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Yeah. Women are generally high-value, men are low-value. Especially me and my frat-girl friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:16 PM
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It could be your impression of YOUR FRIENDS is too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:50 AM
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Narcissists are not "crazy", you misunderstand what narcissism is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:54 PM
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Men also are attracted to women that have Dark Triad personality traits. That's just the nature of Dark Triad personalities, they know how to manipulate people and make themselves look attractive to people. Also, I won't say people like being lied to, but they like believing things about other people that are not true. This is just a flaw with human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:34 PM
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It has to do with attachment styles. Nice Guys have an anxious attachment style, "assholes" probably have an avoidant attachment style. Unhealthy attachment styles develop in childhood, as a response to childhood trauma. So it's not possible (and not desireable) to learn a new unhealthy attachment style, just to copy someone else's dating success.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:43 PM
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That just makes me hate women though. Then I want to be alone the rest of my life. Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:13 PM
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Cons of being toxic, you have to already be a broken person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:16 AM
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Most autistic men don't date. That's actually a good thing because it would just be more heartbreaking for them if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:04 PM
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Find it hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:17 AM
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You are 100% right. Except men that are looking for a mother are "too feminine" because of it. And women hate how feminine and how needy and attached they are. So unfortunately everything is stacked against them. It's not fair at all, but the female lizard brain and traditional gender roles/expectations will win in this scenario 1000 times over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:58 AM
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Women think that way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 01:31 AM
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Why would anyone even feel the need to write something like this? What you're talking about is just the philosophy of selfishness. Yes, most people are really selfish, and they lie to get what they want. This is really obvious. However, it depends what you mean by lying. Some people are really diabolical liars and they have no empathy at all. It means different things to different people. It depends on the amount and the type of lying and the motivations. But in general, you shouldn't think it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:15 PM
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You confused self-worth with economic worth. That's a completely different thing. The rest of the nonsense you wrote follows from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:52 AM
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When feminists say things like "women don't owe you anything", what they REALLY mean is, "i don't owe you basic human respect". Only women that take themselves way too seriously say stuff like this. "I don't owe you anything". As man, if you're rude or disrespectful, people are going to hate you. Someone eventually is going to want to beat you up. But women are allowed to be openly disrespectful, they can just smack you around, and you can't do anything about it. That's feminism 101, your gender…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:14 AM
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Men that have objectively the most sexist views of women, like Andrew Tate, are the ones that do the best with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:07 PM
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The examples you gave are ridiculous. It sounds more like, every time a man questions something that you say, you accuse them of "mansplaining". You are ignorant and sexist, and it's no wonder you probably get a lot of hate online. No one is allowed to question anything you say without being labeled a "sexist" 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:57 AM
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Are you saying that men, for example, don't explain things in a condescending way to other men? People in general don't do this? You probably are a sexist. Because you think it has to do with your gender. Someone is explaining to you something in a condescending way, just because you are a woman, and it actually has nothing to do with your gender. You're projecting your own sexist attitudes on to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:40 AM
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I agree. Smear campaigns, lying and backstabbing. People think this is not a serious issue, until they see what it actually is. It's like Amber Heard vs. Johnny Depp type of thing, where everyone thought (for a while) that Johnny Depp was a wife beater and a scumbag, and he hate women. And it wasn't true at all, but that everyone believed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:14 PM
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I didn't realize this was sarcasm at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:36 AM
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No, it's still 50% are below average and 50% above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:58 AM
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Lol. Technically, since average is just the mean, like on a bell curve it's just the middle number. That means most men are slightly above or below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:48 AM
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How do you get 1/3 from that? It's 50%. 50% are below average
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:12 AM
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You're right, but they said they were below AVERAGE. What's the meaning of average?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:49 AM
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You're wrong. It has more to do with women. For example, women rate 80% of men as below average in looks, it should be 50%. 80% means women are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:37 AM
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I don't mean to sound cynical, but I think it would be very difficult to find someone that didn't hold these views. Even among "red-pillers". Modern feminism has nothing whatsoever to do with equal rights or equal opportunities. Women already are equal in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 08:10 PM
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If a woman wants a man to be emotionally vulnerable, she's probably manipulating him. He should be scared instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:35 PM
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What is a "genuinely" nice man? If you're trying to make a distinction between "Nice Guys" and "genuinely nice men", I think it's off base because most "Nice Guys" ARE genuinely nice, they just get their trust violated and get angry because of it. Like they get used and manipulated by women. "Nice Guys" are genuinely nicer than everyone at first, and it doesn't help them at all. There's no such thing as "genuinely" nice in the way you're describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:21 AM
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But for some people it's obvious what women want, but other people are in denial of it, even after having been told. So I don't think it's so simple as that. However, it would obviously help a lot if people were more transparent about gender politics stuff and they didn't beat around the bush about it. Dating is like a game, and you're just supposed to "know" everything intuitively. If you don't know, then you're just going to be a loser. You could lose horribly too, you can lose your whole life…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:15 AM
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This is what I think it is: women are fundamentally selfish and have very little empathy, and as a man you basically have to act accordingly if you want to date. You have to work on yourself to be able to compete with other men and you have to know how to manipulate women. Failure to understand "female nature" can only get you in trouble as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:42 PM
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Truthfully, I've never heard this. Although I would never spend time around a BITCH.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:33 PM
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More violence from a partner than a stranger? Yeah, that sounds reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:38 PM
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Another thing I would like to add, a lot of "violence" from men are because of how manipulative women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:12 AM
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Because you're not scared of someone manipulating you. You either don't know, or you do know and get angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:10 AM
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It's not true. Women still date, they just have extremely high standards now. Because they have so many options and can provide essentially for themselves, they depend on men for almost nothing now. So as a man you have to be absolutely perfect to fill the non-existent void in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:06 PM
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In the real world they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:01 AM
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Love might be intertwined with libido a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:50 PM
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*Doeth men need to pay the bill
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:47 AM
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I didn't say that it was. I'm saying you are minimizing and over-simplifying the experiences of others. Because you don't understand something, or you don't experience something, that means no one does.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:53 AM
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There are actually people that don't understand dating and relationships at all. They don't even know enough to "put themselves out there". And it comes across as extremely awkward when they try. You're just denying that people are neurodivergent. Which is a typical thing that people do to minimize the problems of neurodivergent people. Just deny that it exists at all. That's not a real thing. Because I don't experience something, that means it doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:43 AM
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However, that's how people ARE to a certain extent. Not just in relationships, but in general. People are actually ARE shit. Human nature is bad. If you don't think so, then you're probably just going to end up more damaged than anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:51 PM
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I agree. High-function autistic men can't conform to gender stereotypes. They don't even understand the "logic" behind it. Because there is no logic behind it, it has to do entirely with a women's primitive lizzard brain. The sad part of this too, is the women that push gender stereotypes the most are also the same women that cry the loudest about "patriarchy". They make the biggest deal out of "patriarchy" and cause huge problems for everyone. Autistic people are not going to understand the "re…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:22 PM
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"Could this be any more dumber really?" Ask yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:00 AM
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BDE, otherwise known as confidence? You don't need a second sense to spot someone that has confidence, it's obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:48 AM
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"If someone is deprived of food, won't they be desperate for food?" Yeah, but are YOU the source of food or water for someone? This is a bad analogy because there's another person involved. It's not like being desperate for food and water.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:08 PM
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If they talk angrily about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:25 PM
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You are ridiculous. I can answer all your points but, it's a waste of time. Women do most chores and taking after children because they are stay at home mothers. Not all of them, but the majority of them. Being a stay at home mother, they work like 10% of what men do. Seriously, fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:50 PM
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That they are ugly? What are you expecting people to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:44 PM
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What about porn addiction? Porn is ok as long as someone doesn't get addicted to it and it doesn't ruin their life or their relationships and cause chronic guilt... sure. Like other people have said, you didn't really address any of the reasons why people don't necessarily think porn is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:34 AM
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This is true to an extent but it's also true that a lot of "cool" kids in high school end up losers later in life or they end up getting in trouble. Not everything is so black-and-white. Some nerds end up highly successful too, especially those in tech and those that start their own companies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:40 PM
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To complain and to validate my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:15 AM
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Yes, plenty actually. Because the woman is "low-quality" herself. She might be overweight, or unintelligent. I think it was a lot more common amongst boomers for low-value men to get in relationships. Today it's nearly impossible for a low-value man to get into a relationship, even with a low-value woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:50 PM
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I agree. Telling some men they can improve themselves for dating can lead to a lot of bitterness and resentment. Because there are some people that are not meant to date. They just get taken advantage of in relationships. Or they become involuntarily celibate, despite their efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:28 PM
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Yes they do? I had that happen to me when I was younger. You simply not being able to accept things, or being in denial of things, doesn't make any less true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:50 PM
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I agree. Women that have dark triad personalities create disgruntled men that become red pillers. And those are the same women that unironically cry the loudest about "sexism" and "patriarchy". They label men "sexist" when it doesn't fit at all (they are actually the sexist ones), and they create even more disgruntled men. The whole thing is just a sick joke. Because there's some women that just are really jaded. Society paints women as always being innocent and the victim, but it's not true. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:46 AM
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Some women even admit to practicing hypergamy. What do you have to say about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:30 AM
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Just because you don't experience something, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. You can see evidence of hypergamy everywhere. Some women openly admit to it, what do you have to say about that? I bet you would try to rationalize it some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:23 AM
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You are 100% right. For example, catcalling is considered creepy, only when the women didn't like it. If she liked it then there's nothing wrong with it. It depends entirely on what the woman thinks. And she gets to decide after the fact whether it was creepy or not. A manipulative woman can ruin a man's life this way. Just by "deciding" after the fact that something was creepy. Women know this is complete BS and they exploit it to their advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:15 PM
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That's what they turn into after dealing with a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:57 PM
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And it has somewhat to do with gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:17 PM
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No, men are less safe spiritually
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:13 PM
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What about spiritual safety?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:09 PM
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Yes. In fact it's the only type of men that feminists target. They never go after the type of men that actually harm women, like snakes and gangster guys. They only go after men they perceive as being "weak" or effeminate. Feminists really only care about themselves, they couldn't care less about gender equality. They need an easy target to take out their hatred toward their father on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:31 PM
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In fairness, I don't think the women that call some "creepy" or "weird" are the same women that would write letters to Ted Bundy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:09 PM
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It's possible. Because relationships are intertwines with some men's highest goal in life. Finding a romantic partner is intertwined with all their deepest aspirations. So when they get rejected, there's a whole lot more at stake for men than for women. It's like all their hopes and dreams are shattering. For women it's not like that. Women are less idealistic and more opportunistic. They only care about themselves and what they can "get" out of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:08 PM
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Oh, to debate all the low lifes on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:57 PM
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I don't want a girlfriend. I learned the truth about romantic relationships, and how fucked up I am and other people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:57 PM
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There are some women that like toxic masculinity. But I don't think you know the difference between masculinity and toxic masculinity. Toxic masculinity does benefit men sometimes, it also gets them in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:21 AM
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Their standards are high for superficial things. Like how physically fit a man is (has to be like a gym bro) or how many friends he has (have to have TONS of friends and very active social life).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:41 PM
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Same thing happens to men. Just not with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:05 PM
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Women use deception and tickery to extract other things from men though, like money, status, etc. It's not all to do with sex. Some people are just extremely manipulative. Both genders are like this. Many of them are narcissists and have a history of trauma themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:59 AM
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I guess, men that have control of their instincts and free of vulnerabilities. A man that's immune to toxic behavior from women. Of course it's good to be like that, however, most of the women that want men like this actually don't deserve it. They expect men to be like the perfect male stereotype but they are like snakes. That's not fair at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:48 AM
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Yes I agree. Toxic femininity creates toxic masculinity. Women that reinforce all the worst stereotypes about men and dehumanize men the most are the ones that are the biggest creators of toxic masculinity. These are also the women that cry the loudest about "patriarchy" (and they're not joking either). Women that have dark triad personalities, like narcissists, are manipulative like this. They create toxic masculinity in sensitive men and in men that wanted absolutely nothing whatsoever to do w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:19 AM
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I don't think what you're describing really exists. People usually become gender activist because they have some kind of history of trauma. For example, I've never met a feminist, where feminism was a big part of her life, and who was outspoken about it, that didn't have some kind of chip on their shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:07 AM
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I agree it's really not good for an individual's mental health. But dating/relationships are really not good fot an individual's mental health either. Most go into relationships looking for love, and they come out of it completely scarred and damaged. TRP actually helps men to avoid that. Or least it's some consolation to men who have already gone through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:17 AM
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Yeah right. Why is this any better than just getting jacked? Getting jacked improves your confidence with women, and women won't emmasculate you if you're physically stronger than them. But, getting jacked won't fix the hole in your heart. You can still be completely fucked up and be really bad with women if you're jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:57 AM
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If someone is a virgin at 25, odds are they are already jaded by pornography. Losing virginity means nothing then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:20 AM
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I went to see an escort a while back and it did absolutely nothing for me. I think it's meaningless if it's not in the context of a reciprocal relationship. Maybe some guys will like it but it did nothing for me, and I would not do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:26 PM
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Red pill are just guys who are disgruntled by women. It has nothing to do with being an alpha male.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:27 AM
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There's plenty of cases where natural selection does not apply. Like women dating men that are not good for them, like thugs and snakes. If it was natural selection, women would only ever choose men that are gentlemen. Natural selection doesn't explain everything about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:36 PM
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I think Tate actually does motivate some people to improve their life. However, it has all to do with money and raising your social status and raising your value to women. I just think it's really shallow and depressing. And it's depressing that this is all women actually care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:04 AM
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It depends how you define "toxic masculinity". Toxic masculinity could be defined as a LACK of masculinity. So lack of masculinity or having damaged masculinity makes men toxic (which can be true). In that sense, women HATE men that have toxic masculinity. Also, I don't think women are special. I think some women also display "toxic masculinity". Women who are not in touch with their femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:57 PM
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A lot of red pillers are probably below average in some respect, like not being neurotypical. They are definitely not the Andrew Tates and Kevin Samuels of the world. But to me that just proves the point. There's insurmountable barriers for dating for some men only. And women can be extremely cruel and manipulative toward certain men only, for things they have absolutely no control over. If you don't have the right kind of temperament, or you're not neurotypical or have the wrong attachment styl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:45 PM
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Because what is there to criticize about transgender people? None of the arguments about transgenderism really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:40 AM
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It's socially acceptable for women to date up, as in hypergamy (and by "up", means practically the sky is the limit). But average men have a problem finding a date and get scorned by women. Hypergamy, even it's expected a little bit in society, it has reached it's logical extreme form and has turned into something really ugly, and not beneficial for society as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:19 PM
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How can you be disillusioned or disgruntled with women unless you dated before? Red pillers do date, and they had negative experiences with women. But obviously being extremely bitter makes it nearly impossible to find a date after (but sadly this doesn't apply to women who are disgruntled with men).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:25 AM
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The logical extreme of hypergamy is really not good. Women that act like sociopaths, but they expect men to be extremely gentlemanly, and overall, way better people than they are. Make more money, be more physically fit, have more emotional maturity, more social life, than they do. Narcissistic women and "feminists" are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:03 PM
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"Not as extreme and dark as TRP makes it out to be". Because you've never met narcissistic women!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:55 PM
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No, just think about it for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:06 AM
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Well, just think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:56 AM
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You have to think about stuff to know when people are manipulating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:06 PM
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You also get manipulated by other people when you don't think. Not thinking means you're oblivious to all a person's faults. If you don't think as a man, someone is going to rob you of your innocence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:58 PM
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There's some people that are not gifted with intuition. They have to think a lot about relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:40 PM
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Yes. It's a little bit unfair that men are shamed for "looking for a mother" in women, but it's completely normal that women are looking for a father in men. That's just another cruel double-standard from women and displays a lack of self-awareness. I believe that all this happens subconsciously, and yes it's a little childish and unrealistic. But only men are shamed for it. It's completely normal and socially acceptable for women to want a father in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:19 PM
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Women are regressing in the sense that, they are becoming more narcissistic. Narcissism among women is increasing at a much faster rate than men. And it's impossible to satisfy narcissistic women. Narcissistic women think they are entitled to the top 1% of men, and they're not satisfied with anything else. And they cause huge problems for people, like trash relationships and families, in their pursuit of the 1% man. They eventually find what they're looking for, but they're like parasites, and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:58 AM
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Basically any qualities that a woman should traditionally have, is perceived as a weakness in men. Men that are too sensitive, have too much emotion. Or men that are naive or too passive. Women perceive them as being weak and show cruelty/spite toward them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:49 AM
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You said it's the risk of developing a relationship, male or female, but it's mostly women that do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:54 AM
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It's most often women that do this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:50 AM
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There's all different types of feminists that have different beliefs. But that just goes to show you, they can't even agree on anything themselves. They have wildly different beliefs about what feminism is. What's sexist, what's not sexist. What's patriarchy, what's not. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:27 AM
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I can't really understand what you're saying in this context
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:19 AM
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This is the other side of the story of "Nice Guys". "Nice Guys" are just men that have too much empathy, they have too much of themselves to give in relationships. And they get used/manipulated by women, and then they get angry. And people gaslight them and point the finger at them, even when they know better. It is kind of disgusting what people are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:31 PM
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I dated a girl that had a personality disorder, and was a stereotype of something. And then I became very depressed, for very many years after.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:21 AM
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You already made a post like this. You sound like you're skeptical that women get manipulated. Women mostly get manipulated for sex by men that promise commitment, and have no actual interest in it. Men get manipulated too, mostly for status/money. And they complain about it all the time. Men complain about women being liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:23 AM
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All women cheat, when they feel like it. Yes some women are in happy relationships, for the other women, there's very little resistance for them to cheat. They do it whenever they have even the tiniest urge to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:25 PM
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The worst thing that happens to a lot of people is they get emotionally damaged in relationships. Especially in this society because of how toxic people are, and how little meaning people assign to relationships. I think people need some role model for proper intimacy in their lives to have healthy relationships as an adult and not come out of it completely scarred and jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:38 PM
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I don't think it's possible for everyone to be red-pilled. Red pill means men who are disillusioned with women. Not everyone can be disillusioned, some people have to be... "illusioned".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:15 PM
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No, of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:46 AM
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I don't think being all about looks is all that makes a person shallow. Having no empathy and being a excessively profane person, like a lot of women are, that's what makes a person shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:27 PM
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I wouldn't necessarily call it ableism. But women have absolutely no sympathy for autistic men, or men that have any kind of mental health issues, at all. Period. In fact, you can see how duplicitous and mean-spirited women are by how they interact with autistic men and men that have mental health problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:01 PM
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Yeah, you have to be completely heartless to be successful in dating. That's just how women are. If you're not heartless, then they'll probably make you that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:04 AM
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No one said that as a man you have no value. You have no value TO WOMEN. TO WOMEN, you have to do all kinds of thinks to become more desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:49 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:46 AM
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Red Pill basically represents all those things about women that men are in denial of. Things about women that everyone wishes were not true. So any man that denies TRP is in denial of what women are like. Which is not useful at all and can only lead to resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:39 AM
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I think men are being afflicted by a number of things in modern society. Like porn addiction, they have higher rates of autism and depression, etc. In modern society. There's a lot of things in modern society that conspire against healthy relationships. Then too add to the difficulty, women's standards are going way up. Women are being encouraged by "feminism" to practice hypergamy. They only date men that are way better than them. Studies show than women have become more narcissistic than men i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:25 PM
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Keep telling yourself that..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:22 PM
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Go get pegged.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:30 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:01 AM
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There's nothing right or wrong about it, but if you are attracted to masculine women, you at least have to be more masculine than they are. And you probably have to be a whole lot more masculine... Otherwise there's no way in Hell a relationship like that could work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:31 AM
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Who actually says this? Name one red-pill "dating guru" that says this. This is your idea of what red-pill is like, it's more of a straw-man argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:42 PM
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"Secret non-disclosed transactional agreement in their head". Congratulations, you just described what women are like. They create a non-consensual, non-disclosed, transactional agreement about their relationship. They expect like a 100 things from a man. And they won't tell you about it. You are just expected to know. If you don't know, then sad day for you. Then they'll do something terrible to you, they'll spite you in some way. None of what you said has to do with being a "Nice Guy", and has…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:55 PM
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It's partly because of the rise of "feminism", and women are becoming more narcissistic than men in modern society. Maybe there was a good balance at one point when men and women were truly equal (and not extremely unequal, like feminists want). But today is not good for average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:54 AM
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I think because people are more likely to take out their childhood trauma on the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:52 AM
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This is kind of dumb. I guess it's not a healthy relationship if he wants to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:10 PM
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You're acting like people don't get themselves into toxic relationships and get damaged by toxic people. It makes me wonder how much dating experience you have. People obviously have issues like anxious attachment style, abandonment trauma, etc. Just like my ex girlfriend had issues too, she was a narcissist. She had clinical narcissism. So had a personality disorder. But it's one thing to just have issues, it's another thing to be dating someone that's purposely trying to manipulate you, using …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:48 PM
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You kind of missed my point, I already had issues, but dating someone that was toxic, that didn't care about what a healthy relationship was and was essentially just using me/manipulating me made it 10 times worse for me. I had 0% chance of ever having a normal relationship after. That's what happens to a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:06 PM
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A lot of people are mentally ill from toxic relationships though. Like I dated a girl that openly admitted that she had intimacy issues, and she got bored of people easily. She was also a compulsive liar and cheated on me. I'll never experience a normal relationship after that because, honestly I'm too broken now. And I am grateful that she won't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:58 PM
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It's true, women encourage you to compare yourself to other men. And they will compare you to other men too, especially if they feel they can attract better than you. But you have to be more physically fit, make more money, have a better social life than other men do. I don't think that's where actual self-confidence comes from. It's obviously subjective. But people have a problem finding self-confidence unless they think they're better than everyone else. So it has all to do with other people, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:43 AM
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Yeah, real extreme feminists are interested in dehumanizing men. That's more than just lip service.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:43 PM
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Yeah, they don't actually care about it at all. They just know how to manipulate people. They're just trying to get what they want from women. People not being able to see through that, but they make excuses for when women lie about stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:43 PM
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Just like Andrew Tate is a "feminist". He says men should pay for women's dates etc, he just manipulates women. Masculine men are only "feminists" to manipulate you. Edit: you live in a total fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:38 PM
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Is this... sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:07 AM
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Yes, this is how some women act. Like they think they are supermodels. And it confuses men, because they don't see that entitlement at first and they don't see the reason for it. The reason is actually in their mind. They are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:05 AM
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Yes. However, I think people who have no sex drive have something wrong with them too. Like they have intimacy issues as well. It comes with having low libido and being a heartless person. For example, narcissists have intimacy issues and low libido and generally little desire for sex. And they are completely heartless. All those things are related IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:07 AM
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Only women that hate men talk about "patriarchy". They are actually the oppressive ones. And they have "dark" personalities, like narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:03 AM
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Is this a theoretical thing or a thing that could actually happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:45 AM
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Men who are late bloomers see the worst of women though. Women hate them and treat them like trash, like they are disposable. Or else don't even give them the time of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:22 AM
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What is female nature? Is female nature to be extremely petty, and narcissistic? And to manipulate/exploit men? If it is, I can't see how that encourages men to be better. In fact, I think it just does the opposite. That makes men become really sinister.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:54 AM
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Yes. The prevailing (toxic) view is men should be able to handle toxic behavior from women. If they can't, then they're "not man enough". And it's a personal failing. It has to do entirely with them. It doesn't matter what the circumstances are. If the man has mental health issues or autism or something, doesn't matter. In fact, he might get it worse than anyone. All men should be able to handle toxic behavior from women, otherwise they're not real men. And toxic men on the other hand are still …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:51 AM
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You live in a bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:57 PM
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Feminists hate feminine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:55 PM
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Maybe women will encourage patriarchy then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:38 PM
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A douchebag is the male version of a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:57 PM
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Not all guys say this. Also this is really doesn't matter that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:06 AM
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Haha lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:04 AM
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Men are being dragged down by a lot of things in the modern world. Like pornography and "feminism". Women on the other hand are more empowered in modern society and less dependent on men. This gap is what's causing their expectations to be misaligned.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:58 AM
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Well, you said it yourself. You don't know anything about dating. Probably don't know anything about women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:38 AM
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So you are already worthless. What are you complaining about? What's the point of this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:55 AM
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Well, with that logic, you are already worthless to 99.99999999999...% of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:37 AM
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Andrew Tate and others are not telling men they're worthless, they're telling men they're worthless TO WOMEN. Huge difference. And it doesn't matter, if you don't care about the opinion of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:16 PM
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I actually didn't say that. A lot of nice guys are genuinely nice, but because they have abandonment trauma (or something, who knows exactly what it is), they have the potential to act really sinister. As soon as a woman exploits them or manipulate them or abandon them, that's when they start acting crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:14 PM
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I think a lot of "Nice Guys" are men that missed a phase of their sexual development in childhood. And men also that have the wrong attachment style. They have an anxious attachment style. And they project all their self-worth on to women. That's why when they get rejected, they get extremely angry. Because that triggers something inside of them, like some abandonment trauma or something. Anyways, I think you are oversimplifying it. It's not just undeveloped men. Developing one's character is ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:56 AM
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You are stereotyping men though, that's sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:07 AM
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I just wish women were a little kinder and less narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:47 AM
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Maybe not ugly, but some men attract women that are prettier than you expect. Because women only like really masculine men. That's the only thing that matters. As long as you look like someone's daddy. If you're not a really masculine man, then women are just going to treat you like trash. Probably going to do something terrible to you, like scar you for life. You'll be psychologically damaged from a woman that has daddy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:07 AM
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My ex girlfriend get cheated on by her present boyfriend. But it actually wouldn't make me feel that much better and it probably would have very little impact on her. She's already a rage-filled clown and a narcissist. She would just get slightly more angry than she already is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:34 AM
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No, because no one in my family is like that. There's no toxic people and no narcissists in my family. If I had a daughter, she wouldn't be like that. Other people are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:26 AM
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Mostly the same things. I would teach them not to get taken advantage of by other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:15 AM
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A man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:57 AM
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I don't have a child, but if I had a son, I would feel it was my duty to warn them about women. Explain to them why you shouldn't trust women. And my son would also have to know about relationship things like, what is narcissism, what are toxic people. How to deal with toxic people. What are attachment styles. What is anxious attachment style and secure attachment style. There's no bias in this, this is just reality. Anyone that doesn't know about this is in for a world of heartbreak. There's tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:21 AM
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The worse thing for men (I don't condone cheating at all either), is some men have feeling of being emasculated and they get extremely angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:20 AM
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Some men get taken advantage of just because they are nice. Women don't like it. They just don't like the fact, that you are naive. You're not allowed to be naive around women otherwise they'll do something to traumatize you, and then play the victim afterwards. Women are like snakes. They act twisted. Especially narcissists and women that have daddy problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:08 AM
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Yes, those qualities make men appear "weak" and women hate it. They treat them like they are worthless. And even spite them. Take all their daddy problems out on them. And then they get extremely angry, and people call them a "Nice Guy".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:01 AM
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I think people need to be told sympathetically the reality of dating and relationships. That there's some people who are just not meant for dating and relationships. They don't have the right personality or attachment style. It doesn't help to lie to people, it only causes a lot more harm. At least if we could isolate those personality traits that are not suitable for dating, then we could manage it or teach people how to live meaningful lives in other ways. Instead, here is the (toxic) blue-pil…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:48 AM
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My advice to autistic people is don't date because people will just take advantage of you. Because autistic people miss social queues and are too trusting of others, when they date they get horribly manipulated by people, especially narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:00 AM
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My despair is that I dated, I wish I never dated at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 08:35 PM
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Nice logical fallacy.
/r/AntiFeminists25/02/23 02:24 AM
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Not if you don't want women to make excuses for cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:15 AM
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Women DO get manipulated to have sex under false pretenses. You shouldn't lie to women because they get extremely disgruntled, they start to hate men. And then they take out their frustrations on some innocent man that has nothing to do with it. And then they become extremely disgruntled, and start to hate women, and the cycle continues. This is exactly what makes the world a shit place. People cause each other 10 times more heartbreak than necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 06:19 PM
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Women that say this just take themselves way too seriously. What they really mean is, "I don't owe you basic human respect". Ok, good luck with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:46 AM
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You don't really understand the stereotype then if that's what you think. Also I'm not sure if this 100% related to what I said, but why can't I say the same thing? That TRP developed because women used men as success/status objects and then just discard them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:58 AM
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Do you think FDS is a reflection of what a lot of women are like? It's not just a subreddit. There's probably (well, definitely), a lot of women that have similar views that are not on the FDS subreddit. Besides this, I just think it's obvious. I don't know how someone can be in denial of hypergamy. Seriously, who are you helping by denying hypergamy? It doesn't help anyone to lie about it. Men need to know what hypergamy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:42 AM
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You know women actually ADMIT hypergamy is a real and they only date "high-value" men? Go look at this subreddit for example r/FemaleDatingStrategy What do you say about that? Also why is this so controversial? That's not the whole of what TRP is about, it's only one small thing. I don't know why someone would be in denial about hypergamy. It doesn't help to lie about it. Money is not the only thing that makes a "high-value" man. There are other criteria that women have for being "high-value". S…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:20 AM
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Whether it's a fundamental law of female desire or not, the modern world and feminism strongly facilitate and encourage hypergamy among women. And they even make hypergamy turn into something comical. That men have to be extremely gentlemanly and women are allowed to act like sociopaths. That's not fair at all but that's feminism 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:42 AM
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Like what? I said name one. Like Stephen Hawking or something? Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:21 AM
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Because who else is it going to be? Name one non-fiction character that's not a nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:18 AM
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I don't want to be in one. No more snakes on this motherfucking plane!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:58 PM
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Oh really, where did you get your statistics from? Probably some radical feminist website.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:27 PM
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You should look it up, it's a metaphor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:25 PM
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Do you know the story of Samson in the Bible?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:19 PM
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Buddha or Jesus. If not, then Andrew Tate is your best bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:10 PM
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No, women traumatize men all the time. By lying and cheating and slandering and making false rape/SA allegations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:08 PM
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Imagine he didn't know women were snakes and then a woman ruined his life and he lashed out in a simp rage? Oh wait, that happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:15 PM
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I don't actually think he hates women because he knows how to get what he wants from them and he doesn't get attached to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:00 PM
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No, maybe something unethical. I don't assume that all women are going to drug me and steal from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:59 PM
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It might be an absurd generalization, but it's useful for men to think about women as snakes. A snake can only bite you if you don't know it's a snake. Women also make absurd generalizations about men, like all or most men are stupid or all or most men are creepy. He's a liar in the sense that he manipulates women. And some of the things he says are stupid and over the top. It doesn't mean I disagree with everything someone says. I don't know exactly what Andrew Tate's political views are, but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:38 PM
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Android Tate is honest about women. He openly admits that women are "snakes", and he says not to get attached to them. And men should not worry about women, they should instead be focused on self-development. So he inspires men to do something with their lives. And he says that women like traditionally masculine men. If you're not a traditionally masculine man, women will spite you. So he says all the right things about women. Sure he is idiot, and a liar. Sure he is insensitive, but this practi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:14 PM
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They make excuses for cheating but men are not allowed to. Men that cheat are considered scumbags.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:47 PM
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In one sense, I agree with you. Modern western feminists and female narcissists are the most privileged group of people probably in the whole history of the human race. But they are also messed up, they also have more trauma than most people. That's what makes someone a narcissist. These are all women that have PTSD. And they take it out on random men that have nothing to do with it.
/r/AntiFeminists07/02/23 06:53 AM
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I want my life back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:05 AM
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There's no such thing.
/r/AntiFeminists06/02/23 09:00 PM
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No, worse than that. Feminism has created a culture where women are praised for being narcissists and sociopaths. Just think about Amber Heard and the whole "Me Too" movement.
/r/AntiFeminists06/02/23 05:37 PM
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The gaslighting you get as a man, is because of gender stereotypes (men are supposed to be the "stronger" gender), you are just supposed to put up with abuse from women. You're just expected to deal with it, you have no one to blame but yourself. Because men are supposed to be strong, that's just the gender expectation. If you can't deal with it, then you are a "bitch". That alone is pretty sexist, but this is how people think, and it will never change.
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/23 11:32 PM
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They are not attracted to asshole and turned off by genuinely nice men. It's more complicated than that. It has to do with attachment style. Women don't like "Nice Guys" because they have the wrong attachment style, they have an anxious attachment style (like too clingy and they can simp hard). Women like men that have secure attachment style or avoidant attachment style (however, men that have an avoidant attachment style screw over women and just treat them horribly and use them for sex, but t…
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/23 12:44 AM
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95% of women that think like this have daddy issues. And they are actually the abusive assholes.
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/23 08:49 PM
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Yeah I already have intimacy issues and I'm distrustful of women and never have sex. So I would accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:21 AM
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In Western society, the rise of narcissism. People are becoming more and more narcissistic. Narcissism is actually rewarded in society now. Like narcissists have a higher chance of being promoted and moving up the corporate later. But narcissism makes society a dismal place. It eats away at spiritual/humanitarian values. Female narcissists use "feminism" as an excuse for all their abusive behavior. It allows them to control/manipulate men. And everyone believes them. When really they just a pers…
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/23 07:36 PM
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I don't really care about gender roles. I just wish people had more respect for each other. And feminists and female narcissists are by far the most disrespectful people I've ever met in my life. They give everyone heart attacks.
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/23 06:55 PM
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Not blaming feminism, correlation does not equal causation. Most feminists are like this, but not because they're feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:08 AM
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He inspires men to do something with their life. (But of course, most of it has to do with getting rich..). I like Andrew Tate because he speaks frankly about how shallow women are. And how petty and narcissistic women are and how to deal with them. It's something that's desperately needed in society, men have to become disillusioned with women and they have to learn about the benefits of traditional masculinity. If you want to be successful with women, then you have to be a traditionally mascul…
/r/AntiFeminists31/01/23 06:20 PM
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I dated a girl in my first relationship that was a narcissist. And she was really the worst stereotype of women. She was extremely arrogant and manipulative, and she had no empathy at all. She was like a snake. And her and her mother unironically were "feminists". I didn't really understand the stereotype until I was exposed to it. But this ruined my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:28 PM
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I think women in general are becoming more narcissistic in the modern world. And men are becoming less traditionally masculine, like Andrew Tate says. And it makes for a terrible combination.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:18 AM
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No, not deactivate accounts. That's just going to piss people off. Allow one male user to sign up, then one female, then one male, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:52 AM
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Men are not allowed to be sensitive. Women treat sensitive guys like trash. I think there's a biological but also social reason why men produce more oxytocin. It's also a stereotype too since there are women, like narcissist women that have very little empathy and they must not produce any oxytocin at all. And men that do produce a lot get mocked and taken advantage of for it. Because they are breaking gender stereotypes, after all. Men are supposed to be the "stronger gender" and have less empa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:37 AM
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Yeah because you have a different relationship with your mother. Your mother doesn't know what you're like around women necessarily, like awkward around women. Things were probably more simple in the past, and women were not so petty and narcissistic. They didn't have such ridiculous expectations like they do today. But on the other hand, I don't actually think Nice Guys would do well with dating at ANY time. Because these are sensitive guys that have the wrong attachment style. They have an anx…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:03 AM
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You are at Sheridan in Oakville? I went to this Sheridan, Oakville campus lol. What program are you taking?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:35 AM
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You don't look intimidating but you look like you're going to scam someone. Like a Nigerian Prince scammer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:55 AM
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I wish I had know this when I was younger. I'll be bitter the rest of my life for being involved with women, when I could've avoided it altogether and kept my sanity and inner peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:18 PM
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Feminists are just women that want to be masculine. They have a power fetish. Just like narcissists. They need to control/dominate other people. And they associate masculinity with power/dominance.
/r/AntiFeminists11/01/23 06:52 PM
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I don't think men should have to act manly. Because there are men that just have a more feminine temperament by nature. That's just the way some people are. It's in their DNA. Just like there are women that are more "butch". Saying that men have to act manly is saying that all man have to play into gender stereotypes. But, I think that it's probably safer for men to act manly. Because women don't like men with a feminine temperament. Especially feminists like to spite them. It never ends well.
/r/AntiFeminists11/01/23 02:14 AM
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You're being dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:53 PM
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So what about when someone has an affair or something? They are just communicating on a wavelength their partner cannot understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:37 PM
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This is kind of stupid. There's a difference between non-verbal queues and lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:30 PM
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$100 per night lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:45 AM
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Which religion? Can it be the church of Satan?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:39 AM
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Because I think people are evil. All they know how to do is just use/manipulate each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:45 AM
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Probably me. I have the wrong attachment style, maybe a little autistic too. I wish that I never dated at all. My only girlfriend I had filed a police report on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:30 AM
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What if I resent people in general? I don't have the right personality for dating, I have the wrong attachment style. And women think I'm weird/socially awkward. Nothing I can do about it. It's better not to lie to people and give them false hope, when some people just shouldn't be dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:28 AM
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I don't think most people even know they have issues. Like childhood trauma or abandonment issues. Or anxious attachment style. For a lot of people, it comes out for the first time when they start dating. And they don't know the causes or the reason behind it. But you are oversimplifying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:35 AM
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They do because narcissistic women are seen as more "high value". Even though they are full of shit. And narcissistic women can pretend to be submissive while being really dominant. Women like dominant men but they are attracted to narcissist men and men who are "players". So men that have dark personality traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:16 PM
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I hate to say it but, people that have dark personalities do better with dating in general. Not just men who are criminals or misogynist but also women who are extremely narcissistic. That's all I need to know about people, that people are shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:09 PM
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I don't see that much misogyny online. Maybe a joke that a comedian made and you thought it was sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:28 AM
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Part of the reason people get manipulated by broken people is because they are not broken themselves. They don't even understand it. Someone that's not a liar doesn't understand someone that's a compulsive liar, they are two entirely different wavelengths. They should not be together. And people who are not liars have more humanity then compulsive liars and narcissists, but they manipulate everyone to think it's the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:21 AM
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What about women that act like evil clowns? What does that have to do with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:10 PM
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What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:11 AM
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Fuck yeah! Hail Satan!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:00 AM
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Yeah, I have a baby face and a weak jaw and women don't like me for it. They treat me like a bitch and then I act like a "serial killer".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:34 PM
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But what can they do for you? Honestly I wouldn't expect a therapist to help you with THAT. I already gave up on dating a long time ago. Because I don't have the right kind of personality. Give up bro. Do something else with your life. Women suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:31 PM
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Say a negative number of dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:20 AM
1

No! I'm going to put "Don't tell me what to do" as my flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:04 PM
1

Because nice guys/girls don't have proper boundaries. So they get taken advantage of by people and then get angry about it afterwards. This also makes them look like the crazy ones, when really both parties are to blame. My opinion is that, I just think people are shit. I just hate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:09 PM
4

Rising misuse of defamation lawsuits.. yeah sure. It's not like it's mostly celebrities and rich people who can even sue someone for defamation.
/r/AntiFeminists29/12/22 11:47 PM
4

I had confidence when I was younger and no confidence after I dated a girl that was a narcissist. She lied to me and manipulated me and I never wanted to date again after her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:20 AM
2

I wouldn't say it's normalized. It's only extreme feminists and women that have a dark triad personality that have this kind of dehumanizing view of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:49 PM
1

Not really though. I see red pill as a bunch of disgruntled guys that have been taken advantage of in the past. I don't think anyone with dark triad personality would ever complain about dating, because they are the ones that are going around using/manipulating people and treating people like trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:15 AM
1

No narcissist men should get with narcissist females, like FDS women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:14 AM
1

What is a Même?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:47 PM
1

One thing, they have lower expectations in life. That means lower expectations of other people. They might get less disappointed or heartbroken by other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:23 AM
3

Men that take women's studies degree are less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:54 AM
0

No, because they are narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:10 AM
-1

Gender based violence is because of narcissism. People getting revenge on narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:08 AM
1

How can it be easier? Nothing is personal over the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:27 AM
1

Maybe, but do you really think people are easier to interact with IRL than over the internet? Really really?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:47 AM
2

Porn causes men to be addicted to sex/stimulation in general. And to have fetishes. I don't think it's actually good for men or women. Porn is good to relieve sexual tension, in the short term. But in the long term, if someone becomes a sex addict, then it does not help.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:52 PM
2

I guess..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:38 PM
62

Female women? Why no male women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:19 AM
-1

It's just a bunch of disgruntled men that have the wrong attachment style, teaching the reality of what women are like. About how superficial women are and how they really only care about status.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:36 AM
11

Stabbing men in the back makes them weak.
/r/AntiFeminists18/12/22 02:08 AM
-2

No, you're being a goof.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:25 PM
-1

I know I wouldn't because if I was a woman, I wouldn't be a porn addict. Women have less sexual related mental health problems than men. Women are just "pure" by default. Men have to struggle long and hard to make themselves "pure" in this world, and keep themselves that way. Even then, they get defiled by someone/something. Men have the possibility to develop grievous vices/defilements, women don't. 2nd reason, because women that have mental health problems, are more accepted into society. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:53 PM
1

No, contradiction is when you make two statements that are opposed to each other. There's only one statement here, that women progressively date down. So it's not a contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:03 PM
-2

Probably be a loner/introvert. But I wouldn't have mental health problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:54 PM
4

Why do you keep posting the same thing over and over? This is not really a "contradiction", they are just wrong. I have RP views but I agree that hypergamy is seen a lot more in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:51 PM
0

I feel like you said nothing here, just reiterated what red pill is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:12 PM
2

The most transactional creatures in existence are feminists and narcissist women. Feminists and narcissists women take hypergamy and the transactional nature of relationships to the logical extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:27 AM
2

I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:39 PM
4

I don't think you can develop your personality for dating, I think it's fixed in childhood. People learn their attachment style (like anxious or secure attachment style) in childhood. And they develop all kinds of trauma or abandonment issues in childhood that making dating impossible. Individual does not have any control over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:47 PM
1

No one. I didn't have any role models.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:18 AM
1

Probably a bot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:50 AM
1

You make a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:49 AM
1

Don't bro me, it's not going to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:42 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:39 AM
4

There's snow outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:16 AM
13

I hate how petty and narcissistic they are. Women are unnaturally petty and narcissistic. It's against human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:19 AM
1

Well this is better than everyone having a heart attack and the police being called.
/r/AntiFeminists11/12/22 07:41 PM
3

Someone who has an anxious attachment style ("nice guy"), or someone who is weird/loner/no friends, or has a bad personality. And men who are "late bloomers".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:38 PM
5

Men have to deal with women who are snakes, and shifty clowns/narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:32 PM
1

Because they just get taken advantage of by people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:48 PM
2

Some people just shouldn't be dating. Weird people, people who are not neurotypical, or people who have an anxious attachment style. And toxic people and narcissists should stick with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:12 AM
–

You don't know what feminists are like then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:03 AM
1

Written by a woman? I don't know. Probably extremely masculine, and gentlemanly at the same time. And no a weirdo, but a normal guy who's affectionate, doesn't have any mental problems. And is not too clingy. And good in bed. And muscular, and 6 feet tall. Basically like the perfect daddy. (Also there's really harsh consequences for men who don't meet all these criteria).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:07 AM
-1

Yeah right. I know men can be toxic too but, no one believes their excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:42 AM
4

I think women are unnaturally petty and narcissistic. They're so full of narcissism that it's against human nature. And society encourages women to be this way. That's one reason I will always be bitter towards towards society. Women have no/very little humanity and they are encouraged to have even less than they already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:31 PM
0

It's not unsubstantiated, it's substantiated by anecdotal evidence, and common sense about feminism and narcissism is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:59 AM
1

Feminism encourages narcissism is MY assertion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:53 AM
1

Read this: https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=4195431
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:28 AM
1

I gave you one study and you failed to give your explanation for correlation between narcissism and feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:02 AM
0

It is backed up by something. Anecdotal evidence of myself and others, common sense, and studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:56 AM
2

What kind of "proof" do you need? You don't even want proof, you just want to tell me I'm wrong, while ignoring the substance of what I'm saying. Anyone that's had to interact with feminists and female narcissists, in the real world, knows how true it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:53 AM
1

Would you like to explain why there's more narcissism in feminist women? Feminism is an ideology that encourages women to be extremely narcissistic and have ridiculous double standards. It doesn't literally "cause" narcissism, just encourages it among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:45 AM
2

Don't die, just Google. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/333398197_Impact_of_Feminism_on_Narcissism_and_Tolerance_for_Disagreement_among_Females
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:34 AM
2

Good argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:19 AM
0

Feminism in the real world has absolutely nothing to do with equality. Is more like the rise of female narcissism and female supremacy. Women that just just use/manipulate men, stab men in the back. And they ruin relationships and families. It's not good for society. I think it's a good thing that women have educational/financial autonomy, but I also think this has nothing whatsoever to do with "feminism". I think this is one of the outcomes of democracy and modernity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:15 PM
1

Because you are basing your view of "feminism" on what it says in the dictionary, instead of the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:00 PM
0

It's like saying, the Quran is quite clear, there are no such thing as Muslim terrorists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:50 PM
-1

If only that's all that "feminism" was actually about, in the real world lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:36 PM
0

Feminism encourages women to have disgusting double standards. Women's narcissism goes through the roof with feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:34 PM
0

Feminism is partly responsible for the rise of narcissism among women. That's not the only factor, but that's partly to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:30 PM
-3

Feminism is partly responsible for the rise of narcissism among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:29 PM
8

Men that cheat are considered scumbags, and women that cheat are allowed to make any kind of BS excuse for it. This is a result of the toxic feminist culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:36 PM
0

I don't see why "pornsick men" would be judgemental towards women with high n count. If anything I would think it would be the exact opposite. But I agree, pornography is not good for people. So what are you going to so about it? Shaming men doesn't help anyone, it just makes the problem worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:52 PM
-1

Most people don't. But ok. You're right about "pornsick men".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:45 PM
0

Well, they definitely don't like submissive men. I still think women prefer men to be slightly dominant. No study is will convince me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:18 PM
2

I mean, I can hardly imagine a woman doing a mass shooting.
/r/AntiFeminists07/12/22 02:36 AM
2

Yeah, there are no outliers lol. You calling a man "bro" for example, you are an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:43 PM
19

No, you would be a kissless virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:43 AM
91

I bet women would have a problem with women's lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:40 AM
20

I am spiteful, towards people in general though. But toxic feminism had the worst impact on me.
/r/AntiFeminists04/12/22 09:35 PM
2

This post will get deleted for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:50 AM
1

I don't know how you tell a kid this. It's completely gutless. But they need to know, that some people have their entire lives ruined in relationships. They get completely violated/traumatized. All their hopes and dreams go out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:25 PM
1

As they approach 30? More like in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:19 PM
1

Yes, I had a girlfriend when I was younger that was a narcissist. And I thought she was kind of weird and didn't take herself too seriously. She also wasn't a super model. I still think she is partly like that. But she and her friends thought she was way better than me. And I was completely clueless about this. (They were apparently right in some ways, not in others). But I was severely depressed about this. I had no confidence around women after and I was a little resentful of women. I think th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:36 PM
1

Raising awareness about "feminism". People need to learn that women can be just as abusive as men, it just takes a different form. And no one cares when women are the abusers. It's considered the man's fault. Which is another form of abuse. And raising awareness about narcissism. People need to know what narcissism is and attachment styles like anxious attachment style and avoidant attachment style. It's not fair to people NOT to know about this. A lot of the problems people have with the opposi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:24 PM
-6

Not really. Most people lie as a defense mechanism but they don't lie necessarily to hurt other people or because they are obsessed with "power".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:43 AM
-4

Same way you're doing right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:47 AM
6

More like women lie to men that aren't desirable. It's still a bad thing that women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:48 PM
3

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:46 PM
1

No, she said she was a narcissist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:06 PM
1

See, narcissist. Admitting you have more than one personality. Supposed to be a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:06 PM
1

Why would you love them? They're probably going to emasculate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:35 PM
2

I hate narcissist women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:26 PM
21

G) Pepper spray
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:19 AM
1

Yes. I don't want a woman that acts more masculine than me. Unless we have that kind of arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:00 PM
2

I'm ok with it as long as she's not bullying me and I don't have to date one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:09 PM
0

Most women are female. There are some transgender women and masculine women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:42 AM
16

I agree. People learn their attachment style in childhood. Like secure attachment style or anxious attachment style. Unfo4tunatelg people that become traumatized in childhood often repeat the same trauma, or they live it out again in relationships later on in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:08 PM
6

Hey, you know not everyone is obsessed with power right? Being obsessed with power over others is a perverted mindset. It's the mindset also that psychopaths share. People who are obsessed with power over others have no personal power. They are projecting it on to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:00 PM
2

I was an idealist when I was younger and then I dates a narcissist and she ruined me. And now I want to make the world a bad place. My point is that, most women don't care about making the world a good place. There are even women that are like the grinch spiritually and they get away with all kinds of BS that no one else can get away with. Never trust anything women say. They are entirely self-absorbed creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:58 PM
3

There's roughly two groups of feminist men. The first group are woke liberals. These are the types of men that have never actually met any feminists in the real world and they still live in an idealist world. They usually don't STAY feminists. The second group, are men who have no sexual insincts at all. Maybe they are asexual, or have problems with their gender identity. Women like these men because they expect nothing from them. These men sincerely believe feminist narrative. Because it doesn'…
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 09:52 PM
3

Like go to a semen bank
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:10 PM
1

Just being around semen or having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:04 PM
1

Uh, I don't think a lot of people are in a position to be "super-picky". It's already slim pickings!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:02 PM
1

Ecstasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:34 PM
1

Yes, of course. They have no empathy and no spirituality at all. Dark triad like narcissism stems from childhood trauma. People that are extremely duplicitous, it's like they have an evil twin inside them. Of course it's not normal. These people are messed up. It just seems like they are winning in life, bur it's mostly a facade. They are secretly filled with rage and live empty and pointless lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:33 PM
1

Supervisor in the local call center? What, you just hate your boss or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:42 PM
-1

You can't say that because people think you are jealous of women that have high standards. This is how narcissistic women, and narcissists in general flatter themselves. Any kind of criticism towards, it means you are jealous. And they are unusually competitive/jealous themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:40 PM
3

I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic or not but I doubt there's very many narcissist people here. Real narcissists have little self-awareness and don't engage in debate or rational discussion, they never try to justify their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:59 PM
0

I hate narcissist women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:53 PM
2

This is not the most cowardly thing that women do. The most cowardly thing that women do is they lie. They lie just to control/manipulate people. And because they don't want to show people how ugly they are. That's extremely cowardly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:51 PM
0

You know you can want more than one thing right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:09 PM
1

Along with billions of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:25 PM
1

Where do you think I got mental health issues from. From people. People give each other cancer. It's impossible to deny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:11 PM
1

I just gave one way. More ways, you won't waste as much time and money going out. Shambala!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:05 PM
1

So many ways. You'll never have your life ruined by relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:56 PM
-3

It's not a human need. There are many people that live without relationships. It's entirely subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:47 AM
-9

They're not, quit lying. People just use relationships to fill the void in their life that could be filled by other things. Having meaningful/constructive projects to work on can supplant the need for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:34 AM
6

You're going to have 1000 creepers on you in the afterlife.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:27 AM
1

I would rather add two inches to my personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:55 AM
-4

And I would add, people need to de-prioritize relationships in general
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:30 AM
17

How shallow women are and how little they actually care about relationships. And they really only care about status and material things. And what is hypergamy and how important male physique is. People say it's not true but it is glaringly, hit yourself in the face true. People should also be taught about the dangers of relationships, like what is narcissism. And what is insecure attachment style. Like the psychological stuff that some people think is "obvious", and other people are completely c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:27 AM
1

Digital women need to be freed!
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 06:56 PM
1

The way I see it, everything in life is more risky as a man than as a woman. There's more risk and more reward. There's a practical limit to how much women can fail in life. But for men there's virtually no limit, a man can fail spectacularly. So would I change genders, I have to think long and hard about it...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:44 PM
11

I support angry narcissism.
/r/AntiFeminists18/11/22 09:32 PM
16

Feminists and women that have daddy problems are the worst this way. They take it all out on "weak" and "sensitive" guys. Some of these guys may even hold feminists views and then their brains get fried by how hypocritical "feminism" actually is, in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:54 PM
3

Only because they have PTSD. They think it's funny to violate men.
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/22 05:46 PM
1

If you are a man with a feminine temperament you have to date a woman with a feminine temperament. Otherwise horrible things will happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:51 PM
1

Yes, I was in a relationship with a narcissist. We were exact opposite types of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:04 AM
7

Men who are liars/manipulative. I just hate liars. Just hate them. I also don't have any friends though, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:11 PM
2

You're not crazy enough then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:56 AM
1

I don't think everyone should be dating. People that have an anxious attachment style shpuldn't be dating because they act crazy and they get their whole lives ruined in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:16 PM
2

This twitter account doesn't exist anymore. I wonder why.
/r/AntiFeminists12/11/22 02:25 PM
2

Feminists love extreme inequality. Feminist = female narcissist/sociopath
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:51 PM
1

Someone who has a lot of self-confidence and probably has an avoidant attachment style. But not a guy that has an anxious attachment style. Other aspects, physical/sexual prowess, and someone that is higher up on the social hierarchy. That's all I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:04 PM
1

I didn't even understand the concepts of "alpha" and "beta" males when I was younger. I still think these are abusive male stereotypes but they serve a purpose. Also I got in a lot of trouble for not knowing what this was.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:00 PM
2

I think you're misunderstanding the meaning of "nice guys"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:05 PM
1

Feminist love to traumatize men. And that's how men become porn addicts. They get blamed for that too by feminists. Feminists know exactly how to pick men apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:46 PM
1

The difficulty is 80% minus your percentile.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:37 PM
0

What about personality characteristics?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:20 PM
0

Not really, there are some characteristics that are universally considered "feminine".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:09 PM
-4

Femininity is youth, passiveness and innocence. Men can be feminine too and there's nothing wrong with that, that's just nature. The only people who don't like femininity and conspire against femininity are extreme feminists and women that have PTSD. They are like clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:05 PM
2

Feminism encourages the worst stereotypes of women. It encourages women to be petty, extremely arrogant and narcissistic and filled with spite/hatred for men. It has nothing to do with "being traditional", but just being a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:47 PM
12

I wouldn't look at them the same way after. I don't like cheaters, they are manipulate and self-important and they lack empathy. It's the same thing with anyone, once you see the dark side of their personality, then you're not thinking about them the same way anymore. Maybe still be friends, or maybe not. Doesn't really matter at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:36 PM
2

Women that have narcissism are slippery, twisted freaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:16 PM
1

Because they want a Super Daddy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:53 PM
0

Maybe not all women have comically high standards, it's just feminists. Like 4th-wave feminists and FDS. They are clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:25 PM
1

Be neurotypical Fun/easygoing Have a secure attachment style Me: no to all 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:02 AM
0

It's not as common as you're making it out to be. You have to go looking for this type of content. Which you probably did. You want to know the female equivalent of this? Modern feminism. 4th wave feminism and FDS, it's all to do with hatred of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:55 AM
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