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| 1 | Discussion - men, kids, abandonment, etc.I think more women want kids in general. Women also have more of a dog in the fight because biologically women can only have so many children and men can have up to 50 children if that was his prerogative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Discussion - men, kids, abandonment, etc.I think ultimately this conversation is about gender when it really shouldn't be. I don't think men as a gender have an inbuilt ability to not care about their kids it's just that some men and just people some people, in general, have a serious deficiency in their moral reasoning. Also, for the latter part of your question. Once a woman has formed a bond with a man, she probably is going to give him the benefit of the doubt that he is a good father and whatever happened between his previous wive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do women so consistently give bad advicehttps://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/cai153/what_are_the_best_things_a_guy_can_work_on_to/eta6722?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/cjkx27/women_what_advice_would_you_give_your_son/eveucwu?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/cjkx27/women_what_advice_would_you_give_your_son/evf6de1?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you feel as if being "nice" to women can hinder your "success"?Of course. My own life experience affirms this over and over. Women want a guy who appears to be a challenge because it is extremely hard for her to be attracted to or even respect a guy who has to supplicate to them. I don't really get it, it's counterintuitive because I just want to be nice to everyone but women definitely will treat you worse if you don't appear to have a backbone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/19 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menThe tingles. I can understand why a woman would be attracted to chad and find motivation/justification to sleep with him. I don't know what she can gain from giving a beta a chance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial menI'm curious why you used the phrase she scored. What did she gain from a date with a low quality man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Can you break down the appeal of commitment from an average guy?I'm a guy. But from what I have read, women don't find NSA sex that fulfilling. Even with Chad, their ideal is commitment + sex, and sex without commitment is unfulfilling or not good at all. As a guy I literally can't comprehend this because 9/10 times I am approaching a woman it is to get my dick wet. Not thinking about relationship stuff | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 09:01 PM |
| -1 | If I understand it correctly there are three ways to be SEXUALLY attractive to a womanWhy? This is just unnecessary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/19 05:38 PM |
| 2 | What's with all the out of touch old women that think Porn/video games are the root cause of the rise in sexlessness?How does porn ruin you? Also the idea that you are with your SO is because of the amount of porn he has/has not watched is dumb to say the least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/19 03:43 AM |
| 0 | What's with all the out of touch old women that think Porn/video games are the root cause of the rise in sexlessness?I don't know if men pursuing a relationship for the sole fact that they are horny is a good way you should lead your life. More often then not if you are going to jump into a relationship because you are so horny becomes a pretty good justification to settle or to get into a relationship full of drama because you don't have your own shit sorted out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/19 03:35 AM |
| 2 | When dating a man, take maybe 5% of what he says seriously.I think women are aware of the fact that most men really really want sex. I think they are just sexually disgusted when they hear it out loud. Have you ever gone on the femcel subreddit? Very rarely do any of them ever explicitly say they want sex, but the whole thing makes sense when you realize "love" is a synonym for "sex" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Not quite a C M V but I feel the current SMP issues are just a "depression" following the "bubble" that came before.This sort of logic relies on the idea of the CC which I dont think exists in the way that rp men usually think about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/19 04:52 AM |
| 2 | In your opinion what does it mean when someone says, “I need to find myself”?What crawled up your ass? I define normies as someone who has generally had their identity derived from others. So, in that sense I feel I have put more effort to my identity yes. It is actually something I have to grapple with constantklly, whether or not I should put any stock in social status or social capital. It just seems useless to me. Also, how do you get off assuming that I have some sort of deep-seated insecurity from being socially ostracized. That is incredibly dissmissive and unprov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/19 08:25 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] I think the most “attractive” thing a man can do is say the most by using the least amount of words.Are you able to elaborate on this. It seems cancerous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/19 10:38 PM |
| 4 | In your opinion what does it mean when someone says, “I need to find myself”?Practically it means that she is trying to let you down easily. In a philosophical sense it means they have no identity, so they are basically a normie and they hate that about themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/19 10:15 PM |
| 1 | In today's society, men sleeping around is not just a luxury but also a necessity to gain the interest of womenI honestly dont think this is true. The average girl I have met is constantly thinking about either finding a relationship or fwb. Almost always. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/19 10:09 PM |
| 1 | In today's society, men sleeping around is not just a luxury but also a necessity to gain the interest of womenIt is these type of post that confuse the ever living shit out of me. You said women work way harder on their appearance then men... Gotcha, useful info to be made aware. But then you stamp it with the typical " get to know" and "talk to women" bs. This is just a platitude at this point that the reason sexless men are sexless is just because they dont care enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | What personality traits do women like besides humor and confidence?I wasn't being a dick. If that is some weird advice then you can keep it. One of the few rules I follow in life is to never supplicate to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 05:28 AM |
| 2 | What personality traits do women like besides humor and confidence?hey we have something in common. I would love to read your commentary if that doesn't dox you. I also am pretty passionate about analysis and hot takes but in a wholly different arena | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 02:22 AM |
| 1 | What personality traits do women like besides humor and confidence?Like what are your hobbies or what are you super passionate about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 01:59 AM |
| 1 | What personality traits do women like besides humor and confidence?It is just that your post gave off a certain vibe and I probably jumped the gun. If I may ask, what are your interest? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 01:43 AM |
| 0 | What personality traits do women like besides humor and confidence?How does thinking celebrity worship is shallow count as existential exegesis? I don't understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 01:18 AM |
| 4 | What personality traits do women like besides humor and confidence?nothing that is particularly unnerving, just celebrity worship, in general, is silly to me. Especially movie stars, these are probably some of the most privileged people on the planet relative to their skill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 12:21 AM |
| 3 | What personality traits do women like besides humor and confidence?I'm curious what the photo has to do with anything edit: You seem kind of self absorbed tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 12:02 AM |
| -1 | What are the rules for Chad vs the rules for normies vs the rules for low SMV males?well we pretty much agree on everything Casual sex is super hard and I don't even know how many women even want casual sex. I'm sure if the right guy came along most women would have a nsa type relationship but women mostly self report "relationships are the only thing that matters" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/19 09:47 PM |
| 1 | What are the rules for Chad vs the rules for normies vs the rules for low SMV males?using tinder post as evidence for anything then looks matter in a purely hookup type environment needs to stop. Going on tinder explicitly means looking for a casual hookup, so what are they going to vet you for, your personality... No Real world interactions between the sexes at work or in any other setting is completely different than the dynamic on tinder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/19 08:26 PM |
| 1 | [Critique my reasoning] Women would rather be with a man who sends her on an emotional rollercoaster than be with someone boring and predictable (but reliable). But they'll never admit it.what is a manboy? is passion about videogames not passion about life? Just not a passion that the woman approves of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/19 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Can we ever be "real men" that women demand so much?good post but I have to say that people despise red pill for more reasons then you listed. And a lot of it isn't even logical/rational. Oftentimes I find that it is rather normal guys who want to dunk on trp for social clout/brownie points for lack of a better term. I don't know whether it is right or wrong but that type of behavior is definitely part of a larger social problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/19 05:29 AM |
| 1 | What advice would you give a low status/value male in his mid20's who's behind in most aspects of life?K that makes sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/19 06:24 PM |
| 1 | What advice would you give a low status/value male in his mid20's who's behind in most aspects of life?I don't think we are on the same page here. From what I can gather(a bit out of it at the moment sorry) is that he should not ask people of other races or socioeconomic status out because statistically the chances are not in his favor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/19 05:20 PM |
| 2 | What advice would you give a low status/value male in his mid20's who's behind in most aspects of life?Sure. But he shouldn't rule out people from different ethnicities or socioeconomic status. There are plenty of people who do date outside of their race and socioeconomic status and it works out for them. How do we know that is not him? I just don't think that it is very useful advice and when you jump out the gate with that statement and no qualifiers -you look sus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/19 05:07 PM |
| 2 | What advice would you give a low status/value male in his mid20's who's behind in most aspects of life?Damn. I didn't know you would reveal yourself to be a flat out racist.I mean if you find value in traditions and customs and that is what you value, then I and you are on two distinct spectrums of human experience. What does it matter what people before us did? Why don't we just pick the good contributions of our forefathers and go from there rather than some sort of fetishistic appeal to tradition? Also, yeah out forefathers were rather stupid. People get smarter over time as a consequence of d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/19 01:39 AM |
| 1 | What advice would you give a low status/value male in his mid20's who's behind in most aspects of life?When you make any type of statement that involves someone dating their own race because that is the most "logical" or "correct" thing to do has immediately pigeonholed themselves into decades and decades of tribalistic racism not matter what mental gymnastics they can come up with. I mean let us not act like there is a lot of self-hate in the black community in terms of having to bend to eurocentric ideals of beauty. That is a separate conversation in and of itself, but to respond with you SHO… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/19 11:55 PM |
| 4 | What advice would you give a low status/value male in his mid20's who's behind in most aspects of life?it doesn't matter what race someone dates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/19 11:31 PM |
| 5 | “We thought it was Creative Writing... it turned out to be Mathematics.”Why do you think society gives out such misleading advice? Attraction isn’t mysterious in the slightest. I wish it was. And more equitable too. But it’s not. Who does this serve? And I suppose I should backtrack somewhat and ask if anyone does think there is someone out there for everyone Maybe I am just jaded, but you put way to much stock in peoples ability and capacity to reason. Most people in our society either don't have the capacity to connect basic logical truths together, don't have the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/18 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Women are not as interested in casual sex, and that blew my mind?I haven't met women in their "hormonal" phase? What is their a period in women's life where they are more horny(outside of ovulation) Also, I think you are under the impression that I think women who have casual sex are whores, when I couldn't be farther from that position | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/18 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Women are not as interested in casual sex, and that blew my mind?feel free to shitpost | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/18 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Women are not as interested in casual sex, and that blew my mind?Is your reddit account supposed to be a character? you sound crazy from half or your post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/18 02:52 AM |
| 1 | comment from r/truefemcels (+6 upvote), do women really think this way?I mean , that much is clear. I think it goes both ways though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/18 03:02 PM |
| 1 | comment from r/truefemcels (+6 upvote), do women really think this way?what particular emotions? Sad, happy, fulfilled. I mean I can explain why this is dumb to me if you want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/18 05:03 AM |
| 1 | comment from r/truefemcels (+6 upvote), do women really think this way?sad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/18 04:41 AM |
| 0 | comment from r/truefemcels (+6 upvote), do women really think this way?It's incredibly sad if you thought the concept of emotionally meaningful sex was completely made up but.... It's not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/18 04:16 AM |
| 1 | comment from r/truefemcels (+6 upvote), do women really think this way?why? I certainly don't feel bad about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/18 03:51 AM |
| 1 | comment from r/truefemcels (+6 upvote), do women really think this way?I'm not saying that you're wrong but how do you explain women who have ONS is sex is not good in and of itself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/18 03:22 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Its okay to use women for sex.TY. I think these people are just secretly stupid and want to hide their stupidity through low effort sarcasm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/18 11:54 PM |
| 1 | comment from r/truefemcels (+6 upvote), do women really think this way?Its just seems like your valuation of sex is off. Maybe you have been in a LTR for a while, but I know MOST women that I have interacted with are more then willing to have sex within like a couple of weeks/months. I don't know how much of a connection you can have by that time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/18 10:26 PM |
| 1 | comment from r/truefemcels (+6 upvote), do women really think this way?grammar and syntax. Don't know what you're saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/18 10:22 PM |
| 1 | comment from r/truefemcels (+6 upvote), do women really think this way?if you had to take a gander do you think this is just a small fraction of women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/18 10:09 PM |
| 1 | comment from r/truefemcels (+6 upvote), do women really think this way?Do you think some women are just being facetious when they say they need to have a spiritual bond with a man before sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/18 09:46 PM |
| 1 | comment from r/truefemcels (+6 upvote), do women really think this way?what if he was nice and attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/18 08:45 PM |
| 1 | comment from r/truefemcels (+6 upvote), do women really think this way?wait, wait, hold up here. You would rather masturbate then have sex with another person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/18 08:37 PM |
| 1 | comment from r/truefemcels (+6 upvote), do women really think this way?If this is true more young men need to hear this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/18 07:58 PM |
| 1 | comment from r/truefemcels (+6 upvote), do women really think this way?because sex with another person is more stimulating than masturbation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | comment from r/truefemcels (+6 upvote), do women really think this way?I have been going down this weird mental hole of trying to understand the opposite sex. It started off as fun, but it has resulted in me realizing that women/ some women perceive sex differently. Like I said previously sex has always, always been a physical release. It seems women have the opposite response of sexual "excitement" stemming from an emotional connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/18 07:25 PM |
| 2 | comment from r/truefemcels (+6 upvote), do women really think this way?I think it highlights the difference between our thought processes. Sex to me is not intimately linked to a relationship, sure I acknowledge sex can be an emotional activity to some, but it seems purely like a physical action to me. I don't see the need to ascribe any sort of spiritual, lyrical, language to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/18 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Why Are Young People Having So Little Sex? - The AtlanticArticles like this are so weird. I don't know how old the author is but I can just imagine a tone-deaf boomer writing this as if it is a huge crisis. Sex and relationships are an implicit transactional exchange between two parties, and there is no religious or cultural dogma that is attracting men and women together like they were before the 21st century. That is neither a good or a bad thing like some red pill ppl claim. It is just different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/18 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it is impossible for men and women to really understand each otheIm curious, do you think that women desire casual sex at the same intensity as the average man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/18 04:11 PM |
| 0 | Do you think it is impossible for men and women to really understand each othewhat are you on about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/18 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it is impossible for men and women to really understand each othe> It's the most important thing for men in terms of dating, too. Good looking men are not short of dates. I used to believe in this too, but have been disabused of this notion by more life experience. > If a woman feels like sex/orgasm, she doesn't need emotional intimacy first. She doesn't get intimacy from her vibrator, nor does she need it in order to orgasm. Also, her desire must be spontaneous, otherwise vibrators wouldn't exist. Just because a woman masturbates does not mean she does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/18 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it is impossible for men and women to really understand each othebaiting I don't know what this is I don't know if I am being reductionist but I feel like your post is women have a higher standard for hygiene and demonstrating social accumen for men they will consider in there dating life. It's a very concrete but weird take for me becuase even most trpers understand that hygience and social skills are important, and even when attempting to do these to the best of ones ability, I guarantee it will be met with consternation dealing with the opposite sex. I wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/18 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it is impossible for men and women to really understand each otheI want to dig through these ideas and discuss them with you but a lot of this is just frankly intense. Woman are less sexual than men, they just simply gave up a LONG time ago. By the time you started to wear deodorant, she had likely been living in a society that demanded her adherence to a strict standard of beauty since before she likely even had a conception of what sex was. As a result, most men are downright revolting. It extends beyond the physical and into your social awareness as well. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/18 12:29 AM |
| 0 | Do you think it is impossible for men and women to really understand each otheLooks may attract the man but a good, pleasing personality keeps him. Oh man rubs hands together something to discuss. K, so I have always found this adage/phrase genuinely perplexing. I feel being a good decent person is like the bare minimum. Not just in a relationship, but as a person. If you are conventionally attractive but you're so toxic that you can't keep a relationship together then you probably have bigger problems Not all women get approached a lot. Average and below don't do well in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/18 12:23 AM |
| 1 | What "Nice Guys" are doing wrongI agree wholeheartedly though attractiveness is more negotiable to women then men. But for the most part the strategy you employ makes very little difference to the result. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/18 03:37 PM |
| 1 | what does sex "mean" to you?tbh, not much. Something I do when I am horny with a woman I find attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/18 04:14 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate with milf at work?This makes sense to me. I'll just sit back on this one | /r/seduction | 07/10/18 09:01 AM |
| 1 | How much of RP is based on observations and how much is based on speculation about how women think and feel?This so much. If I had the money I would gold this to the moon. TRP is good as a basic observational guide to women. But, the amount of sheer conjecture and framework/theories that build from that are actually insane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/17 03:41 PM |
| 2 | On the topic of motivation in achieving success/u/a_mans_perspective about three days ago, enjoy. It was posted in the context of what would make TRP's advice more effective for some men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/17 03:38 AM |
| 1 | On the topic of motivation in achieving successHmmm. Elaborate. Particularly about the last part that "it is enough to make a difference" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/17 03:28 AM |
| 2 | On the topic of motivation in achieving successJust know that it was posted here, on this sub, very recently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/17 03:27 AM |
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