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1	Is there a point of gaming girls you dont even get along with? Mmm sometimes, there's definitely a self-selection bias with these kinds of girls in terms of what kind of place you're picking them up at. Most church going girls aren't gonna be at a bar or a nightclub, or on tinder or bumble, but the ones that DO end up in those kinds of settings are the "freaky type," and because of that, they stand out more as a demographic. And so they're perceived in that way, due to faulty representation. But most church girls are so terrified of sex and dating you never…	/r/seduction	17/09/20 06:35 AM
1	How do I get a good friend to like me ??? Aww that's adorable. Well, all I'll say is, be yourself. Stay cool, calm, collected, and chill.	/r/seduction	17/09/20 03:31 AM
1	Is there a point of gaming girls you dont even get along with? You have to take into consideration of OP's specific girl. This isn't a highly social girl. She's awkward and boring. It might be that she's secretly a freak, that happens. But also it should be considered a non social person, guy or girl, is desperate and has famine mentality.	/r/seduction	17/09/20 02:05 AM
2	How do I get a good friend to like me ??? She needs to see that other girls like you. It'll wake her up to your value as a viable sexual being. Instead of this platonic friend who is as unsexual as family.	/r/seduction	16/09/20 10:35 PM
2	Is there a point of gaming girls you dont even get along with? I hear this mature/immature paradigm being memed a lot lately and I question very much it's practicality application on the complexity of the emotional quotient in the real world. Those who are mature will understand and will either say "sure, I'm open to a casual experience," or will respond with "I'm not interested in that." I think this is a good example of what a mature individual would say. I would hope there would be more people like this. However, I think this kind of mature and clear exp…	/r/seduction	16/09/20 08:51 PM
-4	Is there a point of gaming girls you dont even get along with? you can tell her you're physically attracted to her and are looking for casual intimacy and you're not interested in a relationship Anyone with any practical experience knows this will have the opposite effect; it'll make her want a relationship even more. You would be making the idea of a relationship into a forbidden romantic barrier for her to transgress. Succinctly, you would be courting her to chase you. I am of the perspective that it's important to understand, study, and value people no m…	/r/seduction	16/09/20 08:00 PM
5	When does seduction turn into simping Honestly you don't need to think about that when you're approaching from the perspective that you're figuring out whether a girl is worth liking and investing time, attention, and money. I think initially it becomes a difficult venture of bottling up and controlling your anxieties and fears that you'll say something that is gonna either upset her or make her take you for granted. But I think you don't necessarily need to think about that if you're interacting with a girl with a healthy amount of…	/r/seduction	11/09/20 05:31 PM
-1	How can I tell if my best friend wants to fuck? It should be kept in mind that it isn't the most terrible thing in the world. But one should be mindful of it, because through and through, it is a shit test. And more so than anything it should be seen as an opportunity to demonstrate higher value.	/r/seduction	10/09/20 05:28 PM
10	How can I tell if my best friend wants to fuck? You gotta be real fucking subtle, my guy. Some girls just find themselves in an emotional place where they just want male validation and sexual attention, but don't actually want to actually have sex. You need to keep it cool and don't be eager. You can't make it seem like you're thinking too much about it or that she's having an effect on you. Like it or not, it doesn't matter what society idealizes, YOU are the one that is supposed to have an effect on her. Otherwise nothing real or actionable…	/r/seduction	10/09/20 03:50 PM
1	Why cant all men admire a sex addict? All the men I have been with fizzle out because of disconnection and inability to keep up, so maybe I need to control myself? How honest are we being with ourselves? Are you sure there isn't something else? Something that doesn't necessarily have to do with the sex?	/r/seduction	08/09/20 05:54 PM
9	I approached a girl she called me creepy I been admiring this girl at the gym for quite some time now This was your first mistake, unfortunately. You've demonstrated low value by waiting so long. She probably had already intuit that you were into her from a far, and she's probably been sorta worried ever since. Unfortunately, she'll likely never know your true intentions and that you were simply nervous but meant well and that you truly aren't a creep and that's a hurtful label for her to say. But you have to understand is that the fir…	/r/seduction	08/09/20 01:59 AM
3	How exciting of a life do I really need for a girl to want to date me? stahp	/r/seduction	03/09/20 08:50 AM
5	How exciting of a life do I really need for a girl to want to date me? Heyyy... lol	/r/seduction	02/09/20 04:26 PM
20	How exciting of a life do I really need for a girl to want to date me? The username had me dying, holy shit.	/r/seduction	02/09/20 04:02 PM
3	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? I mean of course, but at the same time I feel like a general layer of emotion avoidance over every man in society is the norm and historically always has and always will be until a future where we're all brains in jars. Perhaps it's cultural and perhaps it's driven by biology in ways we will likely never know, and will likely never admit to. Is this good? Is this essential in the grand scheme of things? Who can know for certain. What I don't understand is that no one seems to declare what upside…	/r/seduction	31/08/20 01:04 AM
-1	Girls keep dodging me. What do I do? Humor is always important, but if there's no realness and openness, there is no intimacy; and if there is no intimacy, there is no trust.	/r/seduction	30/08/20 04:21 PM
9	Girls keep dodging me. What do I do? The fact that you posted a meme here might give a hint as to why they're dodging you. Chill the fuck out.	/r/seduction	30/08/20 09:45 AM
14	can you be too high value for a girl can you be too high value for a girl Yes, of course. Whether or not that's what's going on here isn't actually clear. she never texts first or anything. It really doesn't matter if she texts first or not, none of that is a real indicator of anything. It could mean anything from she thinks she's better than you, to she's too scared to initiate because she afraid of rejection because she really likes you. It's a useless metric. she acts all small and smiley ( like a younger sister basically) Jus…	/r/seduction	29/08/20 12:51 AM
2	Have A Bigger Purpose Than Women And Getting Laid Don't worry fam, I got you. I'm on the spectrum too. I would say get an audible account. Download: "What Everybody is Saying" by Joe Navarro. It'll get you the building blocks of body language. "Never Split the Difference" by Chris Voss. It'll get you to have some flowing awareness of your vocal tonality. Anything by Robert Greene is a good meme. "Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion" is a nice short one. A song of Ice and Fire (Game of Thrones books) are SO underrated. There is so much psych…	/r/seduction	22/08/20 06:18 AM
2	Have A Bigger Purpose Than Women And Getting Laid I think there's a lot of good advice in this. I definitely feel like a lot of men would benefit from adding this to their life for their own sake. There is also another thing that has to be considered, which is that when you have a bigger purpose, you have significantly less time. I think a lot of women assume that there's a point where a guy can just coast,relax, and enjoy the fruits of your labor, a lot of women invest in order to cash out that time. But, this seems to seldom occur. For many m…	/r/seduction	22/08/20 04:39 AM
-1	How do you not get jealous hearing about guys your age who are way more successful with women? This wasn't the healthiest approach, but I remember back in the day, I used to think to myself, somehow, I just understood that I was better than those guys. And I also felt like any girl that liked those guys where debasing themselves naively, and the only emotion I should feel, is pity and schadenfreude. Because in someways, it was kinda true. For years this was useful in terms of protecting myself and navigating through life with a bit of hope and dignity. Some people would say that is not an…	/r/seduction	15/08/20 09:00 PM
3	Is it weird that my mom wants to help me get laid? This is some helicopter parenting to a whole other level.	/r/seduction	25/06/20 12:23 AM
3	I(22F) can banter and chat with guys I don’t like but not with a crush You really should have been more subtle with the misleading advice. But it was still funny.	/r/seduction	15/06/20 11:46 PM
2	Guys who made significant changes to their dating/social life, what were the main changes you made? This might sound strange, but consider A Song of Ice and Fire series. Otherwise known as the game of thrones books. If you've already read them, consider the characters more carefully and their own personal code of ethics and practice. The theme that is always prevalent in my mind throughout the day is that of consolidating how you bridge the gap between a sinister and sociopathic world view. Where people are opportunists, conniving, and vindictive. And a world view of giving and affection. Wher…	/r/seduction	02/05/20 04:20 AM
3	Guys who made significant changes to their dating/social life, what were the main changes you made? Engaging in public speaking for events, acting courses, and having jobs in customer service. These made it possible to practice engaging in projecting your voice and demeanor, as well as re framing how you engage with someone where you have no choice but to, not only be confident, but to develop a powerful antenna for how you're coming across to another person, because you're trapped in a position where you have no choice but to be likable. Grinding is important, but not as important as having p…	/r/seduction	02/05/20 03:14 AM
1	Am l diffrent and chubby than before?? It's corona. Damn, son. Prayers.	/r/seduction	02/05/20 01:48 AM
9	What are the green flags to look for in a person regardless of gender? They do little things in a distinctive and unusual way, that seems well thought out and practical. Example: I never learned how to tie my shoes in the classical way and I made up an entirely different method for tying shoes as a child that doesn't come loose nearly as much as the classical way. Dare I say in the 20ish years since I invented this method I don't think I've ever had my laces come loose once. Any time I see someone who has multiple odd and clever quirks or methods in which they go a…	/r/seduction	23/04/20 09:07 PM
-11	Eye contact when walking past women Drink.	/r/seduction	07/02/20 12:19 AM
1	Remember, if someone wants you in their life, they will make both the space and put in the effort. I think for some part of this advice, but not all of it, is rooted in not wanting to be disappointed or hurt. This is something I have noticed in myself and in the past when I was a shy and reluctant boy, even till now, only in a different threshold. I think there is a limit you should set to yourself on how much you're willing to push and market yourself to someone without losing value, power, or without making the other party uncomfortable. And of course all of this with a mindset of non-needi…	/r/seduction	08/12/19 11:59 PM
2	Hilarious reaction from this girl when I didn't fall for her shit test. Yeah, for sure. I think with everything. The more you're exposed to a certain thing under the right conditions, the less scary it is. Sex seems to naturally be one of those things that both guys and girls feel insecure and scared of, until they try it and they do it often and enthusiastically with someone they feel they can trust and feel comfortable with. And of course some people start out at different comfort levels, but no one should ever feel they're wrong for having a particular level of c…	/r/seduction	07/12/19 05:56 AM
61	Remember To Be Kind Towards Women I remember watching a Ted talk with Adam Grant where he described the best type of employee a company could have. A disagreeable giver. Someone who has rough words, but kind actions. Someone willing to say the things that need to be said, sometimes cruelly, but then offer solutions and effort. What I think women generally crave is a man somewhat like this. Someone decisive and perhaps blunt with his words and with conviction to acquiring success in his life, but also gives his attentiveness and …	/r/seduction	03/12/19 12:40 AM
4	Have some self respect as men How about don't do either of those things. And just stop fixating and worrying about what she thinks of you. Have self respect in spite of other people, don't have self respect TO spite other people.	/r/seduction	30/11/19 09:46 PM
3	Should I Accept Her Proposal? Does She Sound Sexy? Wtf are you talking to us for? Tell her yes! Does this girl seem awkward, yeah maybe. But honestly, just get in there, man! You like her but you're worried about whether she's attractive to other guys? Go get laid, be in a relationship, maybe down the line, buy her some sexy lingerie. It sounds like this girl just needs some guidance to help her be sexier. It sounds like you see something in her, a diamond in the rough.	/r/seduction	27/11/19 10:35 AM
3	Every girl is the same I know exactly what you're saying. What you have to understand is that it's ok to be liked. What does it say when you lose interest in a girl when she really likes you? The main problem I envision here is that you're not being yourself, and when you're not being yourself, who are they liking? There's a reason why they say that those who do not love themselves cannot receive love. If a girl likes what you're saying and likes how you're acting, it can feel fairly unsatisfying if the traits you dem…	/r/seduction	27/11/19 10:20 AM
7	Hilarious reaction from this girl when I didn't fall for her shit test. It does makes sense, I can tell you from a guy's perspective the feeling is mutual. No one likes to be played or controlled. It's all about figure out how to open up to someone, being responsive and dependable for them, while figuring out whether that someone is worth opening up to; whether they are dependable.	/r/seduction	17/11/19 02:43 PM
6	Hilarious reaction from this girl when I didn't fall for her shit test. While this makes logical sense, this would be like telling someone with arachnophobia that your fear of snakes is more justified than their fear spiders. I've known women who've had abortions and some have nightmares about it to this day. All that aside I think it's more important to reach out and say "I acknowledge your fears and take them seriously."	/r/seduction	16/11/19 03:56 PM
461	Hilarious reaction from this girl when I didn't fall for her shit test. Sex is a pretty vulnerable thing for women, even if they act like it isn't. If they can frame the situation where they can capture just a little bit of leverage for the sake of protecting themselves from feeling too powerless and vulnerable, they'll take it. They might even say something stupid and shoot themselves in the foot, like what OP's girl did. But that's really cuz she didn't know what else to say, other than being fake alpha. What they don't realize is that their vulnerability is the k…	/r/seduction	16/11/19 03:31 AM
1	How do you guys just stop caring. Get new friends. Take a multivitamin. Go somewhere unfamiliar. Don't feel pressured to be sociable, just try it in bursts. You don't need to talk and have fun for a long while, just have a few good moment, lean into those good moments as motivators.	/r/seduction	02/08/19 07:10 AM
–	I don't see myself being in a relationship. Drink coffee and whisky and go where the wild things are.	/r/seduction	22/07/19 01:07 AM
2	Do some girls just have "flirty" personalities? I'm seeing red flags left and right. However, if you really wanna fuck this chick and potentially fall into an unstable relationship, I don't think it's fair that I should judge you or say you're wrong to do so. When ya gotta fuck, ya gotta fuck ¯\_(ツ)_/¯.	/r/seduction	29/04/19 12:22 PM
2	Do some girls just have "flirty" personalities? She does not want to do it anymore before marriage. The craziest chick I've ever been with said these very same words, almost verbatim. Any girl who is so clearly and obviously, not just sexually active, but "kinky" and "bi?" And she says she wants to wait till marriage? It's pure childish delusion. She's like a kid who tells stories of some fantastical shit they clearly didn't witness. Cut your losses, man. This one ain't done maturing. If you stay you're going to end up raising some parent's u…	/r/seduction	28/04/19 11:51 PM
35	Do some girls just have "flirty" personalities? Some girls will be more than flirty and push to the point of even saying explicitly that they want to have sex and then revoke their statement completely when they hear or sense this statement made the guy excited. Despite what conventional pickup theory suggest (that she's looking for an stoic unmovable alpha.) I think this kind of girl assumes this perception of high value is dependent on a guy being either disinterested, avoidant, or even completely out of reach, (taken, celebrity, sports sta…	/r/seduction	28/04/19 10:56 AM
1	When a Girl says she has a boyfriend... I will usually take her word for it and tread lightly (not too lightly.) I'll usually say "hang out as friends" rather than "go on a date," if I'm looking to see her again. In any case your intentions would be much too obvious (for day time game) if you just decided that the entire reason you went up to talk to her is because you wanna date her, even if it seems obvious enough to you and to other guys, it won't be so obvious to her. The thing is you just have to keep going and see where the inte…	/r/seduction	04/04/19 03:45 PM
2	SHE will tell you how to sleep with her! Todd is always so pragmatic and detailed about his advice.	/r/seduction	07/01/19 05:34 PM
1	Is not giving a fuck attractive? Some women would respond really well to that. Some women could tolerate it in doses. Some women wouldn't respond well to it at all.	/r/seduction	05/01/19 03:50 AM
2	What do you do when you still miss someone years after seperation? What's something you don't miss? Something you feel you've been freed of. Sometimes it really isn't about suppression as much as it is about having a clear and comprehensive perspective. Don't try to rationalize things, just have perspective. If you're not emotionally enraptured with another person and you find yourself in a triggered pattern of behavior where you're longing for it in the moment. Know that this is what's happening. Understand that not every time you're hunger are you actually st…	/r/seduction	04/01/19 04:54 PM
6	how to game shy/introverted girls? She's probably not introverted, she's probably just a negative person.	/r/seduction	25/12/18 09:09 AM
2	[F28] SHY GUYS: How do I tell a potential (but extremely shy) guy that I'm in an open marriage and want to play, without scaring him away? A few thing I will caution you on is that he might feel more inclined to develop an interest in a relationship (unless that's what you're looking for.) Also, I would refrain from telling him too soon that you're in an open relationship and looking. Guy or girl, some people might feel uncomfortable being used as other people's fetish. Also look out for your own feelings, least you be the one who would end up being seduced and conflicted.	/r/seduction	23/12/18 05:15 PM
3	[F28] SHY GUYS: How do I tell a potential (but extremely shy) guy that I'm in an open marriage and want to play, without scaring him away? Don't let us rain on your parade lol. What I will say is that men and women aren't all that different in terms of their desire for connections. If you maintain a baseline of an interaction that becomes a habit, then your foot is in the door. If you feel like he's avoiding you it means eagerness is written all over your face and body language, and he's reacting defensively and misstrusting your intentions. You need to have him think he's winning you over. This is pretty much what pick up artistry…	/r/seduction	23/12/18 04:45 PM
124	[F28] SHY GUYS: How do I tell a potential (but extremely shy) guy that I'm in an open marriage and want to play, without scaring him away? As a former shy guy, I probably wouldn't have gone for it had the invitation been open. Not necessarily for moral reasons, but really because it would have smelled like trouble to me, trouble not worth having. However, you never know, just play it cool, but not cold.	/r/seduction	23/12/18 05:18 AM
2	Women are uncomfortable around me, what do I do? Creepiness stems from lack of confidence, the need for validation, and famine mentality. That you're not good enough, that you need other people's approval to be good enough, and that you need to desperately preserve any small approval that you do have. How women would typically see it is seemingly cruel and simplified, but completely understandable. Spineless, needy, controlling. How do you manage this? For one you need to find your selfworth something that gives access to power and meaning, so…	/r/seduction	11/11/18 06:48 PM
2	How do you open with a woman you've known for YEARS, but you two have rarely spoken? Is there a setting where it would be natural to engage with her at least on a weekly basis? (i.e, work in the same building, or similar lunch hours.) Always keep things with a general mood of, "we just so happen to encounter each other." If not, I wouldn't invest too much thought. Much of successful seduction is being engaged with your immediate surroundings. You start targeting from a far and your mindset gets of wack because you can't gauge and interact with the girl's vibe. So you start assum…	/r/seduction	08/11/18 03:11 PM
1	Female lurker insight to cold approached and catcalling. I think it's a shame that you feel men and women shouldn't interact at all. What ever experience (or lack there of) that you've had with men in the past, it's very unfortunate and you have my empathy. Many men on here also have a pretty negative opinion about women. A great deal of it is usually unfounded or comes out of a result of being interested in a particular type of female that happens to be a psycho or a person that wants to do harm, or there's others that's just bad luck. I hope one day…	/r/seduction	22/09/18 03:03 PM
–	Guys who have a crush on your GF and your GF tells you... How to react? Is it a test? The next time she brings it up just tell her "yeah thats pretty awkward I'm not gonna lie." If she starts asking a bunch of questions like "why is that awkward, what do you mean, I don't see what you mean?" Just be like, "that's just how I feel." Dont go into detail or try logic like, "what if I was the one talking to a girl." For sure DON'T do that. If she tries to tease you for being jealous, like "haha you're jealous." Dont smile, Don't frown, Dont be light hearted, dont be angry. In the most…	/r/seduction	01/09/18 09:11 PM
-2	Getting a shy guy to make a move Years and years ago I was a shy boy in my teenage years. I was talking to a girl who I had no idea whether it was ok to initiate a kiss or anything. Over time this girl would give me prolonged hugs, hold my hand, kiss my cheek. Yet, I would STILL assume that this is just something she does to friends. I was just so deathly afraid of doing something that would freak her out or make me feel like a creep over stepping other people's boundaries. Imagine that, she was giving me every sign that she li…	/r/seduction	01/09/18 03:34 PM
1	Tips on how to seduce guys? Just be open to being seduced? That's as far as my range of perspective goes for obvious reasons. Talk to the folks in r/twoxchromosome hopefully there's female who field tests her strategies to getting guys, maybe? Here, you'll likely be met with derision and apathy, unfortunately. Oh also there is a female pick up artist I've heard of called Arden Leigh see where that rabbit hole takes you.	/r/seduction	27/08/18 10:03 AM
5	Great sex with previous casual partners, can't stay erect with gf (a 10) This is a question better suited for r/sex	/r/seduction	22/08/18 12:13 PM
4	How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned me Just don't see her. Reasons? "just cuz" you don't need to answer to anyone. YOU are as guilty of this unhealthy dynamic as she is. And it is unhealthy, this girl is castrating you socially to benefit her frail and parasitic self esteem. The more passive and accepting you are of that, the less respect you and her and others will have of you. Don't eject out of this in anger, eject out in confidence. I guarantee you that she'll cry, bitch, and whine. But dont you move to extend your hand to this f…	/r/seduction	18/08/18 04:26 PM
1	Super confused with this girl... She worth keeping around ? This is very safe and courteous move. Which will lead to a lovely platonic friendship. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.	/r/seduction	16/08/18 02:55 PM
9	Girls who show too much interest. I realized I skipped that part, my bad. I did lose interest, but I still hung on just out of courtesy and curiosity. I think this mechanism is just to steer you away from less that what you think you deserve. I think it's ego related, instead of being an actually useful mechanism. Sometimes really attractive girls might be attracted to you for some reason that you can't really explain. But it's my belief that your ego delusions you into thinking that this really attractive girl is low value beca…	/r/seduction	14/08/18 03:45 PM
13	Girls who show too much interest. She might be a nymphomaniac or a sociopath. OR you just happen to said something that really stirred her in the right way. I remember this one girl I was talking to all of a sudden switched gears on me when I said, "yeah, that's right you drink that coffee, you deserve it." I said this as she took a sip of coffee (duh) after she was humble bragging about something. After that moment she got super excited anytime she was around me. Sometimes you say something that you don't even need to grind out…	/r/seduction	14/08/18 03:07 PM
1	I [18M] have been too chicken to make a move on my crush [20F] for 5 years. Officially, we're friends, but we flirt constantly and basically just trade hints that we're interested in each other every time we see each other. I want to move forward, how's my plan? It's not gonna work. I hope I'm wrong and you end up going out with this girl, and i really hope that happens for you, cause that would warm me heart and perhaps one dry leafy layer of cynicism might peel off me. But in my experience she's probably gonna say something like the ol' classic "I just see you as a friend." Which will crush you at first, but then you'll have more depth and perspective out of it. My suggestion, is option 1. you just need to break off contact with this girl, because you…	/r/seduction	11/08/18 06:42 AM
–	Why Being Seen As A Player Will Help You Attract More Girls This is absolutely true if you keep a "well oiled" social circle. Any girl that gets introduced into the circle from any angle will get to hear things about you and will get more and more intrigued.	/r/seduction	10/02/18 12:58 AM
2	The girl I like (20) must think I'm (20) a fuckboy (I'm not) Don't worry about, if she brings it up, just be honest and unashamed about it. The biggest no-no is assuming she has a negative opinion of you and that your word are actively geared towards qualify yourself as not-fuckboy, that makes you seem desperate to be liked. Let her think you're a fuckboy, that's her mistake not yours. Just let time and charisma grow you out of that stigma. Seeming like you care too much of what other people think of you, gives people and unconscious license to judge you.…	/r/seduction	18/12/17 12:19 PM
1	What would you consider a telltale sign that a girl isn’t mature? Not having an opinion on anything and talking about her friends a LOT. Also qualifying herself saying how her older friends consider her a peer.	/r/seduction	13/12/17 05:35 PM
1	Cuddling -> friendzoned -> awkward -> cuddling again please help You're not a catch in her eyes. You're a stuffed toy, a crutch to heighten her self esteem. She has her eye on someone else and is trying to be available to that guy. However in order to feel on par with that guy she has to have a heightened sense of self so she doesn't feel needy with that guy. You're not gonna get her, I know that's a rough thing to say, but you have every sign of a needy dude. Distance yourself, flush out your neediness. Also stop cuddling.	/r/seduction	06/12/17 12:30 PM
8	Alot of girls are attracted to me and flirt with me but idk what to do Learn to think something and say it immediately. The only thing you're missing is improvisational skills. Listen to comedian podcasts get a feel for how they get honest about a topic and explain it from different angles. And then listen to how they move the conversation along by being reminded by something that was said by someone else or themselves. Learn also to retain attention for a looong time, listening to audio books helped me alot in this respect, by visualizing in my head as quickly as …	/r/seduction	25/11/17 12:53 PM
14	I frequently have girls excited to meet with me in person, then the couple days off before we meet up for our scheduled date they seem to get bored and cancel on me. You can also respond with pics and selfies of stuff you're doing or where you're hanging out. Don't try to stop the interaction from being cold, usually girls are anticipating that and/or you to freak out on her. Also if you sense a flake, like she's trying to set up a date next year, just be like "That day is kinda hard, im real sorry (what's her face.)" So she's gonna try to end it on her terms by keeping the interaction going, cuz she senses she's getting flaked. Also if she stops interacting…	/r/seduction	20/11/17 01:05 AM
36	I frequently have girls excited to meet with me in person, then the couple days off before we meet up for our scheduled date they seem to get bored and cancel on me. Elevate emotions. Think of times where you have been with a friend and this friend wants to hang out again. You might mean it when you tell this friend, "sure". However, when the day comes, it feels like a chore to commit to. This friend just doesn't really make that much of an impression. You find yourself constantly trying to keep conversations going, and it feels like your being dragged down sometimes even when there's good moments. Girls (especially highly attractive or hyper social girls) f…	/r/seduction	19/11/17 11:10 PM
2	I feel so bad, my good friend just ”stole” my crush People here are fairly callous, for good reason. It's through these experiences that you discipline your emotions to not let yourself be caught up in fantasies. However, people seem to forget they most likely have been in this situation before. Like a body builder calling a scrawny 15 year old, a skinny wimp. Everyone has their journey to undergo as far as seduction goes. Get some distance and gain insight from a bigger picture.	/r/seduction	11/11/17 05:49 PM