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| 7 | The hard naked truth in a nutshellThe real hard truth is that if fathers could opt out of child support at will, the state would have to pick up that tab in the form of child welfare and that would cost billions. So it's either them or the taxpayers. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 26/01/17 03:30 AM |
| 3 | The hard naked truth in a nutshell/r/MensRightsButEdgy | /r/PussyPassDenied | 26/01/17 03:27 AM |
| 0 | A true guide for avoiding red pill men:Nice debate guys. This sub sure is interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/15 04:40 PM |
| 3 | [Meta] Is there a lack of blue pill voices in this sub?Uh huh. I've said it before, the premise of this subreddit is entirely flawed. Why bother even discussing TBP? It should be DebateARedpiller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/15 01:20 AM |
| 1 | [Meta] Is there a lack of blue pill voices in this sub?I don't really care about TBP's reputation lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/15 01:12 AM |
| 2 | [Meta] Is there a lack of blue pill voices in this sub?I doubt many people take 4chan seriously, but a lot of people spend inordinate amounts of time there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/15 12:41 AM |
| 0 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalsDuluth model Well, it was developed in 1981. And do you think male victims of domestic violence were considered before that? I just can't get my head around the argument that feminism hurts male victims, when it was certainly the case that they were mocked and ignored before women's lib. Or how about VAWA and male shelters (or some such bullshit with that law)? I have problems with the VAWA for my own civil liberties related reasons, but basically it's the same argument. Do you think the traditi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/15 12:14 AM |
| 0 | [Meta] Is there a lack of blue pill voices in this sub?If you say so. For the record I don't think I'll be coming back for a while, and it isn't because TRP just outwitted me so very badly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/15 12:04 AM |
| 1 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalsOh please[1] . You directly implied that only professors matter not A UNIVERSITY OFFICIAL, a fucking "diversity officer". I was offering a correction. But yes, the title of professor does hold more weight than a union officer. That doesn't mean every professor is a good one. Please stop with the no true scotsman feminist fallacies. General consensus in feminism is "men are to blame". If you say so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/15 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?I know. It's a bad decision to stay at home and not cultivate marketable skills, what can I say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?Sex is up there with food and shelter on Maslow's hierarchy of needs No it isn't. Ninja edit: and if it were, that might be a good argument for state funded prostitution, but certainly not forced prostitution, any more than it would be an argument that slave labor should be used to grow food for the poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 11:55 PM |
| 1 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalsWhat about the feminist men who just treat women like people, no different from men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 11:52 PM |
| 0 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalslaw are getting passed by the "bad" feminist that are very sexist. Such as? Either way, lots of bad law is being passed these days, and the least destructive of them have to do with gender I would say. So that's hardly a hallmark of decency anyway. Well they must be doing a bad job because a lot of sexist laws are being passed around. If they are, does that make them less good? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 11:47 PM |
| 1 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalsa mod here sure thinks it is and so do you That isn't what I said, don't put words in my mouth. Being as how academics disagree, and there are varying degrees of intelligence in academia, and as I've reiterated multiple times, there are plenty of bad professors, no I would certainly say that isn't how I feel. Pops up now and then in various subreddits. I'd be interested in seeing that, I remain skeptical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 11:45 PM |
| 4 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?I have a moral objection to paying taxes. No you don't. Don't obfuscate. Or get a job so they don't need welfare. Well that's a whole other can of worms. But an unsurprising opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 11:17 PM |
| 1 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalsThere are plenty of ignorant professors in any and every field who stand to influence students. And I know of no non gender studies related major that requires a gender studies class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 11:15 PM |
| 1 | [Meta] Is there a lack of blue pill voices in this sub?The irony is you are doing exactly what /u/alush is referring to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 11:13 PM |
| 0 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalsI'd prefer to say the "good" feminists. I must admit I am not educated enough about feminism enough to name names lol, maybe Rebecca Walker? I know who she is lmao. I suppose thoughtful feminist identifying sociology and law professors would be up there, though, although I doubt they'd exactly make the news. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 11:11 PM |
| -1 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalsAs I said elsewhere, the world is a big place, and there are lots of professors and Phds in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 10:53 PM |
| -1 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalsOy, I watched the first one. What a poorly edited, stupid waste of my time, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 10:44 PM |
| 2 | [Meta] Is there a lack of blue pill voices in this sub?You're reading TRP daily and constantly reading/posting on TBP. Obviously you care. Are you directing this to me personally? I haven't even visited either sub even after I came back from my months long hiatus today. A hiatus to which I will probably be returning after today. Anyway, tone it down, bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 10:37 PM |
| -4 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalsI wish you addressed my point instead of linking long videos I don't want to watch. I did google Jessica Valenti though. A blogger. Not very high up my metaphorical ladder, hm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 10:34 PM |
| -3 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalsIt depends on what you count as "real". Is the angry, frustrated ramblings of a teenager in election season "political science"? I suppose it is, but does it matter? Does it deserve the title? As you move "up" the ladder of intelligence, sophistication, and understanding in academia, things change. In my opinion, when applied to feminism, the further "up" you go, the more true my statement becomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?Ah lol fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?I... think /u/strongalfalfa is aware of that. He or she is admitting their contradictory beliefs and reflecting on them, there is no reason to harp on about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 10:15 PM |
| 1 | [Meta] Is there a lack of blue pill voices in this sub?Ok. For the record I wasn't arguing any differently, just giving you the clarification you asked for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 10:11 PM |
| 3 | [Meta] Is there a lack of blue pill voices in this sub?It's just sad to see it happen in a sub I once enjoyed so much... but then, I guess that sentiment has probably been uttered countless times by countless redditors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?Well, perhaps I exaggerated lol, but I don't think any element of tradition shouldn't be examined and scrutinized. Women and children first, Christmas materialism, extravagant weddings, it should all be up for examination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?I'm confused now. I wasn't arguing giving alimony so that these people can continue to stay at home. No, I mean fulfilling the dream before the divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 10:03 PM |
| 1 | [Meta] Is there a lack of blue pill voices in this sub?Hmm, like say to apply it to ethics. It's been said time and time again that TRP is amoral, but why should this be some ironcald piece of dogma? Let's run some normative frameworks through TRP and see what we come up with. I'm just spitballing here, what I'm interested to see is can TRP change. Ninja edit: either way all of this manifested from a simple misunderstanding lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 10:01 PM |
| 25 | Why does the Blue Pill hate (unfortunate) virgin guys so much?Sexism. The same old slut/stud double standard that dictates that a promiscuous woman is shameful dictates that a sexually unsuccessful man is pathetic. Guess they just weren't a good enough key. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:55 PM |
| 2 | [Meta] Is there a lack of blue pill voices in this sub?I just noticed all they have and that's pretty unfair. I've been very genuine with my arguments today I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:52 PM |
| 1 | [Meta] Is there a lack of blue pill voices in this sub?not sure what other ways a reddit sub can expand I meant red pill philosophy expanding to include more topics. As it stands trp does not need sophistication, it already has it So... TRP has not grown in the way I meant it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?Haha ok man, all is forgiven XD night bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:49 PM |
| 4 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?I think maybe my argument got muddled a bit. I'm not comparing affluent married couples to poor married couples. I'm saying there are indeed SAHPs who are in a marriage that doesn't have enough income disparity to warrant alimony, and that's not fair to them. To expand on this, there are also marriages in which the lower income partner does work and have skills, but the disparity is still great enough that alimony is awarded anyway, and that makes no sense. Anyway, I am separately saying that po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:47 PM |
| 1 | [Meta] Is there a lack of blue pill voices in this sub?Ah, then I ask again haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:43 PM |
| 2 | [Meta] Is there a lack of blue pill voices in this sub?This is very enlightening, I think you are very probably right. Sadly, there just aren't that many good places to argue on the internet. I used Omegle for a while but the arguments were infrequent and somehow hollow, every great once in a while there would be a good one with a smart opponent but even then they usually ended prematurely. Mostly it was just inarticulate trolls. I thought I could get my fix here maybe, but it just isn't the same place it used to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:42 PM |
| 1 | [Meta] Is there a lack of blue pill voices in this sub?Oh. I thought you meant like, sophisticated and expanded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:38 PM |
| 1 | [Meta] Is there a lack of blue pill voices in this sub?Lol just because this place is circlejerky doesn't mean you have to circlejerk in my thread about how circlejerky this place has gotten. That is far too meta for my tastes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?I never stated I support the appropriation of money using force and I'm not sure I do, so you're wrong. All I said was thems the brakes. Can you think of a way to enforce contracts without using force? Because I can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:36 PM |
| 1 | [Meta] Is there a lack of blue pill voices in this sub?And my point stands that this posturing is tiresome circlejerking. But you got me curious, in what ways has TRP grown? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:33 PM |
| 2 | [Meta] Is there a lack of blue pill voices in this sub?Are you being sarcastic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:31 PM |
| 1 | [Meta] Is there a lack of blue pill voices in this sub?I wasn't being sarcastic, I was being flippant, and turnabout is fair play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?That isn't what I said or what I meant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?I think I've kind of lost the train of thought in your argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:26 PM |
| 2 | [Meta] Is there a lack of blue pill voices in this sub?/u/AnnoyingSeaAnt /u/MagicGainbow And the circlejerk commences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:24 PM |
| 3 | [Meta] Is there a lack of blue pill voices in this sub?It used to be pretty balanced, with very thoughtful and articulate people of both pills :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Is it justifiable for someone to leave an otherwise good relationship because their sexual needs are not being met?Morally, leaving any relationship is justified for any reason (except the relationship you have with your children). In real life, it's far more complex, and recrimination and broken hearts are real life things. Suffice it to say, sexual incompatibility is a genuine relationship problem, it counts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:19 PM |
| 8 | Why does the Blue Pill hate (unfortunate) virgin guys so much?No I suppose not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?There was no such thing as spousal rape until very recently. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marital_rape[1] Hmm, fair enough, I hadn't thought of that. I was wrong. Do you think prohibiting spousal rape was a bad idea? Because it's ok for other people to use a body for all those other things, but no one may use a body for sex? Again, who says it is ok to use a body for those things? There are labor laws in place and it's been quite a while since the western world saw battlefield conscription. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Why does the Blue Pill hate (unfortunate) virgin guys so much?I read through it again, I really can't see where he makes mention of overt shaming by feminism or feminists. I finally got to the relevant bit in the fourth article in that blog post lol (you couldn't have done me a solid and told me?) and it seems like his umbrage is with the feminist sphere's take on "Nice Guys™" That topic, and whether or not it counts as virgin shaming, is really deserving of its own post, but suffice it to say I do not think it does. I don't have the mental fortitude to ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 09:04 PM |
| 7 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?I've got mad managerial, organizational, and handyman skills because of what I do at home, but if I were to get divorced who the hell would I use as a reference? You should look into that. Really. Do some internships or something, get something you can use as a reference. So because someone says "I'm poor and had to work during my marriage and having a family you should have to suffer as I did to be fair" Then we should let all people have to do this? In the interest of "fairness". Basically, ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 08:51 PM |
| -3 | Why does the Blue Pill hate (unfortunate) virgin guys so much?Maybe so. But that doesn't really give red pillers any passes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?It's only recently, mostly courtesy of western culture in the last fifty to a hundred years, that a woman had fiat over her own body. That's pretty revisionist. Rape was not ok a hundred years ago in many places lol. It's ok to work me to death to support the system or to go catch arrows with my face to defend it, but a vagina is sacred? No, who said it was? Are you arguing that rape should be ok? Were those ancestors right all along? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 08:47 PM |
| -4 | Why does the Blue Pill hate (unfortunate) virgin guys so much?I did. And I sympathize with the guy even if I disagree with him on some things. But your point was that virgin shaming is "very feminist", which one bloggers catty retort does not demonstrate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Why does the Blue Pill hate (unfortunate) virgin guys so much?The whole "oh God I am so sorry that you feel that way" sounds incredibly condescending when you've heard it a tad too often. But that isn't what happened here Apart from that "I am so sorry that this happened to you" plays in a similar ballpark as "someday someone will come along and love you for who you are" or "it's not you, it's me" and other feel good-weasel phrases. Are there any cases at all in which non-pragmatic sympathy is appropriate? /u/cherryblue12 didn't even couch a rebuttal in hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 08:42 PM |
| -5 | Why does the Blue Pill hate (unfortunate) virgin guys so much?Oh, a blogger said something mean and dumb. You're right, burn feminism to the ground. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Why does the Blue Pill hate (unfortunate) virgin guys so much?without actually contributing to the solution. Lol what do want her to do, pity fuck him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?As I stated elsewhere, using force in certain circumstances to take your money is part of civilization. Even most anarcho-capitalists agree with force to enforce contracts. Force to take sex, however, is not part of civilization. It's not necessary for society to function. The use of force is an evil only to be used when necessary. I'm sure you agree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?Then he communicated poorly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 08:25 PM |
| 5 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?Ahh I misunderstood. In that case, what about those who have a moral objection to casual sex? Should their choice be to violate their ethics or starve? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?I don't, at all. If OP wanted to talk about child support AND alimony, then he should have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 08:23 PM |
| -2 | Why does the Blue Pill hate (unfortunate) virgin guys so much?There are plenty of dumb, cruel people in this world, yes. Sometimes I'm one of them. I'm guessing sometimes you're one of them. Is it really that surprising some of them would find their way into TBP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?Not by any more than you are overestimating the prevalence of alimony, which is only awarded in marriages with extreme income disparity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 08:17 PM |
| 10 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?That would jive with me if their weren't poor people who didn't have this excuse. But there are. If you decided not to cultivate any skills while you "took care of" your spouse, that was irresponsible and you can go ahead and face the consequences. One more poor person isn't a tragedy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?/u/Atlas_B_Shruggin I have a feeling... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 08:12 PM |
| 5 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?Does that mean that you should also be forced to sleep with unattractive women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 08:12 PM |
| 0 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalsYeah, maybe you're right. I'm looking at this professor more deeply, and she does seem like a piece of work. I appreciated the Presidents comments because they spoke to my feelings that professors should have room to "stretch their legs", but this woman is just deeply unlikable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?In point of fact: someone recently posted to /r/raisedbynarcissits[1] about the mother earning more and STILL demanding receiving from the husband. Uh huh... that doesn't mean she got it. For the record in the overwhelming majority of situations, the payments go from men to women. Alimony figures haven't been collected by the US census since the early 90s, so it's impossible to know. It's very likely that the majority of alimony payments (which occur in a minority of divorces) do go from men to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 08:03 PM |
| -1 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalsYou're moving the goalposts a bit. One could argue that there is nuance in #killallmen too, in that it's (for the most part) a satirical movement not meant to be taken literally. (Not that I'm particularly enamored of it) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?In a divorce I don't get fucking shit...yet my money is still up for grabs. Unless you make less money than your spouse. Alimony is, by it's nature, meant to be unequal. I've already stated I disagree with it. For the record it's based purely on income, gender has nothing to do with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 07:42 PM |
| -2 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalsOk... that's a bit removed from my point lol. A white professor said a racially controversial thing that was perceived by many as being racist, and kept his job. You were wrong about there being no tolerance for that kind of speech for white professors. I'm sorta kinda glad both professors kept their job. For those fields, it's important to ruffle feathers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?There are some elements of traditionalism that shouldn't be done away with. I disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 07:36 PM |
| 0 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?So my money is always up for grabs, but nothing else is. Uh, yes. That's how it's been for hundreds of years. Of course, you're exaggerating, your money isn't always up for grabs, the use of force to take your money is illegal in many cases lol. But no, sex is never "up for grabs" in modern civilization. Are we really having this conversation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 07:31 PM |
| 0 | Why does the Blue Pill hate (unfortunate) virgin guys so much?If anything this is merely a bias blind spot. To call it gaslighting is a groan-inducingly hyperbolic use of a buzzword. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 07:26 PM |
| -1 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalsI'm not so sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 07:18 PM |
| -2 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?The government demands your money through taxation, contract enforcement often demands money, and so on and so on. Using force to separate you from your money is a pretty normal part of civilization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 07:10 PM |
| -2 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalsI can definitely see firing her, but the president made some decent points for not doing so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 07:05 PM |
| 17 | Should Women who receive alimony do their Ex-Husbands Housework?No person should ever receive alimony. It's class warfare. If you have no skills other than being a homemaker, you can deal with being middle class to poor. Only the spouses of the upper 15% of income brackets get alimony. You don't just automatically deserve to stay rich just because, through luck of marriage, you were once. As for your point, no slavery is not ok just because alimony isn't either lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 07:01 PM |
| -2 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalsI don't know the full context so I can't really speak on it, but that seems reasonable Edit: it does seem like that Mustafa person could be fired though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 06:44 PM |
| -3 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalsI didn't see that. Well that's a shame, but it is important to bear in mind there are an awful lot of professors in the world. Some of them are bound to be less intelligent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 06:40 PM |
| -4 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalsShe's not a professor, and yes, that would include her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 06:33 PM |
| 2 | RPers hate alimony but also don't want women to work...wtf?For what it's worth, I'm a feminist and I'm against alimony too lol. The idea of not wanting women to work is painfully outdated though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 06:27 PM |
| -1 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalsWhat can I say, there are a lot of stupid people in the world. Especially teenagers desperate for a cause and hungry for outrage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Why does the Blue Pill hate (unfortunate) virgin guys so much?would your opinion change if I share here more than 10 upvoted comments which does so? It depends on the time span they occurred in. But then youd argue those comments aren't virgin shaming at all, then why waste my time? You're right, you probably shouldn't waste your time. Not because I think I'll be disingenuous, but because I'm not that invested in the reputation of TBP. If you want to mock TRP do so, why wouldn't you call them "fat" or "mentally disabled" ? oh because that would be offensiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 06:20 PM |
| -2 | The science of bitchiness -- Clinical study finds women employ indirect aggressiveness and slut-shaming against peers and rivalsPeople who truly understand feminism know that it's not "women vs men", it's "all of us vs sexism". Women being sexist is hardly a devastating blow to the feminist viewpoint lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 06:15 PM |
| -2 | Why does the Blue Pill hate (unfortunate) virgin guys so much?So in general, I see virgin shaming very commonly to TBP even more than slutshaming on TRP. I haven't really been around in a long while, but I find this impossible to believe. Virgin shaming is wrong. It's a product of the same sexism that leads to slut-shaming, and smart, compassionate people who put in the thought will realize that. Feminists who deserve the title will avoid it. /r/TheBluePill is not a feminist subreddit. /r/TheBluePill is not trying to better the world. /r/TheBluePill is pre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 06:11 PM |
| 4 | What are the biggest flaws in reasoning you have noticed on either side (or both) when they conclude that the evidence supports their stances?Most, sure, but 99%? Come on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/15 10:41 PM |
| 2 | If women should live their lives based on what will most likely happen (the wall, etc) then why should men hope for/rely on the best-case scenario (Hugh Hefner, etc)?And be lucky. At any rate, as others have said, "make six figures" seems to be a regular part of TRP "advice" when it comes to women, it's just a totally naive way to plan your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/15 10:07 PM |
| 6 | What are the biggest flaws in reasoning you have noticed on either side (or both) when they conclude that the evidence supports their stances?"Don't grow out your hair, some men LOVE short hair." Yes, like 1% of them. Are you kidding me? Loads of guys like short hair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/15 10:04 PM |
| 3 | If women should live their lives based on what will most likely happen (the wall, etc) then why should men hope for/rely on the best-case scenario (Hugh Hefner, etc)?So TRP is reactionary and bitter instead of dry and accurate? I mean I agree, but... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/15 09:59 PM |
| 3 | If women should live their lives based on what will most likely happen (the wall, etc) then why should men hope for/rely on the best-case scenario (Hugh Hefner, etc)?For the men of TRP, quality is mostly about looks since they don't care about marriage anyway. There are a lot of RP men who are interested in LTRs, though, and TRP gives them horrible advice for obtaining a good one. For instance, when was the last time they suggested going after educated women? Education is the biggest factor for successful marriage. But on the contrary, TRP has a marked anti women in college bent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/15 09:24 PM |
| 6 | If women should live their lives based on what will most likely happen (the wall, etc) then why should men hope for/rely on the best-case scenario (Hugh Hefner, etc)?In that same vein, sperm deteriorates and there is an increased risk of birth defects, especially mental ones, if a man waits too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/15 09:18 PM |
| 2 | If women should live their lives based on what will most likely happen (the wall, etc) then why should men hope for/rely on the best-case scenario (Hugh Hefner, etc)?1 in 20 are piss poor odds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/15 09:13 PM |
| 6 | If women should live their lives based on what will most likely happen (the wall, etc) then why should men hope for/rely on the best-case scenario (Hugh Hefner, etc)?TRP says if you work out, better yourself, etc. you can live your life this way. Isn't it pretty pie-in-the-sky though? I've said before that if women are pissing away their chances with a quality spouse by having fun early marrying late, then so are men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/15 09:09 PM |
| 4 | If women should live their lives based on what will most likely happen (the wall, etc) then why should men hope for/rely on the best-case scenario (Hugh Hefner, etc)?However a six figure salary, or even say 80K salary is much more achievable. Only about 6% of the US population makes six figures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/15 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Sex under false pretenses: rape, or harmless shenanigans?Why do you keep bringing up instances of violence as though it's supposed to convince me of anything? We already agree on that. I think we had a communication disconnect here. I didn't understand your "aside from an overall physically abusive one" to mean that physically violent marital rape was possible. Ok, so with that in mind, let's talk about coercion. Let's say a wife finds out her husband was involved in a robbery 5 years ago. She's always wanted to cut him during sex, but that is a hard … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/15 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Sex under false pretenses: rape, or harmless shenanigans?The first example is physically violent. I don't get why the distinction matters. He could easily just push her off. It's his wife for Christ's sake, is he really too in fear to refuse her? It is possible for a woman to be physically stronger than a man. What about disabilities? It is also entirely possible for a man to be afraid of a physically abusive wife. If I tell my Husband I don't want to with just words and he keeps escalating but I don't physically try to stop him, he isn't raping me. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/15 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Sex under false pretenses: rape, or harmless shenanigans?I just don't really understand the mindset or kind of relationship you would have to be in to be raped by your spouse Let's say the wife is unwilling to do anal, but the husband really wants it, so one night they're having sex and he just goes for it. She protests, but he holds her down and continues. There ya go, marital rape. Or even let's say he has a low sex drive and doesn't want it tonight, and she decides she's taking it anyway. I mean... not all people are up for sex 24/7, all it takes i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/15 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Sex under false pretenses: rape, or harmless shenanigans?I also don't understand the concept of marital rape. As far as my marriage goes that is not a thing that exists or is possible. I'm guessing this is an exaggeration? You obviously must "understand the concept", you're not dumb... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/15 04:38 PM |
| 9 | What are the biggest flaws in reasoning you have noticed on either side (or both) when they conclude that the evidence supports their stances?I never figured RP was a philosophy, it's not nearly sophisticated or formal enough. Ideology is closer to the mark, but I would say it's more of an internet subculture than anything. One that I do not care for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/15 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Existence of the Alpha MaleTentatively :p we'll see if I stick around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/15 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Are "nice guys" only nice?If you weren't a Mangina you'd find it funny too. Got heem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/15 04:27 PM |
| -1 | Existence of the Alpha Male"alpha" and "beta" are simply internet tropes seeking to capture and simplify certain cliches. It's not that alphas "don't exist", it's that the categorization is simplistic, silly, and unnecessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/15 02:58 AM |
| 1 | A question for feministsThese days I think it's more like the ACLU. Sure in general our goals (gender equality or civil rights) have been met, but we're ready to fight injustice when we see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/15 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Are "nice guys" only nice?I mean a logical right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/15 02:52 AM |
| 0 | Are "nice guys" only nice?Any moderately attractive woman can go to the right type of bar(a college type where people mingle amongst eachother) in sweatpants and a hoodie without any makeup and have no issue getting guys to talk to her/bed her/etc. Talkin about like... going to work and going out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Are "nice guys" only nice?Are you implying that a naturally attractive woman needs to dress up and shit to get laid/hit on? Red pill sorts often forget to add the qualifier "by the most attractive partner possible" at the end of "get laid" when talking about women. Isn't that what we're all trying to do? (Those of us who engage in casual sex anyway) Also, women have to put in far more effort to even be considered baseline presentable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Are "nice guys" only nice?Or men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Are "nice guys" only nice?FWIW, I'm still nice, I just actually give a shit about my appearance is all. "Just be yourself" is a platitude that basically means "I don't want to deal with the guilt and awkwardness of being the one to tell you to wash your fucking face sometimes, dude". Telling someone they have terrible fashion or hygiene is hard, and it's no surprise most people don't bother, especially if the guy seems like a lost cause, or is easily made bitter and resentful, as I was (so nice!) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Are "nice guys" only nice?their reality was a complete lie. This is what I'm talking about. This is indoctrinating language, used to rile people up. The world didn't lie to me, I was just a fucking dumbass. There was no reason for me to be upset, I was just too self-deluded to realize that hygiene and fashion were important. I had no right to be angry. If I found TRP, maybe I would have never realized that, because they conveniently provide infinite scapegoats for me to blame all my problems on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Are "nice guys" only nice?They're deluded is all. Maybe... but honestly, I wish I saw this very video back then. It certainly would have done a lot more good for me than finding TRP. See, TRP talks all about the anger phase after having found out the truth, but it seems more like it fosters and encourages anger as you bitterly recriminate women for all your faults. Sure I'm nice, but who gives a shit? Being nice is easy as fuck. It would have been nice if this logic bomb could have detonated on my head and I could have d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 05:18 PM |
| 0 | Are "nice guys" only nice?I think he meant that as a counter to the cliche of men saying "why don't women go for nice guys like me!?" I know I've said the same in my misguided youth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Are "nice guys" only nice?Hmm I don't think the video ever suggested only sexually successful men could be nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 04:47 PM |
| 6 | Are "nice guys" only nice?Oh I see, get to addressing it here, not getting to fashion and fitness in your own life haha. Still, "will suffice"? I mean... most guys get on perfectly well without TRP... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 04:19 PM |
| 4 | Are "nice guys" only nice?the first piece of advice on TRP is to lift and the second is to dress better. I'll get into that once I have the time. Confusion in the ranks? :O | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 04:14 PM |
| 8 | Are "nice guys" only nice?Because, as we all know, attractive women have to put ZERO effort into their appearance. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 04:09 PM |
| 8 | Are "nice guys" only nice?Thats why the first piece of advice on TRP is to lift and the second is to dress better. I always hear this, but I don't even see a fitness or fashion sub in their sidebar. I've never even seen style advice on TRP. Shouldn't the first thing it says on the sub be: Stop. Go to /r/fitness and /r/malefashionadvice first. You may never even need to come here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 04:07 PM |
| 12 | Are "nice guys" only nice?This is such a cop out. So... your opinion is that attractive men are generally assholes? If "lifting" and "grooming" was such ubiquitous common sense, why don't more guys do it? Well, good habits that require effort are difficult to develop on your own, especially if you aren't raised that way. This doesn't just include making yourself attractive, but any positive quality that requires work. Also, the whole "attractive=asshole" cliche that you were just moments ago perpetuating certainly doesn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 04:02 PM |
| 9 | Are "nice guys" only nice?due to "giney tingles"? Why would you put the perfectly ordinary and ubiquitous occurrence of being attracted to someone in such a way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 03:56 PM |
| 6 | Are "nice guys" only nice?I pray adults know the difference between some niceness and being a pushover. The end of this video sticks with me, when he differentiates between being "nice" and being kind. Just generally a really good video on the subject. Also lol @ the top comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 03:52 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about this article? Boingboing: "A beginner's guide to the Red Pill"That is very interesting and insightful, I hadn't thought of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 03:42 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on this TwoX post?There's an anti-feminist circlejerk in a default sub practically every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 10:43 AM |
| 4 | What do you think about this article? Boingboing: "A beginner's guide to the Red Pill"The article touches on some things I agree with, but it's a bit all-over-the-place, and not terribly well researched. The bitcoin stuff was confusing, I've never heard of a bitcoin/red pill correlation, and comparing that to pick up is a reach. I liked the stuff about "cultural marxism" and othering language, and the stuff about conspiratorial tendencies was on point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 10:39 AM |
| 3 | According to birtian women can't make choices for themselvesVery respectable reaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 10:29 AM |
| 2 | How many of you identify as former "Nice Guys"?I absolutely was. I was greasy, dressed atrociously, was socially maladjusted and bitter, and alienated people, and I constantly had the thought "why do women go for assholes instead of NICE GUYS like me!?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 07:11 AM |
| 0 | What is a woman's SMV?Not usually. How could a value judgment not be subjective? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 07:07 AM |
| 0 | What is a woman's SMV?Aw, you must be so disappointed! ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 07:06 AM |
| 4 | Question for red, blue and purple MEN: how would you live your life if you were a womyn?Ok, would my mind be exactly the same? Because in that case I would be a promiscuous lesbian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 07:03 AM |
| 3 | What are some of your experiences with people of the opposite pill in the wild?Never in my life have I met anyone I thought was TRP. One of my friends has some hangups about "women", but his rhetoric is different than TRP's, so I don't think so. We argue sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 07:01 AM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on this TwoX post?Which is more important to you? (that would be a good thread topic. Dang it, I'm gonna get sucked in again.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/15 09:06 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on this TwoX post?It absolutely is, but don't pretend reddit is some far left haven for social justice and feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/15 07:53 PM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on this TwoX post?A few people in the TRP thread said similar things. It makes me wonder, is "losing frame" a worse thing than being immoral? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/15 07:15 PM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on this TwoX post?To your first question: a round of applause? I've never understood how TRP is so blind to reddit's anti-feminist bent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/15 07:13 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on this TwoX post?Skeptical doesnt mean dismissive. Maybe this did happen. Either way, this got a lot of traction, enough to get on the front page of /r/all. If that happened to a red pill post you better believe we'd talk about it. For the record PPD has talked about field reports too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/15 07:05 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on this TwoX post?Where did I say I wasn't skeptical? I noticed it on the front page, and out of curiosity checked to see if it was posted on PPD. It wasn't, so I posted it myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/15 06:06 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on this TwoX post?In that case, does the fact that evidence for TRP is mostly comprised of these anecdotal tales throw the entire validity of TRP into question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/15 03:52 PM |
| -1 | What are your thoughts on this TwoX post?And if you don't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/15 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Would you sleep with someone who wanted to cheat on their SO? Assume you are single.Nah. Thoughts aren't crimes. You can fantasize about whatever you wish, and hold whatever opinion, it's all morally permissible. It is your actions that determine whether you are a good or bad person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/14 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Red Pills, what is your most guilty admission of your behavior, thoughts or preferences in your relationships?I am a very, very promiscuous man, and I've never once encountered LMR... what is so different between the things I do and the things red pillers do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/14 09:50 AM |
| 3 | Would you sleep with someone who wanted to cheat on their SO? Assume you are single.If she does not want you to drink it, then yes. Obviously that would be very unlikely. Ninja edit: and blackmail IS illegal! This is actually illegal, for fuck sake. As illegal as saying "pay me or I'll spread the photo" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/14 02:19 AM |
| 4 | Would you sleep with someone who wanted to cheat on their SO? Assume you are single.Compulsion by threat or force; coercion; constraint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/14 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Would you sleep with someone who wanted to cheat on their SO? Assume you are single.I'm talking about ethics, not law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Would you sleep with someone who wanted to cheat on their SO? Assume you are single.A threat of harm is considered force, a promise of help is not. To me there is a clear moral distinction. What about a threat to leave the relationship? I wouldn't consider this threat to be force. I didn't say I would do it. I realized after some thinking that this is too fucked up. I didn't say anybody, even a cheater, deserves to be raped. Well, it sounded an awful lot like you did. But hey, good on you for changing your mind. For what it's worth blackmail is a totally valid kink that I've en… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Would you sleep with someone who wanted to cheat on their SO? Assume you are single.Yes, there are grey areas. Yes some things that are objectively rape are worse than other things that are also objectively rape. Yes, one can say the line is fuzzy and even arbitrary. None of that really matters aside from semantics. The problem is that you seem to believe it is morally permissible to blackmail a woman for sex because you disapprove of her actions. Indeed, you seem to saying that she deserves to be raped, and you would do so given the opportunity if it were inside the law. This … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Would you sleep with someone who wanted to cheat on their SO? Assume you are single.So forcing a woman at gunpoint to have sex with you is not objectively rape? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 09:58 PM |
| 4 | Would you sleep with someone who wanted to cheat on their SO? Assume you are single.I'm not RP, but I don't think this is what RP means when they say "amoral". I believe they mean to communicate "these are the tools you can use, and hold no morality on their own. What you do with them is up to you." Your actions are still subject to moral scrutiny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Would you sleep with someone who wanted to cheat on their SO? Assume you are single.Are you suggesting that rape is simply an arbitrary legal trapping? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 09:39 PM |
| 7 | Would you sleep with someone who wanted to cheat on their SO? Assume you are single.How could having sex with someone under duress ever not be rape? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Would you sleep with someone who wanted to cheat on their SO? Assume you are single.I would not sleep with her, but I would tell her SO about it if I knew him or her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 08:55 PM |
| 6 | Would you sleep with someone who wanted to cheat on their SO? Assume you are single.It doesn't just "come close" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 08:54 PM |
| 0 | How does TRP explain 'Beta' guys who get laid a lot?Fair enough, but I think there are healthier ways to increase your confidence with women than putting them down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 08:42 PM |
| 3 | How does TRP explain 'Beta' guys who get laid a lot?No, this is the perfect gif. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 08:38 PM |
| 0 | How does TRP explain 'Beta' guys who get laid a lot?Haha well, I'm not gonna say I'm super attractive like your friend, but... yeah I know the situation a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 08:35 PM |
| 3 | How does TRP explain 'Beta' guys who get laid a lot?Homeopathy is a lot more popular than TRP, and it sure as hell doesn't work. I've said before that I think TRP is a placebo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 08:18 PM |
| 1 | How are we going to stop this subreddit from dying?No, I don't think I act belligerent and I don't think I suggested as much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 06:38 PM |
| 5 | Blue pill why should i go blue pill?I don't have a girlfriend ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 02:08 AM |
| 3 | Blue pill why should i go blue pill?Ehhh I dunno, consent is stressed like crazy in the scene from what I've seen, so respect for other human beings seems to be at least part of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 08:34 PM |
| 4 | Blue pill why should i go blue pill?Oh my gosh I legitimately thought you were pro-pegging and blue pill lmao, I've been away for too long, I forgot y'all's weird hangup about that ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 08:31 PM |
| 2 | How are we going to stop this subreddit from dying?Perhaps that would be so if TRPers weren't so belligerent. They are hardly brow-beaten victims. I do like that according to TRP's mud-slinging I must either be the hand-wringing PC police or a horrible bully, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Brave men and women of both pills, rate your sexual satisfaction.http://i.imgur.com/1WaD5IT.gif | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Brave men and women of both pills, rate your sexual satisfaction.It's so much fun! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Brave men and women of both pills, rate your sexual satisfaction.Your point being? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Brave men and women of both pills, rate your sexual satisfaction.It's basically Facebook for kinky people haha, these days people into BDSM and deviant sex treat it like a friendly social group, almost like the LGBT community, to better facilitate meeting people who share your proclivities :) I've recently gotten into the scene myself, and everyone is super welcoming and awesome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill why should i go blue pill?Even if that were true, who cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Does emotional dread game work on men? Does physical dread game work on women?Jeez, ouch. I suppose outrage and indignation might not be my response if she communicated it in a mature, adult way, but if she put it in the way /u/nopbeentheredonethat said, I would be very hurt and upset. At any rate, I've had emotional honesty with people before >:( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 06:20 PM |
| 7 | Blue pill why should i go blue pill?but you just don't have a girl do it because keeping her respect is important. Au contraire, I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Does emotional dread game work on men? Does physical dread game work on women?It's unlikely I'll ever be in an exclusive relationship again anyway, but come on, is it that unreasonable to be insulted by the insinuation that you would be unfaithful? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Does emotional dread game work on men? Does physical dread game work on women?Ehhh saying he wants to get with other women is a pretty strong accusation, still. I would be outraged if an exclusive SO said that to me, it would be a huge deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 05:03 PM |
| 6 | Blue pill why should i go blue pill?...TRP gets called a hate group, like, all the time. You can disagree, but don't be surprised to see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 04:58 PM |
| 11 | Blue pill why should i go blue pill?I have this nagging suspicion that 99% of dudes who are horrified by the thought of butt stuff being done to them would turn right around on that after their first prostate orgasm lol. Edit: lol someone's downvoting every one of my comments, evidently I pissed someone off :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 04:57 PM |
| 6 | Does emotional dread game work on men? Does physical dread game work on women?Oy, maybe I'm not the biggest expert on relationships, but it seems like accusing your SO of cheating just because he or she tries to improve themselves shouldn't be normal! What about trust? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Brave men and women of both pills, rate your sexual satisfaction.OP mentioned "play parties", so I'm guessing he or she is in the BDSM scene. Orgies can and do happen lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Brave men and women of both pills, rate your sexual satisfaction.psst, when you turn 18 join fetlife and go to some munches, you'll be glad you did :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Red Pills, what is your most guilty admission of your behavior, thoughts or preferences in your relationships?Well clearly some people, i.e. /u/M_rafay, are not able to take certain stuff they read with enough of a grain of salt to prevent them from seriously damaging their life. I think this possibility is worth exploring, being as how ostensibly this sub is about the merits of TRP as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 04:44 PM |
| 3 | How are we going to stop this subreddit from dying?I fight no fight, people can figure out their own truth and ethical compass, I don't style myself as some kind of moral arbiter. I make fun of TRP because it's easy, and I argue with them because they let me. That's all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 04:42 PM |
| 4 | Does emotional dread game work on men? Does physical dread game work on women?Why are you doing this? Are you trying to get with other women? Yeesh. No offense but that's super insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 02:09 PM |
| 4 | Blue pill why should i go blue pill?There is no "going blue pill", unless you mean "why should I participate in the mockery of TRP", to which I would say "because it's funny". But re-framing the question to "why shouldn't I go red pill?" I would say because that kind of negative echo chamber will not have a positive impact on your life, and you can find self-help resources to get anything you could have out of TRP elsewhere (i.e. get in shape, own your sexuality, become better at flirting and dating, become more confident and asse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 02:07 PM |
| -1 | Red pill why should I go red pill?BDSM doesn't really occur on one night stands/first time sex with people in my experience. Unless you specifically meet the person in the scene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 01:59 PM |
| 4 | Blue Pills, what is your most guilty admission of your behavior, thoughts or preferences in your relationships?I caught feelings for one of my first FWBs, who was one of the most genuine friends I've ever had and did so much for me, and then she had to move away. I was so heartbroken I cut all contact. It pains me to this day I could be such a coward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 01:57 PM |
| 7 | Red Pills, what is your most guilty admission of your behavior, thoughts or preferences in your relationships?By TBP standards, I've raped 2 girls. Can you expand on this? At the time, I really was a TRP newbie fuckwad. For this reason, with influences like Roosh and Heartiste, do you think TRP and the manosphere has a good chance to be genuinely harmful to the men they influence? Is it possible to get stuck in this "newbie fuckwad" mode? Do you think you would have done any of these things without their influence? I think this is a worthy enough anecdote to make a post about, maybe even in TRP. Perhaps… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 01:53 PM |
| 1 | How are we going to stop this subreddit from dying?And good riddance. I may not be especially enamored of the ideas and rhetoric found in TRP, but even they don't deserve to be saddled with that tired, juvenile, faux-intellectual Matrix reference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 06:55 AM |
| 4 | Brave men and women of both pills, rate your sexual satisfaction.Hey why not, I've always loved talking about me :) No 29 A lot these days, 3-4 times a week N/A N/A Honestly? 10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 06:48 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel, personally, about partner count?Yep, those are the only possibilities. It couldn't possibly be that virginity matters to women (or even some women) less than you think it does. Nahhhhh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/14 10:30 PM |
| 8 | Blue pillers and critics of TRP, what politically incorrect beliefs do you hold - if any?OP had a lot of rhetoric that needed to be replied to. If you want your commentors to trim the fat, the OP needs to first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/14 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Would any red pillers care to comment on the most recent red pill posts and comments from today and yesterday?Well, there are several commenters in this thread who "own" these sentiments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/14 05:41 AM |
| 6 | Would any red pillers care to comment on the most recent red pill posts and comments from today and yesterday?Because of my vastly different experiences with women in my life than the supposed experiences of red pillers, the only thing I can conclude about them saying AWALT is something along the lines of "if everyone you know is an asshole, then you're the asshole." Edit: typo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/14 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Would any red pillers care to comment on the most recent red pill posts and comments from today and yesterday?Man, I wish I was in this thread when it was fresh. Looking at the red pill posts here, especially the ones getting upvoted (with the exception of /u/Honesty0504), I'm reminded why I've been taking a sabbatical from this sub. I could not roll my eyes any harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/14 10:35 PM |
| 6 | Would any red pillers care to comment on the most recent red pill posts and comments from today and yesterday?Oh. So I guess NAWALT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/14 10:28 PM |
| 5 | Would any red pillers care to comment on the most recent red pill posts and comments from today and yesterday?This is a debate sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/14 10:24 PM |
| 9 | Would any red pillers care to comment on the most recent red pill posts and comments from today and yesterday?One of my favorite quotes, I don't remember where I heard it: "Those who take pride in being 'brutally honest' are always much more interested in being brutal than being honest" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/14 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Would any red pillers care to comment on the most recent red pill posts and comments from today and yesterday?Well that seems rather self-congratulatory, and oddly at the same time self-pitying. If you guys are so tough, so cut from a different cloth, you shouldn't be afraid of being held accountable for the things you say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/14 10:20 PM |
| 4 | Why does TRP disparage sluts?Well that's childish... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/14 04:38 AM |
| 5 | TRP fears divorce, understandably. So why is the only divorce stat they cite the one about virgins/partner count when there are so many bigger ones?You don't think it has anything to do with a culture of slut-shaming intrinsic to TRP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/14 04:26 AM |
| 3 | Why does TRP disparage sluts?I don't. Most people I know don't. It's just a job. Are you a rich kid or something? Also, how can you hold an opinion you know is illogical, whether it be garbage men or sluts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/14 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Why does TRP disparage sluts?That's all well and good, but why do you suppose TRP puts sluts down in a more abstract way, using slut as an insult, for instance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/14 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Why does TRP disparage sluts?...what? Do you also look down on garbage men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/14 04:17 AM |
| 0 | Why does TRP disparage sluts?Why is this issue important to TRP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/14 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Why does TRP disparage sluts?I bet a lot of TRPers argued the pair-bonding case. /u/muchpriviloge's thread, in my mind, shoots that theory down. TRP does not harp on and on about under-educated women. They harp on and on about sluts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/14 04:03 AM |
| 7 | TRP fears divorce, understandably. So why is the only divorce stat they cite the one about virgins/partner count when there are so many bigger ones?This is a good counterpoint. I feel like there's still something to OP's stats though. TRP brings up the promiscuity/divorce rate correlation a lot. Why do you think that is? I made a thread relating to this question too, this is not something I want to let go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/14 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Do you think Ray Rice should be punished for hitting his wife?fag What are you, 12? Go back to 4chan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/14 05:32 PM |
| 2 | What does TBP have to say about the rise and rise of Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies?I never said that (though I'm not prepared to agree with your arbitrary percentages). But being a sugar baby is a pretty high price indeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/14 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Do you think Ray Rice should be punished for hitting his wife?I did, but I think /u/SirNemesis has an even better, broader argument against OP's position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/14 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Do you think Ray Rice should be punished for hitting his wife?I think your view does not account for Stockholm syndrome. Also, the only thing that happened to Rice is he got fired, which is more than reasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/14 02:05 PM |
| 6 | What does TBP have to say about the rise and rise of Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies?Kinda funny talk coming from a ho lol. Are you super hot? And ripped? Even a woman would need to be really hot to get a sugar daddy in most cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/14 11:21 AM |
| 19 | "Women are not adults."Men are not as emotional as women because they have more grey matter which enables them to be more logical. Logic is not the opposite of emotion. People can be emotionally stunted and also illogical, and vice-versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/14 01:33 AM |
| 7 | Why so much hate for the so-called "anger phase"?I'm confident people are capable of enough wisdom, intelligence, and thought to be accountable for the ridiculous bullshit they say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/14 01:29 AM |
| 1 | What are women qualified to give advice on?Mmk. For the record, your language seems to speak for all red pillers, but there are plenty, especially around this sub, who do not feel that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 08:54 PM |
| 1 | What are women qualified to give advice on?I'm only pointing out that you do, indeed, have a conscience. Do you think morality is a useless thing to talk about or sophisticate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 08:40 PM |
| 2 | What are women qualified to give advice on?I'm a man. It's in my flair lol. And I'll be 100% honest: I'm not sure what you're on about lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 08:25 PM |
| 1 | What are women qualified to give advice on?on my conscience So all this bullshit about not sticking to moral principles is just that, and talking about right and wrong in the context of TRP is perfectly valid. I don't define rape as willy nilly as you do. Well that's unsettling. Should I understand this as meaning you engage in "borderline" behavior? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 08:22 PM |
| 4 | "You're not really nice, because you're doing it to get in her pants"I mean, you're asserting these things to be true, but these philosophical questions have not been "solved" and have been the subject of academic debate for millenia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 02:30 PM |
| 1 | "You're not really nice, because you're doing it to get in her pants"Well, I think that makes some sense for a psychological egoist, but some people (myself included) think that being good is a reward in and of itself. Ninja edit: the TL;DR of social contract theory is that people behave in an ethical manner just so that society can happen and we can all mutually benefit from not murdering and robbing and raping each other all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 02:13 PM |
| 2 | What are women qualified to give advice on?Ah, so you are a misanthropist. That makes a lot of sense, actually. And don't worry, I'll label you for you :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 01:54 PM |
| 1 | "You're not really nice, because you're doing it to get in her pants"So I imagine you are a psychological egoist and a social contract theorist then? Not everybody agrees with those positions, either. Some believe that altruism is possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 01:50 PM |
| 1 | What are women qualified to give advice on?So you are indeed a moral nihilist? Would you press a button that would kill a random person in the world instantly but you could literally sleep with anyone at any time you wished, including celebrities? (and nothing bad would happen to you) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 01:46 PM |
| 2 | What are women qualified to give advice on?It wasn't a line, it was a rant, and applying it to sex would mean rape is permissible, if we take it to its logical conclusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 01:43 PM |
| 1 | What are women qualified to give advice on?I know that. I'm engaging in a thought experiment, and trying to demonstrate the point that this whole anti-morality blustering is rather silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 01:30 PM |
| 2 | What are women qualified to give advice on?So you are telling me the only thing stopping you from raping is that it is inconvenient and unpleasant? The morality does not weigh in at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 01:22 PM |
| 6 | "You're not really nice, because you're doing it to get in her pants"...not everyone is an ethical egoist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 01:09 PM |
| 2 | What are women qualified to give advice on?Ok, so if morality is of no consequence, you are true, black-hearted moral nihilist, then can I assume you will rape if you can get away with it? Sexual strategy is amoral, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 10:01 AM |
| 2 | Is It Possible To Be Truly Purple Pill?How exactly could RP be said to "work" for a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).You say you get laid plenty, but if women followed that advice, you wouldn't now would you? Sure I would, because being a good person basically has fuck all to do with getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 06:27 AM |
| 6 | "You're not really nice, because you're doing it to get in her pants"Lol well that is a silly way to dismiss an entire field of ethics. It's flawed from the start, "be a nice good person" is a goal unto itself, not an answer to the question "how do I attract women?" I frankly don't know who you think is dispensing that advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 06:14 AM |
| 2 | What are women qualified to give advice on?...I really think some therapy could do you good. You clearly have some things to overcome, and I don't think this hatred is healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 06:05 AM |
| 2 | Is It Possible To Be Truly Purple Pill?Blue pill is not really a community. Well, it is, but not one where we discuss ideas or anything. If you want to poke fun at TRP with us I mean I'm sure you're welcome. If you mean blue pill like how TRP means it sometime, then the community would just be, well, your community lol. Like, in real life. I'm sure you can find a niche. I've said it before, but "purple pill" makes little sense. It would be more accurate to call it "kinda red pill" lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).Lol you are so silly. I love the emotional appeal "what about your SON!?!?" I think women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. I value fairness and expect or, even better, want to do my share in the home. I get laid plenty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 05:57 AM |
| 2 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).So men have a harder time getting laid means, say, that women are Machiavellian? We do not have to accept every ridiculous cognitive leap TRP makes just because they are right about one thing that everybody knows anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 05:53 AM |
| 6 | What are women qualified to give advice on?They fixed me up nice :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 04:59 AM |
| 3 | What are women qualified to give advice on?http://i.imgur.com/0dIirze.gif | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 04:43 AM |
| 7 | What are women qualified to give advice on?I think what you just said betrays some serious misogyny, dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 04:39 AM |
| 1 | What are women qualified to give advice on?...you're welcome. Sorry for being an asshole :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 04:32 AM |
| 2 | "You're not really nice, because you're doing it to get in her pants"Much rarer of course, because marriage is going down the toilet and the age where people get married is going higher and higher. http://i.imgur.com/U93lP9c.jpg You can date and still take things slow, y'know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 04:17 AM |
| 5 | What are women qualified to give advice on?syllogism syllogistic /r/iamverysmart Edit: this was douchey and I regret it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 04:13 AM |
| 3 | "You're not really nice, because you're doing it to get in her pants"That doesn't even counter what I said, man. I mentioned elsewhere in the thread that organic friendships are fine, it's when you try to strike up a friendship with someone with the express intention of asking them out that it gets weird. And honestly, you really think people don't marry their high school sweetheart in this day and age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 04:10 AM |
| 6 | "You're not really nice, because you're doing it to get in her pants"You don't actually know what it used to be like, you just have this idealistic view of the "good old days" born out of petty cynicism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 04:03 AM |
| 13 | What are women qualified to give advice on?I believe you missed the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 03:51 AM |
| 13 | What are women qualified to give advice on?http://i.imgur.com/eJOB0.gif | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 03:50 AM |
| 18 | What are women qualified to give advice on?So pro-women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 03:45 AM |
| 4 | "You're not really nice, because you're doing it to get in her pants"My point is that friendships usually occur out of organic interaction, and if you happen to become friends with a woman, and you start to like her and start to want to ask her out, hey, nothing wrong with that, happens all the time. But if you, from a distance, see a girl you want to date, and instead of doing the normal thing and, uh, asking her for a date, you say "Wait! I could do the normal thing right now and ask her out (since that's what I want) but instead I will try and insert myself in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 03:44 AM |
| 18 | What are women qualified to give advice on?That's rad, but you gotta have blinders on if you don't see that TRP rants about those evil feeeeemales about every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 03:39 AM |
| 1 | "You're not really nice, because you're doing it to get in her pants"I just noticed your flair lol, it doesn't have anything to do with my first thread on PPD, does it? :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 03:10 AM |
| 5 | "You're not really nice, because you're doing it to get in her pants"You have such an obnoxious argument style. "You lose! Haha, neener neener!" For one, I'm not the person you responded to, and for two, your presenter is talking about innuendo and euphemism, not dishonesty. I, as well, ask if a woman wants to "hang out and watch a movie" when everybody knows what that means. That is not the same thing as actually making her believe I am not interested in a sexual relationship with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 03:05 AM |
| 5 | "You're not really nice, because you're doing it to get in her pants"Wtf are you talking about? Being indirect is not the same thing as being misleading, using euphemism and tact is fine as long as you aren't sending the entirely wrong (or even dishonest) signals. And I give awesome advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 02:45 AM |
| 2 | "You're not really nice, because you're doing it to get in her pants"I think so, yes. I wouldn't befriend a man in this way (deliberately seeking them out after learning about them) so why would I do it with a woman, especially if in the back of my head I was always trying to calculate when to make my move? It would be weird and fake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Are men truly less emotional?No, but imo it's nothing that needs resolving, not treating women like delicate balls of hormones who might break down at any moment has been serving me well so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 01:58 AM |
| 20 | What are women qualified to give advice on?Lol this very thread is turning into an anti-woman circlejerk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 01:57 AM |
| 20 | What are women qualified to give advice on?The anti-woman circlejerk is so ubiquitous to TRP I can't believe some TRPers here deny it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 01:33 AM |
| 6 | "You're not really nice, because you're doing it to get in her pants"I have never seen this opinion expressed here or otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Are you happy when a "prudish" girl turns you down?Lol but I don't want to settle down with a traditional woman, and you are bananas if you think that traditional women looking to marry young literally don't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 12:43 AM |
| 3 | Are you happy when a "prudish" girl turns you down?Haha ok buddy, my point is that you have sabotaged your ability to find a traditional woman as a life partner with your philandering ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Are there any bluepill MRAs? Redpill MRAs? How do TRP and BP subreddits regard MRAs?I AM THE 1% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Are there any bluepill MRAs? Redpill MRAs? How do TRP and BP subreddits regard MRAs?But... this post is about opinions and perceptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/14 12:08 AM |
| 5 | Are you happy when a "prudish" girl turns you down?When I say "player", I am disparaging promiscuous men. You will have a harder time finding a truly traditional woman because you are so promiscuous and modern and liberal. Maybe "player" is the wrong word. You're a slut ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Are you happy when a "prudish" girl turns you down?Ah I see, I could have sworn I saw you write something about being promiscuous! Maybe not... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Are you happy when a "prudish" girl turns you down?Just because you have shrunk your dating pool less than a woman who exhibits the same behavior who has the same desires might have, does not mean you haven't shrunk it at all. My point is that I've known plenty of traditional women, and that plus what I've observed on OkCupid as a promiscuous man have led me to believe that red pillers have far fewer options for a traditional partner down the line than they may think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 09:25 PM |
| 9 | Are men truly less emotional?Lol because AFBB is a given. You are not on TRP dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 09:20 PM |
| 4 | Are you happy when a "prudish" girl turns you down?Well you probably won't because you already threw away your chances at a unicorn by being a player :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Are you happy when a "prudish" girl turns you down?No. Whether we like it or not, men are not judged anywhere nearly as harshly as women are for their number of sexual partners. In fact, unless a man demonstrates very little discernment, his promiscuity is generally accepted as an indication of his overall desirability - what TRP refers to as preselection. You are talking to a woman in this very thread who demonstrates otherwise. Is she lying? Is it worth missing out on her and women like her to get your nut off now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 09:02 PM |
| 4 | Are you happy when a "prudish" girl turns you down?recognize believe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).I don't think less men are becoming open to promiscuity (just the opposite really), but I think a great deal more women are becoming open to promiscuity, which TRP bafflingly complains about. So casual sex is becoming easier for men to get, and even easier for women to get. "Hookup culture" and all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Are you happy when a "prudish" girl turns you down?Are you happy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Are there any bluepill MRAs? Redpill MRAs? How do TRP and BP subreddits regard MRAs?It's hard to argue with that :l | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 07:34 PM |
| 4 | Are you happy when a "prudish" girl turns you down?Do your "plates" know their relationship with you is ephemeral and non-exclusive? You think they would dislike the real you? Do you ever wish someone could love you for who you really are? Do you plan on playing this game for the rest of your life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 07:10 PM |
| 4 | Are men truly less emotional?I have literally never seen a woman storm out of a meeting. I cannot say the same about men. Men, IME, seem to care a lot more about "official" workplace drama, like perceived injustice from management. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Are there any bluepill MRAs? Redpill MRAs? How do TRP and BP subreddits regard MRAs?I don't mind "men's rights movement", because I think it's more useful to fight specific issues (like sexual violence against male prisoners) than to fight for something vague and nebulous like "equality". Unfortunately, MR could more accurately be called the "anti-feminist movement" sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 07:04 PM |
| 7 | Are there any bluepill MRAs? Redpill MRAs? How do TRP and BP subreddits regard MRAs?I call myself an MRA for the same reason I call myself a feminist; because it's better to try and steer the movement from the inside than to point fingers from the outside and try to destroy it by latching onto the worst examples. I care about issues men face, and I think that some segments of the MR movement might even have a shot at influencing those issues! That said, /r/MensRights is the tumblr radfems of MR. More than half of the content there seems to be "look at what the fucking feminists… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 07:04 PM |
| 6 | Are you happy when a "prudish" girl turns you down?Do you think it would be rational for red pill men who desire a life commitment with a traditional woman to avoid promiscuity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 06:51 PM |
| 8 | Are you happy when a "prudish" girl turns you down?See, that kinda talk is why you will never land a good girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 06:37 PM |
| 3 | I am BP, but there seems to be one strange phenomenon that I have only seen explained by RPThis makes some sense. Disclaimer: I am the last person who should speak on the nuances of a relationship, but I've seen couples fight, and a lot of the time (whether it's a man or a woman asking it) "what's wrong" sounds a lot more like "what the hell is the matter with you!?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 06:09 PM |
| 4 | Are you happy when a "prudish" girl turns you down?So would your advice to young red pillers be "live it up while you're young, you can always settle down with a nice, traditional woman when you're older"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 06:03 PM |
| 9 | Are you happy when a "prudish" girl turns you down?Heh, reverse the genders and this could be easily believable as a conversation between a normal woman and a red pill man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 06:00 PM |
| 6 | Are you happy when a "prudish" girl turns you down?it's not as though hiding the number will hide the effects it has had on her. Lol right back atcha. A good girl can smell a player a mile away ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).So even though clearly different men view sex differently, like me and /u/RedPill4LYF, or those betas, all women view sex the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 05:42 PM |
| 6 | Are you happy when a "prudish" girl turns you down?Secondly, back when I actually used OKC I just didn't answer the questions I thought would be problematic. I suppose it would also be fair game for women to lie about their sexual history to men then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 05:21 PM |
| 5 | Are you happy when a "prudish" girl turns you down?You both are crazy. For the seriously traditional, wait-til-marriage women TRP seems to prefer for LTRs, it absolutely is a deal breaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).It's harder for men to get laid. Nobody's disputing that. Doesn't mean I have to agree with this horseshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 05:38 AM |
| 4 | We Are Not Your Mirror ImageLooks like 50% exactly :p https://i.imgur.com/cVpXYJx.jpg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 04:12 AM |
| 2 | We Are Not Your Mirror ImageI actually thought I heard that survey revealed less than half of BPers here self-identified as feminist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 03:54 AM |
| 3 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).Good luck lol, you probably come off as a player at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 03:44 AM |
| 1 | We Are Not Your Mirror ImageLinky? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Do You think location and culture has effected your beliefs?I grew up in Hicktown, USA, and when I was young I was sure the douchebag always got the girl. Now that I look back, I realize those guys weren't really douchebags, I was just jealous and bitter, and the guys who really were douchebags were bullies, who were normally ugly creeps anyway. That was kind of a tangent, what was the question? Ah, actually, even though I can't draw any specific parallel betwen my youth and my beliefs about gender, in my 20s there is one obvious influence. Sex positive … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).O_O | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Want your opinion / adviceI said you have that right to differentiate it from what you do not have the right to do (namely rape). I quickly followed it up by pointing out that I, personally, would not behave that way lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Want your opinion / adviceA vast majority of people don't want to have sex with me, that isn't why I would be annoyed (mad's a little strong). I would be annoyed at being led on and flaked out on. Of course if she said anything like "I'm really sorry to do this, but..." then I would just be disappointed, perhaps concerned, but not annoyed at all. As I said elsewhere in the thread, this has never happened to me anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).Do you think you'll settle down eventually? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 10:43 PM |
| 5 | Want your opinion / adviceYou have every right to get angry at anyone for any reason. Whether or not it's reasonable depends on the context. I would probably be a bit miffed if a gal flaked out on me after things got hot and heavy without apologizing or explaining herself, for instance. I mean, I wouldn't be furious or anything, but that would be obnoxious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 10:34 PM |
| 3 | Want your opinion / adviceAhh lame lol. Where I had most of my one night stands was an urban, fairly liberated area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).That one lasted three years. Also cheated. Sorry dude :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Want your opinion / adviceEch, maybe you're right, but I know if it was me, it would eat at me until I cleared the air. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 10:17 PM |
| 6 | Want your opinion / adviceNope. I'm pretty blunt when I get sexy, so usually the fact that we are gonna fuck is well established lol. Usually because I say something like "wanna fuck?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 10:16 PM |
| 4 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).How old were you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 09:14 PM |
| 7 | Want your opinion / adviceI can't tell you how many times I have been hooking up with someone, we're about to have sex, and LMR occurs. Weird. It's never happened to me, and I've had dozens of one night stands :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 09:11 PM |
| 11 | Want your opinion / adviceTo expand on this: you have every right to get pissed at a woman for leading you on if this series of events doesn't lead to sex, every right to call her out, ask her what the fuck is wrong with her, and kick her out (I probably wouldn't, but you do have that right). You do not, however, have the right to just have sex with her anyways for fuck sake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Want your opinion / adviceFirst off, you were both drunk - you even moreso. Why should it be her that was raped, and not you? I actually missed that part, I thought it was the other way around. I'll edit my post accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 08:50 PM |
| 8 | Want your opinion / adviceThe word "rape" has a lot of weight behind it, and sometimes the word is so powerful that it can make it seem like any time consent is not explicitly given it's as bad as ambushing and forcing yourself on someone in a dark alley. Is what you did ethical? No. Should you avoid repeating this mistake? Yes. Are you some horrible monster rapist for this slip up? Nah man. As for contacting her and clearing the air, I think that's a great idea, it might put your and her heart at ease, but I wouldn't do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 08:34 PM |
| 4 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).Women have an abundance of suitors. Unless they're ugly Men do not Unless they're handsome How the hell have you not heard of PUAHate after elliot rogers I didn't know it was an "incel" place. I still don't actually, no offense. No it's not, you're ridiculous. This is very funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 08:18 PM |
| 5 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).Maybe there are, but women are judged for giving up sex too easily while men are judged for not being able to get sex. This is true, and the slut/stud double standard, along with other factors, does create an imbalance. I'm not trying to argue otherwise. But to me, "women are the gatekeepers of sex" suggests that all men are trying to sleep with any woman at all times, and that women never approach, and that men never reject. This is, of course, ridiculous. why male incel communities are common … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 08:04 PM |
| 4 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).Considering far less than half of the women surveyed considered marriage important anyway, I don't see why that's a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 07:58 PM |
| 3 | We Are Not Your Mirror ImageHow much do I have to do, sheesh! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).Among middle-aged and older men, this figure has increased nine percentage points since 1997, and is nearly equal (36%) to that of similarly-aged women today. That sounds more like good news for those post-wall women lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).Well I've never heard of those. How can we be so sure there's no incel community for women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 07:51 PM |
| 7 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).I never fucked around in my youth. From as far back as I can remember, I wanted a stable long term relationship with someone I loved. I had respect for myself, and as badly as I wanted sex, it was only to be with the woman I would spend the rest of my life with. Weird. I would get into a relationship, things would escalate, we'd have sex a few times, and then she branch swung to the next guy leaving me in the dust. How long into the relationship did you wait? Why didn't you wait until marriage l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).Source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).The only "incel" community I can think of is /r/ForeverAlone, and chicks are allowed there too. http://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAlone/comments/10173n/forever_alone_women/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 07:44 PM |
| 6 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).Lol well yes, most people get married in their 20s, but plenty of older people get married, including women. To believe any woman who "waits" will die a lonely spinster is pure revenge fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 07:38 PM |
| 7 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).I'm too busy sleeping with them lol, you act like women in their 30s and 40s are old :p Hell, I'm almost 30! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 07:33 PM |
| 10 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).I disagree with you so fundamentally this conversation is bound to just spin in circles. "Women are the gatekeepers of sex" is a gross oversimplification and is becoming less and less true. I'm a good man. I'm not ignored. Being a Nice Guy™ is not the same as being a good man, and that's coming from someone who was one of those self-described Nice Guys. You act like it all of men's misdeeds fall squarely on women's shoulders. Honestly it reads like the rantings of a lunatic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 07:30 PM |
| 6 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).and 'spinning plates' is actually more of a way to exact revenge upon women. That's funny, I suspect the same thing! I'm glad I get to actually enjoy sex in a healthy, well-balanced way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 07:22 PM |
| 11 | We Are Not Your Mirror ImageWell that would be a bit difficult, being as how there is no one unifying "blue pill philosophy". For all intents and purposes this sub is "discuss TRP". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 07:16 PM |
| 9 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).actually Oh thanks for clearing that up! You went on kind of a bend there, but one thing stuck out to me: An analysis of the psychometric Big Five consistently find that high levels of disagreeableness predict high sexual success in both men and women. This suggests to me that at least men are just as "bad" as women, but more probably that it isn't selection of the opposite sex that causes this correlation, but simply a larger likelihood of breaking traditional value and being promiscuous. To me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 07:09 PM |
| 11 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).You know, I've seen this article used as rage-bait time and time again in TRP, but rereading it now I realize the author doesn't advise against randomly fucking non-bad boys. Considering that, I don't think this is an example of alpha fux/beta bux or in any way a bad thing. I know I, as a man, would have much more strict priorities for a life partner, but anyone I'd wife I would probably fuck as well. Why is this such a horrifying thing when women do it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 06:24 PM |
| 22 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).Ah, the old "look at reality" argument TRP trots out. Here's my reality: women are largely awesome and not evil harpies at all :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 06:03 PM |
| 18 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).Either way, I'm not trusting some rag's survey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 06:00 PM |
| 12 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).We do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 05:54 PM |
| 17 | Survey Results: Young Women have more sexual partners than men, twice as likely to cheat (99% said they would kick their partners to the curb if they caught them cheating though).Well there it is. Didn't the CDC actually put out a real survey result that ended up saying men do, indeed, cheat more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Another question about blue pill culture and double standards. Women's mainstream culture show - hosts joking about what a man must had done to provoke his partner to poison him. Why judge /r/trp so negatively when they are not as a bad as what's normal in blue pill womens culture?ah nuts Edit: oops, I did mean that response for you, but copy-pasted the wrong thing in the quote. Edited. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 05:46 PM |
| 5 | Another question about blue pill culture and double standards. Women's mainstream culture show - hosts joking about what a man must had done to provoke his partner to poison him. Why judge /r/trp so negatively when they are not as a bad as what's normal in blue pill womens culture?Feminism has infected mainstream culture. Do you honestly think people would have been sympathetic to this man prior to feminism? That people wouldn't have chortled at his plight? Or that a "damsel in distress" view of women wasn't the case? Prior to feminism people were far more horrified at bodily harm being visited upon women than men. Feminism wasn't responsible for people dismissing Sharon's words, that is par for the course, historically. It's not that something (feminism) has infected cul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Another question about blue pill culture and double standards. Women's mainstream culture show - hosts joking about what a man must had done to provoke his partner to poison him. Why judge /r/trp so negatively when they are not as a bad as what's normal in blue pill womens culture?What is this book? Right, but feminist academics argue that DV is one way women have been kept oppressed to maintain patriarchy I'm fairly certain abuse is a result of oppression, not the cause of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 05:18 PM |
| 1 | People of all pills, what are your views on life and death?I'll see if my schools library has it :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 05:14 PM |
| 1 | We have advanced past biology, math is now Red Pill. :DSorry to disappoint, but I'm pretty lost myself. What point are you making, OP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 04:31 PM |
| 1 | People of all pills, what are your views on life and death?For whatever reason, I'm fine with that. The thing that pains me the most is I won't get to see what the future holds for mankind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Another question about blue pill culture and double standards. Women's mainstream culture show - hosts joking about what a man must had done to provoke his partner to poison him. Why judge /r/trp so negatively when they are not as a bad as what's normal in blue pill womens culture?The reason DV against men is seen as good and just retribution is due to ideology. It's not. The reason the feminists are covering up DV at an academic level (supporting the tenets of the ideology) and celebrating DV is ideology. They aren't. A conspiracy theory that says DV is gendered and women were subjected to in order to oppress them for 1000s of years. No academic would argue DV was the cause of oppression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Another question about blue pill culture and double standards. Women's mainstream culture show - hosts joking about what a man must had done to provoke his partner to poison him. Why judge /r/trp so negatively when they are not as a bad as what's normal in blue pill womens culture?A few more examples doesn't mean it's not cherry picking, and that BP man was me, from this very conversation -_- I changed my mind, these examples of women making hay of abuse towards men is not worse than TRP. It's ignorant and disgusting, sure, but it's not indoctrinating anybody. TRP is a huge body of material wholly designed to change your worldview. It is an ideology. Sharon Osborne being a sexist idiot is not an ideology. She can more easily get away with it because we live in a sexist so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 04:07 PM |
| 7 | Another question about blue pill culture and double standards. Women's mainstream culture show - hosts joking about what a man must had done to provoke his partner to poison him. Why judge /r/trp so negatively when they are not as a bad as what's normal in blue pill womens culture?I wouldn't say this one cherry-picked example is representative of "women's culture", whatever that even means. I think you would have something if you pointed out that Cosmo, for example, is considered much more acceptable than TRP in mainstream culture. That's a good point, and indicative of deep seated sexism in society. But I don't think TRP is "more benign". As I said, they are exactly analogous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 03:28 PM |
| 7 | Another question about blue pill culture and double standards. Women's mainstream culture show - hosts joking about what a man must had done to provoke his partner to poison him. Why judge /r/trp so negatively when they are not as a bad as what's normal in blue pill womens culture?I have spent a good part of the past year talking about why I judge TRP lol. I don't think it's benign. I think it's insidious and fosters bigotry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 03:15 PM |
| 5 | Another question about blue pill culture and double standards. Women's mainstream culture show - hosts joking about what a man must had done to provoke his partner to poison him. Why judge /r/trp so negatively when they are not as a bad as what's normal in blue pill womens culture?Listen, your question was why I don't judge this host as harshly as I do TRP. The answer is: I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 03:06 PM |
| 5 | Another question about blue pill culture and double standards. Women's mainstream culture show - hosts joking about what a man must had done to provoke his partner to poison him. Why judge /r/trp so negatively when they are not as a bad as what's normal in blue pill womens culture?And Bill Burr asked what Rihanna did to provoke Chris Brown, let's get real. Edit: and Cosmo has said far worse than this, even advocating genital mutilation for perceived slights. I guess sure, it's in jest, but it's pretty offensive and not cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 02:52 PM |
| 4 | Another question about blue pill culture and double standards. Women's mainstream culture show - hosts joking about what a man must had done to provoke his partner to poison him. Why judge /r/trp so negatively when they are not as a bad as what's normal in blue pill womens culture?Let me get something straight: I find Cosmo to be basically perfectly analogous and exactly as bad as TRP, but Cosmo won't bicker with me. So yeah, this video is some sexist bullshit. So is this video. But I can't argue with those people. For whatever reason, TRP lets me argue with them. That's the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 02:33 PM |
| 6 | Discussion: Human ValueDo you think all human life is sacred and/or valuable? Yes. It seems as good a place as any to form an ethical groundwork. Perhaps it is empathy that makes me feel that way; I value my life, so it is easy to vicariously care about other human's lives. I feel any being with consciousness and self-awareness's life has value, including other intelligent species on earth. What do you consider to be universal human rights? This gets into vague territory, because it can be said that even people in ver… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 12:12 PM |
| 6 | The White Man's Burden and TRP.I'm not sure you've done a lot to address OP's points. These just seem like typical TRP assertions floating in space. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 11:54 AM |
| 3 | The White Man's Burden and TRP.Maybe not, though. Biological "truth" is not the only justification used in TRP, pragmatism is certainly a huge one over there as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 11:53 AM |
| 5 | The White Man's Burden and TRP.This guy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 11:50 AM |
| 3 | People of all pills, what are your views on life and death?I believe oblivion awaits me, and it terrifies me so much I can't stand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/14 02:35 AM |
| 2 | 29 year old virgin. What would you do.what's wrong with them? they just don't like attractive men? Obviously they just prefer that look. My sister, for one, thinks that large guys are more manly, and indeed married one lol. She is in decent shape herself. falling for a cunt that gives you what you need for as long as she needs you. I suppose if you're looking for a life partner that makes some sense, but what if you just want to get laid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/14 09:19 PM |
| 1 | For the love of god, don't advocate suicideWell for one being a pedant has nothing to do with egomania lol, and for two, you told a dude to kill himself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/14 08:21 PM |
| 6 | 29 year old virgin. What would you do.after 3 months of this , I'd make a internet dating profile(if I am fat I would wait 6 to 9 months, just until I start to look reasonably fuckable) Fuck it, do it immediately. Why not? Men can get away with being fat a little easier anyway. If you're well put together, big guys can actually come off as more masculine. I've known a fair share of not overweight women who go for big boys. Anyway, what's the worst that can happen from casting out your line earlier? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/14 08:18 PM |
| 3 | 29 year old virgin. What would you do.I just got ahead of myself. I walked into a bar, and before I could think about it, before I could talk myself out of it, I would walk up to a woman sitting by herself and say "Hi, mind if I sit here?". Actually before bars I started with the campus cafeteria, but whatever same thing, eventually I started regularly going to bars and doing this. So anyway, yeah, I would just walk up and ask before I could even think about not doing it. Sure my voice probably cracked and I probably sounded ridicul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/14 08:11 PM |
| 6 | For the love of god, don't advocate suicideYou're being a bit pedantic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/14 06:17 PM |
| 4 | How was your friday night purplepill?Oh what-the-fuck-ever, it's not like there were so many other great threads going on at the time that he was distracting from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/14 04:31 PM |
| 8 | 29 year old virgin. What would you do.My question is should a beta (virgin to be exact) just kill themselves. Nah, man. Definitely not. I don't know what your mental well-being is like, or if you suffer from clinical depression or any specific social disorder that might be holding you back. If so I, of course, recommend treatment and medicine. But I just don't know, so I won't dwell on that. Ok so I guess the big question is: what do you want? Some casual sex or a girlfriend? Either way take some flattering pictures of yourself and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/14 04:15 PM |
| 7 | How was your friday night purplepill?Lol just a dumb reddit joke, I stayed in and watched cartoons tonight :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/14 06:30 AM |
| 2 | How was your friday night purplepill?It went okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/14 02:35 AM |
| 1 | What are some ways that your personal experiences in life have shaped your view on relationships/love/human interaction?Haha I can see where you're coming from :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/14 11:39 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways that your personal experiences in life have shaped your view on relationships/love/human interaction?I 'spose, but I actually much prefer Facebook. Maybe I'm older and have a better grasp on that internet etiquette, but it's just a much cleaner and more organized site. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/14 10:34 PM |
| 6 | What are some ways that your personal experiences in life have shaped your view on relationships/love/human interaction?I sure am :) it might be why I'm so fascinated and kinda disturbed by TRP, I can think back on my younger self and easily see me being sucked into it hardcore, especially since my problems were clearly fixable, and had I fixed them through "red pill knowledge" it would have been ironclad evidence of TRP's veracity and no one would be able to convince me otherwise. I see a lot of that :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/14 07:49 AM |
| 12 | What are some ways that your personal experiences in life have shaped your view on relationships/love/human interaction?It feels like I've talked about me so much on this sub :/ Eh, what the hell, I'll tell it again. Up until I was around 19 I was a loser. Poor hygiene, bad social skills, terrified of women, ill-fitting graphic tees, the whole 9 yards. I was also a timid doormat. Now this means that when people wanted to compliment me, they would default to "nice", which gave me a self image of being a "nice guy". I was considered nice, and since I got little other validation, that felt good. Now, because I was g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/14 07:40 AM |
| 9 | A wife's happiness is more crucial than her husband's in keeping marriage on track -- ScienceDailyDefault custody goes to the woman I do, and I think it's probably true that the courts are sexist when it comes down to it, but a very small percentage of custody cases ever get to court. Most are settled out of court, and the sad truth is the reason mothers get custody most of the time is because the father doesn't want it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/14 06:40 AM |
| 3 | A wife's happiness is more crucial than her husband's in keeping marriage on track -- ScienceDailyI have. It was a big workplace gossip. "Did you hear ___ left his family?" It's treated differently in my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/14 06:38 AM |
| 6 | A wife's happiness is more crucial than her husband's in keeping marriage on track -- ScienceDailyI mentioned recently that TRP preys on men's insecurities and fears, with almost-plausible opinions designed to indoctrinate. This is what I was talking about. Alimony is only awarded in a small percentage of divorces and is based on income, not gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/14 05:49 AM |
| 4 | Why is TRP some people's most hated sub?I think in most spheres "feminism", as a concept, plays second fiddle to more active movements like "human rights" anyway. reddit really blows how large or influential feminism is out of proportion anyway, because tumblr and Anita whatsherface are so easy to mock. In real life, few people really care about this shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/14 05:42 AM |
| 11 | A wife's happiness is more crucial than her husband's in keeping marriage on track -- ScienceDaily"Has become"? It's obvious that the reason men are looked down on for leaving a marriage is a holdover from traditional sexism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/14 05:39 AM |
| 5 | A wife's happiness is more crucial than her husband's in keeping marriage on track -- ScienceDailyI think a huge part of it is men are conditioned to feel obligated to stick with a marriage, even if they're unhappy. Traditional values would shame a man for "abandoning" "his" family, and most people would view the woman as the poor victim callously thrown aside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/14 03:53 AM |
| -1 | A wife's happiness is more crucial than her husband's in keeping marriage on track -- ScienceDailyWell, so do women to be fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/14 03:49 AM |
| 16 | Female characters from literature/filmMan I could not imagine viewing all fiction through a red pill lens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/14 03:46 AM |
| 7 | A wife's happiness is more crucial than her husband's in keeping marriage on track -- ScienceDailyProbably true, men are mocked for initiating divorces, especially if it's because of unhappiness. But I wonder, why do you think it's better to "man up" than to leave an unhappy marriage? Edit: I meant to say it seems like you think it's better to man up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/14 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Female characters from literature/filmLol fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/14 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Female characters from literature/filmShe was strictly evil and supported genocide for pure self interest? Also she was hardcore sociopathic and sadistic lol. I mean, she was a cool character, but not a role model lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/14 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Female characters from literature/filmWhat? Azula was the absolute worst! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/14 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Female characters from literature/filmActually, I was wrong >_< it's flak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/14 11:58 PM |
| 5 | Female characters from literature/filmMabel Pines from Gravity Falls, obv. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/14 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Female characters from literature/filmslack Flack. Sorry lol, slack means the opposite of what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/14 10:55 PM |
| 12 | Why is TRP some people's most hated sub?I would be seriously surprised if either side of the internet gender wars, whether they be from tumblr or reddit, impacted the world in any meaningful way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/14 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Male role models from literature/filmSokka from Avatar: the Last Airbender. Even in dire circumstances, he tries not to take things, or himself, too terribly seriously. Plus, he was a pimp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/14 10:28 PM |
| 11 | Why is TRP some people's most hated sub?Also, feminism is the current cool cause, and TRP stands in direct opposition to this. Ehhh I dunno, reddit seems to me to have a decidedly anti-feminism bent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/14 10:21 PM |
| 23 | Why is TRP some people's most hated sub?I think TRP comes off as more insidious than subs like /r/GreatApes or /r/beatingwomen. Those subs are very clearly offensive, to the point of being ignorable trollbait. TRP seems, to many people, to prey on men's insecurity and frustration and indoctrinate them into something vaguely cult-like, with almost-plausible opinions that mirrors ignorance most have encountered in real life, especially women. Obviously whether this is true or not has been the subject of much contention in this very sub,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/14 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Since this sub can be notorious for being difficult, who are some users from the other side that you respect, and what are some good points made by the opposite side?I don't think that's fair, there are other venues for dating and romance advice without TRP's politics, hell I even mad my own sub, even though it didn't take off. If TBP is everything but TRP, then there is TONS of self-improvement advice in TBP. Don't act like TRP is the only answer. And don't act like TRP is just "approaching women, lifting weights, learning enough about male fashion, and encouraging him to take every opportunity presented to practice socialization / flirting." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/14 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Since this sub can be notorious for being difficult, who are some users from the other side that you respect, and what are some good points made by the opposite side?I heard that O_O | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/14 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Since this sub can be notorious for being difficult, who are some users from the other side that you respect, and what are some good points made by the opposite side?Haha no kidding, even if I didn't pick that username for gender wars reasons, I would be pretty embarrassed if people knew how much time I've spent here (not that I don't love y'all). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/14 10:31 PM |
| 4 | Since this sub can be notorious for being difficult, who are some users from the other side that you respect, and what are some good points made by the opposite side?Lol hell no I wouldn't, this is purely to blow off steam. Who needs this kinda drama irl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/14 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Since this sub can be notorious for being difficult, who are some users from the other side that you respect, and what are some good points made by the opposite side?Eh, maybe sometimes, but you at least tend to have pretty solid arguments lol. The three people I mentioned including you are the ones that have swayed me the most. Edit: Oh and what actually brought this to mind was your post in the "women provoking men" thread, which made me remember some of your reasoned arguments in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/14 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Since this sub can be notorious for being difficult, who are some users from the other side that you respect, and what are some good points made by the opposite side?Thanks Baker, right back atcha, I've never seen you be rude or mean :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/14 08:22 PM |
| 5 | Since this sub can be notorious for being difficult, who are some users from the other side that you respect, and what are some good points made by the opposite side?And myfriendscantknow can actually be good when he's not dicking around. http://i.imgur.com/NaMiw.gif | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/14 08:21 PM |
| 4 | Since this sub can be notorious for being difficult, who are some users from the other side that you respect, and what are some good points made by the opposite side?I wish /u/archwinger was still around here more often, he was always super polite and very thoughtful with his arguments and opinions. Then again, I'm not here a lot these days either lol. Edit: I'm gonna go ahead and include /u/denswend and /u/we_are_legion as well with the caveat that I may be forgetting others who are cool. Edit 2: /u/fiat_lux_ as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/14 08:17 PM |
| 8 | In two sentences (one for men and one for women), what is the best relationship advice you would give to someone?I've seen relationships be successful and relationships fall apart, and how it seems to boil down, for men and women, is: Give a shit about your partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/14 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Ozy Frantz's Anti-Heartiste FAQ"Works" probably in this case means "is more effective than a less planned, more organic way of approaching people." FWIW I disagree with most things I've seen presented by PUAs and others as "game". Wasn'y Mystery the first? Bad foundation lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/14 07:20 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on alimony?Haha it's no problem :) we are actually in complete agreement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/14 05:58 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on alimony?Haha yes, sorry. Alimony is awarded when the income disparity is enough between the divorcees, usually if one party is fairly wealthy, so the other party can maintain that standard of living. It does not take children into consideration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/14 01:44 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on alimony?I think we are getting muddled up in legal details. The thing about alimony is it's awarded even without children. So I guess my question is: are you for increasing child support or lowering the income bracket necessary for alimony? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/14 01:12 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on alimony?The alimony would help offset the hit in standard of living one spouse incurs when helping the working spouse concentrate on advancing in their career and earning potential at the expense of their own. Isn't that unfair to caretaker spouses who don't get lucky enough to marry a rich person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 09:11 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on alimony?I think there is a miscommunication here. I am not saying divorced moms (or dads who end up raising the kids) don't deserve more child support. This post is about alimony. My point is only people divorcing much wealthier partners would get alimony, and if their partner is that wealthy, they will get a large monthly child support payment anyway. The question was: is alimony necessary or relevant? My answer was that because the only people who do receive alimony get substantial child support anywa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 07:33 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on alimony?My point is that if there is enough income disparity between the partners, and the wealthier partner makes enough money to actually pay alimony, the caretaker will probably be receiving upwards of $1000 a month in child support anyway, which is more than most caretakers who aren't in an alimony situation would get anyway. If you want to raise the child support percentage, raise it, but to give those certain caretakers who are already advantaged and receiving more than most an even bigger edge ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?Fair enough :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?Hmm I'd need to see some research articles on that, my google search tells me mixed things, including that sexual activity increases testosterone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?I trade raw energy for sex. This sounds like you're talking about something beyond burning calories lol. Do you believe in chi or something along those lines? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?Lol sorry, but I meant my Buddhism comment. If I was going to devote myself to a philosophy that involved putting aside earthly desire to better myself and clear my mind, it would be Zen Buddhism, which jives with my beliefs anyway (it does not require special metaphysical beliefs or the belief in anything supernatural). But... I am simply not convinced that earthly desires are harmful or that putting them aside is the right call. Anyway, in short I will probably never try NoFap if it involves c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?This is starting to sound like bro-Buddhism lol. Unfortunately, I happen to really like my earthly desires ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 05:20 AM |
| 1 | BPers, are these women "shallow?"I'm just saying she wasn't being a hypocrite, which seemed to be your implication. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?Ahh, a porn addiction, eh? So, wouldn't it demonstrate that I suffer no such addiction if I simply didn't masturbate to a visual aid for 2 weeks? And then I would know I am not addicted to porn and I could be confident NoFap would serve me no purpose? Or is it that orgasms themselves weaken you? If I do give up porn, is erotica still ok? After all, I would be relying on imagination anyway, and reading erotica is kind of like guided imagination. Is it the novelty that is bad? If so, should I only… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 04:41 AM |
| 9 | I think the widespread demonization of "objectification" is subtly a war against men. CMVSexual attraction =\= objectification. This puts it very concisely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?Well, I guess I'm gonna have to postpone this experiment. I'm not willing to give up something I enjoy for 3 months just to see if SOMETHING happens, and I'm not gonna risk fucking up my FB things I got going on. I'm having more sex for a reason (the reason is they are both really hot and awesome lol). So I guess I'm just gonna wait til my next dry spell. Ninja edit: By the way, I guess that means people in typical sexually active relationships can't do NoFap, huh? Edit: typo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?Whoa whoa whoa, so no sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?Well my science student instincts are kicking in, I'm gonna give it a try. 2 weeks. If I feel no difference, no urge, no energy boost, or anything, I will decide that NoFap has no noticeable effect on me for the time I'm willing to invest in it, and I will simply start masturbating again, because I really enjoy masturbating. I have serious doubts I will feel any difference, so I should be less vulnerable to a placebo effect. If, however, I feel ANY significant difference, whether it be powerful … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?The big thing people throw in my face is that we're all somehow woman haters, but then again, why the hell would we be dedicated to seducing and getting with them if we're all supposedly "misogynists"? Just fyi, this is not a good argument lol. It is pretty well understood that misogynists can want to have sex with women, this is very old ground. About NoFap: Do you think I should run a two week experiment, having sex as regularly as I have been? Or would it just be a waste of time and demonstra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?Incredible in what way? Is it a physiological reaction, or a psychological one? Could it be a placebo? (not that there's anything wrong with that) Would regular sex spoil it? I have found my sex life picking up lately, I have sex 3 or more times per week these days. If I try this out, will I notice an effect in two weeks? That is probably the longest I'm willing to run this experiment unless I'm given compelling evidence that masturbation is harmful. Will it spoil the experiment if I have more s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 01:56 AM |
| 1 | BPers, are these women "shallow?"Her fucking an asshole does not verify your "women go for assholes" statement anyway, which sounds to her and frankly to me like some bullshit sexism and Nice Guy whining. Even if SHE specifically went for assholes, it still wouldn't support your statement, but I'm guessing that, like the women in OP's post, she was simply willing to OVERLOOK asshole behavior for whatever reason, like looks, which is not "going for assholes". Edit: punctuation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 01:47 AM |
| 1 | BPers, are these women "shallow?"Hot women can get away with being assholes more too. It's just the way it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Women less likely than men to have flexible work schedule approvedYou're being cute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?Can I still have sex? Or is it a Dr. Strangelove type of thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 10:42 PM |
| 6 | Women less likely than men to have flexible work schedule approvedBecause obviously he is not on the blue pill side by saying women are rightly discriminated against. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Women less likely than men to have flexible work schedule approvedShit. I copied the wrong part. I meant to copy If anything, he is on the blue side here. which is you being cute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?I mean I've waited a few days to make it feel better... why on earth would I not masturbate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?Everything you just said is the complete opposite of me O_o | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 10:09 PM |
| 3 | Women less likely than men to have flexible work schedule approved/u/an_absolute_rose said said that women are typically viewed as bad and/or unlikeable employees - which can be interpreted as sexist discrimination. Cute. Edit: forgot the relevant part If anything, he is on the blue side here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 10:06 PM |
| 7 | Evolutionary Psychology, from /r/TheBluePillWell just the first point made me recall this. I'm not looking to bicker over that post, I'm just saying, I've seen the "women want rape cause of evopsych" sentiment before. Edit: typo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?As a toddler, I used to run out of my room and wave my penis at guests, to my mother's horror and apparently my great amusement. The penis really is just in boys' consciousness all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?Well, to be fair there is a difference between submission and non-contribution. A woman can be enthusiastic and engaged as a sub, and if she's not, I am much less likely to call back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Do Lady Vikings make everyone wrong?He could have saved some trouble by saying "500 B.C." or "classical Greece" right off the bat too. I already explained my motives, don't be retarded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Do Lady Vikings make everyone wrong?np :) I might do the same Edit: minor correction, I guess pornai means the prostitutes themselves, I was using it for brothel, which is actually porneion, and the practice is called porneia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Do Lady Vikings make everyone wrong?No, I consider classical Greece the beginning of western culture. But "western culture" can be nebulous, and I didn't want to be "called out" for going too far back. But thanks for calling me retarded, dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Do Lady Vikings make everyone wrong?I've already adequately answered these points with /u/homo_homini_lupus , who is a more polite and concise debater than you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Do Lady Vikings make everyone wrong?It's possible. FWIW I think slavery and de facto slavery were the cultural lowlight of history, and the treatment of women could be said to blend into that in many cases. Either way, I think pornai culture answers your question pretty well, even fathers could put their daughters in pornai, basically whoever owned the woman at the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 06:03 PM |
| 8 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?I know I've never had problems making a pussy squirt You do know that isn't an orgasm, and only certain women are even capable of this, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 05:55 PM |
| 0 | Do Lady Vikings make everyone wrong?I am pretty sure this was only the status of women in Athens, but I'm not 100% sure. Hmm, I thought I read that pornai were prevalent throughout Greece, but I could be wrong too. in times where there were coverture and such, single women were allowed to own property and money and worked etc. Allowed does not necessarily mean "could" in many of these societies, history is not known to have been kind to spinsters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 05:49 PM |
| 0 | Do Lady Vikings make everyone wrong?Well, in Classical Greece, the cradle of civilization, women were undoubtedly property, and ill treated property too. For basically any reason, the husband could abandon his wife to the "pornai", forced prostitution basically, and if found cheating, including if they are raped, the husband had every right to kill his wife. This is the most stark example I can think of off the top of my head, but throughout "western" civilization evidence can be found for women's property status can be found in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Do Lady Vikings make everyone wrong?Why can't you just give me a year? What is difficult about this? it would be so easy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Do Lady Vikings make everyone wrong?Not a year I can name, a year I can go back to... I need a parameter, I sincerely do not know when "western culture" started in your mind. The middle ages? The renaissance? The enlightenment? I'm not bullshitting, I just don't want you to scoff "that wasn't western culture" when I put the effort in to giving you an answer. Edit: punctuation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Do Lady Vikings make everyone wrong?Just give me a year! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 04:54 PM |
| 0 | Do Lady Vikings make everyone wrong?I could be wrong, but I think I read somewhere that viking women were considered the heads of their household. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 07:46 AM |
| 20 | Why do American women have such a bad reputation?Yeah, I've never even heard of this. As far as I know the American stereotype is fat, dumb, super-patriotic, gun toting and warlike, men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 05:17 AM |
| 1 | BPers, are these women "shallow?"Take better pictures and be more clear that you're down for casual in your profile lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 04:50 AM |
| 2 | BPers, are these women "shallow?"I didn't read that in that comment at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 04:49 AM |
| 5 | Do Lady Vikings make everyone wrong?So the founding of America? Ancient Greece? What is "western culture" in a historical context? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 03:55 AM |
| 6 | Do Lady Vikings make everyone wrong?How far back can we go? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/14 03:25 AM |
| 5 | BPers, are these women "shallow?"Curse you and your delicious bait 4chan! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/14 10:26 PM |
| 4 | BPers, are these women "shallow?"I don't think that's true though lol, fitness definitely matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/14 10:09 PM |
| 4 | BPers, are these women "shallow?"Very true! I don't do relationships. I'm shallow lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/14 10:08 PM |
| 12 | BPers, are these women "shallow?"Yeah they're shallow. So? I am too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/14 08:24 PM |
| 1 | For Everyone's Delectation: Steven Pinker & Elizabeth Spelke debate - The Science of Gender & ScienceI haven't been arguing perfectly, I'm up too late. I'll revisit this tomorrow, sorry fiat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/14 04:55 AM |
| 6 | For Everyone's Delectation: Steven Pinker & Elizabeth Spelke debate - The Science of Gender & ScienceHow was he talking out of his ass? Did you read the transcript for his speech? I don't remember. It was an informal speech at a dinner party though, and I read much of it. Anyway, he's an economist, he has no formal education in this subject to justify saying controversial things. That is why he was talking out of his ass. The OP remarked in this thread, "Gotta toe the party line in a Maoist environment". I guess she's right about it being populist at least. Harvard is a business. You can't be a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/14 04:46 AM |
| 7 | For Everyone's Delectation: Steven Pinker & Elizabeth Spelke debate - The Science of Gender & ScienceOh the drama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/14 04:40 AM |
| 2 | How does Muchprivilege post and comment so much here? Is she ok?Get off my lawn! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/14 04:38 AM |
| 2 | TRP and feminism BOTH assert that nobody is ever entitled to sex...so why do I often see conflicting messages about who we are entitled to?I'm riffing on /u/asd1100's dog metaphor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/14 04:01 AM |
| 3 | What exactly is it about TRP that you disagree with?leaving their kids in the car, basically modern women would do and rationalise anything to get a couple of minutes of "peace". Giving your child to your neighboour for a nap, leaving the child unattended in the park while you get a coffee, I have dozens of examples as this is a subject really close to my hearth. Plenty of fathers are guilty of this too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/14 04:00 AM |
| 7 | For Everyone's Delectation: Steven Pinker & Elizabeth Spelke debate - The Science of Gender & ScienceThese people probably have expertise on the subject. Summers didn't, and was talking out of his ass, not to mention giving Harvard bad press, which makes him a bad President. Also, he wasn't run out on a rail, he's still a professor there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/14 03:46 AM |
| 2 | How does Muchprivilege post and comment so much here? Is she ok?She's a teenager, and so I guess her personality didn't jive with some of the members here. So they downvoted her like the grouchy ass geezers they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/14 03:41 AM |
| 2 | How does Muchprivilege post and comment so much here? Is she ok?No one else will bicker with me as easily and readily, any time I want, than the red pillers here. Love ya guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/14 03:39 AM |
| 0 | RPers: To what extent is this "primer" accurate?Heh, clicked on a random link, I think some of this material was plagiarized. I recognize the '16 commandments of poon" lol, with useful advice like "Say Sorry Only When Necessary (You are granted two freebie “I’m sorry”s for the life of your relationship; use them wisely.)" and "Always Keep Two In The Kitty" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/14 03:37 AM |
| 5 | TRP and feminism BOTH assert that nobody is ever entitled to sex...so why do I often see conflicting messages about who we are entitled to?Owners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 10:22 PM |
| 0 | Why do some TRPers not understand the way outsiders view themWhat the fuck is wrong with you? TRP never said you deserve to be raped Maybe not, but you did: The more likely case is that you dated a douchebag and got what you deserved. and the comments about her character, where the hell is that even coming from? If this kind of callous personal attack is your reaction to disagreement, I think you have some self-analysis to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 10:19 PM |
| 1 | TRP and feminism BOTH assert that nobody is ever entitled to sex...so why do I often see conflicting messages about who we are entitled to?I concede points all the time here, I don't think one loses face by admitting being wrong. I just wasn't wrong here. The problem is that you misunderstood my point, and it's just not important enough to keep trying to explain it any longer. I'm confident a majority of people will get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do some TRPers not understand the way outsiders view themNo, it's unethical to smear a group imn a way that gives them no chance to defend themselves. No it isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 10:15 PM |
| 1 | TRP and feminism BOTH assert that nobody is ever entitled to sex...so why do I often see conflicting messages about who we are entitled to?I didn't make a mistake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 10:07 PM |
| 0 | TRP and feminism BOTH assert that nobody is ever entitled to sex...so why do I often see conflicting messages about who we are entitled to?This is very tiresome and I think most people will understand what I was saying, so while I do not concede the argument, I think I am done with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 10:02 PM |
| 0 | TRP and feminism BOTH assert that nobody is ever entitled to sex...so why do I often see conflicting messages about who we are entitled to?I think you're really just engaging in a semantic argument. That wasn't my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 09:32 PM |
| 2 | TRP and feminism BOTH assert that nobody is ever entitled to sex...so why do I often see conflicting messages about who we are entitled to?whether or not the specific qualities that lead to increased value are being correctly acted upon. That's just it. You already, in your head, know those qualities. Those are the right ones, the ones you listed adopted a cocky/playful attitude, exhibited more social proof, or was more self-centered/'interesting'. are the right qualities. Because TRP is correct. And if doing those things you listed didn't work, it couldn't be because they don't work, it must be the user's fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 08:54 PM |
| 2 | TRP and feminism BOTH assert that nobody is ever entitled to sex...so why do I often see conflicting messages about who we are entitled to?The assumption that TRP is unquestionably fundamentally correct and applicable to all situations still applies to both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 08:31 PM |
| 7 | TRP and feminism BOTH assert that nobody is ever entitled to sex...so why do I often see conflicting messages about who we are entitled to?The idea is the same. In your mind, RP works absolutely, so if it didn't work, the user must be at fault, it could never be the system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 08:06 PM |
| 10 | TRP and feminism BOTH assert that nobody is ever entitled to sex...so why do I often see conflicting messages about who we are entitled to?You shouldn't just accept rejection, but you absolutely should accept it. There's nothing wrong with trying to improve your chances in whatever ethical way you can, but even the most attractive person who approaches a lot of potential partners in the correct settings in the right ways will probably be rejected more often than not, simply by the nature of our mostly monogamous society. Handling rejection is a very important life skill to build, especially if you want a successful sex or dating li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 07:55 PM |
| 4 | TRP and feminism BOTH assert that nobody is ever entitled to sex...so why do I often see conflicting messages about who we are entitled to?If RP men are getting bent out of shape because they are getting rejected by women who are out of their league, then they are not doing a very good job of applying the basic RP principle of raising their own value. This always amuses me. "RP not working for you? Must need more RP!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 07:52 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is it about TRP that you disagree with?That'll have to do for now, I'm busy-ish today and, maybe this sounds bad, but I don't want to put in the effort if only one person is going to see it by doing it tomorrow or something. I've addressed it point by point before, I don't remember where, and I probably will again, but not today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 07:38 PM |
| 2 | What exactly is it about TRP that you disagree with?Right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 06:29 PM |
| 5 | What exactly is it about TRP that you disagree with?It's at the top of TRP's sidebar and is the 7th most upvoted post of all time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 06:26 PM |
| 11 | What exactly is it about TRP that you disagree with?I say I'm blue pill and not "purple pill" for two reasons: first, I like /r/TheBluePill. It's a funny sub. Second, there really is no "bluepill" way of thinking. So to me, it doesn't make any sense for one to "blend the pills". I don't think there's a "middle ground" because there's really only one side. Everyone's going to agree with some of the things TRP says, they can't literally be wrong about everything, just like, logistically speaking. But what, exactly, do I disagree with? Most of these… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Let's talk generalities. Ladies, be you red blue or periwinkle, how often do you encounter rude unpleasant men? Men, vice versa.No I am lol. Just that I'm switching from a two year community college to a university this year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Let's talk generalities. Ladies, be you red blue or periwinkle, how often do you encounter rude unpleasant men? Men, vice versa.Not at all :) I'm lower class basically, make my money with odd jobs, and I hang with a lot of lower class people. For the last few years I've been a student at a community college, so still no tremendously rich folk usually, but I am in contact with a lot more students lately. I just started uni last week, so we will see if my good luck with people continues. I've already gone to a party last weekend with students from the university, and they were cool there, so yay! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 04:52 PM |
| 4 | Let's talk generalities. Ladies, be you red blue or periwinkle, how often do you encounter rude unpleasant men? Men, vice versa.It happens, but rarely. When you're a grown up, in your mid 20s at least, like I am, it seems like most everybody does their best to get along and avoid confrontation. I think we live in very civil times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 11:54 AM |
| 3 | TRP's take on the leaked celebrity pics...I found this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 11:51 AM |
| 2 | Stop reporting posts that don't violate the rules!Here's the thing: the mods aren't obligated to be stone-faced, perfectly diplomatic angels in any and all situations. I bet if you were polite to them, they would probably be more likely to meet your standards of professionalism". They do not have to take any shit you care to shovel their way with a smile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Why do some TRPers not understand the way outsiders view themWith the narratives and assumptions! I dom all the time, dude, I have no problem with it. Your comment was misleading and poorly put. The end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 10:53 PM |
| 1 | How does RP theory work in the context of female breadwinners?Day late, but yet another example: my sister just started out-earning her husband. It doesn't bother either of them, they very much like having the extra income for their kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Stop reporting posts that don't violate the rules!I'm aware that it doesn't mean a man who respects women, I'm saying a bastardization of "vagina" is not particularly bothersome to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 10:37 PM |
| 2 | TRP's take on the leaked celebrity pics...That's not what projecting means lol, that's prejudging, and yeah I admit it. I can't think of an adequate motive to excuse him though and money makes a lot of sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:47 PM |
| 3 | TRP's take on the leaked celebrity pics...What? I'm a scumbag? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:33 PM |
| 5 | TRP's take on the leaked celebrity pics...No it's just what I heard. I'll leave that to the prosecuting attorney. I gotta admit, it would be pretty cathartic to see the scumbag get nailed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:25 PM |
| 4 | TRP's take on the leaked celebrity pics...This guy engaged in high rolling illegal trade. He's making a lot of money out of this deal. He's worked on this scheme for months, collecting pics. He is a criminal, a thief, and a rat, and he ruined his own life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:22 PM |
| 2 | TRP's take on the leaked celebrity pics...Gotta make an example. I think Martha Stewart got off far too light. When the incentive is high, the punishment has to be high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:15 PM |
| 7 | TRP's take on the leaked celebrity pics...He or she is already making bank on this. I think a harsh deterrent is necessary. That is part of the usefulness of punishment, right, to deter behavior? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 04:58 PM |
| 6 | TRP's take on the leaked celebrity pics...Not necessarily, but tbh I don't really get the cloud. I could have made this mistake. I honestly don't see why it's important, what good does calling these people stupid do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 04:54 PM |
| 8 | TRP's take on the leaked celebrity pics...Hollywood is prone to cause long-distance relationship dynamics sometimes, and not much time for each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 04:46 PM |
| 10 | TRP's take on the leaked celebrity pics...I hope he/she doesn't get caught What an odd position. Me personally, I like it when justice is served. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 04:44 PM |
| 4 | TRP's take on the leaked celebrity pics...In a legal sense? I am guessing some people, probably Apple, are getting their asses handed to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 04:43 PM |
| 30 | TRP's take on the leaked celebrity pics...I am utterly unsurprised by TRP's take on this. "Feminazis" to them is "the Patriarchy" to tumblrinas: a villain to be twisted into whatever narrative sounds good to your indoctrinated ear holes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Stop reporting posts that don't violate the rules!Thanks! :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Stop reporting posts that don't violate the rules!Well, if you mean about casual sex, I actually made a subreddit that, sadly, kind of petered out about that very thing. Here were some of my posts in that sub that fall under the "advice" category: http://www.reddit.com/r/LetsGetLaid/comments/1yyjts/networking/ http://www.reddit.com/r/LetsGetLaid/comments/1ygvxk/enjoy_yourself/ http://www.reddit.com/r/LetsGetLaid/comments/26rhur/move_fast/ http://www.reddit.com/r/LetsGetLaid/comments/1zl2th/anxiety/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do some TRPers not understand the way outsiders view themWhat are you arguing here? I'm not saying you raped your wife. I'm explaining why your lack of communication skills lead some to believe that you did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 01:42 PM |
| 3 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?On the same crosstraffic analysis post /u/2FAM0US mentioned. I don't see much racism within TRP and related. I can't say I share your experience lol, there are even a few TRP regulars in PPD who are wildly, unabashedly racist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do some TRPers not understand the way outsiders view themYou do like to rant. You used the word "collected". Stop being coy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 01:28 PM |
| 0 | Why do some TRPers not understand the way outsiders view themThose statements are "this should happen", not "I did this". They do not imply harm. If a radfem said "I attacked a man today. It felt good :)" I would take that much more seriously than "kill all men". Of course. Your statement could EASILY be read as you got your wife pass out drunk and raped her. We don't know your fucking "agreements" or whatever you have with your wife. You provided no context in your original comment and it seemed shady as fuck, which I already mentioned, but you failed to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 12:48 PM |
| 2 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?Well, if blue pill is simply the "outside world" according to TRP, then every time you learn something new outside of that place and become better rounded you are learning "blue pill theory". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 12:40 PM |
| 3 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?Yeah lol, I started to answer but... I mean people have been writing books on what it is to be "good" since Aristotle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 12:31 PM |
| 2 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?Whoooooa what? No, that is not what I was saying at all lol, I don't even know who you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 12:30 PM |
| 3 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?Maybe! SJWs get into some weird territory sometimes... anti-"racemixing" territory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 12:08 PM |
| 4 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?That's fair, I can't remember him being overly rapey, just mega racist. Maybe he was, I don't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 06:54 AM |
| 2 | When women complain that "there are no good men left" or ask "where have all the good men gone," what exactly do they mean by "good men?"I call hooking up dating so my grandma doesn't freak, dawg. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 06:53 AM |
| 3 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?I aint even gonna shame him for that, much as I do find him to be a nutcase. I find nothing wrong with those subs, they both make it clear that it's just for fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 06:42 AM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on alimony?Really, I don't think alimony comes into play that often at all it seems to be rare these days. This is true. I don't think this is a bad thing though. My point was merely that child support is based on income, and if you make enough money to pay alimony you make enough to already be giving a healthy chunk of change for child support anyway. I agree that there is some fucked up situations with child support, my family never saw a dime from my sperm donor, but that has little to do with alimony. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 06:25 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on alimony?I believe that is a typical feminist position :) Ninja edit: Sorry, misunderstood, I thought you were a red piller agreeing with me haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 06:01 AM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on alimony?Any ex partner receiving alimony is getting significantly more child support than that. Alimony usually does not come into play for lower income people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:55 AM |
| 12 | BP Men, you have ever worked in a predominantly male work environment?Good point, if someone "ranted" in a locker room they would be weird as fuck and probably made fun of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:49 AM |
| 4 | BP Men, you have ever worked in a predominantly male work environment?Was in a small (4 guys) concrete crew last summer. They were all pretty cool, we were crass of course but no it did not very much resemble TRP at all. None of them seemed particularly misogynistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:47 AM |
| 2 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?It is really disturbing that I'm this good at it. http://i.imgur.com/gwVLi.gif | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:44 AM |
| 3 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?It's always the most extreme ones who are the most likely to downplay the extremism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:39 AM |
| 3 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?thats funny that some of you mention /r/TumblrInAction because most of that is laughing at SJW/leftist/radfem stuff. anytime there is humor on TRP it is often cross-posted from TiA. TiA also makes fun of TRP all the damn time lol. both of those subs mock and ridicule /r/ShitRedditSays, which according to analyses has a lot of cross-traffic with /r/TheBluePill. And TRP has significant crossover with /r/WhiteRights. Shall we apply the same logic to TRP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:35 AM |
| 3 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?As long as they believe in equality for all people, they're pretty much blue pill. Not necessarily, you could technically be a huge racist and still think TRP was hilarious and dumb lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:32 AM |
| 6 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?I do better parodies than anyone on tbp. Ooh, I wanna see! Can you link them here? If they're anything like /u/jacks1000's parodies he also claimed were way better than TBP, we are in for a hilaaAAaaarious romp! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:25 AM |
| 8 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?What is the goal of TBP sub? What's the goal of /r/cringepics? What is a good TBP man like? The same as any other good man. What is a good TBP woman like? The same as any other good woman, which, incidentally, is the same as a good man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:23 AM |
| 6 | What are your thoughts on alimony?No I don't think it's necessary or relevant. Child support should be sufficient. If a partner has no children and spent a long time jobless and hasn't cultivated any skills, well, that was an irresponsible decision. Abolished I think. No, it is purely mathematical in nature. Basically, yes. There are plenty of poor people out there who don't get alimony, why is it so important to maintain affluence? Again, child support is sufficient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Stop reporting posts that don't violate the rules!PSA: mangina is not a particularly hurtful insult to men who respect women, just like "fag" is not particularly hurtful to those who respect gay people. Edit: typo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Stop reporting posts that don't violate the rules!Look... I have been guilty of this in the past. Not often, but occasionally, a red piller will say some really hilarious shit. A few days ago during a long comment chain argument a red piller called TRP "the dark arts". That shit is funny, and I couldn't help myself. Did it fuck with the votes? Maybe, probably, but who gives a shit, it's internet points. I thought TRPers were supposed to be tough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:03 AM |
| 5 | Stop reporting posts that don't violate the rules!Why this post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:00 AM |
| 0 | Why do some TRPers not understand the way outsiders view themThis aint debate a radfem, it's de facto debate a red piller. For what it's worth I think those statements are outlandish and hateful, but nowhere do they imply doing actual harm, as your statement clearly does without the additional context you've provided now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 04:50 AM |
| 3 | Why do some TRPers not understand the way outsiders view themCan you elaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/14 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Why do some TRPers not understand the way outsiders view them1989? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/14 03:24 AM |
| 6 | Why do some TRPers not understand the way outsiders view themYou underestimate the power of words. How do you think all harmful ideologies spread? Usually, it is the written word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/14 03:23 AM |
| 0 | Why do some TRPers not understand the way outsiders view themA red piller who cares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/14 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Why do some TRPers not understand the way outsiders view themThat's an opinion, not an assumption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/14 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Why do some TRPers not understand the way outsiders view themLook at the EMSK thread. The comment I quoted is near the top. Boom, you met one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/14 01:49 AM |
| 7 | Why do some TRPers not understand the way outsiders view themI don't care about that. I just wonder where the confusion comes from, as in the first comment I posted that got quite a few upvotes. There is a consistent "why do they hate us?" theme in TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/14 12:24 AM |
| 11 | Why do some TRPers not understand the way outsiders view themBecause your minds have been poisoned by thoughts like "women by and large are not loyal, nor do they know the meaning of honor". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/14 11:56 PM |
| 23 | When women complain that "there are no good men left" or ask "where have all the good men gone," what exactly do they mean by "good men?"I think it's mostly an empty, cliche complaint folks have after a few bad dates. Kinda like "women are crazy!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/14 11:54 PM |
| 10 | Why do some TRPers not understand the way outsiders view themIt isn't women that are harmed by TRP. It's you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/14 11:53 PM |
| 14 | Does the blue pill acknowledge the fact that no matter how inconvenient, men and women are inherently different creatures?This topic has been done to death, but I'll try a different angle this time. In the context of sex, romance, and dating, of course you are going to treat people you are attracted to and trying to attract differently than ones you aren't, and that seems to be the primary focus of TRP. This is not some great revelation. Outside of that context, what possible reason would you have to predetermine how you treat people based on gender? For instance, I'm a guy but I hate roughhousing. Some guys like i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/14 06:59 PM |
| 0 | An inconvenient truthCompletely agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/14 03:46 PM |
| 5 | I turned the cock carousel question into a surveyfeminist strawman calls people ho lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/14 01:38 AM |
| 6 | Increase your attractiveness by bullying incels and nerds?gr8 b8 m8 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/14 01:34 AM |
| 4 | Non-Redpillers: how would you analyze/interpret this example of "holding frame?"I'm just gonna do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 09:19 PM |
| 4 | Non-Redpillers: how would you analyze/interpret this example of "holding frame?"The DARK ARTS omg lol you are my new favorite. Ninja edit: can I please post your stuff to TBP? Pleeeeease? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Non-Redpillers: how would you analyze/interpret this example of "holding frame?"when I poke you. I might do it again. It's almost like I'm comfortable in my power. Confident. In control. It doesn't matter who you are there are many ways to teach you can't fathom You are trying far too hard. Why are you here? Because SRS won't bicker with me and TRP will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Non-Redpillers: how would you analyze/interpret this example of "holding frame?"Ok? I can acknowledge your dignity and rights without having to also put up with your bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Non-Redpillers: how would you analyze/interpret this example of "holding frame?"Hey, whatever narrative you find comfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Non-Redpillers: how would you analyze/interpret this example of "holding frame?"Lol you're the one getting upset. Your insults are baseless and tired, why should I dignify them with an answer? I'm not trying to be a diplomat, I frankly don't care one way or the other about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Non-Redpillers: how would you analyze/interpret this example of "holding frame?""conversation" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Non-Redpillers: how would you analyze/interpret this example of "holding frame?"Man you sure turned that around on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Non-Redpillers: how would you analyze/interpret this example of "holding frame?"cringe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 07:56 PM |
| 7 | BP women, with all this talk of the cock carousel on here lately, there's one thing I'd like to know...That is far and away the tamest and most actually practiced thing she listed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 07:08 PM |
| 6 | RP guys and Feminists: Does bad experience with one gender justify stereotyping, negativity and misogyny/misandry?Feminist here: people who stereotype men or hate them as a group are sexist assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Non-Redpillers: how would you analyze/interpret this example of "holding frame?"I don't think I've ever seen a more perfect, pure example of the ad hominem fallacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 06:57 PM |
| 8 | Non-Redpillers: how would you analyze/interpret this example of "holding frame?"In the mean time, how about you do something no blue piller has ever done: give specific advice. Man that's like all I do. Tell us exactly how you'd respond. Like /u/buttslap I would end any casual thing where the partner was pushing for exclusivity in a disrespectful way like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 05:58 AM |
| 4 | How can TRP find fault with the cock carousel, but still find fault with women being picky?It's amazing how many times I've seen blue pillers either try to refute this or flat out deny it's truth. You have gained respect from me if that matters to you. I know most blue pillers would be disgusted with my belief that respect is earned and not given, but you just earned some in my book. I think this is a strawman, and honestly pretty useless blustering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 05:51 AM |
| 3 | Non-Redpillers: how would you analyze/interpret this example of "holding frame?"Also, he's leading her on and being nebulous "I will not deal with these kind of outbursts and it's why we're not exclusive." Ugh are these people in high school? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/14 10:30 PM |
| 6 | Non-Redpillers: how would you analyze/interpret this example of "holding frame?"Oh my god I am so glad I don't have that kind of drama in my life. How miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/14 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerBelieving that age doesn't matter for men's attractiveness, that balding and wrinkles will never be noticed, must be a very attractive view for you to hold, being as how you're getting on in age yourself. This stubborn "doesn't matter" response smacks of tightly held belief, what a coincidence that such a belief would be very comforting for you! It's escapism. You don't want to face reality because it's painful, so you build up a narrative in your head that's easier to take. The reality of your … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 08:24 PM |
| 5 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerIf you're macking on women for casual sex, but reject any woman you think might like casual sex... well... there's a logistics problem there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 06:02 AM |
| 2 | To RPW or men looking for an RPW: How much are women free to pursue their own interests in a relationship? Do you agree with the red pill women sub?...that sounds wildly abnormal. Not saying your making shit up but... where the fuck did you work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 05:30 AM |
| 4 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerI don't touch anyone I deep too slutty. ...do you think perhaps this has something to do with your 10% success rate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 05:20 AM |
| 3 | The "disposability" of menI would be very surprised if you found many feminists in support of "women and children first". When the Sewol sank in Korea, women were not prioritized. In fact, Park Jee Young, a woman, went down with the ship trying to save as many lives as she could, both boys and girls. Women and children first is a dead practice, and that's a good thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 05:07 AM |
| 1 | The "disposability" of menI don't know. I've called SRS a pile of shit in TBP before and got upvoted, so maybe! lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 04:50 AM |
| 6 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerOld sperm is still good Not true. At least she loved and was loved, which is better that "living her youth". Wouldn't it be better to settle with someone her own age? there is a difference in what motivates her actions. Except the classic gold digger scenario, and chicks with an older guy fetish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerIt can be. But is it? Statistically men do have more sex partners in a lifetime than women on average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 01:57 AM |
| 2 | The "disposability" of menThat's a fair point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 01:55 AM |
| 5 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerThat's fine, /u/typicalcollegebrah doesn't come off to me as a monster, even if I do disagree with him a lot. I just mean that sentence reminded me that there are monsters out there, who use advantageous positions to do hideous things to destitute people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 01:54 AM |
| 5 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerThat is very optimistic of you. I can see why you would buy into that lie. Escapism is bad, man, ad hoc relief will not bring you joy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 01:12 AM |
| 0 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerI dunno, I'd assume they'd be horrified by the Asian women they fantasize about being so subservient and demure being all liberated and shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 01:06 AM |
| 0 | The "disposability" of menOne of the statistics they use is the Fertility Rate, which is the number of live births per 1,000 women in a given age range (usually 15-49). Only by some measures, according to wikipedia. Anyway, suppose you're right and benevolent sexism comes from evolution. Who cares? So does war, and we try to avoid that too, and it is becoming less and less prevalent as we progress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 01:02 AM |
| 4 | The "disposability" of menI don't think it is, usually. "Men can't be raped" is not considered benevolent sexism. "Women and children first" could be said to mean "men last", that's a good point, but the impulse comes from a desire to protect women, which is benevolent sexism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Since the other thread was deleted: in your experience, in general are women especially cruel when rejecting men?Heh, I don't remember downvoting you, I stopped voting at all really in this sub months ago. At least it was only once, you should have seen /u/skinny_bitches back in the day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 12:18 AM |
| 6 | The "disposability" of menIt's not! Sexism in society isn't "men's" fault, it's not women's fault, it's no one's fault, thinking that way just leads to hate. Sexism is just a problem we need to fix, together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 12:12 AM |
| 3 | Since the other thread was deleted: in your experience, in general are women especially cruel when rejecting men?I haven't :/ probably lurkers or something. Just to prove it, I'll downvote your previous comment so you can see the extra one lol. Ninja edit: why would I downvote you when I agree with you? Edit: I removed that downvote and gave you an upvote instead, so you're at zero now :p sorry for being an ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 12:09 AM |
| -1 | The "disposability" of menIt does matter. The reality of what actually happens in this world does matter when it comes to social policy. Men are not disposable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Since the other thread was deleted: in your experience, in general are women especially cruel when rejecting men?I'll copy paste my last response: I'm glad to hear an RP guy say this, it correlates with my experiences too. Like /u/pickup_sticks [+47], I've been rejected countless times (only in the US though) and very rarely have women been harsh or cruel, and like you /u/We_Are_Legion [-1], I used to be very timid and frankly unappealing, bad hygiene and all, and still women were usually pretty gentle. I just can't help but think that men who routinely are rejected harshly are coming on too strong or are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/14 12:01 AM |
| 1 | The "disposability" of menWell, the majority group anyway. White people face plenty of racism in countries where they are not the majority, including about intelligence. It's more about jingoism. Either way it's a perception thing, all of these examples are obviously racist against all groups, and ignorant too, considering black/white/Asian isn't even an accurate model of race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 11:15 PM |
| 2 | The "disposability" of menCan does not automatically mean will. Lets say 3 children are going to be born in 3 years. This is possible both with one woman and three men or three men and one woman. Given that women pretty much never give birth at the maximum frequency they can, the technical possibilities of potential birthrates are largely irrelevant. Edit: typo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 11:09 PM |
| 0 | The "disposability" of menIf you have 1 woman and 100 men, you've got one kid a year. If you have 100 women and 1 man, you have 100 kids a year. In those extreme circumstances sure, but in reality people, men and women, have roughly the same amount of children, 2.5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 11:00 PM |
| 0 | The "disposability" of menCouldn't the same argument be made for men and their potential offspring? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 10:46 PM |
| 4 | The "disposability" of menAbout 115,000 Americans died in WW1. In 1914, the US population was something like 100,000,000. If half of those who died in WW1 were women instead of men, I doubt that would have even registered on our population statistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 10:29 PM |
| 9 | The "disposability" of menThat's fine to admit that it was. It was. But it definitely came from a place of disrespect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 10:20 PM |
| 6 | The "disposability" of menI don't know about "proof" of the "patriarchy", but feminists certainly do talk about benevolent sexism, how it is problematic and condescending, and how the men being considered disposable can be largely blamed on it. With 7.5 billion people in this world there's as much death and suffering as you could ever care to find, and the media usually only reports the stuff that tugs on the viewers heartstrings, which is often women because of benevolent sexism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerMichigan lol, come on up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerHeh, sure, and I know tons of couples with that dynamic. My sister's marriage is like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Difference between a slut and a red piller:c | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 09:14 PM |
| 4 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerI think "betadom" is a pretty stupid concept, but I don't think supplication suggests merely "asking for something". I believe it more suggests begging or groveling, kissing ass to get what you want, usually from someone you deem higher than yourself. You said you wished you could be that way and get what you want, and I ask why? That sounds very undignified. Edit: typo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 09:10 PM |
| 0 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerI know lol, it was a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerYou want to supplicate? I don't think supplication is good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 09:04 PM |
| 9 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerWould you want that relationship to be a life commitment? If so, how sad for her that her children will be more prone to genetic disorders, her partners looks will take a nosedive very quickly and it is a high probability that he'll lose sexual ability, and she'll lose her husband when she is still young. If not then what makes that old man any different than some guy at a party? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 09:00 PM |
| 3 | To RPW or men looking for an RPW: How much are women free to pursue their own interests in a relationship? Do you agree with the red pill women sub?How many though? Like, I want a number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerI absolutely love how much South Korea is the Asian USA sometimes when it comes to pop culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:54 PM |
| 7 | Difference between a slut and a red pillertry to be a little nice. Just a little. ...this gave me bad thoughts about the way this world is sometimes :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerLol ok whatever you say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:49 PM |
| 7 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerSo in your mind it's perfectly fine for a teacher to sleep with his/her 15 year old student? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:49 PM |
| 3 | To RPW or men looking for an RPW: How much are women free to pursue their own interests in a relationship? Do you agree with the red pill women sub?Slept around and caused drama in the workplace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerWell having a thick skin and going after the things you want and not being a doormat are not exclusively red pill things either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:47 PM |
| 4 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerFar as I'm concerned good and evil has nothing to do with your ability to get sex, so I guess it didn't "work" for me either, it just didn't inhibit me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:46 PM |
| 2 | To RPW or men looking for an RPW: How much are women free to pursue their own interests in a relationship? Do you agree with the red pill women sub?How many of these "females" were hired and did the same thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:44 PM |
| 16 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerI get sex and I'm a good man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:40 PM |
| 3 | To RPW or men looking for an RPW: How much are women free to pursue their own interests in a relationship? Do you agree with the red pill women sub?Crazy. So these girls slept with their coworkers and caused drama? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:40 PM |
| 5 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerI give fucks! I try not to hurt anybody, I am very careful about that, and I treat people with respect whether or not I'm banging them, I give so many fucks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:38 PM |
| 5 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerThe reason sleeping with under 18 people is wrong if you're over 18 is because in this culture, those people are still dependent on adults, and it's exploitative. Adults are considered authority figures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:35 PM |
| 9 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerBy RP standards, he's probably pretty used up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:32 PM |
| 16 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerYour logic makes zero sense. So men have no agency? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:31 PM |
| 5 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerHaha jeez, again with that! Success with women=/=red pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:28 PM |
| 4 | To RPW or men looking for an RPW: How much are women free to pursue their own interests in a relationship? Do you agree with the red pill women sub?What kind of job was it? Most places I've worked included women and I've never seen anything like that. These were adult men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerWell, I was an "incel" and as soon as I started to break out of my shell and actually approach women with a promiscuous reputation, I started to see success. Hell, it worked on my first try. I was absolutely faking too lol, I was terrified. Hell, I didn't even fake confidence, I straight up admitted I was new to this and there was a lot of muttering and shifting around. She thought I was sweet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:24 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Being a "genuine nice guy" will NOT get you action, and in many situations is even worse than being a "fake nice guy"That's fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:22 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Being a "genuine nice guy" will NOT get you action, and in many situations is even worse than being a "fake nice guy"Fiat I'm sorry I missed this thread and was unable to reply to your lengthy reply to mine which clearly took effort. I will revisit this when I am more able. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:10 PM |
| 6 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerthe fact that you exclusively fuck sluts means they recognize your value. Isn't that a tautology? "Sluts only fuck you because you're high value validates them. I know this because you fuck sluts, and as everyone knows, sluts only fuck guys who are high value because they validate them." Anyway, I like to think I make myself decently attractive, but I think that helps more with arousal than validation. There are plenty of women I sleep with who don't know a thing about my social circle, on tinde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 08:00 PM |
| 12 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerI remember, and I believe I made a decently compelling case that I don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 07:56 PM |
| 10 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerHow am I high value? I'm a broke ass college student doing menial labor in a field that will very probably not make me rich. And I dunno, cause they have orgasms and call me back? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 07:51 PM |
| 5 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerI'm pissed that I missed out on the AMAs! I would love some free attention! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 07:44 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Being a "genuine nice guy" will NOT get you action, and in many situations is even worse than being a "fake nice guy"What would be an unreasonable respect for women's boundaries? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 07:43 PM |
| 8 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerLol I have casual sex exclusively and let me assure you: sluts like sex for sex's sake too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 07:37 PM |
| 11 | To RPW or men looking for an RPW: How much are women free to pursue their own interests in a relationship? Do you agree with the red pill women sub?I don't. I don't find myself terribly affected by "female distraction". Perhaps you do not because they are women but because of your own prejudices? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 07:34 PM |
| 14 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerThen again, sex does feel good. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar, Sigmund. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 07:30 PM |
| 13 | Difference between a slut and a red pillerWell I'm pretty happy then that I'm more of a male slut than a red piller, red pillers seem to have a lot of negativity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 07:28 PM |
| 2 | If all women are more or less the same, why even bother avoiding the "crazy" ones?I absolutely love that you took that video seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Has any of you changed views since coming here?I have a high partner count and it's not exactly a secret in my circle and really no one thinks I'm an asshole and my relationship advice is taken as seriously as anyone else's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Has any of you changed views since coming here?Everybody "polices" their language, we all make conscious decisions about how we want to speak, including you. Police isn't even the right word for this, that's just a buzzword you are using inappropriately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 06:58 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on this thread about women gently rejecting men?Feminists forget that men have a choice too. They... did? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 06:46 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on this thread about women gently rejecting men?You can be both gentle and direct. Something like "oh, I'm very flattered, but I just don't like you that way" is a firm but not cruel way to reject a friend, for instance. ninja edit: hell, even your example "no thanks, i'm not interested" isn't really that cruel. With the right tone, it can even be gentle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 06:39 PM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on this thread about women gently rejecting men?I'm glad to hear an RP guy say this, it correlates with my experiences too. Like /u/pickup_sticks, I've been rejected countless times (only in the US though) and very rarely have women been harsh or cruel, and like you /u/We_Are_Legion, I used to be very timid and frankly unappealing, bad hygiene and all, and still women were usually pretty gentle. I just can't help but think that men who routinely are rejected harshly are coming on too strong or are somehow insulting or tactless, perhaps uninte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/14 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Aging and sexual attractivenessWell, I have a good fashion sense and I make sure I'm looking and smelling fresh, and I have sex about as much as I want with women I consider attractive, so I'm not really sure I should change anything. Could I sleep with more significantly younger women if I tried really hard? Maybe, but I actually do prefer women my own age and it doesn't seem worth it anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/14 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Aging and sexual attractivenessMaybe because you, personally, have experienced a transformation that has allowed you to sleep with more women in general, like approaching more or developing a bigger social network or handling rejection better. I had that transformation at about 22, and from then to now I have steadily been rejected more and more for being too old, and I'm certainly approached less by younger women. That's ok though, I prefer women my own age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/14 09:41 PM |
| 7 | Aging and sexual attractivenessIt isn't even a little unusual, it's very much the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/14 05:37 PM |
| 5 | Aging and sexual attractivenessWomen typically marry a man that is older than them. This means that it is unusual for a woman to date a guy younger our even the same age albeit less so. You're overstating it a bit. Yes women lean more that way, but marrying someone around your age is the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/14 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Aging and sexual attractivenessBeing happy will help you get laid I 100% agree, but I don't think it's the most important quality for attraction. Looks are, obv, and sometimes you are just too old, especially if you're going for significantly younger women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/14 05:17 PM |
| 8 | Aging and sexual attractivenessI'm 28 now, and I can say from personal experience that many young women find me too old to fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/14 05:14 PM |
| 2 | BPers, what are some of your suggestions on how a man can protect himself from false rape accusations made by women?Nobody likes a pedant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/14 08:37 PM |
| 3 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.I think you hit the nail on the head. Viewing women as subhuman objects and putting out a callous, unsympathetic front is a much easier way to handle rejection than developing yourself as a person and having a high self esteem. I agree 100% It's a shortcut. A cop out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/14 01:17 AM |
| 3 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.As much as I like bickering here, my approach already works, and being a jerk on purpose just aint me, so it's not likely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/14 01:15 AM |
| 4 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.Hey man, virgin is just a word, and you're never too young to get started. Forget all this pill shit, I want to talk to you about this situation. First, what do you want out of life right now, romantically? A fulfilling, committed relationship or some casual sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/14 01:13 AM |
| 5 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.Well, yes, many men do have that problem, I was one of them. But TRP has a whole lot more to it than breaking men out of their shells. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/14 03:50 AM |
| 2 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha."putting yourself in the right positions and scenarios and going for it" a behavior? Isn't the decision to do those things an attitude? What I mean by behavior and attitude is how you come off to people, how you talk, what you say. That kind of stuff. Aren't confidence and forwardness - what you're advocating here- things that TRP talks about? Yes, but it's hardly the only thing they talk about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/14 02:23 AM |
| 1 | best way to live a fulfilling life?When developing a worldview, it's important to keep context in mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/14 01:32 AM |
| 7 | best way to live a fulfilling life?I agree so hard that it was basically my first PPD post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/14 01:30 AM |
| 1 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.Fair enough, I don't have one. Then again, this is a change my view post, and this study hasn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/14 01:27 AM |
| 2 | best way to live a fulfilling life?Maybe it's just this view I have of women that's been shaped by society of how many unfaithful wives there are. Even though men cheat more? At any rate, you may be the most level headed guy in the world, but TRP is very, very good at indoctrination, and the things it says are very attractive to people who have had problems with women, as you seem to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/14 01:10 AM |
| 3 | best way to live a fulfilling life?You say that, and yet at the beginning of your comment you were ready to agree with an outrageous, unfounded prejudice, one which is drilled into your head again and again and again in TRP, with "examples" and "evidence" cherry picked for your convenience every day. Repeat after me, all women are like that, all women are like that, all women are like that... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/14 12:56 AM |
| 5 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.How do you feel one should show skepticism of her findings then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/14 12:53 AM |
| 2 | best way to live a fulfilling life?Not at all. I have too round of a face and not a lot of bone structure definition and I'm not even terribly fit. I mitigate this with the right glasses and hair and clothes that look great, but still, I aint Brad Pitt lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/14 12:49 AM |
| 1 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.Maybe true, but that reinforces my belief that PUA and TRP is more of a crutch or placebo than accurate reflection of what attracts women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/14 12:46 AM |
| 5 | best way to live a fulfilling life?You told me earlier that you have a level head and wouldn't fall into a rabbit hole. /u/typicalcollegebrah is pushing you towards one right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/14 12:44 AM |
| 1 | best way to live a fulfilling life?Dating is brutal for most men Oh it is not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/14 12:42 AM |
| 1 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.Short term success in sex or dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/14 12:38 AM |
| 2 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.Being aloof isn't the opposite of being desperate, it's the opposite of being warm and expressive. I agree that confidence is important, and desperation is unattractive, but this is not what the advice on TRP seems to really stress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/14 12:20 AM |
| 4 | best way to live a fulfilling life?I think you've been in TRP for too long and have a poor grasp of what is and isn't the way things typically go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/14 12:16 AM |
| 5 | best way to live a fulfilling life?it seemed to me that the game tactics that I was looking into pretty much just focused on playing into girls' psychological tendencies. Their presumed, often inaccurate psychological tendencies. Without any knowledge beforehand, it's easy to fail in sexual pursuits. It's easy to make girls feel weird or awkward. Sadly, you really can't just "be yourself." I suppose that's true, but you can still have your own personality and not weird people out. I think a lot of the time people get uncomfortabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/14 12:14 AM |
| 12 | Could Internet harassment (where comments and behavior is documented) be the solution to the misperception that harassment is invented by extreme feminists?Well if I wanted to paint a narrative I could say one has to do with men holding the majority of power in the world and women being basically slaves in some parts of it, and the other is men boohooing about having to take care of their kids. I don't actually feel that way though, there are plenty of legitimate and important and not so legitimate and important issues for both genders, but you get my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/14 12:08 AM |
| 7 | best way to live a fulfilling life?What an odd fantasy you've shared with us. That being said, "sexual strategy" being amoral doesn't give you or anyone else a free ticket to be immoral just because you are employing it. If you choose to be immoral, hey whatever, but people will correctly judge you. Particle physics is amoral and that doesn't mean physicists get to be assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/14 12:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.I think the researcher is overstating her findings a bit, and the HuffPo article, as is the nature of journalism, overstates them quite a bit. I look at the top posts of /r/LadyBoners and I see plenty of smiling faces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/14 11:58 PM |
| 7 | best way to live a fulfilling life?If "game" were so evil, why would it work so effectively? Does it? I'm glad to hear you've decided to make a lifestyle choice to go after what you want and to try and have more sexual and romantic success, and if TRP was the catalyst of that decision, hey that's still great! But try not to fall too deep into the rabbit hole. TRP and PUA suggest a lot of fairly specific things that they call "game", and it's easy to get lost in the jumble. At the same time, they have a lot of political content on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/14 11:45 PM |
| 0 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.I think you can do everything in the first list and fall under TRP's idea of alpha without being anything on the second list. Huh. Most of TRPs advice seems to me to be specific behavior suggestions, like the "amused mastery" sidebar post, and field reports about how these behavior patterns lead to success, or trying to emulate a "dark triad"mindset through behavior. Aloofness, especially, is hammered in over there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/14 11:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.Not in my opinion. And I don't look at sexy pictures and say "huh, I bet she's really easy to approach!" I am typically thinking of other things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/14 11:15 PM |
| 3 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.Women are fucked up. And I'm just saying the context of the study is important. Men who smile in social situations are also more attractive and approachable, and when it comes to just pictures, this woman isn't smiling and she's attractive, maybe more so because of it, at least in this picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/14 11:10 PM |
| 2 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.How many people do you know that straight up "don't smile"? I honestly can't say I've ever met one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/14 10:58 PM |
| 12 | Could Internet harassment (where comments and behavior is documented) be the solution to the misperception that harassment is invented by extreme feminists?I find it odd that the ones who are quickest to dismiss the problems women face and say, basically, "quit yer bitchin", are the same ones who complain 24/7 about the bad shake men get in this world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/14 10:57 PM |
| 2 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.I'm not even sure about that. I mean, what makes a person boring? I know guys who are nicer than me, who just radiate positivity and chillness and friendliness, and they seem to do just fine. They don't seem boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/14 09:57 PM |
| 2 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.And you still aren't competing with assholes that don't spend anything and still fuck her. I just told you I am. I'm not an asshole, but I "don't spend anything and still fuck her" all the time. I could do exclusively that, but I actually like dates, and they aren't that expensive. It's just getting some grub and going and doing something, I do that with my friends too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/14 09:35 PM |
| 4 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.I don't know about you, but when i look at pictures of women, i find the ones that smile more physically attractive It can go either way. I definitely don't mind a smoldering stare in lieu of a smile. And in person, the ones that smile seem more approachable than ones that have a 'dark brooding' personality. I can definitely agree with this, I just think the same applies to women's perception of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/14 09:28 PM |
| 8 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.And the "Nice Guys" always think they're in the latter category, not the former. This is so true. In my youth, before I worked on becoming more attractive, social, and outgoing, I was the picture of a cynical, misanthropic, bitter neckbeard, and I had the thought daily "why don't women go for nice guys like me?" It's a comfortable delusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/14 09:14 PM |
| 3 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.I'm nice and I split the bill for dates. Also, I often hook up after never even having gone on a date and without spending a dime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/14 09:09 PM |
| 5 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.Looking through it now. Edit: I read the smiling/brooding pictures study, and I'm not convinced. Looking at pictures works a lot differently than interacting with a person face to face. Can you imagine someone constantly trying to do a "sexy face"? It would be like something out of Zoolander. But it works for a picture. I think that study is a lot of conjecture and not a lot of data too. Edit 2: I read the one on "dark triad" being correlated to physical attractiveness. The dark triad score was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/14 09:05 PM |
| 2 | CMV: I think being a genuinely nice guy will get you more action than being a TRP style alpha.Will you link the studies here for user ease? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/14 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Men of BP, how often do you get laid (and by what kinds of women)?Perhaps one day, Docile, I'll have a big enough heart to be able to forgive you for this, but not now. The wound is still too fresh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/14 06:10 PM |
| 2 | What should women make of this?Didn't read the whole article, but yeah the content warning was probably silly there. I was addressing the idea of such warnings for written word in general, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/14 04:59 AM |
| 2 | What should women make of this?That's often not how the human mind works, we can easily be compelled to continue reading past what we are comfortable with, and those with emotional trauma can definitely be affected in really bad ways. Is it so harmful to give folks a little warning? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/14 04:52 AM |
| 1 | What should women make of this?I've never been a supporter of using those tags for written material. They're words. The written words detailing the case of Junko Furuta (DON'T look it up) haunted me far more than anything I've seen in a photo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/14 04:14 AM |
| 3 | Why is TRP political?He didn't even coin dread game, IIRC. I believe he did, but w/e. Elaborate how. Ok, even in the most mild case of dread game, and I think you're being very generous assuming a majority of red pillers are practicing such mild dread; but even then it still constitutes emotional abuse. You are instilling dread, a terrible, harmful emotion, on purpose and for selfish gain. This isn't a gender thing either, I would call a woman leaving her phone off, with the explicit purpose to deliberately make her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/14 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Why is it impossible to look at sexual relations between people through an economic perspective?Exactly. In fact, I think it's a rather flawed model because sex can be and often is simply a free good time between two people. What's economic about that? Nothing was payed, nothing really was gained, it was just fun. Is there a chill out and play video games marketplace? Sometimes people just like to get together and have a good time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/14 02:11 AM |
| 3 | Controversial Opinions of /u/RedPillSchool (TRP head mod)If you didn't like the idea of sex with your husband, and wanted to retain the right to deny your man sex, you had the option not to get married. Noooot really. Do you really think an unwed woman could have gotten along well in this world for much of human history? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/14 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Controversial Opinions of /u/RedPillSchool (TRP head mod)I really don't think it is. I see red pillers show up to defend their position in TBP all the time, and most of the time we just think it's funny. I rarely see them banned for just that. On the other hand, I've seen quite a few "on the fence" and even red pill people mention that they were banned for "concern trolling" i.e. disagreeing with one of the dozens or so pieces of red pill dogma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/14 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Controversial Opinions of /u/RedPillSchool (TRP head mod)Is it totalitarian to say "murder is wrong" should not be disagreed with? Bear in mind that this is a thought experiment, I'm not saying TRP is comparable to murder, I'm using a deliberate extreme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/14 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Why is TRP political?Groans... I give up. You guys are committed to having your fingers in your ears at whatever you don't like. I've described Dread game on this sub multiple times and literally challenged BPers to point me to the abusive component. And that's where you guys fall short. I've never recieved anything more than "b-but its abusve" or "Fine! this isn't abuse. btu the stuff i heard about on TBP was def. abuse". Mention how, goddamn it. Otherwise your words mean nothing to us. You haven't been paying very… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/14 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Why is TRP political?Ok, so there is an ideology, and it isn't a matter of simply "people having opinions." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/14 10:49 AM |
| 5 | Why is TRP political?You asked for an explanation. I gave it. That's just it, I don't think you have. You gave me your opinion, which matches TRP, and asserted that it's correct, and obvious, and you expect that to be an adequate explanation for why TRP has this or any political opinion at all. You keep on breaking off into tangents as well. I'm not trying to talk about whether or not TRP is actually correct, or whether they care what I think, or their manner of communication. I'm just trying to get your take on why… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/14 05:05 AM |
| 6 | Why is TRP political?Ok... so that's your opinion. Bit arrogant to assume it's the absolute truth with Anti-feminism: This should be pretty obvious, isn't it? though. Know that there are plenty who disagree with you. Most people, in fact, do. Not saying that it makes your opinion wrong or right, just that it isn't the assumed truth or anything. That being said, you haven't given any insight at all concerning why these opinions of yours are such a part of TRP culture, or what they have to do with the advice and self-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/14 04:34 AM |
| 5 | Why is TRP political?The methods and ideas RP developed are there because we deem them useful to be there. The "Red Pill" is simply a set of controversial, but true, set of ideas that are advantageous for every man to know about in the current market. I think that is dreadfully circular reasoning, and displays quite a lot of hubris. In essence, you are saying "the advice and the ideology of TRP is combined because it is all true and useful. We are the smartest people around and have it all figured out, so of course … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/14 04:14 AM |
| 6 | Why is TRP political?No they don't. They allow circlejerking, sure, but real discussion is labeled as concern trolling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/14 02:48 AM |
| 4 | Why is TRP political?Because this isn't /r/asktrp, this is a debate sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/14 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Why is TRP political?I would say this is the honest, correct answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/14 09:24 PM |
| 4 | Why is TRP political?I spoke too soon earlier, I was just getting caught up in the flow of the conversation. I rescind my earlier comment that TRP is an ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/14 08:04 PM |
| 4 | Why is TRP political?I'm confused, what does that have to do with my title? And I was just responding to that user, I don't think TRP is a philosophy or an ideology, or if it is, it is a very disjointed one. I think TRP is an advice forum with an enforced political bent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/14 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Why is TRP political?You don't think TRP is political? I didn't think this was an area of contention, or an insult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/14 07:34 PM |
| 13 | Why is TRP political?I would argue that TRP is not an academic philosophy, but instead an ideology. Philosophy lacks advocacy, only attempting to describe the universe as is. Philosophy is sought for love of wisdom, ideology is adopted to change something. You forwarding that TRP believes man "should" be masculine and women "should" be feminine would suggest TRP is an ideology. However, many TRPers deny that TRP is ideological, and that it is only a collection of advice for men, and it is to them that I pose this qu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/14 07:33 PM |
| 5 | Why is TRP political?That title could not be more neutral. I gave my opinion in the text block because I wanted to be up front, and I have been chastised before for being "deceptive" when I was just trying to be neutral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/14 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Question for everyone but particularly red pill: do you really find it that hard to get laid without using some kind of "game"?I honestly haven't seen that happen too much. In fact, it often seems like the really attractive women get left alone sometimes because guys are intimidated. Is this more of a club thing? I don't really care for clubs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/14 05:16 PM |
| 4 | Do you think society should value women primarily for their roles as wives/mothers?I think "primarily" is the key operating word here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/14 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Do you think society should value women primarily for their roles as wives/mothers?By that logic, should society value men primarily for their roles as husbands/fathers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/14 02:53 PM |
| 5 | Do you think society should value women primarily for their roles as wives/mothers?What do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/14 01:44 PM |
| -1 | Question for everyone but particularly red pill: do you really find it that hard to get laid without using some kind of "game"?You are so very much like me lol, it's starting to freak me out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/14 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Question for everyone but particularly red pill: do you really find it that hard to get laid without using some kind of "game"?What do you mean by "value"? Big boobs? A tan? Good makeup? Confidence? Be specific. Edit: something just came up, I'll return to this later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/14 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Question for everyone but particularly red pill: do you really find it that hard to get laid without using some kind of "game"?BP and in total agreement with EFS: there are plenty of "hot" promiscuous women looking to get laid, and "willing" to sleep with someone less traditionally attractive imo. Let me ask you something. what's more important to you for attractiveness: fitness, a naturally pretty face, a particular body type, or style? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/14 10:51 PM |
| 4 | Hypothetical question for both RP and BP men hereBP This is a weird hypothetical for me, because I never try to "swoop in" on people in a relationship. It seems a little shitty and way too drama inviting. If I really did consider her a good friend and she told me she needs me to come over, I'd come over. I'd probably ask why first though. I'd be willing to play mediator for her and her boyfriend, give her a ride, give her an ear, anything like that, because that's what friends are for and if we really were good friends I'd know she'd do the sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/14 04:23 PM |
| -2 | [XPOST] Wife denies husband 25 out of 28 times, husband shows her spreadsheet for proofWhat makes you think it does? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/14 04:06 PM |
| 7 | Has "being nice" every worked for you? Do you think it ever would?How odd. I know very few "ruthless" people, but I know tons of friendly, genuine, kind, outgoing, and confident men who get laid all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/14 07:51 AM |
| 0 | [XPOST] Wife denies husband 25 out of 28 times, husband shows her spreadsheet for proof...what? I think you misread something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/14 06:21 AM |
| 4 | [XPOST] Wife denies husband 25 out of 28 times, husband shows her spreadsheet for proofPlus he aint giving head back? No wonder she's not exactly chomping at the bit to fuck him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/14 06:17 AM |
| 0 | women rated 'easygoing' and 'sensitive' as WAY more important than 'dominant', for SEX and datingWhy you bein' an asshole? It's from the article you linke explaining plate theory, obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/14 03:00 AM |
| 0 | women rated 'easygoing' and 'sensitive' as WAY more important than 'dominant', for SEX and datingI thought it was obvious enough to not necessitate spelling it out. That quote supports my understanding of "Plate Theory". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/14 02:47 AM |
| 8 | What's the wife to do if she feels gross?lol why do BPers say goofy shit like this? Well, RPers can't have a monopoly on goofy shit, ya bunch of "plate spinning", "gina tingle" giving, "dread gaming", "high smv", "last-minute resistance" breaking, "dark triad", "hamster" defying, non-"solipsistic", "field report" writing, "AWALT" espousing, "hypergamy" using, "oneitis" rejecting, "alphas" you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/14 02:08 AM |
| 1 | What's the wife to do if she feels gross?Well, I think love exists, and leaving a relationship with someone you love is hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/14 12:54 AM |
| 2 | What's the wife to do if she feels gross?Pretty standard protocol for /r/relationships I think lol, though they often jump to "END THE RELATIONSHIP" quicker. I swear, as BP as you guys claim that sub is, them and TRP jump to relationship termination quicker than any other place I've seen lol. Thanks for the compliment, though :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/14 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Has "being nice" every worked for you? Do you think it ever would?http://i.imgur.com/rF0GYsr.gif | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/14 12:21 AM |
| 7 | What's the wife to do if she feels gross?I would tell her that sex is very important to me, and I like to have sex every day (that isn't true in my case, I'm just playing out the hypothetical), and I'd seek out a compromise. Also, I would try to suss out if she was satisfied in bed, making sure to let her know I could take the truth, and if she wasn't, I'd work on that. I'd probably suggest going to mojoupgrade.com to try and spice up the sex, too. If none of these things had an effect, or if she was hostile or unwilling to communicate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/14 12:07 AM |
| 6 | What's the wife to do if she feels gross?Nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/14 11:56 PM |
| 5 | What's the wife to do if she feels gross?I think... you have a poor understanding of insecurity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/14 11:41 PM |
| 2 | What's the wife to do if she feels gross?I think there are probably plenty of men who settled and jumped the gun, but I think there are plenty of women who end up in that place too. Who knows if this guy fits that description, though, it seems like you are building a narrative to support your worldview. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/14 11:36 PM |
| 6 | What's the wife to do if she feels gross?We all know that when a woman says she feels "gross" it really means "it would be gross if you stuck your dick inside me because I'm not attracted to you right now". Right, because there's no such thing as insecurity. For someone who's a member of a group who purports to know everything about women, you sure don't know shit about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/14 11:28 PM |
| 3 | What's the wife to do if she feels gross?So easily separating and preventing yourself from falling in love are traits that will lead to happiness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/14 11:23 PM |
| 2 | What's the wife to do if she feels gross?Then the writing is probably not on the wall, it is unlikely he will be getting some "side pussy", and he probably doesn't see his wife as the disgusting troll you seem to be talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/14 11:02 PM |
| 2 | [XPOST] Wife denies husband 25 out of 28 times, husband shows her spreadsheet for proofIt doesn't have to be intentional to be emotionally damaging. And just because it's damaging doesn't make it abuse. If someone accidentally drops a heavy object on their SO's foot, is that physical abuse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/14 10:59 PM |
| 11 | [XPOST] Wife denies husband 25 out of 28 times, husband shows her spreadsheet for proofWhat if I told you withholding sex is emotionally abusive. It can be, but I don't think it is here. Withholding sex maliciously, to deliberately wound your SO, is emotional abuse, but withholding it simply because you don't want to have it isn't. It's time to have a serious conversation and compromise, sure, but it isn't abuse. Intent matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/14 10:57 PM |
| 5 | What's the wife to do if she feels gross?Maybe he loves her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/14 10:51 PM |
| 12 | Has "being nice" every worked for you? Do you think it ever would?I'm not nice to get laid. I'm just nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/14 10:50 PM |
| 2 | women rated 'easygoing' and 'sensitive' as WAY more important than 'dominant', for SEX and datingLetting a woman know, or covertly perceive, that you wont be exclusive to her pushes your commodity level up and implies options and potential success she’ll compete with other women to be associated with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/14 10:33 PM |
| 3 | women rated 'easygoing' and 'sensitive' as WAY more important than 'dominant', for SEX and datingTRP insists that men work on themselves and improve all aspects of their life with regards to physique, status, wealth, etc. so that we can prey upon insecure women? If that was all there was to TRP, none of us would be here. If a woman is insecure, wouldn't it be easier to approach her and just use the pickup techniques found in /r/seduction[1] than to actually concern oneself with self-improvement? I would say TRP and PUA intersect significantly. Wouldn't you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/14 02:11 AM |
| 1 | women rated 'easygoing' and 'sensitive' as WAY more important than 'dominant', for SEX and datingEr, I'm not so sure. The idea behind plate theory is plainly that it increases attraction by presenting yourself as a high value man who can get women, not that dating around is prudent. I don't think you're being entirely honest here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/14 01:25 AM |
| 5 | women rated 'easygoing' and 'sensitive' as WAY more important than 'dominant', for SEX and datingThe BP subreddit has always delineated that the women that RP subscribers describe in their topics are trashy women. We don't say that. We speculate that the women RP works on are insecure, not trashy, and we sympathize with them, not denigrate them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/14 01:21 AM |
| 3 | For red pill en who used TRP to improve your casual sex life: what was it like before TRP? How many women did you flirt with on average? How often were you successful? In retrospect, what do you think was the biggest thing you were doing wrong, if anything?But because it is anecdotal, how is that strong enough evidence to refute the claims of TRP? I didn't say it is. I just wanted to have a conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/14 01:03 AM |
| 3 | For red pill en who used TRP to improve your casual sex life: what was it like before TRP? How many women did you flirt with on average? How often were you successful? In retrospect, what do you think was the biggest thing you were doing wrong, if anything?You were called a creep and that guy? For asking girls out to ice cream? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/14 12:25 AM |
| 6 | For red pill en who used TRP to improve your casual sex life: what was it like before TRP? How many women did you flirt with on average? How often were you successful? In retrospect, what do you think was the biggest thing you were doing wrong, if anything?Sure, that happens sometimes. Mostly at parties. Honestly, that strategy is more conducive to ONSs though, and I like to make recurring partners for the most part these days. Frankly, it's an odd thing that I even go out looking to meet a new girl these days, I just flip though my little black book and set up a booty call. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/14 12:19 AM |
| 2 | For red pill en who used TRP to improve your casual sex life: what was it like before TRP? How many women did you flirt with on average? How often were you successful? In retrospect, what do you think was the biggest thing you were doing wrong, if anything?I don't think I've lowered my standards. Sure, I'm very easy and honestly if you're hygienic and ask, I'll probably put out, but the women I approach are always the ones I'm most attracted to. Then again, I don't know if "HB10" means blonde bombshell, but that isn't my type. On the other hand, other people often confirm that the women I approach are, indeed, attractive. Edit: typo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/14 12:14 AM |
| 6 | For red pill en who used TRP to improve your casual sex life: what was it like before TRP? How many women did you flirt with on average? How often were you successful? In retrospect, what do you think was the biggest thing you were doing wrong, if anything?And i figured I'd get an obvious sign of interest because i was told that women are just like men; forthcoming if they're interested. Why would that be your assumption if you weren't forthcoming either? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/14 12:06 AM |
| 4 | For red pill en who used TRP to improve your casual sex life: what was it like before TRP? How many women did you flirt with on average? How often were you successful? In retrospect, what do you think was the biggest thing you were doing wrong, if anything?This is all totally reasonable and I'm really glad you found out how to be happy. If TRP was the catalyst of that change, well then good on it. I've seen you say some political and broad social stuff that I disagree with, but it sounds like you've got your personal life figured the fuck out. Keep on keeping on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/14 10:30 PM |
| 8 | For red pill en who used TRP to improve your casual sex life: what was it like before TRP? How many women did you flirt with on average? How often were you successful? In retrospect, what do you think was the biggest thing you were doing wrong, if anything?The biggest change I made was actually, y'know, talking to women. Also, actually following through and asking for their number lol. In my experience, most guys who don't get laid are the ones who never even really try, even if they complain about their lack of action. Other than that, I started going to parties and expanding my social sphere greatly, I became fashion conscious... and that's about it. I didn't become "alpha" or use any tactics, it really was as simple as going to parties, talking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/14 10:17 PM |
| 29 | women rated 'easygoing' and 'sensitive' as WAY more important than 'dominant', for SEX and datingDo you guys just pay no attention at all? The guy who plays acoustic guitar with the big eyes and the bigger heart? Fucking killing it. The barefoot dude with the pony tail who never gets riled up and always has weed to share with anyone? Absolutely rolling in it. Sensitive and easy-going are huge. To me, "watch what women do, not what they say" just seems like a way of dealing with cognitive dissonance when contradictory evidence is brought up. You guys are perfectly happy to listen to what the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/14 02:40 AM |
| 4 | How does the BP side explain why some men able to get hundreds of women to sleep with them?So crucial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/14 02:14 AM |
| 2 | How does the BP side explain why some men able to get hundreds of women to sleep with them?We go to parties and ask for numbers often, basically. I've slept with a lot of women and I honestly think almost any man could do what I did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/14 02:14 AM |
| -3 | women rated 'easygoing' and 'sensitive' as WAY more important than 'dominant', for SEX and datinghttp://i.imgur.com/UKQTf.gif But really, I could have told you that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/14 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Why is everything a binary?There is no binary. Like much "us vs. them" thought, TRP has set up a mental narrative of two sides in a war. Really, when it comes to attraction, dating, and sex, there are all kinds of folks with all kinds of behaviors and types, the male population can't reasonably be thought of in terms of "alpha" or "beta" in any useful way, unless it's simply a convoluted mental trick to compel yourself to actually talk to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/14 01:54 AM |
| 10 | I'm the Blue Pill's worst nightmare. AMAWhat does that have to do with respect, or the worth of yours? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/14 03:52 AM |
| 3 | I'm the Blue Pill's worst nightmare. AMASo you don't respect women in the sciences unless they are an historic celebrity genius, even if they've too done great work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/14 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Saw this article.. What does PPD think? "The unspoken reason why men cheat?"np :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/14 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Saw this article.. What does PPD think? "The unspoken reason why men cheat?"Kind of a.. kinkier literotica lol. Here ya go (NSFW). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/14 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Saw this article.. What does PPD think? "The unspoken reason why men cheat?"Lol sorry, I never pay attention to the author! I'm pretty particular about my erotica, so I hop around the tags I like till I find something that hits my buttons, then I promptly forget about it completely when I'm done lol. Not terribly efficient, but there you have it. Truth be told, I only said literotica because it's the recognizable one, I prefer alt.sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/14 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Saw this article.. What does PPD think? "The unspoken reason why men cheat?"I think it's a cultural thing. If a man was seen reading some trashy smut book that was actually targeted at men, he'd get a lot of funny looks; women for some reason get a pass on this. Similarly, if a woman was as open about porn in conversation as men can be, she'd get funny looks too. I think we're probably all a little closer together when it comes to erotic media than the social rules would indicate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/14 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Saw this article.. What does PPD think? "The unspoken reason why men cheat?"I go to literotica all the time :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/14 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Saw this article.. What does PPD think? "The unspoken reason why men cheat?"Seems like you're just splitting hairs. Men enjoy the context and story of porn too (at least, I do), and if you mean that men enjoy "anatomy shot" type pics more, well, that's probably fair, but it's not like there aren't women who like stuff like /r/penis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/14 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Why do you wear makeup?Haha I'm not your av-er-age bear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/14 07:02 PM |
| 5 | Saw this article.. What does PPD think? "The unspoken reason why men cheat?"I'm a dude lol, but it's pretty silly to think all women are like you. I know quite a few who masturbate to porn, and there's a ton of porn made for them. More examples: /r/chickflixxx /r/chixxx_gifs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/14 07:01 PM |
| 5 | Saw this article.. What does PPD think? "The unspoken reason why men cheat?"Plenty. /r/LadyBoners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/14 06:53 PM |
| 7 | [Rant]I feel like a poor feminist because of my sexual fetishes...Telling kind of destroys the romance doesn't it? No, that's crazy talk. Communication is very important in relationships. Expecting your SO to "just know" because of some half-baked idea of childish romance is a recipe for dissatisfaction and really just pretty dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/14 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Red Pillers: when you use the metaphor of taking "the red pill" from The Matrix, how much do you consider Lana Wachowski's influence on that movie?Lana Wachowski does not need your sympathy, she is doing exactly what she wants despite your intolerance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/14 07:43 AM |
| -1 | TRP comment calls women 'inferior sex' - gets downvoted to oblivionI believe Heartiste's dread article was removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/14 02:41 AM |
| -1 | TRP comment calls women 'inferior sex' - gets downvoted to oblivionWhat a cliche. I give my female friends accurate and useful fashion advice all the time. I let them know if something doesn't work for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/14 02:33 AM |
| -1 | TRP comment calls women 'inferior sex' - gets downvoted to oblivionIf you've been following TRP for any length of time, the nature of women is pretty transparent. I think you get a much more accurate picture of the "nature" of women by talking to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/14 01:44 AM |
| 9 | What is "Purple Pill"?Well, being as how "blue pill" could be read as "absence of red pill", I suppose purple pill would simply be agreeing with some things TRP espouses, but not enough identify with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/14 12:39 AM |
| 1 | I am a Purple Pill Lady! AMA!I think it's just a way of saying "I partly agree with TRP, but not enough to identify with them". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/14 09:58 PM |
| 1 | I am a Purple Pill Lady! AMA!Or a creamy havarti off the block with some fresh berries drools | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/14 09:57 PM |
| 5 | I am a Purple Pill Lady! AMA!ಠ_ಠ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/14 07:55 PM |
| 3 | I am a Purple Pill Lady! AMA!Purple suggests that you are at least partly in agreement of TRP, correct? Which parts of TRP do you agree with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/14 07:44 PM |
| 5 | Question for BP: If women and men want and enjoy sex roughly equally, why is there such a big social disparity?"Be dominant" is not the end all, be all of sex advice. Plenty of women don't want to get pinned and choked (yes, plenty do, but it's definitely best to be sure). Simple enthusiasm is much more important. So is knowing how the clit works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/14 07:03 PM |
| 15 | TRP comment calls women 'inferior sex' - gets downvoted to oblivionThose are all superficial and external advantages, not qualities of character. If what TRP asserts is accurate, women are simply much worse people than men. They are of poor character. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/14 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Why do you wear makeup?That is sad, women are bitches. I think you may have misread something lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/14 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Why do you wear makeup?Yeah, there's a difference between some foundation and nude lipstick, and big ol wingtips and ruby red lips. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/14 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Why do you wear makeup?Aw! I love shopping, especially with women who are attracted to men. When it comes to fashion I'll "ask a fish" all day lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/14 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do you wear makeup?Haha no, I can't pull off the dark, sensitive, artistic look. Dude's who do though (and wear guyliner) seem to get mad laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/14 04:32 AM |
| 6 | Question for BP: If women and men want and enjoy sex roughly equally, why is there such a big social disparity?This is why it's so, so important to be good at sex as a man. It shocks me that this isn't stressed more in PUA and TRP (as illustrated by this amusing TBP post). Being a good lay is the number one way to establish a good rolodex of booty calls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/14 04:14 AM |
| 4 | Why do you wear makeup?I'm a man and don't wear makeup (not that there's anything wrong with men wearing makeup!), but I do really love fashion, and I bet it's for the same reasons a lot of women wear makeup. Sure there's the "attracting potential partners" aspect, but looking good and knowing it is a lot of fun even if you aren't looking for a date. It's flattering to turn heads, it makes you feel good. Maybe that's vain but it's the truth. Plus it's a fun hobby. I totally get the "shoes and clothes" shopaholic clich… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/14 03:44 AM |
| 18 | TRP comment calls women 'inferior sex' - gets downvoted to oblivionHow are women not inferior to men if what TRP asserts is correct? If women truly are more irrational, inconsistent, Machiavellian, hypergamous, entitled, unsympathetic, selfish, unloving, and cruel than men then they are strictly inferior. If all that was true I'd probably hate women completely. Good thing it's not. Edit: typo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/14 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Question for BP: If women and men want and enjoy sex roughly equally, why is there such a big social disparity?Me too! :D Let's do it in the butt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/14 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Question for BP: If women and men want and enjoy sex roughly equally, why is there such a big social disparity?Prepare response. scroll scroll Nevermind EFS said literally everything I was gonna. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/14 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Feminism and ambiguityHonestly, almost every person who encounters TRP is decidedly not ok with it. Why would feminists be any different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/14 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Feminism and ambiguityI dunno, maybe the huge anti-feminist circlejerk that commences any time feminism is mentioned in a default sub, or any time a woman gets away with something (as if benevolent sexism isn't a talking point in feminism anyway). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/14 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Feminism and ambiguityPlease. Saying you're an egalitarian takes zero balls, it's the default position and is indeed mine. Egalitarianism in lieu of feminism is, however, the latest fashion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/14 02:36 AM |
| 0 | Feminism and ambiguityMy point is that if even anti-feminists largely find TRP too misogynistic for their taste, it is unlikely that you'll find a feminist who is ok with TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/14 02:34 AM |
| 2 | How much temptation can you deal with before you break?I've rejected a woman before that I was very attracted to because she was shitty to a friend. I'm confident I could resist any and every woman out there if I were in an exclusive relationship (even though exclusivity isn't really my thing lol). It may be a bit easier for me though. It sounds weird but as much as I like sex my sex drive is not actually super high lol. I am an enigma wrapped in a riddle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/14 11:27 PM |
| 0 | Feminism and ambiguityReddit has a decidedly anti-feminist bent, and also is largely not ok with TRP so I don't know about that lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/14 11:21 PM |
| -2 | Feminism and ambiguityI don't see how. When was the last time "egalitarianism" changed anything? Protested anything? Organized anything? That's why I like MR better than egalitarianism to "balance" things: egalitarianism is, so far, just lip service. I want an active movement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/14 11:20 PM |
| 4 | So a red piller supposedly actually opted for Heartiste's "thermonuclear option". Is this healthy? Ethical? Wise? True?Oh please. You can't possibly think one night of sex is indicative of any life long dynamic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/14 11:04 PM |
| 4 | So a red piller supposedly actually opted for Heartiste's "thermonuclear option". Is this healthy? Ethical? Wise? True?I just went and looked, and it appears TRP took the link to that specific article off the sidebar. Good for them I suppose, but it was there and I simply did not know it wasn't any more. My mistake, but that is likely the reason it is and was talked about so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/14 11:03 PM |
| 6 | So a red piller supposedly actually opted for Heartiste's "thermonuclear option". Is this healthy? Ethical? Wise? True?Male feminist here: no one has told me any of those things and if they did I'd tell them to go fuck themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/14 10:52 PM |
| 7 | So a red piller supposedly actually opted for Heartiste's "thermonuclear option". Is this healthy? Ethical? Wise? True?Oy, everyone here knows what it is and what I'm talking about. Everyone's read that stupid shitty article, and everyone on TRP is "supposed" to have read it. I'm not trying to mislead anyone. The fact remains that a tacit endorsement of cheating is directly linked in the heralded and required to read TRP sidebar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/14 04:33 AM |
| 1 | What is trp advice on dealing with Dom fatigue and sub drop?The fact that submissive men in BDSM usually do not get what they want is TRP. Like hell we don't! We are a rare commodity lol, most men are uncomfortable subbing for real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/14 02:59 AM |
| 1 | What is trp advice on dealing with Dom fatigue and sub drop?If you're feeling nice, this is a great time to say things like "I'm proud of you, little one." Her face will light up like a sunrise hahah ...why does that seem so hot to me right now? I think I'm gonna try reconnecting with an old sub buddy lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/14 02:58 AM |
| 5 | So a red piller supposedly actually opted for Heartiste's "thermonuclear option". Is this healthy? Ethical? Wise? True?Well on that we can definitely agree lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 11:49 PM |
| 7 | So a red piller supposedly actually opted for Heartiste's "thermonuclear option". Is this healthy? Ethical? Wise? True?I never said sex isn't important in marriage (for both parties), but to say that men will tolerate anything to get anal is pretty boneheaded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 11:46 PM |
| 10 | So a red piller supposedly actually opted for Heartiste's "thermonuclear option". Is this healthy? Ethical? Wise? True?It links to that specific article, in order to demonstrate what dread game is. Remains to be seen. Yes, I'm sure this turn out swimmingly and won't be dysfunctional and hideous at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 11:44 PM |
| 6 | So a red piller supposedly actually opted for Heartiste's "thermonuclear option". Is this healthy? Ethical? Wise? True?This honestly reads like a troll. Perhaps those are your prerogatives, but to everyone else that seems like a profoundly shallow caricature of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Why I Rejected Feminism: Exhibit AI didn't downvote you, and just to prove it I'll downvote you now so you can see the additional downvote. It shouldn't bother you, as internet points don't matter. At any rate, you were clearly being hostile several comments before /u/la_sabotage was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 11:25 PM |
| 5 | So a red piller supposedly actually opted for Heartiste's "thermonuclear option". Is this healthy? Ethical? Wise? True?But this is a total false flag because he contradicts himself saying he's TRP 1-2 months, but then says he was able to get his wife to do anal months before. When your wife after 15 years starts giving up anal and swallowing, most men would be ecstatic - I'm talking off the charts thrilled. That is a very dismal view of men. Men can still be unhappy in a marriage even with good sex (not that anal and swallowing even automatically make the sex good). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 10:46 PM |
| 7 | So a red piller supposedly actually opted for Heartiste's "thermonuclear option". Is this healthy? Ethical? Wise? True?TRP's sidebar =/= TRP? Then why do you hear "read the sidebar" so often over there? And it worked. Supposedly, and no it didn't anyway. Heartiste guaranteed you'd have a love slave for life. One night of good sex in an ending marriage is hardly that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 10:20 PM |
| 6 | So a red piller supposedly actually opted for Heartiste's "thermonuclear option". Is this healthy? Ethical? Wise? True?Doesn't matter, it was upvoted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 10:18 PM |
| 6 | So a red piller supposedly actually opted for Heartiste's "thermonuclear option". Is this healthy? Ethical? Wise? True?He actually doesn't do what TRP proscribes (see my comment on him) since he made it clear he cheated. Yes he did. His title is literally a reference to Heartiste's "thermonuclear option" in /r/TheRedPill's sidebar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Why I Rejected Feminism: Exhibit AAnd dear God, why is your first reaction hostility? Maybe because what she was reacting to was hostility? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 09:23 PM |
| 1 | What is trp advice on dealing with Dom fatigue and sub drop?I never derided them, and I never "harshly dismissed" them; I merely mentioned that the rules don't change for them. Well, maybe I misunderstood what you were saying, I interpreted it as "these guys are outliers, and we aren't interested in their problems", but now that I look more closely, it seems you are saying TRP actually does address their concerns? That "the rules" don't change for them? I gotta say, asexual people definitely have to play by a different set of rules at least lol. Anyway, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 09:03 PM |
| 14 | So a red piller supposedly actually opted for Heartiste's "thermonuclear option". Is this healthy? Ethical? Wise? True?The OP putting "ethical" in the question puzzled me. Why would that matter? Because outside of TRP we actually do talk about what's right and wrong, and we will continue to do so despite what TRP thinks about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 08:44 PM |
| 1 | What is trp advice on dealing with Dom fatigue and sub drop?Oy, I'm not trying to trap you in a "gotcha" moment, I'm just trying to make a point. You deride "asexual, trans, bdsm, foot fetishers, furries, and whatever the hell other things people are" as being irrelevant to RPW, that you guys deal with "normal" people. Well, to put it indelicately, you aren't normal people. I honestly don't know why RPW so harshly dismisses anybody they consider "weird", being as how they're pretty weird themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 08:33 PM |
| 1 | What is trp advice on dealing with Dom fatigue and sub drop?Yep, me too. Keep it spicy and interesting, change things up once in a while! That's how you keep the magic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 08:17 PM |
| 1 | What is trp advice on dealing with Dom fatigue and sub drop?I thought TRP was for guys who aren't "naturals". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 08:16 PM |
| 1 | What is trp advice on dealing with Dom fatigue and sub drop?So... TRP and RPW don't mainly deal with the big bump in the bell curve? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 08:11 PM |
| 5 | So a red piller supposedly actually opted for Heartiste's "thermonuclear option". Is this healthy? Ethical? Wise? True?I'm not outraged. Clearly it's a fucked up situation (if it's true) and OP is not exactly being articulate, clear and up front about the details, so whatever. I think it's odd that he's trying to do good by his wife by protecting her financially (although I don't understand at all how that makes sense) yet he's willing to put her in this fucked up situation. I'm really more interested in the red pill reaction. Comments like this; that's TRP to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 08:08 PM |
| 1 | What is trp advice on dealing with Dom fatigue and sub drop?Am I? My argument is simply that RPWs are, indeed, outliers. Edit:typo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 07:39 PM |
| 8 | So a red piller supposedly actually opted for Heartiste's "thermonuclear option". Is this healthy? Ethical? Wise? True?As other have said in that thread, there's no such thing as "allowing" another to divorce; he's just chosen not to, perhaps because she has said she doesn't want to. So it's a null argument. He could divorce at any time. I have swallowed the Red Pill and I have realized that having affairs is not a way to cope with a bad marriage, even one where I love loved my wife. And yet, here he is getting upvoted with the story "cheating has been totally awesome and worked out perfectly. But I aint saying … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 07:37 PM |
| 1 | What is trp advice on dealing with Dom fatigue and sub drop?Lol no, we don't "all share", but non-exclusivity is often a big part of fetish culture (check out /r/Cuckold for just one example). /u/thebellmaker seems to be into pet play, and letting others "use" his pet will make him/her feel degraded and objectified, which is hot, and will make /u/thebellmaker feel like a callous, disinterested, and cruel master, which is also hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 07:29 PM |
| 1 | What is trp advice on dealing with Dom fatigue and sub drop?Welllll, I can kind of see where both those people are coming from (incidentally, I am a poly dude who's into BDSM, so I might have a bit of a biased standpoint lol). I've seen on a few red pill blogs advice encouraging men to basically engage in super rough sex and ravishment play, but nothing about communication and safety protocols you would find in most mainstream BDSM blogs, which gives me and other BDSM folks pause. The attitude sometimes seems like "she wants it, just give it to her" whic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 06:59 PM |
| 1 | What is trp advice on dealing with Dom fatigue and sub drop?Every so often some BDSM advocate insists on trying to mainstream their fringe community by making some kind of stupid parallel with TRP BDSM is far more mainstream than TRP, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 06:40 PM |
| 1 | What is trp advice on dealing with Dom fatigue and sub drop?The belief that TRP represents the majority of people's interests is pure delusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 06:38 PM |
| 1 | What religions and/or philosophies do RPW follow?I meant the RPW version of an ideal relationship. Sorry. Lol whew! I don't have a single problem with people who use red pill as a way of exploring their personal tastes, but as son as I here red pillers get political with it, or prescribe their proclivities as the universal ideal, I got beef lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 05:11 PM |
| 0 | What religions and/or philosophies do RPW follow?the ideal relationship does mirror that encouraged in the bible. Now waitaminute, you told me earlier that you acknowledged that a traditional relationship was best for you, but not necessarily the ideal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 04:56 PM |
| 5 | Is TRP misanthropic?I can't get behind such stark individualism. Had Turing been born in 10,000 B.C. he would have been a caveman like the rest of us. As Hawking said, he stood on the shoulders of giants (not to discredit his genius of course). Humans are a communal animal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/14 04:32 AM |
| 1 | If a woman took the red pill, how would it change her outlook on life?Do you think Kay's ideas are applicable to most or even all hetero relationships? Sorry if this is coming off as a bit interrogation-y lol, I'm really just curious. How much does Kay's ideas mirror TRPs? Can you break down some of his core ideas? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/14 06:08 AM |
| 3 | If a woman took the red pill, how would it change her outlook on life?Do you think it would be fair to say that if your husband never got involved in the manosphere, you wouldn't have either and things would not be much different (i.e. you would both be happy and in a mostly traditional relationship)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/14 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Is TRP misanthropic?Oh, I definitely agree that actively trying to improve things by way of talking about the bad is incredibly important, but I try not to let that make me lose sight of just how incredible the human race really is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/14 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Is TRP misanthropic?Well thanks for contributing with your cringey Matrix quote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/14 05:13 AM |
| 3 | Is TRP misanthropic?Who is your enemy? And what's that got to do with whether or not TRP is misanthropic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/14 05:01 AM |
| 8 | Is TRP misanthropic?I do. We have made such extraordinary strides in the last hundred years, and things are progressing in every area exponentially (as in, more and more rapidly). Two hobbyist brothers from Ohio made a rudimentary flying machine, and 60 years later we were walking on the moon. War, suffering, disease, hunger, tyranny; it has all been rapidly decreasing. And yes, bigotry is down and tolerance is up, and that includes the oppression of women. We are better than ever and things seem to be going toward… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/14 05:00 AM |
| 3 | Question: How is a blue pillar financially supporting his wife/SO substantively different than a red pillar financially supporting his wife/SO?Because feminists never rag on gold diggers. That never happens. (I'm not even saying that they're right to.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/14 04:03 AM |
| 4 | If a woman took the red pill, how would it change her outlook on life?What, specifically, did you learn in TRP that inspired you to take these actions? Did you learn about TRP through your husband? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/14 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Who is the biggest influence on your life and how have they shaped how you view the world?Thanks for taking the time to read my drunken ramble Baker :) that's awesome that you got to have a similar experience, I could just go on and on about how amazing my time with her was. I'm such a dummy for letting the memory it all get tainted for so long by freaking out and cutting contact lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/14 02:43 AM |
| 6 | Does TRP and PUA over-complicate things?I'd agree about the Cosmo thing; to me, TRP is absolutely analogous to Cosmo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/14 10:06 PM |
| 8 | Speaking of "Backing Into The Red Pill": Another female advice columnist on "Bad Boys"Eh, it's not like there isn't a cliche of guys making regrettable relationship decisions. "Crazy bitch", anyone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/14 09:51 PM |
| -2 | Well I got banned from TBP and Downvoted to oblivion in TRP ... so I'd say it's a pretty okay week. Lets hear how you got banned from TBP or TRPLol, how insecure alpha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/14 04:41 AM |
| 2 | What are two songs that you believe represent red pill and blue pill the best?Blue pill Red Pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/14 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Well I got banned from TBP and Downvoted to oblivion in TRP ... so I'd say it's a pretty okay week. Lets hear how you got banned from TBP or TRPWell, the top 2 posts on the front page right now are hilarious. I think I'll stay. Edit: I'd submit this, but it's more than one panel and I think it's altered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/14 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Well I got banned from TBP and Downvoted to oblivion in TRP ... so I'd say it's a pretty okay week. Lets hear how you got banned from TBP or TRPI honestly don't remember, but you made me look through your submission history, so sweet Sebastian Shaw panel bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/14 02:05 AM |
| 4 | Well I got banned from TBP and Downvoted to oblivion in TRP ... so I'd say it's a pretty okay week. Lets hear how you got banned from TBP or TRPLol, so provincial. Humans have not been doing science seriously for a long enough time to make that assertion. We stand on the chronological threshold of civilization, Greece started to think about these things a mere 6,000 years ago. Who's to say what gender out-accomplishes the other in, say, 100,000 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/14 02:03 AM |
| 6 | Who is the biggest influence on your life and how have they shaped how you view the world?It's a cliche I know, but Carl Sagan. I'm not sure if he ever addressed gender in a political way, and that about reflects how important all this pill stuff is to me (i.e. it isn't). I do remember in Cosmos him talking about Hypatia of Alexandria, who was a martyr for science and a woman, and that was very evocative and her character seems out of sorts with what TRP asserts about women, but that's about it. Edit: Scratch that. There was a person who influenced me in a material way as much if not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/14 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Don't red pillers engage in "alpha fux, beta bux" as well?No, and I didn't, you just misunderstood what I was saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/14 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Talk me down, Blue Pillers: two women's-advice writers are quietly agreeing with TRP, and I don't know how to deal with it.Ugh, not me. I don't want to be "taken care of", and many women don't either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/14 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Don't red pillers engage in "alpha fux, beta bux" as well?Don't get me wrong, I'm not necessarily criticizing the behavior. I'm criticizing the whining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/14 02:22 AM |
| 9 | Don't red pillers engage in "alpha fux, beta bux" as well?Are TRPers who bitch about it being hypocrites? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/14 01:46 AM |
| 1 | What's the deal with "hawwt"?I know, I know, it's not a big thing. It's just something I saw 4 or 5 times and it kept on rattling around in my head. I wish I would have saved them, I don't know how to find them now. Maybe I should just delete this thread, A better one popped into my head anyway. This might be better to address in a comment reply next time I see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/14 01:30 AM |
| 1 | What's the deal with "hawwt"?That was just a hypothetical example, I don't know if anyone ever actually said that specifically. What I'm trying to address is "hawwt", specifically. It's not "hot". It's "hawwt". It's clearly making fun of women for the crime of, what, finding some men attractive? I can't wrap my head around it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/14 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Talk me down, Blue Pillers: two women's-advice writers are quietly agreeing with TRP, and I don't know how to deal with it.To be fair, the same advice is given to men in cheesy pop-advice columns (can't turn a ho into a housewife, a bloo bloo bloo). Date sluts and marry nice girls is advice that is explicitly given in TRP all the time, and it's definitely not just found there, so it's a little hypocritical that they're mad women get the same advice. Actually, now that I said that, I want to make a thread along the lines of "don't TRPers engage in alpha fucks, beta bucks too?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/14 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Honest question; Why does TRP think women can't/shouldn't be 'alphas'? [x-post from /r/TheBluePill]I want a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/14 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Talk me down, Blue Pillers: two women's-advice writers are quietly agreeing with TRP, and I don't know how to deal with it.Well huh. I read all this, and I'm scratching my head trying to figure out why it's a bad thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/14 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Why Is "Dread Game" Such A Hot Button?Can I infer from your comment that you see nothing wrong with the examples I listed from the very same article? Well, no, I think it's horrible relationship advice and will sow suffering, I'm just not sure if it would qualify as emotional abuse necessarily. you harshly declare it as neglect which makes me wonder if an adult partner can ever be dependent enough to warrant said term used as in neglecting a child, i.e. someone who is without question dependent on you emotionally. Not at all. Neglec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/14 12:54 AM |
| 1 | "TheBluePill is Just a Satire Sub, Not SRS, Feminist or SJW"? These are some hi-larious "satire" posts?My life's just taken a busy turn and I'm crashing pretty late and often perhaps a bit tipsy this week lol. I actually want to go back to that convo, but I just haven't had it in me these past few :/ I will though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/14 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Feel like asking a light question on here. What kind of music do the lovely people of PurplePillDebate like?Shamefully, I have only listened to individual tracks from Section.80, I still haven't gotten around to picking it up and listening to it through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/14 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Feel like asking a light question on here. What kind of music do the lovely people of PurplePillDebate like?I listen to mostly hip-hop these days. Good Kid, mAAd City is on repeat in my car lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/14 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Feel like asking a light question on here. What kind of music do the lovely people of PurplePillDebate like?I like much of this :D Do you ever get down on some trip-hop, like Massive Attack or Portishead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/14 06:29 AM |
| 1 | What brought you here?I found out about TRP, and by extension this place, because I used to frequent /r/AskMen and that sub started to get more and more RPers there. I ended up and stayed here because my life is pretty much free of any kind of drama or arguing, so I get to express it here. If there was a sub to bicker with SRSers, I would probably do that too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/14 06:22 AM |
| 1 | "TheBluePill is Just a Satire Sub, Not SRS, Feminist or SJW"? These are some hi-larious "satire" posts?This is a flat out non-truth. I see thoughtful discourse here all the time. I mean, I don't usually, because I don't take TRP seriously, but other people do! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/14 10:27 PM |
| 5 | "TheBluePill is Just a Satire Sub, Not SRS, Feminist or SJW"? These are some hi-larious "satire" posts?That doesn't even make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/14 10:23 AM |
| 0 | RP: Are men superior to women?And the advice is just as useful! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/14 04:54 AM |
| 2 | "TheBluePill is Just a Satire Sub, Not SRS, Feminist or SJW"? These are some hi-larious "satire" posts?You don't have to be part of SRS, an SJW, or even a feminist to enjoy making fun of TRP, or even to have a semi-serious minded post in TBP. The options aren't 100% jokey or SRS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/14 04:47 AM |
| 10 | "TheBluePill is Just a Satire Sub, Not SRS, Feminist or SJW"? These are some hi-larious "satire" posts?I don't care if you call it satire or whatever, I just want the good stuff (i.e., ridiculous red pill posts), and TBP delivers. That is the majority of their content. Just linking some choice Red Pill foolery for me to laugh at. I enjoy TBP in the exact same fashion I enjoy /r/cringepics. It's fun to see something so dumb, backwards and terrible you can only shake your head and say "wow". I wish I could discover TRP for the first time again, it just stunned me so good. I love seeing it happen to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/14 03:43 AM |
| 3 | Why Is "Dread Game" Such A Hot Button?Well, I think you deliberately cherry picked and left out context from that article. Let's examine it a bit further. Cook her a romantic candlelight dinner at home. Make it a memorable experience, complete with jazz, chocolate, and rose petals. Then, do not talk with her for four days afterwards. This is emotional neglect specifically designed to prey on insecurity. I would qualify that as emotional abuse, as it is purely designed to harm your partner into submission. Ignore her calls for a week… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/14 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Are BPers Bullies?Your edit is ridiculous. It has been noted, no doxxing was allowed to take place, the blue pill mods squashed it before any doxxing took place. As far as we know, no doxxing was even considered. You seem to take it as a given that it would have without intervention. This thread and the one in TRP is a farce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/14 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Why do women initiate most divorces?hate all you want, your opinion doesn't matter. Oh boy lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/14 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Why Is "Dread Game" Such A Hot Button?Well, yes, historically, but the modern day understanding of chivalry is following certain social expectations about the treatment of women, or going out of your way for them. Btw, women aren't weak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/14 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Why do women initiate most divorces?just look at the fact that women think 80% of men are less attractive than average This is hardly a "fact". The only "fact" one can extrapolate from that survey is that on average the women surveyed on OkCupid found 80% of the supposedly random selection of men below average. It's a single data point in a specific context, it doesn't demonstrate jack shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/14 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Why Is "Dread Game" Such A Hot Button?So chivalry (benevolent sexism) is not dead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/14 11:27 PM |
| 3 | Why Is "Dread Game" Such A Hot Button?Why not? So, you seem to be under the impression that there is no such thing as emotional abuse. I think it's probably simply a semantic argument, but what word would you use for things like gaslighting, deliberate belittlement, and isolation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/14 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Why Is "Dread Game" Such A Hot Button?Or, it means someone would be just as likely to rush to my aid if someone stole my wallet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/14 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Why Is "Dread Game" Such A Hot Button?You are in a happy, stable relationship after employing Heartiste's "methods"? I don't believe you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Why Is "Dread Game" Such A Hot Button?Debate, not relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 11:19 PM |
| 5 | Why Is "Dread Game" Such A Hot Button?If an S.O. repetitively did spiteful things seemingly designed to aggravate me, I would advance things to serious conversations, then counseling if that didn't help, then I would end the relationship if that didn't help. Of course, I'd be more hesitant and try harder to salvage the relationship if their were children involved, but I'm a firm believer that you can raise well-adjusted children after a divorce (sometimes it really is the best call for them, actually. Better than a broken home). I w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 10:59 PM |
| 7 | Why on earth is feminism still around?What a very silly article you wrote. Women vote in Germany, and Germany is quite austere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 10:01 PM |
| 0 | Why Is "Dread Game" Such A Hot Button?Oh god please feature me nicethings! I so hope this catches on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Does transhumanism invalidate gender essentialism?Would this invalidate the idea that the personality differences between people of each gender is completely down to sexual dimorphism? IMO, that idea is already completely invalid. I think the differences between individuals far outweigh the personality trend differences between men and women in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Why on earth is feminism still around?Well... I agree with that, actually. I think the cultural pressures men face when it comes to rape is highly destructive. But both of those things are founded in sexist gender expectations, it's impossible to discuss them without discussing sexism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Why on earth is feminism still around?So? Frankly, the ACLU is badass, and so is NOW. Maybe we don't need them, but I definitely like having them around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 09:30 PM |
| 7 | Why on earth is feminism still around?You are getting frantic. I'm not even Asian, and I think SRS is shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Why on earth is feminism still around?It begs the question of why exactly is there such a disparity between women in leadership? We could presuppose that there is an underlying conspiracy (har har Patriarchy) that actively discourages them from doing those things. You missed one: the cultural presupposition (by men and women) that men are better leaders. Just look at how people talk about Hilary in casual settings and you'll see this in action. slut shaming I'm against pretty much all shaming. I don't really care about the evolution… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Why on earth is feminism still around?Why? Why is feminism and civil rights changing to suit the time and place they exist something to feel strongly about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Why on earth is feminism still around?Ok, it's nothing to feel strongly about, then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 08:55 PM |
| 5 | Why on earth is feminism still around?The hubris of an ideological fanatic. It was pretty much a joke. You still haven't answered my question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 08:54 PM |
| 5 | Why on earth is feminism still around?Cry me a river The irony! Here you are, crying about the bad shake white people get, and then you turn around and dismiss Asians for having the same problems. 67% is a made up statistic. It's right there in the report I linked. Is everything that flies in the face of your narrative "made up"? Asians are very successful. Yes, which is why they are discriminated against in college acceptance. And why white people are discriminated against as well, because of our greater success rate as compared to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Why on earth is feminism still around?Huh, just looked up the statistics, and it appears you are right. I should be more careful! Still, many women I know do get groped on the bus, and that goes largely unreported, so there's that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 08:49 PM |
| 5 | Why on earth is feminism still around?67% is not a very small discrepancy. I think you are uncomfortable with the idea that white people are not the worst victims of racial discrimination in college acceptance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 08:44 PM |
| 2 | What constitutes a healthy relationship to you?Basically, when the days are happy. When you enjoy being around your S.O. When you give a shit about them, and they give a shit about you. You hardly ever fight, because you know that if you're unhappy, you can go to them with your problem and they will care enough to listen and try to fix it, and you know you'd do the same for them. My sister is in a marriage very much like this. Now, a "healthy relationship" does not necessarily mean both parties have a well-adjusted psyche. I think you can go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 08:32 PM |
| 9 | What constitutes a healthy relationship to you?I'm so sorry you are in a broken, hellish relationship :'( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 08:28 PM |
| 4 | Why on earth is feminism still around?Huh. Not even playfully? That's mildly surprising given how you described yourself as having a reputation for being a man-whore. Lol no, I meant like, non-consensually molested by a stranger, of course. I didn't have that kind of reputation and have still been groped/molested. One of those times was in my sleep (I found out because people were laughing about how I was frowning in my sleep after being kissed). Could qualify as rape for some people, but it didn't seem like a big deal to me. Well, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 08:24 PM |
| 11 | Why on earth is feminism still around?Everybody wants to live in my utopia. My utopia is free of want, where human curiosity and pleasure reign supreme, and suffering and death are interesting history. But that is, of course, impossible for the foreseeable future. We have to discuss the world as is. I notice you didn't answer my question. Do you think bias against fathers, dismissal of sexual violence against male prisoners, and pedophile hysteria are not "problems" that need to be "fixed"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 08:17 PM |
| 5 | Why on earth is feminism still around?So black people have no reason to feel guilty about preferential treatment? Many do anyway. By the way, it absolutely is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 08:11 PM |
| 5 | Why on earth is feminism still around?I didn't say it was. I said movements change when the cultural contxt changes. It's nothing to get butthurt about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Why on earth is feminism still around?White genocide is the end product of the social justice movement. Just look at tumblr, "kill all whites", "if you're white die". That's why we need to keep the status quo, else we risk one or another race being exterminated. So because edgy teenagers on the internet write inflammatory things, 2 billion people, scattered all across the globe, are going to be wiped out? Of course I don't feel guilty. Well you are an utter hypocrite then. A white person will be chosen over an Asian person with the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 08:05 PM |
| 13 | Why on earth is feminism still around?So, "who cares" and "nuh-uh". Compelling arguments. Are you similarly dismissive about men's problems in the first world, or do those somehow matter more? Edit: punctuation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Why on earth is feminism still around?I don't see why any of this is a "conspiracy" - the cultural Marxists wrote about it and published their works. It's all in the public record. Well, the Nazis wrote about establishing a "Neuordnung" (New World Order), but that shit didn't happen. Doesn't stop conspiracy nutters from believing it, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 07:58 PM |
| 8 | Why on earth is feminism still around?No workplace ever discriminates based on race? Nobody would ever need an ACLU lawyer? That is an... odd view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 07:53 PM |
| 7 | Why on earth is feminism still around?You don't "need" the civil rights movement for the "tiny little issue" of workplace discrimination, but the ACLU still carries that banner. Things change, and so do movements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 07:48 PM |
| 4 | Why on earth is feminism still around?Guess what, it's not safe or wise for anyone, male or female, to walk around in dangerous areas alone at night or to get blackout drunk around unfamiliar people. It is much more safe for me, as a man, to do those things. Also, while feeling unsafe as a woman in this world is definitely shitty, and in the spotlight because of the #yesallwomen thing, it isn't a major feminist fight. Feminists don't aspire to end danger itself, it's more of an awareness thing. They're saying "look dude, I get grope… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 07:46 PM |
| 4 | Why on earth is feminism still around?What's white genocide? Also, do you feel guilty that you, as a white person, are preferred over Asian-American applicants for college acceptance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 07:36 PM |
| 10 | Why on earth is feminism still around?In that case, is men's rights needed? There's always room for improvement. Here are some ways that I think women get shafted in much of the first world: Disparity of women in leadership positions Double standard concerning promiscuity How rape is handled in the military How women are treated in the corporate world (where a big part of "wage gap" statistics come from) How assertive, confident women are considered, socially (they're considered bitches most of the time) Women are still not mandated… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Why Is "Dread Game" Such A Hot Button?Women can be abusive, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 05:21 PM |
| 4 | Why Is "Dread Game" Such A Hot Button?What do you want out of life? A healthy relationship? If so, I would recommend online dating. Meeting people doesn't have to be "organic" in today's world, online dating get's a bad rap I think. I know 3 married couples who met online and they couldn't be happier. Just go on dates until you find someone you really like being around, and then go on more dates with her and see what happens. Don't worry about shit tests, or game, or displays of value. There's no such thing as "taking the blue pill"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 05:17 PM |
| 4 | Why Is "Dread Game" Such A Hot Button?Good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Why Is "Dread Game" Such A Hot Button?Did I say assholes couldn't be in a relationship? I did not. Also, cheaters and abusers tend to not be able to maintain long-lasting, healthy relationships, which was my point anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 04:55 PM |
| 4 | Why Is "Dread Game" Such A Hot Button?I don't know why you don't seem to understand that TRP doesn't view "dread game" as abusive. Doesn't matter how they view it, this is abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 04:52 PM |
| 5 | Red Pill commenter = downvoteI think so. For you to go from "red pillers are downvoted more often than blue pillers" to "women are more petty and emotional than men" requires just a few assumptions in between, don't you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill commenter = downvoteAre you being sarcastic? That is a massive cognitive leap if not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Why Is "Dread Game" Such A Hot Button?It sounds to me like you're projecting to justify shitty behavior. That is a very tortured cognitive leap to make the argument "well they do it too!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 02:25 PM |
| 12 | Why Is "Dread Game" Such A Hot Button?Please. Most assholes I know are bitter and alone, and most kind, decent people I know are in healthy relationships. People who say "assholes always get the girls" just think those guys are assholes because they're bitter and jealous about their happiness that they don't have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/14 02:21 PM |
| 4 | Shouldn't red pill listen and learn from blue pill?I don't know if you're kidding, but I got laid a while ago by giggling, saying thank you enthusiastically, and apparently blushing after receiving a surprise compliment. Being super girly is Red Pill as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/14 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't red pill listen and learn from blue pill?I have never once seen that offered or accepted as good hookup advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/14 08:57 PM |
| 1 | I Believe That Bluepills Advertise TRPSounds like a plan :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/14 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Light Question: Is this an outlook to marriage TRP would agree upon?Gotcha. Honestly, and this is not a personal shot at you, but the whole "spinning plates" metaphor just grinds me. Like, dating around is not that difficult, but TRP makes it out to be this incredible, delicate feat that could come crashing down if not handled properly. The only time it would be like that is if you were being deceptive with people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/14 04:09 AM |
| 1 | I Believe That Bluepills Advertise TRPI just got pregnant and I'm more focused on preparing for motherhood at the moment. Mazel tov! :D I agree with all the rest of the stuff you said, you seem pretty alright FM :) coming back to if there's a sub for German culture abroad, maybe you could ask /r/de if there are any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/14 04:03 AM |
| 1 | I Believe That Bluepills Advertise TRPThen you're definitely barking up the wrong tree with Stormfront lol, they are literally the most notorious hate site on the internet. I don't think German heritage is in danger of disappearing anytime soon lol, but I can definitely understand wanting to connect with it here in America (amusingly, this type of motherland connection is often lambasted by racists in America as "failing to integrate"). Have you considered seeing if there are any German-American clubs that meet near your location? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/14 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Light Question: Is this an outlook to marriage TRP would agree upon?So "spinning plates" is akin to "dating around"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/14 03:34 AM |
| -1 | MTV casting call for those that have experience with "slut shaming"People don't insult people to their face often, no, but that's not all there is to slut shaming. My brother-in-law prattles on about how all his female cousins are whores, and told me the worst thing that could ever happen to him is if his daughter turned out like that. A friend of mine who likes pro wrestling as well chastised former WWE wrestler Melina for being a "major slut" backstage, and how if she had "better morals" maybe she wouldn't have been fired. My father stopped speaking to my sis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/14 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Light Question: Is this an outlook to marriage TRP would agree upon?Is plate synonymous with fuck buddy in this instance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/14 02:01 AM |
| 1 | MTV casting call for those that have experience with "slut shaming"So, no, rejection isn't shaming, but men are shamed for many things in this culture, and it's worth talking about too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/14 01:58 AM |
| 11 | MTV casting call for those that have experience with "slut shaming"So unattractive people must often resort to sleeping with unattractive people? This is hardly surprising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/14 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Light Question: Is this an outlook to marriage TRP would agree upon?"Do better"? What an odd way of looking at it. Is it so impossible that a man may fall in love but still crave variety in sexual partners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/14 01:08 AM |
| 8 | MTV casting call for those that have experience with "slut shaming"It's been demonstrated that women on OkCupid found 80% of men not attractive in one survey. A vast majority of men do, indeed, have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/14 01:04 AM |
| 5 | MTV casting call for those that have experience with "slut shaming"Most people, men and women, prefer monogamy and long term relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/14 01:00 AM |
| 0 | I Believe That Bluepills Advertise TRPWell, /r/germanyusa is pretty small, but it might be what you're looking for. /r/germany is the major English speaking German sub and /r/de seems to be the German speaking one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/14 12:54 AM |
| 0 | I Believe That Bluepills Advertise TRPHere's the thing about "white culture": there really is no one, unifying culture that all white people share. Frankly, the same applies to "black" and "Asian" culture too (although, anthropologically, the "3 big races" model is considered outdated). There are many cultures that are primarily shared by white people, but no real "white culture". This puts some white Americans out of sorts because it very much seems that minorities in America do have a particular culture of their own, but white peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/14 12:26 AM |
| 5 | I Believe That Bluepills Advertise TRPProbably so, but there are a lot of /r/WhiteRights posters in TRP, that doesn't mean TRP has a racist vibe in general. Sure the occasional racism slips through in TRP and the occasional crybabying slips through in TBP, but non-racists can clearly enjoy TRP and I can enjoy TBP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/14 02:24 AM |
| 7 | I Believe That Bluepills Advertise TRPNah, TBP doesn't have that tumblrina, SRS vibe. I laugh at SJWs too, and I fuckin love TBP. Plus, I'm a feminist, feminists are not ubiquitously cringey all the time like TRPers seem to be with few exceptions. There is literally content for TBP every day from just one subreddit! TiA has to scour multiple websites to find the goods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/14 02:19 AM |
| 7 | I Believe That Bluepills Advertise TRPSorry, but TRP is often featured on both /r/TumblrInAction and /r/cringepics. It is dumb, easy to make fun of, and hilarious. Most TBP content isn't self-posts like that, it's normally literally a link to some TRP content that boils down to "look at this shit. Just... look at it." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/14 02:10 AM |
| 8 | I Believe That Bluepills Advertise TRPI don't care if more people become aware of TRP. I'm not the thought police, people can make up their own minds about it. IMO TBP doesn't have a massive "anti-TRP campaign", at least not in the way you mean it. We just make fun of it, because most of the people in that sub are easy to make fun of, and most TRP content is stupid, and once again, easy to make fun of. Frankly, I hope TRP keeps growing, because it's a never-ending source of entertainment for me. Edit: grammar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/14 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe in love?Interesting! Though, one could argue that our willingness and occasional desire to partake in psychedelic drugs must be able to be traced back to a basic biological imperative too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/14 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe in love?It's funny how the innocuous seeds of biological imperative have lead to such sophistication. From basic survival instincts have come art, philosophy, science, music, and indeed love. Even though I agree completely with your take on love, I am not cynical about it at all. I find it beautiful and awe inspiring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/14 10:39 PM |
| 0 | Lying to Prospective Partners for SexA throwaway made that post, so who knows what the fuck is going on here. And who cares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/14 10:25 PM |
| 0 | Lying to Prospective Partners for SexWeird. Well it's on my user page under "pornfavs", at any rate. A quick and dirty list of some of my absolute favorites: /r/holdthemoan, /r/chickflixxx, /r/chixxx_gifs, /r/passionx, /r/gonewildaudio, /r/HappyEmbarrassedGirls, /r/GoneWildSmiles, /r/grool, /r/TinyTits, /r/jilling, /r/hentai, /r/rule34, /r/Pantyfetish, /r/Unashamed, and of course crowd favorite /r/NSFW_GIF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/14 06:05 AM |
| 0 | Lying to Prospective Partners for SexWouldn't you know, I made a multireddit for just such an occasion! I have more porn multireddits that are more extensive that you can find on my user page, too. Ninja edit: Oh, and my subs are /r/serafuku and /r/meido (All this is NSFW, obviously) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/14 05:49 AM |
| 4 | Lying to Prospective Partners for SexOy, I should just put the explanation for my username in my flair! It was just a tongue in cheek name for my porn alt when I discovered there was a lot of porn on reddit lol, but then I started using it more and more when I started posting porn and then starting a few porn subs. I started to comment elsewhere and eventually just decided to make it my main account. I honestly would be kind of embarrassed if people knew how much time I wasted bickering about something that strictly does not matter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/14 05:09 AM |
| 4 | Technically, shouldn't RP men be in support of BP men...?Really? What do you want, self improvement? Just on reddit there's /r/GetMotivated, /r/loseit, /r/Fitness, /r/malefashionadvice, and plenty others. Relationship advice? /r/relationships. Support? /r/offmychest, /r/depression, /r/SuicideWatch. There's even my humble sub /r/LetsGetLaid for hookup advice. TRP is not the sole dispensary of advice on reddit, and there are plenty of real philosophies out there that hold much more water than TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/14 04:45 AM |
| 4 | Technically, shouldn't RP men be in support of BP men...?You mean link him and tease him in the sub? Well, yeah, Arch is clearly very articulate and thoughtful, and rarely if ever makes cringey, stupid, bigoted comments. if he was head mod instead of rps I doubt any of us would be here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/14 03:55 AM |
| 5 | Lying to Prospective Partners for SexNo, it is not permissible. Frankly, I try to avoid lying any time I can. I consider lying to manipulate people for my own selfish gain to be incredibly immoral, even if i thought it was a good strategy, which i don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/14 03:47 AM |
| -2 | What exactly does "objectifying" mean?I think he meant who in the feminist movement is under the impression that women can't objectify men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/14 05:59 AM |
| 2 | If RP is Le Truth, why don't you keep it for yourselves?I don't know, dude. This and this are in your sidebar, and the latter pretty succinctly lays out what TRP is all about. I think those alone would be enough for most people to dismiss and ridicule TRP. This whole "TRP is great and any heat we get is because of a big smear campaign" doesn't really ring particularly true to me. Every time I see TRP brought up in the wild, there's always one user who's never heard of it, checks it out for themselves, then comes back all "what the fuck?" If someone v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/14 11:21 PM |
| 2 | If RP is Le Truth, why don't you keep it for yourselves?We simply do a better job of examining whether using it will lead to good times or frustration for all. Why is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/14 04:27 PM |
| -1 | What would it take for you to switch positions?So I take it you call out misogynistic bullshit on TRP when you see it? After all, that is not what TRP is about, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/14 03:53 AM |
| 1 | What would it take for you to switch positions?Let's roll back the tape a bit. TRP is not MR. I already am an MRA and acknowledge that family and marriage law can be sexist against men (though I would argue that this is rooted in traditional sexism and not feminism). You claimed a divorce would make me red pill. That means buying into this horseshit. To fundamentally change my worldview like that because of a personal grievance like a divorce would be deeply illogical, and I am not illogical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/14 10:34 AM |
| 0 | I have realised that I'm a slut. Now what?Enjoy your petty revenge fantasy. Reflect on the fact that you are the type of person who enjoys the suffering of others, imagined though it may be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/14 10:22 AM |
| 0 | I have realised that I'm a slut. Now what?Preach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/14 10:14 AM |
| 5 | What would it take for you to switch positions?Well, I'm a male feminist and a STEM major, and while I'm not a Nice Guy™, I do try to treat people decently, and I do pretty alright lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/14 10:12 AM |
| 1 | I have realised that I'm a slut. Now what?A person's 'quality' assessment is in no way related to their level of ambition, career, self-reliance, even mental or physical health. One can be a great person while unemployed and living on inherited millions, dying of lung cancer or syphilis, and suffering from schizophrenia. I didn't mean to suggest otherwise (I didn't even ask about her career), I just wanted to get a more complete picture. The overarching point of those questions was "are you actively trying to improve yourself in ways th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/14 06:46 AM |
| 3 | I have realised that I'm a slut. Now what?I'm a BP man, but I'm going to answer anyway. After all, you posted this here, not TRP. You didn't really give any information about yourself that I would take into account when judging if someone is a "quality" person, or an attractive woman. I'll ask some questions about the former first. Are you ambitious? Are you working to improve your station in life? Are you self-reliant? Do you love yourself? Are you mentally healthy and well-adjusted? If not, are you in therapy? Are you physically healt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/14 03:45 AM |
| 1 | What would it take for you to switch positions?Fair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/14 02:53 AM |
| 3 | What would it take for you to switch positions?less logical Logic and emotionalism aren't contradictory. That's just Star Trek talking. You can be stoic and reserved and be terrible at logical thought, or fiery and passionate with a keen logical sense. If women are less logical, they are inferior, at least in that respect. hypergamous Would you drop your husband if a better man came along? A big sticking point in TRP is that women are not loyal or honorable. Hypergamy seems to suggest you would. Otherwise, if hypergamy is indistinguishable f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/14 02:21 AM |
| 0 | 1. No Downvoting 2. Comments, linkposts, surveys, and more...Nah lol. It's pretty arbitrary either way, I don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/14 02:08 AM |
| 1 | What would it take for you to switch positions?I think I would definitely fall out of love with someone like that, quickly :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/14 01:50 AM |
| 1 | 1. No Downvoting 2. Comments, linkposts, surveys, and more...Eh, I've seen bottom comments spawn the longest comment chains. Hell, I've been the bottom comment with a long comment chain lol. It's a small sub, it's easy to read everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/14 01:40 AM |
| 5 | What would it take for you to switch positions?if you've already decided you're offended or get your feathers ruffled it's very easy to have an emotional response to some of the points and not want to explore them to their reasonable core. And if you dismiss any dissenting opinion as coming from a place of offense and emotional over-reaction, it's very easy to avoid any kind of introspection or self-analysis. the idea itself is not one that holds women as inferior beings. If women are less logical, more inconsistent, more Machiavellian, hype… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/14 01:38 AM |
| 6 | What would it take for you to switch positions?Are you happy? Do you love her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/14 01:31 AM |
| 3 | 1. No Downvoting 2. Comments, linkposts, surveys, and more...Empowering how? Internet points don't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/14 01:29 AM |
| 5 | What would it take for you to switch positions?I dunno. They did a pretty good job of laying it all out for us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/14 01:07 AM |
| 3 | What would it take for you to switch positions?I don't hate most women any more than I hate most men. I find that interesting. Would you say RP and RPW are misanthropic in general? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/14 12:12 AM |
| 1 | What is TBP to you?The lock and key analogy, which supposedly justifies the double standard with regards to promiscuity, goes "a key that can open many locks is an awesome key, while a lock that opens for any key is a shitty lock". It literally addresses nothing but the double standard that you argue TRP doesn't engage in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/14 12:07 AM |
| 10 | What would it take for you to switch positions?/r/BitterDivorcees | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/14 09:12 PM |
| 1 | 1. No Downvoting 2. Comments, linkposts, surveys, and more...I suppose you're right, sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/14 08:26 PM |
| 6 | What would it take for you to switch positions?I'm sure you were aware of that, but here's my anecdote to prove it. Top lel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/14 07:31 PM |
| 6 | Alfa Asshole Cock Carousel Scientifically DisprovenI don't think one study "disproves" anything, but it is certainly interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/14 06:43 PM |
| 2 | What is TBP to you?I don't think RP says it doesn't matter for men they just don't care about what it means for them. Excuse me? Lock and key analogy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/14 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Disclosing sterilityNo red pill answers? Shame, I was curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/14 06:25 PM |
| 5 | Women, would you be apprehensive about dating a 25 year old male virgin?Huh, you don't find jokes that make fun of you directly funny? What a weird coincidence! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/14 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Men, would you be apprehensive in dating a 25 woman who has has sex with 30 different men?That sucks, man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/14 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Men, would you be apprehensive in dating a 25 woman who has has sex with 30 different men?What? BPers couldn't be getting downvotes in this thread, PPD is a blue pill circlejerk and RP opinions are always the ones to be downvoted dontchaknow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/14 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Men, would you be apprehensive in dating a 25 woman who has has sex with 30 different men?I take it she cheated on you while you were on leave? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/14 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Men, would you be apprehensive in dating a 25 woman who has has sex with 30 different men?It doesn't "upset me", I just think it's bullshit. It has served me nicely as a quick link for anyone in the wild asking "what is red pill all about?" or "why do people hate that sub?" I show them that and it usually elicits an "lol what the fuck?" reaction. It very conveniently lists a good part of all the ridiculous nonsense TRP endorses, which most people see as obviously wrong. I have gone through it point by point twice now, and I will again for you, but not right now; I'm heading out. I ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 09:23 PM |
| 4 | How do you define masculinity?Masculinity is having to do with the cultural trappings of men. Beer, sports, hunting, fishing, aggression, fighting, bodybuilding, action movies, etc. etc. Those stuff are stereotypically associated with men. It is largely unimportant except as an easy shorthand (I believe the same thing about femininity). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Men, would you be apprehensive in dating a 25 woman who has has sex with 30 different men?Here, I linked this: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1ypnv3/red_pill_antibiotic_nuke_come_and_feed/ to respond to your "what is your beef with red pill" query. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 08:33 PM |
| 0 | Men, would you be apprehensive in dating a 25 woman who has has sex with 30 different men?Sorry, I linked a thread in my previous comment, hyperlinked to the text "Most of this shit." I thought that's what you were referring to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Men, would you be apprehensive in dating a 25 woman who has has sex with 30 different men?everyone has it. Well, no, many people don't lol. Most people, in fact, prefer monogamy. You don't, however, accidentally end up at 30 people Oh no, I did that quite deliberately lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 08:25 PM |
| -1 | Men, would you be apprehensive in dating a 25 woman who has has sex with 30 different men?I'm going to be completely honest with you: I trust my intuition about people more than statistics and trends. That's just me. I haven't tried a relationship in a while, and who knows when I will next, but I will certainly be careful about anyone I date seriously. But I take people on a far more case-by-case basis than to try and look for trends that they might fit. Maybe. Maybe not. What we do know is that high partner count is a huge red flag for other issues that make these women undesirable … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Men, would you be apprehensive in dating a 25 woman who has has sex with 30 different men?Never argued it was, but it isn't necessarily a failure. I would argue that casual sex is mostly harmless if you're responsible, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Men, would you be apprehensive in dating a 25 woman who has has sex with 30 different men?Well, as someone experienced with casual sex, I can tell you that it usually isn't "rejection" that ends a hookup. Sometimes circumstances change, someone gets busy, someone moves, someone gets in a relationship. Sometimes it's broken off because one or both people start to catch feelings but they aren't in a good place for a committed relationship right now in their life. Sometimes it's just a ONS and was never meant to be more. I'd think RP could understand this one: sometime you just want to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Men, would you be apprehensive in dating a 25 woman who has has sex with 30 different men?No, but the OP of that thread did a pretty good job numerating many of the things I think RP is wrong about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Men, would you be apprehensive in dating a 25 woman who has has sex with 30 different men?why the hell would I not feel a certain disdain for someone who's probably spent all that same time receiving said effort (from our 25 other guys) and rejecting them? That is not the M.O. of really any promiscuous woman I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 06:52 PM |
| 4 | Men, would you be apprehensive in dating a 25 woman who has has sex with 30 different men?Most of this shit. "Plate spinning" is just cringey, self-congratulatory, and trying to hard. It probably is indicative of some deep seated prejudice in a very broad sense, but w/e, a lot of things are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 06:38 PM |
| -1 | Men, would you be apprehensive in dating a 25 woman who has has sex with 30 different men?I really do believe many(not all though) men are just conditioned to override or disregard this feeling or have no opportunity to compare the difference. Or, could it be they are conditioned to feel that way about promiscuous women in the first place? I know I encountered heaps of slut shaming in my youth, often from authority figures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 06:20 PM |
| 5 | Men, would you be apprehensive in dating a 25 woman who has has sex with 30 different men?Except the divorcee has failed in relationships and the promiscuous woman hasn't necessarily. She could have just been having fun. For the record, I'd probably be wary of dating a woman with 10 divorces too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 06:18 PM |
| 7 | Men, would you be apprehensive in dating a 25 woman who has has sex with 30 different men?Spin them as a plate? I'll never get over how goofy RP rhetoric is. You can't just say casual sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Men, would you be apprehensive in dating a 25 woman who has has sex with 30 different men?No, I wouldn't I had about that many partners by 25, so it would be nbd and maybe something we could connect on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 06:12 PM |
| 4 | To Red Pill Women: What makes you want to leave one father figure for another?and I definitely don't love my father Do you mind if I ask why not? Please feel free not to answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 04:11 AM |
| 2 | To Red Pill Women: What makes you want to leave one father figure for another?You tapped out! You tapped out! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 03:28 AM |
| 0 | To Red Pill Women: What makes you want to leave one father figure for another?I dunnoooo, I am pretty darn friendly and likable irl. I am far more aggressive and snarky secretly online, anonymity makes me brave! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 01:18 AM |
| 6 | From your experience, who has the most sex?I was an anti-social, bitter turd and I never got laid. Go figure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 01:15 AM |
| 7 | To Red Pill Women: What makes you want to leave one father figure for another?Well hell man, put er there! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 12:21 AM |
| 18 | To Red Pill Women: What makes you want to leave one father figure for another?Way to admit the sub is intolerant of others, judgmental Well duh. The sub is there to make fun of a specific group of idiots. I mean, that is by definition judgmental and intolerant lol. and you still don't understand the definition of irony. I think you may be more invested in our relationship than I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 12:17 AM |
| 4 | To Red Pill Women: What makes you want to leave one father figure for another?Maybe it has, maybe it hasn't, but this post doesn't demonstrate anything about the status quo of this sub, being as how OP is new here and it's her first post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/14 12:00 AM |
| 2 | To Red Pill Women: What makes you want to leave one father figure for another?When did TBP ever say it was especially open minded? Call us judgmental, that's fair, but I don't think we're hypocrites lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/14 11:58 PM |
| 8 | From your experience, who has the most sex?Be attractive. If you aren't attractive, you are going to have a much, much harder time getting laid especially casually and especially if you're a man. I agree to an extent, but I don't think "raw" looks, or even taking care of yourself, are the most important things. You can look like a million bucks and you still won't get very far if you don't try. You gotta get out there and make hookups happen. Ask for numbers, flirt, meet people. You have to be proactive with this. So yes, groom yourself,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/14 11:54 PM |
| 11 | From your experience, who has the most sex?There were like, two or three "asshole" jocks at my school. Just because you're into athletics does not mean you are a douche. As a matter of fact, I can recall more nerdy kids being huge dicks than the jocks were. Who was having the most sex? Like others have said: the band. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/14 11:47 PM |
| 14 | Amusing Daily Show piece on women in politics, and the red pill/conservative claims that women are more emotional than men and less fit to lead. Thoughts?I'm not sure Stewart is really mocking them for being emotional so much as he's mocking the hypocrisy of the right wing media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/14 04:54 AM |
| 2 | People of PPD, what is the source of your motivation and how does it influence your actions?If I am being 100% brutally honest my life is pretty much just me finding new ways to distract myself from the allure of suicide. How are you holding up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/14 04:37 AM |
| 7 | Is the notion that men hit their SMV peak at 35 wishful thinking?I found a gorgeous 21 year old that wanted a family. So you lead her on? Am I interpreting that correctly? If so, that's pretty shitty, dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/14 04:16 AM |
| 3 | The Crying Rape GameI'll always love the word problematic because of Firefly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/14 03:53 AM |
| 7 | Entitlement v.s ExpectationsGood for you, man. I've said it before, I don't begrudge anyone who's grateful to TRP for improving their lives. I wholeheartedly disagree with their opinions on women, among other things, but I'm honestly happy for anybody who happens to learn to put themselves out there, take women off the pedestal, and go for what they want through TRP. That isn't to say I won't argue against their "philosophy" until the cows come home, but I'm glad things are going good for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/14 02:31 AM |
| 7 | Entitlement v.s ExpectationsNo problem :) Maybe my experiences were different because I was such a forever alone neckbeard in my youth that no one even bothered to give me dating advice lol. Once I figured it all out though, hooking up didn't really seem like the stuff I see in TRP though. To each their own I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/14 02:21 AM |
| 5 | Entitlement v.s ExpectationsWhen people ask for dating advice this is often repeated to men as an effective way to attract women. I just don't think that's so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/14 02:11 AM |
| 11 | Is the notion that men hit their SMV peak at 35 wishful thinking?I'm not saying that because he's an outlier. I'm saying it because his circumstance doesn't demonstrate anything about age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/14 02:02 AM |
| 22 | Entitlement v.s ExpectationsHere's the thing: you are conflating two separate issues. People say you should be kind and respectful, you shouldn't push boundaries, you should treat women like people, yes. Nobody is told that those things will get you laid. Those are just things you should do anyway, because that's what being a good person is. Another part of being a good person is not expecting to be rewarded for being decent. None of this has anything to do with being laid, except when Nice Guys™ whine that being decent di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/14 01:36 AM |
| 6 | Is the notion that men hit their SMV peak at 35 wishful thinking?For you, personally, perhaps, but that doesn't really contribute to the debate, does it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 10:45 PM |
| 10 | Is the notion that men hit their SMV peak at 35 wishful thinking?six figures salary Around 6% of people make 100k plus. If you really want to tell me it's difficult for a 30-35 year old to date/hook up with 21-28 year olds - go ahead. Frankly, it isn't difficult to hook up or date at all, for men or women. You people think you're being some sort of "White knights" helping women but you're really hurting young women. Which seems to be the point, primarily. Eh? Where am I white knighting? Lol this seems like a complete non-sequitur. Remember, for all of the rag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 10:42 PM |
| 4 | Is the notion that men hit their SMV peak at 35 wishful thinking?You don't think you would have had as much or more success if you were 22 in that situation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 10:34 PM |
| 8 | Is the notion that men hit their SMV peak at 35 wishful thinking?What else could it be? A lot of casual sex happens at conventions. People are having fun, they're relaxed, they're in the mix with hundreds of strangers. It's like spring break for nerds lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 10:23 PM |
| 6 | Is the notion that men hit their SMV peak at 35 wishful thinking?going to the sort of places where young single people hang out is going to start getting you labelled creepy. Fucking this, I'm getting to that point now :( I don't wanna grow up! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 09:15 PM |
| 8 | Is the notion that men hit their SMV peak at 35 wishful thinking?Do you think a man is more sexually marketable in general at 35 than they are at 25? That is the topic of this debate. I do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 08:28 PM |
| 2 | People of PPD, what is the source of your motivation and how does it influence your actions?Hmm. I suppose I have many motivations, although ironically I have general trouble with motivation at all lol. I really have to kick myself in the ass to get anything accomplished. I am motivated by edification, which is why I am going to school for something that is intellectually satisfying, if not remarkably pragmatic lol. I am motivated by happiness, fun, and pleasure, in myself and others, which is why I'm such a slut and why I love parties and lots of friends. Hmm. Lol that's all I can thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Is the root cause of erectile dysfunction in healthy married men due to their wives being post wall?Well than is it not justice that a woman who wastes her most fertile years being a party slut mess up her chances to find an attractive man later in life? You are engaging in the revenge fantasy right now! How can your cognitive dissonance not be bothering you? You asked why we care about looks so much, as if men are wrong to be attracted to young fertile women. No I fucking didn't. Now you're going to tell me that a 35 year old woman has the same SMV (or higher LMAO) as her 18 year old self? Ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Is the root cause of erectile dysfunction in healthy married men due to their wives being post wall?You are being dense because that view point only gets spouted off by newbies and BPers who don't know what they're talking about. Seems pretty "no true scotsman" to me. I can only see what is written and upvoted on TRP, this whole passing the buck of every sketchy thing on TRP as being "the newbies" is pretty dishonest, imo. The majority of RPers read more than they post, take bits & pieces of advice with a grain of salt and apply it how they see fit in their life. How could you possibly know th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Over a million men are unknowingly raising a child that isn't theirs. The women who do this are committing a crime. (Post-Purge Version)That's a good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Over a million men are unknowingly raising a child that isn't theirs. The women who do this are committing a crime. (Post-Purge Version)I don't hate the idea. If it could be done relatively cheaply and was proposed in the US congress, it would probably have my support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Is the root cause of erectile dysfunction in healthy married men due to their wives being post wall?I don't see how that is a revenge fantasy, nobody "wants" her to be unhappy? Because you prefaced that statement with a hypothetical about a 28 year old woman who cheated on her husband. It wasn't that much of a leap to infer you were talking about the same woman. Why are you being so dense for no reason? I could say the same. You really don't see the "post-wall slut getting theirs" rhetoric all over TRP? That, in my opinion, is willfully ignorant. You really think a divorced 28 year old woman w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 05:04 PM |
| 0 | Over a million men are unknowingly raising a child that isn't theirs. The women who do this are committing a crime. (Post-Purge Version)Sorry, forgot the link. It's from Melanie McDonagh, writing for the Spectator in this article: http://www.spectator.co.uk/features/6391918/whos-the-daddy/[1] What a fucking nutter. That's my feminist viewpoint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 04:53 PM |
| 3 | On "Lust and Lysol"I mean, I've done the dishes countless times - but I don't feel the need to explain how I'm so much more "well adjusted" than others because I did the dishes, nor did I think I was some brave warrior fighting gender roles. Oh for fuck sake, neither does /u/SkyNinja7. He's obviously just responding to OP, I doubt he thinks about this at all ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 04:46 PM |
| 10 | Over a million men are unknowingly raising a child that isn't theirs. The women who do this are committing a crime. (Post-Purge Version)However, this attitude is standing in the way: "DNA tests are an anti-feminist appliance of science, a change in the balance of power between the sexes that we’ve hardly come to terms with." I haven't ever seen this opinion expressed. I'm not saying it hasn't, but I would be very interested in a link demonstrating that attitude by feminists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 04:42 PM |
| 16 | Over a million men are unknowingly raising a child that isn't theirs. The women who do this are committing a crime. (Post-Purge Version)Why are children so sacrosanct in this culture? Children are considered sacrosanct in every culture. For someone who buys so much into biological imperatives, it's surprising that you deny perhaps the biggest one. Protecting children has always been a major moral imperative, one of the universal three, actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Is the root cause of erectile dysfunction in healthy married men due to their wives being post wall?On the other hand, a divorced 28 year old woman will go back in the dating market and quickly realize that men around her age are actively chasing after younger women. That is a revenge fantasy. Also, this idea that 30+ men are more attractive than men in their 20s, and that a 10 year plus age difference in hookup and dating is common is pure wishful thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 04:26 PM |
| 11 | EntitlementNobody thinks sexism is good. Not even The Red Pill. Wellll... certain red pillers in this sub have expressed that they are openly sexist and argue that it's a good thing, so... If they want to have a successful and pleasant interactions with women, be them sexual, professional, or just casual. I try to behave similarly to men and women casually (not sexually though, obviously), but I don't think it's a major sin not to. Professionally, though, especially when you have some authority, I think tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 04:21 PM |
| 4 | Over a million men are unknowingly raising a child that isn't theirs. The women who do this are committing a crime. (Post-Purge Version)Well... paternity fraud is a crime. One which the defrauded can sue over. I'm not sure why this is a topic of discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Is the root cause of erectile dysfunction in healthy married men due to their wives being post wall?Why do you suppose "the wall" is talked about so much in TRP? Why was it in the title of this post? What could it possibly be other than a bitter revenge fantasy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Is the root cause of erectile dysfunction in healthy married men due to their wives being post wall?Yeah? I don't. No offense to /u/OfSpock or anyone else, but there's a reason pregnancy porn is considered a niche fetish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 08:40 AM |
| 6 | Is the root cause of erectile dysfunction in healthy married men due to their wives being post wall?Hooray! Now we can listen to all the moderate red pillers explain how "the wall" is totally just synonymous with deteriorating looks, and all the hardcore red pillers link pictures of old women they think are ugly! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 08:13 AM |
| 11 | Is the root cause of erectile dysfunction in healthy married men due to their wives being post wall?Erectile Dysfunction is not a disease. It is a dysfunction, i.e. something is not functioning, in this case the ability to get or mantain an erection. it can have many causes. ED is a natural byproduct of aging in general, as the cardiovascular system breaks down. Early ED can be caused by smoking or drugs, as those also affect the cardiovascular system, or it can be caused by certain diseases and disorders. Lastly it can be caused by psychological issues. These can range from stress to depressi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 04:31 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on polyamory?Fuckin lol at using "nerd" as an insult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 04:11 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on polyamory?You are trying awfully hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/14 02:04 AM |
| 4 | Is it wrong if it works?I made this decision and suffered absolutely zero consequences as a result. This thought can be applied to many things. "I stole and suffered zero consequences" "I threw a colleague under the bus to save my own ass and suffered zero consequences". That's moral nihilism, or perhaps it's more akin to ethical egoism. You said earlier that "morality is the herd instinct of the masses." I think that's very interesting. What are your thoughts on the big moral prohibitions, like murder? Would you feel … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/14 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong if it works?No one's suggesting they're not. At least I'm not. Clearly what that woman did was immoral and reprehensible, and the bulk of responsibility, perhaps even all the responsibility, obviously lies on her shoulders. But we aren't talking to her. You, also, have agency, and made the decision to sleep with a married person. You've said some things in this thread that make you seem like a moral nihilist, a hedonist, and perhaps somewhat sociopathic. I'm not trying to be insulting, I'm just interested i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/14 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Is it wrong if it works?Again, I was more interested in the statement "Morality is the herd instinct of the masses." than the ethical responsibility of this particular situation, though initially I was interested in his emotional reaction to suffering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/14 05:47 PM |
| 6 | Thoughts on polyamory?I'm basically poly. I'm just completely incapable of being sexually jealous or possessive it seems, which has harmed previous attempts at traditional exclusive monogamy for me. I can definitely see myself in an open relationship in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/14 05:27 PM |
| 6 | Thoughts on polyamory?Or just don't troll? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/14 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Is it wrong if it works?I'm trying to get an idea of GLO's ethical viewpoint and sense of empathy, not investigate the moral culpability of this specific situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/14 05:17 PM |
| 5 | Is it wrong if it works?Morality is the herd instinct of the masses. I see. So you are a moral nihilist? I already take it that you're a hedonist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/14 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Single RP and BP men, what is your average partner count for a month?I don't really know... most of the time it's just my personality with naughty jokes and comments and eye contact lol. I'm often, like, sarcastically self-depreciating I guess. Like, "yeah I'm making fun of myself, but really I like myself" I ask a lot of questions, I like to get the other person going and react to them, that way I can get a vibe from them. I tend to move pretty fast too, so my "move", such as it is, is usually just blurting out "wanna make out?" at an opportune moment if she see… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/14 08:43 AM |
| 6 | Is it wrong if it works?Does the distress of others ever trouble you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/14 05:22 AM |
| 3 | Single RP and BP men, what is your average partner count for a month?Ok, so the "strategy" part of my hookup life has more to do with creating circumstances and and opportunities where a hook up might happen, and not a lot to do with specific interpersonal communication, which seems to be the opposite of TRP's advice priorities. I try and cultivate a very broad but shallow social circle by going to parties and meeting friends of friends. In addition, I put it out their that I'm an easy slut so ladies know they'll be barking up the right tree. Other than that I ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/14 05:21 AM |
| 5 | Is it wrong if it works?Did ruining that marriage emotionally affect you in any way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/14 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Single RP and BP men, what is your average partner count for a month?/r/SlutsArgue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/14 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Would you consider yourself and idealist or a realist and what effect does this have on the way you view relationships?I'm an idealist and an optimist for sure, and it does affect my relationships. I go into things with a "this will probably work out great! :D" attitude lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/14 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Single RP and BP men, what is your average partner count for a month?Two or three a month, a few times with each normally. It can fluctuate quite a bit though. Are you satisfied with your number of partners? Absolutely, I could have more sex with more women if I wanted to. Do you use "sexual strategy"? If you what is it? I suppose you could call it that, but it's pretty uncomplicated. I can get into it later tonight perhaps if someone wants me to. What type(s) of woman (or men) do you attract? Are you attracted to these type(s)? Black chicks, indie, punk, and alt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/14 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Men of BP, how often do you get laid (and by what kinds of women)?Hmm, might that be /u/mrsamsa? She's probably my favorite poster lol. Anyway thank you so much for the lovely compliments! I'm honestly so flattered that you like my comments enough to remember me and mention it lol. Put me in a great mood :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/14 06:05 AM |
| 2 | Question for Red Pillers: Why do you debate in this sub?Look, I was just giving you shit when I called you a "fag" for liking getting fucked in the ass with a plastic penis. I honestly don't even remember you doing this. "Fag" isn't even a hurtful insult to me. You claiming that I'm just stupid, unable to understand the hip, oh-so-sophisticated snark of TheBluePill types - well, that's just an insult. Sigh. I had a long response typed up explaining the actual reasons I called you dumb, and it wasn't particularly kind, but forget it. You seem to, in s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/14 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Question for Red Pillers: Why do you debate in this sub?http://i.imgur.com/XrxMc.gif | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/14 05:15 AM |
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