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Spill it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 05:54 PM
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How do you even downvote? There's only an upvote button for me and no downvote one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 05:29 PM
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You are correct that there's no way of knowing how new women you meet would have treated you back when you were less desirable. Going through this teaches you to have a very pragmatic, self-important view on dating and relationships. You learn from experience people only care about what benefits them, dating-wise. If you want a chance with a woman who isn't attracted to you, you have to make it happen yourself. She's not going to give you one. Even as an attractive guy, you won't in many positio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 05:16 PM
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most people have character flaws. With some people's flaws being considerably worse than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:52 PM
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But truthfully, no matter what I said, the result would have been the same. This is because attraction isn’t something you do, it’s something you are. Lol, I must have been doing something wrong all these years.
/r/seduction18/05/20 12:08 AM
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someone typed N word and i replied it's "pronounced [n word with hard R]" Oof. I'm usually on, but have it running in the background while doing something else lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:23 AM
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I'm like that blitz joke from HIMYM. I always seem to miss the good stuff :( Must have been intense if you got banned for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:15 AM
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Damn nazis. What was the offense?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:08 AM
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I'm a 24 year old male. If you put 25 as the average age women get married, and assuming there's no post-marriage shenanigans(divorce, cheating etc), then going off of all the girls I've known(not just dated, but have been around) up until this point, who have had varying degrees of promiscuity and sex drives, and averaging things out, I'd put a high n-count for women as 7 or higher by the time they're 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:07 AM
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Is this catless? Why the new account?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:03 AM
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That's what I was thinking. OP can call us nuts all he wants, but when I was uni age(18-22) only the sluttiest girls had n-counts higher than 10 at that point. Just because a girl can have sex with a lot of partners and has a lot of time to do so doesn't mean she's going to. A lot of women who even though they have high sex-drives will only sex within long-term relationships, It's only a minority of women who would have had more than 2 or 3 casual sex encounters by the time they're 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:03 AM
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For sure, women actually get turned on when they see that you're getting turned on by them. Why do you think women do things like sending pictures of themselves in some hot dress to their boyfriend while he's at work?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 08:31 PM
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I get what you're saying, that on a technical level it wouldn't be considered a need. You could not have sex for years on end and survive but it's so ingrained in our genetic makeup to want sex that (unless you identify as asexual) it's not something that you can exactly take or leave. It's a desire that's with you forever and you're always going to want it. It's not just something that tickles your fancy. It's a key aspect of your makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 08:23 PM
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You can't have it both ways. If you want to complain about being lonely, then be realistic with your standards. If you want high standards, then don't complain and improve yourself. Choose one. You can't have both.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:16 PM
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Don't know if anyone's already said this but as a man, I can try and shed some light on it. When I'm pursuing a girl I find attractive, I'm not telling myself "I'm going to use this girl for sex and be gone with the wind as soon as I orgasm". Even if that's what I end up doing, I'm not thinking that far. I'm just focused on getting to know the girl. Yes in the back of my mind I want to fuck her, but I'm only thinking about the next step toward that. If I do end up pumping and dumping her, its so…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:55 PM
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Only on tuesdays.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:08 PM
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You're not trying to "catch" a woman. If you're going after really hot women, you are. You can lie to yourself and say you're not trying to impress her, but if she's hot and you're average then she(understandably) has nothing to like about you at first. So yeah, you're trying to catch her attention. All of the really good looking women I've dated over the years were not attracted to or interested in me when they first saw me, and would have never looked twice at me if I didn't go out of my way t…
/r/seduction05/05/20 05:17 PM
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I don't mean first choice in terms of full-on making her your girlfriend, just first choice in terms of which girl you want to get to know better. It's the same as if you put that girl in a situation where she has one tall guy and five average-height guys to choose from. She "knows" the tall one is her first choice even though she hasn't spoken to any of them yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:54 PM
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I can guarantee that in almost all cases a 2 inch difference will not be the determining factor in whether or not a woman gives you a chance. It's more of a grey area. A 2 inch difference could be just enough for her to be satisfied, or to give you leeway if you're a cool guy and you hit it off. Its not like a calculation she makes in her mind. it's probably something else. I'll leave it at that It sounds like you're overthinking here. A lot of women will not interact with a guy she isn't attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:37 PM
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Height is only one of many physical qualities that matter to women, And if you can artificially appear taller to her in the beginning, that's one less thing she could potentially disqualify you for. Why not just focus your efforts on things you can change instead I never said I don't already do that, but using the lifts could help in a situation where you're blown away by a woman but she is rigid about height requirements. When I strike out with a woman, its pretty much always been because of on…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:04 PM
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Yes, but its difficult to attain that level of confidence. It can take years. It's much easier to just wear the lifts to attract women initially until you can interact with her enough for her to see your non-physical qualities and bypass her superficial(but understandable) preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:28 PM
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Um, do we know each other? That's kind of my line xD
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 09:17 AM
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Would you classify yourself as being in the top 20% of men, ItchyHealth?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:43 PM
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Compassion and their ability to display it. How they can go from being a cold and aloof stranger to being so caring, loving and supportive once they do develop feelings for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:37 PM
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I can see your point. It's still paying a girl to see her naked and I can understand how women would find that pathetic, but it isn't paying for sex no matter how you slice it. Maybe you've just been on PPD too long but you sound like a man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:31 PM
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Wait, I'm confused. What exactly is Only Fans? I thought it was a cam girl site? Correct me if I'm wrong but if it is, then these guys aren't paying for sex any more than camgirls are prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 09:00 PM
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I always thought they weren't. I've seen handsome guys get rejected by women so many times, been seeing it since before I was old enough to date. They just reject these guys so easily, like they're not even into men. And maybe you could argue that these guys are coming off as too cocky or whatever, but if women were as horny as men or at least as visual, you'd think they would give guys a lot of leeway for their bad behavior. So when I did start dating girls I just assumed that was the norm, tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:59 PM
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Did you get pumped and dumped by these men or something? You seem to have an inordinate amount of resentment for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:10 PM
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I think people tend to expect/accept someone fluttering around their equal experience level. But there's just so much variety here I can really only speak in generalities. Some will certainly base it much more on equal emotional maturity and not care about number, high, low in between at all. I think virgin/inexperienced women would be more inclined to want a 0-3 range number of partners in someone they're dating. On the flip side, a woman with more partners 10+ is experienced enough to be more …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:15 PM
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Are the majority of women dating alphas though? Even some rather attractive women go through life never dating a guy you would classify as an alpha. Also people like atlas are really outliers who you can't really expect to know what the majority of women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:52 PM
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Its funny how women want all the good aspects of "being a normal human being with feelings" while trying to eschew the responsibilities that comes with it. Funny because it doesn't work like that.
/r/seduction22/04/20 12:08 AM
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During my uni days when I was insecure and in a bad mental place, I would put a lot of value on the hot girls I was trying to date/fuck and they would still want to be with me. They usually weren't super enthusiastic at first and it was more like a "yeah, you'll do" type of interest, but that was good enough for me because I was the type of guy who wasn't happy by myself and would get miserable if I went too long without being in a relationship or getting sex. No matter how many girls I got I st…
/r/seduction22/04/20 12:03 AM
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