myfriendm Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	My husband is oversharing and "mansplaining" things about having a baby to our female friends Would it be possible to reframe your wishes to him? For example, “We went through so much together with breastfeeding, I just feel better if we can just keep all of that just between the two of us.” This reinforces his sense of closeness to you and emphasizes your trust and love for him.	/r/RedPillWives	05/03/21 10:35 PM
13	Annoyed about husband's toilet time I would honestly be concerned about sitting on a toilet for 2 hours-how can he even feel his legs? Also, never carry resentment. It's absolute poison. Take up issues quickly while still seeking to bring up the issue and initiate a discussion at the appropriate time. He is still your husband and working all day and that is his contribution to the family. He needs to have some time to himself too. That said, I believe the best course of action is to have a conversation where you communicate your f…	/r/RedPillWives	19/02/21 03:42 PM
5	Getting annoyed with husband? I think it's actually a chance for some introspection. Your perception of the behavior as immature, embarrassing or annoying is worth looking at from all sides. Why does he do that, and why do you react the way you do? Remember, all behavior is motivated by reward. So the question here is what that reward is. Irritation or annoyance tend to be emotions that grow out of resentment and lack of communication. The fact that you have to leave the room and do deep breathing suggests that there is some…	/r/RedPillWives	12/07/20 10:01 PM
1	As a guy reading women's Reddit, the amount of posts pertaining to sexual harassment/assault surprises me. Do women actually get harassed this often? The biggest problem is quantifying harassment. Not every woman is the same here. One might consider a PM for nudes harassment, another might just laugh it off. I tend to think that inexperienced women and women who didn’t grow up with brothers or have many male friendships might have a higher potential for labeling things as harassment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/19 02:33 PM
1	Not sure how to word this Sounds very smart!	/r/RedPillWives	19/09/19 11:40 AM
9	Not sure how to word this Meeting someone online isn’t a huge issue as long as you meet quickly. Having a months long online relationship is a recipe for disaster. When you don’t meet you start idealizing this person that becomes progressively less grounded in reality. You start projecting imaginary qualities onto them and risk falling in love with a whole persona you’ve conjured up. Can you tell I’m speaking from experience? lol	/r/RedPillWives	19/09/19 10:37 AM
5	Not sure how to word this I would never be with, much less trust a guy who talked about me like that to his friends. It shows no respect and certainly doesn’t reflect a desire to have a serious relationship. I’m really sorry-you’ve clearly invested something here, but he is just not worth it. This relationship isn’t going to last, and the sooner you walk away, the better.	/r/RedPillWives	19/09/19 10:33 AM
1	Ladies, what physical features do you find attractive on men and in your opinion who are the hottest male celebrities? Yup, another vote for Adam Driver. Also recently discovered Max Minghella. It’s the broody, dark and handsome, but also obtuse quality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 07:59 PM
1	His place is messy and disorganized. I crave organization. How do I navigate this issue? This is just my personal opinion, but if you don’t live there I don’t know how you can place any expectations on how he should keep his home. His space is his own to keep however he sees fit. It’s not a problem for him, it’s a problem for you. If he has said he knows he should keep it clean, and he tries, I don’t understand why you wouldn’t just clean it up anyway as a supportive gesture. It doesn’t sound like you are describing squalor, but rather a messy and cluttered living space, so clearly …	/r/RedPillWomen	16/09/19 06:37 PM
2	Am I in an abusive relationship? I feel like you are looking for us to confirm and give you justification for your feelings. You are hurting so much. This is all the justification you need to leave.	/r/MensRights	18/11/16 01:24 PM
4	Australian bank ANZs new ad. Pushing the wage gap myth on children I find this so incredibly deeply disturbing I hardly know what to do with myself. This is brainwashing, and even more concerning is the fact they are children. So when they grow up, they are all indoctrinated with feminism. Terrifying.	/r/MensRights	10/03/16 03:44 PM
10	Robert downey Jr calls feminism 'makebelieve' after he talks about his manhood knob	/r/MensRights	14/02/16 09:47 PM