mysexualpast Archive

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2	What is the general rule for women with boyfriends? Offer them friendship. You can flirt but don't try to steal her away. Advantages: Attractive girls have attractive friends. Real world social networking means going to parties where you might meet her single friends. Social proof: being friends with attractive women makes a man more attractive to other women. The caveat is making sure potential dates know that the friendship is strictly platonic Rebound potential (optional): let's face it, a lot of relationships in your early 20s don't last fore…	/r/seduction	23/02/19 05:20 PM
2	For the (relatively) older men of Seddit: if you could do college over again, what would you do differently (regarding women)? I had a pretty awesome college experience, but here goes: I would have gone out more, but gotten wasted less. I would have spent more time nurturing friendships with worthy males and less time with girlfriends. I would not have let one gf in particular talk me into being exclusive so early (or at all) I would have spent more time my senior year planning for post graduation career/internship. And yeah, not stuck my dick in crazy that I would see again in social situations.	/r/seduction	13/07/12 03:22 AM
1	Advice on seduction as a couple? Teach your wife seduction. There are a lot of good articles online about seducing as a couple. Most agree the woman needs to approach and do most of the "work". For friends her best bet is "girl talk" over drinks. She can confess to her friend she's thinking of trying a threesome. She may want to plant a seed to harvest later, she may want to be direct. The important thing is she needs to seduce.	/r/seduction	10/07/12 08:24 PM
1	Women Have Changed Considerably in the last 10-20 years. An Older Player's Perspective... I've had girls show me their porn collection, just never in public!	/r/seduction	20/04/12 11:11 PM
59	Women Have Changed Considerably in the last 10-20 years. An Older Player's Perspective... Oh, and thank god for high speed streaming porn! Guys in their early 20s don't know how good you've got it; most of the girls you are dating have watched plenty of porn before they see their first cock. Threesomes, facials, anal... these were things only "slutty" girls did 15 years ago. Now there are girls that brag to their friends, treat these things like achievements and trophies.	/r/seduction	16/04/12 03:44 AM
99	Women Have Changed Considerably in the last 10-20 years. An Older Player's Perspective... I'm in my early 30s, so I've been approaching and getting laid for over 15 years now. It's not always easy to make apples to apples comparisons between eras. Obviously texting and cell phones have serious changed the game. I remember dating pre-cell phones. When you got a number you literally got a sheet of paper with a number on it. You called her. There was debate on the wisdom of leaving a message when she didn't pick up, which was common, because a lot of us didn't spend a lot of time at hom…	/r/seduction	16/04/12 03:41 AM
2	She's friendly but has a bf, should I even try? I wouldn't focus too much energy on her specifically. But it sounds like you're in a position where you could use an attractive female friend to help you get over feelings of awkwardness around girls. I would put her in the friendzone, but be open to having her in your social network to meet other girls.	/r/seduction	02/04/12 06:37 AM
3	Second date, find out the girl has zero experience. zero. You're right that people in FWB situations often do end up emotionally involved. But it seems almost rude to not take her word that she's not interested in a boyfriend. If you'd rather be with someone more experienced, that's totally legit. Considering you're starting at square one, she does sound like quite the project. If you're not excited enough by the prospect of sex with her for it to be worth the effort, then it probably is better if you throw her back into the pool and give someone else …	/r/seduction	06/02/12 08:39 AM
13	Second date, find out the girl has zero experience. zero. Does she know you're not looking for a girlfriend? Sometimes when a girl hits a certain age and is still a virgin she is looking for a FWB to practice on so she won't be terrible when she meets "Mr. Right". If you're not interested in mentoring that's fine, just let her down gently. I feel this is a case where just being honest about where you stand will help you two come to the right decision together.	/r/seduction	06/02/12 07:19 AM
2	Cosmo is good for something after all Probably is. Plenty of magazine writers have various pen names depending on the genre.	/r/seduction	05/02/12 10:14 PM
2	Month’s worth of a FR (ultra-compressed for sanity reasons) -I would only ask for a number if you intend to call. -I wouldn't go on a date with someone I had no interest in. But it's a common situation to be on a date with someone you find at least somewhat physically attractive, but find yourself uninterested in. There's really only three outcomes a date should have: Building a deeper connection towards another date, sex, or ending it. Usually it's best to plan dates so you have a possible exit strategy if you want to bail. Obviously there are situation…	/r/seduction	27/12/11 08:45 AM
5	[FR] One of an AFC's very few Try to think of it from her perspective: "I was at a party with some friends of mine. It was mostly girls, but I kept making EC with this one hot guy. He was dancing with a bunch of girls, so despite his EC I figured he wasn't interested in me since he never came over. Finally once his friends left I decided to approach him. Luckily he was into me (and not gay!). After dancing a while he asked what we should do. I didn't want to seem too easy. He asked me to come home with him, and I told him no…	/r/seduction	20/11/11 08:37 PM
4	[FR] Why Couldn't This Just Come Naturally to Me? (AKA My Downfall) A lot of girls at college parties act drunker than they are as an excuse to go wild. Although yes, a lot of people do go to parties to drink. No one really is a natural. Those guys that make it look easy have probably been chatting up random girls for years, and almost certainly crash and burn from time to time. Like anything, the only way to get better is practice. Try. Fail. Realize that failure isn't nearly as awful as you imagined. Try again. You will improve, and the more you try, the faste…	/r/seduction	20/11/11 08:15 PM
8	Girl here: Things I learned this week in the realm of seduction. I agree with you on almost every point. I would rephrase your statement to "I want to get my ass in the gym". Treating it like something you have to do is not as good of a motivator as treating it like something that will make you feel good. Plus, as many posters here will point out, while looks never hurt, they aren't necessary to be attractive. Still, excellent points. Kino is a way of communicating attraction to the other person, making your interests clear.	/r/seduction	20/11/11 08:02 PM
1	I used to be a nice guy...now I bang Agreed. Being a passive doormat is never attractive. But it's quite possible to be outgoing while still being pleasant.	/r/seduction	20/11/11 07:59 PM
1	In an open relationship, trying to hook up. If your ex-coworker is unaware you have a girlfriend, there's no real need to change your game. Either she's interested in a hook-up or she's not, and unless you're hoping to set up a threesome down the road there's no real need to bring your open relationship gf into the conversation. If your ex-coworker knows you are in a relationship (such as through facebook), you may need to make it clear to her that you are in an open relationship. Do it in a natural way, perhaps after she's shown interest…	/r/seduction	15/11/11 03:11 AM
4	A little help with a 3some? Having some hang-ups [F]FM I've had a couple threesomes where both girls were almost totally straight, like your situation. I can offer a few tips, although admittedly when the time comes, the guy only has one dick to use at a time. Foreplay: You've made out, so this should be fairly easy. He should be in the middle, either on the couch or in bed. It's pretty easy for him to be kissing one of you while touching the other with his hands. This also can be a good point for you and her to explore just how far you want to go i…	/r/seduction	10/11/11 02:00 AM
1	[FR] One makeout, one makeout/grope/grind, but no f-close Considering you k-closed with her right away with Friday, you should know after beers if an f-close is on the horizon with her or not. Second girl could be almost anything. Odds are she was there with gay friends, and one of her gay buddies might have motioned her over to deal with the inevitable drama that flows freely amongst young gay men. You'll never know what happened, no need to dwell on it.	/r/seduction	08/11/11 03:54 AM
2	[FR] Hookup and FWB with an HB7 Well done. Very smooth how you asked to see the inside of her residence, and turned the convo to parties and sex. I also like how you didn't lose your cool when she tried to turn the bj she started into a cock-tease. The big trick will be sustaining this as a FWB thing, assuming that's what you want. I get the vibe she's hoping to turn the FWB into a relationship. Still, it sounds like she's fun and will be down for hooking up at least a couple more times.	/r/seduction	07/11/11 12:38 AM