mybelovedx Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Let’s debate whatever you want.		mybelovedx	/r/AllPillDebate	23/09/23 05:07 PM
1	Let’s debate / discuss anything, 2.0		mybelovedx	/r/AllPillDebate	24/09/23 11:15 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	My brother in law was forced to get a circumcision at age 17 by his mother. The women I speak to don't see this as sexual abuse. His penis was damaged and he still is humiliated to this day. Where did ANYONE say that? You’re purposefully choosing to misconstrue what OP has said. ‘Force’ doesn’t need to mean being physically restrained. You can be forced via mental / emotional means etc.	/r/MensRights	28/02/24 04:47 PM
1	New York jury has indicted a 25 yr old woman for allegedly violently shaking her boyfriend's baby during a diaper change, the infant ultimately died from his injuries. Shaken Baby Syndrome is a very real thing. You don’t need to ‘do more’ for a baby to die.	/r/PussyPassDenied	06/12/23 04:28 PM
2	If mens nature is used to justify looking at sexy women then there's nothing wrong with women being weary But the quotes you’re using, OP is working on the basis of what is commonly said about men. Not necessarily her own opinion. It’s taking what is commonly said about men ‘Men are visual creatures who cannot help themselves’ and using it to say what women’s appropriate response should should therefore be (treating every man with caution). Either: Men are visual with an inability to properly control themselves so women should not dress so provocatively. In which case, women should feel wary of ever…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 07:53 AM
3	Let's be real it's the women in the 5.5-7.5 range causing most of the dating/relationships problem It’s so funny how it works on this sub though. You see studies that prove the view of red/blackpill men, and they’re supposed to be taken as gospel. You see a study that disproves it, and suddenly everyone that takes the study is a filthy liar. Interesting..	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 08:30 PM
6	Let's be real it's the women in the 5.5-7.5 range causing most of the dating/relationships problem Just look at the pages. Objectively, a lot of them are. If you subscribe solidly to the idea that you ‘need to be a chad to get laid’, you’re doing yourself a disservice. You’re living in absolute delusion world if you think that men that are 5’s can’t pull multiple women. Can all of them? No, obviously not. But can plenty? Yes, because as crazy as it seems, you don’t need to be a 10 to pull. You need to be decent enough lookswise (average) to get your foot in the door, then plenty of factors co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 08:29 PM
2	This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app finds If you really and truly think there’s no man that would reject an unshaven woman.. I have a bridge in Brooklyn up for sale if you’re interested	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/23 08:16 AM
5	This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app finds Often these jerks are very front facingly lovely people. That’s their schtick because they know it works. It’s often the nicest seeming that end up talking poorly of you behind your back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/23 08:15 AM
2	Can surgerymaxxing salvage horrible genetics? Depends what your problems are. Surgery can change a LOT, it’s about doing it in moderation so you don’t end up botched. You have to go in with realistic expectations, and talk with reputable surgeons about what’s right for you. Some surgeons will just do whatever you like without consideration of how the end result will harmonise. All the things you mentioned can be fixed / adjusted with surgery yes. It’s just the possibility of your after depends on your current.	/r/AllPillDebate	05/10/23 08:51 AM
-1	Why are women happy that inexperienced men won't find virgin women? It’s not a matter of ‘not being happy’, it’s a matter of being realistic. The older you get, the lower your chances of finding a virgin woman around your age gets. It is just easier for a woman to get laid obviously. 30+? Honestly, good luck finding one. Genuinely. You could try religious places but even that is nowhere near a certainty Frankly, as long as you’re not trying to get with a child, I don’t particularly care who you will or won’t settle for. It’s just good to have a realistic outlook…	/r/AllPillDebate	05/10/23 08:49 AM
0	I gotta know something, ladies. Sure, I don’t doubt that. But the fact is not every woman has experienced that. That’s my point, not that it doesn’t happen / is impossible to, but that it simply doesn’t always.	/r/AllPillDebate	03/10/23 12:11 PM
2	Who has it harder? Does it not depend on what we consider to be ‘worse’ though? What metric are we using to decide who’s struggling more.	/r/AllPillDebate	03/10/23 11:09 AM
-2	I gotta know something, ladies. I don’t. Because not every women fits this imaginary scenario you’ve made up. A lot do, sure, but you’re speaking in non certain absolutes. My boyfriend is my first, relatively late for a woman anyway, so I’ll use him as a basis for ‘expectations’ if we break up.	/r/AllPillDebate	03/10/23 07:16 AM
1	Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmate Completely off topic, but I live right by here and I also work with kids in gangs, exploitation, crime, drugs etc in the area. It’s going to be a long work day tomorrow i’ll bet, phew.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 07:34 PM
1	Let’s debate whatever you want. Oh no I completely agree with that. I just find the wording tends to put me, and potentially others who may listen to the blackpill off. For example. ‘If you’re under 6 foot, it’s OVER’ - Makes you sound kind of nuts. ‘Shorter men have a severe disadvantage in life’ - Rational, and I feel like most people would agree. Thats my one / main qualm with the blackpill. A lot of what it says is completely true, but its so full of generalisations, grouping and extremism that it loses its valid message. …	/r/AllPillDebate	24/09/23 11:18 AM
1	Let’s debate whatever you want. Blackpill science for sure. There’s so many studies and biological evidence for it all. I mostly disagree with the wording and the extreme generalisations that tend to go hand in hand.	/r/AllPillDebate	24/09/23 11:12 AM
0	Let’s debate whatever you want. Ok 👍	/r/AllPillDebate	24/09/23 11:11 AM
1	Let’s debate whatever you want. Hey sorry I muted this post after that other debate again. I couldn’t tell you, genuinely. Personally I think i’m a very open / blunt person. I tell things like it is, for better or for worse (I do wonder if I’m on the spectrum sometimes LOL). I think for a lot of women; they like ASPECTS of their partner. And I’m guilty of this. I ‘dated’ a guy I wasn’t really interested in, but I had never dated before, so it was nice to just feel wanted. As opposed to my boyfriend now, who I genuinely love. I…	/r/AllPillDebate	24/09/23 11:11 AM
-2	Let’s debate whatever you want. Sure! I’ll come up with someone and shoot you a message	/r/AllPillDebate	23/09/23 05:11 PM
6	Why do women even use this subreddit? I find different perspectives interesting, and really enjoy debate. Granted, I agree with a lot of the blackpill so I don’t really end up in many debates, but it’s still interesting in concept.	/r/AllPillDebate	23/09/23 07:07 AM
2	WHEAT WAFFLES experiment on college girls rating his subscribers Yeah for sure! Things change based on many factors. You might be super into someone until you see them smoking for example, then maybe you’re not anymore. But my main point is ranking yourself / having someone else rank you in numbers is completely arbitrary. Nobody in the real / normal world is looking at others with such finite detail. It’s normally just a matter of ‘yes i’m attracted’, ‘no i’m not attracted’ and different things can change that; but not things like ‘his eyes are too far apart…	/r/AllPillDebate	22/09/23 05:43 PM
4	WHEAT WAFFLES experiment on college girls rating his subscribers The main issue I have with wheat waffles and honestly face rating is general is, the average woman is not looking at your face in numbers. Even as a woman who actively looks into / is a part of the blackpill sphere, I’ve NEVER looked at a man and gone ‘Ooh, he has a slightly downward turned canthal tilt, that knocks him down .2 points. Luckily he doesn’t have a recessed maxilla etc etc’. When it comes to looks, we’re looking with our eyes. It’s never about your individual features as Wheat Waffl…	/r/AllPillDebate	22/09/23 03:41 PM
5	Do women actually have no argument here if a guy is not an lncel? Neither are you it seems, since you resort to just being a dick when someone agrees with you. Have a good one 👍	/r/AllPillDebate	20/09/23 03:17 PM
12	Do women actually have no argument here if a guy is not an lncel? I think a lot of people aren’t up for the spirit of debate. They see blackpill as simply incel and can’t separate the two movements. So when they’re debating the blackpill, they feel like they’re debating inceldom. When they then learn a person that believes that viewpoint isn’t an incel, the basis of their argument and debate crumbles. I like debating / talking to everyone on this sub, incel or not personally. Though maybe I take that view because I agree with a lot of the blackpill, I don’t kn…	/r/AllPillDebate	20/09/23 02:57 PM
4	Q4 People in Relationships: Does Assortative Mating Apply to Your Relationship? If so, how? Age: I’m a month older than my boyfriend Race: Different races, he’s white I’m mixed Education: He went to college, I did not. I’m going to University, he is not. Height: I’m average for the country, he’s slightly below average, still taller than I. 5’3, 5’7. BMI: He is slightly overweight, I’m closer to underweight (Unsure of his BMI, mine is approx 19.6) Skin Pigmentation: He’s very pale white, I’m midrange tan. Physical attractiveness: Depends who you ask, we’d both vote the other as more att…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 06:00 PM
2	How many guys here were neither an incel nor a Chad (in terms of partner count) but also see the dating scene as a post-apocalyptic hell zone? Nah it’s fine I’m not offended. Never been tested for it, but I am a psychology major, my mum has also worked with young people with autism etc for the past 30 years. Neither of us think I really hit any of the diagnostics. I just choose to / prefer thinking with my brain moreso than my heart and emotions. I’m an english nerd / debater etc so I’ve just sort of learnt to separate my feelings from fact. Maybe I’m autistic, but as far as I’m aware, I’m not	/r/AllPillDebate	17/09/23 09:14 PM
2	How many guys here were neither an incel nor a Chad (in terms of partner count) but also see the dating scene as a post-apocalyptic hell zone? I’m neither, considering I’m a woman with a BC of one, but I’m also open minded and scientific / logically driven enough to know how rough the dating market is, especially for specific male subsets	/r/AllPillDebate	17/09/23 08:09 PM
6	So how do black normies/Clarencels cope with the fact they are being unattractive to black women ? You’re providing no sources. There’s statistical evidence that black women mostly want black men. They don’t ‘settle’ for them, that’s their preference. Look at the study people on this sub and the old incel subs loved to parrot. https://www.npr.org/sections/codeswitch/2013/11/30/247530095/are-you-interested-dating-odds-favor-white-men-asian-women. All races of women prefer white men except black women who prefer black men. Black women choose white men the LEAST out of all races. All races of me…	/r/AllPillDebate	16/09/23 09:07 AM
2	You Just have to be funny af Ok so now post your photo and give us your height etc. Attractive men can literally have nothing in their bio and still get a bunch of matches. Coming from a woman, most women aren’t even reading your bio. Also; your bio isn’t funny at all, you sound pretty cringey and annoying.	/r/AllPillDebate	15/09/23 05:21 PM
1	If a woman in her 20s is not overweight is she automatically a 7 or above? I’m from the UK. Still a good few fat people, don’t get me wrong, but in my day to day, I definitely see far more slim people. Especially the younger gems (early 20’s-30’s)	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 02:46 PM
2	Women are not attracted to liberal men or feminists, no matter what they say And conservatism is encouraging men to commit hate crimes of people of minority. It demands every woman go back to 1950’s level of no rights. It calls for the genocide of everyone that isn’t ‘their own’. Anyone can play this ‘the other side is evil!’ game. The reality is both sides have their issues. There’s plenty of leftists who encourage sex work, polyamory whatever, the same way there’s plenty of right wingers who demand racial purity, white superiority etc. And if you’re on one side of the …	/r/AllPillDebate	14/09/23 02:32 PM
-2	I don’t understand how women can find dating hard at all It’s just a matter of standards really. All this ‘she got pumped and dumped by chad!!1!2!2’ is over complicating a very simple matter. The average woman has plenty of options. She doesn’t need to try, and she will almost always have men she could date if she wants to. Therefore, she will aim up, because she has the capability to. The average man has few to no options. He has to put in excess work, and it might not even pay off. Therefore, he will aim down, because that means he’s that lower woma…	/r/AllPillDebate	14/09/23 02:27 PM
5	If a woman in her 20s is not overweight is she automatically a 7 or above? Sounds like an America issue tbh, I see plenty of skinny women everyday. More than overweight women id assume.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 09:37 PM
4	Women don't want ugly/unattractive dudes to get surgeries cause they don't want to get tricked into fucking a former ugly dude who is now attractive. Fair point, but this pic isn’t real. Edit: To clarify, the children have all been heavily edited and none of these people are related. It was an advert for a Taiwanese plastic surgery clinic. Making the same point funnily enough, but not real. The kids don’t look like that, those adults aren’t their parents.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/09/23 09:30 PM
1	The government needs to make state sponsored surgeries for sub7s Sure, and that would help your odds.. how exactly? You become exactly like everyone else. You don’t fit any niches and your competition becomes literally the entire world because you no longer have anything that makes you differ.	/r/AllPillDebate	12/09/23 02:05 PM
1	This is how women beg for commitment/attention I mean yes… that’s how anecdotes work? If one woman isn’t like whatever assumption you’re making; that immediately means ‘not all women are like that’. I never said ‘the women I know aren’t like that’. I’ve got a pretty mixed bag of people I know. Some will walk right up to a man they’re into and ask them out right then and there, others will refuse to even look in their direction and will instand stand there hoping the guy can read their mind and come over or something. Women aren’t a conglomer…	/r/AllPillDebate	12/09/23 02:04 PM
-2	This is how women beg for commitment/attention Not every woman is going to act that way though, take it from one. Many women will not give obvious signs like that. ‘Flirting’ is taught to be demure and quiet often. Outbursts and ‘simping’ is seen as masculine. For a women, smiling in your direction while you talk and twirling her hair could be flirting just as much as her saying ‘I want to have sex with you,’. THOSE women interact with you like that to show their interest, that’s all well and good. But it’s disingenuous to pretend that all w…	/r/AllPillDebate	12/09/23 09:58 AM
5	The government needs to make state sponsored surgeries for sub7s If everyone is a 7/10, then nobody is. For there to be winners, there has to be losers. It’s not reasonable to ACTUALLY have everybody at the same ranking and pedestal in life.	/r/AllPillDebate	12/09/23 09:40 AM
4	This is how women beg for commitment/attention I mean yeah.. no duh? People, men and women alike,!chase those that they find attractive and want to sleep with / pursue a relationship with.	/r/AllPillDebate	12/09/23 09:38 AM
4	Women hypocrites call out older woman for saying she likes high school football players (disclaimer: yes, she's a creep and anyone like her is a creep) Unsurprising, she’s always been a shitty person. Her entire brand is built around verbally abusing children.	/r/AllPillDebate	12/09/23 12:38 AM
8	Low libido isn't real Low libido definitely exists. Hormones etc play a big role in it. There’s definitely going to be some people, men and women who just are low libido. But there’s also going to be plenty of people like you describe who claim to be low libido but actually just aren’t into their partner. It’s a mixed bag. You can’t really say all people that claim X are actually Y. It’s just not true.	/r/AllPillDebate	11/09/23 11:28 PM
4	Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men? So do it then?? There will be women that don’t like it, the same way there’s men that don’t like girls who have plastic surgery or girls that wear makeup. That’s just life, you can’t please everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 09:54 PM
1	What do you think of banning incels subs when it happened? Oh I know EXACTLY who you’re talking about. Yeah, we had plenty of back and forths with them in private mod chat too. They seemed to think we had a personal vendetta against them specifically. It was quite entertaining honestly 🤣	/r/AllPillDebate	27/08/23 03:08 PM
1	What do you think of banning incels subs when it happened? Phew yeah, that’s the reason I stopped moderating it. The public messages were nasty, the private messages were even nastier. I do get why they think it’s strict, but really it has to be. We had so many brushins with the admins that they were looking for a reason to shut the place down. That’s just how reddit is unfortunately.	/r/AllPillDebate	27/08/23 02:53 PM
1	What do you think of banning incels subs when it happened? I used to mod that sub and trust me, the things people try and get through the filters and such that don’t see the light of day of the actual sub? Crazy.	/r/AllPillDebate	27/08/23 02:40 PM
1	Daily reminder that, if u are over 15 and virgin, its over. Sure, when they’re an adult and not in school. Even the ‘top tier’ guys in your high school aren’t slaying like that. That’s literally just not how high school is. High School is 90% peacocking. One person makes a claim and everyone attempts to prove they’re just as cool, even if they’re not. That’s not to say there’s NOT people having sex. That’s to say the amount is far more minimal than what your assuming / think you know. I finished high school not that long ago. I was friends with mixed gen…	/r/AllPillDebate	26/08/23 03:30 PM
4	Daily reminder that, if u are over 15 and virgin, its over. I don’t think you get just how much people your age lie. One guy says to his friends ‘ah yeah dude, i fucked this girl the other week’. What will his friends do? Well, it’s high school, where nobody wants to be a ‘loser’ so they’ll lie. There’s no way to prove that they’re lying, so they’ll all just keep doing it. Are there people losing their virginity in high school? No shit. But to act like not losing it before 15 or something is a bad thing is wildddd. I promise you, most the people claiming…	/r/AllPillDebate	26/08/23 01:21 PM
2	I'm so fucking lonely This proves to me you’ve never ‘run a nightclub’. I gave you the benefit of the doubt. I’m also from London. There ABSOLUTELY is ‘the nightclub scene’ here. There’s 0 chance in HELL that you’re from London, run nightclubs, don’t understand that there’s a scene and culture to it, and think it’s odd for a man to approach many women during a clubbing night. Take it from somebody who goes clubbing every friday, saturday and typically sunday and is heavily involved in the supposedly non existent club…	/r/AllPillDebate	26/08/23 11:05 AM
3	I'm so fucking lonely Absolutely, especially in clubs. I’d argue I’m probably slightly under average in appearance. Yet, when I go clubbing, I still get approached a good few times while out clubbing. Even if I’m not interested (which I’m not, because I don’t personally go clubbing looking to hookup), I’m not going to be surprised or disgusted if someone tries to talk to me. Because I understand and am part of clubbing culture and I know that’s just part of the package of going. Sticking drunk men and women in a swea…	/r/AllPillDebate	26/08/23 11:04 AM
9	I'm so fucking lonely Have you ever actually been to a club?? No, obviously not every woman there is looking to hookup. But take it from someone who goes clubbing every weekend, it’s part of the MO. Clubs are sociable places. You go, you drink, you chat to people. There’s no foul in OP attempting to talk to women there. That’s literally what everyone does at a club. There’s also no issue in them turning him down if they’re not interested, but to act like he’s some type of predator for approaching women at a club (whi…	/r/AllPillDebate	26/08/23 10:35 AM
1	How do you reject guys you aren't interested in? ‘No thanks’.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 09:10 PM
18	CMV: "Protection" against false raep accusations is misogynistic Honestly, the only one that’s kinda iffy is number 2. It’s a bit immoral to record a private conversation like that. None of them are misogynistic though, and you’re devaluing the word by throwing it around like that. The other two are completely fair. There’s so many false rape cases that happen. The same way we’d advise women to be careful, ‘Make sure you send your location and the license plate to someone, always cover your drink’ etc. It’s just precautions need to take. There’s really nothin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 03:09 PM
3	Most w*men can not visualize a 3 dimensional shape. You good? nvm checked the post history, answered my own question	/r/AllPillDebate	22/08/23 10:13 AM
1	Describe your perfect partner Describe your perfect partner After getting some female replies I want to say that anyone is free to answer this not just guys! Looks wise, and the reason it’s perfect partner is if you could build someone just for you.If you’re open to more than one thing then list them! Brown, especially like a light brown Green/Brown/Hazel 5’7 Don’t particularly care as long as it’s not muscular, and preferably not towards the extremes of severely under or over weight. Don’t particularly care. Don’t care, do …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 07:32 PM
2	Q4W : Why is a guy being short not unattractive but a guy being insecure about being short unattractive? I’m from the UK, I don’t really know what the general height consensus is here bar tall = good. I think average height here is 5’9 / 5’10 ish but there’s a lot of the whole ‘over 6 foot’ type of deal. Potentially? I’m not really sure about it. Not American and the Latin community isn’t so big here	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 12:21 PM
6	Q4W : Why is a guy being short not unattractive but a guy being insecure about being short unattractive? Honestly, yeah me too. I’m in the rare minority that prefers short guys. And I know that. Even then, my friends, family etc often mock me for that being my preference. And that hurts enough. I can only imagine the feeling to be the one being directly mocked for it, especially considering the rejections etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 12:09 PM
6	Q4W : Why is a guy being short not unattractive but a guy being insecure about being short unattractive? This is difficult to say. For a lot of women being short IS unattractive. I think we’re teaching an age where people are slowly coming more to terms with stating exactly how they feel. It’s anecdotal, but all my friends pretty openly are into tall guys. I think the reason it was so ‘taboo’ is its knowingly quite shallow. And nobody WANTS to come across as shallow, so it’s easier to claim ‘napoleon syndrome’ and be done with it. Like I said, I think it’s slowly becoming more common to just be hon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 08:34 AM
2	Do women care about men's looks? Obviously? Nobody WANTS to be with a person they find physically unattractive, regardless of their gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:34 PM
5	What "Pill" do I subscribe to? Let’s be clear, subscribing to one ‘pill’ is fundamentally stupid. The world isn’t black and white enough for that. For the extremities of either kind. It’s the same as politics. The right has an idea, the left has an idea, the truth is probably somewhere in between. Same goes for this. You CAN be incredible blackpilled. You CAN be incredibly bluepilled. Either way you’re doing yourself a massive disservice. The fact is the world isn’t simple. It’s not as easy as ‘if you have X, and look like Y,…	/r/AllPillDebate	16/08/23 02:22 PM
6	Sexy Son Hypothesis I mean, this makes sense on a biological level. We’re animals, we work on the basis on looking for what provides the best survival rate for ourselves and for our offspring. Every gender does it, autonomously or not. The typical man will look for a woman that has large breasts, large hips. These are biological signs of fertility. They’ll typically prefer women who are smaller, more demure. Because men are biologically the ‘aggressors’ (though I hate calling it that), so having a smaller partner i…	/r/AllPillDebate	13/08/23 03:51 PM