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Do you stay in shape? Choose flattering clothes (that fit)? Take care of your skin?
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/15 08:15 PM
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The majority of people who casually throw around "anorexic" have likely never seen someone with anorexia and how they eat. You see obsessive (and I do mean obsessive) mealtime rituals like measuring exact portions (like it has to be ten almonds, not eleven), rearranging food, and cutting very small pieces. The idea of food generates a huge amount of anxiety. It's not a synonym for wanting to lose weight or just being skinny in general. This isn't directed at you, OP. It's just a peeve of mine.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/15 04:45 AM
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Vegan for over a year, and I frequently cook for my dad. He really likes his animal products, which presents a challenge for me. He either adds some cheese/meat to his plate or (if I'm successful in picking out a good recipe) he'll enjoy it as-is. There are meat substitutes if you can find them. Popular brands are Field Roast, Gardein, and Beyond Meat. I personally don't eat many meat substitutes, but they seem to get better each year. If you're making East Asian dishes, you can utilize tofu, te…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/15 07:05 AM
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I consistently test INTJ/INFJ
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/15 01:54 AM
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IMO that's an incredibly helpful skill to have in your repertoire, and it probably helps to have some formal instruction. I want to learn, but I'll look on Youtube since my college doesn't offer it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 07:51 PM
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A post would be great idea! Especially for different eating styles/preferences in the same household. I've never been in a relationship, but I cook for my omnivorous dad when I stay with him. I've found that for some dishes, it's easy for him to simply add something. I'll make a pasta dish and he'll put parmesan on his plate. Or I'll make a curry and he'll add his own chicken. I consider it a huge success when he says it's good as-is :) For instance, he likes these and has requested them a few t…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 07:42 PM
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Improve massaging skills. Awesome idea. How are you doing this?
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 04:29 PM
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Taking a pilates class at school (2x/week and I love it, and I'm going to up my gym-going overall) Adjusting my skincare routine. Drinking more water and green tea (my favorite) Getting get rid of old, ill-fitting, unflattering clothes and building up a better wardrobe. I've been watching my language for months, not just in conversations but in my inner (mental) dialogue as well. I have to find more creative ways of expressing frustration. It sometimes draws laughter from my friends when I "swea…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 02:44 PM
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Does your husband have similar eating habits? I'm vegan myself (currently single) and have been wondering how to make the cooking situation work with a non-vegan SO.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 02:17 PM
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It sounds like you have a good rapport now. Try to maintain that, even if it means keeping them at arm's length sometimes. Work friendships are great for helping the day go by, but don't feel like you're required to get close to them.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/15 03:23 AM
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Note: If you're asking for your own benefit (i.e. you want to be more attractive to women), you'll find better advice in TRP
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/15 07:26 PM
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I'm honestly not sure :) It could change the taste/texture, so you might need to experiment a bit.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 05:38 PM
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For the glaze, you may use milk instead of soymilk, and butter instead of margarine. No need to change the measurements either.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 05:56 AM
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I don't have a good chocolate chip cookie recipe at the moment, but this chocolate cake hasn't failed me yet. I put the mixture into a 7x11'' rectangular glass dish, but you could probably try different shapes and decorate it! (It is vegan, but you can easily use milk/butter.)
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/15 08:29 PM
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I read a bit of the synopsis and it sounds wild lol
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/15 05:52 AM
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Keep in mind the passage was from 1922! Re college girls today...there are girls who dress 'comfortably' and never touch makeup. There are also girls who look very good (read: sexy) via trendy clothes and artfully applied makeup. As Valentino would say: "They dazzle but they do not warm."
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/15 05:49 AM
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That makes it much clearer :) Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/15 01:39 AM
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Haha it's cool. I've added these to my list. Up to this point I've been watching a lot of Buster Keaton movies since I find him so entertaining.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/15 01:35 AM
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For Clara Bow films, I've seen Wings and It so far. I haven't seen any of Louise Brooks'
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/15 01:28 AM
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My first thought was flapper culture (bobbed hair, drinking, smoking, shorter hemlines), but I think that was later in the decade, not '22. Maybe someone can correct me. I know that the "pre-Code" Hollywood movies from the 20s-30s could actually be pretty risqué. Maybe they were more true-to-life than (relatively) sanitized 40s-50s movies.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/15 12:25 AM
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Linked above! :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/15 12:10 AM
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Here is the scan ...Or if plain text is easier on the eyes
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/15 12:09 AM
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There's nothing I can do about my bone structure. There's probably some optical illusion you can achieve with makeup, but at this point I wouldn't go to such lengths. I already wear some makeup. For the time being I'll focus on things I have power over.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/15 08:04 PM
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Acts of service and gifts. I don't have an SO, but I absolutely love doing small favors for my friends and giving them gifts from time to time (or treating them to lunch).
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/15 07:36 PM
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The bittersweet truth is that cancer has become more common, but treatments are also lightyears beyond what they were a century ago. Good luck with the chemo. I hear a lot of people experience fatigue, nausea, weight loss, and altered appetite/taste. It might be hard to find the desire to eat...but your health comes first. I saw mid-20's guy on the oncology floor, headphones in, powerwalking with his IV/chemo pole because he didn't want to "veg out" (his words). Whatever works to keep the energy…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 06:36 AM
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I have the same issue with slight asymmetrical features in my face. My sister once pointed it out while I was showing her a picture (of me) which I was flipping digitally, asking her which version was better. She just commented that one of my eyes is slightly higher than the other. Of course she didn't mean it as an insult, but it really bothered me. Probably because I knew how much face symmetry factors into beauty...and that I can't change it. That was a while ago. I've mostly accepted the thi…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/15 11:57 PM
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Plenty of my friends skew 'modern college girl.' For the most part it's fine, but sometimes I opt out a girls' night out when sounds like it'll be too wild for me. I'm the quiet, non-partier of the group, but I make up for it by being a good study buddy :) I do have one friend whom I admire. She's slightly older than me, engaged to a great guy (they're both devout Catholics). They're both in great shape because they run/hike together. I have another friend who also has been with her boyfriend fo…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 10:58 PM
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No electronics at night Guilty...yes, that is most likely the culprit. Otherwise, I drink very little caffeine (green tea in the morning) and exercise on the regular. Not always outside though. Plus there's always melatonin. Funny you mention that. I have an unopened bottle of melatonin in my drawer that I've had for weeks to help me with this exact problem. Totally forgot about it. Maybe I'll give it a try. Thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/15 12:26 AM
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I'm a serious night owl. I've tried to convert to being a morning person with only temporary success. The actual act of getting up is not pleasant, but it makes my day 1000x better. I feel more productive, the day feels longer, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/15 09:08 PM
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Nice! Congrats
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 09:44 PM
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The fact that you've offered to cook at his place, clean up, pay for dinner/parking and (I assume) had a genuine desire to do so means something. I'm sure he notices it. From what you say, I don't think he's worried about you taking advantage of him. I get the impression he very much enjoys doing things for you. You're wondering how you can demonstrate your girl game if he doesn't let you do anything for him... Moving forward, you can: Express gratitude. This is surprisingly difficult. It's poss…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 11:49 PM
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I totally had a question in mind before, but it slipped! Going to re-read Surrendered Single to jog my memory.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 12:34 AM
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I definitely recommend it as an effective way to meet/date men. I especially like it because it's neither overtly anti-feminist (I'd say it's 'non-feminist' at the most) nor is it religious, which means I can comfortably show it to female friends and relatives. It still has key principles like: not having a laundry list of traits for an ideal SO, looking nice, being approachable, not hating men (like it needs to be said!), and having a feminine/complementary approach.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/15 12:19 AM
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My grandparents have always had separate beds and are going strong in their 90's. Reading the other replies, it doesn't look like it hurts, as long as everything else in the relationship is healthy.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 08:56 PM
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I like this! It's helpful to see what others are doing. Seconding all of these, especially 1 and 2. A habit I'm trying to acquire is wearing sunscreen daily, not just on my face (my tinted moisturizer is SPF30) but on my neck, arms, and anything else exposed. The ends of my hair get pretty dry so I'm trying to fix that. And I'm working on making my fitness regimen more consistent (I skip days and it throws me off).
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 08:06 PM
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My school is similar to yours, very liberal. A 'feminine' club would probably be too obvious, but you can think outside of the box and make a club that just attracts feminine members. If you like a craft or are interested in learning, you can make a club for that. ...Something more general would be a home economics club. A lot of activities fall under the home ec umbrella: cooking, repairs, how to make/follow a budget, coupons, planting a home garden, etc. It's like nutrition, crafts, and thrift…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 04:46 AM
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Suddenly we didn't have to worry about divorced parents sitting next to each other I'm not even close to being married and I worry about this. I like your idea; it sounds fun! My family would still expect some kind of party/reception though :/
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/15 05:44 AM
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Tumblr is a social media site that has a large amount of feminist content. I'm not sure why it attracted that crowd, but it did. Buzzfeed just releases a lot of feminist articles, period. There's one called "21 Times Tumblr Spoke the Truth About Feminism." And there are plenty more of that type. ...Katie Notopoulos is Buzzfeed's senior editor and pretty overt in her her views. Seriously.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/15 04:55 AM
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For those wondering about antioxidants I recommend a good vitamin C serum. It's one of the few products with studies to back it up. The best part is: you can make it yourself! There is a post on r/skincareaddiction that gives good directions. Pretty inexpensive and easy, considering the results you can get. Vitamin C is a antioxidant and also stimulates collagen production. It is much more effective applied directly to the skin than consumed in food/supplement form. Note: the results are very sl…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/15 02:21 AM
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The book had it as povreté, which might be an archaic spelling? I know zero French, modern or otherwise. Either way it was a typo on my part :) Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/15 03:43 AM
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The best way IMO is the dorms if you live at school. Chances are you'll see the same girls frequently (at floor meetings, doing laundry, in the hallways or lounges). You do have to observe and use judgment: do they swear like a sailor? Wear club makeup in broad daylight? Have half of their head shaved? Are bringing different guys every time you see them? YMMV but I tend to find my friends in the more challenging and/or employable majors - e.g. math, chem, bio, nursing, etc. Primary education oft…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/15 09:06 AM
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I'm in a similar position as OP, made more complicated by the fact my school is completely female (small Catholic college). I'd also like to meet an older man.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/15 08:06 PM
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I haven't! I actually haven't heard of it, so I'm going to put it on my list.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/15 09:16 PM
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Your post reminded me of the "five love languages". It sounds like you two have different ways of expressing affection, but it's really cool how a change in phrasing made such a difference!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 09:16 PM
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It is a red flag because: over-reliance on social media implies insecurity and vanity most social media is lacking substance time spent online can be spent being productive, self-improvement, creating something, etc. frequent contact with online 'admirers' (beta orbiters) the feminist nature of many sites (e.g. Tumblr and Buzzfeed)
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 06:04 AM
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I've never heard it put this way, but I really like it. Succinct.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/15 03:47 AM
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You might lose your friends. I'm speaking from experience.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/15 12:55 AM
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Don't marry someone in the hopes that they will change later. If there isn't physical attraction, that should be addressed now, before marriage. I would reconsider this relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/15 12:54 AM
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Thank you for doing that :) Hmm, I can't think of an appropriate subreddit besides this one or r/femininearts.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 06:16 PM
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Please do. I'm wondering if similar books are floating around in their respective countries/regions. Like a guide for wives in Japan, or Russia, or Argentina.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 03:42 AM
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RPW works best if she's already changed her goals and simply wants to know how to go about achieving them. RPW could help her then. Having someone tell you what your attitude and goals should be rarely goes over well. You could unintentionally lose your friend with "helpful advice." Edited for typo.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/15 06:31 PM
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I agree. Context is important. A man who lives at home because he's saving up and it's considered normal for his culture is different from a man who lives at home because he's jobless, low ambition, or has poor social skills.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 05:03 AM
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The men on TRP are far from a homogenous group. In addition to plate-spinners, there are men who are married, in LTR's, traditionalists and religious men. The latter groups are underrepresented but they exist. RP is a set of knowledge; what the men do with it is up to them. At least men who enter marriages have weighed the costs and benefits and screened their fiancés carefully. To entertain the idea of a TRP society: if women as a whole were to change and actually behaved as TRP (and especially…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 04:14 AM
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That's the way she is. I understand it, because the people here can only give advice based on what's written (by you). Otherwise we guess and read between the lines, and that can lead to faulty assumptions and conflict. If someone leaves out important details about their situation, they can't get the advice they need.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 11:27 PM
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So when you "spend the night" with your boyfriend, you have sex with him? Generally RPW advocates sex while in a committed LTR, or within marriage for the more religious users. Your parents seem to be in the latter group, so keep that in mind to understand their judgments. If (for whatever reason) you're regretting the sex, suddenly backtracking and freezing up on him won't make things better, especially if marriage is on the horizon. I don't know the full background of your relationship, and ot…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 09:57 PM
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Studio Ghibli is seconded. Howl's Moving Castle and Spirited Away are both my favorites. As far as animated movies go, they're on Disney level for me. They're pretty popular in the states. It's a bit cheesy, but the first anime series I watched regularly was "Inuyasha" :) Also another series by the same author is Ranma 1/2. IMO the manga is better than the anime in terms of quality (the anime had a lot of filler for some reason).
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 09:17 PM
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Slow and gradual. Almost two years ago I began reading up on MRM issues, starting questioning feminism on a societal level, and eventually started questioning feminism on a personal level (within relationships). Eventually I ended up here, where I lurked for months before commenting. I'm single and always have been (19 y/o), but I think about relationships often. Problem was, I didn't know how to approach them, what to look for, and how to act toward the opposite sex. TRP/RPW brought me a lot of…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/15 06:20 AM
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I'm not surprised anymore by guys who are successful with women, because now I can pinpoint why they have that magnetism. A more interesting pastime for me is spotting men who aren't necessarily successful with women, but are successful in other areas (education, career, general intelligence, etc.). Maybe their social skills are underdeveloped or they don't know how to convey their value in a way that women will pick up on. Nonetheless they have a lot of untapped potential. It's almost frustrati…
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/15 08:38 PM
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Do have problems putting in a tampon (or menstrual cup)? I know someone with vaginismus who experiences discomfort when anything goes up there. It could also be a lack of lubrication that causes the tearing. In any case, it doesn't sound normal.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/15 07:40 PM
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There are books that are RPW-like without all the lingo. The Surrendered Wife and The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands come to mind. Did she come to you for advice, or are you simply noticing their problems and want to help? (If it's the latter, proceed cautiously or not at all. I know she's family, but women don't always react well to unsolicited advice.)
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/15 08:05 PM
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Being a plate (with the goal of "graduating") is a really poor strategy for women. An HB9 could could probably attract top-tier men for both sex and commitment, but most girls can only attract them for sex. If an average (middle of the bell curve) girl is someone's plate - and he's the highest-quality man she can bed (hypergamy) - chances are he'll be out of her commitment range.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/15 08:54 PM
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Stick to pre-1950s films and anime with a largely male target audience. Love old films. Old TV shows too! Twilight Zone and Star Trek aren't pre-1950's but are excellent shows if you like sci-fi. And they won't rot your brain. I haven't watched a ton of anime, but some characters I can remember as being good influences are Belldandy (Ah my Goddess) and Kasumi Tendo (Ranma 1/2 - much better as a manga). Coincidentally, both characters are voiced by the same woman. Other women your age will often …
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/15 10:13 PM
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I go a women's Catholic college (95%+ female, a few programs are co-ed) and I feel you. Doing a sort of monk/cocoon mode and focusing only on self-improvement and studying sounds nice, but like you I want to meet men :) Some of my friends have brothers, or cousins. I spent one easter with my friend's family and met a ton of people. No matches, but the potential is always there. I've been approached on the street. And at jury duty. You can't plan those things, but you have to get outside. Some us…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/15 05:09 AM
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I saw that too. Men might not care about a girl's partner count if she's just going to be a ONS or a plate. This article is just about attractiveness and SMV, not MMV. "Real men" is super vague. LTR-seeking men nearly always care about your partner count.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 08:59 PM
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IMO they're doing you a favor by disqualifying themselves as potential LTR's. I wouldn't want to continue seeing a guy who requested that. He obviously has different goals.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 08:46 PM
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The US varies by region/state too. Where I am (California), makeup is pretty common but we also have granola/hippy types that don't wear any. We also have a lot of immigrants from Asia, Latin America, and the Middle East in CA. My old school was mostly Chinese and Filipino (not born in the US) and there were more slim people and relatively modest clothing. Girls were quieter except for some 'queen bee' types floating around. Not a lot of makeup, but they always wore sunscreen, sunglasses, and so…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/15 06:32 PM
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I had to use a browser plugin ('Hola Better Internet' for Chrome) to view from the U.S. but it was worth it. Most of the information was familiar (I make most of my own meals and keep the house clean), but it's new for a lot of women. We could use a show like this in the states! To give you an idea: recently on Tumblr there was a picture of instant ramen with the caption "my home cooking" and over 12k notes.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/15 02:16 AM
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I have had similar issues with some of my friends. I don't expect other girls to 100% align with me but I draw a line at cheating, aggressive attention-seeking, and promiscuity/Tindering. In the past I've tried to "save" a friend from the CC lifestyle and it backfired hard. A few of my current friends are going the same direction, unfortunately. Ending a friendship (subtly) isn't difficult, but it's sad if you have a lot of memories with that person. Just recognize that you two are growing apart…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/15 01:41 AM
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Do any of you ladies have something similar in your countries? If only. That sounds like an excellent idea for a television show! A program like that would most likely be shot down in the U.S., unless they made it PC by targeting it toward both women and men. They definitely wouldn't say that gardening is "the man's job" haha.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/15 08:03 PM
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My knowledge of MFP is minimal. Is it just an app for iPhone/smartphones or can I access it from my laptop only (I don't have a smartphone)? If so, I would love to join!
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/15 06:27 AM
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Also, maybe it's just me, but I find men shaving with a straight edge razor extremely manly and sexy. Seconded. There's an element of danger involved, although they're safe if he knows how to use them.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/15 07:43 PM
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I use the Edwin Jagger DE89Lbl. IMO you don't need a razor specifically designed for women; they will do the job regardless. Women sometimes choose different blades, though. Since men's facial hair is usually thicker, they prefer more aggressive (read: sharper) blades like Feathers. I'm perfectly okay with the less aggressive blades like Derbys. If you go one /r/wicked_edge, they always recommend beginners get a blade "sample pack" to see what brand works for you, and then stick with that brand.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/15 07:38 PM
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If you're comfortable using tampons, you'll most likely be able to use a menstrual cup. Cloth pads are also a thing but I've never used them :/ DE razors are great. If your SO is interested, he might want to experiment with blades/soaps for himself. The initial cost frightens some people away, but the razor & brush can last decades, and the blades & soap are very inexpensive. My epilator is rechargeable and it works just fine, but it's painful. An epilator (if you didn't know) is like a high-spe…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/15 07:49 AM
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Here are some things things I do: Clothing: thrift stores, consignment stores Food: cast iron cookware, crockpot, bulk food, meal planning (less trips to store), minimize eating out, minimize trips to coffee shop, growing your own vegetables/herbs/fruit Skincare: drink water, drugstore brands (thanks to /r/skincareaddiction), DIY skincare (sugar body scrubs, oil-cleansing, etc.), I really like this mask because it's inexpensive and it goes a long long way. Cosmetics: take care of your skin so yo…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/15 06:15 AM
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So true, and being able to describe what I find attractive makes dating seem less daunting. I went on two dates with a guy pre-RPW and despite having nice conversation, I felt zero attraction for him and it bothered me. The worse part was not knowing why I wasn't attracted - because in my eyes, there was nothing wrong with him. Looking back I realize that he was pretty beta (supplicating, complimented me a lot, had me lead the date). It's also a huge relief to understand what men want as a group…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/15 05:33 AM
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I always want to hug my friends when they talk about how confusing romantic relationships are - because for them it's a bit like throwing darts when you don't even know where the dartboard is. I felt exactly the same way while on the phone with my sister. She recently set up a OKC profile and I asked her what kind of guy she was looking for. She didn't have an answer ("If it feels right..."). My friends, too, tend to "feel their way" through relationships. In my mind, that's like walking blindfo…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/15 02:25 AM
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Begin Stronglifts 5x5. Perfect my skincare routine. Stay hydrated with water or green/white tea. Maintain a clean room. Improve my work habits. Begin school assignments early, not the night before. Improve my posture, both in private and public. Grow my hair out to my waist. Learn and practice proper hand sewing. Be a more adventurous and intuitive cook. Wear sunscreen every day. Wear sunglasses and hat on occasion. Be more available to people, in terms of generosity and emotional support. Reduc…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/15 08:48 AM
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After lurking for so long, I only wonder why I didn't join sooner. This sub has been a major source of inspiration and motivation for me, not only to better myself, but to have clarity and a sense of control over my future. I used to think of attraction as a mysterious forces and that I would stumble upon 'the one' and make it work. Luckily I have a clearer picture now. :) This is valuable collection of knowledge & experiences here. I hugely appreciate everyone's contributions so far and hopeful…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/15 08:23 AM
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Thank you. I only ask because ages deal differently with divorce, if that is what's down the road (that's my assumption at this point). You and your husband should at least agree not to put them in the middle (either as messengers or bargaining chips). I know that sounds like common sense, but it's exactly what my parents did when they split and it made things a lot worse. Whatever happens, I hope you'll stay strong, and I'm wishing you the best of luck. Your children love you unconditionally an…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/14 07:20 PM
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I am too, but raised atheist/secular so a lot of the Bible is still new to me. I'm going to start putting tabs on interesting passages like these. :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/14 07:05 AM
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The disgust that accompanied the airing of my parent's problem was really what lubricated the swallowing of the female red pill for me. I never, EVER wanted my marriage to end up like that - sexless, loveless, and without respect. Same for me. My parents are split and not on good terms, but it pushed me in this direction. I don't regret that at all. This was a great field report to read btw. I like that you work toward relieving tension instead of creating it. I'm also trying to chill out about …
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 01:50 AM
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I'm more attracted to the idea of an established man. His age and status would put him above me.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 07:06 PM
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No official protocol. Some users have younger SOs iirc. I don't think I can plan that sort of thing. My age group or older both sound appealing, though 40-50 would be pushing it. Late 20's or early 30's sounds about right for an older man. I figure there's a significant difference between marrying an "established" man and marrying a younger man with potential to accompany him on his journey. That's my thinking.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 07:54 AM
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After internalizing a lot of RP theory, the posts I get the most out of offer some kind of practical advice. Girl game, hobbies/crafts, even field reports are of special interest to me. Besides the excellent sidebar material, my favorite post was this post about /u/tryanotherJuan's experience as an office assistant and how she applies RPW to her job. I enjoyed this post because it hit the major points of being a good woman (pleasantness, no nagging, not badmouthing colleagues), as well as the im…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 11:18 PM
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Good find! And very relevant. I search youtube for RPW-friendly videos, but it's hard as most don't advertise themselves as RP. I make do with religious/homemaker videos but, as a college student, they don't pertain to my lifestyle.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 10:12 PM
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After getting divorced, my mother's advice to me was: get married later (or don't get married at all), focus on career, don't rely on a man, live for yourself, it's not worth it...like WGTOW basically. Needless to say, that isn't my plan. It certainly didn't work for her or several other female relatives. My goal is to marry early, be devoted, have children, and put family first. I've never expressed this to her, even after being exposed to RP for ~1 year. I have a sense she'll be disappointed, …
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 09:25 PM
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What are some living situation warning signs you have observed? Chaotic, unpleasant odor (usually it's shoes/socks), cheap processed food or takeout, dirty floor, stuffy air, poor lighting, garish colors. Used condoms. What is a lifestyle indication that a female is wholesome & a genuine RPW? That her living situation reflects self-respect, maintaining a good image (for herself & others), a sense of aesthetic, and a concern for visitors. Anything homemade (cooking, crafts, DIY), frugal, or pract…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/14 10:44 PM
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Interesting! I can't wait to look at it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/14 06:41 AM
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Thanks for posting, and I hope you stick around. These field reports make me excited to have a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/14 08:30 AM
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Definitely. Even if it's not a formal setting - because usually it isn't. Heck I'm in a dorm room and I try to spruce it up...as much as a dorm CAN be spruced up :)
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/14 08:20 AM
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A lady is a good hostess. She makes her living space comfortable, welcoming, and pleasing to the eye. She knows how to set people at ease.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 11:22 PM
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I like this: 30 Ways to Save Money I notice I will throw away $5 here and there on coffee/tea at a café, some little thing from a street vendor, or any little impulse buy. They add up like no one's business. I've heard of this tip elsewhere: if you're big on online shopping, divide an item's price by ten (ex. $50 item -> 5) and wait that many days before deciding. If you forget about it or figure you don't need it, you just saved yourself that much. With cleaning and body care, I like to make us…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/14 05:41 AM
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5'9'' as well :) Don't concern yourself with the ideal height. There are things we can change about ourselves, and there are things we just gotta own. Height it one of them. So there's that... Stand up straight. Don't focus on making yourself look shorter; that never comes off well. Are you in shape? Tall girls can get away with a lot figure-wise but we need to be in shape! Tall/slender and tall/curvy (as in hourglass/pear, not overweight) are both very feminine. Go ahead and wear heels. You kno…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/14 04:25 AM
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Not sure about the dating advice (I'm in a sorta similar position; still have a some college left), but for the domestic skills: ~YES, volunteer to cook dinner. Practice is the only way I'm getting good. Experiment with some unfamiliar ingredients if you can, but also try get to good at making a few dishes really well (your "signature* dishes). Bonus: see which sides compliment which main dishes, which wines compliment the food (not necessary but c'mon) ~If you're parents are cool with it, volun…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/14 04:10 AM
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Is this a persistent problem, men being rude like this? Do they give any hint of being like this before the actual date? In other words: is this something you can screen for? Prevention is ideal. To answer your question: if a guy is really rude, in a way that a socially adept person would never act, don't worry too much about being non-abrasive. No need to yell, but by all means be firm. Dancing around the issue will just waste time. He's not Captain material.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/14 07:54 AM
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'Deferring to a man on everything' is a bit simplistic. At RPW we understand men and women to be complementary but different. There is no attachment to an egalitarian, 50/50 relationship. Refer to this and other parts of the sidebar. We don't try to convince people to embrace RPW; they go through that process themselves. The shift in mindset happened gradually for me, so it wasn't at all jarring. It started when I became disillusioned with feminism by watching my mother divorce my father because…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/14 06:04 AM
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Are you me? Jk. I was in the same boat as you in high school. I was not only shy but had glasses, braces, short hair, no makeup, ill-fitting androgynous clothing, and not the best complexion. I'm in the process of burning all photos from that era lol. The women in my family weren't the feminine type, so I missed out on those skills and have been playing catch-up ever since. If you're looking for inspiration, I've just discovered Pinterest (yes, just) and have started accumulating looks I want to…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/14 08:36 PM
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After seeing this thread from way back, I'm really interested in why so many of us are close in our MBTI results. Is there an association between INFJ/INTJ/INFP/INTP and RPW that I'm missing?
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/14 12:41 AM
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I don't offer advice unless they specifically ask me for it. And even then I have to think about it. I was in a situation where I BADLY wanted to tell my friend to extract herself from a bad relationship (she was gearing up to give her virginity to a guy with a girlfriend; totally head over heels for him. If it weren't for RP I wouldn't have understood why she liked him so much). I tried the most sugar-coated, gentlest form of RPW advice I could think of (essentially telling her not to do someth…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/14 03:18 AM
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As I understand it, there is a shortage but it iss not evenly distributed. Major cities with a lot of universities/colleges will absolutely be saturated with new grads, and even hospitals that are understaffed may hold off on hiring due to budget cuts. While the ideal is to work a few years on a med-surg floor in a hospital to gain experience, a lot of us might end up at non-hospital nursing jobs - clinics, assisted living, even correctional facilities. Rural hospitals and inner-city hospitals a…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/14 01:39 AM
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If a guy has a past with women, it doesn't bother me so much and can be a positive (pre-selection). I'd be worried if he gave off very strong alpha vibes (dark triad, obvious plate-spinning, heavy dread) because he'd be more likely to stray. Lesser alpha seems to be the maximum for an LTR, with greater beta and beta being more common. Some players eventually settle down, but others just get a kick out of getting a "good girl" as a ONS or plate. RPW, almost as a rule, don't sleep with a man early…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/14 11:59 PM
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I've always liked the relationship between Ferris and Sloane from Ferris Bueller's Day Off. I've never analyzed them in this context, but Sloane (to me) is totally the "cool girlfriend" - fun, flirty, sexy, a little mischievous . Not sure I would/could imitate their shenanigans (lol), but they're fun to watch. It's good inspiration for the Girlfriend Experience (GFE). It's been a few years since I've seen the movie; it'd be interesting to see what I pick up this time around.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/14 11:20 PM
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Becoming a doctor is a time commitment. It includes (approximately): 4 years pre-med 4 years medical school Plus a few years of residency And this comes along with a significant amount of student debt. Not to discourage you necessarily, but you should know what you'd be getting yourself into. What do you want to with patients exactly? There may be another health care position that allows you to do that. What attracted me to nursing was knowing I'd be spending the bulk of my time actually caring …
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/14 10:55 PM
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I understand your caution :) Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/14 03:13 AM
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I'll take a look at the two magazines mentioned. No children (yet) but for future reference. I read Set Apart Girl, which is targeted mostly toward younger women and is sometimes not very RP. I take what's applicable and leave the rest. It's free and online, so I'm not complaining!
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/14 03:10 AM
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It's an ongoing process but very doable. A good starting point is common courtesy, which may include asking someone how their day's been or just wishing them a nice day. Practicing courtesy may seem too superficial to actually change your personality, but when you form a habit of treating people with consideration, they tend to treat you just as nicely. Over time this improves your mood and gives you a sense of goodwill toward people in general. You find yourself being more generous, smiling mor…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/14 09:50 PM
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Could I ask which denomination your church is? I'm going out on a limb and assuming that you're Christian. I'm nondenominational but interested in churches that align with this lifestyle. [I might have to move somewhere else, because CA churches are surprisingly feminist-friendly, at least in the cities.] Edited for grammar
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/14 08:44 PM
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Like others have said, confidence, and there are the other RP subs for that. To project status, improve appearance. Some things you can't change, but you should have clothes that fit (including something tailored) and a clean car/apartment. Invest in quality. It demonstrates that you a) know value when you see it, and b) are selective with your resources ("I have money, but I only use it for things that meet my standards"). High-value men apply this philosophy to both purchases and relationships…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/14 07:55 AM
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I think the current social climate has something to do with it. Modern society brings out the worst in women. That could easily apply to female-female relationships. I read a lot of Austen, and sisterhood and female friendships are recurring themes. I'll take it with a grain of salt (since it's fiction), but I wouldn't be surprised if women truly had better relationships in the past. Maybe because society was more gender-segregated (each having their own sphere), women felt more in their element…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 07:26 PM
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I hope it's satire too, because it's painful to read. You really get the impression that marriage is a game. "Have fun with it"? Have fun with choosing a replacement for your current husband? Crazy.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 02:54 AM
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Hi everyone! I'm a long-time lurker but only recently joined Reddit so I could join the discussions. I'm an 18 year old nursing student at an all-female school, and very inexperienced in relationships (as in, never been kissed). I am new to RPW but I've been reading about traditional femininity for a while now, in the form of books like Surrendered Single and Fascinating Womanhood. What drove me toward this was my parent's divorce. I'm fine now, but there was a period of time where I had a lot o…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 10:46 PM
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