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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | Is he checking out or busy? | murkishdelight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 10:53 PM | |
| 6 | I initiated a break for my own personal reasons - is it my responsibility to reach out first? | SEEKING ADVICE | murkishdelight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 06:15 PM |
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| 3 | I initiated a break for my own personal reasons - is it my responsibility to reach out first?You being bothered by him respecting your boundaries shows you’re in the wrong headspace to date. Agreed, and that's part of why I decided to take a break. I was reacting negatively to normal human behavior from him in other instances as well. I have become pretty dedicated to therapy and self-care for the next month, so here's hoping I come out in a healthier place after this. He has already said that he does not want to end things and can't imagine not being connected to me, and would rather I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 07:20 PM |
| 5 | I initiated a break for my own personal reasons - is it my responsibility to reach out first?Yesterday, I sent him a voice message apologizing for the abrupt cut-off to our communication without explanation, and that I had some personal things to figure out in this month. He sent me a voice message this morning saying that it's good to hear from me, he's rooting for my success on the personal things that I have to figure out and he understands that it's a journey, and then said we'll talk in June. All of that kind of made me question if I should end the break sooner, but I do think I ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 07:17 PM |
| 3 | I initiated a break for my own personal reasons - is it my responsibility to reach out first?Sorry, I should have said 6 weeks actually as opposed to a month! Appreciate your response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 07:11 PM |
| 4 | Is he checking out or busy?yeah, it’s very much true. i actually just spoke to him a little while ago and voiced that i felt he was checking out. he immediately asked what he did or said to make me feel that way so he could correct it. So...things are actually good?! We’ll see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:51 AM |
| 4 | Is he checking out or busy?I mean, I am from a very very poor family and worked my way up to being upper middle class - but I still act and consider myself working class. He had a more stable upbringing and life, is in a very high-paying career, involved in fine arts, has high standards for everything including where he eats and what he drinks. Like...will he slum it with me at any point? Idk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:49 AM |
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