| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 79 | Let's play a Game! | FDS MOVIES & TV | musicfreak1993 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 02:53 AM |
| 60 | Thank you for opening my eyes | WHOLESOME CONTENT | musicfreak1993 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:52 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 112 | Blocked & DeletedI don't think its specifically about the usually small action, its about the disregard for your reasonable boundary. If he ignores a small insignificant boundary, then he's way more likely to ignore the bigger more important ones, because in some ways, he's socialised to ignore women's boundaries, and women are socialised to let men ignore their boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 03:03 AM |
| 32 | "You just want to keep your last name because your brother's a lawyer."Theres some stupid reasons for getting banned off subs, then there's getting banned from a "Feminist" sub for holding a Feminist veiw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 02:25 AM |
| 13 | FDS lessons from a social worker-in-trainingHonestly this is why my plan is to work till I drop dead. Mostly kidding tbh, I really love my career and get bored so damn quick, rn (late 20's) retirement sounds just like the worst thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 05:12 PM |
| 5 | Even girl friends can be energy vampiresI had a friend like this. I'm a super giving person, and I just stopped and looked at our "friendship" and realised that I was always initating convos and they were always about her and her problems. We were in the final stages of our course and once we got to the end I just ... stopped messaging first ... that was 7 years ago now and we haven't spoken since then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 03:53 AM |
| 3 | If he can't plan a date, he isn't worth going out with in the first place.BRB just trying to convince my sister that her new thing isn't worth shit. They've been "dating" for 3 weeks, and he hasn't taken her anywhere and despite training to be a chef says he has no idea where to take her for a dinner date. They've gone on a drive around "date" and a sit at his place watching movies "date". Lazy scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 03:33 AM |
| 26 | Don't let any entitled male tell you that you need to be desperate for male attention. This mess is Exhibit A for what they want women to believe about their chances of meeting a man. Don't lower your standards.The thing that I don't understand is how they don't understand that even if the 20/80 percent split is true, that split is different for every woman. Ie there are some women that are genuinely attracted to beards and some that hate them. What is attractive to me isn't attractive to every other woman on the planet. I saying that there are some standards, like basic hygiene and grooming and most women prefer men that are in somewhat decent shape but beyond that women aren't the unified monolith th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:42 AM |
| 69 | I’ve had more intriguing conversations with cats at this point. How many dates will I go on where a guy believes the date went swimmingly, and the whole time I never got a word in edgewise? oy veyhe didn't like anything green. How the actual fuck do they survive? Like thats the attitude of litteral children and honestly, I've had better and more engaging conversations with 5 y/o kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 09:17 AM |
| 17 | If you won’t bother checking the FDS handbook before posting your question, at least ask yourself this…God I've known several girls like this; bitch and moan about the state of their lives, refuse to do anything with you and the moment they get some new dick in their life its like you don't exist anymore. Really shows their priorities and attitude towards their friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 08:28 AM |
| 72 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!I'm alarmed by "I was scared to say anything" wasn't the whole idea of BDSM sold on the fact that the 'sub' had all the power and the 'dom' was there to service them? What a fucking scam. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 10:39 PM |
| 17 | Let's talk about picky eaters."BuT AlL tHe fEmAlEs in tHe PoRn I waTcH gEt sO WeT at tHe sIgHt oF a bIg dIcK. WhY Won'T you?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 11:06 AM |
| 34 | Why do south asian girls settle for average"Nice" is nothing, Nice isn't a personality, Nice isn't kindness, Nice is at best, the bare minimum of treating other people like they're fully human. And in so many cases, Men don't do that for Women. Nice is Common Courtesy. But so many Men use it as a "I've treated you like your an actual human, you should jump on my dick now" they're so fucking entitled. Good is doing good, Good is work and Men are so used to not having to work that they don't even bother most of the time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 03:49 PM |
| 55 | Why do south asian girls settle for averageAs a fan of musicals, Sondheim said it best in Into The Woods, "You're not good, you're not bad, You're just nice." And "Nice is different to Good" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 03:01 PM |
| 122 | 35 year old scrote gets offended that 16 y/o kid he groomed insults his music tasteThats the super innocuous thing about grooming; if they did it "right" they don't need to force you to do shit, you'll do the holding on with only the slightest hint from them. Just the subtlest hint that they might leave and you'll do anything to keep them, because they've wrapped your whole self worth up with them being with you, even it its bad for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 11:40 AM |
| 26 | The sad reality of dating low-value men, who will make a woman’s home life miserableNothing irritates me more when you ask for them to do something, they don't do it, you get shitty and do it, they cry that "they were about to do it" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 05:01 AM |
| 27 | TruthAnd in all reality, women can't really do anything to stop male violence. Men have to step the fuck up and do it. But I'm honestly at the point of seeing about buying a bunch of land and creating a woman only commun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 05:29 PM |
| 85 | TruthWatching a video a few weeks back and it mentioned in a kind of offhand way how women have kind of always been expected to take responsibility for men's actions. On a side note, nothing is more agrivating to me than how Feminism has become a "we fight for everyone's betterment, even men's! uwu". For once in their goddamn lives can men as a united fucking whole look at the shit they do to women and each other and maybe think "this is fucked up, maybe I can do something to stop this" instead of sc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 04:51 PM |
| 8 | Let's play a Game!I apologise for my comments. I don't mean to demean your experiences or history and I'm sorry that it came across that way. I don't know what its like to be a part of a colonised group because, for the sake of transparency, I am white, living in Australia. I don't want to minimise in any way the bad that comes from colonial exploitation and I don't want to demand that you teach me better either. If you have any tips I will gladly listen but I have no expectation of you doing that. I was a little… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Let's play a Game!I mean I get your point but better that than not, there were many early English Kings that didn't speak English at all and only knew French and never bothered to learn it. As a general rule I'm not a big fan of monarchs but I also don't think we should hold historical figures to modern ideals. There are some things that are bad and should always been seen as such (rape, murder, paedophilia, slavery etc.) but I don't think its super helpful to demand perfection buy modern standards because even m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Let's play a Game!For sure, but I'm asking about the relationships that in general, are portrayed in only positive light, despite being very questionable by FDS standards. For example, in Hadestown I consider Orpheus as a LVM because in the text of the musical he is portrayed as a naive dreamer that is the only one Ble to "fix" the problem facing the world, spends most of the musical writing a song to fix it and on his journey learns self doubt and mistrust and thats why he fails his final test and looks back at … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 03:56 PM |
| 11 | Let's play a Game!Ooh yeah for sure, even the good guys are really not good at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 04:30 AM |
| 10 | Let's play a Game!There are far worse options for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 03:56 AM |
| 31 | Let's play a Game!Good old Greek myths, women are only important because of the men they birthed and the men they fucked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 03:56 AM |
| 29 | Let's play a Game!Didn't she also know like 8 different languages and, I might be misrembering this but, actually spoke that language of her people? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 03:48 AM |
| 34 | Let's play a Game!I'm never gonna forgive history for painting Cleopatra as "omg shes sooooo hot!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 03:39 AM |
| 123 | Liberal feminism will be the death of womenGod I'm so pessimistic cos I'm really not surprised by this at all. So fucking over living in a world where women asking for a maybe a little paranoid request and a man committing an actual fucking crime is on the same level. And people say that its so easy being a woman. Fuck that noise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 05:25 PM |
| 67 | Doing wife duties for your boyfriendHe'd already decided what he wanted to do before he posted i would guess, he wanted that sweet validation karma | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 03:40 AM |
| 8 | I am enraged.Oh God the "i was gonna do that" as a response to fucking anything that needs doing, has been sitting not done for fucking weeks, so you just do it cos its not that big of a deal and they always come back with the "I was getting to it" ... getting to it? Dude you've been sitting on your fucking ass gaming for three weeks, it takes 10 mins to take the trash out, and you couldn't find the time in your busy day? Bull shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 03:02 AM |
| 61 | My best friend's BF dumped her on the day she got a PROMOTION!Couldn't get past the "ladies don't punish your man for this, its only their unconscious mind doing it" as if that doesn't affect anything with their attitude or actions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 05:20 AM |
| 104 | Is this the logic they are using??? 🤦🏽♀️ So which is it? Are men rapists and violent towards women inherently or not?? Are men on board with this excuse?? 😹Did they miss the part where that series is literally set in a dystopia? Not something to be aiming for imo unless you're a nihilist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 01:41 AM |
| 23 | The idea that family courts are biased against men is a dangerous LIE. Evidence shows Family courts are biased against WOMEN.My sister was friends with this girl, I mean she's turning 27 but acts like a teenager. They were friends through high school and reconnected with my sister opening her own business. This Friend met this dude, who is 5 or 6 years older than her, with two young kids, whos been separated from his wife since November, whom he regularlydescribes as vicious and the worst mother but I don't think he's fighting for custody, and they started dating, in Early December... 🚩🚩🚩. So my sister business opened… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 05:45 PM |
| 48 | So Manipulative and Creepy!!!Honestly tho, couple years ago had a random dude borrow my phone and for this reason I immediately blocked and deleted the number he called, and that was long before I found FDS, and was a massive pushover. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 10:23 AM |
| 87 | The fact that she thinks trying to work things out is an optionBut we all know that if she stays, when he gets worse and fucking kills her its all gonna be "why didn't she leave him tho?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 05:39 AM |
| 65 | I Am So Tired of Hearing About Their Damn Penises!!!God the time and energy they put into tracking shit like that, have you got nothing better to do with your time? Get a hobby my dude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 01:24 PM |
| 80 | Sex workers accusing us of slut shaming then in the next breath mocking us for "sucking dick for free" ...wow. And they have the audacity to demand we "support sex workers"And they never stay on Only Fans either, once you put that shit out there you have no idea who is downloading and uploading those videos and to what sites. You have no idea where it goes and who's looking at them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:02 PM |
| 45 | Why “50/50” is so often still unequal...why on earth do men expect a trophy for doing the dishes? Because they've never been expected to do stuff from birth. They haven't had to make sure shit it tidy since they were literally children so they still have the attitude that they need to be rewarded for bare fucking minimum. Girls grow up with the expectation of being tidy and boys grow up being bribed into being tidy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 07:33 AM |
| 333 | What 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 comeback 👏🏼 👏🏼Ok with some basic math and assuming no breaks between, this "man" dated each of these women for about 3 months each. Like I'm not an expert in relationships, but that seems barely long enough to get out of the "honeymoon" stage of a relationship right? Did he just get to the first 'she didn't worship the ground i walk on for all 24 hours of the day. We have to break up now'? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 02:15 AM |
| 14 | Reframe how you think about “choices” :)This! I've always said that "choices" aren't worth a whole lot when it's the only one she has. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 12:42 PM |
| 5 | I agree but also, it’s unfair for men to cry “no one cares about our mental health” when they were the ones to create hyper and toxic masculinity in the first place. Men need to care about their own mental health if they want others to care about their mental health.Yeah thankfully part of this convo was how he's not really in the right mental place for a relationship so he's not that unaware but still, you don't wanna do fucking anything to improve that? Not even just for yourself? What a sad way to live | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 08:20 PM |
| 14 | I agree but also, it’s unfair for men to cry “no one cares about our mental health” when they were the ones to create hyper and toxic masculinity in the first place. Men need to care about their own mental health if they want others to care about their mental health.Legit was having a discussion about mental issues with my brother and he has a laundry list of shit and I said to go therapy and he responded that he'd "rather shoot himself" like fucking hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 10:05 AM |
| 151 | Man freaks out over girlfriend’s period products, then apologizes and begs her not to leave him. She needs to throw the whole man awayThat hair turn from absolute rage to begging forgiveness is kinda telling to me as well, he's realised he's gone too far and has to overcompensate with love bombing and begging to get her back. Manipulative as fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 05:50 AM |
| 75 | Post complaining about women wanting 6 figures, 6” d, 6 pack. I initially thought it was an FDSer setting him straight but, it’s a man 😂That last comment is so telling tho. Like, a woman can and will provide for herself so if you want a fucking chance you need to be able to bring something other than existing to the table. If all your gonna do is be a time sink for her, why the fuck should she bother with you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 03:36 AM |
| 13 | Interesting facts about men who marry based on pure unbiased research. Even if marriage isn't your goal, it will help you dodge men who would have otherwise wasted your time. At least date a guy who's going to love and cherish you...Why is the whole damn article "ladies! Here's a sure fire way to land you a good man! What do you mean men could try even a little to change their attitudes? Women always need to do all the work in relationships!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 05:36 PM |
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