mustafarian Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Best strategy to get girls attention off of you so you can go after her friends?	mustafarian	/r/seduction	17/12/17 06:34 AM
1	Using texting to set up a date but what if it's long distance?	mustafarian	/r/seduction	02/04/18 08:42 PM
1	Cozy places in NYC for after dinner?	mustafarian	/r/seduction	31/01/18 04:15 AM

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1	How to handle girls shoving their ass into me at the club at this point you are just testing the waters so fuggin grab her hips, grind back. Eventually turn her round, maybe just chat about some bs. And if shes still around after all that, its onto try and make a move to kiss her - if you want. otherwise just enjoy the dance and attention lol you don't really need to have a conversation, tis about body language in that environment... don't tell me you don't like a girl grinding on you	/r/seduction	11/03/22 06:46 PM
2	Treadmill Approaches From what I observe ( go to gym 5 days a week) these ppl haev talked befoer or interacted befoer and its typically a short "hey whats going on type of deal" and catching up rather then them hitting on them. But hey maybe one out of 10 of those are getting a number and meeting up to date. You could always try but its a risk. thats why the general consensus is girls' don't want to be bothered. I've asked alot of my female friend who work out and tehy generally do not want to be approached at all	/r/seduction	02/02/22 07:38 PM
1	How to turn matches into dates? Its kind of a delicate balance tbh. Some ppl on here say to ask out right away, while this is a good way to ensure that they want to go out with you. I don't think its giving you much of an advantage if they say yes for when the actual interaction occurs. And alot of girsl will just ignore u or be turned off by u asking immediately. you sort of needs to build some basic convo with them, but also with doses of flirty. If they are responding well to all of these and by that I mean, yall have talke…	/r/seduction	31/01/22 09:23 PM
1	Was I really stupid? Or is this meaningless harsh criticism? ya fck it doesn't make her special	/r/seduction	26/01/22 04:33 PM
4	Was I really stupid? Or is this meaningless harsh criticism? bruh its only stupid / idioditic of you if you have regrets, and you wanted to bang but didn't do anything about it. From the sounds of it you had an amazing time and moments so fck what that chick said haha, shes probably thinking that you wanted to get laid and you couldn't	/r/seduction	25/01/22 03:50 PM
1	Meeting up with a good friend again for the weekend - how to make a move? well okay maybe I worded that wrong, and on second thought should be more something like this. Its better to show you are vulnerable so you should open up to her and say something like, hey I really enjoyed our weekend together and spending time with you. We've been talking on and off over distance and this weekend really made me come to terms that I like you alot. I rlly want to make you mine and date you but I wanted to know how you feel about me as well".... something along those lines. Obvio…	/r/seduction	03/01/22 07:33 PM
3	Meeting up with a good friend again for the weekend - how to make a move? dude idk LDR in college? That's tough, its the the chance where you have the highest likelihood to cheat / and meet other people. Not saying that it would happen but its the best chance if any to do spontaneous things and meet new ppl everyday. I would just see how the day goes, you don't even know if ya'll are giong to hit it off in person or not after all you haven't seen each other in 1.5 years. Then if you do hit it off try to breach the idea towards the end. I would just ask how she feels a…	/r/seduction	03/01/22 07:20 PM
3	[deleted by user] gotcha, I guess in the situations taht this is applicable though, I wouldn't waste too much time on the talking. Other then that yea what other ppl are saying are somewhat relevant,	/r/seduction	08/10/21 04:36 PM
3	[deleted by user] yea honestly this. Just gotta make the move, why is there even a conversation going on at this point lmao especially if the whole point is to get to the bedroom	/r/seduction	08/10/21 04:24 PM
2	Ghosted for a Month yeah sometimes it's not always obvious Just think of it from her perspective maybe she thinks she like made everyrthing obvious for you and laid it all out but you didn't make a move, shes probably a bit immature as well, so then shes thinking welp I did all I could and he didn't act on it. Either way though you could still get with her, I wouldn't give up yet, just be playful with the whole ghosting thing. If you actually still want to get with her. She could be testing you with the whole ghost…	/r/seduction	21/09/21 07:43 PM
1	Ghosted for a Month I mean I guess one of the bottom lines is, have you hooked up yet? And what are you intending to get out of this? If you knew she was frisky then you should have invited her over the next day or something. I'm not saying what you did was wrong, cause it wasn't, but what are your expectations? It sounds like you aren't making a move, and if you aren't then seh will find her needs elsewhere, and maybe you will too.	/r/seduction	21/09/21 06:44 PM
9	How do I ask her to pay without making it awkward? At this point you are better off saving all of that money and go get a prostitute lmao This girl is using you textbook. Just re read your own paragraph to yourself and if the pin doesn't drop then you need a reality check man. .... just this one simple sentence.. "she got a new place so she's on a budget" how teh fck did she get a new place if shes nickel and diming??? LOL if you want to confront her I'd be like, look you don't want sex, so we aren't FWB, you don't want a relationship either. SO…	/r/seduction	21/09/21 03:52 PM
1	Online texting seems to just kill my chances every time. I’m sick of it. exactly, plenty of girls out there	/r/seduction	20/09/21 04:29 PM
2	Online texting seems to just kill my chances every time. I’m sick of it. The whole point is that you are being frustrated by a girls actions since she is dictating whats going to happen. The idea is that you recognize this and don't set yourself up mentally to be frustrated. I just gave an example of me being frustrated at first as well, but then changing my mentality about it helped in the end. In the end I hit, it won't always happen like this but alteast you can save yourself the frustration. no one's going to hit if you come off sounding desperate and frustraetd …	/r/seduction	20/09/21 04:26 PM
3	Online texting seems to just kill my chances every time. I’m sick of it. Yezzzirrr, The chick I ended up banging I talked to her about why I she never met up (after we banged) and she told me she basically still was talking to her ex, and actually her ex ditched her for another girl LOL. SO at this point I established okay this girl is using me for a rebound / get over her ex. Which was fine with me cause I amde up my mind already that she wasn't going t obe high value to me, I was only in it for the sex since i found her really hot. We ended up banging once more and…	/r/seduction	20/09/21 03:02 PM
1	Why do people here recommend going out over online dating? The whole point is online vs in person approaching is differentiation. How do you differentiate yourself online vs in person. Online its very superficial unless you are super good looking, have some sort of funny prompts, its difficult to differentiate yourself. So you don't have an EDGE. Girls typically don't get approached in person, and imo they get frustrated with online dating as well. So seeing them in person or approaching them in person gets you the edge of showing your confidence and yo…	/r/seduction	20/09/21 03:00 PM
3	Online texting seems to just kill my chances every time. I’m sick of it. Yup exactly. and this follows the golden rule that actions speak louder then words. I girl might say she is so into you and flirt with you all day, but then she won't give two hours in her day to meet up with you? Something is up, red flags, the alarms are sounding. Maybe She's busy the first time, but if she doesn't suggest an alternate time or date to meet then, NOPE. it's kind of funny to say this but girls are players too, and they could be seeing other people as well which is completely fin…	/r/seduction	20/09/21 02:27 PM
2	[deleted by user] bro 1-3 times per day is a shit ton tbh.... atleast when I compare it to myself. I'd definitely lower it to like 2 a week like you did already and try to reset your mentality and what you are accustomed to getting turned on by.	/r/seduction	20/09/21 01:52 AM
12	Online texting seems to just kill my chances every time. I’m sick of it. Something similiar happened to me after seeing this girl on ONE date. I really wanted to get with her and we had a great time. But she proceeded to cancel meeting up last minute for almost 3 months (don't worry I was seeing other chicks) Anyways I finally changed my mentality because I was being super nice about it and just went with a fck boy mentality (she ended up telilng me taht she was still sort of seeing her Ex, so I just told her to forget aobut him and we should meet up) she tried to gi…	/r/seduction	20/09/21 01:45 AM
6	Girls who seems to be happy talking about themselves but dont seem to be interested in learning anything about you. It's basically what you just said in your last paragraphs. They aren't interested in knowing you on a deeper level, this is a clear signal that they don't want anything more serious then a hook up. It could also be a combination of them just okay with hooking and also their personality is probably just super cheap. I personally get bored and uninterested in girls who just talk bout themselves, however, if they are hot enough I'll entertain this fact and like you did, atleast get to hook up with …	/r/seduction	20/09/21 01:36 AM
1	[deleted by user] Get fit. Pick a style you like. Work on your confidence bro you gonna start slaying in a year or two then your twenties will be your playground. You are already appealing to a specific group of ppl once you work on those few things mentioned above you gonna be able to choose who u want	/r/seduction	16/09/21 02:54 AM
1	How to get laid in college join clubs / groups w/e, this will help you get more confidence in talking to girls about things you are interested in / topics that you like and it gives you a reason to be around them. Even volunteering for shit lets you be in near vicinity with them, so you can joke around while doing a no pressure activity. This will help you get more confident in talking with them. Then after that just go to parties / bars / clubs... you could even organize a night out with maybe a few people you met at the…	/r/seduction	23/08/21 01:49 PM
5	PSA: Don't waste time on girls who don't like you underrated comment haha	/r/seduction	15/08/21 06:33 PM
2	Tip For Nerdy Intelligent Guys can't believe the cucks on here are giving any type of hate. He's giving a very specific example that applies to a specific type of person and shared his success story with it. I like it and it's way more refreshing then the typical posts these days that are just generic garbage about how one just needs to improve their confidence and put themselves out there and then you will find success!! this is much more practical and appreciate the niche example OP gave	/r/seduction	25/05/21 04:47 PM
11	The key to BOUNDARIES! Eventually took her home. Didn’t make a pass at her, made her feel completely comfortable. ya lol if she went home with you she's already giving hints that she's comfortable. And if shes showing you naked pictures that's literally a slam dunk , why would you even think you are making her uncomfortable at all?? In my experience if the girl comes over to your place, it's in your court to screw it up, otherwise shes hoping you make a move.	/r/seduction	01/03/21 04:02 PM
3	How to slide into the DM's effectively? Dms rarely work. The one time it worked for me ill chalk it down to luck. Some other guy said the same thing but you basically did the steps right, reply to stories, try to get her to engage with you, and if she does (because it's rare when they do) you better shoot your shot right then and there before her attention goes away.	/r/seduction	03/09/20 01:11 PM
1	How exciting of a life do I really need for a girl to want to date me? I'm guessing you are referring to like exciting activities or hobbies? My personal take is that it you have a decent personality and are personable you can prob get a girl to date you - considering all the other things you mentioned	/r/seduction	02/09/20 10:17 PM
20	Met a girl 4-5 months ago. Here goes the story Move on bruv. You missed your chance, and typically women don't forget	/r/seduction	30/12/18 07:25 PM
1	still haven't even kissed a girl and i'm about to turn 23. Quit being so picky	/r/seduction	07/05/18 12:00 AM