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I don't offer things to men. From what I've seen, women that do that just get used up for what they offer and then get discarded for a woman that just had to be hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:33 PM
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Another layer of that is on the women's side dealing with being wanted only sexual functionality does not a make a relationship good for us. It's fascinating how some men in this subreditt think wanting someone for their body is wanting that person for them. Other women have bodies too. I don't see wanting to use my body to get your nut off as me not being interchangeable with any other woman attractive enough for a man to use sexually. How is that valuing ME. Seems like valuing sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:27 PM
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I'm not of the opinion you have to be with the other parent of your child in a miserable relationship to co-parent your shared child. Being together , miserable, bitter and resentful just sets the child up for thinking a future miserable relationship is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:24 PM
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So the man in the case of the go-bag shouldn't care about not being trusted either?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:18 PM
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I'm curious, is asking for a DNA test the only situation you believe one's partner should not be upset about being accused of cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:57 PM
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Regardless, I absolutely belive the woman asked for the DNA test should leave. Imagine you just went through a life threatening medical procedure and are recovering. Your partner is more concerned about if you cheated than your recovery. They are selfish and insensitive to your needs in that moment. And in this case he could instead, offer to take the baby for a couple hours while she gets some rest. Go get the DNA test to ease his mind, while also helping her rest and peace of mind. If the chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:51 PM
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I'm familiar. But notice, no women said there should be government mandated go bags ready for abused women so they didn't have to make their own. People can leave a relationship for any reason. Why do they have to have a "justified" reason? Or a reason that's justified by others not in the relationship or the person they're leaving. Asking for a paternity test IS an accusation of cheating. Otherwise, why even ask her for something you can just take the child and go do? I would look for proof bef…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:34 PM
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Why can he not just take the kid and get the paternity test? Why does he have to ask the mother? Just like she would just make her go bag. No need for what would be a formal accusation. The nan could verify and if the child is not his, then confront. Just like the woman would use the go bag if he decides to be abusive. No need to make government mandatory DNA tests or government provided go-bags. A government provided go-bag would really be the equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:20 PM
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B. If I'm abducted having to be away from my family and friends, I will get sad sometimes missing them. An orgasm a day won't help with my sadness, especially if the sex is just mechanical, not a loving connection, just to get a nut off. Being able to talk and laugh with a friend would help with that sadness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:45 PM
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I feel there is a middle ground between the 2 extremes in op. If I were to give men advice on talking to women they don't know at all, it would be to first gage her openness to engage in conversation by simply saying hi. If she returns a friendly hi with open body language, then continue with some conversation. A woman that's not open to engaging will definitely show it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:51 AM
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It's not men or women that age better. HOT people usually age better. The older people that look good, were always attractive and kept their looks up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:58 AM
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The length of an intestine is a lot longer than a vaginas & does not have a cervix in there that will cause pain if hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:25 AM
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You know this from experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:17 AM
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So don't demonize a man not marrying the mother of his children or not using condoms if he doesn't to be a father. So then no need to demonize a man being a stepfather. That man can make his own choice just like a pregnant woman can to abort. If women don't need societal assistance, neither do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:48 AM
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What about encouraging men to marry the mothers of their children or not impregnate women they don't want to marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:37 AM
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I think maybe men should not focus on how the guy is treating the woman badly in the relationship, that's where the comparison kind of faulters because saying the guy got with her by treating her badly is probably not the case. That's where it's at the point of the woman complaining when she's ready to leave the relationship. What men should focus on if they're having trouble even getting a date is how the man acted before he got her locked in to figure out how to even get to the relationship. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 05:53 AM
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This wouldn't be punishment for men. It's women protecting themselves the only way they can from men that could possibly have this mindset getting them pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:40 PM
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The attitude in this post is why women should not feel bad for sexless men and be as picky as possible for sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:55 AM
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I rarely comment, haven't ever posted, however, I come to this sub to remind myself why I've chosen to be single and abstinent after my last relationship ended. Straightens me right out after I consider getting with a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:48 PM
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Nope, just disagree with your premise that the only real effort put into a date is paying and that would be men putting in all this supposed effort. Most restaurants don't even have to have reservations like that and aren't that expensive(if one is doing a restaurant date) Is it really that much effort to decide you want to go to a place? Where's all this effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:18 PM
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They don't put in FINANCIAL effort. Putting in no effort would look different, showing up not looking/smelling nice. Why is spending money seen as sooooo much effort anyway? How much effort does it take to swipe a debit card? I put a lot of effort into how I dress and do my hair daily, not just dates. Maybe women would be more into men's looks if they put more in themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:55 PM
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Desiring sex with me is not the same as desiring me. A man could have sex with me and not give a damn if I die 30 minutes after so how is desiring my body wanting me? As far as dates are concerned, I couldn't see myself with a man that couldn't even be bothered to spend $12 on me for a damn burrito plate because when I'm in a relationship I spend that and sooooo much more in time and money for my man. I need to see some level of effort and willingness to do for me before getting involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:38 PM
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Should I prefer someone that just likes me for how I look? Something I can't control for the most part?. So if I get disfigured in an accident, then what? They don't really like me or my personality or spending time with me unless we're having sex. I've heard men say all a woman has to do is cook, clean, have sex and shut up. So I'm supposed to be with a person that don't even want to talk to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:59 PM
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What do you think the amount of effort should be?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:13 AM
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It's probably not a case of men or women being more interesting, it's how they are INTERESTED. A lot of men aren't interested in getting to know women really so they would care less about her hobbies, thoughts, etc. If the only thing that interests a man about a woman is sexual, the only way things will work out is if she is also interested in casual sex with him. And less women than men are interested in casual. How can a man relate & interact with a woman that needs a feeling of at least a bas…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:44 AM
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Women deserve the so called advantage they have in dating. It is earned by being the sex that have to carry the burden of pregnancy and of the majority of child rearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 02:14 PM
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I feel like it's more a case of toxic people hide it to get someone in a relationship but can't keep the mask on forever so it eventually drops and the person leaves. I haven't seen anywhere someone just treats a person like shit right at hello and a woman's turned on by it and gets in a relationship with the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:15 AM
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The part I feel is missing here is what men do at the beginning of relationships. That probably has something to do with it as men stop doing those things when they feel they have the woman locked in. I saw a thread, I forget what sub it was in, with a bunch of women complaining that their man only showed them any affection when they wanted sex and right after went to ignoring them, no dates,quality time and these women felt lonely in their relationships. That may be something more common than p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:04 PM
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https://streamscharts.com/subscribers?sortBy=income
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 03:26 AM
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Where's your poof that women dominate as the top earners in streaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:46 AM
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The top streamers are men. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 03:00 PM
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Most of this list is male... https://www.forbes.com/sites/stevenbertoni/2025/06/16/forbes-top-creators-2025/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 03:22 AM
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If I'm happy with how I'm being treated I don't care how past girlfriends were treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:40 AM
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If a large number of men spend their limited time going after the same women every other man wants, it absolutely applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:54 AM
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Then my point still stands. Women are told there are good men out there, men are told good women are out there. Men are not more deserving than women of getting sympathy for their troubles of finding a good one. They can both be told good ones exist. Women are not in fact getting stood up for be good men. They are being told good men are out there, find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:48 PM
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I'm assuming you're not the "good man" standing up for women you're talking about in your post, otherwise you're proving me right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:11 PM
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Women get told all the time to choose better by sooo called good men that blame the woman for choosing a bad man. They blame the woman for choosing wrong and not the man for treating her badly. Why should men be treated differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:45 PM
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Relationships will large age gaps seem to go down in places where women have more freedom to choose their partner. I don't think that a coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:34 AM
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Women settle all the time too but still get the 80/20 accusation so I see no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:36 PM
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So men, by nature, have the real 80/20 that some accuse women of it would seem because since the birth rate has fallen since the baby boom generation, women ages 18 to 30 would be lower than previously. That would leave a larger number of men of all ages competing to be with a smaller number of women as decades go by. Women age 18 to 29 are about 27% of the population of women in the U.S. at least, last I checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:21 PM
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No. Whether or not someone deserves a person is decided by that person. So in this case the good man would be deciding who deserves him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:12 PM
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I'd recommend at a public place at an event you would like that both men and women like. I met my most recent ex at a show for a local band I like. A friend that just got married met his wife at a fall festival.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:38 PM
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Is she "demanding" it though? Could that not just be a biased perception on your part? But let's say she was "demanding" it. Does that really have an effect on what people will choose to do? Will it change the fact that the streamers getting the most money and gifts from fans are male? In your mind automatically the male streamers are just more entertaining and some, those that happen to be attractive don't even get a bunch of money and gifts from female fans either? I'm not even commenting on g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:32 PM
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Male streamers get money and gifts from male fans all the time, the top money makers that stream are male. This framing is pretty much BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:15 PM
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And women have people who are not mechanics and know nothing about cars telling them their car is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:22 PM
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Someone that has a car that is inoperable and someone with no car are still both riding the same bus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:12 PM
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If you rather an analogy to fit the men winning the oppression Olympics narrative, you can make the disease one of different levels, say men have type 1 diabetes and women type 2 or men have stage 3 cancer and women stage 1. Even if you wouldn't categorize women as being lonely, women still have their own difficulties finding love.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:08 PM
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Maybe a better analogy is Healthcare. Both men and women have the "loneliness" disease. Men have the worse health plan and have trouble even getting a doctor's appointment. Women can get the appointment but it's difficult for the doctor to find the right treatment where the side effects of the treatment aren't as bad as the disease itself. Both still living miserably with the disease not properly treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:12 PM
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It always seemed to me like the double standard a lot of men think is ok is women that don't meet men's standards for a relationship(single mothers, fat chicks) should be willing to accept a situationship/getting pumped and dumped because that's all they're good enough for. Yet the short/bald/fat/ugly older men that want do date young--- shouldn't have to accept being beta bux because that's where their level is. That's damn near oppression and cruel to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:02 AM
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It would seem, if one is to believe the data some are referring to in this post, supposedly men have a women are wonderful bias BUT the men commenting and many that participate in the purple pill sub are outliers of that tren and are HEAVILY in group(male) biased since the comments on this post do not demonstrate a pattern that fits the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:28 PM
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Doesn't red pill call this future faking?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:05 PM
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Yes. One cannot tell WHY other people are thinking or feeling what they are unless they tell you. Don't really matter anyway, what matters is what effects me. I can choose how I react to what someone says or does to me based on my own values. Let's say someone was supposedly actually mad because I clearly stated my own feelings. I then have to choose if I want to continue dealing with that person on their level or not deal with them at all. I can only ultimately control my self and choose what t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:53 PM
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Without knowing specifics or something example of what was said, it's pretty unknown. The woman could has gotten mad because he "felt" she should do something for him totally unreasonable, not necessarily mad that he wanted "clear communication". How do you really know WHY another person feels angry anyway, unless that person tells you? All he knows is they were angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:25 PM
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Just because you "clearly communicate" what you want from someone doesn't mean they have to do it. They have agency to say no. Doesn't mean they don't like clear communication. Men usually default to lying, omitting and being vague because know deep down the woman they're talking to does not want what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:54 PM
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So you're the prostitute 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:19 PM
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A lot of men are cold approaching women on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:06 AM
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Considering women between 19 and 29 are probably about 27% of the female population, this is the real 80/20. Funny people in this sub say 80% of of women go after 20% of men but this never gets mentioned at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:39 AM
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I don't think the men on PPD are the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:43 PM
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Why does it seem like it's being made harder than it is. Attempt to get the woman's attention. If she sees you and has brief eye contact and looks quickly away and is avoiding your look, it's on purpose. Don't approach. If she shares your gaze and even smiles a little or says hi, approach. If you decide to approach regardless of not getting any sign at all that she's open to approach, try starting a conversation. If she is short, had one word responses, she is not interested in even talking to y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:47 PM
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What "excessive rights" are women getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 05:43 PM
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I have friends in all those age groups, no ones parents taught them how to date & my parents didn't teach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:06 AM
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The issue with this is most of the time if a woman is the bread winner, the man doesn't do what a woman would do typically in the stay at home role so women just end up doing the providing and majority of the home stuff to so being the provider isn't worth it for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:49 AM
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I was speaking in context of the post about compensation for household labor but in reference to one income households. Even if there is a joint account for bills I think there still should be separate accounts under each spouses control.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:46 PM
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Living check to check does not negate sharing the money. It costs nothing extra to have a paycheck split direct deposit 50/50 between 2 accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:33 PM
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You don't know that that's an "average" scenario. I could say my own situation was average, I stayed home with the kids, ex worked, I could spend no money on anything that wasn't necessary for the household. Meanwhile he spen on whatever he wanted, be it a video game console, beer or weed. Nothing I could do since he had control over the money and I none.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:26 PM
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And sometimes when a person is with someone they don't spend money, they hold that they are the one that gets income over the other person's head and abuses it. Splitting the money so they both have control is a great idea in my mind. It solves the issue of financial abuse and if supposedly what the stay at home person does is important why shouldn't they have some control of the money too?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:10 PM
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It could always be made law if someone has a stay at home spouse with children half they pay has to be deposited in a separate account for that spouse that only the spouse can control.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 06:53 PM
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A significant age gap is a red flag. And men don't wait for proof before accusing women of being gold diggers or hoes at all, that is BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:00 PM
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Quite often women warn each other about fukbois, that's how that word even got a specific name for it. Do you feel also men shouldn't warn other men about gold diggers and hoes like they do or tell them not to be Simps?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:38 PM
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If they have the knowledge they can tell you, also agency. Giving knowledge that can help a person make the best decision for themselves never hurt them or stopped agency. Why do you think it does?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:07 PM
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This is why when people on this sub say women can get a relationship so easily I laugh my ass off. Usually when you can get something easily, it ain't worth much. These are the easily gotten relationships women are supposed to be happy to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:04 PM
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Warning younger women about older men and their possible motives is giving them agency. You can't have real agency without knowledge of possible outcomes of the choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:51 PM
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You would think men with all the advantages like Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp could easily find and keep a good woman in a relationship, yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 01:11 AM
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I kinda feel like maybe more women would settle if the 5/6 guy didn't expect the same as the 8/9/10 guy. He shouldn't expect the same level of attraction/sexual passion as the more attractive guy. It's kind of like buying a house. If I have to pay the same for a ugly ass fixer upper in the ghetto as a mansion in the Hollywood hills, I might as well just stay in my comfy apartment. I think this is what women are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:41 PM
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If the kids have everything they need BEFORE the child support money is included, that means the mother is paying for all those needs out of her money. The father should be responsible for half the children's needs. The mother can then spend her money that she's not using to pay for the kids needs as she likes just as the father does with his money, I see no issue as really most child support payments don't really pay for half the kids needs on top of not even being paid in full anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:31 PM
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A man being able to have their perfect partner, that will do whatever they want, with no complaints or any expectations to meet in return, also without enslaving and making a real woman oppressed, sounds like a win for everybody. As long as it doesn't lead to a scenario like the movies, The Matrix, The terminator or the game Detroit:Become Human.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:35 PM
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If women's actions result in the spread of STDs, why are STDs higher in men that have sex with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:10 AM
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I would absolutely donate money to a fund to hire sex workers for him
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:05 AM
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Also, families depend more on single daughters than sons. Let elderly parents or married family need something for their kids, whether it's financial or caretaking duties, it seems to always fall on daughters instead of sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:53 PM
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Why go on dates like this at all then? When your friends go out, join them and get to know the person that way. There's no pressure to pay for men and no one on one pressure for women to have sex before they're ready because others are there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:39 AM
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If you're only driving a car once, but you have to risk your life for it, would you choose a high end expensive one you could never own, or a average one you will probably buy in the future?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:08 PM
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So what would this look like? If husband cheats on stay at home mom, she gets everything on the asset split? And why only for cheating, I think physical abuse should warrant this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:30 PM
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Understandable. Someone can be celibate for any reason they want or no reason. It's their life to choose what they feel is best for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:56 PM
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A moral judgemen on women is maybe just a bit implied...but ok, I believe you... Jump in the line, rock ya bawdy on time...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:20 AM
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I don't think it's morally wrong to romantically reject someone for things they can't change. What's important is making a compatible match. How does OP think dating/marriage should work? Dating socialism? Every man makes a request and gets matched with whoever, regardless of what the woman wants, since what women want is morally wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:02 PM
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I was the stay at home parent and then bread winner. The bread winner role was better by far, and even as the bread winner, I still came home and did chores and the child rearing because my ex refused to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:34 AM
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Well, I don't see women saying single fathers are "for use". They just leave them alone and don't date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:04 PM
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Why is it people deny that even abusive assholes don't start out that way in relationships. They start with the mask on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:14 PM
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This is why birth rates are going down all over the world. Good. Less men complaining about having to help financially care their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:16 PM
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With social media, many more young women can see how the lives of mothers suck. Motherhood has bad PR. Honestly, marriage does, too. The girls from bigger families that had to care for younger siblings always knew. For them, now it's more socially acceptable not to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:47 PM
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Women probably mostly don't approach because there's not enough benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:09 PM
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There aren't enough women in their 20s for all age men and yet men of all ages still aproach....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:08 PM
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This would only work if men start doing other things that make the juice worth the squeeze for women to ask men out. Or basically, it'd be the same complaint here that women only ask out the top men, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:37 PM
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Men like having sex with women more than women like having sex with men. Men don't necessarily actually like women more outside of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:15 PM
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I don't really see anyone going out of their way to give sympathy to those not getting needs met, even needs that people would die without like a kidney transplant. I don't see any reason to treat men that can't get a partner differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:42 PM
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Pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:02 AM
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There are lots of men who would trade paying all the bills for not having to do any chores or cooking. If the couple agrees to that arrangement, I see no issue with it. What's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:58 AM
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Men honestly don't care no matter how logically the topic is approached. So maybe the goal of the man or bear topic should be to get women to see this, instead of men to have some consideration for women or change. Men aren't changing. Women need to move about the world accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:45 PM
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Fathers of the younger woman seem to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:30 PM
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And some of those children being funded are future men, but fuck them I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:42 PM
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Alone. People and bears suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:32 PM
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The man and the bear. That way, the man will spend more of his time worried about the bear so he'll leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:17 PM
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Why is it a lot of these men don't adamantly say they don't want a kid with woman util AFTER they get condomless sex? I suspect they know the woman would likely make them use a condom or not have sex with them at all if they let her know he will bail if she gets pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:24 PM
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Why should women of any age base their choices for the one life they have on their value to men at any given time? Does that value give women any real long term benefits? Chicken is valuable to KFC. Great for KFC, not so much the chicken..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:38 AM
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When I think what female gaze centered porn would be like, my first thought was of scenes from movies like Ghost, Dirty Dancing, and Road House but more explicit. Or I just had a thing for Patrick Swayze back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:51 AM
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Being the sole provider was easier for me. Even when as the sole provider, I was still performing the majority of child rearing and household duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:41 AM
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I've been thinking older men dating younger women is a major part of the answer to this. Especially considering that birth rates have went down the past 40 years so you have men of all ages competing for women under 30, whose number is lower because of birth rates having went down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:49 AM
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The only people I consider low value are pedos, thieves, murderers and drug dealers. That aside, if I consider men that are less attractive to women, I hope for them to be able to find someone someday, if a relationship is what they want and feel a little sadness that it will be harder for them than more attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:14 PM
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Women can be sexually desired by a man and still be tolerated when the man doesn't really like her at all & is there just to get laid. I think in this case a lot of men would not care as long as he's getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:18 PM
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A large number of men of all ages go after women in their 20's-- 33% of the U.S. female population. Seems kind of 80/20ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:31 PM
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I wouldn't say it's the "only" thing. When it comes to women, it's #1 on the list of what the majority care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:49 PM
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Foodie calls aren't worth doing. I could go eat with friends, family or a guy I'm attracted to. I do think foodie calls are kinder than booty calls l(pump n dump). All the guy ends up with is spending money he can earn more of in a foodie call. In a booty call a woman risks an STD, being coerced or forced into non-consentual acts, getting pregnant & having to deal with abortion or being a baby mama. Even if none of that happens to her body counts is up 1 for sex she statistically did not even ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:39 AM
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If I were to move to a new city, to meet people I would probably first go online to see what's happening in the area. I'd choose events I thought looked fun and go. I assume back in the day people used the newspaper or tv for that. It seems to me internet makes it easier to find out where people are going out to. I will say I'm obviously looking at this from the view of someone neurotypical so maybe I'm just not able to see where the issue lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:01 PM
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Men only do romantic stuff to bait the woman in and get her locked down. Once they feel comfortable they have her, they stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:18 PM
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When I heard about that website Ashley Madison paying people to make fake women profiles, I became convinced all the dating apps/websites are doing this. There are less women on the apps than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:24 AM
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Aren't men looking out for young men when they tell them not to wife up hoes or single mothers, get a prenup/don't get married? Men just have different worries in relationships to warn young men about than women have is all it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:27 AM
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I went through that personally and have seen women I have met from, friends, family, coworkers, neighbors, be that traditional women and get screwed over. I wanted to believe so bad myself, yet out of the 3 relationships I've had, the guy that treated me the best was the one I treated the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:28 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:21 AM
9

Men are simple, all you have to do is cook, clean, have sex often & be submissive and they will be good to you, give you the world even.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:23 AM
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Also the man gets more orgasms so women bring more in casual sex & relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:39 PM
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I think this is true. People with the means to ensure their kids make it to adulthood & have a longer life expectancy wouldn't need to birth a bunch of kids with the hope some survive. The places with highest birth rates have the lowest life expectancy & highest child death rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:51 PM
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Seems like an inevitable pendulum swing. It goes too far on the liberal side & society shifts for a time towards the conservative side. Conservatives get too oppressive causing the shift back towards liberal ideals. Finding a middle ground would be too sensible for humanity to handle so the pendulum it is for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:00 AM
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And submissive=obedient
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:46 PM
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If you're looking to nut in a woman and move on, of course almost any will do. That men find most women attractive enough to fuck does not make men on some moral high ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:49 PM
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My 2 cents, you can't control attraction. If a woman has no attraction for guys shorter than her, she shouldn't date them. If a guy has no attraction for fat chicks, he shouldn't date/ have sex with them. Also, just because someone has no attraction to a certain type, it does not make that less attractive person a bad person and they shouldn't be treated badly for being less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:23 PM
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I don't think it's hard at all to find a hot guy. The issue is a safe guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 12:25 AM
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Aren't most of the writers of those movies men though?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:32 PM
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I'd like the opinion of all the children cheating military men left all over the world on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:56 AM
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Well who doesn't want to be the first to cause someone emotional trauma. Everybody wants to be their person's first, right.....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:57 PM
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Where's all this complaining going on? I don't see it. I have seen older women that have had bad age gap relationships warn young women of the possible downside but not complaining those relationships exist like they want the man that younger woman is dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:50 PM
0

Yes. Money after bills should be a 50/50 split.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:54 PM
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I'd say yes if it meant his financial responsibility started at that point as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:52 PM
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Not referring to you specifically. I see the same you see in PPD with men linking themselves to the accomplishments of other men and I don't get the point of what that does for them or what they feel it does I guess. Maybe it's not for me to know since I don't believe one has to do something significant for society to be a good person. Just don't be a bad person, hurt others on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:46 PM
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What I find interesting about this topic is how people want to base their importance as a person on a characteristic they have no control over like being male or female only to then try to lump themselves in with people who do important things for society that they individually don't based on that trait. Why even do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:22 PM
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Some may get offended because the asker of the question usually does not go over what they're bringing to the table first and it kind of implies a lesser value of the person being asked. It also seems to kind of imply the person being asked deserves less or should accept possible mistreatment because of how little supposedly they bring to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:32 PM
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The main thing artificial wombs would effect are the number of women that marry because the bio clock ticking, couples divorcing over not being able to conceive and adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:31 PM
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Seeing what I have online absolutely makes me scrutinize the men I meet more than before. I listen for certain things and take note. I also better understand what my father was trying to tell me about being careful around men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:50 AM
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Going by these stats, combined with men older than 29 are also going after the women 18 to 29, it would seem dating logically should be harder for men than women due to the competition alone. Seems like men are the 80% going after the 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:48 AM
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The one thing men are least logical about is women,sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:24 PM
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It seems to me men put in more effort before commitment/sex but women put in more after which lasts longer so I see no issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:09 PM
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I'd say if the testing is made mandatory the mother gets notified if her baby and another child is matched within 6 months to the same father. Let all the cheaters get caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:37 PM
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Marriage is for children. Women are socialized to want it by society from the time they get their bridal barbie while watching the Disney princess get her happily ever after by marrying the prince. Less women would want marriage and kids if they were told what it's really like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:02 PM
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https://medium.com/@disquiet_fem/why-do-we-forget-the-children-of-sex-tourists-9251fb7f620a
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:50 PM
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I only take issue with men that are willing to decieve to get their dick wet but still want to be seen as the nice guy. Nah, own that shit like hard core gold diggers own that shit. You're after ass and will lie to women looking for relationships to get a pump and dump. You don't also get to be the good guy. But supposedly women are the ones that don't take accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:17 PM
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Men at all levels will use a woman if he gets the opportunity. Women know this. Just like men know there are women at all levels that will use a man for a foodie date. Getting used when giving the lower tier person a chance is far more humiliating so why do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:23 AM
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I think deep down these men know because of how they talk about women in certain countries and how they'll just go get a wife from there. They know it's really because those women have less so they can get them with less provision.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:06 PM
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The inference that women have to much control over who gets to have sex with them just don't sit right with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:39 PM
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If I were to even consider knowingly being in a polygamous relationship, I wouldn't be faithful to the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:30 AM
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It seems if there's a bunch of 40's men competing with 20's men for the smaller amount of 20's women because birth rates have gone down over the decades, that would cause unfair competition for the 20's men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:38 PM
1

How does age and age gaps play into this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:26 PM
1

So prostitutes and women that work at sperm banks should be the happiest demographic of women. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:44 AM
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If a guy gets more luck beta buxxing abroad then good for him. I see no issue. As long as it's a fair exchange, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:33 AM
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Marriage in only beneficial for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:54 PM
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All I can think about is the bureaucracy cluster fuck FA would be. Regular abortion, 1 fetus that could be born or not. Even if the woman got pregnant every 9 months as soon as she could, eventually her body would give out and she couldn't do it anymore. FA, a man can impregnate as many women potentially as he could sex for many years with no end in sight. The extra court cases when men that financially aborted try to contact the kid. Would the removal of consequence from using a condom make les…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:28 AM
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Imagine if this 50/50 attitude really went to everything in the relationship. Couple has sex, she doesn't orgasm so he has to give her one before she'll give him another. Get that mouth to work sir or maybe he can use a sex toy on her so he's not getting any unfair extra nuts before she gets one. She births their baby, he has to pay the babies expenses solo for the first 9months to make up for the 9 months she put in plus kick him a real good one in the balls so he can have his 50% of the pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:05 PM
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I think maybe humans were meant to live in extended family groups instead of the nuclear family model we've put ourselves in. I think a lot of issues we're having is that male and female are equal human beings yet how we've been living has devalued the woman and her contributions to society creating conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:38 AM
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From the responses to my comments, it would seem redpill is not a movement per se to be allied for or against men actively doing something collectively to change dating/marriage/relationship dynamics. With present input I now see redpill as mostly a place for men disgruntled with how things are for them to vent to each other mostly and secondary to that give advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:43 PM
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The fact that because birth rates are going down, each generation there are fewer women aging up into that prime age range men like and men do not age out of wanting that female group so with passing time there are more and more men competing for the prime women. This raises another question for me, Is redpill male competition focused enough to address that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:10 PM
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It raises questions like sooo is there supposed to be a group of women to be basically concubines for sex and those ones don't deserve love, relationships and marriage that are just there to be used for sex all their lives? Then the second group that are there to marry at a young age to the older men ready to settle down? Doesn't sound good for women of either group honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:34 PM
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I don't know to what extent this ideal is redpill, any way, the ideal for men seems to be men being able to have casual sex in their youth with prime age women(18 to 30) until they are ready to settle down in their 30s, also with a prime age woman(18 to 30) that has a low to 0 body count. This does not seem possible given the female population.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:21 PM
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Yes. Men are the ones coping because they talk about the wall more the women do. Women are not obsessed with the wall at all, men are the ones obsessed over dating and getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:17 PM
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The loneliest I ever was, I was in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:36 AM
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It's dumb because men are usually trying to get a woman to come to their table. Most women don't pursue men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:27 PM
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It seems like men talk about the wall more than women do as revenge fantasy/cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:15 PM
1

Thinking about the worst it could possibly be on that low end I'd choose to be male.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:46 AM
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It seems like serial monogamy would be the best option for both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:32 PM
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It should be a benefits package like the GI bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:13 AM
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The irony is a 40+ year old man is probably gonna write off promiscuity to be with a woman in her 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:45 PM
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I think it would be harder for the average man to get sex every day and more on weekends outside of a relationship, even with lowering his standards below hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:30 PM
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Perhaps it's a population problem at it's core. The birth rate has steadily went down for the past 50 years. Men like to date younger, in the case of some men significantly younger. Since birth rates have gone down, there are less and less women aging into men's preferred age range of 18 to 30 year old women. Yes less males are born too, however older men are these younger men's competition which there are more of due to the birth rates being higher for those older men's generation. I think mayb…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:40 PM
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Or a bunch of men lie to get with women because if they're honest they know they will get no play.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:39 PM
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It's worse because being friend zoned will never end up with a guy having to worry about the life risk of abortion or single motherhood nor an STD.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 10:09 PM
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I'm off course anyway. Just commented my first thought. The women that line up are lining up for what power and money can gain them. An ugly powerful man is still ugly/unattractive.He could be anybody if that's what she's there for. That's why the monkey branching if she gets a better deal. Still fair exchange to me though. Both are getting what they came there for and she ain't there for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:34 AM
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Ugly powerful men are still ugly and unattractive. They are paying to play too but like I said if men can just accept that they aren't wanted just for themselves while they pay to play and get what they want, it's a fair exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:56 AM
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Genghis Kahn not an example of power? OK then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:51 AM
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Being attractive makes men attractive. Power/money just makes women that desire the trappings that power/ money brings more willing to give sex to that man for the return she can get. Why should it matter if the man's getting what he wants I guess accept ego and desire to be really wanted for him and not for his power/money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:50 AM
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Genghis Khan, slave rape wherever slavery exists. Slave owners still raped even though they could have have voluntary sex by offering provisions/money. Bill Cosby, why drug women when gold digger/sex worker will do it for some money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:40 AM
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Why is it then that throughout history it would seem as if powerful men used their power as coercion to get sex or rape? Shouldn't the chicks have been lining up willingly soooo hot for the powerful men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:15 AM
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Not married, however, I think married people here is a good thing for them to speak on what marriage is actually like. Also to talk about going from dating to married. Unless op would like this to be a place for those with little to no successful experience in relationships to rant about it. Is that what PPD is?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:21 AM
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People should just go for what they want without regard for leagues because it's a bit more nuanced than that. Some fit men actually like big women. Some women will get a gargoyle if he has money. Some people just click on a personality vibe, yet one looks way out the other's league, they're together though. That person likes them back is all that matters. Respectfully shoot your shot and don't be an ass when turned down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:11 PM
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If they're truly all those things and not lying, they must be going after women that are not compatible with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:29 PM
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I thought the rule was if a woman sees a Chad not getting sex she has to ask him which hole and then service him. That's not the mandalorian way?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:24 PM
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Men seem to think sex devalues women since they don't value a women with high body count. I don't think men are confused at all about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:24 AM
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I don't see women saying men be brave but also wanting men to not be brave like men wanting women to be virgins but also wanting women to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:16 AM
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So it's totally male centered and no incentive for the woman. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:39 AM
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Where's the evidence of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:38 AM
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I see plenty whining about women's standards. Anyway, men trying to get women to sleep with them while at the same time not wanting women to sleep around at the same time seems like working against both objectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:37 AM
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I don't think it's the idea of "women shouldn't be sleeping around" that's the iseue. It's the hypocrisy of thinking it's ok for men to sleep around with it. Who are these men supposed to be sleeping around with exactly? The other issue when this comes up is, if we take OP's assertions about virgin women at face value and claim it truth that a man marrying a virgin gets a better wife, is there any evidence that the virgin wife gets a better husband? Does she get a man less likely to cheat, less …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:26 AM
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Quite possibly they are not unattractive because they are a virgin, they are a virgin because because they are unattractive to those they were trying to hook up with. They sadly have had bad luck in meeting others that found them fukable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:18 PM
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Nah. Women just describe men they aren't attracted to as ugly. It's really not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:27 PM
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My sister is also lactose intolerant and those pills don't work for everyone. Not the point. People should be able to just say no without an explanation or an explanation the asker feels is justified, that's what really needs to be taught to men because obviously y'all not getting it. I have the right to say no for any and no reason at all. This is not sales where you need to overcome objections. There's a world full of people find someone that will say yes. If it's not a yes, consider it a no. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:03 PM
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I'll replace you with someone that will take mistreatment to get a better life is not the flex they think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:05 AM
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The comparison is quite telling considering how migrant workers are treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:03 AM
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Clear communication was not the goal. If unclear communication(according to cheating) meets the goal of me avoiding violence, that's what I'm going with. My goal was met, even with the man that asked me about cheating. If I had just said I wasn't interested, his aggressive ass would have reacted much worse. There's a reason people try to say no in non-direct ways is what I was saying. And honestly, the communication IS clear, most people don't cheat so they no it's a no. Just like offering someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:51 AM
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My goal is to avoid a violent reaction to the rejection. The lying has done that in my experience. Changing to saying I had a man even stopped men saying, "Well you ugly anyway bitch." My experience before and after is the reality of what happened. Your scenario was the fabrication. I was talking about what happened in real life. You just Made up some BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:27 AM
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The difference is the retaliation part, the violent part. I noticed men were less hostile if I told them I had a man. They didn't stalk either because they'd be following me home to my man as far as they know.. There's a man in my life to get revenge on them if they harm me. That's the part I'm trying to avoid by saying I have a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:54 PM
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This would be all well and good if there were not people that harm others when their feelings get hurt. Even when the person rejecting the rejecting them is nice and not disrespectful. I was kicked in the face by one guy I turned down and spat on by another. That's when I stopped nicely telling guys I was uninterested and telling them I had a boyfriend/was married whether or not it was true. They seem to take it better that way. Even then, there are still guys that will persist and ask of they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:16 PM
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It irritates the hell out of me when people say "Women wait at the finish line." As if men are out here picking fatties or uglier women and helping them glow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:12 PM
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I've told many men that asked me out I had a boyfriend or was married when I wasn't. Never gave a fake number though. I was safe in the instance that they reacted badly to rejection and they didn't get hurt by rejection. I don't see the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:55 PM
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All I know is a lot of women the have a kid are very unhappy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:40 AM
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Frequency of sex and bjs went down in my past long term relationship and I've noticed it has with women I know. What's never addressed is how the men aren't doing what they did in the past either. Taking her out on dates regularly, affection outside of when he wants sex. With my ex, I felt like after he felt comfortable enough, I was just the bangmaid there to serve him. It was all about him. Other women I have talked about this with online and off have said pretty much the same. Women feel bait…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:28 PM
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Maybe more men should give relationships to the women having sex with them faster instead of labeling them a ho and pumping and dumping. Then women would worry less about being judged for having sex quick with the guy they want the relationship with. She be less worried about getting her heart broken by being pumped and dumped just for having sex quickly with the guy she had real feelings for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:22 AM
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It's not just makeup though. In a lot of countries where women don't necessarily wear a lot of make up women will use skin bleaching cream to try and meet the beauty standard of lighter skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:25 PM
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What I wanna know is, how exactly does op and men that believe like him think it should be? Also does that mean that average men expecting to be treated like Chad are wrong for that? I need answers, my mind is burning with curiosity about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:14 PM
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You're making a common sense statement, that women enjoy sex less than men so logically want it less into some rah-rah fight against teh evil feminists because I used the phrase orgasm gap. I don't even understand what your argument is exactly. Is it, yes the orgasm gap exists so women just suck it up and have more sex they don't enjoy? Funny enough, I have the best sex life and most sex I've ever had with my current boyfriend than any previous because he's put more into my pleasure. I like it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:15 PM
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It's just reality that women have less orgasms than men. Just like it's is that men pay for dates more. It's just logical that if women orgasm less, why wouldn't they want sex less. It doesn't matter why it's less it just is. I don't know why you're offended the orgasm gap exists. It's weird to say the least. Is it feminist bad so you gotta deny something that exists because they talk about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:29 PM
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You seem more incensed than I do. In these comments you have attacked me while I just discussed the topic without responding in kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:22 PM
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Not a feminist. Quite happy thanks. Relationship's great. Enjoy your sexist rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:17 PM
2

Those women can decide what they feel works in the relationship for them. If the man doesn't get at much sex as he wants, maybe he should enjoy the process of spending time with his SO and the relationship. sex isn't the all end be all just like orgasms aren't, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:12 PM
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Only when men do it is "bean counting" ok. Got it. I should "enjoy the process" and not be soooo selfish. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:06 PM
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How many time would you have sex in a row with no orgasm before it would become a little less appealing? Or could go go indefinitely enjoying the process with no climax till you die?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:08 PM
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So he doesn't "enjoy the process" he gets off from but I should if I don't climax from it and I'm selfish if I don't? Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:46 PM
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So the man doesn't "enjoy the process" of giving her an orgasm, even if it takes more "work" but the woman is selfish if she wants him to take more "work" in the process he enjoys so she can climax too? Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:34 PM
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Still not equivalent. Single fathers have no comparison to how single mothers are treated on the dating scene. Single fathers are treated better. Men do their dangerous jobs and get compensation. The compensation in sex Is orgasms and you're suggesting women take the risk for no compensation. Pregnancy still shortens a woman's lifespan and negatively affects her body forever. Only get one body in your life. The tradeoff of sex with no orgasm hardly seems worth the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:00 PM
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A man will never die from child support. A woman's body is never the same after a pregnancy and child support does nothing to a man's body. plus non custodial mothers pay child support and go through pregnancy. So women are just supposed to take life ending risks for what exactly? I find it quite interesting though that men complain about paying for dates to get sex risking only losing some money but think women should take life ending/body decimating risk for sex with no orgasms. Shits wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:35 PM
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She puts in higher risk in the form of pregnancy for his pleasure so why shouldn't he put in more "work" for hers. Work is in quotes here because honestly, is he not enjoying this "work"? Men are begging women for more sex but all the sudden it's a problem to make a satisfying experience for her so she'll want to do it again? Seem like men are their own worst enemies in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:03 PM
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I don't do casual, unless the bangmaid is a 6/6/6 Chad. I'll accept nothing less. Live, laugh love and all that jazz.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:05 AM
20

Forgot to mention the orgasm gap. Of course I'd be less interested in sex than someone getting off when I'm not. Less benefits for me, I'm less interested, makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:34 PM
27

All those things are the reason they're less interested. Also even if a woman gets the relationship, the likelihood of being made into a bang maid is pretty high. And what about the women that actually want to be a mother? If they're realistic, they gotta accept most men will do the minimum to help raise the kids. That's not even considering she's more likely to get cheated on during pregnancy, the changes to her body, risking death and that the # one cause of death for pregnant women being homi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:29 PM
2

I don't think men are attracted to more women. Men are just more willing to have sex with a woman they aren't really attracted to in order to meet the need of emptying their sac. Quite often it seems like a lot of supposedly straight men don't like women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:49 PM
5

Replying merely to correct common mistaken use of a word that did not hinder understanding of what's being said instead of actually adding something of actual substance to the discussion has the affect of making one look like a jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:42 PM
22

Things other than physical attractiveness can effect a woman's willingness to be with a man, not her actual attraction to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:07 AM
6

She definitely likes you if she let you take a shot out of her vagina. She sees you as megachad if she let you use a straw.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:03 PM
10

It depends, did she charge extra for finishing in her mouth or was that included?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:58 PM
1

I've been a stay at home mom and did all the housework. I was happier working 50 hour weeks even though my ex still had me cooking and doing all the child rearing when I got off work and he stayed home. The kids were in daycare when he stayed home and with me when I stayed home. I was still happier with the increased doing both than being a stay at home mom because I get a real day off to do what I please as far as hobbies and don't have to get someone else's ok to spend money on my interests. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:30 PM
5

Based on pure physical, women do find men in their 20's most attractive. For women though, finding someone attractive is not the swaying factor of her willingness to have sex with/be with him unless it's just a one off, never to see him again if she's into that. Most women aren't into casual or one night stands. I can appreciate the eye candy that is younger men without trying to get sex with them. It would seem many men cannot do that with young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:07 PM
1

A cheating woman is not worse than a cheating man. A woman that cheats BACK, is the GOAT!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:05 PM
24

I think it would make less older men leave their wives for younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:09 AM
2

The issue I think is more getting men on board because it's men that want women to be faithful while men sleep around. If everybody is just monogamous to one for a time then moves on I don't see the issue but most men(that want multiple partners) don't truly want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:22 AM
1

It would seem based on this serial monogamy is the perfect solution then for both men and women. Men get variety, women get to monkey branch. This comment is partially sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:16 AM
2

I wonder what effect drugs like viagra had on older men deciding to compete for younger women. It does seem like there's more older men competing for much younger women than in previous generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:28 PM
16

Why is "men will pump and dump women of all types." Proposed as some kind of positive for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:03 PM
5

A lot of women date both women and men seem to prefer dating women from what I've seen. Why is that if dating women is supposedly sooo much harder?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:55 AM
2

How easy/difficult should it be dating? How much effort should one have to put in for what amount of return? Do those that feel they're having a difficult time have unrealistic expectations as to amount of effort that they should have to put in? I think the answer to how difficult it is lies somewhere in the middle of unrealistic expectations and assumptions of what should be obtained for the amount of effort put in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:27 PM
4

Women do more day to day loving actions in a relationship. Men use romantic gestures to court the woman and once they feel they have her locked down, they only do romantic stuff on special occasions if at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:29 AM
3

It seems when men talk about treating women "equally" they only talk about the negatives for men. Imagine if men treated single fathers the way they do single mothers, women with high N counts vs men with high N counts, the high level of vitriol when a woman disagrees with a man online vs how men disagreeing are treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 01:04 AM
10

Based on friends and acquaintances I've talked about this with they've either always mad all men wait till a relationship, or they really liked a guy once and had sex quickly under the impression he felt the same only to get pumped and dumped and her feelings hurt so after that she makes men wait on the attempt to avoid that hurt again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:03 PM
9

I'd like to see this verified. Any guy on PPD actually tried being a complete true asshole to a woman you just met that resulted in her trying to get with you? I've never seen it. Even the women I know with "asshole" exes, he hid the asshole until he felt he had her locked down. I believe they call it love bombing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:24 PM
1

Perhaps the dating pool has PCP in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:32 PM
1

I think the "women like bad boys" thing is straight bs. I've just never really seen it. Women like men with good looks, are willing to pair with men that have money, personality or talent(sports, music, ect) and not the looks. I've never seen though women want a man solely because he's an awful person so that's not the trait that's getting the women. Even in relationships that turn out to be abusive, the man is nice to the woman long enough to get her feelings committed before abuse starts. I gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:34 PM
1

Men and women tend to pamper each other differently in a majority of cases.(not all) I was speaking of the sugar baby treatment like buying expensive gifts vs what women usually do more like cooking meals and physical caretaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:25 PM
1

Race dynamics could probably make it worse for black men. In my area it seems like most black men prefer a non-black woman. Those women prefer white men though. When I'm out grocery shopping or out for a jog I will often see black men with overweight or older non-black women while the man is young/fit. Seems like they'd rather have that than a fit/same age dark skinned black woman. I could see the upside to this for the man though, the woman is probably more willing sexually and pays for dates a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:13 PM
2

It's seems like it should be harder for men based on the age issue alone. If men ages 18 to 60 are competing for women ages 18 to 30, there's gonna be a hard time, that's limiting enough. Then add in wanting a certain weight, race, and looks... I wonder what's the real percentage of women men are competing for?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:19 PM
1

I think men and women are probably pretty equally shallow. I'd rather someone leave me if they don't want me anymore so I'm free to find someone else than cheat on me expecting me to be faithful to them while they neglect or mistreat me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:43 PM
4

Oh, you care and are clearly mad about it. But hey you have your trp bros to console you, right? So no worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:30 PM
0

And it is only correct and proper that women have no sympathy just like you don't for women and think about themselves first. As my original comment said even but men seem to be mad though about not having women's sympathy as implied by OP. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:16 PM
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Lol. The the irony, "not about women" but literally about gaining access to women's bodies to use for your pleasure. Besides the fact the post is saying an important reason trp exists is women's lack of sympathy. Guess OP didn't get the memo about it "being about women"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:08 PM
5

Women not being sympathetic to men's dating issues shouldn't be so important as to why trp exists then, huh? Seems like an implied wrong women are doing to men by not having sympathy. I don't remember men lacking sympathy being an important reason given for FDS existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:36 PM
24

Why should men's struggles with dating be of concern to women when women's struggles are of no concern to men? Seems even to me. Women talk to women about their struggles where they can get sympathy and men talk to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:58 PM
1

Some people get with and stay with fat people some don't. Watch the show my 500 lb life. Most of those people men and women have a spouse so apparently even the morbidly obese are getting relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:45 PM
6

And lots of guys don't have wife goggles so....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:53 PM
6

Congrats, one out of hundreds of thousands....fancy an trophy for being so noble?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:47 PM
23

Of course because men never complain about women letting themselves go ever or complain about a woman changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:39 PM
23

The only potential issue I see with men improving solely to get a partner is men already usually stop doing what they did to get the woman once they have her. Then over time the woman leaves because of it, now he's back where he started.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:04 PM
18

But they can still get that diiiiii-ack if he needs to drain his balls. And should do so gratefully for the privilege itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:50 AM
66

So, a guy assumes a woman less attractive than him will happily go out with him to get pump and dumped. His opinion is she doesn't deserve much or good treatment because of her looks and so if she turns him down he assumes it's her inflated ego. Of course women less attractive have inflated egos if they think they are worth any better treatment or can turn a guy down for any reason--- how dare she believe she's worth anything! This don't sound entitled at all. /S
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:33 PM
13

Why do so many men not care about taking care of their kids physically 50/50 and are fine with only doing the financial part when they are married/live with the mother? I've seen far to many married women that live basically like single mothers do when caring for the children is concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:10 AM
1

My entire argument though is based on, I don't think it's wrong for someone to be glad if someone dies that puts out hateful propaganda towards you. whether those people are right about kevin is irrelevant to that. Even if they were wrong about kevin(doubt they are) it wouldn't change that basic premise because it's not specific to kevin. Where's the clip of him praising dark skinned women as a whole not just that specific one? Even a racist can say a single black person is a good one and not li…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:59 PM
2

Go ask those that tweeted that for a clip. What's funny though, a friend of mine on Facebook sent me an invite to a KS group on there and it is filled with posts form men that are KS fans putting down black women, using slurs against black women, some were making posts happy about the death of black women that were killed or beaten by white men they were dating. It would seem KS fans must not be getting the loving message he was sending out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:25 PM
2

Both those comments pointed out how KS promoted hatred against black women and dark skinned black women. So let's say they are passing on his grave, KS was pisding on the lives of black women & girls so maybe his hateful ass doesn't deserve any reverence in death. I always though respect the dead was a dumb ass saying anyway. KS is deserving of the hateful legacy he left in the world. That did not die with him and should be acknowledged.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:17 PM
5

Seems like y'all crying because ya daddy KS ain't getting the respect in death y'all want. LMAO. If people are happy you died, maybe you ain't shit. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:11 PM
2

I've seen it. Pointing out him being hateful as why you're not unhappy he died isn't sitting on his grave. Those people are telling the truth. I thought KS supporters liked the truth to be told. Are they supposed to lie and say this man that didn't even take care of his own kids was a good person? For what. Because he died no one should tell the harsh truth about him?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:05 PM
2

You took it dramatic yourself. No on is pissing or shitting on KS grave but ok.....still don't have to feel sorry for the death of one that promotes hatred and harm to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:25 PM
4

I won't be telling Jews how to handle when a prolific anti-simite dies, or Asians when a anti-Asian racist dies, or blacks a KKK member dies either. Why should women(black women especially in the case of kevin samuels) be held to a different standard? Nah. If someone hates you and promotes hatred and mistreatment of you, I see no issue with being glad that person is dead and can't do it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:12 PM
3

Name the women on YouTube that treat men like samuels did women. When they die, go ham. Enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:02 PM
-2

I don't see anything wrong with being glad of the death of someone that actively encouraged and emboldened people that hate you to defame you and put you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:50 PM
1

It seems like the biggest Karen's are married and threaten to have their powerful, rich husband have your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:22 PM
2

Regardless it still backs up that there's no real incentive for women to ask men out if you don't get more or better for that extra effort. More effort, same result. Why would I logically put in more effort got the same result?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:07 PM
1

If the speed of opening the legs doesn't change but the guy asking her out instead is what's different and he stays for a relationship then that's the better choice then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:01 PM
2

Or they could just go with how they get the better outcome and let guys ask them out instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:04 PM
-1

I do believe the person that asks the other out should pay. As a woman though, I've never asked a man out because I've never seen the reward be worth it. I've not seen better outcomes for friends or acquaintances asking men out. They always got pumped and dumped. At least for men I know asking women out, yes some got used for dinner but most got the sex they wanted at least once or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:59 PM
9

I don't know that it's anyone's problem, just think the irony that pussy is sooo important that without it being brought to the table all deals are off(for the men usually asking) kind of makes asking the question disingenuous. In reality they don't really care about anything else on the table. But expecting honesty about that is probably dumb on my part anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:52 PM
22

I don't like the question because if the man asked had a choice between a woman that only brought pussy to the table vs one that brought everything except pussy, he'd choose pussy. Why even bother when pussy is soooo important that if it was off the table nothing else matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:18 PM
0

The worst sex I had was with my ex that had the biggest penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:29 PM
3

I wonder how much men that go for significantly younger women makes it harder for men in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:47 PM
14

As a woman I have found the part of this post about men to be untrue. I've been in a relationship most of my life. My shortest relationship was 2 years so when men approached me I tell them I'm in a relationship and many men have still tried to get my phone number to see if I would cheat or leave my SO. According to red pill don't women "monkey branch" anyway, women certainly couldn't do that if men were not willing to try for another guy's lady. Also some single men I know do complain a bit abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:06 PM
2

Maybe 1 on 1 dates should be replaced with inviting people when going out with friends. That way men don't feel pressured to pay and since it's a group setting instead of 1 on 1 they can get to know each other without the woman feeling pressured for sex either. There's the added bonus of the friend group sering if the person fits in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:34 AM
2

Yes. The health of the relationship, not my attraction to my partner. If the sex overall was less, not just that specific act could mean my attraction is less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:02 PM
1

I do wonder why the biggest Karens causing a scene and mistreating employees usually has a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 06:41 PM
7

I consider the BJ a romantic gesture, not something I do because I'm soooo hot for him I just gotta have it in my mouth because it does nothing for me. It's something I do because I'm moved by the romantic gestures he does for me. I've stopped doing bj's for a partner before because he stopped romantic gestures for me while I kept giving bj's and even when I talked to him about it he changed nothing so I stopped the bj's because I was getting bitter about it and feeling like he's getting everyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 06:25 PM
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