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| 48 | If you’re scaring them, you’re doing something right.I think I would love a "worst of the worst" list of ridiculous comments left here by angry scrotes. But then again I'm sure I could already predict what most of rhem would say, and it's probably not as entertaining as it would be sad. 😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 05:20 PM |
| 19 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.I find it weird that she didn't know how much he made prior to having to sus it out for herself. Almost a year and a half and this didn't come up even once? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 02:07 AM |
| 7 | Ofc he blames it on her and not himselfBut it's definitely not a problem with his geriatric penis... /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 02:27 PM |
| 15 | FDS works: Why men refuse to pay for datesExactly. Even after a handful phone conversations a person should no longer be "random" or a "stranger". And if he doesn't like her enough to pay for her (assuming) reasonably priced dinner, again, why date her? The only end game here is cheap/free/easy ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Relationship status = single🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 03:47 PM |
| 53 | Wife discovers that her 30 yo husband was planning to leave her after finally graduating from college "because he wouldn't need her anymore". Another reason to not settle for men who are struggling.Not only that, but looks fade for everyone with time and age. That 10/10 model type guy might (and that's only a might) age well, but at 60 he's still going to probably look like he's 60. And so are you. Wouldn't you rather find someone who's stable and kind? Looks dissipate but true friendship, respect, and understanding last. I want someone I can build with, not just someone I can look at. Some of the best advice I've heard was to take a look at your partner and picture them in old age- wrinkl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 05:32 PM |
| 25 | PSA: For the love of God, STOP faking your orgasms ladies!I did this once with an ex... needless to say that 2 years into the relationship when I finally admitted I'd been faking it regularly didn't go over too well. He wasn't sad or concerned for me. He was angry, presumably because I'd bruised his tender little ego. But did he make more of an effort, in a way that might have made things better for me? Ofc the fuck not. I can count on one hand how many times he went down on me in an 8 year relationship. Not only that but rarely so much as even touched… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 05:32 PM |
| 35 | PSA: For the love of God, STOP faking your orgasms ladies!Both of you got more of a proper talk than I did. 😥 I mean I was educated regarding where babies came from, but NOT in any way adequately warned about the true nature of boys/men. I wasted nearly a decade of my time and damn near ruined my life on a guy I met at 17. Thanks, mom and dad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 05:18 PM |
| 5 | If you stay at home and look after the children, never undersell your contribution. Woman makes a joke video about her husband stressing whilst she thinks about coffee, comments blast her calling her a lazy leech gold diggers. Men think birthing and looking children and the home is not “real” workIMHO to make a joke about your spouse stressing over work/providing while you daydream about trivial matters is in poor taste. Can you imagine if the genders here were reversed?? It wouldn't be ANY less distasteful. HOWEVER, that is not to say that she deserves that kind of backlash, harassment, and even worse the insults to her innocent child. That's outright deplorable. I've been both a SAHM and a working 60/hrs a week mother. Neither is easy but I can tell you which one I'd prefer if I had th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 07:50 PM |
| 278 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?Non reciprocation is a deal breaker! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 05:22 PM |
| 16 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?I actually really like it and find it to be a turn on. Apparently I'm quite good at it and I've never thought penises were icky (unless they were unwashed... 🤮). Also I'd like to note that the more average sized ones are sometimes more fun in that it's easier to work with and accommodate orally, though bigger ones are more exciting and visually pleasing. With that being said I've been with my SO for 10 years and married for 5 and the impulse to give random out-of-the-blue bjs has definitely wane… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 05:21 PM |
| 48 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.On a scale of 1 to Michael Moore, exactly how ugly do you think this turd is? 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Some scrotes actually think like this--can you even imagine the privilege to complain about this???I have to wonder what this dude looks like and what his mannerisms are that so many women so readily see him as a threat... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 05:29 PM |
| 37 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveCame here to say this. They definitely are not all raised to have that standard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 09:47 PM |
| 60 | Pick me-ism is a hell of a drugI WILL DO AS I PLESSE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 05:12 PM |
| 11 | Again. Single dads will use younger women for childcare.Excuse me but... 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 03:30 PM |
| 135 | Daily dose of scrotityLmao... right?? 100% chance these are the same men whining about how they get no action... yet shame women who actually like to have sex. I guess it's easier to project than it is to self-reflect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 07:41 PM |
| 44 | "He never seemed to mention that he could only live those dreams because his wife was at home with the kids." I don't think many men even consider the perspective of their wives giving up their own life for them. ('Humans of New York' if you want to read the rest)🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 01:38 AM |
| 12 | Reddit hates women who say size matters.I laughed a little too hard at this... 😆 well, actually it was an appropriate amount of laughter but now everyone in the break room is looking at me 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 03:28 PM |
| 15 | Ain't that the truth. 💅🏽😙 It barely takes an year to figure that outI think it takes less than a year to know whether or not you WANT to marry someone, but a good bit of time after the puppy love/ dopamine rush cools off to figure out if you actually SHOULD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 05:11 PM |
| 12 | Friendly reminder: we don’t have an expiration dateAs a 36 yo women who has been really struggling with getting older and seeing the first outward signs of aging, I appreciate this. I am not yogurt. I am not "best by" a certain date. I am still attractive and fun, even if its in a more mature sort of way. And the wisdom and life experience I've gained in the past decade or so has been invaluable. I also missed out on my early 20s due to a shitty relationship and then being a single mother. But I refuse to let a crappy attitude stand in my way of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 04:54 PM |
| 9 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.I hope this poor soul eventually got the help she needed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 02:43 AM |
| 2 | there is so much wrong I don’t know where to startThis guy is so clueless... I hope to god she calls it off in favor of not humiliating herself. What you wear on your wedding day should be solely your choice. I wore an emerald green wedding dress because A). It's my favorite color. B) I'm pale and look ghastly in white, but amazing in jewelry tones and C) Fuck misogynistic conservative tradition. No one's going into this believing I'm a virgin anyhow 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Lol @ these men pretending to be women 😂 they really think we can’t tell 😭🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Dating is supposed to be funGreat advice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:03 PM |
| 9 | Ladies, this is why we stay away from older men.Ugh, I am so sorry this is happening OP. And this is exactly why "staying together for the kids" is a terrible idea. No one can fake happiness forever. Sounds like instead of using his big boy words to just admit he wasn't happy like a dozen+ years ago he just used his dissatisfaction and bitterness as an excuse to whore it up. Classy. This is absolutely not your fault OP, and I hope you don't feel like it. It's 100% on him. It sucks rn but just think: life can only get way fucking better from h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:16 AM |
| 61 | I'm having some flashbacks...Can you clarify how you do this? I have sons.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:17 AM |
| 50 | Don't have kids with LVM.Because sometimes pregnancy happens (so be on top of your B/C ladies!) and not everyone believes in abortion- no matter how LV that man is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:15 AM |
| 28 | I ignored all the red flags and let a POS dull my intuition to cheat, use and abuse me for 2 years. Never again.I feel you on this. Most of the time it doesn't pay to play the "What If Game". Yes, deep down I'm always going to know that he ruined my life and assassinated my every hope and dream, but it serves no real purpose to dwell on it. Learning about why I let that happen and healing myself was far more productive albeit an ongoing process. And since I can't go back in time and get a do-over my energy is better spent figuring out where to go from here and make the best of the life I have rn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:32 AM |
| 12 | Anyone else notice this?Yes, so true. I left an abusive relationship at 25 with my 1 year old son. He seriously believed I would never leave him and "do that to our child". Um, no fool, I did this primarily FOR our child. We would have had a terrible miserable existence if we had stayed, let alone the fact I could well have ended up another statistic dead at the hands of an abusive spouse. Even though I feel I got the better end of the bargain as I got full custody, I do sometimes get angry about how unfair it is that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 06:16 PM |
| 11 | Anyone else notice this?She needs an intervention... poor girl 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else notice this?Thank God your dad took the time to accurately and plainly inform you. Not everyone is that lucky! Don't get me wrong, I love my dad but we did not have that relationship and I got not much in the way of practical advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:25 PM |
| 1 | The Awakening: Women Hold More Power Than They Think and Can Use It to Get Everything They Deserve.Where was this when I needed it??? 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 01:39 AM |
| 6 | Where being a pick me will get you.I've given birth twice and I can't even imagine what kind of a man would want to go to pound town on a bleeding, sore, swollen, possibly stitched up woman. WTAF... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:55 PM |
| 24 | Check on a Pick Me Friend TodayPlease thank that man for actually giving you solid, specific, practical advise about dating. Not everyone is so lucky! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 02:49 AM |
| 15 | Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not youI love how he took time out of his day to whine to internet strangers instead of using that time to, oh I don't know, work out or meal plan or do something that might actually make his life less pathetic. 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Make it easy for your spouseI'm not even sure how I stumbled upon this post, I wasn't even aware there was a Christian rp. As a woman I am not a huge fan of trp and about 80% is rubbish- with the exclusion of the self improvement/ empowerment stuff- that I actually wish my husband would read. In any case that was a good read and I am in full agreement. I also was raised Christian and believe in traditional gender roles. I would have less of a problem with submitting/ obeying a man of I could trust him as a leader and respe… | /r/RPChristians | 08/10/20 03:56 AM |
| 26 | Now we know who to blame... 😂Ain't no one gonna treat you like your momma treats you. The rest of us have the option to walk away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:49 PM |
| 13 | YesI had an ex get seriously freaked out/enraged/insecure over... a bullet vibe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:34 AM |
| 8 | LIARS CLUB: Isn’t it incredible how easy they lie? It’s literally like breathing- thank you to the sis at the car dealership who worked with me to catch a CHEATERGood for you sister! I know that feeling of triumph. Enjoy your life, your freedom, and your sanity!! 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:11 PM |
| 5 | 100% agreedGet out while you can. I mean it. I've been in this relationship and it doesn't get better without a stiff dose of reality metaphorically hitting him the face. If you really like him you can always get back together later on, after he's worked on himself. But he needs to know that you are not going to be his cash cow or his mommy. You have standards. You will entertain the idea of dating him again after he has pulled himself up and is standing firmly on his own two feet. You are better than what… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 06:07 PM |
| 6 | 100% agreedMy man is not exactly rich and I have, to date, never been surprised with a weekend trip or really anything costing over $500 but he is good about picking me up little surprises on a regular basis. He doesn't knock other men and never talks down on guys that can afford to splurge more on their women or allow them to be a SAHM. He often says he wishes he could do this. And if I ever even casually mention that I would like something (which 9/10 times I'm planning buying for myself bc I can) he'll … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Sounds about right.Ladies, if this is the typical sex you are having you need to find a better man. This is one time I can actually stand up and say they definitely are NOT all like that. (But 75% are, especially if below the age of 30). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 07:34 PM |
| 7 | Do they really like women?You hit the nail on the head here. Validation and enabling is all they really seek. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Can’t say this enough- DO NOT GO FOR POTENTIAL.This is advice I needed 10 years ago... 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 06:12 PM |
| 20 | This is what they preach to young girls🤡Exactly. I was the pretend wife at 19, the pregnant and neglected pretend wife at 23 and the abused actual wife at 25. My life started when I got divorced :). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 10:59 PM |
| 38 | Nothing but tea"They just want women to pretend like they enjoy it without even trying to make it enjoyable" = 98% of porn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 03:15 AM |
| 20 | Those couples on dating sites looking for a "third" 🤮That's horrifying 😳. Sounds like she dodged a bullet... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 10:14 PM |
| 2 | 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻Facts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 10:41 PM |
| 9 | Truth"Hobosexual" just made my entire day 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 12:38 AM |
| 16 | This man is a joke, and gross, and I don't know why I'm wasting my time explaining things to him.Ten bucks says he had to Google "dichotomy". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Twin flames, soulmates, Plutonic relationships and other Pickme bs pushed by the astrological communityAs a student of astrology and also a follower of this sub I cannot love this post enough! Take my up vote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 10:26 PM |
| 27 | Accurate 👌🏻I just literally gagged... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Living out of a suitcase at my mum's... Still higher value than that idiot.Eternal upvotes for this! You will be SO MUCH HAPPIER! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 11:58 PM |
| 9 | If you expect less, don't be surprised to receive less - EVIDENCEYup. That was my ex husband. Turned out to be easily the meanest person I've ever met, but upon first meeting him everyone loved him. It wasn't until getting to know him more that you saw the other side of him. And he used people- he was a legit sociopath. I don't think he ever truely valued anyone beyond what he stood to gain from them. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 09:17 PM |
| 34 | If you expect less, don't be surprised to receive less - EVIDENCEI have no words... 🤦 But I do have a similar story. My ex husband was abusive in every sense. And because it can never be over emphasized: abuse is not just physical!!!. Anyways, at this point we were married with a baby and broke because smoking pot was apparently more important than manning up and supporting his family. He had some type of health issue (gall bladder possibly, we didn't drink much at all for those wondering) that made it so he often woke up in the morning ill and would usually … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 04:22 PM |
| 67 | Establishing assertiveness / queen energy from day oneI WISH I HAD READ THIS TEN YEARS AGO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 11:46 PM |
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