| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Views on reality of men and porn? | PORN SICK, LIMP DICK | mynamenotnob | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 07:30 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 15 | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.I commented on r/feminism mentioning how it’s crazy FDS gets hate when this guy was involved on so many hate filled groups on Reddit and Reddit does nothing, and I also mentioned that mainstream violent porn doesn’t help because it normalizes being violent and derogatory towards women…AND I GOT BANNED????!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 08:31 PM |
| 104 | “FdS IS JuST As BaD As InCeLs” when was the last time an FDS’er, or any woman, went and killed innocent people because they couldn’t get a man?Men really do scare me 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 11:42 AM |
| 3 | Don't take it personally if you get banned from FDS. We ban a lot of people, it's actually very common.Wow, seeing those messages…I’m really sorry you guys have to deal with those verbally abusive and verbally violent messages all the time. I can’t imagine reading it all the time! Thanks again, mods, for all you do! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 04:53 AM |
| 20 | Stop worrying about the existence of HVM: Some strategiesMuch much much needed! 2.5 months out of a break up, and I love this sub, and a few anti-porn subs that I’m involved with on Reddit, but I find they’ve been leaving me feeling a bit depressed and feeling hopeless when it comes to finding someone and putting myself out there again. I think what helps me as well, is remembering statistically speaking what I’m looking for has to exist, and hearing happy stories from other people, anecdotes go a long way! Sometimes I find women can build too strong … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 05:44 AM |
| 28 | Women boss up after their break up. Then men go around doing the same shit, business as usual. ☺️THIS 👏🏻 IS 👏🏻 SO 👏🏻 TRUE 👏🏻 also I swear I get hotter after each break up 😂 more focused, more fit, more successful…but I do think when you are in a toxic relationship, it will drag you down ladies in every way possible: physically, mentally, emotionally, fiscally; you name it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 07:12 AM |
| 124 | Is anyone else here a virgin who is disgusted by slutty guys?Alas, I am not a virgin, but I too am thoroughly disgusted by slutty guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 02:25 AM |
| 4 | I’m beginning to think all dating subreddits here are anti-woman to some extentThat’s why I’m always referencing FDS in other subreddits and trying to show women that there is a safe space for them on the internet. I agree with you, every other subreddit here is toxic, except the non-porn ones. And the guys from /spirituality also seem more decent than most on Reddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Ask a man why he loves youI asked my ex once and he said “because you’re sexy, you dress really well all the time, you love to have sex, you’re very affectionate with me and you’re smart” I remember feeling hurt. Nothing about my heart, my creativity, ok the smart part was nice. And normally I would like that he said affectionate, but he wasn’t nearly as affectionate with me and I just thought it didn’t matter to him, so for him to point it out showed me he loved it but didn’t give it back. And the use of “sexy” instead … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 01:48 AM |
| 10 | Combat the hopelessness feeling?I’m feeling the exact same way and have actually been wanting to post something but for some reason was hesitant. I’m glad you did. I don’t have an answer since I’m feeling the same way about society, the patriarchy and how it is for women. I’m also dealing with strange feelings regarding a recent break up, and the combo leaves me feeling hopeless. I don’t have an answer, but you should know you’re not alone. Even seeing your post and knowing I’m not feeling my feelings alone made me feel a litt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 01:31 AM |
| 15 | Billie Elish bf is 10 years older than her.Very very disgusting. She’s 19. It’s not like she’s 40 and he’s 50. 🤮 he also said this: ”When I see a pretty girl walking down the street I think two things, one part of me wants to take her out, and talk to her and be real nice, and treat her right. The other part of me wants to know what her head would look like on a stick.” WTF this was a resurfaced Facebook post they found. He can claim all he wants that the use of derogatory phrases both racist and homophobic were just “figures of speech” … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 03:35 PM |
| 2 | I Like How She Handled This 😂Haha love how she handled it, serves him right! I’ve never had one sadly :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 05:48 AM |
| 23 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 14 - Dr. Gail Dines & the Queens Rage Against the Porn MachineYes yes yes yes cannot wait to listen to this! This is genuinely so relevant in my life right now as I’ve been having so many anti porn convos and feel so strongly about it. Thank you for all of your work, ladies! It’s life changing, and I hope bit by bit women will come together to change society for the better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:55 PM |
| 16 | UPDATE: I got a job! (From: "I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit")Wow, this truly made me happy! So proud of you, sis! This takes a lot of courage and strength to change your lifestyle so much, and you’re a queen for having that strength! Well done and keep killing it!!! It’s only the start, even if it’s not your dream job, everything happens for a reason and is putting you on the path that best serves you, keep following your intuition! Best of luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 02:30 AM |
| 14 | 🚩 RED FLAGS 🚩 Career edition 🤭😳 (psychopath edition 🥲🧛♂️)Chef? That one caught me off guard! I’m surprised! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 04:21 AM |
| 14 | Yes, all women. But, of course, NoT aLl MeN. Stay safe out there, sisters.:( very accurate, sadly. I feel for us womankind. Stay safe out there, sisters. I have to admit, it’s been hard not to hate men lately. I really don’t want to and I didn’t start out this way, but it’s their lack of empathy, their behavior, lack of ethics, civility, double standards, hypocrisy, cruelty, selfish behavior…it gets to you. I could go on but I’ll stop! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 03:22 AM |
| 64 | Can we please all do this to men who harass us 😂Hahahaha! Yesterday while going for an afternoon walk a group of four men kept trying to talk to me and wouldn’t take no for an answer as I kept trying to walk away…I think I should’ve done this instead of my “no thank you I don’t want to talk”s 😂 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 02:23 AM |
| 4 | If you're still using dating apps, you're a pickmeOverall I definitely agree! It’s exhausting. It also makes it harder to meet people these days. I’m wondering if it’s a country-by-country thing because my close friend met her wonderful partner that is from a small aristocratic family, owns a chateau, is a political commentator, and wrote a book, and absolutely adores her...on tinder in France! Tinder!!!! When she told me, I was shocked! She doesn’t tell most people in the US how they met. She is French but had lived in the US for a while. In m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 07:38 PM |
| 2 | She really needs our helpOmg no joke I saw this post earlier today and thought of suggesting she start exploring this world (FDS and similar) and later I came on to here and I saw that same post! Wild! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 03:42 PM |
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