myhoeacademia Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Is 21 Studios Worth It? It’s trash. And look into the founder. He had so much game he ended up dating a hooker and without knowing it; was having her speak at his conventions and doing vids w the other coaches etc etc. just a shit show. Clearly an example of someone with no game preaching on a shitbox.	/r/seduction	05/10/20 01:28 PM
1	College hookups outside of bars and frats Join my cold approach Facebook group! Cheers	/r/seduction	02/02/19 07:52 AM
1	Called her out while flaking for the 3rd time in a month. Did i say too much? That’s completely fine. So instead of dwelling on the fact that things could have gone differently, learn from your experience. You know more & better now so use that to your advantage for the next opportunity	/r/seduction	02/02/19 02:30 AM
1	Friends cockblocking me in every possible ways Tbh it sounds like your friends are quite immature regardless if they’re good friends outside of scenarios like that. You can find new wingmen, somehow take the girl(s) away from your friends, or be so good at game that you show yourself as mature & higher value than your friends	/r/seduction	02/02/19 02:26 AM
1	I now have to "cold approach" as part of my job. Help. There’s plenty of advice but here’s just one simple advice: learn to take rejection. It’s all about numbers	/r/seduction	02/02/19 02:22 AM
5	Called her out while flaking for the 3rd time in a month. Did i say too much? Imo there’s a better/ smarter way of responding to her. In a way, your response lowers your value in her eyes. Instead, you want to respond in a way that makes it seem like you’re putting the ball in her court to make her chase you. For example, try saying something along the lines of having her set up a date with you & see if you’re available. So the ball is in her court to make the plans but you have the upper hand if you wanna meet up with her or not. It’ll help show if she’s really intereste…	/r/seduction	02/02/19 02:19 AM
1	How to follow a public approach without coming off as creepy? An easy & simple solution can be to just get her number or at least some way of staying in contact which shows that you are interested. Don’t just live in the moment but think/ plan steps ahead into the future	/r/seduction	02/02/19 02:07 AM
1	How do you catch a girl's attention enough to reply to your message on Facebook, keeping in mind that she probably receives dozens of similar messages everyday. What’s better than getting a Facebook message/ reply is getting her number to have a phone call & then escalating things from there	/r/seduction	01/02/19 09:12 AM
0	I'm talking to a girl, and she told me "you need to be more jealous" how do I convey jealousy over text? No not necessarily. A girl shit tests a guy as a way of qualifying him. She says or does something in order to see the type of response you give	/r/seduction	01/02/19 09:10 AM
2	I'm talking to a girl, and she told me "you need to be more jealous" how do I convey jealousy over text? Instead of following exactly what she says, she may actually be shit testing you	/r/seduction	01/02/19 09:07 AM
1	I think I'm failing with women because I'm not aggressive enough? Reading girls is a skillset. Experience is a major variable that can help you. Also having help from another source (I.e. friend, wingman, pua) who can demonstrate & teach you different cues could help you better understand & grasp the ideas. Getting help is absolutely effective if you want to build up your game	/r/seduction	01/02/19 09:04 AM
1	Need some advice as to what I should've done in a given situation There’s many different ways you could have approached the situation from the beginning & 2 major categories you can choose from is a direct or indirect approach. Either way it means you interacting with her, not lingering. Take initiative & advantage of the opportunity	/r/seduction	01/02/19 09:01 AM
2	Holding a girl's attention? Instead of trying to think of a way to keep her interested long enough for you to transition into asking for her number, go straight to asking	/r/seduction	01/02/19 08:56 AM
3	PUA Help needed. Being able to make out with girls at clubs is one thing but being able to keep them interested more than enough to go home with you afterwards is another thing. It’s a skill you can learn. You want to tease her, arouse her, & put the thought into her mind that she wants to sleep with you. There’s the right things to say & do & right amount you can do that can easily make her wanna go home with you	/r/seduction	01/02/19 08:54 AM
1	what do you do about a girl who texts but never offers to hang out? What’s holding you back from asking her to meet up at a specific time & location? Taking initiative & control	/r/seduction	01/02/19 08:50 AM
1	Help advice needed You seem to have a problem with initiating physical contact or another way of looking at it: escalating. You may be missing or simply not being able to understand her cues. It’s a skill you can learn & I can help you go even beyond that	/r/seduction	01/02/19 08:50 AM
-1	Girls & Parties If you’re trying to pick up a girl regardless where & another girl who you’ve had history with or has a crush on you shows up, her presence shouldn’t be of importance unless you are still trying or planning to get at her too	/r/seduction	31/01/19 08:51 AM
1	Advice on first dates, I’m a (22/M). It’s common to feel anxious. You’re a small step ahead in the right direction that you recognize your emotions. What you should do next is to dive into it. Because you feel anxious when talking to a girl in person, it should give you even more reason to talk to her, overcome your fear. Not only will you feel better, you’ll want to continue & do more. You’ll want to talk to her, you’ll want to talk to more girls. I can help you get to the point where you won’t wanna be on tinder anymore	/r/seduction	31/01/19 08:45 AM
1	Advancing For a more accurate & helpful advice, could you give more context like how the interaction was when you exchanged numbers as well as your texts to her. Not only thru your perspective but hers - the way she was acting, her verbal & nonverbal cues~	/r/seduction	31/01/19 08:34 AM
2	It is like a contradiction, I do not know what to do. I can help your frustration & pain. You can learn pick up & build up your game. Your “love life” won’t be just giving other people advice anymore. PM me if you looking for step by step help though	/r/seduction	27/01/19 11:36 PM
1	Looking for LA wingman Still looking for a wingman?	/r/seduction	27/01/19 11:31 PM
1	How to ask a girl out? How do you know each other & for how long?	/r/seduction	27/01/19 11:29 PM
1	Where do I go from here? She’ll tell you when you ask her out. If you’re really trying to find out, her friends will know. Girls talk	/r/seduction	27/01/19 11:29 PM
1	Guys, should I just fucking give up with everything? Physical attributes aren’t everything. Confidence, charisma & game can help you go much further, if you want the help	/r/seduction	27/01/19 10:44 PM
2	Why do people try to say it’s about confidence and they lie to you, when in reality we all know looks is the biggest factor with girls. I agree with some of your points: a physically attractive guy who has no charisma can only go so far. Women consider looks as a factor but not the only one nor the main factor	/r/seduction	27/01/19 10:43 PM
1	I recently lost my big boy status and lost 80lbs Physical attributes aren’t as important. You can think of it as a bonus. But when it comes to picking up women, your need an attractive personality. That’s where game comes in & you can definitely build up your skills if you want help	/r/seduction	27/01/19 10:40 PM
1	Woeing a Virgin Girl Don’t over focus on the fact that she’s still a virgin. That’s background info to keep in the back of your mind. The language barrier & lack of culture knowledge should have priority- how are you going to overcome those obstacles? Show her that you’re interested by learning about her culture. Use it as a foot in the door to strike a meaningful conversation	/r/seduction	27/01/19 10:36 PM
1	How to ask a girl out? Can you give me more context? Is this a girl who you know or a stranger you want to approach	/r/seduction	27/01/19 10:30 PM
1	Where do I go from here? You want to separate yourself from all the other guys who are trying to get at her or already tried. How to make yourself different? Call her	/r/seduction	27/01/19 10:29 PM
1	No real social circle, hates social media so no FB or IG Social media is not necessarily needed, but having a good social circle is beneficial. You can still get women without a FB or IG & if you need help polishing your skills, I can help with that	/r/seduction	27/01/19 09:18 PM
1	How to ask a girl out? There are countless ways to successfully ask a girl out. This isn’t one of them. You’re saying too much & of the wrong things. You’re lowering yourself in her eyes when women seek & are attracted to higher standards. I can definitely help you get results	/r/seduction	27/01/19 09:07 PM
2	How do you guys suggest I meet girls (I'm struggling right now) Work on your day game on the weekend as well. What’s stopping you from doing both? Can you give more context on how you strike a conversation with a girl?	/r/seduction	27/01/19 07:08 PM
1	Opinions...? Have you done any cold approaches?	/r/seduction	27/01/19 06:48 PM
3	Should I hit on a friend of a friend? And if so how? What’s really holding you back from messaging both?	/r/seduction	27/01/19 06:42 PM
2	Girls on Tinder do not want to meet in person You’re not the only guy who hasn’t had much luck on dating apps like Tinder. To really pinpoint your issue, can you give more context?	/r/seduction	27/01/19 08:38 AM
3	College hookups outside of bars and frats Just for example: parties and clubs/ bars aren’t the only places to pickup girls. It’s good to learn & be able to approach at places you go to in your daily life. But also going to places where there’s people is ideal. That’s one simple & general advice, but there’s a lot more valuable information that you could learn	/r/seduction	27/01/19 06:47 AM
5	College hookups outside of bars and frats After reading thru your post, all the problems/setbacks you’ve mentioned are all fixable. I can help you if you wanna get better & get real results	/r/seduction	27/01/19 05:28 AM
2	Dating apps destroying my self-esteem You’re not the only one who hasn’t had much luck on dating apps. Plenty have either had no (decent) matches, time wasted, ghosted, etc. Could you give more context behind you being on dating apps?	/r/seduction	27/01/19 05:18 AM