keeping "back up" options just seems like an unhealthy thing to do. As for "Evening the playing field..." Are you just concerned that your potential ex will get more action than you? I'm a bit perplexed about what exactly the point of this is. On the one hand, if all you're looking for is sex, I'd say you have a pretty good game plan. But if your goal is to have a serious, long-term relationship built on mutual trust and respect, one in which you both work towards building a life TOGETHER... the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 02:17 AM
1	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps That really sucks, I'm sorry you had to deal with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 11:03 AM
1	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps I won't hold my breath hoping you will. You seem pretty stuck in your prejudice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 05:29 PM
1	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps Couldn't agree more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 05:03 PM
2	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps That's a very sexist and narrow minded view of women. You completely disregarded the fact that we're people. There is more to us than our vagina. Do you only think with your penis? I doubt it. Fix yourself and overcome your misogynistic views.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 05:02 PM
2	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps I don't hate men and NOTHING I have said would give anyone with half a brain the idea that I do. I am NOT dismissing men's issues. I literally brought up the fact that they are STRUGGLING. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 I've repeatedly said how we are all HUMAN. And THAT is the bottom line. WE ARE ALL HUMAN. Get over yourself and stop projecting your own hatred onto other people. Not everyone holds resentment and prejudice the way you do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 01:53 PM
1	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps Lmao no, I didn't. I DID say it is not entirely women's fault. But I didn't say they don't contribute at all. Whatever. You guys are going to twist my words no matter what. I'm done with this thread.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 01:40 PM
2	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps Ummm, excuses? I NEVER said it's okay to be a dick. Whatever. You obviously just hate women. Not my fault you have a deep rooted prejudice. Have fun living a hate filled life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 01:39 PM
2	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps Not sure what I said that makes me seem like a villain lmao I've literally been saying we're all human. Men should be free to express their emotions. Women and men both have their own individual issues, and we can reference history to current events to see how we got to where we are now. Also, reference studies that have been done to evaluate how likely men and women are to seek out help.... What did I say that was so awful? That men and women are both human? Or the fact that women are not ENTIR…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 12:52 PM
2	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps I never said women don't contribute, but go off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 12:45 PM
3	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps Are you going to bring up the fact that men also punish other men for expressing their emotions? I never denied that there was an issue. I explicitly explained it in my long ass post. Honestly whatever. Fucking reddit. It doesn't matter if I reference studies. It doesn't matter if I mention how we got to where we are based on historical events. It doesn't matter. Because I'm a woman and you think I don't give a shit about men. Bottom line is that we're all human. We all have slightly varying exp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 12:43 PM
9	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps You gave no proof lmao Besides, at this point, it also depends on your age range. What are you, forty? Still having to deal with the relic of traditional gender roles and the idea that men and women are basically "different creatures." And you ARE villifying women by saying it's our fault men are unemotional brick walls. You guys are responsible for yourselves. Maybe break the stereotype and fight against the grain the way women have had to and you'll make progress. Obviously the women that give…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 02:12 AM
5	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps And you're just trying to vilify women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 02:03 AM
20	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps Um... women used to literally be sent to psychiatric institutions for having their own ideas. Mental health has only recently begun to be destigmatized. But yeah, women are "allowed" to be crazy because wr have been viewed as less than, emotional, unintelligent, incapable and all the rest for centuries. It's only been in the last century that we have made great strides in finding a place in society. So yeah, women are more likely to seek help and get the treatment they need because society alrea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 01:11 AM
4	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps Are you asking in general or from a personal perspective? When my husband's grandfather died, he bawled like a baby. Which is totally understandable. First of all, he lost a loved one. Secondly, his grandfather was more of a father than his own dad during those formative years. What did I do? I hugged him and comforted him (and did a great job holding it my own tears because I am a sympathetic crier, and let me tell you, trying not to cry with him was so difficult). Bottom line: we're all human.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 12:58 AM
1	women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit. There is no game. You've made that shit up in your head.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 07:08 PM
1	women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit. Also, if your definition if regular includes being deceitful and manipulative, I feel sorry for whoever is involved with you in ANY form. Sexual or platonic. No one needs that toxic shit in their life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 07:05 PM
1	women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit. Guys like you that are going around manipulating women for your own personal gain would only add to the strain. Also, the incel community is mostly a bunch of misogynist men. Obviously they're not getting laid. Most western women don't want to be viewed as an object or an "other."	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 07:04 PM
1	women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit. Obviously you don't care, you're selfish and you don't care that you're lying and leading on MULTIPLE people. Have fun being an asshole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 07:00 PM
–	women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit. Please don't call dating strategy for the purpose of deceit "science." It's just manipulation. Also... yeah. Have you been to bars or clubs? The guys that get laid are pretty straight forward about what they want. Now, if you're sliding into someone's DM's on anywhere besides a place like Tinder.... yeah, you're probably going to get blocked. There's a time and place, dude. Not everyone wants to read about how you wanna fuck on Instagram. Also, side note, you had also mentioned what it takes to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 06:46 PM
–	women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit. Lmao yeah, for majority of us, "closing a deal" takes the bare minimum of being decent and honest. It's not that hard. Granted, if you're in an older age range, you probably still have to deal with the relics of gender roles (asssuming you're working within your own age range), but if you're younger, there's plenty of straight women looking for an actual partner or an agreed "arrangment" (if all you want is a hookup). Again, men and women are humans at the end of the day. Most of us want the sam…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 06:37 PM
–	women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit. Um, I'm pretty sure the only reason you can't be honest is because you're a shit person. You think women are so different from men, you have categorized us in your mind so that you think we cannot see or understand one another as people. If someone is looking for a hookup, they'll have better luck finding hookups without the drama and without all the "extra" if they're honest. I may be a woman, but I'm also bi with a preference for other women. Honesty definitely works WAY better for a successfu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 06:29 PM
1	What should be the consequence of false paternity I don't know what the legal status of this kind of thing should be, but I definitely think that ethically, if you're going to care for a child, you can't just abandon them, blood or not. You're a shit person if you do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 11:33 PM
1	The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety. Lmao Most people on this thread aren't joking. If you were, though, I'm hoping you know I wasn't trying to victim blame.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 09:02 PM
1	The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety. Cool, I went, too. I didn't mean to imply that a victim is responsible for the atrocities committed against them. I clearly stated that a victim is not to blame. If you're going to engage in a conversation, part of that engagement means doing your best to listen and understand the other. Have a good day assuming what I "implied."	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 08:53 PM
1	The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety. You didn't even read my comment, did you? I wrote it out very bluntly that it is never the victims fault. But you also took issue with basic facts. Sorry I can't change the fact that men prey on other men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 08:22 PM
1	The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety. Gotcha. Honestly, I apologize for snapping. I'm so used to men on here using "female" in derogatory ways. I got aggravated. But thanks for the clarification.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 07:57 PM
1	The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety. Lmao Idk if this was sarcasm or not, but you definitely made me laugh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 07:55 PM
–	The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety. Well, that's what the world wide numbers say. Men are generally attacked by other men, and impoverished people are more likely to be involved in unlawful and often dangerous activities. It's not even a gender thing, it's more of a money and access to opportunity thing. It's just that gangs prey on young men and boys because they typically tend to grow into stronger people than girls. Have you ever read any of these studies to try and understand why things are the way they are? It's a fact that t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 07:34 PM
1	The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety. Correction. Women are survivors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 07:15 PM
–	The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety. "Female neuroticism?" That was unnecessary. People experiencing anxiety or other negative emotions based on past trauma should not be described like that. And to add "female" in front of that is just plain offensive. Should we say male veterans experiencing PTSD or CPTSD are experiencing "male neuroticism?" Just because many women have experienced sexual or physical violence and struggle with the emotional consequences of those things doesn't mean it's "female neuroticism." Also, if you take int…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 07:12 PM
–	The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety. Yeah, men face more violence in general. Did you ever look into why? Because gangs actively recruit young men and boys. Because men are more likely to be responsible for income at a young age when in impoverished areas, which often leads to crime involvement. Because men are taught to repress their emotions and that violence is "manly." If the countries around the world focused on early intervention programs for the disadvantaged youth, particularly young boys and men, we would see a drastic dro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 07:03 PM
–	The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety. Almost all of my female friends have either been abused by a man, sexually assaulted or raped at least once in their lives. I was raped once and another time a guy tried to drown me. Women face violence and sexual violence on a daily basis. There's a reason most of us keep one head-phone out when we go for runs, carry mace, or clutch our keys when we're leaving the grocery store. There's many more examples, but to say that it's all in our heads is to completely disregard the reality we face ever…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 06:54 PM
1	Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman? My personal opinion....people caught up in FDS or Red Pill type of mindsets/groups are likely not going to be able to offer the kind of partnership you're looking for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 06:43 PM
–	Frustration with women and their sexual timing largely comes from men who refuse to accept women with a sociosexual orientation similar to theirs I wasn't. Only one of my ex boyfriends was a white American male. And the other negative experiences did not come from ex boyfriends. The white guy that tried to drown me was the son of a family friend. The white guy that raped me was a friend of a friend. I was just explaining how negative experiences can, unfortunately, influence the way we see people. I've recognized how my trauma has shaped my perception of white American men and I am currently in therapy to work on it. But since you asked, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 01:05 PM
–	Frustration with women and their sexual timing largely comes from men who refuse to accept women with a sociosexual orientation similar to theirs Yeah, unfortunately it is very easy for past trauma to create life long bias or prejudice. I was once raped, and another time someone tried to drown me. Both were white American men. I also had a white American boyfriend that wanted a "break," lead me on, and then got with my closest friend (at the time). All of these negative experiences combined with racist attitudes towards my heritage has led me to subconsciously resent and be wary of white American men. I try not to let this hinder my relat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 03:51 AM
7	Frustration with women and their sexual timing largely comes from men who refuse to accept women with a sociosexual orientation similar to theirs ^^ This. 100x this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 03:41 AM
1	CMW: Men don't owe women any commitment after sex regardless of any discussions Commitment is something an individual decides. I take issue with the idea that commitment is somehow fake or disingenuine regardless of any discussions Simply because a person can change their mind at any time. It's a basic fact of life and human interaction that relationships can evolve or completely dissolve, even with a marital contract. Signing a piece of paper doesn't do anything to ensure long lasting commitment besides making it more difficult to separate assets if the relationship ends. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 01:08 AM
3	If men and women can just be friends, Then why do a lot of women stop talking to their male counterpart once they are in a relationship? I dunno. Everyone seems to drop everything for their new partner and that's what makes it last beyond that stage. The only exception is if you knew them for some time before you got together and were around each other enough to bypass the "omgyouresoamazeballsiloveyousomuchmuahmuahmuah!" - phase. Haha. Accurate	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/21 02:55 PM
4	If the redpill is meant to be an unbiased look at the sexual strategies of men and women, why is there so much moralizing and pathologizing of female sexuality? Yeah, this entire post is the reason I only come to this page to read about anything even remotely related to red pillers/MGTOWs. But I don't have an answer for you, other than I've come to the conclusion that most of the guys in those subreddits are just extremely sexist (ie they want for "tradition" when women were sexually repressed, economically oppressed, and subsequently reliant on male dominance/success instead of having individual autonomy, opportunity, sexual freedom and mutual respect)…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/21 06:15 PM
1	This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like? Nah. It's possible either way. Look at Stephen Hawking before he got super rich and famous. College sweetheart married him and had three babies with him. (Obviously they ended up divorcing and he remarried another lady, but it's totally possible). Also, you're not low value for having chronic health issues or mental health issues. You definitely have low self-esteem, but you're not low value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/21 12:44 AM
2	This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like? Depends on what you mean by low value. Are we talking financial status? Personality? Manners? Social ability? Physical looks/attractiveness? I'm pretty sure a general rule of thumb for either is that people WANT a partner that has their shit (mostly) together, isn't struggling to put food in their fridge every month, has a personality compatible with their own, is nice (in a general sense), and has a decent circle of friends, and is considered at minimum mildly attractive. If someone does not ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/21 12:37 AM
1	What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough." Honestly, plenty of stories. A lot of them had variants of "crazy chics." The one that hit real close to home for me was my younger brother with his ex girlfriend. She was super clingy. Possessive. Manipulative..when they broke up, she threatened him and sent him some really, really nasty messages. I'm happy she had moved a couple hours away by this point because I'm sure she would've gone beyond words. 1	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/21 05:16 AM
1	What do you think is the next "phase" of the SMP? Maybe 20 years from now things will change but I doubt it really. Women will have to give up a lot and I don't ever see women least as a whole ever letting go. I definitely think we'll see more of a change in the future generation 20 years from now. Maybe not a drastic as we would like, but we're an adaptive species. Plus, more and more women are becoming willing to pay for dates. Or at least go "halfsies." Definitely not a majority (unless you get into the bi/lesbiab realm, but that's a differe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/21 07:17 PM
–	What do you think is the next "phase" of the SMP? Uh women have been empowered to come forward far more than the last few years, try the last couple of decades. ...yeah. I was making a general statement, not giving a history lesson lol It doesn't assume that. What I was more getting at is that if you remove the outliers (ie the old creepy man) that women are increasingly labeling the act of cold approaching itself as being creepy. I mean. Without that additional background that you just mentioned (and trust me, those creepy old dudes are not th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/21 06:54 PM
1	What do you think is the next "phase" of the SMP? Oh yeah. For sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/21 06:44 PM
0	What do you think is the next "phase" of the SMP? I'd say it's under reported. A lot of male victims don't feel comfortable coming forward, unfortunately. I think men need to create a safe haven group specifically for men (the way women have) to help them gain the courage to come forward/get the help they need when they need it. It would also help if men founded it considering men would feel better validated, and hopefully more comfortable. Hopefully it would also help to alleviate the pressure to be uber "masculine." Being vulnerable is human.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/21 02:34 PM
–	What do you think is the next "phase" of the SMP? I mean, women have already started aborting because they find out the gender is male. It's definitely not super common. And I hope it never becomes common. Abuse towards men is also highly under reported (the same way rape is, whether the victim is male or female- though women have been empowered/encouraged to come forward the last few years, so I'm sure the rates of unreported rapes are dropping when it comes to women...obviously depending on circumstances/regions....I don't see the same thing …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/21 02:28 PM
2	What do you think is the next "phase" of the SMP? miss me with this "both sides" schtick. I've never even seen feminists say things like that. Worst I've heard is them say they refuse to have male children. "Feminazi" what is that I'm not on "both sides." I just make an effort to understand other people. Feminazi, in case you were serious about not knowing, is basically a woman claiming to be a "feminist" but in reality is prejudiced towards men, believes women are superior, and sometimes to the extreme that men are undeserving of rights/life. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/21 02:16 PM
–	What do you think is the next "phase" of the SMP? I know a lot of the men who consider themselves part of MGTOW have basically just given up on women (for a number of reasons). However, it doesn't change that I have seen plenty of endorsement, encouragement, and even suggestions of violence towards women and wanting a return to when women did not have equal rights/opportunities. Obviously, not all of them are like that, but I just avoid pages dedicated to MGTOWs, incels, red pillers and all those categories because I always end up coming across…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/21 01:58 PM
–	What do you think is the next "phase" of the SMP? Yeah, as a woman, I honestly don't care. If someone doesn't want to date or whatever, that's their choice and their life. It's when I start reading or hearing how women are lesser, we shouldn't have rights, and sometimes they even mention violent things.... I'm like, yeah, some of these guys probably couldn't get laid because they're like those batshit crazy feminazies that talk about killing men and aborting babies because they're boys. Being a shitty person tends to chase most people away. Not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/21 05:10 AM
2	Do you believe that everything that people do, is to attract the opposite sex? That opposite-sex attention is the only thing that matters in life? Simple answer: no. I don't think everything that MOST people do is just to attract the opposite sex. Longer answer>>> I take issue with this mindset for two reasons: 1) the hypothetical person living solely to attract others has some serious issues. Mental health is affected when you place your worth in how other value you (in this situation, that would be attraction). Self-esteem. Motivation (what happens when they start getting rejected over and over again? I'm sure that won't end well). 2) th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/21 04:40 AM
0	Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners? My husband is a mechanic with certifications and roughly two years experience. He makes less than 30k a year and we have a 1 year old. After she was born, I had to stay home (well, we decided I would because I made less) because if I continued to work, it would take my income and then some to pay for childcare. Obviously our kid wasn't planned. I'm still finishing my bachelor's and this was definitely a setback, but there's plenty of people in similar situations where if you don't make enough co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/21 02:38 AM
4	In Bihar (India) 9 men per day are abducted for forced marriage. *still a thing	/r/MensRights	26/08/20 08:42 PM
0	[video] Mexican feminists 'protest gendered violence' by rioting and firebombing themselves An example of how governments cover up male victims. Then get mad at the governments that are doing this. It's not the fault of the Mexican feminists. Let's see a source. I'm not going to take the time to link a bunch of articles for you. The issues in Mexico run way too deep and have been going on for far too long for me to just send you a couple articles. If you're so interested in the welfare of Mexico, go research what is happening and find a way to be involved in solving their current issue…	/r/MensRights	11/03/20 05:39 PM
1	[video] Mexican feminists 'protest gendered violence' by rioting and firebombing themselves Not sure why you're jumping to ISIS when we're talking about Mexico. I'm not victim blaming, I'm stating a fact. Majority of the men in Mexico are involved in drug cartels and gangs. They actively participate in crime and eventually they die in the crossfire. I already told you how to solve the issue. Cure the corruption. Get rid of the gangs. Make the cartels extinct. You will find that a lot less men will die over stupid drugs and territory conflicts. Not my fault you guys want to whine about …	/r/MensRights	11/03/20 02:49 PM
1	[video] Mexican feminists 'protest gendered violence' by rioting and firebombing themselves I never said to ignore it. I was explaining why the feminists were rioting. Yes, you want to know why so many men are being murdered in Mexico? Some are innocent bystanders. But many of them are in gangs and drug cartels and actively participate in violent behavior and end up being killed as a result of actively participating in the very thing that gets them killed. The women being murdered are killed by their husbands. Do you see the difference? Do you understand their anger now? Never will I e…	/r/MensRights	11/03/20 02:39 PM
1	[video] Mexican feminists 'protest gendered violence' by rioting and firebombing themselves I'm not sure why you mention race, all I did was refer to the Mexican women because they are Mexican because that is their nationality. And yes, every murder is absolutely atrocious. I never devalued other tragedies. I did, however, point out that women were being murdered by men at alarming rates and most of those men were people they knew, in many cases, their husbands or boyfriends. How would you feel if men in the US all of a sudden started being killed at alarming rates by their wives and g…	/r/MensRights	11/03/20 12:08 PM
1	[video] Mexican feminists 'protest gendered violence' by rioting and firebombing themselves You do know there's a lot of gang and drug violence and things of that nature and majority of the perpetrators are also male? So most of the men being killed are being killed by other men. The women being killed in Mexico are often times being killed by people like their own husbands. Yes, every murder is terrible, but the fact that they end up blaming the female murder victims for their own death is disgusting and purely based on their sex.	/r/MensRights	11/03/20 11:41 AM
1	Equality. Its clearly evident. Data from IG. My point still stands. Black people aren't really oppressed in the US the way they used to be. Gay people have equal rights now. Should we start devaluing black history month, too? Discontinue pride/LGBT events? Whining about how many posts are put up on national mens day vs national women's day is kind of pointless. It's like a white person saying why don't we have a white history month, or why don't we celebrate more white people?	/r/MensRights	11/03/20 05:49 AM
1	Equality. Its clearly evident. Data from IG. Lmao. This is like wondering why there's black history month or why there isn't a straight pride parade. People post more on national women's day because women have historically been oppressed	/r/MensRights	11/03/20 05:45 AM
1	[video] Mexican feminists 'protest gendered violence' by rioting and firebombing themselves Lol "violent Mexican feminists." Yeah, let's just ignore the fact that women are killed by their husbands on a daily basis in that country and then the murder victims are blamed for their own death. You know, it kind of makes me think of the attitude people have towards male rape victims, and it makes me sick. People only take being abused for so long. Do I condone rioting? No. But I just can't look past the fact that all of you overlooked the suffering that women endure in that country. It's no…	/r/MensRights	11/03/20 05:39 AM