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The “yes all men” idea or the “man or bear” question is less about “yes all men are violent, toxic, etc.” and more about “yes, all men are scary”. Because all men are a potential threat since there’s no way to know which ones are good and which ones are bad. I’ve had so many legitimately scary interactions with men that yes, I am afraid. Any man that is unknown to me is met with some trepidation. I don’t let it effect the interaction significantly, but I keep my wits about me, I listen to my gut…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:11 AM
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The “yes all men” idea or the “man or bear” question is less about “yes all men are violent, toxic, etc.” and more about “yes, all men are scary”. Because all men are a potential threat since there’s no way to know which ones are good and which ones are bad. I’ve had so many legitimately scary interactions with men that yes, I am afraid. Any man that is unknown to me is met with some trepidation. I don’t let it effect the interaction significantly, but I keep my wits about me, I listen to my gut…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:11 AM
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Oh god, is a body count of 15 slutty? Then I don’t know what I am lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 04:17 AM
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As a female slut (no shame) I can tell you that no one tries to slut shame more than a guy that gets rejected by someone they thought was a sure thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:42 PM
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lol my goal certainly isn't a gybocracy, so no, you've failed to find a common thread there bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 04:42 AM
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People who focus on the word feminism instead of the belief (in equality) aren't worth arguing with. You aren't open to CYV you just want to continue to spew bullshit about how women are the source of the problem. I literally don't know a single feminist who isn't an equalist / egalitarian. The name doesn't fucking matter, it's what we fight for, which is equal rights for everyone. Join or don't but it's men like you who will lose by not facing the fact that toxic masculinity is a real pervasive…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 04:40 AM
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This puts the entire onus in women to change the behaviour of both men and women. You know that whole thing about women taking on the majority of emotional labour? Yeah well this is a meta example of that. The whole point is that traditional masculinity is toxic to everyone. It is toxic to society. It leads to men being disproportionately present in dangerous trades, more likely to be unable to get custody of kids, etc. It leads to women taking on the burden of households, it leads to rape cultu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 02:28 PM
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And what is it that they believe, based on your observation? Since you categorize them as a singular minded group, what is their goal? What are their beliefs?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 02:17 PM
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Females are better off without OP friends
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 10:04 PM
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Except that you aren't discussing it at all, you're just stating that you don't personally think there's any value when the question wasn't about you, it was about men and women. YOU cannot be friends with a woman because you have a narrow minded view of women and reletionships, and how they provide you value, but plenty of men and women are capable of friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 10:03 PM
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For me I care less about sexual experience and more about relationship experience. At my age it'd be weary of entering a committed relationship with someone who'd never been in one, because I can remember all the dumb ways I acted in my early relationships before I learned lessons and knew how to be a good partner. At my age if want someone who had learned their lessons too, though it wouldn't be a deal breaker by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/17 03:13 PM
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It's subtle to you as someone who does not experience it. It's subtle even as you experience it. As a one time occurrence you hardly notice but after numerous instances of men talking over you, taking your suggestions and turning them into theirs, etc. you damn well notice it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 04:36 PM
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It's a gendered issue because it happens whether they're dumb or not, qualified or not, capable or not, etc. It happens simply because of their gender, hence 'gendered issue'. It's nothing like a billionaire telling a sob story about how he lost 100 bucks it's. That analogy doesn't even remotely make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:42 AM
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You're an absolute troll, I'm done with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 08:18 PM
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You're right I did assume that based on your replies, but there's three options here: You follow morals outlined by a religion You follow morals based on your own personal beliefs (which you've already argued against) You have no morals Edit: typo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 07:07 PM
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who cares what other people write ... Says the person who follows a religion written by humans. You do realize that you are simply following a belief system, right? I recognize that you believe your system to be the correct one but it doesn't negate that people can follow a belief system that stems from a different set of beliefs. Do you really not rape, murder, steal, etc. simply because you believe in God and fear hell? I can't believe that for a second. Edit: typo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 04:55 PM
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You're asking what the punishment for behaving amorally is, if not able to be prosecuted by law, so maybe you actually don't know what morals are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 04:18 PM
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No thanks. You clearly know what morals are and are playing the part of troll, and I won't be bothered with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 11:47 AM
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I don't think you understand what morals are
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 04:43 AM
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So many if them are
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 05:27 AM
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This is such a stupid question - assuming all this is true, it's logical that women want to earn the same amount as a man doing the same job as them, but want to go home to a man who is more alpha and simply has a higher paying job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 04:17 PM
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I haven't heard about any widespread fear around prostitution from women. Can anyone link me to articles on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 01:29 PM
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How can you say this isn't part of feminism? Raising awareness of women's health issues? Self defence? Encouragement for women to take their sexuality and sexual experience into their own hands (though your example of how we would do that is pretty dumb and narrow minded). What you're talking about is personal action, but feminism is about a group and less individualistic. The reason you see feminists 'blaming' others/the system, is because the core tenant of feminism is that the system is built…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 06:41 PM
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It took you 2 months to come up with that? Again, not arguing about abortion here and you've completely failed to see the point of this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 11:27 AM
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I totally have the same. Women love my fucking insane curls, and compliment me all the time on it when I wear it natural. Dudes? Every time I blow it out I get compliments
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 11:32 PM
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How can you say it has no impact on my world? Your world? The entire world? Of course it does. The more people who believe this tripe the more it impacts the world I live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 11:13 AM
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For me, personally, that's a red flag just in terms of our personalities meshing well. It's not that they had to be into partying, but someone who was that keen to settle down that early is less likely to share my views on things since I'm not keen to settle down (in that way) even at 30. Moreover, someone who didn't go through some of those young experiences of exploring the world outside a relationship, and exploring themselves outside a relationship, I would fear is missing experiences that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 04:17 PM
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It totally depends for me. Why did they settle down so young? Who was it with? Was it a good relationship or a matter of convenience or something else altogether? It'd certainly be a red flag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 04:01 PM
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Not having female friends isn't necessarily a red flag, but a woman who talks about having multiple "ex-friends" (male or female), where that's the contributing factor to not having any female friends, that's a big old red flag even just got me on a platonic level.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 11:36 AM
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I agree. Men should be able to walk away. There obviously needs to be some discussion about when or how that's an appropriate option to ensure there are not situations where a man consensually impregnates a woman and then decides to leave after an event. But yes, in general, I agree that men should have the option for a 'paper' abortion whenever a woman has the option for a physical one and decides against it. Where did I say I didn't? My comment here was to point out that what OP is talking abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 11:29 AM
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It definitely makes a difference, and honestly nothing is really black or white when it comes to feelings for a person, but I think in that case my feelings would have to be there before the knowledge of their low sex partner count. If I found out before it would be a hurdle probably to the point of Dela breaker, but again circumstance really is everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 11:16 PM
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Totally! It's just a personal preference thing. I can handle some introversion but in just super attracted to outgoing gregarious people. I think because I'm kind of a shy extrovert - my happiness comes from being social but I'm shy, so being with someone who is outgoing tends to make me feel more comfortable being that way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 11:03 PM
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For me, sweet but introverted and shy is not attractive. I don't think they deserve a relationship any less, I'm just not attracted to introverted people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 10:28 PM
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29 turning 30. For me anything less that 5 would be a turn off, though not a deal breaker. 2 or less is a deal breaker. Higher number doesn't really matter to me, it's more about why he's slept with so many women, how he treated them, how he treats casual sex, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 10:26 PM
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I guess I'm curious what your limit is there. What kind of men would it have to be to be ok? Or not ok? How many partners is too many?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 11:14 AM
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This is because women are so shamed for abandoning their children, or even close to, that they far more rarely do it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 03:01 AM
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I'm curious about the sex thing... is it innately bad, IYO, for a girl to be very sexually active? And if so, what exactly makes that a negative quality (assuming she's as loyal, admiring, sexually desirable and supportive as the next woman)?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 09:02 PM
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Sorry - my app is shit and I totally missed the very first line of your comment there while scrolling. Didn't see at all that you specifically asked about a female rapist scenario... I don't know, that's interesting. To me the crux of the debate about abortions is bodily autonomy and a woman's right to choose not to go through pregnancy and birth. So, I personally would not agree with forcing someone to have an abortion in that scenario but I get why the question is being asked. The punishment f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 08:44 PM
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Come on, man, seriously? Are you really fucking comparing these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 08:33 PM
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So you think Men should be able to force women to have an abortion if they don't want the child? That's preposterous and you know it. What OP, and you, are talking about is men who want to forego all responsibility for the child that the woman does not wish to terminate, and there's a lot more people coming around to the idea that this is a valuable debate to have. But, just like physical abortions, the argument against 'paper abortions' will be very divided.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 08:10 PM
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... I don't see why you find this hard to resolve. You can't force someone to kill, therefore you shouldn't be able to force them not to kill? This is exactly why I said the argument comes down to moral beliefs about the right to of a fetus; The difference is whether or not you believe what she's doing is ok morally, which typically comes down to whether or not you think that fetus has a viable life and right to be born. And/or does the rights of that fetus trump the rights of that woman. This i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 08:03 PM
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You're kind of laughably messing up what the debate is actually about. The very core of the debate is whether women should have the right to Terminate a pregnancy. Not whether or not someone should have a right to Terminate their parental guardianship and responsibilities. Of both people agree, that option already exists, it's called adoption. I agree that financial/paper 'abortions' are very interesting but it's just not even remotely what this debate is about. Just because we've been calling t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 11:51 AM
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You said loneliness trumps all, which I don't doubt, but the really lonely women are going to be ones who also haven't had much experience with relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/16 02:57 PM
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But you're setting yourself up to be with only lonely women who haven't had relationships either. So, by RP definitions, the exact kind of woman OP is hoping to avoid anyone worth their salt would find it super weird if someone hadn't had at least one serious relationship by 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/16 11:31 AM
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Agreed. MG McCulley wrote a widely referenced paper on this topic on 1998 that's really interesting, and I recently read a post on reddit about a country that was considering making "paper abortions" a legal option (cant remember now what country - definitely Scandinavian). If you're a woman who knows you would not have an abortion, that's absolutely your right, but it's also your choice to have sex with that knowledge. I do understand there's many women who think they would abort in certain cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 01:33 AM
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I agree, those are cornerstones to romance, but that doesn't negate the ability to communicate about the kind of romantic gestures you appreciate. Someone who is romantic is someone who listens in those conversations and acts on them at surprising times.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 02:36 AM
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It's a chicken and the egg scenario... What comes first, the woman feeling like the man only does things so he can have sex with her? Or the man doing things for the woman so she'll have sex with him? Both will argue it's the other one making them feel like X so there's no common ground. Communifuckingcation people. Rather than trying to manipulate people into doing what you want them to, just talk to them. If you don't like what they have to say, then stop talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 12:09 AM
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But clearly they did have some level of emotional intimacy while also sustaining a sexual relationship because op says they've been good friends for many years. It's not even close to the same thing as nice guys thinking they deserve sex simply for maintaining a friendship. Regarding the top voted comment in the first thread - that's because she wasn't being a complete asshole yet. She was sad, and had a bit of a shitty reaction but by the end seemed to come around and be real chill about it, li…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 06:08 AM
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the blue pill is not about mockery. It's about hate... You can just feel the visceral anger, resentment and hatered boil over in their posts... People seek out the worst in the people they hate so that they can justify their feelings to themselves. Huh, weird! I coukd swear you were talking about TRP here! Funny how similar it is, and how little of a clue you have. Edit: typo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 05:09 PM
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Damn straight we're trying to keep it from spreading. If you thought a belief system was vile and abhorrent wouldn't you do the same? How is this even a fucking question?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 05:02 PM
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I think the problem is making absolute decisions in this stuff. If you came to deeply care for someone, and after a significant period, and you getting very close, they revealed to you that they had been raped or sexual abused in their past. But by this point you know their character, and like them.... Would you break up with them then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 07:59 PM
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My stupidity is not an issue, it's your inability express what the fuck your actual point is in a comprehensible way.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 02:15 PM
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I really don't get this comment... First, I'm a woman. Second, I'm 30, so half my age would be 15? Third, I'd say the same thing to a 40 year old dude trying to fuck a 20 year old. Once you get over a certain age I don't think the number matters, and that age can vary depending on level of maturity and life experience, but generally speaking, yeah - date and fuck people your own damn age, and don't date or fuck children ever.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 08:47 PM
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I'm with you on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 09:14 PM
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I do agree, but I think the larger problem is that childcare is too expensive (though I get it'd supply and demand) for minimum wage to be that low. I think it's reasonable that a person should be able to support a very small family on a dual minimum wage income or slightly above which right now they can't. Minimum wage jobs tend to be those where less education is required, so I think it's dangerous if you start cutting a staunch poverty line of who should or should not have kids, else you end …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 07:09 AM
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2 disclaimers be for I post this; I do not have kids and do not plan on having any, so not a personal issue, but many of my friend have struggled with this decision. I really believe you should have kids unless you can afford them, financially and emotionally. So I'm not sure where you live , but where I live (large urban centre) childcare averages over $1300/month/child and minimum wage is $11/hour. So say you can only make minimum wage; you're only making just over $1500 before taxes so you ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 06:50 AM
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This post really perfectly describes what I think is happening, and tried to explain in my other post. To this point: But I have no trouble doing exactly this for my friends. I wouldn't judge a friend for not finding solutions and it takes a lot of "being an emotional outlet" until I grow tired of it. That's awesome, but I just don't think that's the norm, and you can't judge everyone based off what you would do in these scenarios. You said you're seeing a pattern in real life, and it seems to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 07:44 AM
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You may have been completely happy with the arrangement, but perhaps they weren't? Not saying that's true but something to consider. If friends, both male and female, have a problem or something they're upset about I am happy to talk to them about it, think it out out-loud, be a sounding board, and offer support. But, if the same problem keeps coming up I struggle with what to say after some time. Even where the scenario is new but the underlying issue is the same it's difficult to provide suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 07:30 AM
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Your entire argument is based on the fallacy that sex is a fundamental right. This is absolutely and unequivocally incorrect. What is a fundamental right in western culture is bodily autonomy, which means control over your own body not others. Sex is not a basic need for survival. You will not die if deprived of sex. No one is even depriving you of sex, because that would suggest some sort of conspiracy to keep you from receiving it, which definitely doesn't exist. Knowingly causing pain to anot…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 06:00 AM
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