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| 17 | Dealing with natural over-dominant people | my-brand-new-life | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 07:58 AM |
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| 29 | Looks Don't MatterWell I don't know about you, but when I was a fatass my confidence used to be very low, simply because something inside was telling me that I didn't want to be like that guy in the mirror. Then I worked my ass off and lost 13 kg (2 stones, 28.6 pounds) and started liking what I saw. My confidence returned. My older brother, on the contrary, is a fatass, and has been so for the last 15 years at least. Man can he get pussy. Golden tongue and over confidence, like op's flatmate. He gets laid every … | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 01:12 AM |
| 5 | Called a dumbass at a party, didn't know how to respondGood out-of-the-box thinking, BatTitties, I'll try to come with a solution to that one. First of all, I think that repeating the sentence is not very likely to happen. Why? It happened to me once. I was being the jerk at that time (I know, shame on me) and I got caugh off guard by a truly alpha response from which I learned a lot. Let me tell you that little story: My buddies and I were invited to a house party. The hosts were: our hot Colombian classmate and his douchebag French boyfriend that … | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 01:03 PM |
| 4 | Called a dumbass at a party, didn't know how to respondBoss response, well done sir. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 02:01 PM |
| 47 | Called a dumbass at a party, didn't know how to respondIgnoring the offence makes you a bit of a shit eater but getting into a fight makes you a mindless butthurt ape. A good alpha response that I can think of, is to control your emotional response. The host tried to inject some toxic poison into your system. By not letting the toxic poison get into your system, you end up in win/win situation. Let me elaborate on what I think the alpha man would do: He would face the host of the party, and without a shadow of anger or hate in his mind, look him str… | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 01:55 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I can't believe this worked...Well done sir!. All of us are tired of day-to-day boring stuff. Wake up, job, eat, sleep... once we meet somebody playful that kicks us out of routine, we are like "hey I love this". That´s why I think girls react so well to random stuff. It worked for me lately and I was amazed. I approached a HB9 just by asking: "are you from this planet?" -not complimenting, but being inquisitive like a cop- I think all girls are dead bored with the "where are you from", "do you come often", "what´s your job"… | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 07:26 AM |
| -1 | I had a one-night stand with a guy only realize he was really amazing. Did I mess this up?Not necessarily. 1st night sex is a bit of a red flag because it might mean you are the crazy/unstable type. If you prove him you are not interested in casual sex/drama and he that it's true by your actions, you should be safe. | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with natural over-dominant peopleI did not think of this approach before... thanks for your out of the box tip!! I'll definitely try it out! | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with natural over-dominant peopleYou are right man... I still call him best friend because I know him since 17 years and we lived a lot of adventures together. At the same time, I know he doesn't behave like an asshole intentionally, his brain is just bad wired. His jerkish attitude brings him a lot of trouble with his girlfriend, in his job, etc... But yeah at the same time I can't allow anybody to use me as his carpet. Thanks for your tip! | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with natural over-dominant peoplethanks for the link ... I'll check it when I come back home | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with natural over-dominant peopleI get your point Elihu, thanks for your tip!. When I face dominant people I'd try to be that bald guy on the background. In the cases stated in my original post, maybe I didn't express it right but they are genuinely ill people. It's not avoiding anybody who is slightly dominant. It's dealing with sick and vicious people. My father, for instance, don't have a single friend older than 1 year old. All of them left him behind. He already assaulted almost all his brothers, sons and friends. Yes, he'… | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 01:38 PM |
| 0 | Dealing with natural over-dominant peopleI don't feed trolls. So long and I hope you get a life soon ;) | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with natural over-dominant peopleHi Andy thanks for your reply. Really insightful strategies, I'll definitely try them out. I normally was unreactive (as in pretending they didn't say anything) but that normally gives them extra power to bash the shit out of you whenever they feel like it. Narcissistic people are often also cowards. It's like a gang fight. There's guys who will fight somebody, and once they beat him, they'll just go away and let it be. But other people will keep on kicking the guy even if he's not moving. They … | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with natural over-dominant peopleYou don't know me (or them), what made you think you can judge me or them?? I didn't ask for judgement about myself or them. I asked for strategy and tips to deal with narcissistic people. As in mentally ill narcissistic people who is close to you. I'm not one of them, I'll never be. I have respect for anybody unless they prove they don't deserve it. They operate on the opposite grounds (they don't respect anybody but themselves). I wouldn't hurt anybody to lift myself up. I don't need to show o… | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with natural over-dominant peopleHi vauss, many thanks for your comments. Agree 100% in the friend thing, I won't stick around people that don't have the respect I deserve. Regarding family, it's a very sticky issue here. I sort of solved it with my brother (by talking only once in a while). My father, I cut him out. Long story short he beat my 20 yr old sister for no reason in one of his angry outbursts. I'm not accepting that. Just told him I'm not his son anymore. | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 12:30 PM |
| 3 | What unexpected things have you said/done that have turned out absolutely amazing?I used to frequent a forum about a comedy show. I used to be quite cocky there -alpha mode in a fun way-. After 2 years I had 3-4 offers to meet some of the forum girls. I decided to go for one of them, but I only had promising body shots. No face shots, no phone conversations, no nothing. So we set up a meeting in a hotel room. I drove 7 bloody hours to get to that room. Top notch designer hotel (she was paying for the room). I was barely sane when I arrived. Was she a flake? What if she was to… | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Can't get over my raceWork on your self esteem. It's all in your head. Change 'asian' by any other adjective you want to use. There's always a 'why would she want a (fat, too thin, bald, uninteresting, boring, etc.) guy in her life? Think fucking Bruce Lee. He was asian and he was THE man. Find a role model. Do something unexpected. Get outside your comfort zone... You have to be comfortable in your own skin. Then everything else follows (I envy you guys as most asian girls I know are super cute and sweet and they te… | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 06:30 PM |
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