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“Haven’t seen you in awhile, how is everything?”
/r/seduction16/08/24 01:03 AM
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I live here. Hoboken, Jersey City, Morristown, Asbury Park have decent nightlife.
/r/seduction12/08/24 04:24 PM
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Nah. It’s 2024. People talk through text. I understand the fundamental intent behind that advice, but in my experience texting can be a great way to build interest and to get to know each other. The idea is to always text with purpose. You don’t need to be texting back and forth about nonsense all day. But there’s nothing wrong with having an actual conversation through texting. Just make sure to space your messages out by a few hours.
/r/seduction11/08/24 10:53 PM
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Lol true
/r/seduction11/08/24 07:48 PM
1

True
/r/seduction11/08/24 07:48 PM
4

It’s in his Reddit thing
/r/seduction11/08/24 05:08 PM
319

Just checked your IG.. dude if you’re getting ghosted we are all FUCKED 😆
/r/seduction11/08/24 04:28 PM
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Great job on the inner reflection. This will help immensely for your own personal growth and will generally make you really great person to be in a relationship with. 👏 I’ve had very similar experiences as well. It’s because there is nothing binding them to you if you met on an App. It’s really easy to just kind forget and move on from someone you went on a Hinge date with. It’s not necessarily a defect with you.
/r/seduction11/08/24 04:09 PM
5

Ah I see. Yeah I would give it a try. Seems like there would be some benefit to that even if you don’t meet anyone
/r/seduction11/08/24 02:07 AM
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It’s a good place to meet 5 year olds lmao I’ve never heard of adults taking swimming classes
/r/seduction11/08/24 01:44 AM
2

Good conversation is going to come naturally from a place within. If you try to script it too much, it’s going to come across as awkward and forced. Always take a look at their profile and comment on something you see. This will make you stand out from the other geeks who are just saying “hey” “how are you” etc. I matched with this really cute girl last week (we actually met up on Wednesday). I noticed it said on her profile that she spoke three languages. My first message was “wow.. you speak a…
/r/seduction09/08/24 10:57 AM
36

Don’t set any “rules” for yourself. This will put too much pressure on everything. Just focus on being authentic and natural and having a good time. Sex will usually come as a by-product of that. Whether it comes on the first date or the third date, it doesn’t really matter.
/r/seduction09/08/24 09:36 AM
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Start small, basic conversations. Set a goal to just give a compliment to a woman and that’s it. “Just wanted to say I really like your dress”. And then walk away. Do that for awhile and when that becomes easier, give the compliment and then follow it up with “are you from the area” or something like that. Take baby steps.
/r/seduction07/08/24 04:26 PM
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Yes it’s always good to do that. Apps make it way too easy.
/r/seduction06/08/24 09:33 PM
110

18 year olds are literally still kids I can’t even have a conversation with them.
/r/seduction06/08/24 09:16 PM
2

Not true at all. I’m doing great on bumble. A lot of beautiful women.
/r/seduction06/08/24 09:09 PM
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You’ll be fine. Just always be respectful. Don’t say anything invasive, sexual or inappropriate. I have seen videos of guys doing cold approach in India.
/r/seduction04/08/24 01:34 PM
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“Beautiful day today! What are you up to?” Initiating conversation is half the battle mate.
/r/seduction04/08/24 01:24 PM
2

This should be fine. It really depends on a lot factors.
/r/seduction04/08/24 12:40 PM
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In this situation, or any work situation, personally I would just keep it cordial and professional and let them show interest first
/r/seduction03/08/24 10:55 PM
3

We need the whole story son
/r/seduction03/08/24 09:37 PM
8

Please Be careful going to anyone’s house from an app.
/r/seduction02/08/24 11:21 PM
8

Yes, I agree he should still do it
/r/seduction01/08/24 03:12 AM
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It may sound corny but, fill your time with purposeful things that you love. Things that help you grow and feel/look better. Practice social skills along the way. The problem is your mind is getting so wrapped up in dating/women. If you can’t find fulfillment right now, you never will.
/r/seduction01/08/24 02:20 AM
137

Stop driving yourself crazy over this approaching stuff. Even if you do it, it’s not going to fix the fundamental problem. Eventually you’ll forget about your approaches and be right back where you started.
/r/seduction01/08/24 01:58 AM
6

This. Be a confident, friendly, leader type.
/r/seduction01/08/24 01:56 AM
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No!!!!
/r/seduction31/07/24 07:58 PM
16

You know what he means bro don’t be ridiculous
/r/seduction31/07/24 07:28 PM
3

Please avoid situations like this at all costs
/r/seduction31/07/24 07:28 PM
2

I just hate clubs in general. Not my vibe.
/r/seduction30/07/24 06:15 PM
1

Be cordial when you see her at the gym but don’t waste any time and energy on this
/r/seduction30/07/24 01:50 AM
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It’s just a harder learning curve but completely doable. You need someone else to guide and call out your blind spots.
/r/seduction29/07/24 04:20 PM
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Doesn’t mean anything man. Not all women get sexual right away. She gave you the number. I would definitely ask her out again and see where it goes.
/r/seduction29/07/24 01:38 PM
39

If it’s till the end of July that’s only 2 more days lol
/r/seduction29/07/24 01:22 PM
103

She probably does want to date, but maybe just not until you guys are no longer working together. I would wait till she’s gone then text her and ask her for coffee agaib
/r/seduction29/07/24 01:10 PM
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