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myfavoritethrowaway9/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 09:25 PM
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Ask Red Pillmyfavoritethrowaway9/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 08:17 PM
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If you truly cared about him, you wouldn't be so quick to move on. He hasn't even gone yet, and you're already looking for greener pastures, pining for what your friends have. Yet again, what you're saying here is "I have perceived from two sentences that you do not care about him and also that he hasn't left yet" etc etc insert more assumptions here. It's comical how far off you are. Not that I expect you to know, but that's exactly why I brushed it off early with everyone else. He is not relev…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/13 12:23 AM
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Sure, everybody wants to be loved and love. Ain't that the truth. it sounds like "do everything my way or it's not equal." Yeah that doesn't sound very equal to me either.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/13 12:01 AM
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I think in long term relationships it's hard to really categorize the sex, it usually develops into something specific for the couple. Agreed. If you don't want to bear my children, I don't want you as a wife. Fair enough. Adoption isn't for everyone. But what about in my case of using a surrogate? I want to freeze my eggs so that I could have a child via surrogate later on, using my husband or partner's sperm of course. I don't even understand what "equal relationship" means. Not kidding, no sn…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 11:38 PM
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You can presume to know how I feel about my boyfriend, it's your choice. The only person who truly knows is me. Our relationship is extremely complicated and not relevant at all. You have no idea how I feel about losing him. You don't know if it's really "meh" or if I've cried myself to sleep the last 8 nights in a row. Or you can accept that maybe your way of doing things isn't the right way, and make an attempt to learn from us. Uhh I'm pretty sure that's why I'm here.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 11:33 PM
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Best answer yet, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 11:30 PM
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Men and women can't be equal, any more than apples and oranges can be. See I think we just fundamentally disagree. But I am interested, why can men and women not be equal? Just because of biological differences? TRP ideology claims to be the most NATURAL and truthful way to have a relationship. I can understand that. I don't necessarily agree, but I understand. Just look at the divorce rate, and compare it to your grandparent's generation. Yeah my grandparents are a terrible example. They've bee…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 11:29 PM
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Where is he going to get money from while he is raising kids as a stay at home dad? If he's a stay-at-home dad he's entitled to what I make as much as I am. He wouldn't have to ask for an allowance, he would use his credit card whenever he needs/wants something, just like a lot of stay-at-home moms do. You're also turned on because they roll around with their hot young girlfriends - if he's some stay at home dad, he ain't gonna have female friends fawning over him, validating your choice of mate…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 11:14 PM
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"Power couple" simply holds no interest to me, at all. I suspect many men are similar. Fair enough. There are tons of them in my city, and literally hundreds just where I live, but to each his own. Sexually dominant women seem to be a small minority, the outliers. I'm not interested in a sexually dominant woman, at least not for marriage. Might be fun for a fling though. Try it, it can be lots of fun lol I wouldn't be interested in a woman who doesn't want children, other than maybe some sex. Ce…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 10:57 PM
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i just found a man who is 1000 times more dominant than me instead of being forced to opt for a lower dominance male and be frustrated. by submitting naturally to him i have been able to feel feminine and yielding for the first time in my life and its been amazing This is fascinating to me. Very interesting, thanks for sharing. by "cherished as a woman", i mean cherished for female attributes as opposed to be respected for masculine ones. women evolved the attributes of sweetness, "prettiness", …
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 10:54 PM
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True. I wonder though, had I come along first, would they still? Who knows.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 10:51 PM
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So you essentially want everything? I won't point out the contradictions in what you just wrote there; you're looking for a unicorn. I've seen this mentioned a few times and yeah it appears that's what I'm looking for. Status. Someone else said this too, so I'm curious. Where does status come from if not from wealth? What are the characteristics of "status"? A girl who has only had sex within the boundaries of 10 "committed relationships" is no better than a girl who's had 10 ONS or FWBs. 3, and…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 10:51 PM
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Well, would he still be an alpha male? See I'm not sure, that's what I've been asking most people on here. I think yes, but mostly everyone here thinks no. I haven't gotten a really good answer on why that is though. He wouldn't have control over his own life or his relationships, he would be subject to you. How does staying at home and raising children diminish control over relationships? Or life for that matter? Does that mean women who stay at home do not have control over those things? Is it…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 10:47 PM
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you appear to only value women insomuch as they resemble men I see what you're saying, but I think for me I just value people in general for certain traits. Child rearing, success, wealth, and attractiveness are all things I value in anyone, regardless of gender.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 10:44 PM
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That's fair. Being financially and career successful is too important to me that I feel like if it means choosing between an alpha dude and my career, I'm going to be just fine with a beta. High value men are going to be more attracted to feminine women. But how do you define high value men? The most valuable traits to me are physical attractiveness and a desire to be successful/have money. That doesn't mean he needs to actually make the money, he just needs to be cool with us having a lot. In m…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 10:40 PM
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Fair enough, I hope it makes you happy.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 10:32 PM
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looking for someone more "ambitious." This is true, but can he not still have "beta" qualities, i.e. staying at home with kids? Our idea of an apha-male is a guy with confidence that projects an aura of social and physical dominance. No no that, that's what I want! so most of the males in your peer group haven't really had the time to develop into proper men yet. What about older males? I tend to date outside my age group. You will never, ever, land a relationship with the kind of guy you're see…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 10:31 PM
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I think there are people out there that have respect for stay-at-home dads. My uncle is a good example, my aunt respects the hell out of him. She pulls in 8 figures but has no hesitation telling everyone his job is harder.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 10:26 PM
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so then what do you have to offer to man, other than great genes The same thing I have to offer him: an attractive, successful, wealthy partner to raise children with, grow with, travel with, enjoy nice things with, etc. see this small graph i made: Will you explain the graph? the only plus is knowing how to cook. the rest are irrelevant. Aw come on sailing is fun lol undefined Apparently I misunderstood "feminine" i meant it as my style (long hair, high heels, dresses, jewelry) why does it matt…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 10:24 PM
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I guess I misunderstood the definition of "feminine." I was taking it to mean "likes girly things" as in style, i.e. I love dresses, high heels, mani/pedis, etc. Again, nothing inherently wrong with being a serial monogamist. However, it's not ideal if you're trying to maximize what you get for your peak SMV. What is SMV? How do you maximize it?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 10:15 PM
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but I'm confused why you would be drawn to the RP ideals at all I wouldn't say I'm drawn to them, more like fascinated and curious by them. You even say all the alphas you have ever met were awful people, so why do you think you want one? Good question. Part of me says "I just know" but the other part says that I want someone like me. I don't think I want a submissive partner, I want a partner-in-crime so to speak. I want someone on my level. A power couple. It doesn't sound like you could ever …
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 10:12 PM
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i think the red pill philosophy is more about the vast majority of males and females, not outliers like you are describing. I think, this is exactly the answer I came here for. I was under the impression that this stuff applies to everyone, so I've been searching for ways in which it's applicable to me. I've found a few places, but overall I just don't see it. I think I understand now. Thank you. If you can be attracted to a man who stays home while you earn, and you can treat him the way he nee…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 10:06 PM
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What would the issues be, you think? I figure dominance issues, ie who gets to make final decisions. Fair enough, by the end of my original post I kind of figured this was the case. Both, but bdsm mostly, yes. Good to know. Yeah tbh I'm having a hard time not getting a "women are inferior" vibe. If it is based on mutual respect and value, then why don't you think the roles could be reversed? Unless I'm totally missing that traditional gender roles is like a tenet of this ideology. "Don't opt for…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/13 09:57 PM
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The same thing that's in it for me: an attractive, wealthy, successful partner to raise children with, travel with, enjoy nice things with, etc.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 09:27 PM
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Yeah pretty much actually. I want to be in a power couple. That's exactly what those power couples are: one isn't much or at all more successful, wealthy, or attractive than the other, they both are, and it's awesome.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 09:24 PM
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Fair enough. Thanks for the answer, that's what I was looking for. And luckily I'll always be my own boss, but I do see what you're saying. Do you think alpha men can be stay-at-home dads?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 09:15 PM
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I didn't know that existed, thanks, that would make more sense.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 08:53 PM
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There's no superiority to it, it has everything to do with my health and literally nothing else. If STDs didn't exist, neither would my rule.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 08:49 PM
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Better than who? My boyfriend? Depends on how you define it but if we're talking about patience or love, then he's actually much better than me. for what purpose i have no clue. At least it's an honest answer.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 08:47 PM
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That's why I want to freeze my eggs soon.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 08:46 PM
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status Maybe I'm missing something, where does "status" come from? If not from wealth, then what? you're envious of the women around you who are 1) in a relationship with affluent/alpha men and 2) content with their lives. Yes. you want to marry up; which means you want to marry a man who has a more successful career than you. Well... no. Only because if his career is more successful than mine, it will make more sense that I should quit my job and be the stay-at-home parent. And I don't want to.…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 08:45 PM
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How is getting called out misogyny? And that's just fine, you don't have to believe any of it if you don't want, just downvote and move on, I don't care. But the answers I do get I'm taking seriously, because everything I posted is true.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 08:43 PM
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Because my bf and I have an agreement that we're breaking up when he gets a job and moves out of the country. I can't move because of work, so that's that. So no, he's not what I want and he knows it. Although I would like to meet someone like him, as he's a great person. That's why power couples are on my mind. I want basically my boyfriend, but with more... ambition.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 08:41 PM
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Fair enough. The purpose is to get answers to those questions. I don't know any RP in real life, so I thought I'd ask here. Power couples is something that's been on my mind a lot lately, and I'm curious as to how it fits in here. Is it even possible? And even though I don't think I need a man for anything at all, including as a babysitter, I do want a man for all those reasons I mentioned in my post. A stay-at-home dad is not a babysitter, he's a full-time educator and role model for his kids. …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 08:39 PM
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Nope, just answers/clarifications.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 08:29 PM
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So you're saying it is then? That's fine if it is, but I read a post that said it wasn't. If it isn't, I'm actually interested in how that's justified.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 08:29 PM
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