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| 65 | A reminder that "no" is always a complete sentence. You don't owe anyone an explanation, a dance, a drink, a date, or sex. Someone who does not respect your boundaries is someone who has no respect for you.As a grown woman I really don’t even care about being the asshole anymore. When I’m out having fun with my friends and boyfriend, any guy who comes up to me automatically gets a hard “no.” Anywhere I go, really, not just the bar. I’m tired of being nice so I don’t care how predatory men perceive me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 01:07 AM |
| 69 | Men battering women for rejecting them must come from more than just a sense of entitlement.This totally just brought up a repressed memory from my early college days! I was at a bar with a big group of friends and we went to the bathroom. There was a line of men lined up along the path to the bathroom outside the door, leaning on a wall casually to not look suspicious. Every single time a girl walked past them they grabbed her ass. I was walking in and multiple girls kept turning around and staring at these men, and before i our two and two together my friend’s ass was grabbed too. I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 07:22 PM |
| 218 | I’m actually disgusted and lividHonestly why even have kids with men anymore lmao they’re useless AF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 03:52 AM |
| 21 | It’s not worth it in the long runI was a stripper and sugar baby for years and I’m still avidly against the porn industry. I hate the term SWERF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:33 PM |
| 15 | It’s not worth it in the long runWe can’t drink alcohol or gamble or rent a car until you’re 21, but you can do porn and go to war the moment you’re 18. Real priorities | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:32 PM |
| 20 | It’s not worth it in the long runConfession: one time I had to make a couple hundred dollars so I set up a fake tinder and a fake “premium” Snapchat, where I’d get guys to send me money in exchange for nude snaps. I’d send them pics of like my legs or something and then once they started pushing for more I blocked them even though they already paid. Made about $450 that day which went to bills. That wasn’t the first time I’ve scammed thirsty men out of money, and as much as I distrust men, I do feel a little guilty about some o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:28 PM |
| 10 | If a Guy Ever Tries to Shame You for Ghosting/Giving Excuses/Not Giving a Hard "No", send him this and TELL HIM TO FUCK OFF!I don’t work there anymore but it was protocol for the bouncers or barbacks to walk you to your car! For this very reason | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 09:47 PM |
| 34 | If a Guy Ever Tries to Shame You for Ghosting/Giving Excuses/Not Giving a Hard "No", send him this and TELL HIM TO FUCK OFF!The only time I ever told a man straight up, shamelessly “no, I don’t want to give you my phone number” was because I was getting into my car. I had an escape route. Or if I’m bartending. I bartended at a strip club and I was so protected, any guy who gave me grief was kicked out, unless I so graciously allowed them to stay. It was so much fun telling men to fuck off. That was the most empowering job ever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 03:00 PM |
| 5 | Interesting considering they need us more than we need them. 🤷♀️ And dick is a dime a dozen.I’m also bothered by the fact that my last name came from my dad. But if I change it to my mom’s last name, hers came after her dad. So no matter what the last name I hold it’s connecting me to some man. Side note, why wouldn’t kids take their mother’s last names since she’s the one who birthed them? And women have way fewer kids than men do due to biological limitations. Sperm is endless and disposable, a woman’s body is not. So wouldn’t it make more sense to carry the last name of the mother 🤦… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 02:22 PM |
| 12 | Interesting considering they need us more than we need them. 🤷♀️ And dick is a dime a dozen.If my last name wasn’t so fucking ugly I wouldn’t change it when I got married. Maybe hyphenate, maybe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?My boyfriend suggests a boob job every once in a while (I have the smallest A cups, don’t even wear bras anymore just sports bras and bralettes). I’m a tiny bit self conscious and wish i was at least a B or a C. But I always tell him look. If you want me to get a boob job that badly, you can pay for it yourself. Otherwise it’s on the bottom of my list of “Things I Want and Would Rather Pay $14k For” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 03:44 PM |
| 11 | Has r/banfemalehatesubs been banned??I want to leave so bad but I’m a part of a few support communities that I miss dearly every time I delete the app. Fuck this place | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:30 PM |
| 7 | “Real men get vasectomies!”Dr Anthony Youn.“If you consider abortion to be murder, consider this thought experiment: Would you be on board with having a handful of men castrated to prevent 600,000 murders each year? If this argument sounds too provocative, could it be that many of us have a hard time wrapping our heads around a physical punishment for men? We seem to be more than fine with physical punishments for women. Perhaps we care more about policing women’s bodies, morality, and sexuality than we do about reducing or eliminating a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 09:00 PM |
| 56 | The males are falling apart because COVID19 is forcing them to actually parent their kids nowThe biggest reason I don’t want kids is because I know, as a woman, I am automatically disadvantaged. My boyfriend is absolutely wonderful but I know for a fact I’d be the one stuck with a majority of the childcare. I’d be expected to take on all the responsibility and he’d be at work all day. I will absolutely never submit myself to that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 03:41 PM |
| 33 | The males are falling apart because COVID19 is forcing them to actually parent their kids nowI worked at a law firm and one of the lawyers was ALWAYS showing me pictures of his kids and videos and talked about everything they did. At first it was super annoying but then I realized it was so nice to see a man in the office being involved in his kids lives so much. He was always so ready to get off work so he can go home to his wife and children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 03:39 PM |
| 90 | Thank you Carrie ❤️Broooo id kill to be able to go to the beach topless all the time. It’s so unfair. I barely even have A cups bc my boobs are so small, basically mosquito bites, yet every single man whose chests are larger than mine can run around topless all the time bc they’re not sexualized. *Boobs are a perfectly innocent and natural part of the human body, I shouldn’t have to cover them because men get aroused by my body. * Same thing with baby girls wearing bikinis. Why?!? What’s the point?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 04:06 PM |
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