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| 8 | Do you actually NEVER get laid or approached, or are you exaggerating?I think the first step is giving yourself a break. Don't listen to these folks, you probably are already being very hard on yourself. Then focus on very small wins, like anything would. Just going outside and letting the sun hit you for 5 minutes and keep going from there. Eventually you'll be able to take walks outside, then walk every day etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 08:05 PM |
| 4 | Women preach “confidence” but get annoyed when average men think they have a chance with themConfidence leads them to take their shoot, even though they decided to take a low percentage shot focusing on the women's looks. Also would anyone want to be in a relationship were that was their response. I say bullet dodge on with the next one. But seriously at least learn something of said women before engaging other than that she's pretty.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 04:58 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Men would be disgusted if women were as sexual as they wereyou don't understand they don't care about the behavior. if a woman is promiscuous with almost anyone such as men are, then they wouldn't give a fuck as most likely it would include them. that's why they hate "chads" etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 09:35 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Men would be disgusted if women were as sexual as they wereagain those things happened not with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 03:38 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men would be disgusted if women were as sexual as they wereI think the only way to make them understand is get the behavior from the video but they have post nut clarity all the time. Its mind blowing how things align when you're not thinking with your dick. or have a gay dude actively hit on them, the double entendre gets lame really fast, that was eye opening as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 03:36 PM |
| 13 | CMV: Men would be disgusted if women were as sexual as they werethey whine about promiscuous women when the woman is not being promiscuous with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Men Peak in Attractiveness to Young Women in their Twentiesyeah that didn't help either hahaha. I remember girls calling me and thought how annoying or doing that thing where they put their hands over your eyes and made you guess who it was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 06:55 AM |
| 6 | Men Peak in Attractiveness to Young Women in their Twentiesit's just anecdotal, I'm the same way. I was fitter when young but I didn't have any confidence so I probably missed a lot of signs. Also I have a lot more expendable income now so I dress a lot better, eat better and probably compared to my peers I stand out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 06:22 AM |
| 5 | Desperate Housewives (and the "Soap Opera" Genre) Explains Why the Bad Boy Trope Continues.and she started to cheat after shit hit the fan... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 02:19 AM |
| 1 | If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same argumentsyeah I might be biased there as well my peers do spend a lot on higher end shit. but going back to the original comment being if you're not attractive you can definitely buy that, i have some friends that were down right ugly but after dolling themselves up they're very successful. So your point is correct if you look good you shouldn't be spending that much already but most people don't look good so they do hahaha. Anyways thanks for having this discussion, it's rare to do it with out any name … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 01:55 PM |
| 1 | If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same argumentsyeah 300-500 a month is a drop in the bucket just the salon, nails and all that stuff adds to more, heck wife just went to an eyebrow lady... you're the outlier here, most men don't buy supplements, unless you have some serious muscle they're not needed at all, and as I said above too much muscle is in fact less attractive to most. As a dad I just want them to fit in and be happy, so if that means all of the above so be it. Trust me I dont want to spend money on all of these things. And yes my g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 01:13 PM |
| 1 | If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same argumentscurious how much money do you spend on supplements ? I'm a dad of two girls and the money I spend on beauty care products, fashion clothes, hair products and other stuff doesn't even compare... any hair on them is a problem, on average men don't do any hair grooming at all. you seem to think women don't have much hair but that's because they take it off at a much higher rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 12:28 PM |
| 1 | If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same argumentswho says they don't go to the gym, supplements etc plus make up ? Have you even seen the prices on that stuff? Funny you mention hair grooming when the majority of them already do that as well hahaha on a much higher level than men. point is everyone is spending time/money on dates , having high standards makes sense, not the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 12:19 PM |
| 1 | If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same argumentsyou're missing the point, makeup can change them completely for good or bad. it takes a lot of effort, skill etc. on average guys prefer them with making even when they say they like the natural look, most of the time that natural look involves makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 11:44 AM |
| – | If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same argumentsI guess the conclusion is to stop complaining then? Not sure what that even accomplishes, people hate hearing complaints and the solution is what ? Are women going to start loweing their standards because someone complained? Even if those complaints aren't met with vitrol what would that even do ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 01:10 AM |
| – | If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same argumentsI mean have you seen the powers of makeup? Some end up as a complete different person. https://www.buzzfeed.com/awesomer/makeup-before-and-afters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Men don't take enough responsibility for male lonelinessit's just that if you don't want to change to appeal to the current status quo what else is there? it's either wait or try to change the status quo no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 09:39 PM |
| 4 | Men don't take enough responsibility for male lonelinesscurious what would be your solution, convince all women to lower their standards somehow ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Men don't take enough responsibility for male lonelinessso your plan is to way till society changes or those women that are "wrong" get corrected? you can't force change on anyone but yourself, even if you think you can, the person only changed because they wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Women only care about men's issues when the ramifications of it starts affecting them directly. Men at the same time are expected to acknowledge female struggles and if men show an indifference towards plights of women, they ae shamed and guilted into conformingI mean even if they acknowledge you here nothing will change. Most people don't give a rats ass about other people. I'm assuming you're not helping out distributing food for homeless folks, reading books to kids with cancer or any other thing that will help people less unfortunate than ourselves. So how would the "epidemic" of men not getting laid, dates or whatever compares to any of the things I've mentioned above or even to each person's struggles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 11:55 PM |
| 15 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?I've seen this a lot in autisim circles, there's this thing where everything has to be fair and the same for everyone otherwise it's a trigger. Not saying all of them that complain about it are autistic but that explains at least some of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 05:25 PM |
| 0 | One thing red pill gets wrong is “fake it til you make it” and “behaviour is attractive”. Nah, you’ve literally gotta have the goods to back it up or it failsbut charm is attractive no? I have bunch of friends that are not attractive in a conventional way but they're really funny, confident etc so they charm women to change their initial opinion of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 05:34 PM |
| – | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyyou'll be surprised... I was just stating that an autistic Brad Pitt will not get rejected but wouldn't be as successful due to autistic folk usually being clueless. It varies from people to people but it's usually the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 03:32 PM |
| – | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flynot that he would get rejected, he would just be clueless to all the hints women are sending his way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that every time there is a conversation about a relationship with an age difference, it is automatically assumed that the man is evil?maybe but you would've probably be more prepared by interaction with folks at work, other boyfriends etc . it's actually very naive to think that life experience overall won't make a difference even if you won't meet someone exactly like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 10:23 PM |
| -2 | Why is it that every time there is a conversation about a relationship with an age difference, it is automatically assumed that the man is evil?naive != stupid. Would you be better prepared to vet someone like your scumbag ex now or when you were very young ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 05:56 PM |
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