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Sometimes people will use sarcasm to highlight resistance to change in another person. Everyone else will find it funny, except for the person resisting the change. It's funny how no one likes being the butt-end of a joke.
/r/seduction23/09/15 01:55 AM
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Then you may as well just give up.
/r/seduction21/09/15 01:26 AM
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Take a picture of your dinner and send that to her.
/r/seduction19/09/15 11:50 PM
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Texting is something you have to learn. Just because Mark Manson does fine without texting, doesn't mean that you will. And it's easy once you get the hang of it. All you have to do is focus on being a giver with your messages. One thing I will do is send pictures of my food with a simple caption like "Mmmm" or "So healthy!". Another is messages that are easy for her to respond to. For example, "I have good news for you!!" (all she has to say is "what?") and then roll with that. If you had the o…
/r/seduction19/09/15 11:15 PM
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I find matching her pace to be useful. If she takes two hours to reply, then you take two hours to reply. If she takes 10 minutes to reply, then you take 10 minutes to reply. If she takes 5 seconds to reply, then you take 5 seconds to reply. If you want to increase the pace, subtract 10%. If you want to decrease the pace, add 10%.
/r/seduction18/09/15 11:30 PM
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http://www.amazon.ca/The-Brain-That-Changes-Itself/dp/0143113100 The author talks about three patients who were deeply affected by their habits regarding pornography, how they recovered, and the scientific basis behind why porn affected them and their recovery. It's a very interesting read for more than just that, but porn can definitely change your brain.
/r/seduction13/09/15 03:22 AM
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It's beneficial to masturbate without porn. When you have an orgasm, your brain is flooded with oxytocin and dopamine. The oxytocin increases brain plasticity and makes you very receptive to "learning". The dopamine rewards you for what you just did. So if you masturbate to porn, you're essentially teaching yourself that porn-sex is the way you achieve sexual pleasure. When you masturbate, you should fantasize about girls that you actually pursue. You should pace yourself the same way you would …
/r/seduction13/09/15 12:05 AM
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Is this really an issue though? Why would a girl care how early you cum? The key is to give her an orgasm before you have sex. Your refactory period will be shorter too, so it won't take that long to start round two.
/r/seduction12/09/15 11:52 PM
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Gently place your finger tips onto her chin and look her in the eyes. Be relaxed and move slowly.
/r/seduction06/09/15 08:05 AM
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This really depends on your personality. From my experience, girls love a warm, comforting smile. Something that gives off positive and welcoming vibes.
/r/seduction06/09/15 07:54 AM
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"I don't use Facebook for dating."
/r/seduction06/09/15 07:46 AM
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I think you need to more closely examine the context under which /r/biggalactus writing his reply. He was not replying to your story, he was replying to the following: All it really does it removes that thought from the back of your mind and allows you to focus and learn from your experience. Essentially you now have no excuse to talk yourself out of it since the deed has been done. The problem is that you were drunk. So there really is no reference experience to learn from, because your memory …
/r/seduction06/09/15 07:41 AM
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What she said doesn't actually rule out interest. She might have genuinely meant that she was busy. What you can do is, instead of asking her out, you can send her a message that offers value and doesn't expect anything in return. For example, tell a joke, share a positive experience. But don't ask her questions. In other words, be a giver and not a taker. If she responds to your joke, keep it going for another few texts and then ask her if she wants to meet.
/r/seduction05/09/15 05:48 AM
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Most guys don't dance at clubs, especially when they have a girlfriend. So whether you dance or not is up to you. If you were single, I'd say definitely dance. She's not going to break up with you if you don't. It's cool either way.
/r/seduction18/08/15 02:34 AM
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Jesus Christ, you guys have all the wrong friends.
/r/seduction15/08/15 02:10 AM
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Even if it's not an approach, I sort of agree, this one is weird. I've field tested this and everyone is more than happy to help me with the time in all circumstances.
/r/seduction10/08/15 12:02 AM
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Have really hot girlfriends around all the time. Keep your bookshelf stocked. No need to teach him. Present the lifestyle and let him decide to do it on his own.
/r/seduction04/08/15 02:05 AM
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The PUA guy on Elimidate won even though he asked her her age and got chastised by the other four guys for it. I'm sure someone here has the video bookmarked.
/r/seduction03/08/15 12:46 AM
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Same boat. It takes a lot of work to change. My first going out friend took about 2 months of constantly meeting new people to befriend. I want to expand but I don't put in nearly the effort I put in when I had 0. I've managed to make another friend who goes out but his girlfriend keeps him in way too much. That took another 3 months to accomplish. Most of the people I go out with are acquaintances and the friendship just doesn't stick. What I'm learning about myself is that I am very much like …
/r/seduction31/07/15 04:41 AM
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haha I wish I had dates go that smooth all the time.
/r/seduction26/07/15 05:30 PM
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Every conversation people have with YOU is an interesting conversation.
/r/seduction25/07/15 07:57 PM
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You sound like someone who's had two maybe three one-night stands. You're not really gambling with those numbers. Go out to Vegas and try picking up the kind of girl your talking about every-night for a couple weeks. You're going to get hurt. I guarantee it. So many guys (RATIONAL guys) go to a place like Vegas with your attitude and end up marrying someone who takes half of their money because they don't have experience. They didn't know how to connect and they didn't know how to screen.
/r/seduction12/07/15 07:33 PM
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You should just be the person you want to be. You both should be role models for each other. Any sort of "advice" you have for her is going to be taken as criticism. She's not going to like it and it's going to cause her to close off from you. Any solid relationship starts with acceptance. If you can't accept the way she is, if you can't live with what she is now, then leave. Only when you are present in the moment and in full acceptance of the world around you, are you at peace. If you can't be…
/r/seduction12/07/15 07:22 PM
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Oh, I don't know, does the girl at the club who dresses like a prostitute, does her makeup like a pornstar, and flirts with every guy she sees seem like great relationship material to you? I'm asking because you totally can't tell by looking at her. And how do you know she doesn't reel guys in like fish when they bite? You can't really judge someone on how they look. She may seem like someone you want to just fuck, but you're not going to have an impression of how seductive she is until you get …
/r/seduction12/07/15 06:35 PM
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I don't know how you could possibly come to that conclusion about someone just by seeing them. It sounds like an extremely shallow thing to do. Why would you want to have sex with someone you don't connect with? There are more than enough women in this world to find someone who you enjoy being around and have sex with. Don't be so desperate for sex that you'll fuck anyone who gets your dick up. If there's no connection, just go to the next person.
/r/seduction12/07/15 03:11 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CcrhwatDkUM
/r/seduction11/07/15 03:10 PM
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Take dance lessons. That will expose you to dancing with girls with a wide range of attractiveness. Hopefully, attractiveness will no longer become what you look for when dancing because there aren't always going to be attractive girls dancing. And you don't want to be the guy who has "standards" to start dancing. That would be pathetic and boring. The guy who can dance with everyone: from the drunk fat chick to the 50 year old cougar to the hb10 will be the guy having the most fun. It can be ve…
/r/seduction11/07/15 03:08 PM
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Maybe they just love your wit and charm so much, that they don't bother reading your profile. They know you're number 1 right from interaction number 1.
/r/seduction07/07/15 02:39 AM
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Because you're texting, I would recommend trying to get off that as quickly as possible. It's just not great for developing a connection. See if she is up for getting an email from you. Ask her some personal questions. Share some personal things about yourself. Be honest about the fact that you're interested and want to see if you're compatible. Mention a few things that you're worried about and try to challenge her a little. Try to keep it fun and remember that you're screening for compatibilit…
/r/seduction07/07/15 02:35 AM
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Women check you out with their peripheral vision. And they position themselves to be checked out. Some of them are very bad at it and incredibly creepy. On the train today, I sat down and this girl stood right beside me on the edge of my periphery while I was reading a book. I appreciate all of the chances she gave me, but if I didn't have the balls 10 minutes ago, creeping me the fuck out certainly isn't going to help. It's just going to make me even more nervous and fill my head with even more…
/r/seduction07/07/15 01:57 AM
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Demographics.
/r/seduction07/07/15 01:49 AM
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You may be onto something with your theory about one-itis. For me, one-itis happens when I am feeling needy and don't have any options as good as her (or any other options at all). If you are not escalating, then it is very likely that you are closing yourself off from opportunities that would give you abundance and, by extension, eliminate your one-itis.
/r/seduction06/07/15 02:57 AM
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I'm a fan of the no handed bra removal: "Take off your bra."
/r/seduction03/07/15 10:37 PM
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There is only one way to know. Why do you look at people and then turn your head when they look back? For me it could be any number of things: "That guy has a funny looking face, if only I could see it a bit clearer." "That girl has a nice body, I wonder what her face looks like." "He's really short, I wonder if he has a normal face." "There's no way someone could have that much acne!" "Is she old or young?" "Is she young or too young?" "Is that piercing real?" "Does that guy have a tattoo on hi…
/r/seduction26/06/15 11:02 PM
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Do you want to see my van?
/r/seduction23/06/15 02:59 AM
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Nice!
/r/seduction13/06/15 03:09 PM
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Just do it a lot. Confidence comes from positive reference experiences. There is literally no other way to gain confidence than by doing it a lot.
/r/seduction10/06/15 12:35 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly. I hope my post didn't give you the impression that there isn't a middle ground and that women don't want different things. My intention was to outline the evolutionary reasons behind why women say they want "nice guys". Seducers and providers aren't mutually exclusive. But the guys who can do both get locked down very quickly by the women who offer equal value. Chances are, if we're arguing on Reddit, then neither of us are compatible with that high value individual who w…
/r/seduction10/06/15 12:22 AM
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I would highly recommend reading The Red Queen by Matt Ridley. It's exactly what you're looking for.
/r/seduction10/06/15 12:01 AM
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You need a bird's eye view of this situation. Give it 6 months to a year. Sleep with 10 other women. Then figure what the fuck was going on.
/r/seduction09/06/15 02:20 AM
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When women talk about what they want, they are talking about who they would marry. When it comes to having a family, they want the guy who has no chance of cheating on her and is definitely going to help raise her children (no matter who the father is). That's the ideal family man. The long-term strategy is to give her genes the best possible shot at survival. The "nice guy" is the best man for this job. The one problem with "nice guys" is that they tend to not understand seduction. So maybe her…
/r/seduction09/06/15 01:15 AM
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Don't deny it but don't confirm it explicitly. Downplay it but still be clear about your intentions. Say something like, "I'm not going into this with any expectations. Let's just enjoy a coffee together and see where things go from there." If she keeps pushing, say something like, "Let's avoid using labels until after it's over."
/r/seduction07/06/15 09:48 PM
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I would be the first one to start talking.
/r/seduction25/05/15 01:58 AM
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You already asked her out in person which should have generated all of the attraction you needed. She isn't going to become more attracted over text. It's just going to fizzle out and die. Don't start this texting stuff until after the date is planned. Don't waste your time. You're a busy guy and you have other people to talk to who are actually offering you value. There is no need to sit in this limbo space wondering if she's actually attracted. Push for the close.
/r/seduction09/05/15 03:36 PM
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What is the only way to develop an intuition for knowing when to text, what to text, whether to text, etc? Texting. Good luck.
/r/seduction02/05/15 04:07 AM
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When I feel aroused, I tend to do everything I can to mask my feelings, filter what I say and stifle my erection. What I've found to work, is to relax and let that shit happen. When I do that, she "gets it" pretty quickly.
/r/seduction30/04/15 12:46 AM
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Since you're "nice and quiet", just be "aggressive and quiet". It's close enough.
/r/seduction29/04/15 12:42 AM
1

Maybe I really like people getting pissed off waiting for me to finish in the bathroom. What if that turns me on?
/r/seduction27/04/15 12:08 AM
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I'm anticipating a legendary post-date story for next week. You got this, man!
/r/seduction04/04/15 04:55 PM
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