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It’s a thing for guys as well. I know guys who doesn’t want to date anyone taller than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:50 PM
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My best friend is a girl I’ve known for half my life. I don’t want to sleep nor do I want to be with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:14 AM
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What is defined as overcommunicating? Getting bored of SO can happen regardless of how often you communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 01:07 AM
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OP in that thread was asking how to approach, make convo, and then ask for coffee after. The advice tells him how he should do it. What’s the problem? The advice makes complete sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:53 PM
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I interpreted the advice as go into the convo to talk to her as opposite to going into the convo just to ask her out. Not that you have to hide the fact that you want to ask her out. Just don’t make the convo all about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 07:23 AM
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What’s wrong with that advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 06:09 AM
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Nah it may not be as simple and basic as explained but definitely has some truth to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 06:06 AM
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Diets can be considered a part of lifestyle. I’m sure a lot of people would want their partner to have a similar lifestyle as they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 06:06 PM
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Find a woman who is also as financially stable as you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:25 AM
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There’s also a couple gone wild too. Both the male and couple ones both have few hundred thousands people in them. I don’t know how to check which subreddit has more posts but I’m assuming Reddit demographics are majority male so that explains why there are more followers on the female/ more mainstream gonewild.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:49 AM
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Isn’t there a gonewild male too?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:42 AM
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The average dick length is 5 inches yet most girl have experience a 7-9 inch dick? During their hoe phase? That just doesn’t make sense. You also assume every experience with a bigger dick is positive. The bigger the dick the better it is? You gotta get over your insecurely cause this is just not true. For both the girl and the guy, a bigger dick can make sex fuckin horrible. Think about how small/short some girls are. Think about how tight some people are. That shits gotta be painful and unenjo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 09:29 PM
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Someone wrote a post earlier about how they feel insecure because they think all women has been ravaged and dick slapped by a 8 inch dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:47 PM
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But that doesn’t mean most girls has had a bigger dick. A guy can prefer to have a girl with a certain size breast but that doesn’t they’ve had been with a girl that has that size. Look at porn for example, you think most guys that jack off to porn stars has been with a girl that looks similar in body? Yet most guys are still enjoying sex with someone else that doesn’t fit what they see in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:31 PM
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Then you should know the average dick size is like 5 inches lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:12 PM
1

Why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 07:42 PM
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Just not too big
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:04 PM
2

Some people here think Chads get more consistent sex than committed relationship. Like chads can snap their finger and get sex anytime they want. New girl every night on command. Then they see subreddits like deadbedrooms and conclude men in committed relationship has less sex than chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 09:53 AM
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Why not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 09:01 PM
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Q4ALL: Do you have a best friend/close friend of the opposite gender? If so, how do you think that influences you regarding topics on thIs subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 09:01 AM
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What are the specific problems that occur within communities for single people?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:24 PM
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I’d pick rich over handsome. Being handsome doesn’t get me anything worthwhile compared to all things I can get from being rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:26 PM
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So can anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 02:37 AM
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Imagine thinking being with the person you love is a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:54 AM
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Did your average size cause the bad experience? In mine and my peer’s experience, unless you got a micropenis, size has never been the source of a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:35 PM
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All I get from this is that you value dick size wayyy too highly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:14 AM
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Most people hold the opinion of their SO higher than others
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 09:04 PM
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That’s a lot of things in life, no just human relationships. You could study as hard as you want for an exam but someone else might be smart enough to get a better score without even trying, or someone cheats and gets a better score. You could practice basketball your whole life but someone with the natural born athleticism and body will be better than you. You could be putting in a lot of effort at work for a promotion but it’s given to someone else because they are a better people person. Its …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 01:16 AM
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If you get fired, you’re unemployed. If you fail your business, you’re a failed businessman. If you flunk your classes, you’re a flunk. If you live somewhere where you don’t need a car and don’t develop driving skills, you’re probably gonna be a bad driver. If you went to a school that didn’t have basketball courts, you’re probAbly gonna be a bad basketball player. There are multiple external factor that comes to play and affects you. That’s exactly what makes this thing “you”. These circumstanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 12:19 PM
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You’re right. I misinterpreted what he wrote. Now to address it, I disagree. Ugly men do have a problem dating ugly women too. For all the examples you gave, men do the same as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 10:45 AM
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Context is important but all the context I been getting have nothing to do with my post nor the comment that I replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 10:34 AM
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And so might be. Why did you guys all just add your own twist to the story lol. As if it makes the statement false
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 10:14 AM
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I think the flaw in the logic is that he talks as if wealth, job, and ability to drive are not “you”, but how are these things not? Ability to drive is literally a character trait. Being bad at driving is like being bad at playing sports. Jobs are what we spend most of our time doing. School is literally a long term training period for jobs. What job you have can correlate to what classes you took, what major you’re in, what electives you took, what clubs you’re in, etc. Wealth is generally tied…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:22 AM
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Those things don’t matter because we already established the relationship but okay glad we agree then
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:02 AM
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But if an ugly man is in a relationship with an ugly woman, that means the ugly woman is also in a relationship with an ugly man. Am I wrong? How can it be that an ugly man is in a relationship with an ugly woman, but the ugly woman is not considered to be in a relationship with an ugly man?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 06:49 AM
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Well that’s the thing, I don’t know much about feminism aside from the basics I see online. You’re claiming things that are far different so I’m asking you to clarify. You haven’t explained anything. All you implied is that women’s equality affects men’s ability to get help, which seems totally unrelated. Still waiting on more clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 06:46 AM
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People help women because women are people. Biggest threat to inequality is equality. Still unclear on how feminism affects men needing help. I don’t see how equality stops men from getting help.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 06:27 AM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 06:12 AM
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Can you explain how feminism does that? I thought it’s advocating for women’s equality
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 06:09 AM
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What’s the female version of pump and dump?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:44 AM
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I don’t think it’s strange nor has to do with feminism. I think it’s natural to get more emphatic to other people’s problem as you get older because you are more likely to have experience similar struggles, but that’s not always the case though. In my experience, older people are more likely to enforce gender roles and gender expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:42 AM
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Both gender enforce gender roles. Women say “man up”, men say “stop being a pussy”. In my experience, this happens less as I get older though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 12:15 AM
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You agreed but then disagreed? I’m confused
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 11:46 PM
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If an ugly man is dating an ugly woman, that means that the ugly woman is dating an ugly man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 10:24 PM
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My SO and I got together because of crying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 10:17 PM
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But it could right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:58 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:56 AM
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What’s wrong with self improvment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:53 AM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 09:57 AM
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My question is why are you assuming that behavior is set in stone for the gender. Why can’t men be the one who forget most women they see?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 09:57 PM
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Yes but why isn’t it that women forget bottom 20% of men and that men remember top 20%?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 08:35 PM
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What does memory process have to do with this? Are you saying people judge attraction by comparing people to other people they’ve seen in the past and that’s how they subconsciously determine who is top 20%? Why doesn’t the rule apply to men then? If it’s a human thing, it should be applicable to both.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 03:02 AM
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Just fold and do something better with your time over worrying over a rigged game. Go play another game. Go eat. Must be hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 07:31 PM
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Yep. We in the big cities too so everything is $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 11:20 AM
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We talked about it. We both didn’t want the financial burden to all be on one person especially since we’re young and not made of money. Also helped that we started off as friends so we paid 50/50 from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 11:18 AM
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50/50 style. We don’t keep count or anything like that. Just I got this time you can get next kind of thing. But I go out of my way to try and make sure I pay more regardless if she knows it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 10:49 AM
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I’m not expecting myself to cheat, why would I expect my SO to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 10:09 AM
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Idk what social media has to do with anything, but from what I just skimmed about the model, it seems that the model is based on the theory that men are more likely to be violent based on social conditions. It’s ironic you bring up the model because aren’t you proposing the same thing. That women are more likely to lie, or engage in some negative behavior, based on some social conditions and therefore we should do something against just women. It just brings it back to my point. Both gender shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 12:52 AM
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Women aren’t either. No one is born evil. Which is why both gender should be taught the same thing. No one gender is worse than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 10:05 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 09:22 PM
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My point is that we don’t need to stop teaching men things we are already teaching them in order to teach women. We can continue to teach men what they have been taught WHILE teaching women new things. You’re constantly bring up men not acting badly or w/e. That’s great and that is exactly why we should keep teaching them what they have been taught. We should continue to teach men BECAUSE it’s working, not stop because it’s working.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:13 PM
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Like I said, it is great that men are taught this. Probably why men lie less. That is a GOOD thing. So we should continue doing it. Now we can do the same to women. So both gender are being taught the same thing. And everything we teach women, we should also teach men. Both gender should be taught the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 09:09 AM
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How is it neurology? It’s hard coded in the brain that 80/20 is the golden ratio? Why can’t it be 70/30?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 09:06 AM
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It’s great that men tell less lies. That doesn’t mean we should stop teaching them to don’t tell lies. If some men are lying and raping, then there’s a need for better teaching. That’s why we should teach BOTH gender the same thing. Neither gender is free if blame and neither are perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 09:00 AM
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Like I said, teach both gender the same shit. Both gender show signs of being entitled to “good” people. Yes no gender is entitled to protection. Teach both gender the same shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:57 AM
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Or teach both gender not to rape, lie or be entitled to sex. Teach everyone the same shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:38 AM
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What extrovert element is there then? The difference is simply one loses energy from being with people while the other gains energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:28 AM
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Someone who actively interacts with people is obviously more likely to meet new people than someone who isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:07 AM
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Yea I’d say that’s pretty rude then
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 12:59 AM
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Are you talking about directly saying “I have a boyfriend” out of nowhere or just mentioning it as the convo goes on?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 12:58 AM
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How is that hostile?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 12:55 AM
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Hardworking isn’t a masculine trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 09:37 PM
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You don’t need to be masculine and disagreeable to be hardworking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 08:25 PM
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But they aren’t. You don’t need to be masculine and disagreeable to have a career goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 08:23 PM
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Hate to break it to you then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 08:20 PM
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Why is a independent career driven woman always masculine and disagreeable? They can be independent career driven while being feminine and agreeable. That’s what you want to look for. You don’t want someone who is too masculine and not compatible but why would you want someone who has no goals/ambition/passion and they are dependent af and cant do anything on their own. These woman are boring af.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 04:27 PM
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You think men don’t wear makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 04:01 PM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 03:58 PM
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Men do all this stuff as well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 09:03 AM
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True, prob a fine line between it somewhere. Being creeped out can also lead to being scared as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 08:51 AM
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I will almost never experience the fear where someone creepy or aggressive is physically stronger than me and wants to get with me. Yet I have still been creeped out and scared by actions of women hitting on me. I can’t imagine how bad it is for women when they get hit on/pursued and they feel uncomfortable. Scary shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 08:44 AM
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They aren’t not fighting back. They aren’t defending themselves. No one is actively and continually going out of their way to beat them up. They are the one who can’t take rejection well. They are the one escalating the situation. They are the one being toxic. They are the problem. They aren’t some wronged person fighting back. They are just immature babies who are whining because they can’t get what they want. So what if they feel like outcast. That doesn’t suddenly make their actions right. Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 05:26 AM
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We don’t blame them for being outcast. We blame them for verbal assaulting, threatening, and borderline manipulating people. Why are we being apologetic to people who do these things? If I came up to you and verbally assaulted you, you would apologize to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 11:49 PM
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How does not wanting to be an asshole make you superior? Are we suppose to feel bad assholes now. Someone verbal assaults me and I should be apologetic?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 11:36 PM
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Would I rather be the creepy asshole who feels entitled just because I’m nice and then proceeds to verbal assault and threatens the person I asked out because of a simple rejection, OR be the person who got asked out, but is not interested, and is now being verbally abused and threatened just because the other person can’t take rejection well? Shit idk both sucks but I’d rather not be an asshole. Guess I’ll be the victim then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 10:26 PM
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I’m not sure how that is punching down. From your example, the people who post there has to have some kind of advantage. I don’t see any advantage there. What about the subreddit nice girls? People that post there don’t do it because they think they are better. They are posting so they can expose creepy but generally ironic behaviors. They are exposing red flags. They are exposing the irony in what they say vs their behavior. They post about the bad behaviors of the bad people they interacted wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 10:14 PM
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Exactly how I feel lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 09:20 PM
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How is everyone on Reddit weird? Half the people on this subreddit are just shitting on the opposite gender based on their own experience. Sounds the same to what the nice guy subreddit is doing. I’ve had bad experience talking to people who are into stocks. I guess everyone who is into stocks are bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 09:19 PM
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But how?? How is that different from us posting? Are we weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 09:06 PM
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Do all what? Post screenshots of creepy people that are sometimes straight up harassing them? What’s wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 08:59 PM
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Idk if cool or just hardcore church
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 08:58 PM
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What’s wrong with that subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 08:47 PM
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My point is almost everyone in church knows how to play guitar. Are every guy at church players?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 08:46 PM
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Go to church. All the guitar/instrument players there aren’t players. Mainly cause almost everyone knows how to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 08:38 PM
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What’s so weird about it? More stimulation = more intense. Seems normal to me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 02:33 AM
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I see it as relationships/dating is the try out part. That’s where you and them as a person are put to the test. But before any of this, you have to first find that person to test out. This is where it’s equal IMO. Both gender have the same opportunity to come across people in their lives. You can’t get to the relationship part without finding someone in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:25 PM
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It’s unlikely in the sense that the sheer quantity is too unrealistically high
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 07:17 PM
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That’s more unlikely lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:16 AM
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That’s like average 2 different person a day. I’m sure it’s doable and whatnot but my first reaction is shes trolling. Kinda surprised to see every other comment taking it at face value tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:09 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 02:35 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 12:43 AM
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What if I said they aren’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 12:40 AM
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What if they marry to be with the person they love?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 12:38 AM
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Why is divorce inevitable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 12:36 AM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 12:34 AM
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I mean if you’re just gonna you’re say you don’t care and it’s their problem, same thing can be applied to the woman. They putting themself first over some random nobody. It’s your porblem not hers. It’s about HER HER HER, not YOU YOU YOU. You sound like the typical nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 08:12 PM
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If 90% if women died, then all the men would be fighting for them too. I don’t see how that shows anything. I don’t agree that men are in LTR for sex. It’s one of the reasons but I don’t think it’s more important than all the other stuff that comes with LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 06:53 AM
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How do you know they are quality guys? How do you know they are quality guys that’s a good fit for the woman? How should the woman know any of this? Waiting on sex is one of the ways to see if the guy is quality. If they end up whining about it like you do, it’s obvious they aren’t good quality. They just want sex. That’s an auto no go for some people. Also why are quality men be given what they want? That’s straight nice guy mentality. If you were to gamble and played on a $1 slot machines, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 06:49 AM
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No. But if a man is exclusive to one LTR, then it’s okay for him to wait on sex compared to giving it out on casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 06:41 AM
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Like I said, you’re mixing up casual sex with LTR. Different standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:53 AM
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I’m a man and I’m asking this. Why do you get what everyone else have? What if she didn’t see long prosperity in the other person? What if her tastes changed? What if you didn’t do a good job of attracting her? What if she wanted to move away from casual sexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 12:59 AM
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Sex shouldn’t be THE end goal for LTR. You’re putting standards for causal sex into standards of LTR. Doesn’t matter if you’re starting to have sex a month earlier or not, there are other things to consider in a LTR. If she wants you around for a long time, that’s even more reason to wait. She has to see if you’re actually right for her. You can risk more in casual relationships because they don’t mean as much. It’s meant to be short term and nonchalant. That’s what I mean by sex actually means …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 12:53 AM
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If you’re pursuing casual sex, I don’t see how this is a problem still. You’re there for no string attached sex. If you’re pursuing a LTR, why would you want her to treat you as if you were just a guy for casual sex. Sex won’t be viewed as a quick fix anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 09:57 PM
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What better treatment did they get? How is fucking sooner considered better treatment? What if they knew each other first or longer? What if the other guy did a better job of attracting her than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 09:27 PM
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Why eat a burger when you can look up a picture of a burger on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 09:45 AM
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I care about these issues not because for myself, but for the people I care about. I don’t want my family or friends or loved ones to face these problems. On the other hand, I don’t exactly go out of my way to enforce or try and chnange society or anything. I got too much going on in my life to commit a lot of effort into that. But I do support the positive changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:29 PM
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Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:20 PM
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I didn’t watch speech but what about jt didn’t you like
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:45 AM
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Happens both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 01:39 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with going after just sex. The problem is he’s looking for it in significantly younger women specifically because of their inexperience. He’s trying to benefit off their inexperience and naiveness for his own gain, for something he can’t get with women his own age because these women are experience and not naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:15 AM
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Lol. Financial security, social security, social status, loneliness, starting family, experimentation, clout, etc. Just a few things I though of this past min.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:47 AM
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Why does it bother you that you are a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:42 AM
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What surprises me is how people can read posts like this but still think that men and women experience different things. As if everyone doesn’t find it harder to date when they get older or everyone’s appearance gets worse. The grass is always greener on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 11:01 PM
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Based on what I read from you, you specifically want to date younger women for the sole purpose of sex because you are insecure in your own inexperience to be with women your age. I could be misinterpreting, but i think you are just being dishonest with yourself when you say you can find an more compatible relationship with younger women over women your own age. Either way, if you truly believe you can find a successful and fulfilling relationship with a younger women in that age range, nothing …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 10:53 PM
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Based on what I read from you, you specifically want to date younger women for the sole purpose of sex because you are insecure in your own inexperience to be with women your age. I could be misinterpreting, but i think you are just being dishonest with yourself when you say you can find an more compatible relationship with younger women over women your own age. Either way, if you truly believe you can find a successful and fulfilling relationship with a younger women in that age range, nothing …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 10:52 PM
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That’s the thing. If sex wasn’t the only thing you cared about and you really wanted to find a compatible relationship that wasn’t based on just sex, you wouldn’t be purposely pursuing significantly younger women over women your own age. You would pursue a women your own age that is sexually compatible over pursuing a younger women whose only compatibility is regarding sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 10:01 PM
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First of all, you have to stop lying to yourself. Your only objective is sex. Your only reason for being with a younger women is for sex. You plan to approach younger women for the sole purpose of having sex. You’re over here pretending like you want to have a meaningful relationship when the only thing that motivates you to pursue a younger women is sex. Going after someone significantly younger with the sole purpose of using their body for your own pleasure is predatory. Anything stopping you?…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 09:16 PM
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The way you described it EXACTLY why it’s creepy and unethical. The main focus of your post is sex. You’re basically saying you want to date younger inexperience women for sex. You’re insecure so you want them inexperience and naive, that way they can’t judge you nor see the red flags about you. If you dated someone your age, they’ll be able to see the red flags. This is EXACTLY why it’s looked down on. You say women your age aren’t nothing like you but how are younger women anything like you? J…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 06:42 PM
6

Every more than basic friendship I’ve had was because of some common grounds. Same class, same interest, same job, same sports, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 04:49 PM
3

Make up also makes men look better
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 04:39 PM
2

Just because it’s less likely doesn’t mean they should do it. Same pro and cons for both side. Women being awkward can still be rejected. Men being awkward can still be accepted. Men anti-awkward bias can stop relationships from forming. How do you know a good relationship will be formed? There’s a reason first impressions play a big role in social interactions, not just for relationships. Are you more likely to hire someone with a good first impression or a bad first impression given the same b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 04:37 PM
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If a woman was awkward and “messes up” while the guy is already uninterested, she’s gonna get rejected. I don’t see how that’s different from what a guy experiences. For both gender, if someone is already interested, they’ll be more likely to overlook awkwardness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 04:51 AM
5

Guys don’t compliment other men in physical aspect either. In my experience, any one of my female friends have given me more physical coMpliments than all my male friends combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 05:25 AM
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I mean it’s the same for both genders. Rejection makes you think what’s wrong with yourself. Yep I feel it. My experience in the real world are complete opposite of what I see on here. Too much time here can mess with you. Gotta take a couple days away from this subreddit to refresh yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:38 PM
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I don’t exactly feel bad when that happens to me. There are def girls out there that feels bad for rejecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:31 PM
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In my own experience and seeing people around me, yea it happens a lot. Rejection with girls are more subtle because they aren’t as direct/pushy when pursuing as opposed to guys. Another common case is the guy not knowing their intention and just declining cause hes busy or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:20 PM
5

If there’s no sex then that’s more of a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:13 PM
7

Why is it bad advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 06:19 AM
2

Other guys here, how do I trim my pubes without it itching? Trimming it just a little already makes it itchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:57 AM
1

No one has to pay rent. But no one wants to live on the streets. No one has to be breadwinner, but if people wants those things I listed, then being breadwinner is a way to get it. Some reasons I can think of is that maybe they wanted this dynamic because it’s what society deems as right, but when they have it, they realize it’s not what they want. Another reason could be they don’t have strong feelings anymore for SO so they grow miserable but blame it on being breadwinner. Could also be they f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 09:12 PM
1

You pay rent because you get shelter in return. You buy food because you get food in return. You don’t have to do these things but you do jt because of what you get in return. I asked those questions to make you realize just cause one sides “takes advantage” doesn’t mean you shouldn’t engage in that transaction. As long as you get what you want out of it, then it could be a worthwhile engagement. Anyways, what do breadwinner get? Differs with everyone. Could be to fulfill societal roles, fulfill…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 08:59 PM
1

Why buy food from grocery stores when they make a profit off you and “take advantage”? Why pay rent when they can kick you out and “take advantage”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 08:34 PM
1

It’s a record rate but that doesn’t mean the general popular is like that. I assume people are unhealthy because of how easy it is to get fast food/ unhealthy meals. But it is also as easy to get healthier food now too. Better understanding of nutrition and what our body needs are information that is easily accessible and researchable now due to the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:03 PM
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Better and more accessible makeup, better cameras and lighting and all that jazz, software technology to edit pictures, better diet creates better skin/body as well as better mental health, probably aloooot of other reasons. I think a big part is also because our standards are different. Not in the sense that our standards got better or anything but simply that it’s different now. This different standard has been ingrained into us through society that we think our standard is what is normal. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 08:32 AM
1

Well just looking off what that person has wrote, loyal partner for his whole life who he can rely on for anything. Emphasis on whole life and on being about to reply on SO for ANYTHING. That’s not something you will typically get in a romantic relationship without going through marriage. Marriage is a commitment to stay loyal with each other through thick and thin no matter what happens. Sure you don’t need marriage for that but you are way less likely to reach that point with someone without i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 08:21 AM
1

You don’t marry someone to receive a loyal partner. You marry to receive further benefits that come with a loyal partner. Sure you might not get those benefits if your partner isn’t loyal but you’ll never have a chance to begin with if your don’t take that risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:28 AM
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That’s like saying all guys are into incest because of how popular step sibling porn is. I doubt all the women in my life are hiding this secret fetish but they could be I guess. I’m sure there are people out there with this specific fantasy but until this actually comes to play in my life, it’s just internet talk. I’m never gonna auto assume a woman I meet has a stalker fetish cause it’s just not at all common in my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:50 AM
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I’m almost positive it will never go that way. Serious open relationship will never be a widespread thing. Will only work for casual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:35 AM
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I’ve yet to meet anyone with this kind of fantasy. Most women in my life are the opposite. Having a stalker is fuckin creepy and scary. Aint nobody trying to deal with that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:26 AM
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Ofc no one expects to get cheated on. That’s why it’s so scary to make commitments or to trust someone else. You’ll never know if your partner wasn’t loyal until they cheat but you also won’t know they were loyal until they follow on their commitment to not cheat. They won’t get that opportunity to show loyalty until you give them the chance. Sure you can avoid the risk of the relationship coming down by avoiding it all together but you’ll also be avoiding any potential benefits. No one knows th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 09:39 PM
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People with loyal partner has the benefits to not experience this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 06:56 PM
1

Do you know why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 10:23 AM
1

When did a guy bringing that topic up get considered a red flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 09:07 AM
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Personality, looks , money/status. Status and money are pretty much the same and can be interchangeable. Just my personal ranking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 09:01 AM
3

What’s difference between marrying post wall women vs pre wall women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 05:49 AM
1

Well there are things like welfare, food stamp, and other services to provide assistant to people in need. It could be better of course but no system is perfect. Finding dates and sex aren’t essential needs so there’s not going to be services for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 01:29 AM
2

It doesn’t matter what the roles are or what the traditional expectation are. You shouldn’t act based on these things. You should act based on the fact that you and your partner are now a team and you should both be trying to make each other’s live better. The bread winner should work for themself AND their partner. The stay at home partner should do whatever they can at home to improve the lives of them AND their partner. It’s not about how much or how little is done, it’s about making both par…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 12:08 AM
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I think your opinion matches my general viewpoint of this subreddit. ALLLL the things that are brought up in this subreddit are not gender specific. Both gender experience the same thing in some form or way. Most of the people in this subreddit think the other gender has it better but it’s the same shit. The grass is greener on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 09:17 AM
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Thank you stranger!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:22 AM
2

A. Yes. Parent divorce, bully, disabilities , lower class poor B. Slight substance misuse, poor C. Yes D. No E. No F. No F2. No G. Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:16 AM
1

It’s not that they won’t be sexual aroused by the person in front of them. But the level of arousal that they need to reach in order to produce a normal behavior is artificially higher now. So just seeing a woman’s body can get them aroused but it’s not enough because porn has raised the bar so high. They need a higher stimulant. What I meant by it’s not rare for them is that normally, a naked woman should be able to arouse them if they saw one irl. But because they are so exposed to it in porn,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 10:45 PM
1

Like I said, depends on what you want to get out of a relationship. There’s some rewards that are the same regardless of attraction level in all healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 10:26 PM
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Too much porn consumption can make some guys get turned on with watching a video instead of the actual thing. They can also find it hard to get aroused by a woman’s body because it’s something they see all the time. It’s not something that’s rare for them anymore. They’ll also be too used to the bodies they see in porn media and will think those body type and appearance are the norms when most woman’s body don’t actually look like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 08:34 PM
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Depends on what you want out of a relationship. If you just want a quick fix to your sexual needs, then Ofc casual is better. You could even just get escorts for this, no need for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 08:23 PM
1

No, a lot of guy I know don’t want to date taller girls because they are taller. There are girls who like shorter guys. Everyone has their own preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 01:28 AM
1

In my experiences, most men I know want to date shorter women because they want the women to be shorter. If a woman was taller than them, they have a lower interest in dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 01:01 AM
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In that experiment, I’d think there would be a huge difference in results if it was made clear that attractiveness =\= willingness to date. If this was made clear, I would say the results wouldn’t change as much between the two gender. I think both gender generally view being tall as a more attractive trait in the opposite gender but a big part of why there seems to be more weight to it when women look at men is because women prefer to date a man taller than them. Most men think tall women are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:58 AM
1

Prob same reason why men would rather date shorter women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 11:17 PM
3

Im just tryna learn more. What about women who grew up in single mother households?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:47 PM
5

Do most men prefer taller women if their mother was taller than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:42 PM
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Is she the alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:30 PM
5

People can have sex for a number of different reasons. Could be for money, pleasure, fun, relationships, experimentation, relief, intimacy, etc. Someone can go from having sex for just relationship reasons to having sex for relationship OR money. Just one extra reason for why they have sex. I don’t see why there has to be a big personality switch for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 06:17 AM
3

1 in 5 what
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:25 AM
2

The date sets up an expectation that things will lead up to a kiss but I agree that specific example can be fuzzy. I think the main thing is establishing how unwanted something is on the scale. Getting a kiss from a stranger is probably more unwanted than a kiss from a date. There’s not necessarily a borderline for when something unwanted is okay cause obviously it’s still unwanted, but I think there are some situations that are more tolerable and understandable than others. Sexual assault doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 01:05 AM
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Lol it’s easier to answer if you explain your view and helps address specific points. People also answer their own questions if they think and are able to express their ideas more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 12:11 AM
2

Why do you think it’s not considered sexual assault?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 11:49 PM
1

That would still not be considered willing imo. Just cause you do something doesn’t mean you were truly willing to do it. If you give a vegan a piece of real animal meat telling them that it is vegan meat and they eat it, that doesn’t make them willing to eat real animal meat. If you take away the lie and they were to act differently with the truth, that’s not willing imo. I guess this is just more about word definition on willingly. I agree with the rest of what you wrote but like I said, these…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 09:03 PM
1

I agree that people should be responsible for not being so naive. I see it as you can be at fault for being naive but at the same time, not be at fault for someone else doing something wrong to you. Those are two different things even if related. So when talking about the fault of someone doing something bad to another, the focus should be on the person that did the act because they are at fault for doing it. Someone else’s naiveness shouldn’t contribute to how much one is at fault for doing bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 07:25 PM
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I’m not saying there’s no place for change or improvement in the women but the problem with that mentality is that it always comes down to the women’s fault then. It’s always the women’s fault for being the victim then. It’s always their fault for being the prey. It’s always their fault for not stopping it from happening. It’s always their fault for being there and not walking away. Yea the men did bad things and they shouldn’t have but not their fault for doing the bad things. It’s always the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 06:22 PM
1

I don’t know how any of that is relevant to being lied to. Do adults not get lied to? If you get lied to, you aren’t responsible for your own live? How are they not victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 06:09 PM
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You can be assertive and still be lied to. You don’t walk away until you know the their words are actually lies. It’s not the victims fault for being victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 05:49 PM
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It’s not that they are making poor choices in their own. They are being lied to, getting stringed along under false hope, etc. They are blaming the men that are lying to them and telling them what they want to hear. Why is it women’s fault for being given false hope and lied to while it’s not the men’s fault for being the one to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 05:38 PM
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Oh yea I think that’s fine. It’s just usually people in this sub view sex as the ultimate form or intimatcy and what not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 05:27 PM
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That was literally the point of the thread OP linked. These women know what they want and are trying to make it clear yet when they bring it up, the man usually just pretend, lie, give false hopes, or just flat out call them negative people.The thread is literally trying to get awareness for it and encourage woman to stay up for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 05:19 PM
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They aren’t. That’s why the men have to pretend and be slick.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 04:56 PM
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I think it doesn’t matter which one. I’d go with either one. If you make it work, I’m sure you can end up being perceived as both. Some might view you more attractive while some night view you more dominant. Best of both world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 11:54 AM
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Why can’t women be submissive and have a education/career?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 08:36 AM
2

Would it make them happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:10 AM
1

Why should they come to your room?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:07 AM
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If you’re gonna go out to meet a woman, you’d have to leave your room anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:00 AM
1

Why do you not want to shower?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:55 AM
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