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The horror
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:18 PM
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Yeah sounds about right. I'd only be fine to take care of the household work and childcare almost completely if I was well taken care of financially by the said man. But then again the idea of not having an exit if something happens and being completely dependant in the current day and age is a frightening concept. Which leads you to the conclusion that it's smarter to have your own professional life sorted out. Then you take into consideration there is only 24 hours in a day and yes most of the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:22 AM
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Can you elaborate a little bit on the below and enslaved part? I mean I have a general idea but I'd be curious about your input too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:51 AM
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Yeah the old baby trap move... It's one of my biggest fears.. Getting stuck with a psycho who'd be capable of pulling something like this off and then passing a demon spawn on his schedule. Yeah, only good can come of it 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:36 AM
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Well if it was only one date or a short term thing that you had with him id think hes just trying to gather as much information about you and try to feel you comfortable as quickly as possible so he can hit it and quit it or he has worse intentions. What makes you think the things he's sharing with you is of any significance to him or heck, even true? It might just be a strategic move on his part to sniff out any relevant info about you. I mean he might just be a slightly manipulative/controllin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 10:30 PM
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She's young, and I'm sure he "taught" her to ignore her feelings and concern herself with what he wants instead. (Or somebody else did) I hope it doesn't take something very bad to happen for the to wake up finally...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:11 AM
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Look up "forced teaming".Its when a stranger makes it look as if you're a team before you really know them to drop your guard down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:04 AM
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Mhm where can I order one of these smug nuggets of wisdom... 🙄🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:58 AM
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Yeah but the sad thing is by that time the lady is probably already very negatively impacted. Perhaps not irreversible but the damage is done and will take time to repair. I wish there were harsher punishments for domestic abuse. Countless lives, families destroyed, children deprived of a happy healthy childhood, all sorts of societal costs because some people (statistically mostly men) feel entitled to abuse for their own benefit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:27 AM
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I'd say it's possible it might even be worse with some of these degenerates. Not only he might not care, he might actually enjoy it... "you can hurt what you cannot control" or something along these lines. These people are destructive, you have to save yourself. I'm glad you're out, it will get better. Slowly but it will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:21 AM
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Lol it's funny how he tells her "oh babe no probz we can just do it like that" like he's the one who should or shouldn't have a problem with it to begin with 🙄. Poor chick, all this explaining like she owes him anything...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:13 AM
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Brilliant and honest response. It might be time to move or expand my social circles indeed, only good can come out of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:47 PM
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Im sorry men made you feel so disgusted. Im sad to see you mustve gone trough something horrible to feel this way about them in total. In retrospect Ive been put trough hell with them too but Im not yet at the stage where I shun them completely, its more of a "youre guilty (of being a shithead/useless/etc) until proven otherwise" mentality. I can only imagine what got you to this line. On a more bright side, I dont think youll be missing out on much. There is much more to life that can bring you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:14 AM
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I very much doubt he "accidentally" killed her during sex. Especially if you consider she was just left to die after the fact, that alone should tell you something. On a somewhat related note, Ive recently seen a interview with one of the most famous serial killers explaining why he did what he did to the women he raped and murdered. Yes, he was manipulative in the sense that he was trying to point a finger at something else other than himself but the point he was trying to get across is somethi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:52 PM
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I understand you. Im sorry you went trough this and Im glad he didnt manage to destroy that part of you. Kindness isnt weakness, but save that part for people who deserve it. He certainly didnt. Coincidentally, my ex told me he "broke" his 2 SOs before me (in a remorseful manipulative manner, to not get my alarms ringing as they should've). Normal breakups may break your heart but only an abusive relationship "breaks" you. Lesson learned! I also get that part about feeling like a shit person. Wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:27 AM
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You nailed it. People with low self esteem see your success as a threat. Its way easier to tear someone down to make yourself feel better than to honestly look at yourself and fix whatever it is that you need to fix. This approach is also pretty much guaranteed to nuke the living shit out of any friendship or relationship they might have. Its just a matter of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:13 AM
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Do so (or better yet, flip out and leave his ass..)! I guarantee you he wont be able to handle what he dishes out. Tells you everything you gotta know about him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:10 AM
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God forbid if you return the favour, just like any other bully, they are likely to completely and I mean completely fall apart mentally. Can be really dangerous too but it's the only way to preserve your wellbeing (other than walking away)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:30 AM
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I think these men are degenerate in the sense that they look at the relationshit you have as a competition instead of a mutually benefitial partnership. If you loose he wins. Quite sick if you ask me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:28 AM
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Let him know, in a stern strict manner to "keep things professional". Preferably in writing. After that, keep a recording of all unprofessional interactions on his part. You never know if you might need it. Furthermore if its possible see if there is a transfer option within your company. If things really come to a boiling point you might need to get a new job. And dont beat yourself up for dating a guy from your workplace. Yes the general rule is not to shit where you eat for obvious reasons bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:16 PM
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What helped me, after a similar albeit much shorter experience is to realize that level of deceit and manipulation is an anomaly. Someone who goes that far to pretend something they're not, almost to the extent they build up a completely new persona, just for you, is not a normal human being. Yeah most of them are opportunistic but this is a different level. After you grieve the "loss" you will be much more better equipped to deal with the regular "BS". You realize this is what people are capabl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 05:19 AM
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