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| 1 | Picking up girls at the gymTotally on board with this. | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Picking up girls at the gymNooo, that’s not what I meant. Sorry if what I wrote was interpreted that way. What I meant is don’t be the guy who is always hitting on women at the gym... make sense? | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 02:28 PM |
| 28 | Picking up girls at the gymI think you should go for it, but just be chill and nice and funny, and if you get rejected, still be super nice. It’s way more respectable and attractive if you can just own whatever it is that you do, rejection or not. For reference, I am a girl who has been approached at the gym in the past and it’s really about timing and how you approach her. Don’t interrupt her in the middle of an exercise, ever. Wait til she’s stretching or taking a drink of water - basically a time where you notice she’s… | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 06:38 AM |
| 2 | If you’re still single, you should never cut ties with any woman unless she explicitly says she’s disinterested.Honestly I just disagree with this entire post and that’s all I have the energy to say. | /r/seduction | 01/07/20 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Do girls like when guys DM them out of nowhere?If you’re just looking to fuck then I guess the conversation part isn’t as important? Idk. To me it always is for the girl, like why would I want to chill with you or sleep with you if you can’t even get to know me a little bit? That’s just how I operate. | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 04:41 PM |
| 8 | Do girls like when guys DM them out of nowhere?I don’t think cold DMs are good at all (I am a girl, for reference). I’ve been dm’d by random guys saying thirsty shit and it is an instant turn off and i dont find a reply necessary. Idc how attractive the guy is, it makes him less hot. Lead with something funny, reply to a post, say something cute and genuine! That’s what girls want. You are way better off replying to her instagram story and starting a legitimate conversation that way. A girl wants to have conversation - not just get a message… | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 02:08 AM |
| 1 | thoughts on texting a girl during coronavirusNow I get what you’re saying. I agree with you, but I still think that you have to make some type of effort to develop a girls’ interest. It will show her that you care and want to know her. Atleast if you make the effort, you can gather from context clues/inherent tone of the messages or just how engaged she is to decide whether or not she’s into you. If she’s not feeling it, or if you lose interest, just be honest and move on. Natural connection isn’t easy to come by in dating but you still ha… | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 01:25 PM |
| 1 | thoughts on texting a girl during coronavirusI am so confused by what you just said: “sometimes girls think something is good but it doesn’t actually work on them.” No idea what this means. My advice is completely valid whether or not I date/hookup with the guy.... people make things like this so complicated. If someone likes you you will know, if they don’t it’s pretty simple. You need to show interest if you want to get to know someone. Doesn’t always have to be the guy initiating first either. You need to feel things out and give them a… | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 01:14 PM |
| 1 | thoughts on texting a girl during coronavirusWe have plans to meet up this week that comply with social distancing rules and we are both healthy and do not have the virus. Why? | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 01:05 PM |
| 2 | thoughts on texting a girl during coronavirusThis right here. I mean, a little mysteriousness is always a good thing, but uncertainty is different. You can’t drive yourself nuts wondering when and what you should text. Just be yourself. If the girl doesn’t like you then atleast you can say you were yourself and now shes just someone u can weed out as a potential girlfriend. Nothing is more attractive than showing a girl you are interested, making her feel like you care, and not trying to be anything your not! | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Flirting isn't getting someone to like you, it's finding out if someone likes you.Wow. This is so simple yet I've never put it into perspective like this. I hate feeling like I'm trying to get someone to like me. It takes all of the fun out of it and it makes me act like someone I'm not. Thank you for posting this, awesome mindset to have in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 27/04/20 02:35 AM |
| 5 | One thing to remember.I think everyone is reading way too much into this. I think what OP means when saying one should have a high value internally is that they should have respect for themselves and not to forget that they are deserving of someone who truly accepts and loves them for who they are. It's not that deep people. Unless it is, that is NOT the vibe I got from this post. Having a sense of high value simply means just knowing your worth and not getting too caught up in what you did wrong.... why someone does… | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 03:39 AM |
| 1 | For those who are not wanting a committed relationship - How to act around the opposite sex when in public? Are you still flirty? Or closed off?No harm in flirting and playing the game. Do whatever you want and have fun... you don’t owe anyone anything :) | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 08:14 AM |
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