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| 2 | Friends are cool to me one-on-one, but it seems like when the group is together I’m singled out and picked on more than the others. What’s the issue?Agh. I’m in too deep to change the perception they have of me. Might need to just wait until after I graduate and not make the same mistakes. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/20 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Girl I hit it off with at a bar this weekend hit me up to go out at 2am. Can’t go, but what’s a good way to respond.Well, I didn’t execute and now I’ve been ghosted. Typical. I’ll jump on it next time | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 02:41 AM |
| 6 | Girl I hit it off with at a bar this weekend hit me up to go out at 2am. Can’t go, but what’s a good way to respond.I like this | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Girl I hit it off with at a bar this weekend hit me up to go out at 2am. Can’t go, but what’s a good way to respond.Literally talked for 2 minutes a few days ago, and have briefly texted. Considered this though | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 07:19 AM |
| 2 | Passing shit test where she ghosted me?Okay, I must have worded it in a weird way - but I understand the ghosting itself was not a shit test. I’m merely asking if I get put on the spot from her/her friends at some point in the night at the party (which is a shit test), how should I handle. Sounds good | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Passing shit test where she ghosted me?I like that | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Passing shit test where she ghosted me?The girl who is throwing the party said “The hot girl who ghosted you two years ago wants to see you tomorrow night” I’m pretty sure it will come up, and she remembers. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 07:28 AM |
| -1 | Passing shit test where she ghosted me?... try reading, comprehending, and thinking if you’re gonna answer | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Passing shit test where she ghosted me?Read it again. She ghosted me 2 years ago, and I finally heard from a friend that she’s excited to see me at this party. If she or her friends bring it up, how do I brush it off | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 07:22 AM |
| 6 | Passing shit test where she ghosted me?Friend is hosting a private party, with a guest list. She knows both of us. She told me about how this girl has “new interest,” and I would bet she’s already told the ghoster that I’m aware now. Definitely gonna try to hit on other girls there for sure, but just curious how to handle the shit test | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 07:05 AM |
| 1 | I feel so lost*Jobs lined up after graduation | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Is it worth trying to set up another day to meet up? Or should i just next her?Hit her up for a one-on-one, and go for it. Be alpha and take what you want. If she “forgets” that, forget her. You should have a few other options lined up anyways. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 03:38 AM |
| 13 | Sustaining sexual favours with platesThis is where dread game should start kicking in. She knows she doesn’t need to do any of that to keep you. Start showing her you can get other options and she needs to work “harder” to keep you. Also, keep the abundance high. It’s clear you have oneitis for this girl so it makes sense that she’s settling with less than you want. If you had a few other solid options, this wouldn’t be an issue. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 03:36 AM |
| 4 | In terms of looks, do women give you more IOI's when you're in clothes, or when you're shirtless?I can see what you’re referring to, but there’s two things to consider. First, you better have a fucking great body. Showing off something less than stellar is not ideal. Second, you don’t want to make it seem like you’re taking your shirt off for that reason. It should be a prize for the girl to rip your shirt off, so if you take it off every time you see her she may see it as needy or compensating. Use correct judgement. If you put in the work and have a great body, you’ll look good whether yo… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Help to get and stay hard with a girlYeah definitely. I think it’s gotten a bit worse though since a good week still wasn’t enough | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Help to get and stay hard with a girlThat’s honestly what I think it is too. Ever since the first time about a week ago I’ve been completely off but there’s definitely something with the focus. How long does it take to reset? | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Help to get and stay hard with a girlWill do so from now on. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Help to get and stay hard with a girlFair, but either I’m super in my head and sober or a little relaxed and buzzed | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 05:57 AM |
| 4 | Help to get and stay hard with a girlI know it’s in my head, and it’s hard to get out once I notice. Last night we got drunk and i tried and it was the best chance we had but still I got soft. It’s so weird man, even when I do get hard I lose it so quickly | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Update on girl, turns out she changed her mind and wants me... not sure how to handle.Well the girl and her friends who know him personally said he’s a pussy and the girl rejected him. I’ve met him once and he’s a beta. Regardless I found a new bitch and I’ve stopped talking with the other one altogether. Too much pressure and work, wasn’t fun for me anymore. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Update on girl, turns out she changed her mind and wants me... not sure how to handle.At least the critical comments say I’ll learn a lesson on the other side, which I can respect. I get what you mean, and she’s never reached out to me again (as the best friend promised) so forget that. I’ll game some bitches at the bar I’m headed to. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Update on girl, turns out she changed her mind and wants me... not sure how to handle.Haha thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Update on girl, turns out she changed her mind and wants me... not sure how to handle.Will definitely consider. Won’t invest anything more than that. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Update on girl, turns out she changed her mind and wants me... not sure how to handle.I was extremely weary of the friend for this exact reason. Definitely was a red flag and kinda made me post. I feel it | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Update on girl, turns out she changed her mind and wants me... not sure how to handle.I appreciate it man. I like this | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 05:58 PM |
| 0 | Update on girl, turns out she changed her mind and wants me... not sure how to handle.I guess you’re right. Also not opposed to learning a tough lesson | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Update on girl, turns out she changed her mind and wants me... not sure how to handle.I know for a fact they didn’t fuck, but to be honest this sounds extremely true. I appreciate it | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 05:55 PM |
| -1 | Update on girl, turns out she changed her mind and wants me... not sure how to handle.I know for a fact this isn’t the case. How do I function then? | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 05:54 PM |
| 0 | Update on girl, turns out she changed her mind and wants me... not sure how to handle.I have confirmed evidence that this is exactly the case. Her best friend (who is also my best friend’s sister) clarified they have not fucked and she ended it with him because he’s a bitch. Obviously I understand all this shit and that’s why I’m asking. I don’t have to assume, I know it’s the off chance. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 05:53 PM |
| 2 | BJ with condom onIt’ll find it’s way down there somehow | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Update on girl, turns out she changed her mind and wants me... not sure how to handle.I completely understand what you mean, and that’s kind of why I’m posing the question. The guy in question was friend zoned for a while and then finally made a move once he realized she was going out with me. She’s a nice girl and wanted to give him a chance, but immediately realized he was not worth it at all and broke it off (as in within two days). Now the reason this is a thing is because her friend came to me and told me the whole story (the guy in question is in their friend group). The fr… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 07:27 AM |
| 0 | Update on girl, turns out she changed her mind and wants me... not sure how to handle.This also was a point of interest for me. Obvious red flag but I don’t think enough for me to next her | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 07:27 AM |
| 13 | Update on girl, turns out she changed her mind and wants me... not sure how to handle.Fair point. Definitely not even considering LTR | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 07:26 AM |
| 2 | BJ with condom onIf you make sure she swallows then you have no issue | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Girl told me she’s chosen to be exclusive with the other dude - what does this mean/what should I do?Obviously I know it’s me, at least that’s not my issue. Now that I’m here is it time for monk mode for a few months, or do I just focus on getting more under my belt? | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Girl told me she’s chosen to be exclusive with the other dude - what does this mean/what should I do?Absolutely makes sense. Need more lifting and abundance. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 05:56 AM |
| 3 | Can face muscles be trained to grow a bit?Look up tongue posture videos on YouTube. Basically, you sit up straight, have good back/neck posture, align your top teeth and bottom teeth as best you can (to adjust for overbite/underbite) Then push your mandible up so that your tongue pushes against the base of your top teeth/roof. You can pulse it, no need to hold it as hard as you can. It’s extremely hard to explain, but the videos do a decent job. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 06:47 PM |
| 1 | When should I expect meaningful results in the gym?Are you trying to be an arrogant ass? Obviously anyone who works out is “trying” to gain weight. You’re not breaking any ground there. And actually, you aren’t reading because this all goes back to my point of having a routine, sticking to it, and having realistic goals. And look, turns out you have a routine a lot more complicated than you mentioned before. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 04:35 PM |
| 1 | When should I expect meaningful results in the gym?What are your sets/reps? How often do you lift? If you’re improving that much every time then you’re still in the baby gains stage, go up more and find where you should be. Your logic implies that I should improve 250lbs every year. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 03:31 PM |
| 1 | When should I expect meaningful results in the gym?You’re cute. Obviously I can’t lift 5lbs more every workout. Relax a little | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 03:27 PM |
| 1 | When should I expect meaningful results in the gym?See but then it gets weird when you stop going up. You really expect to lift more weight every time? That’s naive. That’s why you stick to a plan. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 02:17 PM |
| 1 | When should I expect meaningful results in the gym?Nice. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 02:16 PM |
| 1 | When should I expect meaningful results in the gym?How do you track your progress or know its time to improve your weight? | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 04:24 AM |
| 1 | When should I expect meaningful results in the gym?Super fast, and I don’t really have an appetite. Definitely my diet is holding me back. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 03:33 AM |
| 1 | When should I expect meaningful results in the gym?This is what I was looking for... thanks a ton man. You mean 1-rep max or doing sets? I think I could hit these pretty soon, the 215 is gonna take some calories haha | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 02:43 AM |
| 1 | When should I expect meaningful results in the gym?My problem is accurately forecasting. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 02:33 AM |
| 1 | When should I expect meaningful results in the gym?This is where I lose focus. I love hard numbers and making the future and goals as numerical as possible. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 02:29 AM |
| 1 | When should I expect meaningful results in the gym?A whole year I’d definitely expect some solid results. You have any idea where I’d be at that time if I’m consistent? | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Do your plates play “games” with youAddressing shit tests is also on the sidebar. Agree & amplify, amused mastery, or straight up ignoring are your best bets. Read up. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 01:53 AM |
| 2 | New to trp and don’t know what to think right now. Do women really spend their 20-30s fucking as many dudes as possible?Hahaha good luck kid | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 07:20 AM |
| 1 | New to trp and don’t know what to think right now. Do women really spend their 20-30s fucking as many dudes as possible?Glad you’re satisfied. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 07:14 AM |
| 2 | I want to end thisDeadlift should be more than squat. Throw more weight on | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 07:14 AM |
| 1 | I've got a feeling my dick is different then others.By the time she whips it out, it’s over anyway. Stop thinking about dicks. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 07:12 AM |
| 3 | Is social media useless if you aren’t incredibly good looking?Unless you’re attractive and popular enough to get verified, it’s not worth it. Go game women in person. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 07:09 AM |
| 2 | New to trp and don’t know what to think right now. Do women really spend their 20-30s fucking as many dudes as possible?But you’re not. Do some soul searching kid. You just said you felt trapped on the sidelines. Stop justifying yourself, I don’t care. If you were attractive you’d be banging women rn, so obviously there’s something worth improving. Just stop worrying about it, lift until you’re big, and try again when you start getting attention. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 07:07 AM |
| 1 | What to do after I had a meltdown in front of the girl I like ?Dude I’m not even gonna read all that mess. Move the fuck on and do not break frame again if she reaches out. Don’t be stupid dude | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 07:04 AM |
| 1 | New to trp and don’t know what to think right now. Do women really spend their 20-30s fucking as many dudes as possible?Your life | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 07:02 AM |
| 1 | I have a major problemStop the trigger, which is instagram. When you’re bored you go in insta, and when you go on insta you jerk. Stop being a bitch, delete Instagram, and stop being bored. Go make something of your life or at least put on some muscle. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 07:02 AM |
| 3 | New to trp and don’t know what to think right now. Do women really spend their 20-30s fucking as many dudes as possible?Wouldn’t it be nice to take some control for once? | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 06:59 AM |
| 1 | New to trp and don’t know what to think right now. Do women really spend their 20-30s fucking as many dudes as possible?Like you said, women hook up with alphas. If you have to ask yourself if you are one, you’re not. Again, read about this shit yourself but essentially you lift, eat, and build yourself into a more attractive person, then go get it. Most people aren’t good and improving both inner and outer game at the same time, so make it easy | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 06:58 AM |
| 1 | [24 years old] What should I do before I move to NYC?Read some PUA literature or some suggested social interaction readings on the side bar. Giving a slight blueprint to your socializing builds confidence, and soon you’ll pick it up and feel a lot more comfortable. Sounds like everything else is taken care of. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 06:56 AM |
| 1 | New to trp and don’t know what to think right now. Do women really spend their 20-30s fucking as many dudes as possible?Go a little deeper into the theory. It’s shockingly true | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 06:53 AM |
| 1 | New to trp and don’t know what to think right now. Do women really spend their 20-30s fucking as many dudes as possible?If you don’t know what monk mode is, you desperately need to take a deep dive into the side bar. It’s when you take time off worrying about the broads and just hone your craft for a while. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 06:52 AM |
| 2 | What's the deal with Los Angeles women?On the scale comparing how much the women value cars/money/status (1 being low and 10 being high-end), she exceeds the scale to 11 (even more extremely ruthless) | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 08:19 PM |
| 1 | I’m sick of not getting any respect, and I have no idea what to do about itI like that. What would be an example of something worthwhile and not like a party trick talent | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 08:10 AM |
| 1 | I’m sick of not getting any respect, and I have no idea what to do about itShould be man but fuck I need to catch a break | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 08:07 AM |
| 1 | I’m sick of not getting any respect, and I have no idea what to do about itCan’t go wrong | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 07:43 AM |
| 1 | I’m sick of not getting any respect, and I have no idea what to do about itIt’s more the time | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 07:43 AM |
| 5 | I’m sick of not getting any respect, and I have no idea what to do about itThat’s my fault. 6 | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 07:42 AM |
| 3 | I’m sick of not getting any respect, and I have no idea what to do about itIf I was good looking enough I wouldn’t be here. I think I’m decent but honestly I’m rethinking everything man | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Had a great time at a party. How do I not fuck it up after?Well I already had all their numbers, but I get what you mean. There were some girls I had a history with that seemed to try to spark things up again - that's what I mean. I like that text though. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/18 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Thinking of entering into Security / Law enforcementSpoken like a true Hodge Twin | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 05:52 AM |
| 5 | How to handle a ghost over textFair enough. I have to stop fucking texting and start doing shit in person. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 04:42 AM |
| 1 | At a crossroads right now for my college decision.College is about a lot more than those two things too. Look at what you want to study and what kind of money you'd be making after college when you go into those fields. Spending money this young is going to be a hit no matter what. Don't be stupid with your decisions - but that being said - if there's ever a time to take a chance, it's right now. Sounds like you hate the second option. If University A would give a decent paying job where you could pay off your loans in a few years, then I'd say… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Girls just don't respond to meYeah I think you're right. I'm 6'1" 170 white and I workout, but honestly if it was high enough I wouldn't have this problem. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/18 07:34 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread January 17I go to a pretty good university with a ton of tall good looking dudes. I'm already kind of on the shy side with people I don't know, and I can't really use my height, athletics, intelligence, or attractiveness to stick out from the crowd anymore. It's so hard to distinguish myself from the crowd in this new environment. I'm 6'2" 175lb, but I'm probably average to lower average body size compared to everyone here. I've been lifting, getting high grades, and setting myself up for a good internshi… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/18 05:31 AM |
| 26 | How to go from incel to chadRead the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 05:05 PM |
| 2 | November 17 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadHey man thanks, I've noticed people reaching out to me a little more than usual. I bet my demeanor is changing, and people are noticing. I'm motivated to keep going, can't wait to get to where I wanna be. Thanks again man | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/17 10:37 PM |
| 7 | November 17 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadNot gonna lie, been a beta bitch for a while now. Ever since I left for college and my long time girlfriend lost interest, my confidence has sucked. Today I finally cold approached a girl and just talked to her. Very proud that I got over that overarching initial flood of anxiety. Maybe next time I'll get her number. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/17 05:58 AM |
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