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Virtue signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 08:07 PM
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So what if she's a whore. Sure, I don't have a problem with it, but I wouldn't consider for a second that any such woman would make a decent relationship partner. I know many women that do sugar dating, and they're all broken with issues stemming from childhood. Generally they don't actually need the money, they use it for things like luxury clothes/shoes and save very little.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 11:04 PM
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He will easily convince her, these men are very smart and these types of women are typically dumb as rocks Really not true at all. Usually sugar babies are reasonably intelligent college students or college grads. They're just damaged, e.g. daddy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 11:00 PM
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Morally wrong? No. Would a girl that's willing to do that ever make a good partner in the future? Absolutely not. But I don't think many people understand the reality of the "sugar dating" world you're talking about. It's extremely rare for someone to get all of their expenses paid for and so on. In reality, sugar dating is just non-professional prostitution with some decoration around the edges so the girl can think she's "not really a whore". Generally, sugar babies in the US are college-aged …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 09:06 PM
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It only helps if they're taller and broader shouldered then the other men that they're competing with - the other danish men. So in general in Denmark it's not an advantage. Women outside of the west think that light-colored eyes and light-colored hair are extremely attractive, because they aren't common in their countries. So someone from the US with blue eyes can do extremely well for that reason in Asia or Latin America, whereas at home no one would care.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 02:43 PM
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That would only help them when traveling. They have no advantage because of those things in the Danish sexual market if those things are very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 02:10 PM
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Can you link to specific examples? If they're rating in a forum where the woman can actually see the results, it might be some desperate attempt at picking her up. You see this happen all the time in places like /r/amisexy where the ugly women get really high ratings by guys that think they're "attainable". Apart from that, people vary in what they see as attractive. Some guys might be into the "porn star look" - giant tits/ass, sort of a "fake" vibe. Some guys are very turned off by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 10:22 PM
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This is entirely cultural. This effect of highly intelligent/successful women not trying very hard with their appearance is only the case in the anglosphere, where feminism is pervasive. Go to any country where feminism isn't as widespread and you'll find highly attractive, highly feminine doctors, lawyers, and engineers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 12:45 AM
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You're in a bubble of progressivism. I have friend circles like this too, but this is not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/17 11:57 PM
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In my experience, women like that still feel more comfortable as the more submissive partner in the relationship, but the dominance can't be explicit. And it usually seems to devolve into petty squabbles over power, which the man must win to maintain her interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 05:40 AM
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This matches what I've seen when traveling around the world long-term. The ratio is everything. There are certain areas where the sex ratio is unbelievably unbalanced (2+ women for every man), and those places are unbelievable for a guy looking for casual sex. Not only are the women easy, they also work very hard to compete based on appearances. And the women there complain that it's impossible to find a guy that's willing to commit to them that will actually be faithful. This also occurs when s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 10:08 PM
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The 3 was generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 02:29 AM
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Not everyone assigns so much emotion to the actual act of sex itself. For me it's just a physical thing, not some sort of expression of something deeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 07:49 PM

I think it's important to note that the latter is very much culturally dependent. As far as I am aware, American culture is by far the strictest in terms of what's normal for an age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 11:18 AM

Same here. But I think this is largely a reflection of who I was in my early 20's, and how much I've improved since.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 10:52 AM
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The responses to this question look absolutely nothing like what really happens in the real world. I think many men overstate how much it matters, but to say that it doesn't matter at all, or that it's a turn off like most women are claiming here, is absolutely silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 10:14 PM
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I think people are underestimating how much of an impact the obesity epidemic has had on the SMP in the US, while simultaneously overestimating the impact of feminism. I've done lots of long-term traveling and love the different experience of hooking up with locals, and my experience is that there's absolutely nowhere in the world that's as bad as the US for dating. The type that is very attractive for men: slim, very feminine, sweet, sexually conservative- is relatively rare in the US, but is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 04:48 PM
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That's what you hear about, but from what I've seen the scams aren't any more common than they are with guys hooking up with women in 1st world countries. It's mostly an issue when very low SMV men go somewhere like Thailand or the Philippines to fuck hookers, and end up being manipulated by one of them. For the most part travelers just hook up with women from the middle-class and above, and both parties are aware it's just casual and will end after they leave. The exotic value from the way they…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 04:41 PM
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What's the difference in women of average dating range? In lots of countries it's the norm to become obese once married with children. In the US it's the norm to become obese much earlier, skewing the SMP.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 04:09 PM
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Brazilian whites are indeed very hot, and facially hotter on average than the average american, but most of the hype comes from their bodies. Even chubby women aren't too common in their 20s, many/most have flat stomachs. Also the charisma, sensuality, and femininity of women there absolutely blows away women from any western country, that influences things as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 04:07 PM
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I've bailed from tinder dates with attractive women before, where I could have easily had a ONS, because she gave off some crazy vibes. Or even when there was just zero chemistry. Now, maybe 5 years ago when I wasn't getting laid, I would have put up with just about anything if I knew it was going to lead to easy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 12:32 AM
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I think things change pretty dramatically for men starting in their late 20's. I went from struggling to ever get laid in my early 20's to having a very easy time of it, now in my early 30's. And I've seen the same in many guys that are still single in my age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 11:33 PM
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The "friend zone" guys rarely even get discussed unless she wants a favor, help with a bill Really curious about this one. Can you tell us more? I've never had a FWB or past FWB ask or hint that she'd like help with money, even though there's usually been a large income difference. Would this be a case where the girl was getting a guy to pay for a bill in exchange for fucking her again? Maybe not so obviously transactional, but in a subtle way?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 04:12 PM
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This so heavily depends on the local culture where you are. In some places one night stands are quite easy and any guy can do one night stands, in some places they're practically impossible for anyone except extremely high status men to pull off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 01:00 AM
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With the gender ratio and the fact that everyone walks everywhere, NYC is quite different than the rest of the US. The average is still quite awful in comparison to nearly any other country, but perhaps the best in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 07:39 PM
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No one cares about n-count nowadays which is why interesting past sexual encounters became a great topic to talk about. It sounds like you live in a bubble of progressivism if you really believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 09:20 AM
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I'm surprised that the overwhelming majority didn't pick "face and height".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 09:09 AM
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"Have you ever had sex with someone while you were really drunk?" "Yes" +1 for the rape stats on campus.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 11:01 PM
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I had a girl do that, then threaten to commit suicide when I wouldn't take her back.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 10:46 PM
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Is it Australia, perhaps? I've dated a couple from there and they seemed seriously uncomfortable with being paid for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 07:25 AM
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I don't know anyone who expects the guy to pay for dates and who would be upset if he didn't. This is very much the exception. Even among highly-educated, relatively successful women that I know in the US, many of them will admit to be turned off a little bit when a man doesn't pay for the first date. Do you live outside of the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 05:04 AM
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Guys don't generally approach in bars and never on the streets, no. It's an extremely passive culture. People just meet through online dating or friends, for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 02:49 AM
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I think women would hate this more than men would, actually. Talk to women in a city like Seattle where men never really approach. It drives them nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 02:07 AM
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Apart from physical attractiveness, being disrespectful, attempting to be dominant, or bringing up past sexual experiences turns me off the fastest. I'm very much into the sweet, classy, slightly demure type.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 02:05 AM
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Face & Ass. I never really cared about tits, in fact I go for very slim women that generally don't have much there. Early 30's, white, USA, no pill affiliation, upper-middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 12:58 AM
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If a girl did this, I would immediately move on: She basically went off about how those are made up gender roles and she's a feminist and doesn't identify as either of those. If a girl just happened to mention that she's a feminist, though, I would also view it negatively to some extent, because it often signals a close-mindedness that will cause trouble in future relationships. I prefer dating people that understand and have experience with both the feminist concepts and more traditional gender…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 11:39 PM
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There's just a correlation with it. You only hear of desperate men going for hookers in the US, and you think of them as disease-ridden and such. It's a totally different deal if you take a group of guys over to a non-western country (where prostitution is generally widely available and widely used by travelers) and they see how things really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 03:24 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 01:27 PM
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The US has a terrible male/female ratio I don't think it's a problem with the male:female ratio, it's a problem with the dateable male:female ratio. The obesity epidemic has taken a high percentage of women out of the dating pool, making it rather lopsided compared to other countries. That said, this particular case doesn't sound like people trying to get laid, just people being good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 01:13 PM
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How would these answers change if, instead of Chad having multiple wives, he had multiple mistresses? That is, you will always be married to him, and you will always be required to be faithful, but he will be regularly having sex with young women well into his 50's. You'll know in the back of your mind, but he will never admit it and it will never embarrass you publicly. This is more the reality for women that marry rich men around the world today.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 01:56 PM
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What she has is really nothing special. Here's the key, from the article: I travel a lot I travel quite a bit as well, and I have about 4000 matches from the past year. And I'm a early-30's guy that's average-looking at best. Tinder boosts profiles that are new to any given area, that makes a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 10:34 PM
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Absolutely A. I'm very much into monogamy with women that I can see something long-term with. I'm not willing to share and I think it causes tremendous relationship instability. Apart from that, from what I've seen, heterosexual men tend to get the short end of the stick when it comes to open relationships. Women generally aren't interested in casual sex with men that are in open relationships, so women tend to have dramatically more options when they're in open relationships. So, the guy stays …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 02:05 AM
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I'm talking about the accepted definition. Go ahead and search around anywhere for what guys generally mean when they say "feminine", it matches what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 07:09 PM
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I mis-stated it. I've lived in cities where it was more or less taboo to do a cold approach, and ones where it happens constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 07:06 PM
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Apart from how attractive you are, this strongly depends on where you live. In some cities, an attractive women really will be constantly approached, but in others she'll be approached a few times a day just going about her normal activities. The local culture makes a giant difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 07:00 PM
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Being the feminine, docile type is not at all mutually exclusive with being fun and interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 03:59 PM
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This is the definition of femininity. It's just that traditional women tend to be more feminine. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:59 AM
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This doesn't have anything to do with looks, it's all about the attitude. Not afraid to be submissive and deferential to her partner when she's being treated well, more graceful in the way she carries herself, sweeter disposition, things like that. More of a traditional type.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:40 AM
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"independence" (or rather: vocal claims of having that trait) is just "bitch-signalling". I am not afraid of that woman, I am not afraid that she'll turn the power of the courts against me if we have a falling out, I simply think she's an annoying person who will get on my nerves, and this makes any further objections unnecessary. 100% agree with this. If a woman loudly and proudly proclaims she's a feminist I have the same reaction as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 05:57 PM
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I won't respond directly to the question here, but I want to point out that this isn't just a matter of past history. Women in most of the world, present-day, look for "nice-guy, good provider men". That is, "nice-guy" in the true sense of the word, not the low-SMV groveling type. Go abroad to anywhere outside of the west and this is the case today, even though in most cases their opportunities are now roughly equal to men. Hell, even within the US you can look at non-white ethnic groups and tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 04:23 AM
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That seems odd to me, why wouldn't taller men have more partners? Do you have any data for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 02:57 AM
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I think I've met maybe two of these women. In my personal experience, I have found that women that fit every item on this list are more or less the norm in the middle classes of many latin american and asian cities. Although I would add: -- Well-educated and intellectual, by western standards And that one is quite a bit harder to find in combination with the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 11:54 PM
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The stats look like they're based on personal surveys, not the legal proceedings. If you're looking for an explanation, I think it's based in large part on who has more to lose in a divorce. If a man initiates a divorce, he's likely to lose primary custody of his children, as well as more than half of his assets, and will need to pay child support for many years afterwards. Additionally, I think a woman will be more motivated to end a marriage earlier, so that she has a better chance at getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 11:43 PM
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I checked what that looks like on MyBodyGallery, and yes, that's only slightly more overweight than average. Probably better than average for a woman that's married with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 10:16 PM
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It's subjective, but most guys would say so, yes. It's not all bad -the general education level is dramatically higher in the US vs. any non-western country, and there are many more intellectual women as well. And if you like women with a sharp wit or that will challenge you, the US might be the best. In terms of looks, there's lots of potential in american women. But there's not as much pressure to take full advantage of it - the average young american girl would be considered fat (and shamed b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 09:11 PM
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It actually does to some limited extent. When I was in Kenya, locals told me that guys would sometime come there to go wife-hunting. I'm assuming that they were african-american guys looking for someone that's more feminine and refined than what they'd normally find in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 08:49 PM
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Men think that if they go to a non-Western country, they're going to find women who are more traditional and less influenced by feminism. They also feel that being from a developed country gives them an edge in the SMP if they move somewhere with a lower income. This came from the US and UK colonizing countries in Southeast Asia. Speaking as someone that has spent a great deal of time traveling throughout Asia, all of this is 100% true. In addition, having white skin also plays into the asian ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 08:45 PM
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However, you're less likely to get casual sex in these places. I can understand why you'd think that, but that's not how it works in reality. For practically anyone with light skin from a country like the US, it's dramatically easier for them to find casual sex. There's just quite a bit of "last minute resistance" because they don't want to feel like a slut, but they're known to be very easy relative to some place like the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 08:43 PM
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It's not because of the black women there, it's because of the european-looking white women. Black women are mostly in the lower classes, so a tourist will rarely come into social contact with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 08:40 PM
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This is why I'll probably end up with a 1st/2nd generation immigrant for a wife. Someone that has at least been exposed to traditional gender roles as they work in reality, rather than someone that has only ever seen the idea as taboo and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 04:38 PM
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For anything more than a casual fling, I'd feel the same way. Having experienced serious relationships with both types, I know that I'm happier with women that are more oriented towards relationships, supporting her partner, and starting a family rather than getting ahead in her career. It's possible to find great women with that outlook that are still highly intelligent and intellectual, and that's my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 06:37 AM
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Where are you from? The norms do vary dramatically by country and even city. But there is always some sort of norm in the amount of time/dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 05:54 AM
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So do what everyone else does. Fuck the slutty girls to keep you busy while you look around for a good girl to date seriously. Don't seriously date someone that goes clubbing all the time or views sex as something non-sacred. It's not difficult to tell whether a girl is promiscuous or not (or has been in the past) after being with her for a few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 04:54 AM
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He is the only man I've ever had sex with and the only man I want to have sex with You're the unicorn that the redpill-types dream of. Personally I believe that women are not really interested in men that are "bad boys" in any real sense of the word, but they are interested in men that can dominate them and be in control of the relationship. And someone that comes off as a "bad boy" is obviously one that's going to be in control. This might be taboo to say in the west, but if you go to literally…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 03:08 AM
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