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Dude, you have no control over her.... the only person in this world you control is YOU. Quit operating in her frame. Reward good, ignore bad.
/r/askMRP24/11/17 05:39 PM
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5 years ago and your still a crying, obsessed pussy about it? WTF? There is nothing Red Pill about that. You haven’t even begun your journey; asking her about it this many years later is the definition of butthurt.
/r/askMRP01/11/17 05:12 PM
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When the wife calls me an asshole, I know I’m on the right path. She gets pissed because she doesn’t have the control she once had; every time she gets to that point of calling me an asshole in anger, she relents shortly after, entering my frame. My old self was so butt hurt when she would call me names. My new self recognizes it as confirmation I’m on the right path.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/17 11:49 AM
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This OP, you should have ignored your wife, put your kids in the car and carried on with your day. You need to live you life life like she isn't there. You want there to be consequences for her bad behavior? Time and attention is the only currency you have with her. Putting your kids in the middle of your temper tantrum is bullshit.
/r/askMRP16/09/17 10:03 PM
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THIS OP! Comfort test, mine did it this past weekend and after letting her storm rage for a bit it was a really simple big giant hug, kiss on the forehead, soft spoken "everything is great, life is good" and then continued to hold her...... she melted into me; could have led to sex but I had other shit to do..... 10 minutes later she approached to thank me for talking and be who I am. Even though she said the same shit you posted above... let the storm roll, be a rock and give her some comfort.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/17 11:01 AM
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We have family meeting on Sunday evenings to lay out the schedule for the week of who is where when. Keeps everyone aware of what we are doing so no confusion or misunderstandings.
/r/askMRP22/07/17 12:28 AM
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You are the one with the issue.... you were actively thinking about this the entire day. If you're OYS, it wouldn't have been on your mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/17 12:48 AM
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Yes you should have.... now we all get to see the train wreck that is your life.
/r/askMRP23/06/17 03:46 AM
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1 you pointed out she called instead of FaceTime 2 you stated she "looked" buzzed.... How did she look buzzed if she called you?!?
/r/askMRP22/06/17 03:46 AM
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BODY - down to 192lbs; feeling better, pants and shorts are getting loose around the waist. Haven't started lifting again, FAIL. This past weekend had an encounter with the wife that made me slow my roll, evaluate how I was projecting and probably on the Rambo side. She lost her shit about how much I don't care, how withdrawn I have become, how unemotional I am and not showing any empathy towards her. She went down the path of pointing out all the (beta) stuff I used to do that showed her that I…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 01:16 AM
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Not lifting, maintaining weigh and eating less; cutting more and more of the crap food from my diet. Life is crazy busy, must figure out how to adjust for the gym and weights. This week had confirmation from the wife that I'm on the right track and at the same time show me how far I still have to fucking go. Saturday she starts shit testing about how I have been withdrawn and not showing here attention. I mostly STFU with some AM (that comes across as condescending; need to work on my dry sense …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/17 03:26 AM
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No beating myself up on this one; it was one of the first times I can recall since being married that I had the opportunity to bang another woman. The feeling of abundance turned to anger that my wife won't fuck me. I still have a long way to go to get out of her frame and live in my own.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/17 12:03 PM
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Yes she is, 3 young kids
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 03:07 AM
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She said that as the elevator opened on her floor, I gave a what I think was an amused grin and said "Sleep good, see you in a few hours." It was very late and our meetings the next morning started early. I will most likely see her again in the fall at another group meeting. We have been exchanging a few texts and emails.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 01:48 AM
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Came very close to stepping out on a work trip last month. Think that might have been what triggered this falling into lack of sex pity party relapse. Having a chick that has a higher SMV than my wife tell me she needs help with her zipper in the elevator back to our rooms. Lots of reflections from that situation.....
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 11:03 PM
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Very true.... lately I've fallen into focusing on the lack of anything approaching sexual intimacy in our relationship. That's not the point of my journey, it will be the side effect of a better me.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 10:59 PM
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+1 on Blackmill and the downbeat EDM sets like it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 10:57 PM
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BODY - down 11 lbs since January, eating less and avoiding stupid food (anything with sugar) - running regularly, getting faster now that weight is coming off - FUCKING NEED TO START LIFTING; have been a pussy about committing the time. We have had sex 6 times this year. I'm struggling to not resent her; every day I'm internalizing more that it's me, I'm the weak pussy she doesn't want to fuck or show any affection to. I have been pulling away, working to live my own life as if she is not presen…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 01:24 PM
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She is used to years of you being her servant. You have moved her cheese and she doesn't like it and is throwing the teenage temper tantrum. Hold your frame; the second you start DEERing and engaging her on this, you lose. You have a long way to go to demonstrate to her things have changed. She is doing everything she can to keep her servant serving her. Who can blame her? I want a servant!
/r/askMRP25/04/17 03:55 PM
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This post is all about her; you're still in her frame.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 01:02 AM
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Another book added to the reading list!
/r/askMRP12/04/17 03:01 AM
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She is not yours; it's just your turn.
/r/askMRP23/03/17 10:59 AM
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Making sure her pussy is only getting filled by Chad?
/r/askMRP07/03/17 11:02 AM
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Dread level 1, reading all that I can, books, blogs, etc. Passing shit tests like never before, fogging works wonders. Need to start adding AA more to bring the "fun" side of me out. Running but haven't been able to find the motivation to start a lifting program. Having issues fully internalizing RP.... I find my mind creeping often to the covert contracts. "If I start lifting, maybe she will actually become sexual again", etc. I catch myself every time but it is becoming annoying that my mind g…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/17 12:05 PM
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The anger is at myself... for the first time I can see that I have been living in her frame. It's not her fault, it's all me! Owning my shit so I can start cleaning it up!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/16 10:43 PM
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Been lurking in the TRP world for 6+ months. It all made sense reading blogs and posts but had not done any sidebar reading. I started with MMSLP last month, wow did that speak to me but it hadn't really got me internalize RP. Last week I started in on NMMNG and holy fucking shit did my eyes get forced open. The anger that has been flowing through me disturbs me; how the fuck have I been this way my entire life and I didn't see it. I am pissed that I have let my life get to where I'm at. So toda…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/16 02:23 PM
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