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Also again, it’s still creepy you had all those pics… Idrc bro. They are random women. Someone asked me for an example of what I think average women look like a month ago and I found some examples. It's creepy that you jump to weird conclusions about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:15 PM
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Why don't you love me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:56 PM
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I respond when internet women message me. I've had people try to scam me and send me weird messages too but I'll answer people who seem normal until they give a reason not to even bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:56 PM
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yeah you’ll be “happy” You don't know the definition of happiness? but they aren’t what you want you’ll just settle per se to have the physical attention you desire I am physically attracted to them, so yes they are included in what I want and aren't settling. 2, those women aren’t ugly I didn't say or imply that they are. Do only hot and ugly women exist to you? I think you're the one with the problem here. Crazy that average women don't even register in your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:55 PM
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Majority of men here want to be with extra hot women No, I am implying that I wouldn't only be happy with extra hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:44 PM
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Nothing is stopping you from dating younger adult women, thin women, or women with the type of boobs/butts you like. You mean except women themselves, right? Because they aren't slaves that I can just force to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:51 AM
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That's so disrespectful to assume about someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:19 AM
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I'm a very lonely man who's touch-deprived and deprived of female affection all my life. I would be very happy with women like this https://imgur.com/a/gKD7sEY, quit throwing us under the bus. You don't even know me or the lonely men here like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:18 AM
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I've heard women say this a lot in here. Those men they settle for are never me btw. Never, but somehow they all keep finding these other "assholes" all over the place hahahaha. I think it's a sick joke, that women are purposefully choosing other lonely men and not me, just so they can complain about them later, even further tarnishing my chances of finding a loving girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:14 AM
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Why can't you be attracted to me? Why other men and not me?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:10 AM
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the millions of young men who aren’t Andrew Tate fans who do want help. They don't consider us. It's like when I message lonely women who say men only want sex and are always mean to them. They ignore my messages of wanting to genuinely connect and then go back to rage/sad posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:09 AM
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I'm not falling over him, I don't even know anything about the stuff he says or watched any videos of him. I only learned who he was just late last year because everyone is obsessed with him everywhere you go on the internet. And that he's going to prison or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:07 AM
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Why don't you love me too? Why those other ones and not me?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:05 AM
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I'm a skinny lonely guy and would have been mature, kind, cool, and playful/fun with you but of course the other jackass guy always gets all the opportunities. I'm losing to lonely obese men who don't take care of themselves. Lol at this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:05 AM
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Again, another woman who chooses other undesirable men over me. Am I that much more awful than them or. something? Where are all of these women who are giving chances to ugly men? And why can't any of you giving any chances to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:01 AM
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None of those men that you gave a chance to were me so it doesn't matter. They get a chance, I never do. I keep seeing women talking about these lonely, undesirable men, who turn out to be awful, that they try to date but I'm never one of them. Where's my pity date? Where's my pity gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:59 AM
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The trick is to find women who are a bit crazy. How, when they still have their dms flooded?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:18 PM
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I am average and absolutely cannot get any of these average women: https://imgur.com/a/gKD7sEY
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:16 PM
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I am actively trying in meetup groups. Problem is it seems women aren't actually looking for relationships or to connect with men specifically. Usually there are more men than women too, regardless of the type of meetup.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:59 PM
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What are you talking about? I'm a lonely man right here, who has a face that women are never attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:54 PM
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None of that has anything to do with dating. Dating was a lot better for everyone in the 80s and 90s, there's no doubt about that at all. The difference between today and then is the internet. So using the equal rights thing as a reason why it's changed now is ridiculous, because if that were the case, then dating would have been completely different back in the 80s and 90s too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:16 PM
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Dude, they are obviously biased and I've known this for years. Yes, that sub is allowed to say whatever they want. Including ridiculous shit like this: https://www.reveddit.com/v/ForeverAloneWomen/comments/x6j1yn/anyone_else_get_jealous_when_other_girls_can_not/ https://imgur.com/a/RVU8Dpr 100+ upvotes. Imagine if we said we want someone high quality and that we are high quality ourselves 😂 Irrelevant but I saw that comment of yours telling that woman that she had a boyfriend only 6 months ago b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:56 PM
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No, I just tried lowering my standards of "don't be morbidly obese". Plus I still thought she was facially cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:43 PM
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Dude I just saw your post and wtf, I'm so surprised that stayed up 😂😂. I'm shook man. But that post speaks volumes on how I feel too. Wish I had seen it sooner, like on the day of it's posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:14 PM
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unatteactive, very grunge-like outward appearance. Dude, jesus christ. It would break his heart to see you say this about him. The fact that you would keep this hidden is insulting as it is because you know it's wrong to feel this way about your partner. That's not okay at all. No man wants to know that his partner thinks he is unattractive with a grunge appearance, but "his personality made up for it". Like I said in another comment, we want to feel physically desirable too by our partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:47 AM
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Most women don't ask men out period so idk how people even consider it a valid talking point that men are out here rejecting women. Sure, it definitely happens but extremely rare compared to men asking out women. Anyways, I've asked out a lot of women in the foreveralone and ugly communities. Always got rejected, most recently by one of the mods in the ugly subreddit. And if anyone were to ask for proof, I can back up my words easily about some of these rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:30 AM
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No clue. I suspect it's either because it was proven that men like me don't really have many options at all. Or that some men in the comments were saying how it's fucked up that fa women are always bashing fa men. But for some reason, they are biased with posts there. They allow things like this https://imgur.com/a/jqWm3EL to reach 300+ upvotes full of women shitting on men, but delete my pretty tame post. Meh. Also I asked out that woman depicted in that that comment section once before, she re…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:14 AM
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I'm average and I'd date all of these average women. I'm physically attracted to all of them: https://imgur.com/a/gKD7sEY
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:57 AM
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Explain criminals who get love letters, marriage proposals, and some even modeling offers. 1 recent example of many: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11712961/amp/Lovesick-Kentucky-woman-claims-accused-Idaho-killer-Bryan-Kohberger-perfect-man-her.html
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:54 AM
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What a gigachad/gigastacy. insert meme
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:54 AM
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Nah, even if I message morbidly obese women on dating apps, they don't reply back. And women around my level of looks aren't attracted to my face(I'm average).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:53 AM
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Exactly this. They have access to makeup, endless fashion choices, lots of beauty self care products and feminine ways to boost themselves like nails, shaving hair, lots of different hair styles, etc. And being thin or curvy is a huge bonus for them too. Thinnesss is achievable for 99% of women. But of course you can't change bone structure so if she is facially unfortunate, then yeah it's bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:51 AM
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Men can't compensate still because none of those things makes women physically attracted to our faces. Money and status don't change how they feel about our face. Would you be okay knowing your man isn't attracted to your face but says "I like how much money she makes and her personality so it's fine"? Like wtf lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:49 AM
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Personality can't make a woman attracted to your face. It's on you to be with a woman who is on the fence about your looks. No one wants to be with someone who isn't physically attracted to them, regardless of the other stuff the bring to the table. It's just insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:47 AM
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If she's indifferent: You can rarely turn a maybe into a yes. Still what's the point if she is "meh" about your face. No one wants to be with someone who is "meh" about them, no matter how good their personality is. Everyone wants their partner to be physically attracted to them, and "meh" doesn't fall in that category.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:46 AM
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Totally agree. If a woman isn't attracted to my face, my personality is not going to magically make her like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:44 AM
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new, emancipated woman Wym? Woman have been free to mostly do what they want for a century, and able to get a credit card since 1973. Dating was completely fine in the 80s and 90s, which is my parents generation, and even in the 2000s mostly. The reason it's so shit now is because of social media and the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:43 AM
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My worth: Tinder: https://imgur.com/a/YSIWKgi Bumble: https://imgur.com/a/Z1vxvB7 Okcupid: https://imgur.com/a/RzP94iE r/ForeverAloneDating: https://imgur.com/a/1USMwvw IRL: Asked out 23 women in the last 8 years. College, work, clubs. Rejected by them all. Either I have zero worth or my match is a morbidly obese woman. And I'm an average looking, slim man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:40 AM
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If you want that type of emotional support out of a partner What type? For someone to talk to/bond with and be there for me? Everyone wants that. That's not close because I don't rely on my own mother for happiness. When kids leave the nest, they develop independency and become less reliant on their parents(typically that is). I think you are reaching very far, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:40 PM
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I'd say yeah it will be easier still, because dating apps. The disproportionate sex ratio is still in their favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:22 PM
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Sure, and there are also people who go from dirt poor to filthy rich, people who are ugly as a kid but have an insane puberty growth and are attractive as an adult. And there are people who have severe mental disorders but manage to find the right people and the right medication to cope with that and become much better off. Doesn't happen for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:12 PM
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what happens when that partner is gone? Then my life probably goes back to what it is now. I accept that it's a very likely outcome. And that reality just adds on to the reasons why I'm not really interested in living. Forgive me for turning this conversation more bleak. Even with a partner you have to carry out your own life I do that currently. I'm not a codependent person. I'll still want my alone time all the same, but I also want someone to spend a lot of time with as well and whom I can gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:50 PM
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Wow look at all of my options Tinder: https://imgur.com/a/YSIWKgi two matches, one who never replied and one who rejected me. Zero likes atm Bumble: https://imgur.com/a/Z1vxvB7 One like. For the past two months, who I've yet to even see. Okcupid: https://imgur.com/a/RzP94iE zero messages, got some likes but they are all bots. Many men have this issue on OKC. r/ForeverAloneDating: https://imgur.com/a/1USMwvw Zero dms. I've made more posts than those two but have deleted. The women absolutely have…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:00 PM
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They don't. But when you constantly complain about how no one wants you, but yet are rejecting suitable men like women in r/ugly and r/foreveralonewomen do often, then it's just dumb and they want to be victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:34 PM
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I mean, snarkiness will get you nowhere dawg. Good luck to anyone actually trying to change your mind, goodness lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:28 PM
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Sure, that's why she'd be my girlfriend and not just anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:27 PM
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Bro you just said I have options. I proved you wrong and now you can't handle it. I simply stated my reality, not surprised that it's hard for you to relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:26 PM
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Nothing flew over my head. I don't care for your point of view, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:10 PM
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Yeah, having a woman would give me more purpose. I'd feel more motivated to be better for her, because she'd deserve that as my girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:48 PM
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Yeah I'm pretty much the male version of you, just never managed to ever attract anyone. All the effort with no reward after years of trying is just so damn disappointing, and it's actually made me even more detached from society than how I was in the very beginning. Learning to cut and style my hair in different ways, changing clothes, trying to improve social skills, rhinoplasty, braces, trying to be more confident. All got from that was more disappointment and rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:45 PM
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Well thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:01 PM
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I have a zero bodycount, not entirely by choice but still. A girl doesn't have to be at zero for me, but I wouldn't like it if she's been with, for example, 5 hookups before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:00 PM
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I mean, early 20s isn't super bad. It gets worse when you're my age and still no experience(26 going on 27 later this year). Despite everything you read here there are plenty of short guys, broke guys etc who have sex and relationships. Yes, I have talked about that multiple before and am aware I am defective compared to majority of other men. Still, there's a developing phenomenon of many young men being single, 63% to be specific. And I fall into that category unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:38 PM
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My point still stands due to skin cells and sperm, regardless of longevity of those cells and lack of impact on a potential future child. I was more referencing the "gross" aspect of just knowing it was there in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:27 PM
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Nah, it's always been my face, as someone with binder syndrome. You don't know people's life or what they look like so you can't sit here abd say it's not their face or x trait. If I had a charismatic personality, I'd have a higher chance for sure, but still, my face definitely holds me back as well because no woman has ever been attracted to it. Never been called cute or handsome by any woman around my age at any given point IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:16 PM
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The guy who has a comment war with you is delusional out of his ass. That woman, although has lots of makeup, is good looking and definitely has dudes in her dms trying to flex on her. Idk why some men think one a woman reaches a certain age, her dating prospects just disappear and get insanely worse. Especially if she's attractive, she will have many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:13 PM
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Having standards as a man is wrong. Therefore you are wrong :) /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:05 PM
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Everything you said I agree with and I'm the same way. Minus the by choice part. STDs, pair bonding issues, expectations of measuring up to her past sexual partners, and the fact that many men have entered her and touched all over her body before me. It's just gross from my perspective. But she doesn't have to be a virgin for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:05 PM
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Sure but even still, knowing a woman has let multiple men touch all over her body and leave his dna inside her is very far from ideal. Women who save sex until they get in a relationship with that person are much more preferred. The only thing about that though is they make some men wait, and others don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:02 PM
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That's just...untrue dude. More women than not do not want a man with zero experience. And that's what you will get with a virgin man. Otherwise virgin shaming, expectations of leading in the bedroom and sexual competency wouldn't be a thing. Some women will be okay with it, a lot won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:58 PM
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Agreed, I don't think men or women should be whoring about. I think it harms women more than men though since men are biologically developed to spread their seed, but still can impact pair bonding in both as well as STI/Ds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:53 PM
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"this person must get it right the first time they are in a romantic relationship or else they are broken". Nah, just that they aren't having hookups men they meet. A few or more failed relationships are fine. It's not a good feeling to know that a woman let 5 random dudes stick their dicks inside her and do all sorts of other things to her before you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:51 PM
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Most women who send me likes are morbidly obese women or masculine trans women, not even ugly. Just straight up unviable to even date at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:47 PM
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I don't have any options at all. Where are my options? I have never had a woman irl show interest in me. A woman hasn't complimented me on my looks since March 2021, and she was in her 60s. I currently have zero likes on a dating and only had 2 matches. 1 who never replied and another who rejected me. I've had this account for 3 weeks now. I've been rejected by over 20 women irl from college, work, clubs, etc. Like you mean to tell me all those guys over at r/foreveralonedating have lots of opti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:43 PM
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I have tried to talk to and date many women in r/ugly and r/foreveralonewomen and they all rejected me in some way. One girl especially, who is the same age as me, sane race(black), but only wants men who look like Eren Jeager from Attack on Titans.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:34 PM
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Ooh downvoting, so classy. You said most men are single by choice. I said "Prove it". Which means prove that most men are single by choice, not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:18 AM
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Prove it then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:12 AM
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I've personally worked on myself to where I can talk to women fairly easily relaxed and calm. Getting the opportunity to actually talk to them under pretense of dating is a different story, like apps or irl. And even then, most I encounter are very dry. Maybe I'm dry too, but at least I talk and ask questions. No one wants to put in any effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:02 AM
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Sadly there is no gym cure for ugly eyes and fucked up facial/bone structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:40 AM
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They are attracted to charismatic and exciting men. It's just that most men don't have fireworks coming out of their asses with comedian-tier humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:38 AM
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I've only been to a strip club twice, both times at 18. Had a crush on one particular girl, single mom, 2 years old than me. But she talked to me while she danced and it made me feel like she cared. Soon after, I realized that I was thinking stupid and never went back to a strip club again because it's not real. Also the customers there are disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:26 AM
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Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:20 AM
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Nope. There is no quick fix when it comes to dating. I'm just looking for viable ways to find available women to date. I'll still consider volunteering, probably animal shelter related because I like furry animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:18 AM
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63% of young men are single. So unless most 18-29 year old men are well below average, I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:04 AM
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Doesn't seem like most young men specifically are doing fine, since 63% of them are single according to that pew research study.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:03 AM
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A likely solution, sure. Easy? No, especially not if you're autistic, have avoidant personality disorder or have severe social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:02 AM
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Women hit on men all the time. Lol okay dude, time to get new jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:59 AM
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Beautiful isn't necessary. Just cute is more than good enough for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:55 AM
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Some men don't have a preference, besides don't be morbidly obese/don't have a large fupa.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:54 AM
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Yeah a lot of guys like that. It's not hard for these women to get lots of male attention: https://imgur.com/a/F6CjUzJ
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:54 AM
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Us "ugly" people can date each other. I've been attracted to a good amount of women in r/ugly over the past few years since I've been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:46 AM
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I understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:42 AM
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This post is about trying(lack of trying) to find women to date. Volunteering shouldn't have been mentioned then if it's not a viable option for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:33 AM
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And you were able to meet women who were around your age at soup kitchens?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:16 AM
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It being attractive doesn't matter because you never saw this man again to even follow up on this attractive quality. It's completely pointless to do what he did. He will never get a girlfriend with that method, because he just walks away after randomly boosting her confidence instead of asking her out. Unless she ends up chasing him down afterwards, which is very unlikely because most women don't want to do the chasing, just like you obviously didn't in your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:44 PM
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Those are all excuses that either men have to go through as well, or the same thing would be the case if a man approached them instead. Many women have concerns about their sexual and physical safety If a man approaches them, those same safety concerns will still exist. So what's the difference? In one scenario they have to actually put in effort and in the other they do nothing. Many are afraid that the man or their social circle will judge them to be desperate and they will be used for a hooku…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:33 PM
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My face is harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:24 PM
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oh he doesn't count Yes, I quite literally do not count to them, they are talking about men like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:23 PM
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This 2 + 2 logic doesn't work dude, not when there's all sorts of variance involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:17 PM
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If you can manage to let yourself be openly seen being friendly and completely un-invested in the outcome of your interactions, it's refreshing and attractive as hell. Just seems to only benefit women because you're the only one getting the ego boost/compliments. Meanwhile he gets...nothing because there's no investment and he walks away. It's like that Drake and Josh episode where Josh's Mom helps him pick up girls by telling him to compliment her shoes and then walk away. Did absolutely nothin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:15 PM
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Well it’s obvious, the guys trying really hard are not attractive Me in a nutshell. Women have just never liked my face and I lack some amazing personality trait they look for I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:57 PM
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Board game cafes Yeah and majority men in most cases. Who also are eyeing the women there too, so competition. Any group volunteer activity. Local festivals to soup kitchens So I have no friends, going to these alone seem kinda hard to overcome as a socially quiet and introverted man who is low on charisma. Any advice on how could I try to make those outlets work?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:54 PM
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drunken community parties What are these and where to find? I have no friends, so I'm afraid this might not be a good idea for me though. volunteer activities I was looking up volunteering in my city last week and thought about this. But how do you know which ones that a good amount of women will be joining?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:49 PM
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There are many fat guys, ugly guys, nerds, crackheads, very depressed and suicidal guys who have all gotten gfs as they are, without all that bullshit. If they can do it, why can't I?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:46 PM
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The problem is that the majority of guys seem not to be attractive to the majority of women. As a result, a lot of guys are and likely will remain single for the foreseeable future. Kinda tired of people gaslighting me when I say women simply aren't attracted to my face. Can't even get your foot in the door and this is one of the main reasons nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:21 PM
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reject women who are unattractive/neurodivergent How would I even get the opportunity to reject anyone? don’t expect to date anything but low self esteem hot mess women I can't get even this. How do I get even this tier of woman? Genuinely asking, because I don't see a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:12 PM
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I can attest to that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:07 AM
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The negativity was here long before I accepted it. It wasn't up to me, other people caused it. And then your own mistakes start to have an impact, and then everything just snowballs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:06 AM
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We all play a role in this shit, not just women. Despite my grievances and bad experiences with women, men are notorious in the parts they play. A good example would be simps. And especially factors like the internet itself just made things monumentally worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:51 AM
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So even if this did make any sense whatsoever, which it doesn't, you fail to realize the first and arguably most important problem that is always present for men in dating. Which is: We hardly have options to begin with so how can we just magically find a woman to be with in an open relationship? This is how I know a woman made this post, because it just comes off as "just find a woman bro. Just lower your standards", as if we have option to do so anyways. None of that matters if the barrier of …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:34 AM
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A 1/10 isn't an option though. Not realistically, unless you expect people to be happy in a dead bedroom relationship and get disgusted at the thought of saying "I love you" or intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:40 AM
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r/ugly and r/foreveralonewomen in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:30 AM
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It's clear that you haven't actually looked up dating advice for men, because a simple youtube search of "dating advice for men", "how to get a woman", or just going to r/seduction would immediately prove you wrong. But you already know that, you just wanted to lie and join in on the "circle squirt".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:13 AM
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dating someone they aren't even physically attracted to but genuinely like and see as a person compared to the inverse And this is supposed to be a good thing? Are you kidding me? I swear if any woman dates me and I find out she isn't attracted to my face/looks, I'm out the door. That's not virtuous, that's just fucked up and it's only going to end up in a dead bedroom. Imagine priding yourselves on your ability to stomach someone's looks and settle for them, and then sugar coat it by saying "Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:07 AM
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Yes. Very cute and doesn't look big at all. Yes. Has the best body out of everyone Yes. Cute but don't like the posture. Maybe but not that all that into her. Yes. Probably the most pretty to me face wise. Not a big fan of the body though. Yes. Feminine cute face but her body is one of the worst ones. Maybe. Pretty face, bad body. Not a fan of the rectangular, stocky shape. Yes. Milf vibes. Yes. I like her face and her body is okay. 1,3, 5, and 6 over everyone else. I think I'd pick 1 as first c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:29 AM
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Do you have binder syndrome or any other facial birth defect that makes you look like a freak in other people's eyes? If not then I don't think you're qualified to say looks don't matter. Maybe stay in your privileged lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:13 AM
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Right because that big ass zit on her left cheek and her fuzzy mustache mean nothing. her facial features may not be your type Don't even try this. Just don't. Bro you're actually trolling right now. I'm kinda done with this back and forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:09 AM
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I don't need to do an experiment You refuse to back up what you say, so in other words, you're just full of bs. Got it. ALL of her messages want hookups btw lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:59 AM
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She is though. Ungroomed, poor skin care, unharmonious facial features, she is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:56 AM
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Maybe, could be lots of factors. Location, race, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:21 PM
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That is not an average girl, don't even try to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:20 PM
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Right, because no man messaging them is capable of wanting more than that. I think that speaks more of your misandry and lack of humanity in men than anything. But I'm down to be proven wrong, you can always do an experiment yourself of an unattractive woman, post there, and see what kind of messages you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:19 PM
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How do they not understand this simple concept? I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:14 AM
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So his situation is worse, almost no choices and choices he can have are still at the same risk to be bad. I appreciate your understanding. Your little brother is me to a T. Almost no choices, and when a "choice" does finally appear, it's just pure crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:07 AM
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And that's it. Arguement dismantled, post destroyed, let's go home. Basically what men keep trying to tell women that having a 20%(women) chance of success is better than 0%(men). Women actually get to date. Men just...die of thirst and constant rejection with no positive reaffirmation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:04 AM
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No I wouldn't want that, I've already had extremely morbidly obese women fetishize me in the past because I'm black, that's not an option. But the difference is there were more than just a few guys who messaged them, I can't state that enough. Those women's dms were flooded. I don't think all of them were good or even feasible options of course. But I'm certain there were some compatible guys who wanted to genuinely get to know them, especially the 1st girl considering she got 50+ upvotes. That …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:57 AM
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Some more proof: https://imgur.com/a/cnQD0ql Meanwhile their male counterparts are literally dying of thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:26 AM
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I've already stepped out. My own female counterpart doesn't want me so there's not point. Might as well try to live life without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:23 AM
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You have dating apps, and you said yourself that you'd get interest. You can also try r/foreveralonedating or r/r4r. Why limit yourself to meeting someone irl when you have options elsewhere? As a starving man, I can't fathom that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:22 AM
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but picky and shooting out of your league. Just actually lol. Every time...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:21 AM
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Can you provide me a picture example of what you deem to be a truly ugly woman who isn't redeemable in 10 minutes? I'm just curious and this isn't a "gotcha" moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:18 AM
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Do you look like any of these women? https://imgur.com/a/cnQD0ql https://imgur.com/a/OklUQHC https://imgur.com/a/MY2wWDP
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:05 AM
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What would such a woman look like in your opinion? Got a photo showcase too?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:03 AM
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I wanna know too. Dm me please
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:00 AM
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By the metric of "they just need to improve this, this and this", then only 0.0000001% to no women are ugly. And that'd also mean all of the women on r/ugly are lying or in denial. Ugliness is the current state of how they look, not their potential. Everyone can potentially be better looking if they do certain things. And I really doubt all the women anonymously calling themselves ugly are even in the same realm of her unfortunate characteristics: https://imgur.com/a/MY2wWDP
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:55 AM
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Pretty much. We've qll seen those public social experiments of woman physically abusing man and man abusing woman. There is always a double standard. But like does anyone actually think no one would come to the rescue of an ugly woman in that same situation? I'd bet my bank account she'd be protected by strangers and an ugly man in her position would get the same treatment as a regular looking man in those social experiment videos, which is ignored while he gets the shit beaten out of him
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:28 AM
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They lock the posts on most dating subs now to prevent commenting because it's pointless to allow it. As before, all the women's posts would be filled with dudes saying "wow you sound great", "send me a message", and so on. It just makes more sense to just message the person directly. Foreveralonedating is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:28 AM
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Here they are, still getting infinitely more options than their male counterparts lol: https://imgur.com/a/cnQD0ql R/foreveralonedating btw. And if you go look at any dating app, site, or subreddit, the men get nothing or almost nothing regardless of what their standards are. It's hilarious tbh. Also, it seems no one can ever find the male equivalent of woman simping over a morbidly obese man like they do this obese woman here: https://imgur.com/a/OklUQHC
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:00 AM
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Your earning potential is higher Says who? More women are going to college than men. And the pay gap doesn't exist. People aren’t always trying to pretend to like you/be your friend just to have sex with you, so your relationships can be more genuine Right, they can instead pretend just so you can do stuff for them or get money from you. More genuine relationships my ass. If you take care of yourself you can be attractive well into your 50s So can women. Makes no sense to put this here. Men don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:02 AM
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I don't think you've ever seen a woman's actual matches and who they swipe on dating apps. They most definitely are not ugly men with beer guts. https://youtu.be/YHQ-dNfR-as Like honestly where do you people get these exaggerated claims from?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:59 AM
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It's true, we are 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:52 AM
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Damn you're actually right. I never made that connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:51 AM
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https://imgur.com/a/D4iNQkR These women have barely done anything to make themselves appealing and yet they have infinitely more opportunities to find someone than their male counterparts. Context is r/foreveralonedating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:49 AM
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The reason for this phenomenon is men have lower standards and women having high standards I thought it was misogynistic to point this out? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:41 AM
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And yet you still let them pay. Why not just take out your wallet and pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:05 AM
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Mind dming me your discovery?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:28 AM
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Can you explain how you are meeting these women after college? I'm 26 and don't know where to go, with the exception of bars and nightclubs because I hate those, plus I have no friends to even go with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:27 AM
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Do you mean just someone who likes to goof around with you or someone who can often make witty jokes off the top of their head?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 01:12 AM
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Yes they are. There's a difference between "edating" and "Long distance relationship". One is just some flimsy bullshit and the other is an actual goal of closing the distance and being together IRL. An LDR isn't permanent.
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 05:14 AM
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It doesn't take that long. Me personally, I'm willing to meet up with someone after a month or two of growing close with them online if they live further away. If you like each other, then you carry on like a normal relationship, moving in together, planning future, etc. And you're not "post wall" wtf. 27 isn't old. I'm 26 and lots of women my age still look young and good to me. You're not 50 years old bro, stop acting like it. And your eggs are fine until about 35.
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 05:12 AM
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Then you don't want a relationship badly enough.
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 03:07 AM
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Planes and cars exist but you have to work for what you want. All relationships take effort. You can find someone who wants to meet irl and commit to living together/moving closer to you after a certain point. Or you could move to their area.
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 03:05 AM
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27 yr old women aren't old man, that's the most ridiculous thing I've heard in a while. You are cracked out of your mind for thinking this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:43 AM
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It's not nonsense because I'm in the same boat as him, and have been for a very long time. I'm 26 and those are are my options on dating apps(specifically only a few single moms and overwhelmingly obese women).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:39 AM
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I don't see how that's even a possibility for me when most have dudes surfing in their dms. It's always a game of "who can stand out the most", looks wise, and compatibility and conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:59 AM
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People don't understand that this is the depressing state of dating for men nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:46 AM
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I've pretty much given up. I've tried so many avenues and it's futile. Especially bars or clubs. I'm not extroverted, I don't really like drinking, and I don't really have and friends to go out with. Those places aren't fun for me. I'd much rather have an Introverted nerdy girlfriend but they still have infinitely more options than me so it's whatever. But others commenting are right about not giving a fuck about the contradictory advice. Just ask out women you like, if you're not trying to be c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:42 AM
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Have you tried any dating apps or dating subreddits like r/foreveralonedating?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:53 AM
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Have you ever used dating apps, r/foreveralonedating, or r/r4r?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:50 AM
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I have tried my best https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/zzzz0i/visiting_rforeveralonewomen_is_an_interesting/j2fpoy0?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:46 AM
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This is going to be long but here's my experience with foreveralone women, and femcels too: So I kid you not, I am a foreveralone man myself and have genuinely wanted to get to know many foreveralone women over the past 5 or so years. I'm not bullshitting or exempting any dick pics or rude messages because I've never sent any of that stuff. This is what I used to frequently do in the past, before and after they unprivated the subredddit: I'd look at women's accounts, see if there was enough rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:59 PM
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I have been doing these things since I was a kid and women still never liked me. I even got plastic surgery to try and fix mt birth defect and they STILL aren't physically attracted to me. Evidenced by rejection irl and extreme lack of dating prospects on every dating apps(1 like per month, if I'm lucky).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:47 PM
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Same. Women will never be physically attracted to me and want be on a relationship with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:40 PM
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Are you not afraid of STDs? Also I'm black, this doesn't work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:28 AM
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