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He thought all her labor was just the housing and feeding costs, why to hire professionals if you can get it for cheap? Until he has to give up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:28 PM
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So lesson for women: don’t have kids so you stay fit Got it?
/r/MensRights30/06/25 10:06 PM
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I am a woman and I don’t find age gaps creepy among people with established lives and minds. Younger than mid/late twenties should date similar ages, 30s and up is different and most people are mature enough to handle different life experiences/ stages.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:15 PM
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My father was like this. He thought I was smart and wanted me to be able to study whatever I wanted and start a career if I wanted (he would have been disappointed if I went to become a housewife but that’s a different discussion). He wanted me to have a family at one point but to be able to take care of myself first
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:08 PM
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As they are the main victims of sexual violence. It doesn’t say only victims. Men are not excluded
/r/MensRights27/08/22 03:20 AM
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“As being the main victims of sexual violence”. It DOES NOT EXCLUDE MEN. We can also read Spanish.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 03:08 AM
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What’s the definition of high value man? What’s highly valued by me may not be as valued by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:18 PM
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Bold to think all unmarried women want to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:42 AM
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That happens a lot. Attractiveness and sexiness is quite subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:16 PM
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I would prefer to date men in their 40s and 50s with a nice body. Those are really difficult to find in the US. So I bang younger guys instead because one has sexual needs. Once I get too old for that…I don’t know, I may have to start looking at being a sugar mama. Or maybe I would like the same body type than mine, who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:23 PM
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When I was in my twenties my dating pool was +/- 5 yo, I ended up with someone 10 years older than me. Now my hooking up pool is +/- 10 years however my dating age is similar
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:38 PM
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It is absolutely subjective. You know people who peaked in high school and others at the 30 years reunion…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:08 PM
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No clue, I am here looking for other women’s perspective. I hate degrading sex, hate for me and I wouldn’t be happy to do it to a partner. Feels really like icky.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 09:23 PM
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Their religious lifestyle. Not everybody wants to see Jeezus everywhere coming from Europe it looks pretty much like the Taliban. I tell them the same thing they say to gay people, leave it for the privacy of your home or clubs (temples) My ex is the father of my kids and we had a good relationship so I don’t wish him any harm. His survival instincts were stronger than his political views, he voted for Biden.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:53 PM
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Well it is a different relationship to have sex for money than just regular social interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:19 PM
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You can see many ugly men with partners and wives/ husbands. It is probably your personality as you are displaying it here. It’s in your hands to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 03:59 PM
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If ALL women, you have met, insult you and fuck you over, the problem may be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 03:53 PM
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I think you live in a different reality, most people (men and women) are just ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:24 PM
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Don’t project. I’d rather be ignored than having redpillers hating around
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:52 PM
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Redpillers are not directing their hate to a particular woman who hurt them, that’s natural m, understandable though no healthy in the long run. The hate redpillers have is for all women as a class. That’s a huge difference
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:26 PM
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I agree so much with you. Self love is great but why to hate women? it’s fascinating to see them have women as objects of desire and hate at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:11 PM
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It’s actually very important to be aligned in important subjects like abortion, religion and civil liberties. I’ve got a switch and bait with my ex-husband, big time, he knew I was loosely Christian (more Judeo Christian culture and agnostic), I am prochoice, pro treating every body like human beings regardless of sex, orientation, race and religion (as long as they don’t shove it in my throat). I consider tax a necessary evil to run society and I am fine if others use social programs. Thankfull…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:01 PM
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Because some women are fucking racist when it comes to dating. There, I fixed it for you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:48 PM
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Being told it’s not the same than being. You just don’t have the logical brain to understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:43 PM
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If I find a good lover, I keep going back for more (unless the guy is a jerk but that’s a different conversation). Oh boy I am keeping going back for more after a pandemic two year hiatus
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:53 PM
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Thanks I will have to check Pure. I don’t get dirty DMs in IG, usually just about crypto and financial scams. Oh I have one guy who is also a fan of the same podcasts I am, sending me poetry, pretty sweet guy, he’s presumably in a different continent, I don’t think he is thinking about an easy thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:23 PM
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That’s strange. When I was in a relationship I posted pictures of my partner. Even if it was just the typical picture, we are at the festival xyz or whatever city/ activity. I don’t personally use Instagram for hookups because I post pics of my kids and I don’t mix those two things ever. I use Reddit for hookups and do it faaar away from my city when I don’t have my kids around. I hate dating apps because I live in a small big city and too many guys I shouldn’t get involved with are on those app…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:19 PM
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I’d rather have my own money. The guy can just be nice and hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:19 AM
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Did you get it now? This subreddit is huge into the Madonna/ whore complex. I should stop reading this sub because I know rationally the majority of guys are not like them, but wow it’s sad and I don’t want them to spoil men for me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:27 AM
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I don’t understand why those women making serious money on their 40s don’t do the same thing than the surgeons. You get a young fine guy who gives you company for a good living arrangement. I am going that route in a few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:01 AM
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Shame him? Not at all. I only pointed out that he cherry-picked his conclusions and that he seems very frustrated with women. I am not the one having to live like that, he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:04 PM
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How can you be attracted to women and hate them? It is not going to work and he would need to resolve that issue first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:24 PM
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If he has such a low opinion about women why to pursue them. It is insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:11 PM
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Promiscuous men are more likely to cheat than non promiscuous women. And in general men are more likely to cheat than women. In other news: Water is wet, the sun is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:07 PM
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I guess you didn’t read the first article you posted “This isn't the first study to suggest the infidelity gap is closing. Early this year, 33 percent of men and 19 percent of women admitted to being unfaithful” I didn’t deny the gap is closing but still more men than women admit to cheat. So women should be wary too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:28 PM
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I mean, ok, women now can cheat if they want because the social pressure, if caught, is pretty similar to what happens to men, nowadays. Can we talk about women not being able to have bank accounts, jobs or contracts without husband’s authorization until quite recently? That would disuade lots of cheating and divorce and even just stay unmarried. But the OP does not include in his post that, in the studies and articles says that, still men are more likely to cheat than women and still over 10 pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:24 PM
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It is ok if the OP doesn’t want to date women. He can always date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:13 PM
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I said it happened all my life, I guess my wall started at 14
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:34 PM
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It’s probably that I have a bitch resting face. I have no idea. Girl friends around me are usually approached so at least I am lucky charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:57 AM
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Well the pandemic has not been kind on terms of socializing but I am talking about a life long issue. I am a bit shy at first but warm up fast,and it happens to me more with people I would like to impress not with strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:50 AM
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I am 37, but it has never happened when I was younger (well a middle aged approached me when I was around 11 and another one when I was 8mo pregnant at 28, I don’t take those into account for obvious reasons)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:36 AM
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Never approached either. Men talk to me when they have to. Some people say I am pretty, but I think it’s just out of politeness or kindness
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:23 AM
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Pimp, career criminal, anything illegal…huge red flags—-I would add anything to do with the GOP, that’s because no way our values would align
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:36 PM
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Depends on the company and the circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:30 AM
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Not everybody is looking at money in the same way and specially not in a marriage or a long term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:29 AM
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This. I don’t want a boyfriend material guy, I want a sexy material guy and if he’s nice and we like each other’s personalities, then it’s good for more, but honestly if I get a boyfriend I want him to sex me up quite, a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:12 AM
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Why not both? would stay in dead bedroom relationship? That’s not for me, that’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:26 PM
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And also bad sex, ltr are not worth it otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:45 AM
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Oh I don’t care to be a thot or not, no way I am on a ltr just to have pity sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:13 AM
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You can always reserve yourself for marriage, just let the rest have a sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:18 AM
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Thinking about the numbers, she has been active since she is 18, ten years for 40 partners is 4 partners per year. I guess it’s a cultural difference, I don’t see hooking up with 4 guys in a year promiscuous, specially if you are not in ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:48 PM
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You can be totally a neutral attraction (not ugly not good looking) and if you have a good personality, you can become really attractive. I have been attracted to guys my friends thought were ugly but they were my type and were great people. So I am sorry you had those experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:26 PM
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You need to move social circles and muscled for the average woman is not as big as Chris Hemsworth. When we say fit is height/weight proportionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:41 PM
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If I have to resort to plastic surgery to keep or get a guy, I rather stay single forever. No way I am going to have major surgery to look better, not worth the risk. I am reading all this and as a woman it all sounds very negative. I get hook ups are solely based on looks and physical preferences and I ask for the same that I give, it seems fair. But I look for different qualities in a partner, sexual chemistry/ compatibility, good character and some brains. Maybe it’s because I was raised unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:20 PM
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Pictures of shoes don’t tell me the level of fitness
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:13 PM
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I am an easy girl. I don’t like bad guys, they are bad news for casual or not casual relationships. I like to have sex with nice guys who are fit, that’s the type of lots of women. I would love to see pictures of the guys posting in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:18 AM
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Oh yeah I am consistent on the matter of no waiting on the sex, afterwards let’s see where the relationship goes. But I don’t see sex as a matter of reward or prize. It’s a matter of connection and pleasure, and intimacy when a relationship is established.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:02 PM
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Why should it be consistent? I have sex with a guy when I want to have sex with him. Sometimes is very close to when we meet and other times after several meetings. I don’t have a rule for when to have sex with someone, it sounds so constricting and playing games. The only time I waited to have sex because the guy wanted to wait, I developed feelings and when we finally had sex it was not good, and I made the mistake to think feelings are enough in a relationship. They are not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:17 PM
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Me? Whoever has the nicer body for my preferences, lean with some muscle, not fat or overweight and not over muscled. I don’t care at all about height (fuck I am 5’2” everybody is taller). I don’t care much about face because everybody has some attractive features and face is so subjective (what I like others don’t and viceversa). And specially if the guy is nice and charming and flirty with me (enthusiastic) I can warm up to his physical attributes very fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:48 PM
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