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| 74 | Can't believe I was terrified of rejection | mysexyrexy | /r/seduction | 31/12/18 01:41 AM | |
| 19 | Crippling fear of rejection | mysexyrexy | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 11:34 PM |
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| 2 | I'm a 23yo woman and...Lmao I honestly can't use the tech. It doesn't allow me to be myself. I always talk to a girl that I like and can see myself being with. So I feel like I come off as more genuine because I don't wanna start off a potential relationship as a liar. It depends on the situation too. If a girl smiles and I like her smile I'll walk up to her and tell her she has a beautiful smile and what her name is. Just pure honesty man why do I have to be scared about being rejected? To me it's like telling a dude… | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 03:03 AM |
| 1 | The 100 Girl's Number ChallengeJust do it my guy. Gotta be able to make yourself vulnerable to get her number imo. What's more important? Your ego or a potential for a happy relationship? | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 02:55 AM |
| 1 | How to move from one set to anotherJust have fun and talk to anyone and everyone. The good thing about drunk chicks is that they are there to let loose so can be as stupid and and carefree as you want. | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 01:07 AM |
| 2 | How does this beta-as-fuck guy get laid?Read Models by Mark Manson. Sounds like you will have a new perspective then this Alpha retardation | /r/seduction | 08/02/19 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Field report: going out alone for the first timeThe good thing with the clubbing chicks is that because they are out to have fun you can be as stupid and carefree as you want. Another good way for me is to wait till I get eye contact with a chick and just smile and wave.. haha I'll look so happy they usually respond pretty positively. If I see a girl sitting down sipping on her drink I'll go and talk to her and if I ask where she's from and she's at least half an hour away then I'll be like wow.. did you travel xx km to come here and sit on y… | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 11:11 PM |
| 3 | Field report: going out alone for the first timeMy experience with clubbing was way more simple lol. Strategy is used where to meet women. But because I was in the mood just to have fun and fuck around with people I just don't try any special one liners or anything. I'll just walk up to any girl full of energy and just be like HELLO!!! How's your night? And just talk to them from there. Best thing about clubbing is you can practice your brutal honesty. I'll say shit like wow what a unique name.. Never heard that shit before.. I'll comment on … | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Sums up my struggle with external validation and needinessLmaooooooo I experienced this with the 1st ever date I had with a girl I was bonkers with. But tbf what happened to me was so unusual that I did not know what to expect. There was a mutual girl that we both knew.. we both stopped talking to each other.. dno I got bored of her and I'm guessing her the same. She just wasn't attractive at all to me. When I met my ex I was smitten.. I thought she was perfect.. But she was very close friends with this mutual girl. They both work at the same hospital.… | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Decided to do an approachYou approached? Wow good shit bro that takes massive balls to do. At least now you know and you can use this experience for the next girl you like! | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 11:44 PM |
| 2 | APPROACHING WHEN THERE ARE A LOT OF PEOPLEDude just keep trying. Approaching and talking to women is a skill. It requires balls and requires you not giving a flying fuck. The more you do it the less things like crowds even matters. You won't get that opportunity again and if you fail there's many more girls to talk too dw. | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 11:43 PM |
| 1 | FUCKING EYE CONTACTHaha eye contact, smile and a wave. This works for me at clubs and I will use it for day game too. | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 10:08 PM |
| 9 | Unpopular opinion: online dating is deadNeither do I. Bumble sucks. Women just have too much control and options. Facebook I actually only talked 1 diamond(who ultimately fucked me over) out of 100 dead leads. I prefer irl approaches. I used to be super terrified but not anymore. I can do it now and I'm the one that's in control of the destiny. All I have to do is walk up to her and talk to her. | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Find confidence after a breakup100%. You need to fall in love with yourself before you can get someone else to love you bro. If you go out to try and meet a new bae you could take rejection seriously. Honestly and one thing from my personal experience I met two great women after my break up and I felt literally nothing for them due to my break up. Felt like two wasted opportunities for me and her. Heal properly and love naturally. | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 04:34 AM |
| 3 | Escalated and it went wrong. How can I get another chance?I personally would have escalated via sexy talk then sexy touch ya know. So you go in with a good idea of what's going thru her head. Honestly talk to her honestly. Say that you were just hella nervous and you aren't actually like that and you wanted to know how to escalate it and you were never in this position before. If she doesn't take you back not much you can do tbh. | /r/seduction | 17/01/19 03:43 AM |
| 3 | Escalated and it went wrong. How can I get another chance?Haha damn son you fucked up. Never take anyone's advice. Just go with the flow next time. Idk mang seems like the point of no return to me. | /r/seduction | 17/01/19 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Is Facebook hurting your game?Agreed. Deactivating Facebook has been an amazing decision. Just ain't how it used to be. | /r/seduction | 17/01/19 03:19 AM |
| 2 | How do I start approaching more?Things that have been at least leading me into a convo is by starting off by being random and funny and continuing the convo with intelligence. Say it's hot for e.g like make a joke about the weather or smfn and then talk. Best way is if you see something that catches your eye and you can talk about it to them. | /r/seduction | 17/01/19 03:05 AM |
| 1 | I can’t stop thinking about a girl and its driving me crazy. I can’t focus on my work because of this. How can i get rid of this feeling?Lmao make yourself the priority my guy. Never stop improving yourself and she's there for the ride. Honestly from my experience if you fuck her off for this reason you may end up regretting it big time. Give it a shot man a one in a million chick is.. well one in a million. Use it for experience.. | /r/seduction | 07/01/19 09:16 PM |
| 4 | How do I ask her out? (I'm 17m) And what do i do on the date if she says yes?Just don't overthink it my dude. Just go for it and ask bro. Just be cool, calm and confident. Be genuine and honest in your encounter too.. girls can pick up on that shit. | /r/seduction | 07/01/19 06:16 AM |
| 2 | I am being left on "read" by girls, most of the time.Agreed. Thanks to apps approaching women irl is more memorable then ever before. I feel like you gain more respect from the girl if you want straight to her face in the same way.. funny, random and genuine | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 03:54 AM |
| 5 | Crippling fear of rejectionThat's pretty good advice. Looks like I have to care less about the no and more about actually asking. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 20/12/18 01:08 AM |
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