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My own father just spent 60 years being told by a woman what to do. I've been very easy on my mom since her passing, but deep down I know what I think of her abuse of my father. He's finally admitted she was hyper-controlling. He said: "Your mother made things impossible. She was extremely difficult. She was a tyrant." Nobody ever called the police or a social worker on my mother for abusing my father. She's the victim in the story. This is why my loathing for feminism runs clear down into my bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:40 PM
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I was in a social situation where it was cringy but somewhat necessary to go. At this stage in my life, being relationship free and very selective about the friends I keep, I no longer have these problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:00 PM
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Back when they had Hooters, I was dragged there once. I felt my IQ going down like sand in an hourglass. Sitting amongst children in highchairs paying too much for a mediocre hamburger in a place who's business model is "we have tits". Lot's of sports and NASCAR apparel on the men though...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:04 PM
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Men manipulate to get sex. THat is very different. Women manipulate to get other things. Manipulation is seen as negative, no matter who does it. Wrong. Women manipulating to get stuff is thought of as cute, or even necessary and if men get screwed by this they blame the victim. You're right - it's apples and oranges. But only MALE manipulation is seen as negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:02 PM
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Now you're arguing in bad faith. 40 year old men are not sitting in school parking lots waiting for the buzzer. Besides, the number of 40 yo's or 30 yo's dating or trying to date an 18 yo high schooler would be statistically irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:56 PM
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Pre-selection is a major influencer. A random dude with a good looking wife and ring on his finger is 10x more "attractive" than the EXACT SAME MAN walking into the room alone. And when I say "attractive" in quotes it's because he's equally attractive. Same looks. Same job. But, she looks at the wife and thinks: I am easily prettier than her... Oh, and female jealousy and competition is a big factor at that point as well. Feminists talk about misogyny but nobody has more venom for women than oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:51 PM
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God, I so avoid places like that:. Boss: Women who work here need to dress and act like whores so dumb men will pay more for my overpriced food and drink. LOL. Then the women who CHOOSE to work there consider themselves "exploited by patriarchy". Fucking wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:48 PM
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Most guys have two criterion for trying a relationship with a woman: She is fuckable. She will consent to fucking. Then, he sees how much drama and bullshit he is willing to tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:46 PM
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Usually people talk about relationships that are legal. It's not legal for a 40-yo to "date" a high school minor (child). In most places, people are minors until they are 18, 19 or 21 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:38 PM
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Who decides on this life experience thing? And why do people need the exact same "years" of life experience? And how does a life experience gap automatically indicate exploitation or manipulation? My take: if two people are above the age of majority and consenting adults, then really, what they do is their fucking business. Pun intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:37 PM
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The definitions of the intent of seduction vs. manipulation is completely subjective. One could argue a woman giving a new boyfriend a blowjob is seduction OR manipulation with perfect utility. How do you know what is in her head? If she wants something in exchange for that blowjob, such as a commitment, or improve her odds in negotiating for a vacation she wants, is that not exploitative? Manipulative? Women manipulate men ALL THE TIME, yet only male sexuality is deemed aggressive, exploitative…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:29 PM
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Its pre, as in before, for a reason. Its meant to cover property owned before marriage. Google is your friend. Your definition is so incomplete I'm going to call it wrong. Nobody said children were property, I said that children's needs are very often cause for negating pre-nuptial agreements even if what is "fair for the parents based on the agreement" is not in the best interests of the children. And that usually means the mother getting more of his shit. But only for the sake of the kids, of …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:49 PM
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If they are, he had no life to begin with. And that's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:43 AM
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Like midgets.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:40 AM
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Yeah. Fat clause. No fat chicks. This guy prenups.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:40 AM
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Also, pre-nups are not worth the paper they are written on when children are involved. Family law courts determine how much one partner she gets each month.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:39 AM
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Because men typically lose their ass (and their house and kids) in a divorce and women get cash and prizes? Duh. Why is this even a question. It's not a double standard because they are completely different situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:38 AM
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Fitness testing. It's important for her to know she's got a capable man, who is confident and won't take shit off people, and is not easily swayed or manipulated. This is why "nice guys" who always capitulate and simp get confused when the bedroom goes dead. Guys need to notice something. The women who are complaining about their disagreeable asshole boyfriends are still with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:34 AM
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"Don't bother a woman at the abortion clinic...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:31 AM
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Balls deep in another human and getting caught. Everything else is fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:30 AM
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Woman wearing piece of string with labia hanging out: HER BUSINESS. Man wearing speedo to pool with outline of junk showing: POLICE BUSINESS. that is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:27 AM
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Red Pill: The game is rigged and men are thirsty idiots. Blue Pill: If you just be yourself, someone will eventually like you* \You just won't find her attractive.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:26 AM
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Don't have to. We have both now, and the answer can be "both". Which it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:46 AM
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You can mock what you want. I can decide whether I give a shit. And I already decided - I don't. And I don't give a fuck about feminists and their bullshit idea that in the west women are oppressed. In fact, like most people, I think women in the west are fucking coddled. Red Pill women? Maybe they're Trad Con. Or maybe they just don't like feminists telling them that they, as women, have autonomy and the power of choice and then get told what those choices should be. I.e. Career >>>>>> children…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:53 PM
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Nope. Nice gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:50 PM
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Female sanitary products and birth control. Yes, managing period blood and complete sexual autonomy. You're welcome. Sincerely, The Patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:08 PM
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I honestly don't give a shit about what you think about Red Pill. Really. And this whole slight against "laymen" - that's so laughable. What about WOMEN'S LIVED EXPERIENCES? Are only certain women "allowed" to have these? I listen to MEN's lived experiences - and they line up quite nicely with the things Red Pill has taught me. In any case, maybe you didn't get the memo. More and more men today don't give a fuck about what society thinks about us - what we are, what we do, and what our "responsi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:06 PM
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You don't need to be a psychologist to study psychology, observe human behavior and adjust ones own behavior to improve relationships and avoid problematic people and situations. I do these things every single day. Narcissists - shut down. Toxic people looking to get emotional needs met: avoided. Malicious or malevolent "competitors" - out-maneuvered or side-stepped. Exploiters? Boundaries set and enforced. But also, being sensitive to the needs of people I care about, and knowing who I can trus…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:44 PM
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Male thirst is why feminism, even every last female privilege, can even exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:35 AM
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Men do try to project being alpha by being physically aggressive and bullying physically smaller people. Then they're not alpha. Alpha male theory is based more off fantasy portrayal from popular media such as James Bond. Where he wins all his poker games, beats ten other men unscathed, etc.. Sorry, alpha male theory? In what context? Sounds like the gender studies version through a "toxic masculinity" lens. Red Pill talks about "pretend alphas" all the time. Thugs being chosen over good men bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:20 PM
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Well, when dealing with "other humans" I like to understand what games they are asking me to play before I consider how I will play or whether I will play at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:19 PM
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Nothing keeps women in line than the fear of a man moving on to a hotter, younger woman shortly after a break up. Yep. And every last woman here would be adamant about immediately leaving a relationship where they thought they were immediately replaceable. This is a projection. They leave relationships where HE is immediately replaceable ALL THE TIME and believe that he, like her, would do the same. Always watch for the uno-reverso projections when dealing with people. Like the cheater always ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:01 AM
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Bully? I am sure lesser men feel bullied in the presence of a social giant. Just because a man is better doesn't mean he's going to step on smaller people. Lots of weak men think confident men are haughty, arrogant, boisterous or loud. Because next to a meek, quiet reserved man, a confident man might seem haughty, arrogant, boisterous or loud by comparison. Funny that you say "tall bully" too. Yes, the way people have been programmed to today think today would have them believe a tall man is a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:57 AM
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Women often confuse douche-baggery with confidence. "Good guys" need to really study the importance and effectiveness of genuinely not giving a fuck. If she's not trying to change the guy all the time, he's not a challenge. And if he's not a challenge and difficult to change then he's failing the first and most important shit test. These guys, whether they know it or not, know how to relationship with a woman. I've had frustrated woman sex. It's awesome. And there's usually a half-day of peace a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:41 PM
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Weak people need protections because if they don't have them they will start to cry. You remember that kid at the daycare. Always tattling on kids and crying a lot because they can't have their way or get special snowflake treatment. People "pointing at the sign" about "diversity inclusion and equity" are those children. Children trapped in adult bodies. You can make me play your games folks, but inside, I know who is weak and who is not. Let's do the math here. You and me are equal. We're the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:36 PM
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This is one part of Red Pill I really don't get. The "I want kids but marriage is broken" thing. More and more men are simply not getting into relationships whether they want this or not. More and more men are not marrying or having kids. The reproduction rate in the west has falling below replacement numbers long ago. Governments are going with mass immigration and spending freely on attractive social programs and perks that keep their new friends voting correctly. Yes, some super-wealthy guy c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:31 PM
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I'm pretty sure Red Pill tells men to walk away from a good relationship because their partner turns 30 or 40. I'm pretty sure Red Pill tells men to have a good chuckle at some 40-something woman thinking she can pull some top-tier guy being perfectly average (or even below average) herself. This is kind of a tangential take. One thing men CAN do to make a relationship work is simple. Continue to be qualified to get attention from women who are as high or higher value than she is, and ensure tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:23 PM
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At first the answer appears to be "Apparently, yes. Actually no." But here is the truth. She wants him to agree on really fundamental and important things. But, there is a lot of minor shit - whether she is aware of it or not - that is nothing more than a shit test. "I've worked my ass off this week. I'm going golfing as planned because it finally stopped raining. You have brunch with your sister and her idiotic boyfriend. I don't care that she's pregnant or if he's even the father. I'm going go…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:12 PM
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Women can be confident. Alpha males are the most confident in the room. Women can be tough. Alpha males are the toughest people in the room. Women can be charismatic. Alpha males have the most charisma and presence in the room. Alpha males don't exist in a vacuum. She knows immediately how alpha he is by how he compares to other men in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:07 PM
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You don't need to subscribe, but I just need to charge $1 to your credit card...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:49 AM
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You can't have a job because you have no experience. You can't get experience unless you have a job. I guess you're caught in a catch 22 and basically screwed! Oh, wait I know... there's this one weird trick...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:12 AM
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So who is the "we"? Because society trashes fat people of both sexes. We = society. When is the last time we had a fat man on the cover of a magazine for being brave and setting an example for fat men everywhere? We've been telling fat women how they are beautiful queens for 20 years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:13 AM
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You might be conflating "being a red pill man" with "being a man who Red Pill defines". You can be one, the other or both. Chad or Brad doesn't need to swallow a single Red Pill to be Chad or Brad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:13 PM
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Here's my three. Stop shaming and start encouraging low value men to have productive lives without women. (End this "You're a loser but a bigger loser if you don't stick around for us to reject you!") Recognize transactional relationships the form of prostitution they are and make them illegal. (Basically, end marriage as far as government and law is concerned and make all marriage contracts a completely private matter.) My favorite "poison the well" idea where we put a SSRI antidepressant in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:09 PM
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The reason it bothers people is that ultimately any cheat codes men come up with in the mating arena that ACTUALLY WORK are considered misogyny, rape or both. The bottom line is that men are supposed to have requirements, not advantages, in the mating arena. Here's an example. A friend was very honest when he was starting his career. He got the wrong job for the wrong people and it went sideways. He was fired and it did not end well. He was concerned this 3 month "bad job" was going to cause pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:58 PM
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Yes, and if we stopped snow from forming ice on roads when it's driver over lives would be saved. Snow, stop doing that. Same goes for snakes - they're to hissy and bitey. The game is rigged BECAUSE men are going to simp to get their dicks wet. The whole system is BASED on this one simple fact. To say "Men, just stop doing this. Stop liking boobs too much and while you're at it give up the other B's of happiness like beer, burgers, bacon and bourbon." You could discuss all day and night the swee…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:52 PM
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There is an overarching double standard here. These are the Blue Pill rules. It is never okay to suggest a woman has a hand in her own difficulties in the mating arena, especially when it comes to weight. When fat women are rejected, it's because of shallow, mean men. It is never okay to criticize a woman's standards or preferences when it comes to dating, no matter how ludicrous they might appear. Any woman expressing difficulty in the mating arena will usually get tea and sympathy. It is alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:48 PM
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It goes beyond that though. We tell women that it's perfectly fine for an overweight women to desire and even insist on a normal-weight man. We KNOW that any overweight man with the same intentions would be ridiculed mercilessly. Overweight women openly admit that they have no desire to date or have sex with equally overweight male counterparts. When an overweight woman struggles, it's because men are shallow assholes. When overweight men struggles it's "Get to the gym, asshole". It's a double s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:44 PM
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I like what Peterson said. Women like werewolves, vampires and surgeons. So, rich and dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:21 PM
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She wants him to be hard enough to make her feel safe but soft enough to know he won't kill her. Same idea when a 110 pound woman gets a 100 pound pit bull. She wants him to be ready and able to bite others, but never bite her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:40 AM
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do you even english brah?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:17 AM
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No that's called marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:09 AM
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The choice is sour bitter brutal red pill truth or sweet, creamy blue pill lies. I'll take red, despite the taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:07 AM
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We're talking about women's issues. Don't make this about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:39 PM
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You're right. Not all women are on psych meds. As for how many should be, that's another question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:30 PM
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I'm not kidding. I once said, with my best Hannibal Lecter maniacal grin: "Kids? Me? Oh, I don't have any kids..." Karen almost shit her pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:28 PM
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Dumbphones. Antisocial media.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:52 AM
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Sigh. Ok fine. Borrow a random child then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:48 AM
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(incels taking notes fervently...)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:31 AM
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Overall, adult women don’t do that because they’ve matured. Adult women who have matured may no longer do this, but some don't mature and others have borderline personality disorder or are just batshit crazy to being with. FTFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:33 PM
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"If he doesn't kill a dog he might not kill me, or babies!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:29 PM
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Two labradoodles and a schnauzer. DOGMAXX
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:29 PM
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Sunday night twice groups of women stopped in close proximity and I invited them over to our hightop table by saying "you're welcome to join us, it's a community table" gesturing we're all just using it to put our drinks. Talked to each group for about an hour each, dance with a few, and got some IGs. Now I've got dates set up for a couple of weeks. Pics or it didn't happen. ;-) This is the kind of thing guys with zero social life need to be taking notes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:28 PM
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LOLOLOLOLOL. OMG. Too good. "It's funny 'cause it's true." - Homer Simpson
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:27 PM
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Borrow a niece or nephew and take them to a spray park. Get a dog or a child and go where the women are. You guys DO realize that for most women, spending a lot of time, money and energy on kids is going be an eventuality right? I mean, the first years is all travelling and fucking. But eventually, they want to have babies. Maybe guys don't think that far ahead. Who can say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:25 PM
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When I did OLD, I found establishing contact and starting an interchange was exhausting. At least in person, you could focus your energy (and personality) on a specific person you already found attractive physically because they're sitting right there. Kind of a like a 100% guaranteed "recent picture" and it was from YOUR perspective not a 10' high selfie pole. OLD can work, but it's really more time consuming than people will admit. Then again, people piss away 3-4 hours a day thumbing at a pho…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:35 PM
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Meeting women in bars started dying in the 90's. I think Gen X was the last generation where everybody flooded into rock bars, dance clubs and neighborhood pubs on weekends to mix, mingle and basically chat up women. Now, the bar scene is more of a nightlife scene where friend groups go with EACHOTHER to sit at one or two tables and enjoy EACHOTHER's company. This is not a group you walk up to and say "HEeEEeeY....." They would say "Can we help you?" When I was young two single guys could walk u…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:32 PM
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Why are guys hung up on this? When she was in her party hard days, being on drugs and getting spit roasted in the bushes behind some house party was just her little secret. Now, she wants to find Beta Brad, and show the other would-be mommies buying minivans and signing up for kids soccer that she's not a whore but a well-put-together career mommy. It's all about status and strutting at that point. BRAD WAKE UP. You don't get hot spontaneous sex in the bushes. You get a stressed out, image obses…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:51 PM
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It was a bit more tolerated. But, I don't think it ever was that appreciated. This is because 80% of men think they are approach worthy when in fact about 20% or less of men are approach worthy. Because 60% won't hide in their homes, look at the sidewalk or just walk into the ocean, women are just really uncomfortable. Women hate rejecting men because it always results in their immediate murder. (eyeroll).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:47 PM
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Women: I can't find a man! there are no good men left! WAAAAAA! Also women: I hate this relationship! He won't do enough chores! WAAAAA! Search: "content woman" No results...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:45 PM
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They don't compete with their competition. They use character assassination, rumor, gossip, bullying and emotional violence to destroy their competition. Sometimes even drive them, school aged children, to suicide. Women don't like competition - it's not their forte. Cunt is not a strong enough word here. This is batshit crazy psychopathic monster level stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:42 PM
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Hey look! They only have SHIT SANDWICHES at the deli now! 😗 Aw, nuts. I wanted a nice sandwich! 😒 Nope, only shit ones and they're $20! 👌 Aw, okay here's 20 dollars. nom nom barf gag. Spit. Ralf. Ghaack.🤮 MmmmMm. Sandwiches! 😀 You're an idiot. Durrrrr! (smiling and wiping shit off his face). That's what you pussy addicted simps sound like to me. Yes, "for dear life" - like an addict who takes homelessness and squalor over an actual life just so they can get that needle in their arm every day. Sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:37 PM
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To make it worthwhile for a woman to work, she needs to earn a decent enough income to justify remaining in the workforce. And if a woman has multiple young children, that makes it even more difficult to afford daycare. Yes exactly. This is called the "daycare equation". At what point is it no longer worth it to work. I knew a couple different women who basically traded their wages for child care because they're rather see the kids at night and have them in "school" during the day. They said it …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:25 AM
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I think the moral of the story is women should focus on raising a family than working for some employer. Just creates way more competition in the work place where the only victor is the greedy capitalists. I just don't know either way. Part of me thinks humans have gone completely off the rails and other parts of me now think this is part of some greater plan that is going to plan. Or it's one crazy iteration in a multiverse where we will get it right 1 time and wrong 999,999,999,999,999,999,999…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:46 PM
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Oh, society. Well let me stop you there. If we cared about society we'd have "drivers tests" for prospective parents that take min 1 year of study and at least the same amount of licensing you need to catch a fish or pull a trailer. Right now, our way of "let any two idiots fuck and society will pick up the tab and also pay for subsequent and consequential damages" almost makes us deserving of extinction. Also too, this "her body is the only body that matters" with regard to consent and reproduc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:27 PM
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Basically, a common way that species go extinct is because females select for traits that eventually lead to the species not being fit enough to survive. And what if survival of a specific species is not what is ultimately paramount? I mean, we have a food chain. If only humans survived we'd need to eat each other. I am always disappointed with “just nature bro” arguments because they always come from a place of ignorance. Well sure, you're looking at through the typical species-centric view and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:20 PM
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Oh Jesus Christ you're a mountain. Height is a big big plus. Shorties will be trying to breed their short genes out of existence by climbing the mountain that is you. Add muscle (or just good definition) to that mountain and even with a sub-par face you're going to get shorties climbing the mountain. Go forth and multiply my towering brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:02 PM
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In reality people should be able to afford families on a single income like back in the day. Market forces took care of this when women entered the workforce. Women used to be homemakers and their value was huge. No matter how high the cost of labor went up, her VALUE as a home-maker rose proportionately. His labor was converted to currency which was converted into the house, the car and the utility bills, groceries and material goods. HER labor was immediate as she was maid, cook, child care, c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:59 PM
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What I am suggesting is that it's possible that what is good for a specific species is not necessary the primary goal of "mother nature" with respect to a complex mix of species that are simultaneously interacting and competing in a vastly complex eco system. You're arguing from a species-centric view - what is good for a specific species. Look at it again as if life was one big homogenous thing. Species come, species go. When a virus randomly mutates itself where it no longer spreads through pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:47 PM
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If nature was always right no species would ever go extinct. And no men would be lonely? And every baby would be wanted? And women wouldn't' be judged on their looks? And men wouldn't be judged on their utility, or abilities? For you to know nature is not always right you would need to know, with certainty, what nature's agenda is. Nature can't stop us from hunting a species into extinction. You can't claim evolution is a failed process because higher order species have figured out how to derail…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:07 AM
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My point is having kids and then outsourcing most of the parenting. To me, it kind of defeats the purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:02 AM
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I have to take exception to this argument, sadly. Yes, the savant can play an intricate piano piece flawlessly... but can he socialize? Flirt? Create the intrigue? Handle social shit tests? Outmaneuver mean people? Haters? Sure, a savant might get the odd obligatory blow job. But how does he do in the world despite having some gifts? The problem is human’s mating dance requires bullshit that does not matter to be successful. You're wrong. It all matters. It's not trivial, or shallow. If she's se…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 03:06 AM
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Still thought of as the best, most stable environment in which to raise kids. True, until the divorce papers are signed. Being married still has some social weight. God knows why... There are tax breaks for married people, and certain rights that marriage partners have that common law do not. In some states, a common law partner has no legal medical rights if their partner is in bad shape in hospital. The family will come in and any wishes you have are irrelevant. I mean, I think these are weak …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:13 AM
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I don't think the dichotomy you're presenting here is accurate. MOST FEMINISTS tell women to put aside family - especially kids - and get their degree and career cemented before even LOOKING for a guy. FEW Red Pillers are "Trad Con / Stepford Wives" types. Most men realize women today want financial independence and careers that they love. Thing is, Red Pill tells this cautionary tale: If a woman spends her 30's climbing the corporate ladder and wants to get on some fast track marriage at 40 and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:05 AM
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Well, a few things will happen. You'll be healthier, more confident and look better If your face leans out, that is almost ALWAYAS better. #1 and 2 might lead to openings with women you find attractive Or, it might lead to openings with women you find fuckable. For most men, they only want to fuck women who meet a specific standard of attractiveness. Of course this is true, nobody wants to bang an angry-looking land-whale with acne, although somehow these women still get their holes filled. I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:35 PM
2

My kids are #1 with me. I'm involved with their school work, their clothes, their medical issues, doctors, teachers... friends... everything. They come to me all the time. We have great communication. My sons are very independent but my daughter is like glue with me and she really needs her dad at her age. Relationship with the dog is awesome too. Over the holidays I've walked and ran with him... about 3 hours a day - just covering ground. There has been times he was actually tired out and didn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:07 PM
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Well, there are two ways to go. You either get shredded and be literal "bed meat" for women - where they can't keep their hands off of you - and become a Chadlite. Or, you go the Beta Brad route and be a "not nice but good but exciting but not dangerous but interesting" dude. The latter is a pain in the ass. Kind of exhausting, really. Takes a lot of time too - trolling for women, bullshit texting games with a high ghost rate... Planning and going on dates. Some of them flake. Others are just fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:57 PM
3

Yep. Go see a proper mental health professional and inquire about Anti-D and if they might be right for you. No medical advice here, I promise. One word of warning though. Sometimes they don't take away your libido, they just cause inorgasmia. Because obviously the cure for depression is being horny and unable to come...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:17 AM
1

Or species even? Ha. Got your goat! NyYyYAAAAaaaaAhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:14 AM
1

Can't answer LTR/partner but for a FWB I think 4 and 9 would do the trick...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:32 AM
3

Well, if you count micro-aggressions and "elevator fart rape" then it stands to reason that feminist claims that 153% of women are abused 28 hours a day 387 days a year stands to reason... The question regarding the stats of male victims of sexual violence. Until society cares, do the numbers matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:30 AM
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I was quite immature for my age - still am probably. I used to date up to 8 years younger in my late 20's early 30's and used to get along with girlfriends very well. When I met parents, I was generally well received. I was immature, but not reckless, or drunk, or unemployed. I was just... behind the game. Most guys in late 20's were starting families or at least getting engaged, or married. I didn't get married until I was in my mid thirties with kids following soon after. When I was 27 I did d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:36 AM
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Then what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:43 AM
6

Poor Brad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:43 AM
1

Do what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:42 AM
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Right. I got turned off because a date turned into a job interview and the woman automatically goes to "no chemistry" as the reason. This is why Red Pill talks about playing the game in demo mode. You should have heard some of the baggage these women were bringing to the table... so I would end the date by saying. "Yeah... well, my ex wife still lives with me for now, will that be a problem?" She doesn't, of course, but the reactions were priceless. One woman actually did still live with her ex-…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:28 PM
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I’d like to be wanted, not tolerated Well, try to be more tolerable then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:23 PM
2

Well, red can only be so dark of a shade until it's... no longer red. ;-) I think I'm in a sort of "Cherry Coke" state at the moment...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:22 PM
6

Steps to becoming a Tyrone. Step 1. Be black. Step 2. If you are not black, you need to identify as black. When you're done step 2 let me know...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:17 PM
6

Well, we could just put something in the worlds' drinking water supply... Feminism said to destroy patriarchy we had to go from the "bottom up" because the ivory towers of the Rich White Patriarchs were too well guarded for angry feminists to admonish with their angry Marxist pens and paper. So, they went after the cellular unit of society - the family unit. They aimed to destroy marriage and now, relationships between men and women. In many ways, they have succeeded. Was it wild and dangerous w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:06 PM
2

Well, Red Pill says a man has three basic choices. Be a man, become high value, or die trying. Bitch and moan about the situation online. Get a good dog and a fishing rod and just opt out. I'm kind of a #3 who enjoys quite a lot of #2. I sometimes wish I could gift my IRL flirting and conversation skills to some poor bastard incel. But then again, he'd choose gaming and bitching about women online so the skills would be lost on him too...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:59 PM
5

Ah, the alpha-beta hybrid man. The guy in every rom com. The man who will never exist, except in her pretty little head.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:52 PM
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Oh cummon, she starts probing about a guy's success and ambition level because she's got an agenda and this is because the man is a bad dater. Really? Try harder. The "job interviews suck" is a common complaint many guys have. Start listening to mens' lived experiences more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:51 PM
2

Yes, we will rule the world. MUAH AH AH AH AHHHH! No but really. Remember the COVID meme? GOV'T: You must stay inside, be alone and use your computer all day." GAMERS: THIS IS WHAT WE'VE BEEN TRAINING FOR!! I get a startling amount of human interaction here on Reddit. I am not independent and able to live 100% alone. I need you guys. Sniff. Sniff sniff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:48 PM
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Right and protesting a woman's only club would cause a pussy hat riot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:25 PM
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Women to average men: LEAVE US ALONE. Average Men: Okay, we'll fuck off and hang out with other guys. Women to average men: WHY YOU NOT APPROACH.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:24 PM
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If mommy was looking today - in 2023 - would daddy be in her league or not worth a second look? You're comparing two entirely different times like they are the same. Average man had a good shot back then. Now average men are largely invisible. This is reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:22 PM
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All the downsides of partners you list for women are downsides for men that age looking as well. Divorced with kids, just divorced, looking for sex, or inexperienced and possibly damaged. But men at least can have kids even at 60. WHAT? WHY? So he can get divorced when he's 70 and pay child support until he's 85? So he needs a mechanical arm to throw the ball to his kid? Why a man aged sixty would want a fucking baby screeching 20 hours a day in his house is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:20 PM
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but relationships aren't jobs Then why are first dates job interviews?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:16 PM
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These are the words. Let's follow the actions... Women leave men with declining value. A man who still gets lots of female attention is giving her pre-selection cues that she is naturally tuned into. Women notice other women not noticing their men as much as they notice women NOTICING their men. And they don't even know they're doing it. Fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:16 PM
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He didn't say "interested in other women". He said "other women showing interest in HIM."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:14 PM
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When a woman can use her sex to get stuff, it's not unfair or creepy. When a man uses his stuff to get sex, that's unfair and creepy. See how this works?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:13 PM
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Because most people date within a few years of their own age, and 5 is pushing it and ten is quite rare?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:12 PM
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Yeah, and when that person is a MOTHER talking to her SON... And they wonder why guys get pissed when they find out their own mothers gave them platitudes. Truth would be nice. "Well, you're not genetically blessed because, well, neither am I but because I am a woman I am pretty much entitled to reproduce...But I did try to looksmax for you son, by baby-trapping your father..." I guess the truth is best avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:11 PM
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Women don't look 25 at 40. They're 40. This is something that 40 year old women tell themselves. And this is visible with 5 pounds of makeup on and fully dressed. Even a fit, healthy woman who is 40 does not look 25. She might be more appealing than a drug-addicted alcohlic obese smoker who is 25, but that's not such a big accomplishment. 30 is the new 20. 40 is the new 30. Blah blah blah. Getting old and staying in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:08 PM
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Technology surged way faster than human evolution could adapt, turning human social hierarchies onto their heads. Strong independent women who need no men asking where all the good men are. Men who now realize their relationships were fundamentally transactional and need to grow up overnight and get that primal urge for a taste of that unconditional mother's love from some other source. Self love perhaps. But to pine for that "become the old couple at the park" thing? In this day an age? Are you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:04 PM
2

Men don't have an external locus of control as women do. She needs approval for pretty much everything she feels and does. A woman can't have a relationship in a vacuum. Plan a wedding in vacuum. Have a baby in a vacuum. If nobody is able to see her amazing life, then is she even alive? This is where men differ. We can exist alone, on the shore of a lake, near a cabin, and fish, with a dog at our side and just be happy. We don't need ten fucking guys to fist bump the social media posts of our ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:58 PM
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I like the "things a man must be that are a contradiction in terms" Be funny. Just never offend anyone. Be confident. But never make her feel out-matched. Be ambitious, but never make people envy you or make her feel less-than. Be extraverted and the biggest man in the room, without anybody noticing. Be adventurous and even a bit reckless but never get into any trouble. Be desired by many women but never make her feel threatened or cheat. Be rich, but not spend too much time at work. Be fit, org…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:52 PM
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I think people, especially men, who think the entire system is rigged and they are, at best, some level of Beta Provider who is now irrelevant should definitely give up. The problem is - what to do with that pesky sex drive. I have been blessed - mine is pretty much gone. I don't think I could pull this off with a raging boner between my legs and that constant nagging thirst. I think the solution for angry men who hate the game is to literally experiment with chemical castration. Start with SSRI…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:44 PM
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Depends. Some women thrive on their own. Many believe having a man around is an encumbrance, and who would argue that a man-child who wants a bang-maid is anything but an encumbrance? When a woman says she has a good career, a clean home, a wide social circle, all kinds of social media fist bumps, travel, friends, wine, crackers, cheese, and maybe even a nice cat, and she's HAPPY... why not just believe her? She might be happy. Some men get really nuts when they hear a woman is out there who tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:37 PM
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- Started becoming aware of the different "strata of men" as early as Grade 6. Learned that I was innately different from other guys, and started to realize that looks and body type had everything to do with it. Slowly learned starting at about age 19 that the Lesser Men played by different rules, and had far more hoops to jump through. Also became aware that innate male ego didn't permit the vast majority of men to see that there were basically two classes of men, and they were - despite their …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:26 PM
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Does the AI fund her lifestyle and make it so that her income is for "nice things" while his money is for icky stuff like humping down the mortgage, paying down credit cards, and keeping the power on? Yeah, if AI can do that, men are done for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:22 PM
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I agree with everything you wrote here except for one part. The title. It's not just the current dating scene. Women have always subjected themselves to shit behavior from high-value men for a chance to access their genetic material or their resources. This is as old as time. Trysts, mystery, intrigue, "a summer romance"... all historic and fancy words for "getting sport fucked and using flowery language to avoid the inevitable slut shaming". Men who are not in the top 5%? These are lesser men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:20 PM
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Of course people are threatened by more qualified players. Man or woman, if you go bowling and some person on the other team throws three strikes in a row you're going to get that "aw fuck" feeling. Or if at a track meet someone is beating your best high jump regularly in practice, again, you're going to get that "aw fuck" feeling in your gut. Our mating system, and social systems, are about competition to the end of forming social dominance hierarchies. People who disagree are just NPCs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:12 PM
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Not much to debate here. I've said for years we'd see how much men REALLY like female companionship if sex was off the table for every living man. He'd have a veeeeery expensive demanding drama-prone ROOM MATE... that's it. There would be pussy hat protests world-wide because a woman couldn't get a free lunch let alone a sucker dumb enough to marry his sexless room-mate. Male thirst means the bad behavior will continue, the narcissism will continue to metastasize, and men will just do what men h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:05 PM
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Who is arguing trad wives? Highschool boys with neckbeards? Good Lord everybody who's a half-assed adult in this world knows it takes two salaries just to afford a mortgage these days. Most men WANT a woman with an education who will pull her weight financially. Unless he's pulling in $250K a year as a physician he's not the kind of guy who can have a trophy wife at home. And even then, plenty of lawyers making that kind of scratch are married to OTHER LAWYERS. Some Red Pill guys are narcissisti…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:55 PM
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Done with dating long ago. Don't want a relationship and I'm not into casual sex, so... what would be the point? Went on a few of those "job interview dates" with women my age and Oh, Dear God, what a soul-sucking nightmare. Hopes and dreams. List of shit she wants to renovate in her house. All the travelling she hopes to do. Sounds like these women don't need a partner in life, they just need a bank loan. And I ain't no bank. Finances are in tip top shape (despite the divorce), home and car pai…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:47 PM
2

I think I'm an asexual misanthrope and hate all people equally enough as to have no interest in fucking any of them. Any of you. People. Beings that identify as people. People who look like people who identify as people but might not actually be people. ? Fuck it. You know what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:45 PM
1

If men did all of the things women did when it came to beauty, skin care, hair care and obsession with fashion and matching shoes to outfits they would be sad and lonely because all the men would look fabulous but also be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:40 PM
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Yep - but I bet if we put all these things side by side we'd find most are actually not gendered, but both have a lot to do with narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:57 PM
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Could be narcissistic traits on both sides of the male/female fence. Most people who are narcissistic who I know have a few things in common. They have massive blind spots about their own shortcomings. They tend to over-estimate "all things them" - appearance, fitness, accomplishments. Are hypercritical of others to almost comical degrees. This is where you have an insufferable person who thinks they are a victim, while being deluded about their own worth, and putting down others literally into …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:56 PM
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Yep. It's a thing. Women don't have "casual sex". They have "situationships" with hot dreamy guys that they try and turn into relationships. If it didn't turn out, well, it was because of some bad astrological scenario or some damned thing. Not because she was hitting above her weight and getting sport fucked by a guy out of her league. Naw... that NEVER happens. Situationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:11 AM
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Meh. All struggling women have to do is soften up their standards in alcohol a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:06 AM
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I'd go point-for-point in this thread with you. But I got too bored and had to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:50 AM
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Women aren’t computer programs. And any man playing that stupid game of cheating on a loyal woman usually gets divorce papers Nobody said cheat. Women watch other women. Do other women watch him? Or do they turn their heads away from him? If a woman notices other women noticing him, then that's all the dread game he needs. Once in a while, all he needs to do is just be cordial to a woman who is giving him "those eyes" (say, at a pub or party) and the message is loud and clear: He's with her beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:45 AM
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All women say there are too many boring men. Why don't women do a poll to see how many of THEM are boring? Won't happen? Of course not. Women can be boring, or annoying or even insufferable. Let's chalk it up to female privilege. Sometimes when a conversation trails off it's not the other person... just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:26 PM
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I can count the female friends I have on one hand. None of them I would want to have sex with or have a relationship for that matter. If one became interested and, after being rebuffed, decided she needed to end the friendship I would feel about this bad: "Oh well, that sucks. Hey, the dog needs to go for a walk..."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:37 PM
2

A lot. Men before: We need a man around to life heavy things, shoot wild animals, fix the roof when it's snowing, do super-hard labor in the fields, and take care of us after child birth and when kids are teeny tiny. Men now: Anything he does can be done by other men with a phone call. His only purpose is to improve the comfort and material status of her situation, aka "make her life better in pretty much all quantifiable metrics". Kind of a tall order, being the table as it were. The difference…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:35 PM
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No. If he's an average guy he's going to be her #2 choice at best and need to get into a Beta/Transactional relationship. He'll wait while she gets humped and dumped by the top tier guys she can seduce with promiscuity. He'll have his "big MY TURN" gotcha/revenge day at the alter where he will have a 50% chance of being divorced raped and cannon fodder in the family law courts. Being Beta Brad is a very very bad path in today's world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:30 PM
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People today marry later and defer having kids because of financial and stability issues. They rightly want to have the degrees done, established in their field, and a home purchased before they start having kids. They want to be sure they have the stability and resources needed to have a family. Gone are the days where Joe from the factory married Sally from the diner and they bought a small house on the hill and made babies. So, most people are doing marriage in late 20's and having kids in ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:27 PM
1

Here is what it's like: You have a deadly disease, and we can cure you, but we have to cut off your arms and legs. That is what being settled for is like. It solves one problem but creates another big one. Women don't stay interested in transactional relationships for very long and divorce is pretty much inevitable. Women will settle for a Ford Focus if they hate public transportation enough. But how many would be pining for that cute little BMW or Mercedes SUV? Pretty much all of them. This is …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:18 PM
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You don't need such a drastic change in the ratio. If you changed the male-female ratio to say 55/45 it would have a very dramatic effect. Look at how having 40% of degrees going to men has made the pool of "eligible" men shrink drastically. The women are saying there is just an outright shortage of men educationally and financially qualified to even date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:15 PM
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Women make a three-page list of expectations then go out into the world to be disappointed and "settle". Men find someone who reciprocates their interest who they find, at a minimum, fuckable and then test for deal-breakers. And the bar, in most cases, is very very low. That's why Red Pill has to remind men not to stick their dick in crazy, because if he finds her physically attractive, he will.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:10 PM
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We already established this. She brings herself to the table. He is the table. Yes, he has to keep the conversation going, keep her entertained, and act as a salve for a human who goes from one emotional dopamine hit to the next and gets bored very very easily. This is why most women I know have a trail of burning money behind them trying to medicate that unyielding existential itch with retail therapy and other trivialities. Got my daughter Starbucks for a treat before school before Christmas. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:06 PM
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Well, here is the problem. If you want a relationship, you have to chase. Unless you're the kind of guy women seek out, but men this high in "sexual market value" probably don't need a relationship anyways. The men who can get relationships very often don't need or want them, and the men who want relationships have difficulty getting them. Then you get "you can't negotiate attraction" for her and "your standards are too high" for him. smh Despite what feminism tell us about female behavior (and …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:58 PM
1

I'm a misanthrope and hate all humans equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:18 AM
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Oh, I didn't mean to suggest that. Then again, before she realizes she's codependent and he's a narcissist, she might have no clue as to why her relationship sucks so badly and why she thinks SHE is the crazy one. Narcissistic abuse makes the OTHER person think THEY have the problem and gaslighting and head games are their favorite tools. And the narcissist is not always the HE!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:23 PM
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I'd say "effeminate" or passive, or even too neurotic or emotional before I'd say narcissistic. Narcissistic men tend to be more manipulative and usually prefer supplicating, pliable partners, aka the whole codependency thing. If you want to see a funny dichotomy go to a "Codependents Anonymous" meeting. A room full of women bitching about the terrible partners they still have, and men wondering why their partners left them despite doing everything they asked. It's unreal. Men who do the "Uno Re…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:57 PM
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Women get away with absolute murder. Men be like: "Okay, we'll still play." Male thirst results in shit female behavior. Period. Females think only men have engage in shit behavior. Hilarity ensues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:54 PM
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Well, I never was into the whole PUA part of the manosphere... but "negging" is a theory. And I have a theory. Men don't do things that don't work, typically. No woman wants to think this kind of "reverse psychology / opposite George" stuff works on them, but very often it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:52 PM
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Excellent list. I would add #7. Don't fall into the "more effort is better" trap. In fact, it can be a red flag for her or a "tell". Sometimes a bit of indifference is the way. This is especially true if she's really good looking and has a lot of male attention. She will immediately know which men are desperate little puppy dogs. Women not only use preselection, they often want things simply because they can't have them. Use her nature to your advantage. Don't be too accommodating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:58 PM
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Yeah, I'd say men who handing mucho attention to attention parasites are wasting time. Some examples: I want to fall in love online first, and get to know you, and then I'll supply a photo. I want to have 20 men on a string and decide as I go who will fill what role. I just want attention from 100's of men old OLD/social media. Men need to be honest with themselves about what they want, be direct, and don't waste time being simps for attention whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:55 PM
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Here's a great mincemeat youtube video with nice music! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RSLwwc_S4Sw
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:07 AM
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Ugh. I had a 2/3rds of a Boston Cream pie once and I wanted to kill myself after. Hey it's Christmas. How about a little mincemeat?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:22 AM
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I'll take banana cream pie over BFC any day of the week. How did we get talking about baked goods? Now I want pie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:14 AM
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Sounds like a business opportunity... Lonely Wife Service
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:13 AM
1

Mint better than no mint tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:02 PM
1

Perfect gift for the horny woman who needs no man!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:02 PM
1

If you look at literally any sex toy website, you’ll see the most popular size of toy is 5-6 inches. Yeah that's plenty wide.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:01 PM
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You've never been with a gusher then...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:00 PM
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What size dildo we talking here?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:59 PM
3

People get into relationships because they want stuff?!? Wow. And here I just thought it was all about love. And foreign women want stuff and local women do not? Again. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:16 AM
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This isn't about women looking though. It's about men looking who want to explore "markets" beyond their own region. Of course women have lots of options everywhere they go.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:14 AM
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So long as men realize they're still being used, and are okay with it, that's fine. But some sell this "Western women suck and other women don't" stuff which I think is a fantastic idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:00 AM
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This is a bad idea. Cultural differences. Big obstacle to relationships success for many. It's worse if there are also religious differences. She has the internet. Western feminism is everywhere. Why men think these women will somehow be "differently natured" is beyond me. There is a chance she's only looking for citizenship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:59 AM
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Not a "can't get" but a "don't need" when it comes to relationships. (Just passed on yet another exchange contact info offer... sorry, not interested.) I focus on providing for the kids I brought into this world (divorced) and self improvement such as getting bad habits in check (quit drinking, eating better foods), working out, professional development and getting back into hobbies I once enjoyed. Trying to be less of a workaloholic. Have a pretty good well balanced but very busy life. No time …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:50 PM
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Because they're not my children. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:38 PM
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