mutated_blobfish Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about this has no basis in reality	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/26 03:49 PM
1	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about it’s easy to put on a false persona over messages Sure, and people can do that in person too, just to a different degree. people aren’t going to appreciate being grilled in a job interview manner Idk why you both seem to think just asking questions is aggressive or something. And dates are basically a two way job interview. for them to pass all of these tests It’s not a test either, again I don’t get this framing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 10:58 PM
0	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about Paying for dinner dates isn’t some outrageous thing. Nor does it mean the person has low self esteem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 10:55 PM
1	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about You misinterpreted my point. I didn’t say you claimed it could factually discern a lie. I said you claimed it was relevant for discerning intentions at all. I really don’t understand this bizarre interpretation you have that I was claiming I’m specifically an expert at spotting lies. This is an insanely inaccurate and emotional read of what I actually said. My objection was “Body language can’t inform you of how the person actually feels, thinks, or if they’re lying”. You’re weirdly making this …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 01:13 PM
1	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about You made the claim “body language communicates a lot”. I wasn’t saying I need 100% guarantees. I was disagreeing with your initial claim. talking in person is better for gauging that Not due to “body language” though. it’s weird you’re denying the very well studied fact that most humans communicate a great deal of meaning through body language This isn’t a fact though, because you can’t reliably discern what someone thinks or feels through body language, barring extreme examples. most people are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 10:40 AM
1	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about Body language factually can’t inform you of how the person actually feels or thinks or if they’re lying. Especially if this person is new to you and you aren’t used to their typical patterns. It’s more effective to pick apart statements they make to discern those things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 04:20 AM
1	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about Men are going to feel entitled for sex even if she splits the bill so that’s nonsensical	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 09:52 PM
1	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about It’s not unrealistic at all and those women can find relationships that suit them. Women aren’t evil for wanting bare minimum effort	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 09:41 PM
1	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about It’s not though. The more barriers the woman creates, the less likely a man seeking just sex will stay around. you’re punishing honest men by having standards No. equating effort with expense is gross I didn’t say effort can only be reflected in money. I said it’s a part of it. I never said “expensive” dinner either. And no I’m not going to say I filter men by class because I don’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 09:10 PM
1	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about It’s not even a specific dollar amount. Women are asking for the bare minimum of a dinner date and you all are acting like we’re demanding thousands of dollars from you. You can get dinner for two at an ok restaurant for under $100.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 09:06 PM
0	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about It’s not solely dependent. But it’s a part of effort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 09:04 PM
0	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about You people just sound needy as hell	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 09:03 PM
2	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about Women who don’t want no effort dates don’t care about those men rejecting them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 09:02 PM
1	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about ‘Body language’ means nothing. And you’re supposed to use the messaging feature through the app to get to know the person somewhat before you meet them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 09:01 PM
0	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about If he’s looking for sex he’s usually not willing to put in that much effort	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 12:13 PM
2	Men try to gatekeep standards Don’t need an experiment. I’ve been on dating apps as a woman before.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 11:47 AM
2	Men try to gatekeep standards Majority of women don’t get that many matches.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 11:42 AM
2	Men try to gatekeep standards Repeating yourself doesn’t make it true	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 11:36 AM
-2	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about The point is you can avoid it by not accepting no effort ‘dates’	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 11:31 AM
2	Men try to gatekeep standards Men drastically inflate the amount of matches women get	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 11:30 AM
-1	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about This just sounds like an excuse to push for a hookup. Which is what most men are trying to do in the first place	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 11:09 AM
0	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about How is expecting bare minimum effort “acting like a prostitute”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 11:05 AM
1	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about The assumption that we’d want or be happy with men who ask for coffee dates is bizarre. Women who would be fine with that aren’t the ones rejecting them. So I don’t understand why they all seem to think that women who don’t accept this are going to be miserable. I’d rather be alone the rest of my life than waste my time with someone who clearly doesn’t like me that much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 11:00 AM
0	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about most men would love to have a stable loving relationship Most men desire to use women for sex. You all don’t care about a genuine connection. And it’s evident you’re part of the majority from the way you speak about women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 10:57 AM
1	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about No, coffee ‘dates’ are a blatant attempt to scam women into having sex without you having to do any actual work	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 10:55 AM
-3	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about This is an excuse. If you’re screening for basic compatibility you can do that without even meeting in person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 10:54 AM
4	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about if women won’t accept this no effort date that’s basically a slap in the face then I just won’t date them okay?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 10:49 AM
4	Unskilled women who don’t screen men at all for what they want are going to continue complaining about hookups forever why does this matter	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/25 09:28 PM
1	Could you ever view a man as a good feminist or ally in your eyes if his sexual preferences were that of a redpiller? Its a core tenet. This is like libfem women claiming to be "4b" whilst they do hookups.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 02:33 AM
0	Could you ever view a man as a good feminist or ally in your eyes if his sexual preferences were that of a redpiller? Can redpill really be referenced as an ideology though? It seems to be an uninhibited expression of male sexuality, partially responsible for women becoming increasingly disgusted with men as a whole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 02:29 AM
1	Could you ever view a man as a good feminist or ally in your eyes if his sexual preferences were that of a redpiller? Men can't be feminists. The central goal of female liberation is in direct opposition to the male imperative. So in practice any man claiming to be a feminist is generally a charlatan. That being said, women don't care about individual men's preferences in regard to what women he's attracted to. So I'm confused as to why you're posing this hypothetical in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 02:22 AM
1	How do you gauge the emotional intelligence of a man you’re interested in? I don't really care about "emotional intelligence", it's a nebulous concept. Depending on who is using the term it either appears to be a substitution for empathy, or a cope for a lack of actual intelligence whether perceived or real. Reading by itself also doesn't tell you much about the individual in question. You'd have to know specifically what they read to develop an opinion of their personality from that alone. I generally let others do most of the talking when I'm trying to learn more abo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 01:59 AM