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| 1 | Texting is the death of me | my_other_account91 | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 01:04 AM |
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| 1 | How to retain attraction through texting?I made a post not too long ago with this problem actually with what happened with this girl I believe lost interest mostly because I think of my texting if you want to check it out and see what NOT to do lol | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 08:33 PM |
| 1 | How to retain attraction through texting?Haha yeah good to know there's someone else that thinks the same way! I know we're probably overthinking the shit of of something like this, but like you said, there has to be some general advice. Because I feel like the same thing always happens with me, but I just don't know what to change to get another outcome haha | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 08:28 PM |
| 2 | How to retain attraction through texting?That's the problem, I'm still not really too sure to do when I get to this point haha. I've read from somewhere (forgot the site) that you generally you want to be always aloof until you sleep with her, then after that you want to act more like 80% of the time aloof, and 20% sincere and playful and what not. Not sure how much this holds up though. I'm still trying to figure things out for myself and it kinda sucks cause I feel like there should be some change in the way you act if you're 3-4~ we… | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 06:56 PM |
| 1 | How to retain attraction through texting?I feel like I have the problem too. [I think] I'm good with being aloof via text, but I feel like, especially with this last girl I was talking too, she too was only really able to see once a week, I was "too" aloof and she lost attraction. At least that's how i see it, who knows there may have been more factors but this may have been the one with the most influence | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Texting is the death of meYeah exactly. While it sucks that I got in this hole now, at this point I really don't have anything to lose as to what I can try to get her back interested or, "throwing a hail mary." So that's the plan, still going to give it till tomorrow though I think so we'll see! haha Thanks! | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Texting is the death of meAnd thats the whole point of one thing I actually did learn. It's not that I run out of things to actually text, is that I know that if I start texting and building rapport over text, it won't be as effective as in person/ you do have more to talk about. So that's why I just try to limit it to date talk only with text | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Texting is the death of meAwesome dude, this really helps! I feel like I have a good idea of WHAT to do, just don't really know how to go about it/ need some confirmation that it's the right direction to go. But I agree, this is exactly what happens, I try overcompensating, and I do realize, but usually by that time it's too late haha. And yeah, I kinda know that you're supposed to "warm up" the person before bringing up date talk, but I feel in this case its basically like I have nothing to lose, throw a hail mary and s… | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Texting is the death of meand also this is what I've read about that. Just pretend like nothing happened/ no one was to fault on your follow-up text | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Texting is the death of meYeah I have this feeling that texting may just be one part, while maybe a large part of it, just one, of why I'm failing my d2 game. I think I just don't know how I should be acting at this point in the "relationship." I feel like something is supposed to change in the interaction to escalate it (I know, sex, was planing to see if i could do this on this for #3) further than just sex. And just usually I would let it die. I've had plenty times when I've been in this position before, but I'm part … | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Texting is the death of meThanks for the reply! That's crazy how that girl was like that, don't know how your relationship is with her now but maybe it was just sex she wanted anyway and not anything more? My other problem is, I know its the unpopular opinion on this subreddit, but I'm kinda over the PUA mentality and just want a girl already haha. That being said, I HAVE learned that you should really only text to set up dates, but I usually throw some banter in there as well when I do it. And I usually do try to wait f… | /r/seduction | 14/03/17 02:28 AM |
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