myrealitie Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
23	Don't forget to be fun!	Red Pill Theory	myrealitie	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/15 01:33 AM
2	Female Sexual Choice Protects Against Extinction	Science	myrealitie	/r/TheRedPill	19/05/15 04:06 PM

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8	Women in their 30s who are unable to get beta bucks commitment require covering up the causes for riding the CC to serve the female imperative. One of the MAIN reasons for feminism. I would like to make a point that I believe you did not consider. I am a woman, but please try to be open minded about what I have to say: Women in their peak don't necessarily want commitment. They want the OPTION of commitment. A young, horny, attractive woman may have, for a short time, a lot of appealing options in the man department. And this plethora of options can lead to promiscuity. Women in this situation get high on the POWER. Greed, mis-judgement, arrogance, ignorance - all of these …	/r/TheRedPill	22/10/15 03:19 PM
2	Female Sexual Choice Protects Against Extinction The premier publication in science, Nature, published an amazing study today based on 10 years of data. Scientists mated beetles in scenarios differing with regard to female sexual choice, and they found that the scenarios with little mate competition and little female choice went extinct. In other words, in beetles at least, "societies" in which women were NOT monogamous and with PLENTY of mate choice yielded more evolutionarily fit individuals. Fascinating food for thought. Enjoy.	/r/TheRedPill	19/05/15 04:09 PM
-1	Women can sense they're getting close to the wall. Being a woman doesn't make me a troll. How often do people on this sub say that they don't care about a woman's career and education? You can't have it both ways. A man should not get married and have kids if he cannot pay his mortgage without his wife working. This may be unpleasant for you to hear, but a woman will not respect or feel safe with a man who cannot do this, and the marriage will not go well. It sounds like the people here already get that, but just don't like hearing it come from …	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/15 01:59 PM
-17	Women can sense they're getting close to the wall. Your wife cut off sex because you couldn't take care of your own family. How can a woman respect a man who NEEDS her to work full-time in order to make basic household bills?	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/15 09:05 PM
8	Strong, silent type vs energetic, out-going type Ahhh I wish you could combine the two types too! I married a strong-silent-type. He took my breathe away when I caught him staring at me in the library at college. I had the 2nd type as a boyfriend in college also. It was a high to be with him at a party, but he was a terrible boyfriend. And my husband is everything the deep smoldering stares would suggest in bed, while this ex boyfriend I speak of was a 1 minute man. I digress. Go with your strength would be my advice, and try to meet girls in …	/r/TheRedPill	26/02/15 09:34 PM
5	Don't forget to be fun! Yes, exactly. In addition to that though, just owing your own right to amusement as well as projecting fun vibes thanks to a happy, healthy mindset also carries a lot of weight. I have some younger male relatives who ask me sometimes for advice about what to text a girl. And it just seems like they are focused a lot on being cocky and not showing that they are too interested that sometimes they forget to inject fun and silliness, which I think is also important.	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/15 03:05 AM
15	Staring into a girl's eyes Validating her is ok!!! Just as long as it is confident and on your terms. People love to be validated. That is basically the secret to getting people to like you and do what you want them to do :) The only thing you want to be careful about is giving her the impression that she has power over you because, to keep with this example, you like looking at her. And that would manifest as you letting her treat you like crap in some capacity (failing shit tests). As long as you don't do that, if you c…	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/15 01:18 AM
3	American Women have No Game I think American women are often terrified of being vulnerable. What I am about to suggest may or may not be appealing to you, but one thing that would probably be very effective is to essentially give a woman permission to be vulnerable, so to speak. Call her out on being hard and imitating masculine qualities. Call her out for not meeting your standards. Again, you may or may not want to do this, but I think it would be effective.	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/15 01:03 AM
13	Staring into a girl's eyes Saying nothing is actually good, because it illustrates that you don't have to explain yourself to her. Another thing you can do is to playfully flick your eyebrows up, if that makes sense. Another thing you can do is just to say, unapologetically, "I like looking at you" like you have every right in the world to do so and you are not ashamed or self conscious about it.	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/15 12:34 AM
11	Women are Children I'm a woman, and I agree that you have to be extremely firm. Not whiny and annoying. I suggest setting very clear limits about what is acceptable and unacceptable, and if she starts to test the boundaries or actually crosses them, take very firm action. Ex: "This is your budget. If you don't like it there's the door. Return the shoes immediately." This is essentially what my husband does with me :) It's very unpleasant to piss him off and very pleasant to keep him happy, so I avoid the former. I…	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/15 12:25 AM
0	What's the deal with sluts? A field report This is not backed up by science. Just look for signs the girl is really into you. Even a girl with a high partner count will appear "innocent" with you if she is sufficiently moved, because she'll feel shy and nervous.	/r/TheRedPill	21/01/15 01:18 AM
0	What's the deal with sluts? A field report She didn't bond to you because... wait for it... you didn't bond! You had sex. Even if their was truth to your hypothesis (and there is no good empirical evidence of this), your story does absolutely zero to support it logically. A more likely hypothesis is that some women have bonding problems (attachment issues maybe) and therefore have a lot of casual sex. It looks like you found one.	/r/TheRedPill	21/01/15 01:10 AM
-7	Just dumped gf of two months. Feel pretty good. I actually think this is wrong. It is a display of low value as a husband to laugh at the possibility of your wife flirting. At this point you should very aggressively mate guard. Not like a whiny wimp. Like the leader of your marriage. If your wife isn't already completely un-attracted to you and you mate guard aggressively, it will be very attractive to her. If your wife already has no respect for you, this approach won't work, but you're already in deep trouble at that point anyway.	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/14 07:59 PM
2	LTR Checklist BPD is Borderline Personality Disorder	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/14 11:45 PM
2	After 3 months of marriage, woman is no longer in shape. Husband admits he's not turned on anymore and begs her to go to the gym. Instead, she drags him to "counseling". I completely agree with you. This guy was not attracted enough to her to have married her. The end. A guy who is attracted to a woman's general body type, face, and physical appearance is not going to be unexcited by her when she is 115 lbs!	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/14 01:01 AM
2	Think your girl won't upgrade if she has the chance? Wife of a college football player who had a workout with the San Diego Chargers was having an affair with NFL RB DeMarco Murray. Agree totally. This guy is a doofus. And, just to be clear, the 2 kids are NOT HIS KIDS. They are from one or more previous relationships. This guy was extremely beta. She married him in the first place (consciously or subconsciously) to get to other men in his social circle. She was probably never attracted to him. A regular guy who was less of a doofus would have a much easier time keeping a girl interested. And only a doofus like this guy would pick a girl like this in the first place.	/r/TheRedPill	08/12/14 06:47 PM
2	What are relationships for fundamentally? They aren't "for" any one harmonious function, unless you believe in intelligent design. Our inclinations and drives do not typically support each other. In other words, some of our drives (such as to have a relationship) work against other drives that we have (such as to have sex with many appealing partners). This is important to keep in mind, because the fact of the matter is there is no perfect or right way to live a life, to use our drives "for" their "proper" purpose and thereby achieve ha…	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/14 02:24 AM
12	PubMed: Women Carry DNA of Casual Sex Partners for Life I think the next important question is: What is the impact of male microchimerism? In other words: what does it mean for the woman? What does it mean for any subsequent children that the woman has? Until that question is answered, I don't think this observation can be used to make societal prescriptions.	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/14 02:04 AM
3	Successful Men in LTRs: how did you meet your SO and keep her loyal? No, that is not the problem. A woman's sexual history has nothing to do with her "longing for an alpha." All women long for that, no matter what. Even a virgin bride will lose interest and possibly cheat on man with no backbone (i.e. beta) iif believes she can trade up. since many women are overly optimistic about their belief that they can successfully trade up, there is a lot of cheating. However, it's a huge risk for a woman to try to trade up, so if you can keep above some threshold of attra…	/r/TheRedPill	05/12/14 03:59 PM
7	Be real. I think what you wrote was insightful. I know it's an especially hard challenge to learn to be self-sufficient when you did not receive basic support and love growing up. But I agree that you must make this a goal. By the way, this is actually also true for women. I think we all have to learn to calm our anxieties and count on ourselves. This is a very noble goal. I also think it was very insightful of you to mention having a period of narcissism and needing to be "the best thing around" as esse…	/r/TheRedPill	03/12/14 09:16 PM
1	Everyone should download and read all of LaidNYC's blog posts. Link inside I agree with this 100%. I pinch myself everyday for being blessed to marry a man on a mission, and everything in this excerpt definitely applies. This is going to make you throw up your in your mouth a little bit, but I think the song "Like a rock" by Bob Seger illustrates the concept really nicely.	/r/TheRedPill	03/12/14 09:06 PM