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| 81 | [FR] From platonic "date" to F-Close. Guys, take a girl dancing. | Field Report | mypuaaccount1984 | /r/seduction | 09/01/13 06:08 AM |
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| 2 | Eye Contact with StrangersIt doesn't matter. Open any girl who makes eye contact with you who you're attracted to. I don't do it (certainly not at the gym) but that should be your goal. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Guys who have plateaued at the kiss: How to react to "we aren't having sex""Oh I'm kicking you out in ten minutes, I have an early meeting". | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 05:20 AM |
| 3 | What Are Your Most Outlandish Places to Have Sex?Bloomingdales change room. Middle of the road (dared a girl she wouldn't have the guts to go down on me in the middle of the street). Friend's front stoop. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 05:09 AM |
| 25 | What do you do when she asks, "Do you do this often?"Never apologize for your intentions. "Yes... with women I find incredibly gorgeous. I can't help myself". | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 05:06 AM |
| 5 | [FR] #-close, 2 dates w/ K-closes plus a questionYou overdid it with the persistence in the end there. First text with no response, don't call and leave voicemail. She has the text. When she cancels, just say "no problem" and leave it at that. Don't try to set up another date immediately, shows you're more invested than she is. Comes off needy, turn off. Ideally if she cancels she should reschedule, but obviously that doesn't always happen. Same thing applies to your other interactions. If you ask if she wants to do something and she doesn't r… | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 11:18 PM |
| 1 | It finally clicked for me why complimenting a woman for her beauty isn't very effective.I use it exclusively in the day, not at night. | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 05:35 PM |
| 1 | It finally clicked for me why complimenting a woman for her beauty isn't very effective.It works great if you carry it off with confidence. As mentioned, the words themselves are irrelevant. But the message of stating your intentions immediately is attractive and refreshing, in my opinion. It's also better for you, as you waste less time with indirect approaches, calibrating, building attraction etc. and spending 20 minutes in a set that is going nowhere. If she's not interested you'll know in 30 seconds. | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 04:27 AM |
| 3 | It finally clicked for me why complimenting a woman for her beauty isn't very effective.Lol. Most of pick up game is cringe worthy. But what works works. I've said shit that is literally so over the top and terribly douchey, that I almost hate myself for saying it, but it works. After using that opener for several weeks I listened to a podcast from Love Systems (the dudes who published Magic Bullets) on direct game, and one of them said that was his go-to line almost word for word. I find saying that far less "chodey" than indirect openers about fake ex-girlfriends that are trying … | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 04:25 AM |
| 7 | How do i grow Balls?Two things: You are not your mind. This is from the first chapter of "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle. Disclaimer: the only chapter I've read, no patience for spiritual shit. But, the reality is your mind isn't you. You are a being, and your mind is something separate from you as a being. Most people think they are their mind. So, start thinking of your brain as not you, and things your brain says as just stupid shit that can be ignored. Your brain has a defence mechanism to avoid things like… | /r/seduction | 20/01/13 11:31 PM |
| 12 | It finally clicked for me why complimenting a woman for her beauty isn't very effective.I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with complimenting a girl. Anything you read on direct game will support this. What's important is the intention behind the compliment. Don't say it with the expectation that it will get you a reaction. And make sure you qualify her for something other than her looks after the compliment, learn more about her and verify she's a person you'd like to know. Making your intentions known immediately is very good at generating attraction quickly, because… | /r/seduction | 20/01/13 11:16 PM |
| 15 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Chick on OkC after a couple messages exchanged says "do you have fb? We should talk more." And gives me her name to find her on it. I feel friending girls on fb doesn't really help me, removes all the mystery. Any way to respond to turn that into something better? Seems a date might be premature as we've exchanged 2 messages only. | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 09:22 PM |
| 0 | Getting pumped up to go out and approachhttps://soundcloud.com/netroid/03-pmw-all-i-really-need-feat | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 04:53 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else get really depressed by /r/seduction?Initially, yes, when reading really successful field reports I got depressed and thought "I could never do that". It was so far removed from where I was that it seemed inconceivable. However, since then I've went out with a number of guys from seddit. I've seen them in action, they are of a very diverse skill levels. Some are great, some are just starting out. However, they are all trying. And most of them are normal dudes. There's absolutely nothing special or unique about them that's different… | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 06:36 AM |
| 1 | I am a professional dating coach for The Art of Charm, AMA!Thanks for the AMA. Anything in SF? I'd be interested in doing a program, but find the $3K price tag most seem to carry excessive. Could also come to LA if you guys can hook up a deal! | /r/seduction | 16/01/13 09:02 AM |
| 1 | We Both like each other and were going to be at the same party this weekend but....You sound young. Same as any other young people party. Drink, talk, drink, flirt, tease, touch, drink, grab her hand, "let's go for a walk", fuck. | /r/seduction | 16/01/13 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Do looks REALLY matter?I'm in my late 20s. When I was your age I was insecure about my looks (to let you in on a secret, all teenagers are). My father used to tell me "when you're older you're going to look back at photos of yourself at this age and not believe how handsome you were". It never sunk in unfortunately, and he was right. I just saw a picture of myself at 19 and I looked amazing. And I spent all those years thinking I was ugly. I'm still handsome, but fuck I miss that head of hair. Trust me, don't make tha… | /r/seduction | 16/01/13 08:20 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/14/13 (please upvote - zero karma)My sis is 23. I'm 28. She wings me all the time. Works great. However sometimes she tries too hard, which makes you look lame and like you can't pick up on your own, so make sure she keeps it light. | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 04:50 AM |
| 1 | women are too intimidate to dance with me coz I'm really goodHaha not trying to be a dick, but talent is very sexy to women, in virtually anything. Something else is off in your interaction. | /r/seduction | 13/01/13 05:09 PM |
| 2 | women are too intimidate to dance with me coz I'm really goodI don't think that's the problem. | /r/seduction | 13/01/13 04:58 PM |
| 5 | I've been reading seddit for 1+ yr. I'm a girl. Some InsightsSo get it started, Glitter Cunt! | /r/seduction | 13/01/13 04:34 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)You have stuff around to talk about. Other people on the bus. Establishments you pass outside. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Last night was the most progress I've made in my life. I need advice on closing!Probably better to escalate on the couch rather than trying to get her to move to the bedroom before anything has happened. Should have joined her on the couch before she fell asleep. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Once the opener has happened, i am having a hard time transitioning into the conversation. its the next thing i say i find i am bad at.Tell me about yourself. Edit: Since you don't actually go direct, don't use this. Was predicated on you opening direct. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 07:14 PM |
| 28 | I've been reading seddit for 1+ yr. I'm a girl. Some InsightsI know, and it's particularly ridiculous to see it happening on this subreddit. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Some steps forward, a major step back?There are some suicide/depression subreddits you should reach out to in this circumstance. Happy to talk to you if you need it bud, though I'd look for someone more experienced. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 04:36 PM |
| 115 | I've been reading seddit for 1+ yr. I'm a girl. Some InsightsI don't really get why people think this is a solid post. It's a cliff notes for a bunch of shit that's been posted here numerous times, from someone with zero field experience who has never had to apply any of it. Ultimate armchair quarterback post, and doesn't contain a single new insight. I could write an amazing post today with my interpretations and theories on pick up that have come from reading this subreddit, but I don't because I haven't gained enough field experience to add any unique … | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 04:26 PM |
| 2 | A girl I'm talking to is really into forensics, and wants to major in forensics in college. I want to be able to have genuine conversations with her about her passion, so what are some things I should know and some conversational ideas?Nothing wrong with learning about the subject for a girl. That's a big part of "How to Win Friends and Influence People". Go read some articles, it'll make for good conversation. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 04:10 PM |
| 82 | I've been reading seddit for 1+ yr. I'm a girl. Some InsightsOneitis doesn't refer to liking one girl more than another, it refers to thinking that one girl is the only girl in the world for you. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 03:58 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I am sorry. NOT!Haha "wash it down". You've got a brass pair of old balls sir. Kudos. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 12:36 AM |
| 1 | [FR] From platonic "date" to F-Close. Guys, take a girl dancing.Lol. My man. I love R&B. I put on my "Late Night Tings" playlist. Marques Houston ("Naked", "How I Do"). Drake ("A Night Off", "Bria's Interlude", "Shut It Down"). The-Dream ("Kill The Lights", "Luv Songs"), The Weeknd before he started singing about gang-banging drugged out chicks ("What You Need", "The Party and the After Party"). | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 04:50 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome AA if I AM a selfish douchebag?I don't see how that's relevant to AA. You don't have to like women to overcome nervousness to approach them. | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 05:52 AM |
| 2 | [FR] From platonic "date" to F-Close. Guys, take a girl dancing.Girl friend. Platonic friend who is a girl. | /r/seduction | 09/01/13 06:59 PM |
| 6 | [FR] From platonic "date" to F-Close. Guys, take a girl dancing.Lol nah, been down that road before, not worth the anxiety. Never again. | /r/seduction | 09/01/13 04:30 PM |
| 2 | [FR] From platonic "date" to F-Close. Guys, take a girl dancing.Fair, updated. | /r/seduction | 09/01/13 03:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] From platonic "date" to F-Close. Guys, take a girl dancing.Haha I assure you I'm not exaggerating on an anonymous internet forum. Back home I made friends with a number of club owners through business , so was exposed to models and dancers. Nothing more than #-closes and dates unfortunately, though the ex did some modelling. | /r/seduction | 09/01/13 08:22 AM |
| 1 | most English-speakers are still on that same playground, calling boys smelly and girls icky, while sneaking behind a tree to kiss each other.Lol fair enough, then isn't he proof that you don't have to engage in the "playground" tactics if you don't want to? | /r/seduction | 09/01/13 04:07 AM |
| -2 | most English-speakers are still on that same playground, calling boys smelly and girls icky, while sneaking behind a tree to kiss each other.Has this dude never heard of direct game? | /r/seduction | 05/01/13 07:15 AM |
| 4 | Keep it SimpleCurrently I have bad AA and need alcohol to get over it, my new years resolution is to not drink for a year and to approach 20 girls a week. I was considering the same resolution. Do you still plan to do bar and club pickup, or other venues? I found going to loud drinking environments sober difficult. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 03:54 PM |
| 3 | I have so much AA nowadays it's embarrassing. Out of long-term relationship, trying to get back in the game.I'm in the same boat as you, except my relationship was over 7 years. Lost all my skills. Was never in the community, but developed my own theory of confidence, self-control, and an element of challenge when I was in my late teens. Got a 10, we fell in love, it went to shit and unbeknownst to me so did all my skills. Got some AA and even worse turned into a nice guy. I'm hoping they are lurking under the surface somewhere. If you can still be cocky once you open that's great, opening is the easi… | /r/seduction | 30/12/12 03:42 AM |
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