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muirnoire/r/seduction26/07/19 04:00 PM
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You shouldn't be finding a gf (which implies actively searching for one), you should be attracting one. That is the entirety of the problem. She finds you - you don't find her . Your value proposition needs to be so damn high you don't even have to try. Learn the art of being a gentlemen. Bros think going to the gym and struting around in athleisure is somehow going to be attractive. There is so much more to being a man. Find a passion - vintage cars, motorcycles, flying, clothes, food, investin…
/r/seduction20/07/26 06:00 AM
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If your hygiene and grooming were on point, you were dressed in at least clean jeans and a nice t-shirt, flossed brushed, breath minted up, and came in with a smile and happy to see her...yeah, should have held her gaze and sensed whether you could go in for a hug, a handrub on her lower back, and and escalate for the kiss. She probably didn't feel desired. Or she was hungry and disappointed you didn't bring some Chinese takeout for after.
/r/seduction17/05/26 05:15 AM
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Old timer here. Just some thoughts. Well north of 100 partners before getting married and settling down. Sometimes we go too deep into technique. You're making it harder than it has to be. If all you want is conquest, that's ultimately a hollow deeply unsatisfying zero sum game. I'd advise getting that out of your system early. Find the art of it. Enjoy women. Spend some time with them after conquest. Learn to really enjoy being with them. They are amazing! Literally the greatest thing on earth.…
/r/seduction08/05/26 06:38 AM
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She has decided within 15 seconds of meeting you. She is mostly waiting for you to disqualify yourself. If you pass that test you will sleep with her, assuming her initial evaluation was in your favor. Comments like "I just want to be friends" early on are her just wanting to be sure you aren't an idiot or hiding undesirable behaviours. "I just want to be friends" later in the relationship means she's likely deemed you an idiot and you have disqualified yourself.
/r/seduction06/05/26 07:00 PM
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Somebody sticky that comment
/r/seduction28/04/26 05:48 AM
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She had an itch. You scratched it. Sometimes that's that.
/r/seduction11/04/26 07:52 AM
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Look for girls that aren't bitchy and stuck up. In fact, make it personal policy to ignore the type. Why would you want to pursue a problem. Plenty of sweet sexy kind well raised girls who are dtf, date, or marry. Bitches get bastards. Water finds its own level. Assuming you are a high value male, why are you trying to match with stuck up bitches.
/r/seduction10/06/24 05:04 PM
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Practice, practice, practice.
/r/seduction25/04/23 06:07 AM
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Sales is just making a product attractive enough that it is bought. Sales is attraction. In that sense, dating is sales.
/r/seduction18/04/23 01:17 AM
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Like to be approached by attractive guys. You do not need to be tall or handsome or have a full head of hair to be attractive. To be attractive to quality mates you do need to be reasonably well dressed, fit or at least happy with your physical shape, smelling good with top rate hygiene you've put some thought into, with a well thought out and executed direction in life. Attract don't chase still applies. Approach and let your attraction work.
/r/seduction07/04/23 05:40 PM
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Dating apps are the stupidest way on earth to meet a partner. Join a hiking group. Volunteer to care for injured wildlife. Travel to Thailand. Play ping pong or badminton. Join a weird religion. Borrow a puppy. Dating apps are literally the lowest common denominator.
/r/seduction19/10/22 12:29 AM
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I thought this was an obscure reference to the Oh face.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:14 PM
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I always assumed that meant we were definitely having sex. It's a tease and means they really like you.
/r/seduction18/07/22 03:50 AM
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Monkey branched.
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:04 PM
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No failures, bro. Only lessons learned.
/r/seduction14/05/22 07:48 PM
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Selling exactly nothing.
/r/seduction14/05/22 07:48 PM
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You got used as a meal ticket. Looks aren't everything. She's a very low quality prospect. Move on and qualify your dates better next time.
/r/seduction14/05/22 05:02 AM
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Texting is for meeting.
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:57 AM
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Jesus, dude take the pictures.
/r/seduction26/10/21 03:42 AM
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Flirting is being irresistibly likeable.
/r/seduction26/04/20 01:12 PM
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You let beta with the beer block your game. You needed to grab her hand and get out of there. She wanted to get high. "Let's get out of here." She was hot then. Cold later. Girls run hot and cold. Strike when they're hot.
/r/seduction07/03/20 01:29 PM
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I've finally met one that loves me like no other. It can take awhile. I'm 59 years old.
/r/seduction06/08/19 07:52 AM
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Spoiler: Eventually the whole world will become your comfort zone and there will be nothing to leave.
/r/seduction25/01/19 01:31 AM
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Whatever you believe becomes your reality. Research scarcity mentality vs abundance mentality.
/r/seduction28/11/18 11:22 PM
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If you have three to five girls in orbit around you, this shouldn't be a problem. Never fixate. There is magic in having options. How many boys / men do you think she allows to orbit around her ? Twelve? Eighteen? Twenty-four?
/r/seduction28/11/18 01:48 PM
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Quality content. Print it out and memorize it.
/r/seduction28/11/18 09:42 AM
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"How do you spell your name?"
/r/seduction07/11/18 02:12 AM
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Low Value Woman.
/r/seduction17/06/18 02:30 PM
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It can be done through other means including optimizing personal physicality and health (physical, emotional, mental, social, and spiritual health.) It can also be done through contributions to community and society through involvement in institutions (academic, religious, community, charitable institutions.) Financial success is certainly traditionally part of the equation but it's possible to find success without great wealth or the use of wealth and status signals. You might find it interesti…
/r/seduction14/06/18 04:54 AM
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If there is one secret to good game it's good self-esteem and confidence. There are a thousand things you can do to improve self-esteem and confidence. Start there. Good game will come as a result of bullet-proof self-esteem and rock solid confidence. Not until.
/r/seduction14/06/18 12:41 AM
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Why are you looking up the scale? My god, all those horny 18 year olds. Once in a lifetime opportunity.
/r/seduction08/04/18 04:12 PM
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You met a chatty, drunk girl and you chatted. You executed exactly nothing. You didn't do anything wrong because you put no known seduction techniques into play. You didn't flirt, charm, amuse, or excite her. And your testosterone should have been firing on all those levels hard. Sounds like she caught you napping or low energy. Do you work out before you do the club / bar etc? Putting your hand on her shoulder meant nothing. She touches your hand. If you were well read on seduction techniques y…
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:43 PM
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58 years old. Never fucked a girl I wasn't friends with other than miscellaneous "smash and dash" encounters, aka one night stands. Great advice. The whole friendzone thing needs to die. I want as many female friends as possible. You want a reputation as a great male friend to women. The gates of heaven will be open to you. It's both what you know and who you know and what they think of you. So many guys trying to be formulaic when they could just learn to be an all-round successful social anima…
/r/seduction03/04/18 01:41 PM
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You actually sounds pretty cool. There's a cool chick for you out there soon. Keep at in the laid back style you've got. Should be fine. It's a numbers game.
/r/seduction28/09/17 05:15 AM
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It's in the kiss. They'll kiss you once to see if there is chemistry. If not, you'll never hear back from them. You said the second kiss was weird. If it was for you, it definitely was for her. I'd move on. She'll let you know if she's interested. She'll pick up your call. Answer your text and so on.
/r/seduction28/09/17 05:14 AM
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Does she even like that kind of music? Did you care enough to find out? That's where women are at.
/r/seduction28/09/17 05:08 AM
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You're sending seduction game signals which turns women off. Just make friends with women and do fun outdoorsy physical things with them. Stop thinking about dating and start thinking about engaging in an activities lifestyle that includes both male and female friends.
/r/seduction28/09/17 01:22 AM
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Girls don't think; they feel.
/r/seduction19/09/17 03:28 PM
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Bingo. We have a winner.
/r/seduction19/08/17 03:46 AM
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There are ten guys in orbit around her. Relax. Your time will come. I don't think the average young guy realizes that there is always competition for a woman's attention if she's reasonably attractive. You're challenge is to be the most interesting of the ten. If she's not calling you; you're probably not. Put yourself in her shoes. What would get your attention? What would you find attractive? Who would you want to hang out with and why? Creating attraction is hard work. Your competition is wor…
/r/seduction27/07/17 12:50 AM
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Ratio of women to men at local salsa night about 10 to 1. Guy who has his arms around around the waist of more hot, sexy, dressed to kill twenty-something women than any other, is north of 80 years old. Shhh, OP. Giving away the big secrets now.
/r/seduction21/07/17 01:22 AM
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Your attractiveness leads to her sexual arousal. Developing a deep and permanent attractiveness is all you need to monitor and develop. Biology will take care of the rest. She knows you want to fuck her. She knows she needs to fuck. Take care of making yourself as attractive as possible and the biology will take care of itself.
/r/seduction12/07/17 06:32 AM
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Disagree that comfort is more important than attraction. Comfort is a byproduct of hitting all the attractiveness signals. Agree with the premise that there can be no attraction without comfortableness. Agree that an aura of discomfort precludes attractiveness, but so do many things. Comfort comes from hitting all the bells and whistles of attractiveness. It does not, in and of itself, create attractiveness.
/r/seduction14/06/17 05:05 AM
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This sub is currently infested with blogger wannabes spinning bullshit to get hits.
/r/seduction07/05/17 02:27 PM
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I'll give you the benefit of the doubt but sounds more like a pay to play transaction than a bona fide hook up. Seriously... one pic each? No phone verification? Naw not buying what you are sellin' op. You do this shit in real life you are likely to a. Get robbed. b. Get a ladyboy surprise at the great unveiling. Some of us have actually hooked up online and this is NOT how it goes down.
/r/seduction28/04/17 04:07 PM
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BBD Factor. (Bigger, better deal.) That's what she perceived. Rightly or wrongly, it happens to the best of us. Don't sweat it. You win some, you lose some.
/r/seduction18/04/17 04:12 PM
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Seems like you did a lot right here. Hindsight is 20 20. If I had to suggest one thing in hindsight it would have been to escalate to much more passionate kissing in a way that would have been so memorable she was curious enough to see you again. Kissing with the intention of being literally the best kisser she's ever met. You can't always be the richest or the most handsome but YOU CAN BE the best kisser she's ever met. And that's something girls come back to get more of. I've written a lot abo…
/r/seduction09/04/17 03:39 PM
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Yeah. Glad she messaged you back. That was solid of her. Next! Happy adventures, man.
/r/seduction09/04/17 09:04 AM
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"Hi, I know this is very forward of me, but you seem like someone It would be nice to get to know better. Can we grab a coffee together sometime." (Sure. Heres my number.) I have used this line dozens of times to great effect. It's literally the perfect line. It's respectful. It doesn't put the woman on a pedestal. It allows for the possibility she may not be a nice person (you seem like). It lays a genuine compliment on the girl and girls live for genuine compliments. It has balance and poise a…
/r/seduction08/04/17 06:05 AM
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You connected with drunk girl. Drunk girl became sober girl. Drunk girl liked you but not enough to close you. Sober girl - not so much. They are two different girls. Incredible setting with the rat thing and the homeless guy. I'm guessing there were pools of vomit around too. Sounds like a high quality chick. Don't sweat it. Move on. Also FYI chick's pretty much hate guys who text 'What up" I wouldn't even say that to a girlfriend (it's aggressive and provocative). Pretty much guaranteed to nev…
/r/seduction08/04/17 05:44 AM
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Learn how to say hi. Say hi to one hundred women. When you've completed that - learn how to carry a conversation. You have to learn to walk before you can run. Conversations are comprised of "wh" questions. Who, what where, when, why and how. The secret to having a conversation (you have to converse before you can seduce) is ASKING THE OTHER PERSON QUESTIONS. How are you today? What's your name? What are you studying? How was your day? What do you think of the album by... How is that teacher? Wh…
/r/seduction08/04/17 12:35 AM
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If all you are interested in is bodies, you're doing it wrong. They're not meat; they are living, breathing beings with hopes, aspirations, and feelings.
/r/seduction15/03/17 04:35 PM
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Your 10 is my 2.
/r/seduction15/03/17 03:03 PM
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Both of those women are genuinely unattractive to me. Does that mean they are "above my league" or "below my league"? Yep, below my league. That's entirely based on my mindset and what I value in a woman and has zero to do with my look or appearance or my perception of my own personal attractiveness. It's all mindset and zero to do with largely media generated perceptions of attractiveness. Attractiveness had many more facets than the merely physical. I can tell by looking at both of those girls…
/r/seduction15/03/17 02:59 PM
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You wanna get some food?
/r/seduction12/03/17 03:21 PM
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You miss one hundred percent of the shots you don't take. Yes, if it felt spontaneous to ask her to come back to watch YT videos, you should have. Consolation, you would have at least got her number for being such a bold boy.
/r/seduction12/03/17 03:17 PM
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People who don't initiate (or signal weakly) are not attracted to you. Seduction results from generating attraction. MUTUAL ATTRACTION (the only kind of attraction worth anything) occurs at first contact and is a result of all the steps you've taken to become attractive, preceeding that moment. Master how to create that (deep attractiveness) above all else. If you unlock how to do that, you can trigger it at will, for the life of the relationship. Stop trying to be a Master of Seduction and star…
/r/seduction12/03/17 07:38 AM
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A normal kiss is what your grandmother or mother gives you. Anything with tongue (French kiss) is a sensual / sexual kiss. When you French kiss, it is sexual, plain and simple. If done right it will lead to more and more sexual contact. And just to restate - when you French kiss with a girl it directly creates stimulation in her vaginal area. Can't be any other way. A girl's kiss reflex (mouth, lips, and tongue) and her pussy are hardwired together. That's why some girls kiss you once and never …
/r/seduction05/03/17 05:43 AM
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Kissing if done properly always leads to sex. Kissing is EXTREMELY sexual for girls. Much more so than for guys. Females are directly hot wired between their mouth and their pussy. Whatever you are doing to her mouth you are also doing to her pussy (wet sensual kisses ALWAYS lead to a wet turned on pussy.) Kissing her deeply, sensually, seductively, should always be the goal. Line everything up so that is the easiest decision in the world for her. Needless to say, you should have your look, tast…
/r/seduction04/03/17 01:39 AM
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You don't escalate to that point. She does. Or at least she thinks she does. You just set the stage so it's easy for her to feel comfortable talking about anything and everything with you. You literally have to have every part of your total game on point. The rest will take care of itself. There's not any one thing you do. There's no magic bullet or words or technique. There are a hundred tiny integrated things you do that make her attraction for you so overwhelming, she has no other choice. Her…
/r/seduction03/03/17 04:05 PM
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Girls are tired of it always being about dick, dick, dick. Dicks are figuratively waved in their faces day in and day out. Can you imagine how refreshing it would be to finally meet a guy whose every action isn't a thinly veiled desperate plea to "please, please, please let me fuck you." There are three billion other things to talk about besides dick. Be one of those guys. She knows you have a dick and she knows you want to put it inside her. I guarantee when you finally get to fuck her, it won'…
/r/seduction18/01/17 03:34 PM
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Every girl I ever fucked started in the friend zone. If I could get from stranger to friendzone, I knew it was just a matter of time before we fucked. A wise man told me that sooner or later you will sleep with all your female friends and if you do it right, you'll sleep with some of their female friends too. Own the frame. You designate what friendzone means in your life. Don't let some random female designate what friendzone means.
/r/seduction18/01/17 02:31 PM
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Only the goofy ones. You any good at Donkey Kong? You're giving off really horny vibes.
/r/seduction18/01/17 10:06 AM
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You're ready for a long term relationship. I hope you find a wonderful long term partner.
/r/seduction18/01/17 09:52 AM
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Volunteering. Hiking clubs. Specialized meet ups if the Meet up app is active in your area.
/r/seduction11/01/17 09:00 AM
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I got some cute, flirty, side-eye just today. It reminded of exactly how my girlfriend looks at me sometimes. It's a look that says, "I maybe would fuck you later." It's unmistakable. You meet that look with a look that says "... and maybe I might fuck you too." The cocky, confident, flirty "maybe" aspect of the look is essential on both sides. As to why I'm giving side-eye to cute girls when I'm in a committed relationship? "Baby, you can look at the menu you just can't order."
/r/seduction26/12/16 10:44 AM
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Buy yourself a super bad girl (highly reviewed and rated escort) and just talk with her in a bedroom for a few hours. Tell her up front you have a problem. Get some advice. Tell her what you told us. Don't have any expectations about having sex with her. Tell her it's optional whether you have sex and mean it. You haven't decided if you want to have sex with her. You've come for knowledge. I recommend you invest in three hours of her time. One hour is not enough. Two is borderline. Three is abou…
/r/seduction25/12/16 04:28 PM
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A lot of what the feminist movement (and by proxy mainstream young women) labels stalking now was just part of courtship in the past. Fuck political correctness and all the oversensitive bullshit it has brought to life.
/r/seduction24/10/16 07:54 PM
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Can confirm. WORKED in a hostel as a DJ, doorman at their in house nightclub and as a late night front desk clerk. Had my own bedroom directly off the dance floor. Good times. ALL of the girls who were single travellers were dtf. Local girls would come to the club too. Just not always dtf with you but there was more than enough for everyone. Outsiders who weren't real travelers stood out like a sore thumb though. It's a lifestyle with a very distinctive vibe.
/r/seduction24/09/16 08:55 AM
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There are so many better ways to approach than approaching a group. I never single girls out in a group - just get them all laughing and the one who likes you will do the work. Trying to pick and choose from a group rarely works. Working groups is just making life hard for yourself. Just relax and sit down with them if you can. The longer you present as an outsider the less your chance of integrating which is what you need to do with groups. Integrate then isolate.
/r/seduction11/09/16 07:11 AM
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"Thank you. Let's get together sometime."
/r/seduction11/09/16 07:02 AM
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Good prebuttal on the food date. :) Advanced technique: I'm going to suggest something here that no one else is, but bear with me. This is where your grooming game comes into play. Grooming is a huge part of attraction in the seduction game and you want her attracted enough in this encounter that she wants to swim in your olfactory aura. Shower before the date with something that smells good. Think something that has essential oil sandalwood, vetiver, vanilla, citrus. You should be dressed well …
/r/seduction30/08/16 01:47 AM
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Yep, kissing is the key. Sounds like you can get to that stage so my dear man, you are almost home. Learn to be an even better kisser - a great kisser. Your goal is for the girl to whisper breathlessly in your mouth "Wow, you are a great kisser." Girls have a saying, "It's in the kiss." Girls / women /gfs /lovers /wives require you be a good kisser. If you can get her to say, "you are the best kisser." you will gain a great rep and time, not only with her, but your whole social circle, because s…
/r/seduction30/08/16 12:41 AM
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Good question. Compliment anything but her looks. Every idiot on the planet compliments her looks. Compliment the color choice she made in her clothes (not her actual shirt or her jeans - girls know you mean her tits or her ass when you do that), a piece of jewelry she's wearing (then ask the story behind it), compliment a characteristic of her personality. Good qualities to compliment are persistence, curiosity, courage, leadership, creativity, civic mindedness, resourcefulness, self discipline…
/r/seduction29/08/16 09:30 PM
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What choice do they have? Rude boys are the only ones that have the balls to ask them out on a fucking date.
/r/seduction26/08/16 09:56 PM
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This is good advice.
/r/seduction17/08/16 06:29 PM
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Best wingman you'll ever have is a woman. This is why you don't burn any of your ex's.
/r/seduction15/08/16 05:54 AM
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What is this - the 1950s? Stop going on dates that involve going to dinner. Dinner dates are for girlfriends. Go on cardiovascular dates. Things that get the heart rate and adrenaline up. Buying girls dinner is a trap and you're all over it subconsciously in your post. Don't buy shit for chicks you want to date. Go on running dates, hiking dates, shooting dates, sports dates. Something - anything to get the heart rate up that you can kick her ass at and show you are the dominant fucking animal (…
/r/seduction14/08/16 08:53 AM
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Well stated.
/r/seduction10/08/16 06:59 AM
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You actually have to be a prize. Remember that.
/r/seduction10/08/16 01:21 AM
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You need to act instead of fantasizing. Get around her anyway you can. Flirt with her. Get your hair cut, smell nice, wear new shoes and t-shirt. Flirt with her. Ask if she wants to hang out. She knows you like her so don't worry about that. She's tired of little boys who don't have the courage to ask her out. Be a man. When she says yes, already have a plan. Take her somewhere fun like mini golf, bowling, pokemon go, a firing range, roller coaster, fishing on a boat, hiking (in a group the firs…
/r/seduction09/08/16 12:08 AM
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"There are no leagues in game." Yes and no. Not really true in the beginning; more true when one gains mastery. It's a platitude more than anything for beginners and of no great use, though it sounds good. A magic bullet that doesn't really work, though I wish it did. "There are no leagues in game." Has that really been anyone's experience (other than for the masters)? Jedi mind tricks don't really work. I get what you are saying, but getting to that is, ironically, a long process over a course …
/r/seduction06/08/16 06:24 AM
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Start with women you actually feel are in your league or even a notch or two below your league. The more a woman is out of your league the more likely you are to put her on a pedestal like some goddamn beautiful flower arrangement that's worth a thousand dollars. It's okay to enjoy a bouquet of daisies and work your way up. Kind of refreshing actually. Look at your seduction game as a career. You don't get to the top of a career the first year. You take steps and each step gets you to the next s…
/r/seduction06/08/16 02:14 AM
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You should focus on increasing the frequency and duration of kissing not just general kino. Too many guys don't realize how important prolonged kissing sessions are in the escalation that leads to fucking. It's a step they rush or skip over. She's not going to fuck you if she isn't absolutely enamored - left absolutely breathless - by the way you kiss her. Women are connected in a way that kissing leads them to being sexually turned on. Giving away a huge secret here, but women become hugely tur…
/r/seduction01/08/16 06:25 PM
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Have a cool Instagram account yourself full of interesting pictures of you and your friends in outrageous adventure photographs. Your IG account has to be at least as interesting and well photographed as hers. In other words, your life needs to be at least as interesting and well photographed as hers. Most IG people are hugely style conscious and artistic, have a strong interest in a particular hobby which they document photographically, and appreciate a really high caliber of photography.
/r/seduction31/07/16 04:38 AM
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Chicks are sometimes like a cat playing with a mouse. They want to see how the mouse will react given a certain situation. It makes them feel powerful when the mouse trembles. Pro tip: Don't be a mouse. Be a big brawny cool cat with huge balls. This is, by the way, how you get to lick the pussy of your dreams.
/r/seduction13/07/16 02:08 AM
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Sounds like you've transitioned from being a boy to a young man. College is a candy store. You'll do fine. Keep learning especially when things don't go as planned (some other guy was there before you and figured out a solution and wrote about it online ). Learn from your successes and your failures, but it sounds like you've already got some good skills that will get you play and will serve you well in college. Remember life isn't all about the pussy. Give other aspects of college life equal at…
/r/seduction20/06/16 05:10 AM
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Own the frame. And as others have said if she's on a date with you, she should be quick to make it clear, after some pleasantries, that she's with you and that any further advances from the interloper are inappropriate. If she does anything else it's the last date and the date is getting cut short. Nobodys got time for that shit. And why are you somewhere other vultures are swooping in? How are you gonna fuck her there? Isolate...
/r/seduction20/06/16 04:52 AM
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10pm? Sounds like drinks and dtf. Be clean, smelling nice, accessorized, and looking sharp in clean clothes. Wash your ass and dick. They can tell if you have by the way you carry yourself. Assuming she shows, should be easy peasy.
/r/seduction20/06/16 04:46 AM
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Try approaching immediately after very, very heavy exercise. Your synapses will be firing in an entirely different way that makes approaching much more fluid and spontaneous. Your heart pumping will get you out of your head and into your physicality. Right now you trying to mentally rationalize something that is viscerally physical ( How to get "looser".) Get into your physicality. That's actually where attraction starts. The words work synergistically through high energy physicality - physical …
/r/seduction16/06/16 09:10 AM
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Ask a girl these thirty six questions and she will fall in love with you.
/r/seduction16/06/16 09:02 AM
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Laughing at your jokes, acting shy / bashful around you, touching you with absolutely any part of her body, smiling with her eyes at you, prolonged gazing at you, being submissive around you.
/r/seduction11/06/16 09:51 AM
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Why are they bullshit? You are still approaching online. You literally have thousands of women to potentially make a connection with, vastly broadening the odds of finding a good fit. I'm 56. I used a dating app to find my 28 year old girlfriend. I went through literally thousands of profiles before she messaged me and we hit it off. I was viewing one thousand or more profiles a night (however cursory) including hers before she messaged me. I've chatted with scores and scores of girls online. So…
/r/seduction06/06/16 12:40 PM
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Your best wingman will always be a woman.
/r/seduction31/05/16 08:56 AM
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Best way I've found to keep a conversation going is ask girls opinions about something. About an hour later you might have to speak again. But seriously. Give them a comparison choice. Is chocolate better than vanilla? Could you see yourself getting comfortable with a man who likes strawberry? Why? Do you like strawberry? No I'm a chocolate man myself. I could never see myself with a girl who likes strawberry. Unless you like strawberry. Really? No I'm a chocolate guy (most girls like chocolate.…
/r/seduction31/05/16 08:54 AM
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Hot girl was the gay guy's wingman. Always try to be the hunter not the hunted. Ahem. Need masculine energy? Go to a firing range and buy fifty rounds. You'll be fine.
/r/seduction31/05/16 08:39 AM
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Dry spell. Take up a hard workout regimen or increasing your income for three months (or both). Getting your bone wet is not all there is to life. When you get back in the game you'll be so fresh and sharp, girls will notice. Get back to us then.
/r/seduction31/05/16 08:29 AM
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Dude, you bedded a stripper. Most guys don't ever get that experience. That's the best you can do with them. The pinnacle. 99% of the time, they are not relationship material. They are human though and deserve to be respected and not to be objectified. She has a thousand guys in her orbit and she picked you. Take the win and move on. Hope you got some pics with her. You'll cherish those when you are an old man. The "you might not like me anymore" comment pretty much sealed your fate with her and…
/r/seduction31/05/16 08:08 AM
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Yeah. Here's a little relationship road map / timeline for y'all. "Comunicating" - (let the interrogation masked as playful flirting begin.) "Dating" - (she's NOT your GF when you are in the dating stage, doofus.) "Exclusive with separate cribs" - but not living together (NOW she's your GF, champ.) "Exclusive living together" - 6-12 months as "exclusive with separate cribs" and maybe you can talk about moving in together (cuz she's proven she's not effen crazy.) Your relationship status should r…
/r/seduction29/03/16 12:18 PM
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I really don't like this question from women, especially early on. It's such a calculated and transparent move, especially if it comes up in the first fifteen minutes. Yeah, yeah, I know they are " just making conversation." Bullshit. They are qualifying you. As one intelligent woman shared jokingly with me, "Let the interrogation begin." It gives them the frame long before I'm willing to give it. I've used various answers to this question. If I'm feeling playful: Her: What do you do? Me: Whatev…
/r/seduction24/03/16 09:49 PM
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Not where I choose to play. Good luck.
/r/seduction21/03/16 04:57 AM
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I always had good luck with girls that like to hike in nature ( which is all of them). Start out in the first time or two in a group if you have to, but before long you should be able to hike just with her. Take her on high energy solo activities; anything where the sweat is flowing hard. Hiking, biking, working out together, running together are good places to start. Bonus, they cost very little, you are alone together, and you are in nature ( trust me, she wants to be in nature with a guy she …
/r/seduction21/03/16 12:48 AM
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"Hi, I know this is really forward of me, but you seem like someone I would like to know better. My name is...."
/r/seduction17/03/16 06:49 AM
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Develop a balanced, calm, confident attitude, long term body sculpting regimen, a practiced and well developed self deprecating sense of humor, optimal diet that radiates health; own a modest well kept home in a good neighborhood with professional landscaping and a pool; practice and develop a sense of aesthetics and good taste; acquire a superb audiophile quality sound system and music collection, a high quality motor vehicle or two, an ability to travel, an investment portfolio, no debt, meani…
/r/seduction12/03/16 06:27 PM
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High quality clothes can help. Try Brooks Brothers.
/r/seduction12/02/16 06:52 AM
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Awesome. Enjoy life.
/r/seduction29/01/16 06:27 PM
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Sounds like you are trying too hard right now. Might mistakenly read as desperate. You actually have a pretty good record of success. A lot of guys would kill to have six notches at your age. Chill for while. Take a step back. Get the obsession with seduction out of your life for some time. Focus somewhere else. Partake in practicing some selfless actions ( doing some things that benefit others more than they benefit you.) Help a friend move, help your friends in general, give back to your frien…
/r/seduction29/01/16 08:47 AM
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I suggest you consider not trying to pick up at parties, clubs, and bars - at least as your primary hunting grounds. I know that's really hard for the majority of guys to wrap their minds around, but I think this is the biggest mistake young guys make. I mean if that's the extent of your socialization world, I guess that's what you have to work with. But, relatively low quality and low percentage odds compared to almost anywhere else. Unless you are looking for an alcohol skewed encounter ... th…
/r/seduction23/01/16 12:09 AM
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What worked for me was to be physically amped... so, less in my head and more in my physicality. Take a date hiking, climbing, paddling, etc. Much easier to be amped when your heart rate is up and the pheros flowing. It turns women on no end to see a guy exercising. The kisses come naturally...
/r/seduction22/01/16 11:57 PM
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This is an excellent answer.
/r/seduction22/01/16 11:48 PM
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Text her your Driver's Ed schedule. It's human and real. "Hey, 'girls name here'. Here is my Driver's Ed schedule tomorrow." Then text, "What time would work for you?"(Assumptive Close).
/r/seduction22/01/16 09:10 PM
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" I said Saturday but not 100%." That's probably where you lost her. If that wasn't 100% true or sincere (be honest with yourself here) she may have caught a whiff of "player" and "game" and dropped you. Prior to that, she rescheduled and showed a genuine interest in being with you - by providing an alternate date. That's actually a really cool thing to do and a green light. It's not a dating version of phone tag. She offered you a chance to close and you waffled. Sure, if she had missed the Sat…
/r/seduction22/01/16 08:24 PM
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Someone once told me that a person will tell you everything you need to know about them in the first five minutes of conversation. You said she told you she still has feelings for her ex. Believe her. She kissed you twice - to make sure. I'd let that one ride since she's not ready and you are too into her. Rebounds suck. It will be better later. Get rid of what I call "Scarcity Mentality." There are 3.5 billion woman on Earth. There is no scarcity. The best thing you could do right now is say, "…
/r/seduction22/01/16 06:55 PM
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The art of conversation is not talking about yourself but getting the other person talking about themselves. Walk past her in the class just before the class calms down. Use gentle questions to begin with. Start with, " hey, hi! I'm 'your name here.' How is your morning going so far?..." Offer your handshake. Congrats you just touched the prettiest girl in class. Everyone in the room felt the sparks. You did what they were afraid to do and you just got tons of attention from every other girl in …
/r/seduction20/01/16 03:14 AM
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30 years old and still "looking for love" in the clubbing scene? I think we've found your problem. I was pretty tired of club girls by the time I was 30. By then I'd been in the club scene for 12 long years officially (actually 16 since I was getting into clubs when I was underage). You do know there is a whole other level of eligible females that never set foot in clubs, right? Another redditor gave you absolutely golden advice. Dude, you're looking for love in all the wrong places. Try a hikin…
/r/seduction18/12/15 07:48 PM
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Your problem is trying to score in clubs. Try museums, galleries, coffee shops, hiking clubs, volunteer organizations.
/r/seduction05/10/15 10:51 AM
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