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| 3 | Hooked up with 30 different women since August 2020 got my 31st tonight! AMALol women don’t prefer a high body count, trust me on that one. They do, however, feel much more comfortable with a guy who is comfortable with sex and doesn’t treat it like a big deal. Subtle, but necessary, distinction. It’s 100% the mindset. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 06:13 PM |
| 3 | How do I start approaching?You got me curious now. What things did the academics get right and what did they get wrong? | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 07:11 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]That they figured it out long enough ago that they have a harder time relating to guys who struggle than to guys who don’t | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 04:48 AM |
| 1 | How do I get past my looks?I actually agree with this. Being able to not act like a fool in front of a pretty girl puts you in a minority, and automatically puts you in a smaller pool. The only guys that can get away with acting stupid are the rare ones she thinks are out of her league. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 02:09 AM |
| 1 | What Are Common Sh*t Tests Women Will Do To Men?Stop worrying about shit tests. Figuring out what is or isn’t a shit test is not worth getting into a mindset that has you worrying about it. If she does something that bugs you, tease her about it. If it crosses a line, say something. If she doesn’t respect that, next her. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | a girl/my best freind said im being to clingy and she wants me to leave her alone after i told her how i feelWalk away. Don’t pursue at all. She’s not into you now. Start hitting the gym hard and consistently now, see noticeable results by the end of summer vacation. Get a new look (clothes, hairdo) during summer and focus on talking up other girls asap. Will make you look like a different person by the end of it. Say hi casually when you pass by her after summer break, and if she wants to chat, let her. Don’t dredge up past feelings, just try to keep it light. She may not want to talk, which probably … | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 03:49 PM |
| 51 | I’ve been having a lot of sex lately.I’ve been hitting the gym seriously (as in competed in amateur strength sports) for close to a decade, and am mixing in a shit ton of cardio and other functional/agility stuff. Here’s my thoughts on how to keep motivated in the gym: -Gym is cheap therapy. Let your negative emotions out on the weights. Schedule training time into your schedule as if it were a therapy session. When you start to realize the benefits that training carries over into other aspects of your life, it becomes very worth i… | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Don’t do those things because they get you laid, do them because they improve your life. Honestly, you can still get laid without any of those things if you’re the most fun, interesting guy in the room | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 04:47 AM |
| 2 | The Main Reasons of Why You're still single or NOT good with the ladies - 3 Brutally Honest Truths.People in the comments are treating this as a list of absolutes. That’s missing the point. Success, appearance, and charisma are all very high yield things to focus on. Not just for women, but because they improve your life. Up to a point, at least. We all have tons of anecdotal evidence to point to the contrary, but there’s no individual trait that is required by every single woman. Yeah, this is the same generic life advice that you see every second post. But it’s also reposted so often for a … | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 12:38 AM |
| 15 | (Old FR) The time a girl LITERALLY chased after me for my number (and what I did)Well, I think that depends. Having a mutual bantering/teasing vibe seems to be considered “negging” by some, but is non-destructive and builds rapport. Actively trying to crush self esteem (ie traditional negging), not so much. Peacocking also works, but you don’t need to (and probably shouldn’t) do the ridiculous shit endorsed by early PUAs. Obviously lifting and looking good and all that crap help. YMMV, but I don’t like canned routines. Have a few good personal stories that you can pull out i… | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Bodyweight Blowup: Let's get it!I’ve been using the weighted backpack approach. Also really useful for rucking. Been mixing a lot of one-handed push-ups with very high rep diamond push-ups. Legs have realistically kinda gone to shit for me, but RFESS, paused goblet squats, step ups with weighted back pack are reasonable home options. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/21 12:31 PM |
| 0 | 2019-2020 A Year in ReviewYeah, there are shit tons of girls into being choked like crazy. But becoming that statistic who ends up with an accidental dead girl in your bed makes for a shitty situation for everyone involved. How about a novel fucking idea: if you’re just interested in getting laid, focus on fucking fun, sane girls. A few less notches on your bedpost is well worth not having to deal with crazy. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/20 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Hi! My name is Bill. I just found this sub and feel that I have some information to offerNo, he thinks he needs to be everyone’s type. That attitude signals insecurity to women. Being low status is a mindset, not a destination. Being awkward and not masculine is not necessarily a major hindrance. I’m guilty of both quite often. The moment you gain the confidence to be able to say “no” to an attractive woman is the beginning of having a lot more hotties wanting to be a part of your life. | /r/seduction | 16/11/20 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Hi! My name is Bill. I just found this sub and feel that I have some information to offerIf almost everyone is your type, that’s exactly why you’re no one’s. | /r/seduction | 16/11/20 03:57 AM |
| 4 | Sex on the First Date: My ApproachHaving a good relationship with your FWBs also means less drama. Hell, they might even hook you up with other girls in the future. And there’s no greater aphrodisiac than preselection from a hot girl. Being a douche only fucks you over. | /r/seduction | 10/10/20 08:03 AM |
| 3 | Sex on the First Date: My ApproachSee, maybe it’s a fine balance to walk, but what I’m advocating is moreso being a classy fuckboy. You’re not some kind of degenerate “noodz plz” guy (ie beyond redemption), but still primarily a fun guy. All of my LTRs thus far have been sex on first on the first or second date. They all thought I was a bit of a fuckboy at first, but not bad enough not to give me a chance if I wanted to pursue it. | /r/seduction | 10/10/20 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill truths written 2400 years ago in philosophy dialogue Lysis by Plato: Do not put woman on a pedastalI don’t think it’s about them necessarily being crazy smart. Human nature doesn’t change, the things we choose to make us bury our heads in the sand do. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/20 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Clingy or Dominant?If she’s affectionate in person and you’ve had sex multiple times, you’re probably over analyzing. She might just be a low maintenance texter. | /r/seduction | 30/09/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Is getting texts and initiation from women considered "abundance"?Ah you fucker with your “ kill em with kindness” approach. Love it. Peace and love my dude | /r/seduction | 30/09/20 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Is getting texts and initiation from women considered "abundance"?Dude... bragging about peaking in college is a bad look | /r/seduction | 30/09/20 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Is getting texts and initiation from women considered "abundance"?Spoken like the kind of guy who would pick destroying everyone in beer league sports repeatedly, but is too chickenshit to try competing at a higher level | /r/seduction | 29/09/20 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Is getting texts and initiation from women considered "abundance"?Abundance is a mindset of quiet confidence, not a thing. All it means is that you’re not worried about where/when your next lay is coming from because you’re confident that you can get it easily enough. You won’t be the type to flip out over a rejection because your ego isn’t dependent on some random’s approval. It has nothing to do with your current sex life. A secure, capable seducer who is getting back into the game after a break will still be able to reap the benefits of abundance mentality,… | /r/seduction | 29/09/20 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Can I get some advice on how to handle being flustered? (20M)Pause, take a breath, then call yourself out. You could say something along the lines of “well shit, that was a brain fart! Let’s try that again”. It really doesn’t matter what you say, as long as you deliver your follow up with confidence. | /r/seduction | 29/09/20 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Why Being “Funny” Is Killing Your Attraction [Dancing Monkey Syndrome]Personally, I prefer to go from jokes to introducing a teasing/flirtatious element before transitioning to genuine interaction. After a bit of flirting, I’ll usually say “So tell me, ...” in a playful but half serious way, or something like that, to transition into a more genuine interaction. I find it makes for a more natural flow to wedge sexual between playful and genuine, than if I abruptly change gears. It’s also nice to establish sexual interest early. But bottom line is, do whatever works… | /r/seduction | 27/09/20 07:59 AM |
| 3 | If you blame single mothers for picking poor men to hook up with, you should also blame men who get left or "divorce raped" for also picking poor choices for marriage.Fair. We should be judging people on a case-by-case basis, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Tinder - Should there be a sexual spark?100% overthinking. From what you’re saying here, impression is that she is a little shy about sex and has started thinking of you as more of a potential boyfriend than casual sex partner. Backpedaling on the sexual stuff is most likely because she’s worried about coming off as slutty for being too sexual off the bat. Honestly though, however the vibe on your date went is the bottom line, and will supersede any convo on your phones. If it’s ambiguous, the only thing you can do is ask her on anoth… | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Saved by the bellSure, he doesn’t get to decide this, but society does. Men with families have greater incentive to be productive and cooperate with society. Unattached men have their uses, but are potentially a greater liability. | /r/seduction | 15/07/20 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Does height matter?Yep | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 05:26 AM |
| 2 | Does height matter?People’s filters don’t always work in such an a binary way, though. I’ve had several women spontaneously confess attraction, while also saying that they feel conflicted because they’re not into my race. I’m not exactly tall, either. Overall looks and game are way more important. They’re also much more in your control. | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys still get "butterflies" when with women?Food poisoning’s a bitch. | /r/seduction | 01/07/20 04:29 AM |
| 1 | An intermediate seducer's info dump after a long four year journeyWhat you’re describing sounds horribly inauthentic and manipulative. I can’t imagine something needier than telling girls what they want to hear because you’re worried they might not like you if you’re genuine. | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 05:57 PM |
| 2 | How are you supposed to treat a FWB?Spoken like a scarcity mindset. | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 04:55 PM |
| 1 | "If it happens it happens"I don’t know, I’m in monk mode now, and I’m pretty fucking stoked about how I’ve been living. It’s important that distinction be drawn in terms of why guys go there, and whether it represents growth or stagnation. Actually entering by choice usually seems to accompany a transition from a “can I” mindset to a “should I” mindset when it comes to seduction. Would I be correct in guessing that your experiences in monk mode were something that allowed you to find/recognize when you did have a legit p… | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 04:49 PM |
| 1 | I notice bars/clubs/parties/hobbies/friends of friends have been completely replaced by internet dating, and I think that's dangerous.Because demeaning yourself by playing the dancing monkey to hold a girl’s attention at bars is a much better option? It’s just not my cup of tea, but I don’t hate on it. If you’re very attractive, and have other good superficial qualities which are easily displayed, online is probably a good method for you. If you have a wide social circle and good conversational skills, you’ll have a leg up in social circle game. There are common things that women find attractive regardless of how you meet, and… | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Examine your motivesThis post resonated with me more than most of the stuff here. If you’re interested in sharing experiences around dealing with this, feel free to PM me. | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 08:11 AM |
| 1 | How soon do you text/call/whatever after a first date - heard some opinions that defy conventional PUA wisdomWho fucking cares. People who are too needy use rules like this to make them seem less needy. If you had a good vibe, and aren’t weird and needy, you can text them the same night. Losers play games. | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 07:56 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with the insecurity that you're probably just one of the many guys she is texting/going out with?Who fucking cares. You’re going to deal with that insecurity no matter who you going out with, and in the age of Tinder, it could be any number of guys. If you’re confident that you’re a person of value with options, then you probably aren’t going waste much time worrying about having to “compete” with other dudes. If you don’t believe you’re someone of value, it’s time to start thinking about what a person who is a person of value is like and working towards that methodically and consistently. | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Semi failure at Netflix and chillEven in general. a casual hand on thigh after building some flirtation and comfort is a totally underrated move. It’ll tell you very quickly whether she’s into you or not without being too aggressive/creepy. | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Competing with guys throwing money at a girl?The answer is to stop competing. Every woman has different priorities, and there are a ton of different factors that can make you more or less attractive: looks, charm, height, confidence, social status, being interesting, etc. You succeed by mastering your strengths and trying not to fuck up too badly on your weaknesses. I’m a good-looking guy with an “attractive” career and I’m a pretty fun guy with a lot of wild stories and interesting hobbies. I like to let women chase a bit more and gradual… | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 07:25 AM |
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