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| 2 | I've read rebuttals and agree that a lot of red pill's claims are exaggerated or wrong, but I still think the sort of core idea that love is shallow and depends on your social status is trueHe certainly is | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/26 07:23 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of the books *No More Mr. Nice Guy*, *Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus*, and *The Tamed Man* by Ester Villar?Those books are very dated and all about traditional gender roles. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/06/26 04:01 PM |
| 2 | I’m in the process of killing off all parts of myself that aren’t manly enoughAll of it. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/05/26 05:19 AM |
| 6 | I’m in the process of killing off all parts of myself that aren’t manly enoughAre you looking for help with leaving that kind of thinking behind? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/05/26 04:55 PM |
| 4 | I’m in the process of killing off all parts of myself that aren’t manly enoughThe whole story you told is a lie. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/05/26 04:52 PM |
| 4 | I’m in the process of killing off all parts of myself that aren’t manly enoughThis reads like a lie. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/05/26 02:23 AM |
| 7 | what are some signs that your partner is going down the red pill path? how did it start?He evades the question/conversation. I think that's your answer. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/05/26 02:18 AM |
| 4 | I’m in the process of killing off all parts of myself that aren’t manly enoughAre you seeking help with leaving redpill thinking? I'm not clear on the point of your post. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/26 11:35 PM |
| 4 | what are some signs that your partner is going down the red pill path? how did it start?You should talk to him about why he watches that bullshit and what does he get out of it | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/26 11:13 PM |
| 2 | How to handle not getting texts backI think you're just anxious. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/26 11:29 PM |
| 3 | How to handle not getting texts backYou should only be worried if she's not responding at all. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/26 08:32 PM |
| 5 | Trying to Unlearn a Damaging Belief About DatingI think you should ask yourself why you believe you, as you are, are not good enough for someone? Why you believe they are settling for you and don't genuinely like you? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/03/26 06:59 AM |
| 13 | Did jail reform you?More than likely jail is going to make him get deeper in the white nationalist bullshit | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/26 11:06 PM |
| 4 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillMy description of this subreddit and it's goals are endorsed by the moderators of this sub. Plenty of people have pointed out your redpill thinking not just me. But I like most people here aren't interested in arguing with you about how redpill you are or are not, because that's not what this subreddit is about. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillI think you should find a space that's more in alignment with what you want. This space is for helping folks leave redpill behind. You don't seem to be interested in giving or receiving support. Maybe find a purple pill debate sub and ask them to evaluate you. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 09:43 PM |
| 4 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillNo, but I'm sure you can find one. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 09:34 PM |
| 3 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillThe description for this subreddit is: Former Red Pillers: Discussion Forum For former redpillers and others who recognize the damage caused by redpill. If you are brigading from another subreddit you will be banned. I don't know where you got your description from. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 09:33 PM |
| 4 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillThis space isn't for accessing where you are at on the redpill vs. Exredpill line. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 09:29 PM |
| 4 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillOnce again I ask. Why are your here? Are you looking for aid and support with leaving redpill? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 09:20 PM |
| 4 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillYou are talking about women as a monolith but if you can't see that then I can't help you. If you agree with the principals of redpill you do not fit the description of the group. This sub is for giving aid and support to people trying to leave redpill. If you aren't here for support or giving it, then you don't belong here. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillThat's all red pill nonsense. How do you know what women are attracted to and need in a relationship to feel safe? You are talking about women as if they are all the same and they are not. Redpill bs. Why are you even in this sub? What are your intentions with engaging with this subreddit? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillI'm not going to argue against your redpill talking points because that's not what this space is about. This space is for giving aid and support to individuals who are trying to leave redpill thinking. If you are not here for that, then why are you here? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillJust because you don't follow redpill influencers doesn't mean your not redpill. If you don't disagree with the principals of redpill you are still redpill. Your post and your comments indicate that you are still very much on the redpill way of thinking. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillTreating women like a monolith, which is what you're doing, is redpill. Gender essentialism is the belief that men and women have innate, fixed, and distinct natures, characteristics, and abilities dictated by biology. It argues that gender is binary (only male/female), immutable, and determines social roles, behaviors, and preferences. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 08:39 PM |
| 4 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillThat kind of gender essentialism is the corner stone of redpill thinking. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillI also think it's important for people trying to leave redpill behind to know that they don't have to formulate a counter argument for every redpill idea. That will only keep you in the redpill ecosystem and kill your drive to change. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillI think acting confident and pretending to be confident are two different things and you've used both interchangeably. Acting confident is not manipulative. Pretending to be confident when you are not in order to get laid isn't confidence and is manipulative. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillThat's because OP is acting in bad faith. Keeping things vague allows him to talk in favor of redpill ideas without saying they are redpill. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillI think it's important for people to remind themselves that the "observable truths" aren't universal and don't apply to everyone and everything. I think leaving any toxic ideology is a journey that's unique to the person but I think you have to have a desire to change and you must be intentional about your efforts to do so and it's vital that folks create a network of support for themselves to keep that desire to change alive. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillActing confident when you are not is not confidence. That's being something you're not in order to get laid which is manipulative. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 06:57 PM |
| 5 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillI clicked the link. It's exactly what you think it is. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 06:52 PM |
| 5 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillTo be exredpill means you have walked away from the redpill grift and you no longer support, believe, or endorse redpill ideas or grifters. I personally have never been redpill but I work with young men who are redpill or redpill adjacent and I see how it fucks them and the women in their lives over. I came to this sub to learn how to help men leave redpill. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillAre you asking me or OP? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 06:39 PM |
| 9 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillThat's such a cynical take it's silly. Being confident is a manipulation? My dude, you're still redpill. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 06:38 PM |
| 10 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillWhether it's Andrew Tate or some other redpill chud it's still redpill. This is a space for giving aid and support to folks who are interested in leaving redpill behind. Is that what you're looking? This isn't a sub for purple pill ideas either. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 06:33 PM |
| 14 | Am I still red pill? I do agree that modern viral redpill creates more harm than good, but I still agree with the principles of redpillSounds like you are still redpill to me. I don't know why you think it's appropriate to post a link to a redpill content creator in a exredpill sub. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 06:22 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys explain the fact that women in general want a man that is better than them in some way?I hate when people like OP come here and make bad faith arguments. Like why can't they go to one of the many debate subs and argue their bullshit. Why come here and ruin it for people that actually want to leave that shit behind. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 01:43 AM |
| 4 | How do you guys explain the fact that women in general want a man that is better than them in some way?This sub isn't for reconciling the "truth" in redpill. You are in the wrong subreddit. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 01:19 AM |
| 4 | How do you guys explain the fact that women in general want a man that is better than them in some way?If you aren't here for support with leaving redpill why are you here? Please don't come into this subreddit in bad faith. If you want to argue purple pill or whatever their are better subreddits for that kind of engagement. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 01:16 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys explain the fact that women in general want a man that is better than them in some way?Your post is endorsing redpill talking points and you are arguing in favor of them. That's not what this subreddit is about | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 12:43 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys explain the fact that women in general want a man that is better than them in some way?I think you're misunderstanding the purpose of this sub. This sub is for giving aid and support to individuals who are exredpill or are interested in leaving redpill thinking. Are you looking for aid and support with leaving redpill? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/26 09:24 PM |
| 4 | Do you know any men who suffered abuse at the hands of women, who fell into the trap of being a sex offender, and who, upon escaping, found a woman who loves, supports, and protects them?You're going to have to provide more context. No one knows what you're talking about. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/26 04:16 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on hypergamy?What do you need help with exactly? Cause your post is not asking for support? | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/26 03:14 AM |
| 3 | How do I stop romantically distrusting women when they have judged me for my bisexual past?You should try going to queer events to meet others | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/26 01:31 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop romantically distrusting women when they have judged me for my bisexual past?So that one experience with a bisexual woman means you're not going to try with other bi women | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/26 11:27 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop romantically distrusting women when they have judged me for my bisexual past?I find it hard to believe that a therapist would tell you every woman would probably reject you. Have you tried dating other bisexual women or queer women? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/26 11:23 PM |
| 6 | How do I stop romantically distrusting women when they have judged me for my bisexual past?I think you need to find a queer therapist that understands bisexuality. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/26 11:06 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on hypergamy?Are you looking for aid and support with leaving redpill thinking? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/26 10:04 PM |
| 5 | How do I stop romantically distrusting women when they have judged me for my bisexual past?Have you tried therapy? I think your issues with women go beyond them rejecting you for being bi. You say you have trouble relating to women and you don't understand them. That's something you should explore and ask yourself why? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/26 10:00 PM |
| 5 | Falling down the Red Pill hole... why should I stop?That's not a feminist space. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/26 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you know any women who are protective of their husbands, not possessive, or who take the lead in the relationship?I think people in the relationship should make decisions that work best for them not one person taking the lead. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/26 11:28 PM |
| 6 | Do you think physical appearance matters?Physical appearance does matter but it's not the end all be all of finding a relationship. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/26 11:24 PM |
| 2 | I fell back into the red pill content, it's very addictive and it awakens insecurities in me.I never said you have work to do as a right to be here. You can be here all you want, but it does sound like you still have work to do on yourself. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/26 04:49 PM |
| 6 | I fell back into the red pill content, it's very addictive and it awakens insecurities in me.That red pill thinking is only going to hold you back | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/26 04:25 PM |
| 5 | I fell back into the red pill content, it's very addictive and it awakens insecurities in me.As long as we're on the same page. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/26 10:11 PM |
| 10 | I fell back into the red pill content, it's very addictive and it awakens insecurities in me.It wasn't a purity test. I pointing out that you still have work to do if you want to be exredpill. Don't be so sensitive it wasn't an attack | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/26 09:57 PM |
| 9 | I fell back into the red pill content, it's very addictive and it awakens insecurities in me.Sounds like you still have some work to do before you're exredpill. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/26 09:51 PM |
| 18 | I fell back into the red pill content, it's very addictive and it awakens insecurities in me.I know plenty of sensitive dudes that are in relationships with women. You are asking the wrong question. Why do you think you'd be unable to be with a woman because you're sensitive? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/26 09:49 PM |
| 2 | my GF checking out other dudesThis is subreddit is for giving aid and support to folks trying to or have left redpill. I think your post would be more appropriate somewhere else. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/25 05:34 PM |
| 3 | This short dialogue destroyed my belief that „more effort“ is the answer to hitting 10k/monthYou are in the wrong sub, dude. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/25 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Being vulnerable is badOP didn't post his personal experience and he isn't asking for support with leaving redpill. I don't think this post is appropriate for this sub. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/25 07:10 PM |
| 10 | Being vulnerable is badWhat exactly is this post, OP? Is this a rant? Are you looking for a debate? What are your intentions with making this post? | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/25 11:37 AM |
| 13 | If in real life only personality matters, then why with me, who am ugly, have only very ugly girls hit on me and never a cute and maybe shy girl?I think the issue hear is that you're shallow and unappreciative. Women are showing their interest in you but you're writing it off because they're ugly. Also, I don't think this is the right subreddit for you. You seem like you want to be convinced or have a debate. That's not what this space is for. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/12/25 08:21 PM |
| 5 | What helps red pilled men escape that culture?I don't think you know what a cult is. If you're not interested in leaving redpill then you are in the wrong subreddit. If you want to be miserable that's your choice but don't spread your poison here. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/25 09:24 PM |
| 6 | What helps red pilled men escape that culture?It doesn't sound like you're ex redpill. Are you interested in aid and support with leaving redpill? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/25 09:07 PM |
| 6 | What helps red pilled men escape that culture?So when it comes to dating you think women have it easier because of your sister? This is redpill thinking and it's silly. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/25 08:48 PM |
| 6 | What helps red pilled men escape that culture?You don't have to do those things and I don't think women live passively when it comes to dating. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/25 08:04 PM |
| 12 | What helps red pilled men escape that culture?The kind of self improvement that redpill talks about is mostly superficial. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/25 07:44 PM |
| 4 | What helps red pilled men escape that culture?What do you mean? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/25 07:42 PM |
| 7 | What helps red pilled men escape that culture?I think you should block his number and not respond. I find it hard to believe that he changed over night and did a 180. I think what's more likely is that he already had those redpill beliefs and didn't fully express them around you until he felt like he could. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/25 04:25 AM |
| 4 | Can you be cold and focus your life on love?What do you mean by being cold? | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/25 05:08 PM |
| 13 | How do you feel about the expression “the rooster crows but the hen delivers “?I've never heard this expression before. What does it mean? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/25 02:12 AM |
| 9 | Secret to a faithful relationship?The only thing that can stop a person from cheating is themselves. Removing temptations to cheat sounds like a recipe for a controlling partner. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/25 12:15 AM |
| 1 | How do i get out of the mindset of most women being horrible people? (I dont want to be like this)I don't think this is the right place for you | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/25 12:13 AM |
| 9 | How do i get out of the mindset of most women being horrible people? (I dont want to be like this)It's an assumption because you assume it will happen to you. Are you here for support with to leaving redpill or are you here to argue? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/25 05:24 AM |
| 15 | How do i get out of the mindset of most women being horrible people? (I dont want to be like this)You've concocted a fictional scenario in your head. I think you need to question some of the assumptions you are making about women and yourself. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/25 04:07 AM |
| 11 | How do i get out of the mindset of most women being horrible people? (I dont want to be like this)I thought you wanted help. Seems like you want to be convinced. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/25 04:02 AM |
| 4 | How do i get out of the mindset of most women being horrible people? (I dont want to be like this)I think you should stop engaging with the content that feeds into your anti woman narrative. I also think you should do therapy if that's an option for you. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/25 04:00 AM |
| 8 | How do i get out of the mindset of most women being horrible people? (I dont want to be like this)Because that's the content you are engaging with and it affirms the story you are telling yourself | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/25 03:57 AM |
| 6 | How do i get out of the mindset of most women being horrible people? (I dont want to be like this)I think you couldn't care less about women's well being. That's the honest statement. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/25 02:21 AM |
| 6 | How do i get out of the mindset of most women being horrible people? (I dont want to be like this)You made it personal by talking about being shallow and unable to love a woman. Speak for yourself. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/25 07:14 PM |
| 7 | How do i get out of the mindset of most women being horrible people? (I dont want to be like this)I think you should speak for yourself. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/25 06:20 PM |
| 1 | How do i get out of the mindset of most women being horrible people? (I dont want to be like this)Maybe people claim that men love women because they are a man that has loved or loves a women. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/25 05:08 PM |
| 3 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.No, you are not. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/25 04:44 PM |
| 3 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.You say you don't believe redpill but your post blames women and feminists. You didn't leave redpill behind. You're still in the thick of it. Once again, if you keep making pro redpill arguments and blaming women you are in the wrong space. Please leave. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/25 04:43 PM |
| 3 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.I want this subreddit to honor it's intended purpose. Which is giving aid and support to individuals interested in leaving redpill. Are you that individual? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/25 04:40 PM |
| 4 | It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat menThis is a subreddit for giving people aid and support with leaving redpill. We aren't here to prove redpill ideas wrong. If you need those ideas to be proved wrong you are not ready to leave redpill. You cannot argue or convince someone into leaving redpill. They have to want that for themselves. If you want to debate and analyze people's ideas I suggest you go to the Purple pill debate sub. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/25 04:39 PM |
| 3 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.I'm a black man too and I'm telling you to leave because you aren't here for support or aid with leaving redpill. Becoming ex redpill only works when an individual is committed to leaving redpill behind. You cannot argue or convince someone into rehabilitation. We want men to enter this space with a willingness and desire to leave redpill. You are here to debate. You are here to blame women. That's not what this sub is about. To compare your bullshit post to the civil rights movement is wild. Yo… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/25 04:36 PM |
| 5 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.No, what I'm saying is this subreddit is for giving aid and support with leaving redpill. If you want to agree with redpill ideas and make pro redpill arguments then you've come to the wrong place. It's like going to a vegetarian subreddit and making a post about how delicious meat is and then getting defensive when folks ask you to respect the space. Grow up. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/25 04:28 PM |
| 3 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.Why come to this subreddit if you aren't exredpill. Go find a sub that's more appropriate for what you want. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/25 04:26 PM |
| 3 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.Stop trolling | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/25 04:23 PM |
| 3 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.Why come to an ex redpill subreddit if you're not exredpill or interested in becoming exredpill. You are just here to troll. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/25 04:22 PM |
| 3 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.This sub reddit isn't about questioning the cultural reasons why some women prefer men not to be virgins. This subreddit is about giving aid and support to individuals trying to leave redpill. If you aren't here for that then you've come to the wrong place. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/25 04:16 PM |
| 3 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.Are you interested in leaving redpill or are you here to make redpill dog whistles? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/25 04:10 PM |
| 3 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.Don't post in this sub unless you actually want help with leaving redpill. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/11/25 04:09 PM |
| 4 | It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat menThis isn't a sub where we prove redpill ideas wrong. This is a subreddit dedicated to giving aid and support to individuals wanting to leave redpill. If you want someone to prove to you that redpill is wrong you've come to the wrong place. Sounds like you want a debate sub | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/25 07:01 AM |
| 2 | It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat menPeople cannot argue you out of redpill. It's not enough to want to change you have to put in the work on yourself. You have to have an uncomfortable conversation with yourself, question your assumptions and deeply held beliefs, and possibly go to therapy. Looking at your responses it's obvious that you haven't done any of that. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/25 06:53 AM |
| 4 | It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat menPeople cannot convince or argue you into seeing your self worth. This subreddit is for people looking for aid and support with leaving redpill. Are you interested in that? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/25 06:43 AM |
| 2 | It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat menYou are correct. Your post is not appropriate for this sub. Are you interested in getting support and aid with leaving redpill or did you come here to argue? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/25 06:37 AM |
| 3 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.You're just projecting your insecurities onto women | /r/ExRedPill | 24/11/25 06:04 AM |
| 7 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.Why troll the space, dude? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/25 06:10 PM |
| 5 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.You aren't becoming exredpill because you keep affirming redpill beliefs and making pro redpill arguments. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/25 06:09 PM |
| 8 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.Why can't you go to one of the millions of debate subreddits and make your bad faith arguments there? Why do you come to this space and do this shit? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/25 06:00 PM |
| 9 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.If you are here to argue then you've come to the wrong subreddit. This space is for giving people aid and support with leaving redpill behind. No one will be able to argue you out of redpill. You have to want to do that for yourself. I am gay and most of my friends are queer so when we talk about masculinity and manhood it's usually to point out how it's mostly bullshit and harmful to a lot of people. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/25 05:57 PM |
| 11 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.This is redpill logic. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/25 05:38 PM |
| 11 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.Are you here for aid and support with leaving redpill or are you here to argue? I think it's the latter not the former. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/25 05:36 PM |
| 19 | The ideas surrounding male virginity in a woman's eyes sometimes contribute to the rise of red pill.Lot's of women do not care about a man being a virgin. Young men that are virgins should learn to love and see value in themselves so when and if they encounter someone that's being an asshole about their virginity, it won't mean a damn thing. So to answer your question: love and self acceptance is the way forward. You also need to reevaluate your thinking, because blaming women for mens choices and behaviors is classic redpill thinking. Which I'm pretty sure you are aware of because you're a tr… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/25 05:17 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill is Finally DeadWhat does hookup culture have to do with redpill. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/25 12:25 AM |
| 2 | What was your honest opinion of Rollo Tomassi?What do you think of him? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/25 12:11 AM |
| 2 | The crossroad between what's considered attractive versus what's considered a good person is at the heart of why Incels existBut this subreddit isn't about arguing with people. Are you ex redpill or are you trying to leave that way of thinking? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/11/25 05:52 PM |
| 3 | The crossroad between what's considered attractive versus what's considered a good person is at the heart of why Incels existThat was a leap | /r/ExRedPill | 19/11/25 05:48 PM |
| 3 | So are we supposed to be treating people as individuals, or not?This isn't a space to explore the nuance of what you're asking. You should go to a debate sub or a discussion sub. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/11/25 11:50 PM |
| 5 | So are we supposed to be treating people as individuals, or not?Telling you you're in the wrong space isn't racist. This subreddit isn't for asking these kind of questions. This space is for helping folks trying to leave redpill thinking behind. Are you trying to leave redpill thinking? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/11/25 11:49 PM |
| 3 | So are we supposed to be treating people as individuals, or not?You should treat people the way they want to be treated regardless of how others my treat and view you. What other answer do you want? Do you want someone to tell you otherwise? Are you ex redpill? Are you trying to leave that way of thinking behind? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/11/25 11:46 PM |
| 6 | So are we supposed to be treating people as individuals, or not?The you should go to another subreddit. This isn't the place where you ask bad faith questions. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/11/25 11:44 PM |
| 4 | So are we supposed to be treating people as individuals, or not?Folks have already answered your question. Are you someone that's trying to leave redpill and you're looking for support? Cause that's what this subreddit is about. Not answering your questions. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/11/25 11:40 PM |
| 7 | So are we supposed to be treating people as individuals, or not?Are you looking for a debate or are you looking for support? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/11/25 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Replacements for interpersonal relationships?No, you can be vulnerable with your friends but you said you're too scared to do that with them because you're afraid they'll call you a loser. You're locked in a cage that you have created for yourself. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/25 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Replacements for interpersonal relationships?I think you should tell a therapist that | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/25 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Replacements for interpersonal relationships?What do you want then? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/25 12:17 AM |
| 1 | does anyone want to discuss Varg vikernes/ thulean perspective and his sycophants?I had to look this guy up. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/11/25 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Replacements for interpersonal relationships?You don't have to apologize and it's ok to take breaks. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/11/25 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Replacements for interpersonal relationships?Keep trying. That's all you can do. You can't.replace fulfilling relationships with something else | /r/ExRedPill | 14/11/25 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Replacements for interpersonal relationships?It takes time to make friends but it also helps to reconsider your criteria for a close friend. Maybe you're asking for too much too soon? I don't know you so only you can answer the question. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/11/25 08:37 PM |
| 4 | Replacements for interpersonal relationships?I think you should keep plugging away at friendships. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/11/25 08:29 PM |
| 2 | To ex red pill who still doubt relationships or motives of womenSounds like you're projecting your insecurity into women. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/11/25 03:04 AM |
| 3 | Why do men date if they are still subscribing to TRP content ? My bf does and it makes me feel like nothing i can ever do will change his deeply jaded view on women and love.You can't change your bf he has to want to change and it doesn't look like he's going to do that anytime soon. Why are you with him? | /r/ExRedPill | 14/11/25 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Not sure what direction to goIt could have nothing to do with you and everything to do with her. It hurts when things like that happen but I think it would be more helpful for you to process your feelings and feel them. Ask yourself why the whole thing made you feel that way you felt. I don't recommend following any redpill asshole online. They just want to make money off of you. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/11/25 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Tried to get away but honestly I’m right back where I startedYou don’t belong in this group if you support redpill thinking and you aren’t interested in moving away from it. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/25 04:57 AM |
| 6 | Tried to get away but honestly I’m right back where I startedI’ll stop when you stop trolling this sub. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/25 04:49 AM |
| 3 | Tried to get away but honestly I’m right back where I startedI’ll stop responding when you stop spouting redpill bs in this exredpill subreddit. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/25 04:47 AM |
| 4 | Tried to get away but honestly I’m right back where I startedI'm exceptionally clear. You're just acting in bad faith. If you think redpill is right why did you come to an ex redpill subreddit? This isn't a space for debating redpill ideas. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/25 04:37 AM |
| 4 | Tried to get away but honestly I’m right back where I startedBecause you can't. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/25 04:35 AM |
| 3 | Tried to get away but honestly I’m right back where I startedI'm not mad I'm just challenging your bullshit redpill ideas. Are you not interested in getting better? | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/25 04:26 AM |
| 3 | Tried to get away but honestly I’m right back where I startedMore redpill talking points. Why troll this space? | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/25 03:57 AM |
| 6 | Tried to get away but honestly I’m right back where I startedNo it's not. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/25 03:30 AM |
| 5 | Tried to get away but honestly I’m right back where I started"Any way chicks were not into the mister nice guy Christian" Let's take a second and unpack this statement. Did you become Christian because it helped you see the error of your ways and motivated you to be a better person or did you become a good Christian to garner the favor of women? Why do you think being a "good Mr.Christian nice guy" entitled you to a romantic relationship with a woman? This is textbook red pill thinking. Also what grown ass man un-ronically refers to women as chicks. Are y… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/25 03:25 AM |
| 5 | Tried to get away but honestly I’m right back where I startedAnd I'm saying you never left the way of thinking. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/25 03:11 AM |
| 6 | Tried to get away but honestly I’m right back where I startedBecoming a Christian doesn't magically make you a good person. Having an uncomfortable conversation with yourself and interrogating why you behaved and treated people the way you did, questioning your assumptions about relationships, women, and life in general, and possibly going to therapy if that's an option for you, is how you become a better person. This subreddit is for people who are exredpill or interested in helping and supporting individuals who are trying to leave that bullshit behind.… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/25 03:07 AM |
| 10 | Tried to get away but honestly I’m right back where I startedThis sounds like someone who hasn't left the red pill way of thinking. You say you were unhealthy but you turned into a better person. What did you do? Cause it sounds like you have more work to do on yourself and maybe dating shouldn't be the priority. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/25 02:33 AM |
| 14 | Tried to get away but honestly I’m right back where I startedSounds like you never got away from it. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/25 01:54 AM |
| 8 | Accept,not hate?I don't know man. I've known a lot of women who've dated dudes without jobs and provided for them. Some women don't care about the man being the bread winner. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/10/25 02:44 AM |
| -6 | So what if no girl fucks with you at all?Have you tried having sex with gay guys? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/08/25 07:00 PM |
| 8 | Is Andrew Tate's red pill True Loberation or Just Another Form of Mass Manipulation?Critique isn't trash. Your content is trash. You are in the wrong sub. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/25 02:47 AM |
| 11 | Is Andrew Tate's red pill True Loberation or Just Another Form of Mass Manipulation?Liberation does not look manipulation. This sub is for exredpilled individuals and how they got out of that bullshit. If you want a nuanced critique you should go to a different sub. Your content is trash. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/25 02:25 AM |
| 8 | Is Andrew Tate's red pill True Loberation or Just Another Form of Mass Manipulation?You are in the wrong sub | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/25 01:44 AM |
| 14 | Is Andrew Tate's red pill True Loberation or Just Another Form of Mass Manipulation?I already know what he is about. I don't need to watch a video. Do you think he's a liberator? Cause if you do you're in the wrong sub | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/25 01:37 AM |
| 19 | Is Andrew Tate's red pill True Loberation or Just Another Form of Mass Manipulation?It's not liberation at all. He's just a grifter | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/25 01:29 AM |
| 42 | Are unattractive men supposed to be in sexless relationships?Sounds like you need therapy not a gf. Most folks don't want to date someone who has not will to live. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/25 04:10 AM |
| – | Rethinking Consent: Addressing the Complexities of Rape Culture and Moving Beyond "No Means No"You should read “Sexual Citizen” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 11:08 PM |
| 26 | Red pill is the truthYou are in the wrong sub | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/24 12:14 AM |
| 7 | This community is so blackpilling. I never felt as bad or as hopeless as I do now until reading through here.How romantic. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/24 04:59 AM |
| 4 | Do women like bad guys?The answer varies from woman to woman. The reasons and motivations behind why women choose their partners is layered, complex, and unique to the individual woman. If you except that women aren't a monolith then that answer should be sufficient enough for you. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/11/23 08:07 PM |
| 7 | Do women like bad guys?Your personal experiences are just that. Personal experiences. It doesn't apply to all women. Are you really exredpill? Are you asking these questions in good faith? It doesn't seem like you are. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/11/23 07:52 PM |
| 6 | Do women like bad guys?Women are not a monolith. What women like or don't like is dependent upon the individual woman. Understanding this is vital to rejecting redpill bs. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/11/23 07:45 PM |
| 16 | Olivia Fane: Intimacy is seriously unsexy.That's not a fact. Plenty of people have intimate sexual encounters. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/23 02:37 PM |
| 2 | My counselor is a moron! I agree with everyone.Finding the right therapist takes time. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/07/23 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Should we as men pay for everything for a woman?I think you find what you look for. If you already think that all women think like that then you're probably going to find it. IF you don't want to pay for everything you should communicate that with the person you are dating. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/23 07:36 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys think that lust is huge problem for men?Lust is not that problem. How men go about fullfilling their lust is where the problem comes into play. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/07/23 04:36 AM |
| 7 | Don't understand why y'all hate redpill when everything they say is not all falseShort ugly guys find romantic relationships all the time. The reason why you think that redpill none sense is true is because it speaks to your insecurities and, no pun intended, short comings. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/23 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Asking your partner to wear less revealing clothes: controlling or boundaries?If your partner isn't om with you playing video games 6 hours a day they're entitled to their feelings and they can totally communicate that to you and the two.of you can try to come to some kind of compromise or understanding. But if your partner tries to controll how often you play video games then that's not cool and it isn't setting a boundary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Asking your partner to wear less revealing clothes: controlling or boundaries?Boundaries are things you set for yourself. You cannot set boundaries for other people. If you don't want a partner that dresses a certain way or doesn't post pics online then that's a boundary you set for yourself by not dating people who do that. "Setting boundaries" for other people is just trying to controll them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 07:51 PM |
| 2 | How important are looks, money and status for making friends, garnering respect and finding a meaningful relationship?They are as important as you want them to be. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/23 09:51 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about Rape Culture?....You have a nice day now. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/23 07:27 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about Rape Culture?Seems like you just want to shit on feminist. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/23 07:14 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about Rape Culture?Those are all symptoms of rape culture. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/23 06:53 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about Rape Culture?The belief that man cannot be the victims of rape and sexual assault is apart of rape culture. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/23 06:48 AM |
| 3 | What kind of demographic is most vulnerable to the red pill?I don't have any data or studies to support it, but I think cis white young boys are the most vulnerable to red pill ideology. I work with youth as an advocate and I've only encountered red pill thinking from young white males. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that men don’t need women to survive while the opposite is true?That's not true. Gay dudes do just fine. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 10:48 PM |
| 1 | I hate how much more power women haveYou need therapy. No one can convince you of your self worth. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/22 10:12 AM |
| 3 | I hate how much more power women haveSite your sources, please. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/22 10:05 AM |
| 5 | I hate how much more power women haveWe must not be watching the same gay porn. Also how do you explain Edris Alba? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/22 10:03 AM |
| 37 | I hate how much more power women haveDude, men are fucking sexy as hell. What the heck are you talking about? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/22 09:40 AM |
| 46 | I hate how much more power women haveMy friend you need therapy. That red pill bullshit is fucking you up. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/22 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Good men should not have to pay for his girlfriend's bad choices in men. I.e I should not have to pay for what your ex boyfriend did to you.You are in an abusive relationship with someone who shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone. Leave her! | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/22 09:47 PM |
| 2 | I need helpYou entered into.the space when you left your comment. How you became aware of this post is beside the point. You didn't have to respond at all. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/11/22 02:40 AM |
| 2 | I need helpEntering into an anti red pill space making pro red pill arguments is definitely a troll. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/11/22 02:36 AM |
| 0 | I need helpGo troll somewhere else, please. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/11/22 02:01 AM |
| 2 | I need helpWhat's weird is entering into a space made with a specific intention wanting to engage in a way that isn't supported by the space. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/11/22 01:58 AM |
| 1 | I need helpOnce again. You are in the wrong space. I'm sure there are other sub reddits you can go to and have the engagement you want. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/11/22 01:51 AM |
| 2 | I need helpThe space was created for ex re pillers to give each other support and understanding as they move away from the ideology. If you want to argue the validity of red pill thought you are in the wrong space. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/11/22 01:46 AM |
| 4 | I need helpMy friend you are in the wrong sub reddit. This space isn't for folks who believe red pill ideology is true. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/11/22 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Hey r/exredpill, how do you feel about a woman/girl who BRINGS redpill ideology to a relationship where the guy doesn't know about it.What do you mean by following my lead? | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/22 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Hey r/exredpill, how do you feel about a woman/girl who BRINGS redpill ideology to a relationship where the guy doesn't know about it.Talk to her about it. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Hey r/exredpill, how do you feel about a woman/girl who BRINGS redpill ideology to a relationship where the guy doesn't know about it.Only you can answer that question. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/11/22 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Hey r/exredpill, how do you feel about a woman/girl who BRINGS redpill ideology to a relationship where the guy doesn't know about it.I think you should have a serious conversation with your gf about what she's doing and how it makes you feel. Asking strangers on the internet to weigh in on your relationship and what you should do isn't going to help you. It's your relationship and you need to communicate with your partner not show your partner subreddit comments. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/11/22 11:09 PM |
| 8 | I can't quit blackpill, I can just take a break. Whatever I do, I'm back to the beginning. Anyone have an idea about this? Is there any other way but to fool myself?That is not how therapy works. If you want help then that's the way to go. If you don't want to listen to folks'suggestions and firmly believe that black pill none sense, why are you even on this.sub redditt. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/22 05:33 PM |
| 6 | I can't quit blackpill, I can just take a break. Whatever I do, I'm back to the beginning. Anyone have an idea about this? Is there any other way but to fool myself?You need therapy. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/22 05:25 PM |
| 15 | How do I get rid of my extremely sexist/victim blaming mindset?I think therapy would be the best place to start. It takes time and effort to unlearn all the toxic bullshit we've been taught. Give yourself the space and grace to change. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/22 04:47 PM |
| 4 | Are there possibilities to discuss with people who believe in the red pill?This is red pill thinking. Are you exredpill or not? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/22 06:43 PM |
| 4 | Exredpill is a hate subreddit, don’t subscribeYou sound like your 17 | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/22 10:16 PM |
| 7 | "dick is low value and abundant"Then you still have work to do on yourself. If you can't see the value in yourself and what you might bring to a potential relationship without thinking it's rooted in your cock or wallet you aren't ready to be in a relationship. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/22 09:24 AM |
| 8 | "dick is low value and abundant"I think you should read up on and listen to womens experience with men online. Dude, are you ex red pill or not? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/22 09:11 AM |
| 17 | "dick is low value and abundant"I was speaking to the idea the op mentioned, which was that women get lots of guys in their DMs by virtue of being a woman and being envious of that seems pretty redpilly. Not taking into account how women really experience interactions with men online but clingy to the idea that some how women have it better than you is a red pill way of thinking. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/22 06:39 AM |
| 60 | "dick is low value and abundant"You're more than your penis. You have more to offer than your dick. most women by mentioning that they are women alone can get dozens of men in their dm in minutes. This point sounds pretty red pilly to me and it's not true. But even if it was a bunch of guys in your dms because you're a woman isn't necessarily the blessing you think it is. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/22 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Being a nerd is bad?Women can be nerds too. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/22 03:30 AM |
| 6 | Do women really have feelings?Women have feelings. You jave some issues to work through. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 02:09 AM |
| 18 | Thoughts on the MensRights Subreddit?Usually the guys in that subreddit are a bunch of mysygnonist and incels that spread rape myths. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 05:35 AM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI'm impressed by anyone that managed to read this entire post. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/22 07:09 AM |
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