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I don't think I understand what you are trying to say here.
/r/seduction25/02/11 07:27 PM
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I've always heard that the way you treat men is the same way you treat unattractive women (ie, be friendly, get social proof, etc).
/r/seduction25/02/11 05:17 AM
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I think you did great! If you are seeing token resistance, then that means you have just the right amount of assertiveness. Anything more is too much, anything less is boring. Some girls just go at different paces, even if they are 30. Nice work!
/r/seduction25/02/11 05:15 AM
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heh. bitches.
/r/seduction25/02/11 05:04 AM
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I thought the consensus was not to use smiley faces in txt messages
/r/seduction25/02/11 02:27 AM
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This is classic. She doesn't really like the other guy. The girl is trying to make you jealous and gauge your interest. You are not friendzoned, but you will need to play the game where you show her that you can attract other girls too. After this, you will have another shot with her. If she keeps playing these games at that point, she may not be worth it. EDIT: Just as an example, this is no different than when a girl you're talking to dances with some other guy at a club. The correct action is…
/r/seduction24/02/11 02:07 AM
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I know personal examples of how david is right here
/r/seduction23/02/11 05:31 AM
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I agree. I know personal examples of this. And they aren't super-wealthy either. In most cases, they just have an abundance of social proof.
/r/seduction23/02/11 05:27 AM
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David - do you have to approach attraction differently if you are interested in conservative christian types?
/r/seduction23/02/11 05:18 AM
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Thanks, I think this answer makes the most sense
/r/seduction21/02/11 07:26 PM
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good advice, thanks! my only fear is coming off as creepy if im just grinding with them and being silent, but maybe that's what everyone does.
/r/seduction21/02/11 03:30 AM
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The most important line from above: "*you'd be surprised how little people actually care what you are doing.*"
/r/seduction13/02/11 03:26 AM
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Even this situation can be ok. Win over the guys to show social proof. Don't even try to compete for her, act uninterested but still show you are alpha male.
/r/seduction26/10/10 05:39 AM
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Cut off all contact with her for a few weeks Next time you see her, immediately start light kino. From here, start the DiCarlo kino escalation ladder: http://www.vindicarlo.com/DiCarlo%20Escalation%20Ladder%20-%20vindicarlo.com.pdf
/r/seduction26/10/10 05:37 AM
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Go out with the group and win them over. Spend 90% of your time talking to the other guys or girls and make the target wish that she could have had some more one-on-one time with you. She will take the solo date next time.
/r/seduction23/10/10 11:25 PM
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Nah, real conversations don't flow like that.
/r/seduction23/10/10 11:24 PM
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It sounds like you are hanging out with some assholes. Keep trying and you will be surprised with your success.
/r/seduction17/10/10 05:18 AM
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What do you mean by "declaring your romantic intentions?" That could be part of the problem, you are asking them to commit too early.
/r/seduction09/10/10 04:13 AM
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You can find a general approach here: http://www.vindicarlo.com/DiCarlo%20Escalation%20Ladder%20-%20vindicarlo.com.pdf It's kinda situational, but when ever an opportunity arises to initiate light kino you need to take it.
/r/seduction07/10/10 04:27 AM
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It must be fossil! Nothing else will do!
/r/seduction06/10/10 05:17 AM
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Eye contact/smiling is the best way to show your interest. Maybe some light touching too. Keep him on edge by what you say and your attitude.
/r/seduction06/10/10 05:13 AM
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You should probably try to run into this girl in real life to arrange a meetup (like going to study at a coffee shop some weekend). Arranging this over facebook would seem kinda weak, really in person is the way to go since you don't have her phone number, etc. As far as what to talk about, ask her if "She does anything else besides study?" Go from there.
/r/seduction06/10/10 05:10 AM
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Start with your guys friends (high five, pat on back, etc). Then, start with girls you have zero interest in. Build your way up to attractive girls. Kino is an absolute necessity, so get to work.
/r/seduction06/10/10 05:01 AM
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Tell her at the end of the day friday and say that you will give it to her over coffee on saturday. Or, tell her you think you have the disc at your place and that she can come over and get it sometime. Etc
/r/seduction06/10/10 04:57 AM
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Its not that cut and dry. You can resuscitate this it will just take some extra work.
/r/seduction06/10/10 04:55 AM
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ugh, facebook convo doesnt sound good. Your responses came off kinda needy (eg, don't ask her to "let you know," tell her that if you have time to hang out later you will "let her know"). If you would have met her tonight, I would suggest kino from the moment you see her (or a soon as possible). Then, any escalation will seem natural rather than calculated.
/r/seduction06/10/10 04:54 AM
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Really its about making yourself into the best "you" possible. "Being yourself" is important, but you also must make that person into something worth being around (develop your intelligence, humor, charisma, professional life, etc). EDIT: All the stuff above takes time. Something you can do immediately is to improve your outlook, which is also a very attractive quality.
/r/seduction06/10/10 04:51 AM
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It isn't impossible to get out of the friend zone. It is, however, if you focus on that girl in your effort to try to get out of it. You are doing the right thing to hang out with other girls and then your target will have to up the stakes if she wants to keep seeing you.
/r/seduction03/10/10 07:49 PM
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Initiate and escalate kino: http://www.vindicarlo.com/DiCarlo%20Escalation%20Ladder%20-%20vindicarlo.com.pdf
/r/seduction02/10/10 06:22 AM
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Downvote? Don't get it.
/r/seduction02/10/10 06:11 AM
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I fuggin hate ed hardy types. just throwin that out there.
/r/seduction27/09/10 04:04 AM
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Have her pick you up and invite her in just to get her comfortable with being in your place. Or say you forgot something and have her take you back to your place. Or find any other random excuse with the intention of getting her into your place so that she feels safe there later on. When you are ready to seduce this girl, don't have that be the first time she is at your flat--that makes it a much bigger challenge.
/r/seduction27/09/10 03:35 AM
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Busy girl: this could still work out. If I were you I wouldn't go into the stuff that happened four years ago that early in the relationship (if at all). It looks like emotional baggage and really you should have moved on. If you feel its important to bring it up, do it after six months or something. Regardless, if this relationship doesn't work out, I don't think its because you talked about this incident four years ago. I feel like you are missing something in the seduction model because it se…
/r/seduction27/09/10 03:24 AM
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I would not ask. Chances are what they say aren't true and they may even be counter productive (ie "just be yourself," or "its not you, its me," etc--these are all bad).
/r/seduction27/09/10 03:14 AM
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I think you should pay. If it was a random girl at the bar it would be different.
/r/seduction26/09/10 11:33 PM
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This sounds a little extreme. Don't forget: the opposite of an IOI is an indicator of disinterest. I am trying to see if this girl is disinterested. If she overtly despised me, I think I would quickly be able to tell. PS: welcome to reddit
/r/seduction26/09/10 11:27 PM
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Why don't pay? Maybe she will get the impression that you just want to be friends if you split the check.
/r/seduction24/09/10 06:16 PM
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It may have got the guy to back off, but I think it looks insecure to whoever else was around. I think its good to treat these guys like a social gadfly--just laugh them off and ignore them. By reacting to them, you are showing that they are worth reacting to. Especially if there are girls around, reacting to some loser will reveal how much you want the girls to like you. The image that you should be sending the girls is that (1) you are not concerned with what they think about you and (2) that …
/r/seduction21/09/10 05:34 AM
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This is really awful advice.
/r/seduction21/09/10 05:12 AM
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Some of the stuff you are doing to meet people sound like things where you would see different people each time. It would be better if they were the same people, and that you already held a common interest. You are passionate about a lot of things, you should join some kind of group or project related to those things and meet people involved with that. See what they are doing on the weekends/evenings, meet their friends, do this with a few people, then lets these different groups compete for you…
/r/seduction21/09/10 05:06 AM
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friend with benefits
/r/seduction21/09/10 05:03 AM
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Don't do this. The real man just laughs off these insults, they don't try to get back at them with a cute line like this.
/r/seduction21/09/10 04:57 AM
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He clearly is not the AMOG if he is ragging on the other guys. If he felt secure in his position, he wouldn't feel the need to do this. You need to support your friend. This doesn't need to be an overt thing, just don't laugh when this is happening and change the subject, etc. As long as your friend doesn't get defensive, he doesn't look bad. If he tries to defend himself or attacks the other guy, he will look insecure as well. If you really think this can't be ignored, bring it up sometime when…
/r/seduction21/09/10 04:56 AM
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I don't see how this relates to my situation, but its interesting anyway. I guess I would try to feel out how committed your friend is to this girl. Maybe ask him about her sometime. Any noncommittal response=she's fair game.
/r/seduction21/09/10 04:52 AM
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I dunno though. These are the kind of girls I like so I guess I should get used to it, hah.
/r/seduction20/09/10 08:43 PM
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Haha, the only time I saw her drink was at a club one night (and she was still fairly sober). This was a rare event because she is totally not a club girl. Anyway, as soon as she saw me on the dancefloor, she was like a magnet and started grinding on me. Even better, this was in front of a guy that everyone (including me at the time) assumed was her boyfriend because they are always together (really, he is probably an orbiter). This happened multiple times that night. This is the biggest IOI tha…
/r/seduction20/09/10 08:38 PM
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This is what I think is going on! Is maintaining eye contact a good move on my part or am I making her uncomforable? What should I do to break through to her? Argh
/r/seduction20/09/10 08:24 PM
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Thanks! I grant you the award for the best advice so far.
/r/seduction11/09/10 02:32 AM
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Nobody? See "roxxe's" comment. But, I agree with the second part - I should escalate physically. I don't think kissing will happen tomorrow, but I should be able to get in some kino.
/r/seduction11/09/10 12:30 AM
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But that's the point: you can't just forget about her. He is going to see her all the time. It would create some pretty awful social proof if he ignored her or if things were awkward between them. Even if you do move on to other girls, you have to keep gaming the old ones.
/r/seduction10/09/10 10:33 PM
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You can still salvage this and I don't think it will be too difficult. Remember the attitude you had the night you met her? You were probably in a joking/party mood, etc? Next time you see this girl, just go right back to that state of mind and she should respond the same way as when you first met her. She is acting differently because she thinks that YOU think of her differently. She is probably worried that you think she was too easy or something. Go back to how you acted before and show her t…
/r/seduction09/09/10 07:47 PM
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Didn't read the whole thing, but enough to know that you FUCKED up day 13. You need to act unaffected by girls. This girl made you all emotional and you "call her out" for ignoring you. This is when the game ends. She knows that she has emotional control over you and so she can do whatever she wants. After this point, she is using you because she knows she can.
/r/seduction03/08/10 04:03 AM
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I think you did well! Even with tight game, you don't win 'em all. Plus, I don't think this is over yet. Some comments. I don't think it was a big problem to pay for her cover at this point. However, maybe you could have said something like "Ok, but you owe me." Saying "only if you kiss me right now" seems a little strange. Also, on day six you say she was ignoring you (avoiding eye contact, etc). Just make sure that it doesn't appear that you are playing this game too. If she is nearby, say "hi…
/r/seduction26/07/10 11:12 PM
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